| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 36 | Curing oneitis - a success story with tips for those struggling | sp1d3rd1ck | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 11:07 PM | |
| 8 | Doing first cold approaches tomorrow (Mall) - Best tips? | Conversation | sp1d3rd1ck | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Starting on tinder with no dating/game/texting experience | Fundamentals | sp1d3rd1ck | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 12:11 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Starting on tinder with no dating/game/texting experienceThanks! my only quandary with tinder is that I am worried that if I fuck up the first couple times, I may run out of matches. Is this practical? as obviously there is a limited amt of women on it | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 12:58 AM |
| 39 | Was friendzoned but she gave me a cha ge for a dateYour wording is a bit confusing here. Saying she will give you a chance is already belittling to you it seems. She has all the power in this situation, and you’re just going to try to aimlessly impress her, and she’ll laugh after. | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 03:59 PM |
| 36 | Was friendzoned but she gave me a cha ge for a dateCorrect, been here once before. After the dinner, we were supposed to go mini golfing, when she decided she was just tired and wanted to go home. Never again, keep looking elsewhere. | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 03:58 PM |
| 1 | A girl likes me but has a boyfriendShe will do the same to you my dude. | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Doing first cold approaches tomorrow (Mall) - Best tips?Yeah that’s my goal. I’m thinking more about actually going out there and speaking and getting the balls to do it rather than the outcome currently. I appreciate the advice! | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 12:56 AM |
| 3 | Doing first cold approaches tomorrow (Mall) - Best tips?Great! That takes a lot of the anxiety away since I don’t have to remember anything going into it. Probably a dumb question, but am I better off asking for number or snapchat? Can’t really give a fake snapchat as opposed to phone number I guess. What’s going to put me in a better position down the road? | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 12:30 AM |
| 5 | Struggling with oneitisJust posted about this - similar scenario, it crushed me as well. Not sure about your situation entirely, but this was because a new (extreme downgrade) guy entered her life. It takes a little while to get over it, but you need to get out there and talk to more women - this is what helped for me, and hang out with friends. If you can, do NOT talk to her. This will seem ridiculous and will be hard, but dont keep feeding the mentality of 'she is a princess and turned me down'. Don't stay around an… | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 09:26 PM |
| 6 | What are some reliable ways of assessing how attracted they are and whether you have a green light to escalate?Proximity? How close is she getting? Eye contact? Is it consistent? Touching? if you tell a joke, is she punching you? I guess you just have to go for it though. It's either a yes or a no, don't trip yourself up on reading too far into things. | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 03:35 AM |
| 7 | New girl at work, interested at her, went up to her and started conversating, asked her questions she replies but she never asked questions backed. I noticed it and just ended convo. Is she just uninterested to talk in general? I seen her look at me all dahNo way to know for sure! Give it a second shot, you have nothing to lose. Fair chance she was just anxious about the encounter, she's new at work. But on the flip side, being new she's scoping out the environment. Maybe think more about the way that you approached/ spoke if applicable? Anything you would've done differently? | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 03:32 AM |
| 2 | Curing oneitis - a success story with tips for those strugglingEdit regarding your comment - not sure if you mean it in general about 'even if she likes you back' as this girl was open about how she was into me. Yeah funnily enough she said she was down to date in the future but wouldn’t agree to be exclusive - she was talking to multiple other guys but said it wasn’t serious. Certain ‘situations’ were holding her back from dating, and she said she doesn’t do hookups. I trusted her, and didn’t think this would happen. I won’t go into too much details on tha… | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 02:58 AM |
| 10 | Curing oneitis - a success story with tips for those strugglingThank you! This is exactly what I needed to hear. It hasn't been easy, it hurts to see them together all the time. I guess I just trained my brain a little to remove any negative/doubting thoughts. It was at it's worst when I found out that they are dating. I just remind myself of her negative/toxic traits in order to forget. She's the first girl I've ever rly cared about nearly this much, but I guess she's just a thing of the past now. Not a part of my life anymore! I guess I can just use som… | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 12:31 AM |
© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter