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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 66 | I'm one of those "lonely guys" at clubs, how can I end this cycle? | space-ghost34 | /r/askTRP | 24/03/18 02:56 PM |
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| 2 | I'm one of those "lonely guys" at clubs, how can I end this cycle?Alright, fine. I'll stop drinking then too. | /r/askTRP | 25/03/18 05:08 PM |
| 1 | I'm one of those "lonely guys" at clubs, how can I end this cycle?Thanks for this. It's been a long hard road, and I'm not sure I'll ever get there, but I'm trying. "The Six Pillars of Self Esteem" looks like exactly what I need right now, so I'm going to start reading this today. | /r/askTRP | 25/03/18 05:04 PM |
| 1 | I'm one of those "lonely guys" at clubs, how can I end this cycle?Are rejections supposed to feel cringe-y and retarded? I feel like everyone else just doesn't get much reciprocation when they get rejected, but when I get rejected I feel like I'm mentally deranged. | /r/askTRP | 24/03/18 06:14 PM |
| -4 | I'm one of those "lonely guys" at clubs, how can I end this cycle?So, there's no way I can stick to 3 drinks, but I've recently started only grabbing like $30 out of a cash machine and leaving my debit card at home. This is saving me a lot of misery and I don't get too drunk. Not ideal, but better than what I was doing before. | /r/askTRP | 24/03/18 06:13 PM |
| 4 | I'm one of those "lonely guys" at clubs, how can I end this cycle?Focus on your sucess, work out, learn to cook, wear nice looking clothes and get a good haircut. For some reason, this isn't enough. I don't seem to know where my confidence is supposed to be coming from. I dress pretty well, my haircut is good, I'm a good developer working at a startup, I train often and hard, I'm smart and understanding, I'm not evil, and I'm not some autistic nerd cliche; It just doesn't click though. | /r/askTRP | 24/03/18 06:06 PM |
| 1 | I'm one of those "lonely guys" at clubs, how can I end this cycle?5'11''. Tall enough. | /r/askTRP | 24/03/18 06:02 PM |
| -6 | I'm one of those "lonely guys" at clubs, how can I end this cycle?I don't think anyone likes software engineers. | /r/askTRP | 24/03/18 06:01 PM |
| 2 | I'm one of those "lonely guys" at clubs, how can I end this cycle?Agreed. It's very hard to not judge, but maybe with practice it will go away. | /r/askTRP | 24/03/18 06:00 PM |
| 3 | I'm one of those "lonely guys" at clubs, how can I end this cycle?Terrible... I have Nice Guy syndrome and depression, so I've been dealing with a lot of shit and haven't been able to open up very much. I'm working on this, and hopefully I can make some friends this spring. My plans are basically to take some improv/theater classes to get me out of my shell, then start volunteering and doing things that I'd consider good and fun (D&D, climbing, the music scene, etc.) | /r/askTRP | 24/03/18 05:58 PM |
| 1 | I'm one of those "lonely guys" at clubs, how can I end this cycle?Thanks, I'll keep it in my mind to try this when I'm out and about. | /r/askTRP | 24/03/18 05:54 PM |
| 6 | I'm one of those "lonely guys" at clubs, how can I end this cycle?How do I know if it's a girl I want to meet though? I always find something off-putting about them. Too ugly, too many friends around them, too snobby, too good looking, too stupid, etc. My judgement goes both ways of course. I suppose that's part of the problem; that I'm immediately judging our potential compatibility? | /r/askTRP | 24/03/18 03:16 PM |
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