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| 0 | Nyc sarge list refugees | Resources | southparkslope | /r/seduction | 07/03/24 02:44 AM |
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| 1 | I think I finally understood what game isIt’s been my mantra these days | /r/seduction | 08/07/26 03:41 PM |
| 1 | I think I finally understood what game isNo. You have to go out and try. And fail. Guys who get rejected will pull. | /r/seduction | 08/07/26 05:58 AM |
| 3 | Woman who I cold approached in a department store complained to securityDude you got problems. You went from the ne rejection to questioning if you have to stop everything and die alone. Came here and posted some story with zero learning. Way to go man. Congrats on a rejection. You’re an adult. So what do you think you should do? | /r/seduction | 21/06/26 12:43 AM |
| 6 | UPDATE ON APPROACHING 100 WOMEN. I ONLY APPROACHED 2 WOMEN IN 6 HOURS LMFAO. WENT 1/2 AND MISSED 12+ GOOD OPPORTUNITIESBan this dork | /r/seduction | 20/06/26 03:55 AM |
| 5 | If there's no way to actually date women who aren't attracted to you; aren't incels and looksmaxxers kinda... right? :|Hahahahhahahah dude. Women and men have different attraction methods. Cmon. Go away. | /r/seduction | 12/06/26 11:58 PM |
| 1 | I just wan’t to start approachingWhat are some of your good points. You’ve spent a lot of time talking about negatives. Or cancelling positives. What’s going well for you. | /r/seduction | 11/06/26 07:59 PM |
| 1 | I just wan’t to start approachingWhat do you think stops you from simple hellos? | /r/seduction | 11/06/26 06:43 PM |
| 1 | I just wan’t to start approachingWhat’s stopping you? Also if you did approach consistently, where do you think you would do it. Do you live in a city/town? Are you in uni? | /r/seduction | 11/06/26 06:34 PM |
| 2 | How do you feel when you see a day gamer in the wildThe op. It’s such a dumb post. | /r/seduction | 11/06/26 12:58 AM |
| 3 | How do you feel when you see a day gamer in the wildSeriously. I think it’s a bot tbh. | /r/seduction | 11/06/26 12:54 AM |
| 20 | How to smash without taking her number (actual results, not theory)Yes sir. Enjoy. You’ll be fine. Keep posting and doing whatever you want! | /r/seduction | 10/06/26 04:32 PM |
| 15 | How to smash without taking her number (actual results, not theory)Yeah Jesus no kidding. Guy just ready for 3x divorce. | /r/seduction | 10/06/26 04:06 PM |
| 10 | How to smash without taking her number (actual results, not theory)Your post is strange. That’s all. But probably because an actual human wrote it. That’s not your problem. That’s mine. Anyway yes approach works. | /r/seduction | 10/06/26 03:16 PM |
| 165 | How to smash without taking her number (actual results, not theory)Dude there is no formula for this. You just gotta be in the mix. If you’re waiting for a formula then it’s not going to happen. | /r/seduction | 10/06/26 03:05 PM |
| 1 | So seduction isn’t real it’s a numbers game?Think about it. How can you make your social pond bigger? | /r/seduction | 10/06/26 03:02 PM |
| 1 | *26M thinking about going solo to Malta for 4–5 days — mainly for nightlife, meeting girls and improving socially. Worth it?*Dude. Just go have fun. Don’t do it for the women. Do it for you. | /r/seduction | 09/06/26 02:53 AM |
| 1 | Travelling to a different country to learn Cold Approach?The guy just wants to be able to approach women. Give him some other advice then. Also you’re conflating Mansons book with criminal activity. You’re also conflating needing a law degree with socializing. Both are quite a stretch. Can you review your points and help op out. | /r/seduction | 05/06/26 10:59 PM |
| 1 | Travelling to a different country to learn Cold Approach?Wtf kinda fact checking did you want homie. It’s a damn book about meeting people. Consider this: it’s helpful to some people who are just trying to have courage to say hello. You dork. | /r/seduction | 05/06/26 02:29 PM |
| 2 | Daygame as A mall employeeOk don’t do anything homie. You’re missing a lot of social skills and inner skills. Hope that answers your question. Best of luck. | /r/seduction | 03/06/26 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Daygame as A mall employeeSo friend. Tell me. Do you say or do the wrong thing often enough for you to worry this much? If you do, then you’ll have to play a long subtle game or just check in friendly like “thought I’d say hi. I noticed you’re new.” And leave it like that. See where it goes. | /r/seduction | 02/06/26 11:06 PM |
| 5 | Daygame as A mall employeeDon’t make a big deal of it. Keep it simple. She is one of many women. And embarrassment is part of the funn | /r/seduction | 02/06/26 09:56 PM |
| 10 | Weird eye contact pattern I’ve noticed while walking aroundWhats wrong with you dude. Are you really corelating eye contact and attractiveness right now? it could be anything. 7 Think about it this way, women and eye contact and noticing YOU are all three independant variables that have NO RELATION. So do not try to rely on eye contact as anything. Other variables are time of day, neighborhood, visible class, hygeinge, height, facial hair. you've noticed *vibes* and they are notoriously fickle. That same woman that gave you eye contact today could ignor… | /r/seduction | 02/06/26 04:22 AM |
