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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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7	Women like dominant and aggressive men, even if they date nice guys This is one of those topics where you need to see how women behave, not just go by what they say. Before a woman reading this gets mad at me for saying this, I'm sure men have their own version of something where they say one thing yet consistently behave to the contrary.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/26 06:59 PM
2	Dating Advice For Men Doesn't Work Because Women Don't Actually Know What They Want. Exceptions aside, I think you're right. But to be fair, young men don't have a track record of knowing what they want either. Navigating life on your own as a young adult is challenging for a while. Beyond young adulthood though, women not knowing what they want stems from two things that are related but still distinct: Women not being in complete control of their lives until the past few decades or so. This had the effect of at least 1 or 2 generations of women not having their mom as a strong …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/26 09:46 PM
–	"What about women" is deflection from personal responsibility. I remember telling men here multiple times to raise their standards on personality AND improve their personality. They will do neither. 😂 Gee whiz Batman, I wonder why the men on this sub don't listen when Lilith "tells" what to do. Who takes advice from someone so clearly defeated in this realm?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/26 03:32 PM
8	The root of misogyny is jealousy. This is especially true in their jealousy of women's dating lives and general ability to attract the opposite sex. It also includes women's social lives, their god-like abilities to create human life, and women's looks. Oh puh-leeze 🙄 Most women are average or below, just like men. Women cannot make life without men. Women possess zero god-like abilities (I promise). I don't know what got you up on your own little pedestal, but your post is delusional 😄	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/26 01:58 AM
9	Men do reject women at similar rate, it’s just different. Another way that men implicitly reject women is by not responding to their signaled interest. I'm married but don't wear a ring. Over the years, plenty of women gave me "the stare" (or similar non-verbal interest) at the gym or other places that people sometimes meet, but I just looked away. They were all attractive to me but being married, I wasn't interested in conversing. But those women didn't know that I'm married so as far as they know, I simply wasn't interested.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/26 04:10 PM
2	Men not wanting to pay for the date indicates lack of interest and low aggreeableness It doesn't happen a lot but every now and then you read a post where a man took a woman out for a first date to a moderate-to-pricey restaurant, ate and drank, and then excused himself to use the restroom right before the bill comes. After some time goes by, she realizes he's never coming back to the table. The woman is left to pay for everything. The moral of the story for single women is to make sure you always bring a form of payment with you. You never know when you're going to be on the hoo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/26 05:37 PM
3	How would you feel about a "reverse orgasm gap*? Huh? Viagra and similar drugs treat ED, but do not facilitate orgasms on their own. In fact, not having an orgasm after taking those pills is a known side effect (with different theories as to why that is). Also, orgasms are absolutely mental to men. Physical attraction is mostly what gets the man halfway into sex. From there though, it's mostly mental to finish the job.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/26 10:15 PM
–	CMV: Penis size does matter, bigger may not always be better but smaller than average is a dating death sentence. He wants your empathy and encouragement that he will enjoy a full and satisfying sex life. Imagine if a woman had a large vagina. What would she want?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/26 01:07 AM
–	Women are attracted to assholes and players so they’re the only ones to blame for their outcomes But those men don't suspect that they're being played and still go along with it. They believe the investment was legit and only find out later it wasn't. Women, by contrast, DO go along with a man's lies (if he's good looking enough). Women don't like to admit this but they often find it exciting to be the object of a man's efforts to get her in bed. They don't care that he's lying, they only care what he looks like and if she feels safe-ish.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/26 06:35 PM
–	Women are attracted to assholes and players so they’re the only ones to blame for their outcomes Apples and oranges. Men aren't attracted to something that they suspect might be a scheme. OP asserts that women, on some level, know that the guy is a player, and that gets the woman's engine going (despite their insistence to the contrary).	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/26 03:49 PM
7	Men complain about “women being able to detect bad men” when they are considered the bad men. 😄	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/26 01:13 PM
3	The hate on single moms seems to have stopped now. The manosphere accepted that plenty of men are lining up to be stepdads. This for sure isn't it. No man lines up or prefers to raise another man's offspring. This usually happens out of desperation or if he also has kids. You can reverse the genders and it's the same. This isn't really a gender issue. Men not talking about single mothers doesn't mean they're more open to dating them. There's just nothing new to talk about. The implications of dating single mothers is out there and more obvious n…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/26 10:50 PM
