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| 3 | One Year LaterI can really relate to what you’ve said here, I could have written it myself and my circumstances were and are eerily similar. Sometimes I think, if only he could see me now, and then other times I realize that - given my propensity to having to learn everything the hard way - I learned a level of maturity during conflict and owning my own feelings/reactions that I just didn’t have before. I am frankly a much better person a year and bit from my divorce. And that’s all I can do. It’s all you can… | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/06/21 02:19 AM |
| 2 | A low point.It’s hard to own your own mistakes when you found yourself there because you weren’t brave enough to walk away way back when, when you had the moral high ground. When you instead stay and then act out later, you can find yourself justifying your own misbehavior and then when it blows up in your face, you’ll think you deserve it but at the same time you think you’re owed some sympathy. It’s an uncomfortable place to be. And people will have a hard time offering you sympathy. I have no advice or w… | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/11/19 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Anyone have experience divorcing in New Mexico?I’m in the middle of it. The 2 relevant things: NM is a community property state (everything acquired post-M is subject to being divided equally) but still, the length of the M & and who is earning what matters for spousal support. There’s no waiting period. The time it takes to D depends on how long it takes you and your STBX to agree on how things are split up. You don’t have to prove you’ve lived separately or anything like that. I saw something in your post history that she’s not an amcit. T… | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/10/19 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Nice side effect of divorceWell just so you know, women need TP when they pee and poop. That creates a metric fuck ton of TP usage. But otherwise f*ck her and carry on! :-) | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/09/19 11:13 PM |
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