| -2 | How are some men so successful with hookups or casual relationships?Where do you see them?On ads? Friends bragging? Stop worrying about others. Most of the time they are just inciting your envy and jealousy. | /r/seduction | 21/05/26 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Had insane chemistry with a girl on my flight, didn’t ask for her IG, found it later — should I message her?Nah. | /r/seduction | 19/05/26 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Abysmal results in NYC street / day game, 37yoYeah I mean. You should start looking in church then too. | /r/seduction | 19/05/26 04:33 PM |
| 2 | Abysmal results in NYC street / day game, 37yoI mean - David x style isn’t the right move for street day game. Crazy! Go with something lighter. And find joy in the fluffy chick talk. You shouldn’t run out of stuff in the bar to talk about. Commit to keeping things shallow for a month. It’s practice. | /r/seduction | 19/05/26 04:32 PM |
| 1 | What is the best response to rejection?For you? Nonreponse. Channel that hurt into something. Meditate. Accept this as part of the process. Move forward. Learn to befriend the pain. | /r/seduction | 17/05/26 08:00 PM |
| 18 | Does joining pilates classes to make female friends or eventually dating/hookup ever work?Yes. For Pilates and to learn it. It helps with core. | /r/seduction | 08/05/26 06:01 PM |
| -2 | Went up to a girl for the first timeDo you have friends homie? Do guys ask their friends questions anymore? | /r/seduction | 28/04/26 04:50 AM |
| 2 | How do I date sober?25 years sober, quit at 21. It's tricky, youll have to change your dating goals and reframe that past dating behavior as a different approach. You will need to initiate physical touch consciously and on first dates if you are actually interested. You will need to learn to follow your instinct and gut soberly and without the intermediation of alcohol. You will need to deal with the judgements/misunderstandings of the dates that do not work out. You will need to deal with your own mistakes. There … | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 06:01 PM |
| 1 | For those who are very experienced with women, has dating made you trust them less?"can you ever really trust people?" people do what they do. Don't use monogamy as a security lock for one's own insecurity. | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 04:49 PM |
| 1 | How to escalate quick to get this girls snap or number?Throw a party. Target a group not the individual | /r/seduction | 22/04/26 07:11 PM |
| 1 | How does a woman effectively entice other women into the bedroom for her man with a mostly straight orientation?Lol my partner and I wanna know too | /r/seduction | 18/04/26 12:39 AM |
| 1 | The limits of looksmaxxing to an unhealthy level as witnessed by the suspected overdose of ClavicularTruth! | /r/seduction | 15/04/26 07:41 PM |
| 1 | 20,000 cold approaches - AMAHey good for you. Did you keep a blog or journal for field reports? | /r/seduction | 14/04/26 01:07 AM |
| 2 | Any dating help for men with autism and depression?Dating isn’t going to help you homie. | /r/seduction | 09/04/26 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on “standing out” with your outfit?Already fumblin | /r/seduction | 31/03/26 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on “standing out” with your outfit?I dress this way regularly but it takes more than clothes to pull it off. Why not try instead of asking for permission. The fact that you’re asking for permission and thoughts signals to me at least that you’re not able to pull it off. | /r/seduction | 31/03/26 01:52 AM |
| 27 | I did every right but still got rejected because of own insecuritiesOk go out again. Fix the issues. Consider her speech a gift for now. Women do this. They get a little turned on and make out and then you say the wrong thing innocently and bam. Out the door. It could have easily went the other way. You could be the one giving a red flag speech. Don’t take it personally. Easier said than done. Blow off the anger for the next few days. And then get back out there. Don’t even think about her again. Also don’t worry about what she will do with another guy. Are you … | /r/seduction | 31/03/26 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Meet women in NYCFlushing I bet. Working girls 😂 I think you’re still working on seeing women as people not as objects. Do you want a girlfriend ? Do you want romance? Do you want someone to marry? What are your goals. | /r/seduction | 25/03/26 06:30 AM |
| 7 | Fix my club game + how tf did he pull!Yes. Just keep doing game. You need reps. Try to start to ping women and don’t talk to yourself like the way you do (“im still a pussy”). There is nothing wrong with your game except for the fact that it’s non existent at the moment. :) so just start with pinging women and ALso stay focused on your body language. Lastly. Have fun bro. Dance. That’s club game. | /r/seduction | 23/03/26 05:03 PM |
| 1 | 5 rejections in a monthI’m serious! Dm me | /r/seduction | 23/03/26 03:53 AM |
| 3 | 5 rejections in a monthI’ll be accountability partner for you as long as you agree never to post something like this until you get 100 rejections. | /r/seduction | 26/02/26 04:45 AM |
| 1 | girl found out i was hooking up with someone else. acting weird now.Dude. You’re using logic brain. She’s using feelings brain. | /r/seduction | 18/02/26 07:16 PM |
| 1 | girl found out i was hooking up with someone else. acting weird now.I think OP needs to repair the relationship first before considering the reseduction. That’s why I initially said this was not seduction. The fact that OP isn’t self aware enough to articulate anything beyond “she’s acting weird” or engage in convo with her is also why it’s not seduction. Seems like they know they messed up but wanna get away with it without copping to the feelings part of it. In other words, op is not acknowledging thier own feelings here otherwise they would just plow through … | /r/seduction | 18/02/26 07:14 PM |
| 0 | girl found out i was hooking up with someone else. acting weird now.This is not seduction. | /r/seduction | 18/02/26 05:16 PM |
| 0 | How I Get Girls To Come Straight Over (Vid Proof)Don’t post my game dude :) | /r/seduction | 17/02/26 05:04 AM |
| 3 | Guys who find hookups easyWhat does he say to make it clear he’s trying to continue hanging out? | /r/seduction | 12/12/25 06:39 AM |
| 1 | Need an advice on how to seduce my fwb’s friend.Dude. Perfect situation for a foursome!! | /r/seduction | 02/12/25 04:19 PM |
| 0 | Is cold approach worth it?Bad mindset. Friends got a trash mindset too. | /r/seduction | 30/06/25 06:30 AM |
| 3 | Advice Needed: How to know when to settle downIF FINDING THE PERFECT WIFE ISNT THE GOAL THAN WHAT IS?? MY MAN. | /r/seduction | 20/06/25 02:14 AM |
| 3 | How would you approach a girl at a train station?“Choooo choooo” walk up to them “What’s up with Choooo” | /r/seduction | 16/06/25 06:27 PM |
| 2 | Advice that changes everythingYes. This is missing from most advice. | /r/seduction | 18/05/25 12:31 AM |
| 1 | It’s easier to pull a hot girl who is way out of your league in in a big city than a smaller oneNeeded this | /r/seduction | 16/05/25 12:39 AM |
| -3 | Crippling approach anxietySucks man. | /r/seduction | 14/05/25 12:50 AM |
| -6 | Crippling approach anxietySucks being 5’8” you have to take more steps than someone 5’11” and it can get tiring. :( | /r/seduction | 14/05/25 12:49 AM |
| -1 | Step By Step Way To Break Out Of Depression - Emotional Regulation For When You Want To Give Up.Terrible post. Wrong sub. | /r/seduction | 09/05/25 05:43 PM |
| 2 | Started texting 2 girls who are best friends and they immediately found outHow are you feeling about it? | /r/seduction | 02/05/25 03:03 AM |
| 17 | What’s it like to date a woman who constantly tests a man compared to one who doesn’t?2 years here. It’s fun. I’m at a point where tests 99% of the time are accepted and bounce off. They serve as a great way to see where my frame is. Different women have different ways to test. I’ve been in poly relationships and monogamous relationships. Not all tests are overt; most of them are subtle, cute teases. Maybe your definition of tests are more narrow and specific? I dunno. Good luck to all the men in here who think they’ll find a woman who does no testing. By definition, a woman will… | /r/seduction | 01/05/25 07:03 PM |
| 2 | What would you say if another guy commented on your approach?Don’t give feedback like that randomly to a stranger you tool! To be a bro and supportive teacher, you’d recognize that this is not the time for your wisdom. It’s the time for a “good job dude”, dap them up and stay positive. Feedback is only useful in the moment if they are looking for it and it’s coming from a good place. Your post has the vibe of “not reading the room”. | /r/seduction | 28/04/25 12:08 AM |
| 2 | How do you recover from a historically bad fumble?That’s not a unicorn homie. | /r/seduction | 27/04/25 11:57 PM |
| 2 | Why am I so afraid of intimacy and sex?I’ve worked on this and healed it and it took years and years. Best advice is to start w a sex therapist and do several sessions and then work in some body therapy such as somatic or dance work. You’re stuck in your head and have a lot of energy to move. Once you start to feel better in your body you can work on some psychological stufff. It takes effort. Good thing is that you’re aware and can make changes. Also don’t get caught up in age. | /r/seduction | 16/04/25 05:38 AM |
| 1 | Is Studying 'Game' While in a Relationship a Form of Cheating?Why are you focused on game and not social skills? You know that you are probably not maintaining friendships and hanging out and spending too much time on phone and computer. And now you’re older. You need to be VERY DELIBERATE about your social time now that you’re older. Sure - game could help but I’m curious why you wouldn’t stretch those seduction muscles in socializing, building businesses or involving yourself in your local community. Let me know. | /r/seduction | 14/04/25 06:15 PM |
| 3 | How can you tell if a girl is single before approaching her?Look for the spinning info bar above her head. If she doesn’t have one then you need to approach and assume she is single. | /r/seduction | 12/04/25 05:34 PM |
| 245 | What else can i [24M] do to blow my gf’s [26F] mind away during sex?Hold her afterwords, tightly. Give her a kiss on her forehead and after a few minutes whisper in her ear “you did so good today”. Then lock eyes with her and say “I’m going to go pee now”. | /r/seduction | 11/04/25 07:13 PM |
| 1 | How to create sexual tension/make women desire you if you’re 5’7”Why did he post his height and lead with it as if it’s the entire issue? | /r/seduction | 07/04/25 06:11 PM |
| 6 | Everything (and I do mean everything) you need to know about how to approach womenYou should make it a book and add some pauses in there. This is good info but .. a lot. | /r/seduction | 07/04/25 04:32 PM |
| 8 | What can we learn from the latest Caroline Winkler videoYou kinda missed the point in many ways. I’m not upset but this is not a seduction post. Maybe. Linked in / dating skill post. Cw is friend of a friend FWIW. | /r/seduction | 01/04/25 09:05 PM |