–	Paternity fraud should have criminal liability and reverse burden of proof. Yeah just focus on each post as it is. Don't go stalking people. It's a bad look.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/26 02:45 PM
–	Paternity fraud should have criminal liability and reverse burden of proof. How would seeing other posts affect how you see this one? Why were you looking?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/26 02:36 PM
2	Men think women “have it easy” on dating apps. Let’s run a thought experiment. WAY too long 😴 Needs a tldr.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/26 05:03 PM
3	Much of MGTOW worked its way into the mainstream. Yes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/26 03:58 PM
3	Much of MGTOW worked its way into the mainstream. Someone not knowing what MGTOW stands for doesn't make them uninitiated, it makes them normal. Living in a van (with the odors and stigma that come with it) because someone named "Turd Flinging Monkey" encouraged it isn't much of a sales pitch for men of any age. Giving strange behavior an acronym doesn't change male biology. Straight men are hardwired to desire women. You can't run from your nature, even if an acronym says you can.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/26 03:39 PM
–	For all the talk about the differences between men and women, men here seem to ignore the gender differences when it comes to the topic of sex. I know. It's everyday with this poor woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/26 05:27 PM
–	Courting's not a scam, its an effective strategy Sure thing, bud. Cool story.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/26 06:05 PM
–	Courting's not a scam, its an effective strategy I was using "just show up" as a figure of speech to contrast the greater effort needed from a more average man. Yes, he has to have personality blah blah blah. Honestly, your comment just sounds like a desperate attempt to make yourself sound like some kind of player. I guess we all like to fantasize about things when we're online 🤷	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/26 06:01 PM
4	Courting's not a scam, its an effective strategy I don't think it's a shock, it's just continually frustrating to men that struggle to attract women. As to why these men don't just "get over it" - it's easier said than done. When I was younger (20s) I didn't like the lack of attention so I did something about it. Got in better shape, became a more mature person mentally about the whole issue, etc. And it worked! But it was still hard along the way. Men's minds are biologically wired to crave women. It's just not that easy to "get over" the way…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/26 05:24 PM
14	Courting's not a scam, its an effective strategy So far, you're being downvoted (not by me), likely only by men, but I don't think it's because they think you're wrong - they don't like the message. The question/frustration on most of your downvoters minds are the "hot" guys in a woman's secret past, and how he was able to get your clothes off 10 minutes after arriving at your place for the first time. There weren't drinks, and certainly not dinner, but there was (in the woman's memory) mindblowing sex. The hot guy just had to exist and show u…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/26 04:40 PM
1	Why are men expected to "chase?" Pointing at animals could help explain how the behavior got started, but doesn't help with understanding why the tradition is still here today. It made sense in the 1800s, 1950s, etc because women had few rights. But that was decades ago. We as people are supposed to evolve. And that's why questions like the OP's keep coming up - the tradition doesn't match today's realities.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 10:37 PM
1	🤔 Quick question for the Guys in This Sub: How Many of you Are Actually in a Relationship? 👀 Married (And for that, phew!)	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/25 03:41 PM
7	The cocky dude with a don't-give-a-fuck attitude toward life will be more attractive to women than the nice, soft-spoken man who attends therapy Sub 3	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/25 11:41 PM
-1	Does redpil sees women as people who prevent men from getting sex as much as they want? Do you think women collectively use sex against men? Yes, women use sex (or the suggestion of sex, such as a showy outfit) as a way to manipulate men to get a wide assortment of things that they want. Why do you think women don't have sex with you if they want it too? Because women don't have a male sex drive. It bothers women less to go without sex. Also, women can get sex very easily so psychologically sex doesn't mean for women what it does for men. What make r pill men sure that their sexual…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/25 08:51 PM
–	The existence of unattractive and undatable people is a way that nature uses to stop reproduction You come off as very insecure and defensive. You're also projecting. Your entire OP is an anecdote that you made up to create an argument, but you accuse me of it 😄	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/25 06:02 AM
–	The existence of unattractive and undatable people is a way that nature uses to stop reproduction Disagree about facial attractiveness correlating to a normal brain, if what you meant by that is that they're not as intelligent, socially capable, etc. I've been around plenty of people whose faces wouldn't qualify as attractive but they were plenty smart/capable, and fine to be around. I think the closest I've seen are people that aren't conventionally attractive (face, weight, etc.) that have abrasive personalities, likely due to bitterness over not experiencing romance. But I don't think the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/25 04:20 AM
