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DiscussionsouthpawFA/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/16 01:31 AM
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Why are you saying being asexual is a bad thing? You just called us robots! ​ I mean, what's wrong with being asexual? Why is that a problem to you? I am asexual, and I think it's a great thing. I wouldn't trade it for anything.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 02:08 AM
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Toxic masculinity? I had never heard of that before. I just thought that it was like stigmas of virgins. I had never even heard the toxic word before, but it sure seems that way to me. Well, I am glad that I know it now. Thank you. I am glad for this conversation. Very grateful. I think you're right. No one needs to be defined by all that outside physical stuff. I just wish people could see the soul of the person, and be blind to all that superficial appearance where people are cool if they have…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/16 07:58 PM
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It's like I'm an alien from another planet because of this. Just some sideshow freak show. Most of the time I simply feel out of place with the world. I mean, I am not a drinker or a smoker or whatever. I tend to do a lot of things because I enjoy doing what I love. But for some reason, everyone likes to think I'm so weird because I don't do those things. It's so weird. I like being me, but everyone thinks there's such a major problem with me. Like I'm an alien freak who needs probing. I don't k…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/16 06:38 PM
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Hearing that I can't possibly be normal because I need sex or I "need to get laid" is the most insulting thing for me, honestly. Why is sex such a need for someone to be normal? Why is a person a broken person if a person chooses to not have sex? That seems so weird to me. Apparently I must be a crazy person, then. And why is being a virgin such an insult thrown at people? I don't get why that is. Why is it that sex = normal person? Can a person be normal without having sex? Or is that whole vir…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/16 05:23 PM
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Yeah, I guess that's what I've heard. Even though I have never desired to raise children and make babies. Yeah, so not me. It is a stupid idea to me to think that a man's not a man unless he grows up, has sex, and eventually kids and wife. It's so crazy. Where do monks and nuns and priests fit? Are they children forever? Hhmph. Well, I don't want to be always made fun of, deemed psycho, and stigmatized by the world because I am a single virgin. It is soul killing and soul-destroying. I hate hear…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/16 04:45 PM
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I just have one question if I may ask: Why does society believe everyone needs to have sex? Is it some imperative to deal with this? Why is that everyone think that having sex =normal? I don't understand why that is. Is sex a necessary thing, and why does all society believe that for some reason? And am I wrong for choosing celibacy instead? Am I wrong for being a virgin and choosing to stay a virgin instead of going after and trying to get sex/obtaining sex? Am I wrong? Because I feel as if I a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/16 05:32 AM
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Hope for that for sure. That way it's ok to be a virgin. Hope for the day where being a "family man" or a "player" is the only way to be a true man in the world. I hope for that. It would be great if we could just love all people and not spit on them or call them "little boys" because they aren't some sex machine. Thanks for all this. It means a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/16 03:07 AM
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All right, ok. I just hate that whole stigma of being a virgin guy. It sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/16 02:24 AM
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Yeah, it is hard to deal with all this many days. I don't know what to think about all that. It's like being called a kid for never having had sex, and a lot of people tend to think that when you have sex you're a man. I never liked the whole "make a man out of you" deal or becoming a "real man" thing. It sucks. Honestly, whenever I hear someone say that I'm not a real man because I'm not sexual or that I'm weird, it's just a little bit crushing to hear. I want to be accepted is all. I don't wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/16 10:43 PM
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I don't understand why people say that "You can't get laid or you can't get any girls." As an insult. It's really hard to deal with that. You're a loser because you can't have sex. I don't like that. It gets at me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/16 07:49 PM
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Thanks for all that. That was quite a detailed response, honestly. I didn't see all that, but thanks. Anyway, that whole point I made is all a hypothetical "what-if" case. It isn't something I entirely picture happening in the immediate future, if at all. I just thought about if it were to happen, imagining things. Well, that's just my imagination. So, like I said in my OP, it isn't something I'm entirely sure upon as a celibate person, but I do sometimes wonder what my first time would be like,…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/16 04:53 PM