| 9 | Why Does My Anxiety Never Go Away, Even After Pushing Myself?You never really get past it. You just learn to live comfortably with it. Part of living with it is not reacting to the anxiety or being frustrated with it. Another part of it is recognizing you’re not deficient for having it or see it as a problem. There are layers to it. Ask yourself what else is going on back there in your head and heart. Maybe some excitement, maybe nervousness, maybe some fear, maybe some happiness. Start to bring all those to the front. Let them coexist with the anxiety. | /r/seduction | 01/04/25 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Hard to understand other person's mind. Or, it's just the game?I would stop conversation over text and phone and set a date meet up. | /r/seduction | 26/03/25 06:48 PM |
| 2 | Approach Anxiety? Switch to This Mode InsteadThe anxiety won’t kill you. It will go away if you let the anxiety go and stop thinking it’s keeping You safe. | /r/seduction | 12/03/25 04:50 PM |
| 2 | super affraid of overstepping boundaries m25You’re getting great advice here. I hope you practice it. Like daily. It will require some consistent effort in your part to build back a healthy sense of boundaries. As much effort as it did to hear these stories and practice the inhibition in your life! | /r/seduction | 11/03/25 06:54 PM |
| 14 | Hypothetical: What Should She Save Your Name As?I don’t even care or think about it. It’s so beyond caring about. I’ve been saved as so many things. I’ve been not saved. It doesn’t matter. | /r/seduction | 10/03/25 04:32 PM |
| -1 | How to Approach Women Without Feeling Sleazy or FakeWhat is this AI crap | /r/seduction | 26/01/25 01:46 PM |
| 1 | Has the community done a bit of a 'U turn' in recent years?I’m monitoring this too. I don’t have answers yet but should start to write about it. I think it’s the impact of porn, phones and emphasis on short attention span content for the ancient lizard brain. | /r/seduction | 07/01/25 01:20 AM |
| 2 | Skill issue ~ I rarely know how to carry conversationsYou’re over thinking | /r/seduction | 01/01/25 12:11 AM |
| 2 | How can I get "hood" hispanic/arab girls as a white guy? Not sure how to connect with this group?Why | /r/seduction | 13/12/24 03:44 AM |
| 5 | 3 flirting principles that consistently get me laid on datesI’m convinced this is AG Hayden. | /r/seduction | 12/12/24 07:17 PM |
| 6 | Eye contactSay hello. Mindset should be curiosity. Keep it simple. | /r/seduction | 19/11/24 06:21 AM |
| 2 | Expectations for the male 20yo dating experienceDude. Jesus. Christ. Start meeting people in the real world and get off your phone. You’ve got a royal flush. | /r/seduction | 19/11/24 01:50 AM |
| 5 | Do you have to tell a girl that you just want to hookup or is it implied?You should give a Couple of examples on how you share that intention. | /r/seduction | 13/11/24 09:50 PM |
| 1 | People who get laid,how?Approach. Be awkward. Dive into the feeeeling | /r/seduction | 08/11/24 03:43 AM |
| 25 | How to deal with regret of not approaching?You overthought it and you’re under activated (because you over thought it). Next time just say hi as you’re walking by and move along. It will lighten the load you’re carrying. Don’t worry about saying anything else - if it happens it will happen. Do that for a couple weeks. Then see how you’re feeling. | /r/seduction | 03/11/24 02:40 PM |
| 2 | (FIELD REPORT): Went out and was on point socially, but still very hesitant to be polarizing with women.This is good advice! | /r/seduction | 03/11/24 04:49 AM |
| 1 | (FIELD REPORT): Went out and was on point socially, but still very hesitant to be polarizing with women.Balls on the chopping block? Jesus Christ. | /r/seduction | 03/11/24 04:49 AM |
| 5 | Long phone callsI like this post. It’s like a whole generation figuring out how to talk on the phone. | /r/seduction | 01/11/24 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Girl in class- what should I doBro. You should study and do your homework. | /r/seduction | 31/10/24 08:19 PM |
| 5 | Exhausted from RejectionI think you’re telling yourself that as an excuse to really give up and feel awful. Luck? Inflation? Sex as end target - you need to reevaluate this as a goal. Choose intimacy and vulnerability and see how you can grow through interactions. You’re older and wiser than what you’re going for. | /r/seduction | 29/10/24 06:22 PM |
| 1 | How Do I Approach Bringing A Woman Home From A Bar or Club?What city | /r/seduction | 29/10/24 05:21 PM |
| 6 | Which books do you recommend to start?After you read The Foundation you should read The Poundation: A screwprint for coming authentically and loudly together It is a good one. | /r/seduction | 28/10/24 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Confessional: I’m a giant pussyWhat did you mean by leagues? Also thanks for taking the words out of my mouth. | /r/seduction | 25/10/24 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Cold approach then Instagram.. thoughts?What in gods good name is going on with these posts. | /r/seduction | 23/10/24 11:43 PM |
| 2 | Seduction in my own marriageThis will heal my Infidelity? DO TELL. | /r/seduction | 03/10/24 12:35 AM |
| 1 | How the hell am I supposed to succeed being neurodivergent?Jesus Christ | /r/seduction | 28/09/24 10:21 PM |