20	The hate for single moms comes from jealousy. Another day, another "men have defeated me" post from the same poster. Imagine being that miserable, daily, for years. Your life is just coming up with new hate to post on PPD everyday.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/25 02:46 PM
2	Men are not less shallow just because they claim “I’ll take any woman”. Maybe go outside for a while? Take a day off from this? Have you considered confronting whichever guy it was that hurt you so badly? These daily rage posts can't really be therapeutic for you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/25 03:14 PM
–	Guys overestimate the percentage of men who can get away with being assholes. I know, it's actually kinda sad. This sub seems to be this poor woman's last and only outlet to complain about her chronic lack of success with men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/25 05:11 PM
0	For many women, dating and relationships are basically a business where they try to make as much profit as possible. Poor girl. You need help.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/25 01:25 AM
0	For many women, dating and relationships are basically a business where they try to make as much profit as possible. You talk like women don't benefit from having sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/25 12:45 AM
2	The male loneliness epidemic is a good thing. LOL the entire post comes off as extra-strength penis repellent 😄 But yes, that's nice that other women are enjoying dating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/25 03:40 AM
5	Most women aren't having sex as much as rp thinks. With all due respect you're dodging his question. Analogies aren't needed for this one. I'd be genuinely interested in a direct response from you to his comment. He lays out basic facts very well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/25 02:37 PM
–	older women are easier to manipulate than younger women That's what I meant. The silly idea that a ...60 year old ... woman is getting equivalent attention of say a 25 year old is, well, silly. The other thing not mentioned in the replies was the desirability of the male attention they're supposedly getting. I don't believe it's mostly from men they would have sex with, which makes the attention moot.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/25 06:57 PM
–	older women are easier to manipulate than younger women The experience you've described isn't typical.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/25 05:12 PM
–	older women are easier to manipulate than younger women I agree with you on the older women saying men want younger to manipulate them. It's just a cope. Imagine spending years of your life being gawked at etc and then suddenly... No more attention. A damaged ego will find any pathway it can to not face facts. The reality is that younger women are physically more attractive, and tend to have more positive personalities. They don't have the baggage that women twice their age have. Any baggage a man has can quickly melt away when you're with a woman wh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/25 03:43 PM
–	The horde of women lusting over the full-frontal scene in House of Guinness proves that size does matter. I think women do downplay their interest in penis size to spare men's feelings and/or avoid the defensive reaction/attack from some men. But...men also have very specific physical desires from the women they seek from head-to-toe. For example, most men like large breasts. But not every woman has them. In fact, most don't. If every other box was checked, would most men reject a woman for lacking large breasts? No. A few would, just like there are relatively few women that would reject an otherwis…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/25 05:17 PM
3	Why do women take offense from men asking about their past? That bad, huh?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/25 01:47 PM
–	why do men hate sluts so much, instead of just feeling neutral? "Hate" implies anger. That can happen, but way more often than not it isn't "hate", it's disgust. If a man knows that he could never be with a woman due to her disgusting past or present, then she is permanently no good to him. He doesn't hate her - that requires energy that most men would choose not to spend. Instead, she becomes invisible/worthless to him. Your question is the reciprocal of "why do women hate men that don't earn enough/don't look a certain way/etc". Are there women that act na…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/25 02:33 PM
1	If Women are hypergamous, then Men are the Prize. Make her work for it. Access to her body? She's doing him a favor by having sex with him? Yikes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/25 01:40 AM
0	If Women are hypergamous, then Men are the Prize. Make her work for it. In return, he gets my support, love, admiration, and consideration. So he gets from you what a friend would get, while he treats you like a princess. Sounds like you just found a desperate guy 😬	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/25 10:35 PM
1	If women’s “value-add” contribution is pregnancy, then it makes sense that men have to contribute a value-add too "value add" = 🤮 Cheeseball cubicle farm language has no place outside of the cubicle farm.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/25 02:44 PM
3	Most modern men lack the emotional maturity needed to raise a healthy and successful child in today's world Most modern men lack the emotional maturity needed to raise a healthy and successful child in today's world Correction: Most modern men lack the interest to raise a healthy and successful child in today's world. If a man doesn't want kids, he has no reason to pursue skills, traits, etc to be a good father. He'll instead spend his limited time on this planet pursuing what he actually wants to do. Birth rates are declining for multiple reasons, but I believe one of those reasons is simply a lack o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/25 06:50 PM