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But I do have a quick question, though: I feel like nervous when it comes to all this. I haven't ever done anything before and I worry that if a girl does ever try to have sex with me as a virgin, it would be a problem or something. Like it wouldn't go so well and it would be like ruined. Like I feel shaking in my guts and stomach. It is so nerve-wracking to think about all this. I know I'm a virgin, but just thinking about this gets me scared. How do I get rid of all this anxiety and fear? Will…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/16 10:24 PM
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No, I was just saying ok. Like that's great. I really am glad having this conversation with you. So, I'm definitely not offended. I said ok with the whole "teaching the virgin" idea. That's interesting. There are some girls who like that? Wow. It's a surprise for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/16 03:15 AM
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oh, ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/16 10:30 PM
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Oh, okay. That's cool that it's a compliment. It does seem rare to be a virgin for sure. Hard to seem to find others who think like I do, I guess. But it is cool to meet others who at least are giving their perspectives in respect, no matter if they agree. That's what cool to me. Though I must admit, hearing that statement is a bit comforting for me. So, thanks. I hope you find a guy like the one you describe in Texas. I am 1 state north across the Red River. Nice to meet you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/16 09:18 PM
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Not jumping into the conversation, but thanks for the vote of confidence, Truecelact. That statement is actually quite different from what I usually hear. Usually what I hear is that most people would not want to have anything to do with a virgin, due to what factors I'm not sure. (If someone could fill me in on this, let me know please). But yeah, I normally don't hear that statement all too often. So different, but it's great to hear nonetheless. Although I'm not really sure of what to make of…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/16 08:44 PM
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Hmm, that's an interesting perspective. I've never heard that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 09:11 PM
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OK. I guess that it is understood, with a sexual world for sure. I guess it would be strange for someone to not have sex or choose to not care to pursue it. It's the case, and it's something I have to get used to and adjust to. It's weird being celibate for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 08:39 PM
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hmm, ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 11:20 AM
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See, I never wrote about women virginity because I don't know what it's like to be a woman. I only know it from my perspective as a guy. I didn't know women go through it like that too, so maybe you could explain what it's like for women as well because I don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 02:53 AM
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Well, I really never played the game in the 1st place, so that was never the case with me on being in the marketplace. I just never did. However, what I don't get still past all that is why it's so strange and awkward for someone at all to be a virgin. I never really felt bad about being a virgin. I never just could understand why people think it's so weird and so strange. I don't know really. What can I say really? It's just like an anomaly to most people, and then you become misunderstood as b…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 02:51 AM
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Thanks for your perspective. That is cool advice at the end too. I think that is quite important to do. I never like to elevate my virginity or anything. I simply don't. It's just that I don't have sex, which is so contrary to everyone else. I am glad to hear your perspective on it to not be so concerned over how different I am for being a virgin, because that is a terrible mindset to think that way. That's good advice. I'll take that. I just wonder if there are some girls who would want to have…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 01:34 AM
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You and I do sound a bit alike truly. Wow, nice to meet you. And yeah, it does seem like I keep hearing that whole unattractive loser deal for sure. It's weird. It's nice to hear of another guy who's a virgin, and you got a few years on me. That's cool. And like you, I don't like that whole notion that a male virgin needs to get laid, along with the whole "not a real man" thing. But my post wasn't to kill the assumption, but to just ask that question why it's so strange. I know I'm rare now bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 12:29 AM
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I can see that point, and I'm sure they have some good rationale behind their juxtaposition. I don't deny that my first time if it does happen would be awkward I'm sure. After all, I have never had sex before. So, I'm sure it wouldn't be all dynamic and explosive the first time. My point is that I always desired to find and make love to one girl who I would be committed to. It's all good if people choose to do what's opposite of me. After all, they're not me. I just would like for my first time …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/16 11:26 PM
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Oh, it's cool, I didn't take it personal at all. I asked for your opinion, and I was glad you gave it. That's no problem. I was just trying to give an answer for your question where you asked if it was truly a choice for me to be a virgin. It was just to answer the question, not defensively attack you, as well as describe myself. My response wasn't reactionary for you. It was just more a statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/16 10:53 PM