| 2 | no friends.. how to go out/meet irl womenI think you start there. Also you probably need to continue to grieve as well as create a life for yourself outside of the relationship that just ended. I’m not sure attracting a woman is in your or hers best interest beyond narcotisizing the pain you feel (being alone and no friends is hard, on top of a break up) | /r/seduction | 23/09/24 02:45 AM |
| 3 | no friends.. how to go out/meet irl womenI think you need to work on building friendships and a life. What are things you like? | /r/seduction | 23/09/24 01:26 AM |
| 1 | no friends.. how to go out/meet irl womenDude. Why no friends? | /r/seduction | 22/09/24 11:07 PM |
| 1 | How to stop nerves when i'm talking to a beautifull lady?Mind sharing it? Dm is open. | /r/seduction | 22/09/24 09:40 PM |
| 1 | After 300+ Cold Approach Rejections. I think my Self-Confidence has gotten even WORSE (Self-Reflection and mini Vent)I’m not 6’4”. I’m not a funny person. What is the major difference between these two statements? | /r/seduction | 21/09/24 01:08 AM |
| 3 | After 300+ Cold Approach Rejections. I think my Self-Confidence has gotten even WORSE (Self-Reflection and mini Vent)You have no idea if they are attracted to you or not and shouldn’t care if they are or not. Don’t assume or think for anyone else. The whole point of building attraction is to speak to emotional side of women and not the logical side. Your conversations from what you’ve posted sound very straight to the point. You sound like a logical guy. You don’t sound like you have trouble with approaching judging by 300+ approaches my god. But they are probably boring. You need something fun or tension buil… | /r/seduction | 21/09/24 12:17 AM |
| 12 | After 300+ Cold Approach Rejections. I think my Self-Confidence has gotten even WORSE (Self-Reflection and mini Vent)You need to build some more fun attraction. It seems like your approach is very clinical. Give it more time before going for the number. Let yourself just listen and talk and be silly. Also why are you asking to offer your number to them? That is skeevy! It shows you as needing approval and a strong need for you to be perceived as “safe” which is definitely not what you or they want. Let yourself “state” not “ask” for time later to grab a drink. | /r/seduction | 20/09/24 07:08 PM |
| 3 | What she could have done on Telegram ?With telegram you can delete the messages for everyone. | /r/seduction | 18/09/24 09:30 PM |
| 2 | Bitched out on approaching a girl I really like in person today.You don’t have a plan for when this happens and you don’t know how to put a plan together for when this happens. That’s what causes it. You’ll need to hold yourself accountable - no more DM or texting. What did your text say? Did you exchange numbers? | /r/seduction | 14/09/24 02:05 AM |
| 4 | I entered my 30s and had one gf only and just got rejected againSorry buddy. You need some guidance for sure. Please read Models by Mark Manson. | /r/seduction | 14/09/24 02:04 AM |
| 130 | I entered my 30s and had one gf only and just got rejected againDude. What about her having a bf makes you feel bad? Kudos for making the approach and keep doing it. | /r/seduction | 14/09/24 01:34 AM |
| 1 | This might sound harsh but you guys seriously need to get off the internet and go outside more. It’s the only way you’ll get better.Proving the point of OP better than OP here. | /r/seduction | 31/08/24 09:57 PM |
| 0 | What questions can I ask girls when approaching?This is the answer. | /r/seduction | 30/08/24 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Is it worth it to break up, date around and experience more?You have to break up but GENTLY. The kids thing is a deal breaker. The most respectful thing to do for both of you is to let her find someone that doesn’t want kids. You’re going to regret it otherwise. But to answer the first question of dating around. It’s not the QUANTITY OR LENGTH of relationships that determines “success and experience” but the QUALITY AND DEPTH of relationships. Dating around is a valid choice as a means to get to the right relationships. Have some fun casual relationships… | /r/seduction | 30/08/24 04:31 PM |
| 7 | Losing confidence after a bad night outAlso fwiw-next trip don’t rely on the party for the entire night. Dip in and dip out. Go meet people outside! Make yourself a bit scarce. | /r/seduction | 30/08/24 01:51 PM |
| 17 | Losing confidence after a bad night outLearn to have curiosity and surprise at the way things actually work out! /u/Mouseaware809 is right! | /r/seduction | 30/08/24 01:50 PM |
| 58 | Why would a woman be mean to the guy they like?It’s a test to see if you bend or weaken or cry. | /r/seduction | 30/08/24 04:25 AM |
| 5 | Where should i go practice game that has a steady flow of women my age ?I wouldn’t suggest going on campus as a non student. But I do suggest going to coffee shops and bars near there. | /r/seduction | 29/08/24 01:32 AM |
| 6 | Night game failure 1Doesn’t sound like failure to me. Congrats on taking your first steps! | /r/seduction | 29/08/24 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Rsd tyler and julienThe comment was that you’re choosing poor role models compared to who you could be choosing. | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Resources on using words, language, hypnosis etc. to turn women on?In person. | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 03:25 PM |
| 2 | Resources on using words, language, hypnosis etc. to turn women on?How often are you talking to women you don’t know? | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 03:36 AM |
| 1 | Rsd tyler and julienSad but true. | /r/seduction | 25/08/24 10:01 PM |