6	Are men remotely offended by the idea that sex with them ruins and devalues a person? Nicely done, OP. This sub usually recycles the same few questions, but this is a fresh take. Am I offended? Even though it seems like I should be, I'm not. It's other men (not women that I want) that would be negatively judging the woman/me. I don't care if other men find me sexually repulsive 🤷	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/25 02:18 AM
8	Liberal/leftist women are the biggest hypocrites It'd be very neighborly of you if you did.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/25 05:08 AM
4	People are so naive thinking Tea app will hinder dating lives of men posted there I know but the OP basically states that men are up in arms for nothing. I'm saying it's not nothing and that only bad will come of it for men, so there's no reason to pretend like it's nothing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/25 04:30 PM
6	People are so naive thinking Tea app will hinder dating lives of men posted there No good comes to any man from these apps.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/25 04:22 PM
-1	The redpill cant detect bad men unless its super obvious. If nothing else, OP wears her defeat on her sleeve, unlike most women in similar situations that either deny it or stoically keep it in 🤷 To directly address the post, one needn't be red pill to easily spot bad men. It's not rocket science for men to identify other bad men, but it is for women for some reason (psst! It isn't really rocket science for women either, they just get super excited about bad men and choose to deal with the consequences later).	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/25 03:38 PM
1	Alot of men struggle with dating because theyre selfish and dont want to be empathetic. These posts all basically say the same thing: "I've been defeated by men in real life, so I'll take to Reddit to try and anger as many men as possible."	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/25 09:03 PM
4	Those of you 30+ and are/were single at this age: did you start getting "flooded with attention" the moment you turned 30? 30-ish was a non-event in this regard, but 40-ish was a noticable change (but ultimately is/was moot due to being happy married).	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/25 05:20 PM
4	Men are not attracted to young women because they are "naive and easy to manipulate" but mainly because they are thinner and have nicer skin. If you are a woman and you take care of yourself, you can post-pone "hitting the wall" and remain attractive even into your early 40s. You wouldn't necessarily know that he's a late bloomer though. Curious why a late bloomer would put you off?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/25 06:58 PM
7	Men are not attracted to young women because they are "naive and easy to manipulate" but mainly because they are thinner and have nicer skin. If you are a woman and you take care of yourself, you can post-pone "hitting the wall" and remain attractive even into your early 40s. Lots of reasons. When he was young, he: -- made less money -- was simpler/cruder all around (less cultured) -- was less confident (since a confident man is a woman's Achilles heel) -- had less knowledge of life, the world, etc. -- may have looked too boyish (now looks more "man") And probably some other things in forgetting. I don't think anyone remains the same person in their 40s as they were in their 20s.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/25 06:14 PM
3	If men weren’t accusing women of being whores for no reason, women would have a better view of paternity tests. No it's based on the fact there's an actual kid in existence now, and the father isn't unreasonable to want verification that's it's his if he has suspicions. Believe me, you would too if you were a guy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/25 02:39 AM
5	If men weren’t accusing women of being whores for no reason, women would have a better view of paternity tests. 😄 yeah he can breakup and spend 18 years paying child support and only seeing the kid a few times a year. The prospect of that is what makes men not care if the woman is "offended" even if he otherwise would care in almost any other situation. Everyone has their limits.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/25 12:30 AM
5	If men weren’t accusing women of being whores for no reason, women would have a better view of paternity tests. It's not about never caring what they think as a general rule, but when something as heavily consequential as a pregnancy is happening, normal rules go out the window. Like when a pregnant woman does what she pleases with the child regardless of what the father wants.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/25 12:05 AM
3	If men weren’t accusing women of being whores for no reason, women would have a better view of paternity tests. I didn't word that the best. What I meant was that the DNA test is verifying fatherhood for an actual child, whereas the STD testing isn't based on evidence of actual cheating. That's why, by comparison, your STD testing example is 'just because' (just because the woman is constantly suspicious, but still stays and fucks for some reason 😄)	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/25 11:35 PM
2	If men weren’t accusing women of being whores for no reason, women would have a better view of paternity tests. In that same paragraph I used an example that requires no imaginative universe - the example of women doing whatever they want with a baby they're pregnant with regardless of the father's wishes. Screw his feelings, right? As far as your STD testing question, I don't find that to be a fitting analogy, mainly because a woman doesn't get pregnant regularly. One scenario is verifying a rare, highly consequential event that actually happened (pregnancy) vs a woman that wants STD testing...oh...just …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/25 11:20 PM
7	If men weren’t accusing women of being whores for no reason, women would have a better view of paternity tests. Yes, that is how it works. The 2nd paragraph of my comment addresses that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/25 10:51 PM
