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I think it's an insignificant phenomenon, especially because a lot of society is structured to make these relationships so difficult as to be off the table. It probably works in college, for people in more of a choose your hours/gig economy, people without kids etc. But, even if I wanted to, I would never have enough time to have a second relationship. Even just more sexual partners would be too much effort to be worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 06:59 PM
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In my experience women have been enthusiastic about sex. But maybe that's just me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 12:01 AM
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women dont do anything during sex its not the man's fault they don't cum. Oof, way to tell on yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 11:54 PM
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As Nietzsche would put it, "Don't claim you're merciful when you lack claws." Plenty of these "nicer" or "moral" dudes would love to pump and dump. They just don't have the options, which makes them more duplicitous, see that Dude from the Try Guys as a recent example
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 11:36 PM
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I had it explained to me recently that, for at least some women, "hot" and "ugly" are not antonyms
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 11:29 PM
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choosing better means not choosing men based off of shallow things like looks and height and income and being more selective about things like how well they treat u The tall, handsome, rich dude is also probably a better bf while making the guy who is looking for a relationship wait. Looking for a sex toy that also cooks and cleans im not sure all men here complain how difficult casual sex is to get They do yes casual sex is much much much harder to get as a guy than a girl therefore so what is …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 11:21 PM
4

So basically ignorance is bliss? Because I've heard religious people talk about their marriage and it makes me depressed. Or as Mill would put it, "Better Socrates unsatisfied than a pig satisfied"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 11:04 PM
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I only checkout men in the gym
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 10:45 PM
2

News at 11, attractive people have more sex, less attractive people have less sex
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 10:45 PM
8

People don't get "used up".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 10:42 PM
2

I think you need to distinguish between someone's past within a community from someone's past in general. Yeah, if you've slept with 10 dudes I know and could see regularly then I'm less inclined to date you, if you slept with 10 dudes half a continent away I could give a shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 10:32 PM
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From the time men are born until their adult lives, it is engrained in them that they pretty much hold no value outside of what they can provide to others (mainly in western culture). Meanwhile women hold value just for existing. While ideally we would recognize everyone as valuable just for being a unique person, an alternative spin on this is that men are valued for their achievements, for who they are, while women are valued on a much more superficial level, and not really as an individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 10:01 PM
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Not "out" but I'm having a house party with quite a few people
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 09:50 PM
2

But those are the relationships that usually end because they cheat on each other. Is there evidence for this?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 05:22 PM
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Did people look at you weird at prom?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 04:25 PM
2

Didn't you have a comment where you said you were 27 when your gf/wife was in high-school? And then a commenter pointed out that the current ages you provided would have made her 16-17 when you were 27?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 04:14 PM
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You get a choice C if you don't marry 17 year olds
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 03:58 PM
2