| 3 | Am I too old for this? 47 y/o trying to game girls aged 30-37Great writing | /r/seduction | 22/08/24 03:16 AM |
| -1 | Am I too old for this? 47 y/o trying to game girls aged 30-37I’m with ya dude. In nyc. | /r/seduction | 22/08/24 02:58 AM |
| 5 | Solo bar tipsThis is the way. And this goes for not just the bar, but life. | /r/seduction | 19/08/24 10:30 PM |
| 13 | Let’s flip to the other side of the coin, what have you found makes women approach you?I always am suspect of the getting closer bit - like you never know if they are baiting you into saying hi or just closer for some other non interactive reason. | /r/seduction | 19/08/24 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Why do women say: "The bar is so low for men" yet to get any results from cold approach as an avg guy, the interaction has to be exceptional basically. And even then nothing is guaranteedThis is great advice | /r/seduction | 19/08/24 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Why do women say: "The bar is so low for men" yet to get any results from cold approach as an avg guy, the interaction has to be exceptional basically. And even then nothing is guaranteedKeep at it. Take a little break for a week. Come back and work on meeting women. I think it’s good to take a week off and write the following down. ideal partner how they look and how they behave How you feel Things you do for them 3 dates that you’d go on Then get back at it. You’re frustrated and that’s is normal!!! | /r/seduction | 19/08/24 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Why do women say: "The bar is so low for men" yet to get any results from cold approach as an avg guy, the interaction has to be exceptional basically. And even then nothing is guaranteedWhat would you tell a friend who shared what you just said? How would you support them? | /r/seduction | 19/08/24 03:49 AM |
| 2 | Why do women say: "The bar is so low for men" yet to get any results from cold approach as an avg guy, the interaction has to be exceptional basically. And even then nothing is guaranteedHow many times has this happened. | /r/seduction | 19/08/24 03:18 AM |
| 0 | What’s the most optimal way to perform exposure therapy/gradual desensitization to handle AA?No. Jesus Christ. No. Hahahaha. | /r/seduction | 19/08/24 03:15 AM |
| 1 | Why do women say: "The bar is so low for men" yet to get any results from cold approach as an avg guy, the interaction has to be exceptional basically. And even then nothing is guaranteedOk still. You sound entitled and no one is entitled to anything. You know it’s a numbers game. Why are you taking your frustration out on women? It could be a million reasons that she didn’t return your text; and it doesn’t matter. I bet you actually were pretty stellar when you were flirting. It doesn’t matter. Nothing is guaranteed - not even tomorrow. I really don’t love how you are blaming women here but I understand you’re frustrated cause of this flake; but last straw or not - you need to … | /r/seduction | 19/08/24 03:12 AM |
| 5 | Why do women say: "The bar is so low for men" yet to get any results from cold approach as an avg guy, the interaction has to be exceptional basically. And even then nothing is guaranteedWait - you’re taking one example of one flake (which you know is going to happen - that’s just how it works) and then blaming the entirety of women? Dude take the win and move on. | /r/seduction | 19/08/24 03:07 AM |
| 6 | What’s the most optimal way to perform exposure therapy/gradual desensitization to handle AA?You need to do it with a buddy. That’s the best way. Edit: go out and approach with a wingman is what I meant. | /r/seduction | 19/08/24 03:03 AM |
| 1 | No self esteemTry this book - Healing the shame that binds you | /r/seduction | 17/08/24 02:08 AM |
| 10 | When a guy tell you to “fuck off”It’s ok. You’ll be ok. His reaction to you has nothing to do with you. | /r/seduction | 17/08/24 01:49 AM |
| 1 | I want to approach 100 girls tomorrowThey’ve got plenty of time to love I’m not worried. This person in their current state is unable to love. | /r/seduction | 01/08/24 05:34 AM |
| 8 | I want to approach 100 girls tomorrowDude - therapy for you. You’ve got a lot of pain that needs to come out. Do that before you go fuck yourself up on a girl. | /r/seduction | 01/08/24 02:22 AM |
| 1 | Feeling like a loser if a date doesn’t end in sex?Sounds like this dude watched too much malefluinceler Go to see a Therapist | /r/seduction | 02/07/24 09:13 PM |
| 2 | Girl shaking at first kiss, rainchecks second dateYou should ask her directly. | /r/seduction | 02/07/24 09:09 PM |
| 9 | How do you guys cope?Truth here. | /r/seduction | 27/06/24 06:45 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys cope?Someone being into you is not a prerequisite for saying hey and getting to know them. You’re just saying hi. Chances are 0% if you don’t approach. | /r/seduction | 27/06/24 06:45 PM |
| 0 | Cold approached for a few days. Need helpI’m the bear. | /r/seduction | 18/06/24 01:48 PM |
| 2 | No PUA course is good?Heh. | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 06:53 PM |
| 1 | How tf do I (30M) talk to a woman at a concert/show?Ok. I’ll be someplace at 7 | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 06:51 PM |
| 6 | No PUA course is good?I’ll pass. My algorithm is sacred. But this is hilarious. | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 06:50 PM |
| 1 | How tf do I (30M) talk to a woman at a concert/show?What time are you doing your approaches | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 06:35 PM |