2	If men weren’t accusing women of being whores for no reason, women would have a better view of paternity tests. Why have kids if you find the stakes to be high? I agree, and addressed this in the last paragraph of my first reply. I never do shit I consider risky because thats stupid. That's a good policy to have!	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/25 09:46 PM
2	If men weren’t accusing women of being whores for no reason, women would have a better view of paternity tests. I don't know what this question has to do with my response to your OP, but to answer it, I don't know - I don't do either of those things you mentioned. But if I had to guess...I would say it's because men and women are both guilty of hypocritical speech and behavior from time to time. It's part of the human condition.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/25 09:12 PM
20	If men weren’t accusing women of being whores for no reason, women would have a better view of paternity tests. ...less women would be offended When it comes to having children, the emotional and financial stakes are WAY too high to let someone's hurt feelings get in the way of verified truth. If the tables were turned, women would have zero problem verifying parenthood regardless of the man's feelings. We know this in part because women choose to have, or not have, a child despite the father's wishes. There is a larger discussion here, in terms of 'why are so many unstable couples putting themselves into…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/25 08:40 PM
4	Men Peak in Attractiveness to Young Women in their Twenties I never said hot supermodels. (But not ugly either.) You're having an emotional reaction to men sharing that younger women notice them more than when the man was younger. Why is this such a trigger issue for you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/25 01:27 PM
14	Men Peak in Attractiveness to Young Women in their Twenties Not for me. Not even close. I get exponentially more attention in my 40s than I ever did in my 20s 🤷	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/25 12:07 AM
3	Why do some women on social media feel the need to mock Men's Mental Health Month? It's one thing to simply ignore it if it doesn't interest you. But it's a real loser move to go out of one's way to make a video hoping to belittle men that care improving their mental health.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 06:12 PM
7	Women lie about their "low" standards and the bar in hell Sure, men have more sperm than women have eggs. And I'm assuming you're pointing that out as a reason why women are so "picky" - as in, women have limited time to have kids so they better hurry and find the right guy. But having finite eggs by itself doesn't make it more noble for a woman to be superficial in her dating choices than men. It really sounds like the argument is "women are picky, superficial, etc because we have to be, whereas men's superficiality is by selfish choice". We've all he…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/25 05:33 PM
0	Women and girls need to be taught to be nice to their male partners, just like men and boys are taught to be with their female ones. The failure to do this is really tearing the social fabric and killing romance. Nope. Really? Both sides shouldn't try to be nice to each other? We already had that... "We"? Do you mean literally you, or are you referring to previous generations of women? If the latter, then it sounds like you're trying to avenge a stranger from decades ago against a man today that had nothing to do with what you're trying to avenge. If you meant you, that's even more confusing. Plenty of women today are happy with their man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/25 03:30 PM
1	The orgasm gap is because women genuinely need fantasy level attraction towards the man they’re having sex with and physical stimulation No, your perspective is just so far gone on this topic that trying to debate or discuss with you would be pointless.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 02:27 PM
1	The orgasm gap is because women genuinely need fantasy level attraction towards the man they’re having sex with and physical stimulation We'll agree to disagree. Have a nice day.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 02:11 PM
-4	The orgasm gap is because women genuinely need fantasy level attraction towards the man they’re having sex with and physical stimulation So it's the guy's job to do all the work for both his and your pleasures, while you just lie there?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 01:49 PM
3	How many people here are happily married/in longterm relationships? If so, what is your perspective on the common themes and posts in this sub? 48M, straight. Happily married 10+ years. The prevailing theme that stands out the most to me is single men chronically feeling like life is pointless without a woman, and getting a stable woman is all but impossible due to fierce competition from other men, frequently labeled as 'unrealistic expectations from women'. Then stemming from this are "bargaining" posts where these frustrated male posters try to logically reason with women to change their attractions. For example, why it's irrational …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/25 06:56 PM
0	Women on reddit who claim to be single and perfectly happy due to potential dating partners not meeting their standards are often miserable in reality. Not all...	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/25 05:37 PM
–	Men care about body count because they're jealous Really? So if someone asked you which guy was the biggest and which was the smallest in your past, you'd have no idea? Yeah, ok 🙄	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/25 02:19 AM