"Negging" as a concept is the result of socially incompetent men watching bars as if they were a nature documentary and not realizing that teasing and playful banter are supposed to be fun, not mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 02:55 PM
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Exactly, my dad thinks he knows how to do everything, and he is pretty handy. However, there have been major mishaps, including fucking up our plumping, when he tried to reach beyond his experience. But God forbid I open a YouTube tutorial.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 02:51 PM
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When I make generalizations, I back them up with empirical evidence. And yet you don't respond to the people here who show that (1) you just flat out lie about what papers say or (2) you are unable to read the papers
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 12:27 AM
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The top reasons as to why women had sex were: Can you show me where you got the top reasons you list? Your link is to a book review. I followed links on that page to the book's author's previous research which had: "I felt attracted to the other person" and "I was horny" among women's top 5 reasons. Edit: See Table 3 in this study https://scholar.google.com/scholar_lookup?title=Why%20humans%20have%20sex&year=2007#d=gs_qabs&t=1666912049414&u=%23p%3DxLnhN_o93NkJ
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 11:07 PM
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So let's note a few things: This is anecdotal; and Doesn't prove that virginity is preferable to a low, non-zero n-count, just that it is preferable to an above average n-count.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 05:07 PM
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Can significantly improve a person's overall attractiveness. A woman might have a 6 face, but if they're a virgin that can easily take them from a 6/10 to a 8-10/10 (depending on how much the man values low n-count) This is complete bs. First, who even wants a virgin after they are like 22 years old? If I was ever single again and a woman over, say 22, told me they were a virgin I would think (a) they are super religious, (b) they are a liar or (c) something is wrong with them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 01:54 PM
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Ah yes, how could I have forgotten the teachings of ooa3603. But seriously, so if a random booty call texts me 6 months later and I say, "Sorry, I'm dating someone now", I was never really single? That's dumb. I do think there are people who abuse "no labels" and "situationships" and they hurt people, and there is some claim that they weren't really single. But that's different from ONS or someone you occasionally have a booty call with.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 10:42 PM
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Don’t pretend like bluepill rhetoric doesn’t typically center around the magical power of personality and how they “know a guy” who’s a 4’9 janitor with a shrimp-dick that some how kills it with the hottest ladies in town Sure, if you replace "4'9" with "5'6" and "janitor' with "decent job" and "shrimp dick" with, well honestly I have no idea, but I guess average. I've never seen anti-redpillers claim a bald, 5'0 dude with a micropenis can overcome that in its entirety just by being funny. I hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 10:21 PM
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I think this misunderstands what most "bluepillers" object to. It's the misogynistic lens, the overly reductionist strain of Evo psych, and the generally apocalyptic rhetoric around modern dating. It's not: genes matter, some people are innately more attractive, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 08:01 PM
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Assuming this is true (reads more like bait) Whatever league you thought you were in, you're now leagues below those dudes you were dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 07:18 PM
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Being a normal person who goes outside and sees/knows/interacts with other normal people who are in happy relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 03:04 PM
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Yes, and when I was having casual sex with women I was also single. Like, that's just what the word means. No one assumes you don't have sex because you are single, they assume you don't have a partner/spouse
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 02:57 PM
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Maybe you have a different definition, but in my experience only body builders get super muscular. Most athletes would not do well in a body builder competition. Look at some like Roger Federer or even Muhammad Ali in his prime
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 07:34 PM
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Why's that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 07:30 PM
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Maybe it's just me, but my ideal person is smart and athletic.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 07:26 PM
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Wouldn't that depend on the particular athlete? To give an example, Muhammad Ali was an icon, handsome and sharp as fuck. His trash talk reveals such a high level of linguistic intelligence. He was also a civil rights icon.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 07:09 PM
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Why do you consistently have the worst takes? If you want a non-mongamous relationship then get into one. People do that. But maybe you're worried she'll want that too and do a lot better than you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 07:04 PM
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Okay, as a kid my headcannon was that my squirtle was the sunglasses wearing one from the anime. And that just makes him the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 06:59 PM
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Kinda my point. It's such an individual metric.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 07:47 PM
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I see that the basic point has eluded you. We share 99% of our DNA with chimps. Sure. Do chimps have language? Do chimps practice mass agriculture? Do chimps compose symphonies? Do they make films? Do they solve complex equations or generate scientific theories? Do they write novels, computer programs, comic strips, etc.? That 1% does a lot of fucking work
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 07:43 PM
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I have no idea what "high" means. Like 50+, yeah I'd have some concerns, man or woman. 10ish is totally fine in my view. The in-between is more case by case
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 07:21 PM
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I wish I had paid more attention in chemistry class, but is there any deadly chemical compound that's 95-99% similar to a completely benign compound? Because this feels like the same level of reasoning as suggesting that the deadly compound must be safe since it is 99% similar to the benign compound
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 02:49 PM
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Openess to new experiences. If you won't even try sea urchin or sky diving or whatever we won't have a good time together. It doesn't have to be every activity, but if you are stuck in your ways then idk. (Yes). Progressive/Not Conservative. If you think my gay cousin shouldn't be able to have a family, that my BIPOC friends complain too much, or the like, then I'm not gonna date ya. (Yes). Responsible. Can I count on you? Do you make plans? Do you help around the house? Do you often need bailin…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 06:56 PM
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Hate to break it to you, but a lot of, if not most people, would not date their current partner if their socioeconomic status was markedly different.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 07:57 PM
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If I eat 30 different types of chocolate cake, don’t you think I’m going to prefer one over another? Actually I think it would be quite hard. Some might be better in one way bit worse in another. I think picking a best would be challenging. Now if I've only had 2 cakes, I could probably tell you which was best.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 02:05 PM
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If "red pilled" means be confident, take care of your appearance, show leadership, exhibit grace under pressure, etc. Then no shit it's how one should be. But that's not what anyone objecting to redpill is objecting to; it's the misogynistic crap that how no inherent relationship to those good qualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 05:42 PM
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If I have a guarantee I will not have to check any work emails during the vacation, then vacation. Otherwise pay
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 06:41 PM
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Clearly after such a short amount of time a guy is only interested in the girl for one reason (sex). I think "attraction" is the more accurate word. If you see someone attractive you might want to go on a date to see if you also have common interests, chemistry etc. I imagine being asked out quickly is validating. But it doesn't imply the dude just wants a 1 night stand or is only interested in sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 10:36 PM
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You sound like the villan from Braveheart
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 10:32 PM
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Have you seen a therapist about this pattern?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 09:40 PM
1