| 3 | No PUA course is good?Name these idiots. Omg. | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 05:58 PM |
| 2 | How tf do I (30M) talk to a woman at a concert/show?I’ll support you tomorrow. | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 05:02 AM |
| 2 | How to Move Forward After Approaching Girls in Yoga Class?Heh. | /r/seduction | 10/06/24 12:51 PM |
| -2 | How to Move Forward After Approaching Girls in Yoga Class?What else do you do in life? | /r/seduction | 10/06/24 01:28 AM |
| 1 | People that put on apps looking for long term relationship are actually pretty down to casual ONS'sBadoo is all spam near me. NYC. How is yours? | /r/seduction | 01/06/24 10:07 PM |
| 1 | 40s dating 20sNo u | /r/seduction | 01/06/24 12:48 PM |
| -1 | Guys who get laid every time they go to a bar, what is your secret?This is some truth in this thread 2024. | /r/seduction | 25/05/24 03:59 AM |
| 4 | Yareally archiveJesus. Nice. | /r/seduction | 20/05/24 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Turning 30 soon and absolutely clueless and sexually frustated after attempting cold approach yesterday for the upteenth time. As a 6'4" slightly nerdy black dude who has embraced the blackpill and lives with his parents, finding women into me is near impossible...Sounds like you need to find yourself now. | /r/seduction | 19/05/24 08:11 PM |
| 4 | Changing my bedtime has made seduction so much easierThis tracks | /r/seduction | 19/05/24 08:03 PM |
| -1 | How to feel comfortable with girls in social settings?What does "immense pressure" feel like in your body? | /r/seduction | 18/05/24 06:45 PM |
| 4 | Getting girls in clubs to dance with youIs this Berlin? | /r/seduction | 15/05/24 05:10 AM |
| 1 | Do you wait for signs to approach?I don’t really kno what you are saying. “Lift her jeans excessively tucking her pants” makes no sense. | /r/seduction | 13/05/24 02:42 AM |
| 1 | Do you wait for signs to approach?Just to show the butt off yeah ? | /r/seduction | 12/05/24 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Do you wait for signs to approach?Go on.. | /r/seduction | 11/05/24 09:50 PM |
| 6 | Cold approach in 2024Dude get off tiktok. Delete it. This is an insane post. | /r/seduction | 11/05/24 01:50 AM |
| 2 | Struggling with escalatingWhy would you invite her to the club when she is in bed by 10? There is a lot of inner conflict with you. How would you feel if she was dating you but she made it clear she only wanted monogomy? Feel that. That is what you are going to make her feel. Not very good is it. You need to date some other girls who’d be down to have casual; but you’re probably going to date her and then be unhappy cause your natural state seems to be unhappiness and conflict. So - sort yourself out and deal with your p… | /r/seduction | 09/05/24 05:35 PM |
| 3 | [Notch Report] The Japanese BusinesswomanExcellent bait. | /r/seduction | 09/05/24 01:48 AM |
| 14 | Help! How to move the frame to where she wants to impress me?No! Just message day before the date something witty and cute confirming the date. In the mean time message other women or other apps. | /r/seduction | 02/05/24 01:05 AM |
| 1 | Do women have one night stands sober/tipsy/drunk?🤣 WAIT WHAT? | /r/seduction | 01/05/24 02:33 AM |
| 1 | Do women have one night stands sober/tipsy/drunk?Word | /r/seduction | 01/05/24 02:32 AM |
| 39 | Do women have one night stands sober/tipsy/drunk?It’s a valid question. Sometimes we’ve got men who come up sheltered and don’t understand that women get horny too. | /r/seduction | 28/04/24 12:24 AM |
| 3 | Met someone through Facebook marketplaceDamn. Old school Bravo. Glad you’re around and doing well. | /r/seduction | 26/04/24 09:40 PM |
| 2 | Z were CB zzzzz 2g. C MxMessage received. Commencing operation. | /r/seduction | 25/04/24 03:08 AM |
| 1 | Night game success FR: Screw her friendsGreat report! | /r/seduction | 21/04/24 10:14 PM |
| 1 | Approached at the gym... seeking opinionsFumble. The scars we carry :) | /r/seduction | 20/04/24 10:37 PM |
| -2 | I’m so alone (and horny)You need to build a better relationship with yourself. Take yourself on dates. Be ok going to movies and clubs alone. Your current relationship with yourself is only defined through having a relationship or havin sex and it is a very lonely places to be that only digs a deeper hole. I assume you’ve got debt issues too? | /r/seduction | 18/04/24 08:29 PM |
| 0 | Getting back on the apps after taking a break due to the death of my brother in lawHow old are your pictures? | /r/seduction | 18/04/24 01:03 PM |
| 14 | My AI photos are working...The “here’s where it gets wild” was the callout | /r/seduction | 12/04/24 01:54 AM |
| 1 | I’m going for itThis is the answer | /r/seduction | 11/04/24 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Instagram is killing my GameThat’s good to think about and plan for! What are alternatives? How can you own your frame? How can you respond with an u deniable alternative? | /r/seduction | 04/04/24 10:31 PM |
| 2 | Instagram is killing my GameYes and. You don’t have to cater to them. You posted the key to sanity and connection in your life and you’re going to throw it away for basic of / IG pussy? Listen to yourself. Stay free baby! | /r/seduction | 04/04/24 09:40 PM |
| 4 | Instagram is killing my GameSo can life. Life experience is way more valuable and always will be. | /r/seduction | 04/04/24 08:11 PM |