–	Men care about body count because they're jealous Oh bullshit. Like you're not going to notice/make any comparisons 🙄	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/25 01:23 AM
18	Q4M: Would you date someone who fetishizes you? Why or why not? Works for me!	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/25 04:41 AM
8	CMV: You should make Mr Boyfriend Material wait So, use sex as a bargaining chip? Only a guy with low self esteem would be ok with that, and only for so long. And wait until he finds out about any and all hookup sex you've previously had. Other guys (possibly "jerks") got to have you however they wanted you after knowing you for minutes/hours, but new guy that you want to go the distance with needs to arbitrarily wait? Good luck with that. Please post back with your actual results.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/25 03:58 PM
1	Women are attracted to toxic men BECAUSE of their toxic traits, not despite them. But the accompanying toxic features should nullify what the woman is misperceiving as confidence. But they (toxic features) don't nullify anything. That's OP's whole point. Women keep insisting that they don't fall for losers, but they really do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/25 02:10 PM
1	Oral sex is degrading Curious how/why your height would affect the oral experience?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/25 05:59 PM
4	For women that treat dating transactionally, do you think you are partially responsible for the commodification of sex and dating? Of course the expectation is there. She expects sex too. Take sex away from dating, especially early dating, and what you're left with are simply friends/acquaintances. Boring.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/25 03:36 AM
2	The biggest dating issues for men is laziness and unrealistic expectations. Yet another post that screams "despite my blustering, I know nothing about men". 🥱	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/25 06:36 PM
1	Men Put Too Much Value on Women—You Don’t Need Them Like You Think You could transpose "men" and "women", and the post is still true. This is a human issue, not a gender issue.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/25 03:43 PM
2	Perhaps women no longer being attractive to men as they get older is a good thing. I think the fertility reasoning by men is more about trying to explain the science of involuntary attraction. I don't think most single men have babies on their conscious minds. Men will also use younger women/girls as a tool to make older women jealous and try to make older compete for their attention... Men that are attracted to younger women don't even notice older women, let alone play games to make them jealous.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/25 10:15 PM
1	It’s not unreasonable to ask your partner to stop watching porn Who do you think they are they masturbating to then?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/25 11:54 PM
–	When it comes to how women experience “desire,” men have to accept that “carnal attraction” is MORE than “looks” This arousing “spark ✨” I’m alluding to is usually a behavioral swag of his. The dude usually does something or behaves in a way to mentally trigger some form of arousal that MAKES US FEEL SOMETHING. Examples?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 01:30 PM
10	The Anti-Woke is now just bigots and neckbeards. Does she get a free pass for being a woman? Of course. Equal rights and responsibilities are still more of a concept than reality. Bigger picture though, manhaters are chronically miserable women. There's nothing anyone can do or say to make them feel worse than they already do every single day. Imagine spending all day everyday writing book-length posts about your misery. Eeesh. Suddenly the mods overlooking her posts seems more like pity than unfairness.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/24 03:17 PM
4	Being called "sweet", "nice" or "gentleman" means they are not attracted to you I mean I am not sure what a bad boy or fuck boy means Women that claim to be into the bad boys have never actually been with someone truly bad. Women aren't that brave. So instead, they date men that pretend to be "bad". It's a paper thin image, but for her purposes, it works in the moment until she eventually finds her maturity to date someone normal. It's fatiguing to have to keep starting over in dating, but if there's any silver lining, it's this: Your experiences with these unfortunate wome…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/24 07:40 PM
-3	What screams wife material to you? She needs to be loyal and obedient, and have a strong back. But seriously, trust and comfort level is #1. Tied with looks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/24 05:27 AM
10	What are your thoughts on why men aren’t attending singles events? I think many/most women go to these events just to be validated by anonymous men that they don't have to worry about finding out their identity. That, and they're secretly hoping to find a man that's out of her league but still somehow wants her anyway 🤷	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/24 04:42 PM
1	Many MAGA Men Will Likely Struggle More in Trump's Economy and Young People Will Have More Reasons to Avoid Marriage Because of Economics - Do You Agree or Disagree and Why Tenacious, aren't you? 😄 No admission. I found your critique to be regurgitated left media talking points.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/24 05:24 AM
1	Many MAGA Men Will Likely Struggle More in Trump's Economy and Young People Will Have More Reasons to Avoid Marriage Because of Economics - Do You Agree or Disagree and Why Imagine where you'd be in life if you put this much effort into being a nice, happy person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/24 03:04 AM
1	Many MAGA Men Will Likely Struggle More in Trump's Economy and Young People Will Have More Reasons to Avoid Marriage Because of Economics - Do You Agree or Disagree and Why Nah. You're overthinking it, and your media is lying to you. Therefore I hold nothing against you. The country is on course correction. Everything is going to be great. Peace out, toots.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/24 02:46 AM