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Well, I would like to say that I have never really thought of calling a girl a slut or whatever. It's just not me. I just don't like doing that. Hurtful. And I don't want to thumb my nose at others. I don't know what to say about the whole male virgin status, but to say I think you would have to get to know me before you could say I would fit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/16 10:38 PM
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Well, in terms of physical attractiveness, I can't say if I am or not. I would like to say that I am personally attractive. I did mention that I am tall and skinny, rather slight in build, so that may not be the perfect attractiveness to most, but I like my body. It's good. I like to stay fit and be in shape all the time, for health reasons and for personal reasons too. But to say that it makes me incredibly attractive to people, I don't know. I haven't really had a person say I was attractive n…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/16 09:20 PM
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First off, thank you for your perspective. Even though it may be a bit of an aspersion towards me, I will say thank you for it. I appreciate the honesty for it. I must say this too, I said one girl. I didn't say banging girls. For me, that's a choice. I am only interested in that. I am not really trying to do anything further. So, even if there wasn't another person in a sense trying to have sex, I wouldn't have wanted to just do that. I knew what I wanted for me. And it's cool if you want to sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/16 08:45 PM
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I mean, I have had like crushes and stuff, but to say I've ever been in love and have had relationships, well, no, I haven't. I didn't really date younger, and now I tend to enjoy the single life now and all that's in it. However, that doesn't mean that I have no interest in being in love with somebody. I do sometimes imagine how amazing it would be to be in love with somebody and have them love me back. And yes, I do imagine the touching and kissing and the closeness as well. It does cross my m…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/16 08:15 PM
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OK. Thanks for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/16 08:01 PM
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I've heard demisexual before. Honestly, it may truly be the case with me perhaps. It does sound a bit close to me, sure. I just would have to learn for sure to be assured.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/16 07:55 PM
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Now, I say that with full knowledge that I may not be the Don Juan type really. I am quite skinny and even though I'm pretty tall, I am just skinny. Most people tend to like muscles, but I do work out a lot and everything. I think I'm in pretty good shape, but I'm just skinny still. Well, it's just that. So, maybe people were not attracted to me maybe and were wanting to be all over me really. It just didn't happen. It could be, but who knows?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/16 07:46 PM
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Did I feel attraction? Yeah, I can say I did, but it just wasn't an overwhelming deal for me. I did want to date a couple girls back in school, but it wasn't about sex really. It was just more of liking her and perhaps trying to date her, as she was very pretty. I could say that. That was more like in the past really. Right now, it's not as much as it was then. Does that mean that I have no desire to ever lose my virginity? I do get curious for sure. I do get curious to wonder what sex is like, …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/16 11:40 AM
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Ok. That is a nice analogy to hear. I like that for sure. It is a sex-driven society, and I guess many can't comprehend virginity as possible today. It's a misfit for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/16 11:30 AM
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Well, I mean, there are girls that I have liked and there have been girls I thought were beautiful and all that, but I just haven't really desired to pursue sex. I do have a sex drive and all, but it just was never the case, really. Hard to explain to others. I just was always focused on things elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/16 02:53 AM
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Thank you for that honest opinion. I have seen that statistic before, and I didn't know what to think until now because I'm 1 of the 4% now, so now I know I'm in the virgin minority. Thank you for that bit of shared knowledge, and your perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/16 02:27 AM
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Yeah, I definitely feel there is a lot of pressure to not be a virgin in my case. I did hear one time after a conversation that it was "time". And that honestly offended me in a sense because I felt that they weren't respecting my choice honestly. It just felt like they were trying to push me down over this, which got me a bit irate over it. Thanks for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/16 02:15 AM
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Well, I guess I'm a little different. I mean, I feel like there's a lot of pressure society-wise to just have sex and in my case lose your virginity all the time. That's what gets at me really. I don't really have a desire to do that, though, without someone who would be my love if I ever were to find a girl to call that. I just don't, and that is something I'm finding to be really different from everybody else around. That is something I'm finding hard to get adjusted to, in that nobody else is…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/16 02:06 AM
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