| 9 | I don't get what I'm doing wrongThis dude invoked Rothschilds as the reason he is rejected. Holy moly. Weak sister shit here. He ain’t going to like the advice. | /r/seduction | 03/04/24 12:39 AM |
| 1 | Let’s hear some going same night lay success storiesAfter party being at your place I assume. I usually have it on me at the club. I should try this. Just offer girls coke and bring them to the bathroom hahaha | /r/seduction | 23/03/24 04:51 PM |
| 2 | Let’s hear some going same night lay success storiesIt’s a story though. Why so hard on the grind? | /r/seduction | 23/03/24 02:25 PM |
| 7 | Let’s hear some going same night lay success storiesBro op asked for stories | /r/seduction | 23/03/24 04:20 AM |
| 2 | Let’s hear some going same night lay success storiesTell me about coke approach | /r/seduction | 23/03/24 04:19 AM |
| 69 | Womanizer vs traditional manYou know both of these are tropes? Your experience will be wholly and completely different than the caricatures you fear becoming. | /r/seduction | 21/03/24 12:39 AM |
| 5 | Girls WILL put themselves in positions to let you make a moveThere is a middle ground between the two and you’re right. You don’t have to do as much work as you thought but you do have to do a little work. | /r/seduction | 18/03/24 04:08 PM |
| 5 | Is pulling hot girls at an older age something to be happy/excited about it?As you get older your tastes may change and you may settle down. But if you happen to find yourself single at 40 - you may just find yourself excited for beauty every so often. | /r/seduction | 18/03/24 03:53 AM |
| 7 | Question for the people that are good at getting hook ups. Do your hook ups just happening or do plan to get a hook up at all cost when going out?NEVER PLAN | /r/seduction | 14/03/24 04:47 PM |
| 6 | which book to "read" to get into conversation in train, planes or similar.My man here is faking liking something in order to harm women. | /r/seduction | 11/02/24 09:09 PM |
| 2 | which book to "read" to get into conversation in train, planes or similar.Dude I dunno what world you are living in but … you have some incorrect notions about the world. Why do you want to inflict harm on someone and ruin their confidence and self esteem? | /r/seduction | 11/02/24 09:08 PM |
| 76 | Your girl does not want you to be vulnerableThis is weak sister shit. You can be vulnerable without being a toddler about it. They look at you differently after you explode or shit all over yourself in an argument. You look at yourself differently too. Being vulnerable means acknowledging and understanding and articulating yourself from a mature adult perspective. I think the author is confused on what vulnerability is. Maybe they are confused on the difference between actual vulnerability and the bitch vulnerability of tantrums, jibberin… | /r/seduction | 11/02/24 03:34 AM |
| 6 | Should i reject girls offering their Instagram?And be ok walking away without it. It kinda drives some of them them nuts to see it. “Why didn’t he want to talk to me” | /r/seduction | 10/02/24 09:40 PM |
| 4 | Should i reject girls offering their Instagram?You say you don’t use IG | /r/seduction | 10/02/24 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Approaching Women DirectlyWhat AI are you using ? | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 11:56 PM |
| 2 | Advice for bringing girls back to your place the same day/nightKeep making moves and you’ll make your f close. | /r/seduction | 07/02/24 02:59 AM |
| 1 | what cold approaching technique and strategy brings you more success would love to hear your storyThey do love hearing that line when it’s genuine. You can see them light up. | /r/seduction | 07/02/24 02:18 AM |
| 1 | Advice for bringing girls back to your place the same day/nightThis is the truth | /r/seduction | 06/02/24 04:05 AM |
| 1 | Advice for bringing girls back to your place the same day/nightHow old re you? | /r/seduction | 06/02/24 04:04 AM |
| 1 | Advice for bringing girls back to your place the same day/nightThen you made the move - good job! | /r/seduction | 05/02/24 06:17 AM |
| 1 | Advice for bringing girls back to your place the same day/nightIt took me Forever to acknowledge people went to the bar and club to hookup and not everyone was there to just dance. | /r/seduction | 05/02/24 03:02 AM |
| 5 | You look like a fuckboyHeypeepoopeepoo he doesn’t have to take the advice but he is free to ask and decide which advice he wants to take pee poopee | /r/seduction | 31/01/24 08:09 PM |
| 0 | You look like a fuckboyI am going to use this as a pickup line. | /r/seduction | 31/01/24 08:08 PM |
| -1 | Date game is not emphasized enough. Being decent at cold approach is not the end of the storyPoor form. | /r/seduction | 29/01/24 08:56 PM |
| 3 | How many rejections at a single venue before you hop to another one?Self consciousness is more an anxiety and overstimulation reaction. I think it’s a great thing to point out. I wonder what OP is doing though for real. | /r/seduction | 28/01/24 01:17 AM |
| 1 | How many rejections at a single venue before you hop to another one?You should explain this a little more for them. | /r/seduction | 28/01/24 01:02 AM |
| 2 | Small cities are bestNyc baby | /r/seduction | 25/10/23 07:25 PM |
| 3 | Moving from Atlanta to New York City, how much harder is the game in NYC and how much better looking (or uglier) are the girls?Much easier here in nyc - ratio is skewed so you can date above your weight. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/19 09:17 PM |
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