2	The bar is in hell for women Very succinct! You are correct on all counts.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/24 05:30 AM
1	Many MAGA Men Will Likely Struggle More in Trump's Economy and Young People Will Have More Reasons to Avoid Marriage Because of Economics - Do You Agree or Disagree and Why It seems Trump's supporters barely understand basic economics and don't care to....yet have the economy as top priority. It's kind of wild. Doesn't seem like they live in the real world at all. When one only reads left-wing/never-Trump sources, it's understandable how this viewpoint would be arrived at. What's wild is how many people want the country to suffer/fail for no other reason than to say Trump failed. Thankfully, over half of the country didn't go that way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/24 03:25 PM
2	Why do divorced men seem to struggle so much even when financials are not an issue? All that glitters isn't gold. 2nd marriages have an even higher divorce rate than first marriages. These marriages (from my life's observations, nothing scientific) usually don't go through the same chasing rituals that younger men endure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/24 10:02 PM
26	Why do divorced men seem to struggle so much even when financials are not an issue? Most men have a difficult time dating and finding "the one". To be fair, women do too. But women are approached infinitely more than men are, so women have an easier time dating (whether divorced or not). The analogy I like to use is the salmon expending every ounce of their energy to swim upstream to mate. It's gruelling for them to do this, but they do anyway. Same with many men. After having been that salmon once (first marriage), the idea of starting all over again, chasing again, etc., it s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/24 07:05 PM
3	Many MAGA Men Will Likely Struggle More in Trump's Economy and Young People Will Have More Reasons to Avoid Marriage Because of Economics - Do You Agree or Disagree and Why Economists are theorists. Doesn't automatically make their knowledge or opinions moot because of it, but it's important to remember that at the end of the day, they're spouting their opinions, which are in part, swayed by their own biases. Let's instead look at how people are actually reacting to the election. When it was concluded that Trump won, the markets exploded, and the Fed is talking about rate reductions. Keep in mind that it's not Joe Blow buying 10 Apple stocks that makes the market h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/24 04:14 PM
9	Why are men unwilling to date single moms Why would a man want to always be #2, #3, etc. in a woman's life? If the woman has 1 kid, the guy will never be more than #2 to her, in terms of priorities. Also, either directly or indirectly the new guy will be paying for some other guy's kid (single mothers rarely had kids with a guy that isn't a loser). The biological father got to have his fun with a younger you before childbirth. Now, the new guy gets to be the "safe" option with you and some other guy's kid(s). Yay? Honestly, I would turn…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/24 05:18 PM
17	Why do men seem to almost exclusively focus on physical things? I think you're calling anything "incel" that is critical of female behavior. Female act badly often. Men do too. Pointing it out is not 'incel-ish'.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/24 11:11 PM
42	Why do men seem to almost exclusively focus on physical things? Men do want relationships but don't trust that it'll go the distance. Men are tired of constantly being vulnerable just to get let down again and again. Going for only sex removes most of the emotional frustration of seeking a LTR.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/24 09:49 PM
4	Escorts are NOT a substitute for a healthy sex life for the vast majority of young men. I don't think young men view prostitutes as a healthy substitute. Rather, prostitutes are better than nothing. Men that have difficulty finding a gf or FWB sometimes lose their minds when they lack sexual touch with a woman for so long. I wish prostitution were legalized and regulated in the US (besides middle of nowhere in Nevada). In addition to providing experiences that some men can't otherwise get (or don't want to put the effort into), it would also level the dating playing field for men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/24 09:33 PM
2	"social skills" = superficially charming I agree with OP. There are actual social skills that allow you to get along with people, find harmony, etc. These aren't rocket science. Then there are "social skills". This is the dating version of social skills. "Social skills" = calculated, rehearsed act. Not being who you really are, but instead, being a chameleon hoping for someone else's approval. Women like this though. They like when a man puts on a show for them. It's submissive and flattering. It's good for her ego. Imagine a toddler t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/24 09:10 PM
1	If you knowingly enter a superficial relationship you don’t deserve sympathy when it goes south! All relationships where both people are genuinely enthused (i.e. not arranged) begin mostly superficially. That superficiality either evolves into something of substance or you break-up. (Superficial = money, looks, etc. Non-superficial = admiring the other's virtues, character, etc.)	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/24 12:34 AM
–	The way women behave with men they’re genuinely attracted to is very different compared to the way they behave with men that have merely grown on them Both men and women behave differently towards others they're attracted to vs not attracted to. If a woman faked that she liked flirty attention from men she's not attracted to, then she'll eventually be accused of leading him on. Men don't fake interest in women the man isn't attracted to. Are we sure there's really an injustice going on here?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/24 03:25 PM
3	"males prefer debt-free virgins without tattoos" is a damaging message How is this any different than a woman going on about how she wants a tall, attractive, well built, financially successful man? It's not. People have their ideals. There's nothing offensive about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/24 02:52 PM
–	Women are not attracted to being treated badly. They are treated badly by men they are attracted to. Treating them badly as a low value man is not effective I seem to have hurt your fragile feelings. I'll stop now so you can heal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 04:50 PM
–	Women are not attracted to being treated badly. They are treated badly by men they are attracted to. Treating them badly as a low value man is not effective That's your baseless opinion. Buddy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 04:42 PM
–	Women are not attracted to being treated badly. They are treated badly by men they are attracted to. Treating them badly as a low value man is not effective You tell me not to be lazy, and then paste... Wikipedia links as proof of something 😆 This thread is about whether or not PUA works for unattractive men. And it does. I'm sorry that so many of you are so chronically miserable from lacking female company, but harebrained theories aren't going to help you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 04:41 PM
–	Women are not attracted to being treated badly. They are treated badly by men they are attracted to. Treating them badly as a low value man is not effective Nice try, but no. I've never seen nor heard of "crystal healing", etc. You're starting with a false premise.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 04:35 PM
–	Women are not attracted to being treated badly. They are treated badly by men they are attracted to. Treating them badly as a low value man is not effective They do go in the same sentence if the PUA's goal was to have sex after using their tactics. What did you think I meant?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 04:34 PM
–	Women are not attracted to being treated badly. They are treated badly by men they are attracted to. Treating them badly as a low value man is not effective So how do you explain the unattractive PUAs successes? If you're suggesting they're rare, I don't buy it. Bad ideas die on the vine. PUA tactics have been used for years/decades. They're not bulletproof, but they work enough for the people that do it. If they didn't work much of the time, the practice would have died before it even really began. I've never attempted PUA stuff, so I'm not here to defend it, but I think (sadly) that those tactics work more than anyone cares to admit. Supporting my…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 04:16 PM
8	CMV: Sex Robots should be banned Some women love the power they have over men regarding the supply/demand of sex. So when an alternative comes along (realistic doll, tall prostitute, etc) women get angry that the effortless power they have over men is threatened, which means they'll actually have to start trying. Some women get mad if their SO masturbates! I don't think most women are like this, but they're out there. Guys, just run when you encounter this. There's no fixing it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/24 05:38 PM
8	A man expecting women to accept them when they are young and broke is like expecting men to accept a women when she fat I promise you, some of us American men genuinely are attracted to what you would call a "fat" woman. We're also attracted to women that you wouldn't call "fat". I sometimes see couples where I think to myself "why?!" when one of them appears to be way out of the league of the other. But, that's life. We all like what we like!	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/24 02:16 PM
–	Are you really sexually frustrated or are you just depressed? Technically, sure, they're separate. But in practical terms they might as well be the same. I don't think I understand the importance of decoupling them. The only time I could see sexual frustration not leading to depression is if the man involved feels confident that he'll find new sex soon enough. He's horny now, has no human outlet and is thus frustrated, but he's not sticking a gun in his mouth. But when a guy thinks/knows it's chronic... Ugh (And honestly, I'm not always convinced it's the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/24 08:39 PM
–	Are you really sexually frustrated or are you just depressed? OP, giving you the benefit of the doubt, I assume you've really tried to put yourself in a man's shoes to help arrive at your conclusions. But on this topic, you'll truly never understand what chronic lack of sex does to a man. No woman could. It goes way beyond whatever a textbook or website says. It causes severe depression. And it's not just the orgasm, it's all of the sex. The opposite is true too. I have zero doubt that there are female experiences no man could ever understand.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/24 08:06 PM
6	Approaching women is very possible, it's just not like fulfilling video game objectives where following a list of steps leads you to a definite reward. 😆	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/24 02:58 PM
2	What does someone finding you attractive feels like? How it feels depends entirely on who it is that finds you attractive. If it's someone you have no interest in, then you don't really care that they find you attractive. In fact, you might not like it if they keep bugging you. If it's someone you are attractive, then you'll feel excited about it. And nervous, but mostly happy/excited.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/24 04:16 AM