I mean, I know that the product exists, I just wish we had better standards
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:40 PM
1

Men generally get a 3 in 1 shampoo/conditioner/body wash that smells like a pine forest or something. Is that actually true?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:33 PM
1

That's different than what you were saying though. First, I assume a marriage is the type of realtionship you just don't leave if you suddenly have a bit less sex. If that would make you leave, then don't get married. Second, 3 times a week as a norm if you are balancing other responsibilities is perfectly healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 06:55 PM
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I mean for a man it isn't really a priority anymore. You have adult responsibilities and different goals. And of course, a new realtionship will have lots of sex. That's how new relationships work. But that isn't the be all end all of a relationship (though it is a crucial part)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 06:49 PM
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Sex ebbs and flows, and by the time you're out of your twenties it isn't so much of a priority anymore. Sure if you are not having sex, or barely having sex (like once a month) there's a big issue. But some weeks when things are busy we might have sex 1-3 times (i don't live with my partner yet, or this would probablybe a little higher), but then on a vacation we might have sex 4-5 times in a single day. It all depends.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 06:31 PM
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I've known one person who hasn't been in a relationship before 25. And I don't follow your second point, it depends on how bad it gets obviously. Some things are worth working through and some aren't
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 05:38 PM
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You've just made a catch 22, people with no experience are undesireable to date but the only way to get experience is to date. Well, I didn't make a catch 22, people's behavior did. But it doesn't make it impossible, just much harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 03:41 PM
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What a waste of money lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 03:11 PM
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Well what do you mean by "failed relationship"? I dated a woman in grad school for a while but then we both got job opportunities in different states that were the best choice for our respective goals. Is that a "failed" relationship? In some sense, I suppose, but we both had a great time with each other and I learned a lot about what I wanted as an adult from that experience
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 03:04 PM
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God, I love a post just dripping with bitterness. I don't agree with this, I think it just turns off women cause it's unmasculine, but I'll roll with this argument for the sake of this post I mean it can be a bit of all three, but I think the key factor is that a 25ish year old woman doesn't want to deal with a dude just now figuring out how to be in a relationship. I was a complete shit show in my first relationship, and I think most people figure out how to be a good partner by having relation…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 02:15 PM
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Umm a hot gf, a great job, lots of friends . . . Is that the right answer? Like just based on your post I'm exponentially more "alpha" than you lol. Your standards aren't my standards, but by your standards I completely crush you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:56 PM
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Hey hey, even more confirmation. Anyone who uses "beta", "simp", "alpha" etc. unironically is chronically online and should touch grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:50 PM
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The fact that you asked me to elaborate makes it even more clear
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:44 PM
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It actually would have been a better post without the creepy rating of minors/students
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:42 PM
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men of ALL ages are most sexually attracted to women who are 18-24 years old. Those are the FACTS. It's honestly hilarious how little feminists understand men. I think I have some good guesses why you struggle with women in their 20s and 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:41 PM
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The Boomhauer method works everytime
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:39 PM
1

Well it was weird insofar as it was in the middle of a pandemic. It was not weird in terms of being fairly and freely conducted
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 03:24 PM
1

Then yeah, adoption or surrogacy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 11:24 PM
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Can't have? Or doesn't want? If it's just can't have, then I'd just adopt or find a surrogate. If it's doesn't want, then I'd consider breaking things off we we had already discussed and had started planning around it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 11:19 PM
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Dude, those are totally up my alley. I'm also working through Robert Caro's stuff (Power Broker/ LBJ) and Postwar: History of Europe since 1945 by Tony Judt.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 11:16 PM
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Try me. I read everything
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 11:01 PM
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If you are going to do it and are even thinking about driving/getting in another car after, call your mom or I at anytime and we will pick you up. No questions asked; no judgments. It's much more important to us that you get home safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 10:55 PM
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Anyone read anything good lately? I finished When We Cease to Understand the world (the first chapter on Prussian Blue is maybe the best first chapter I have ever read) and am about halfway through Brideshead Revisted. I also just listened to Mistborn on audible
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 10:53 PM
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Really? I think it's more likely that it's the common bi stereotypes, i.e. bi men are closeted guys, bi women are striaght women who want to experiment.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:50 PM
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So you either live in a cave, don't prioritize that or are into some esoteric shit
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:30 PM
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I know, because he's gross. I was just giving a valid reason haha
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:29 PM
0

Well if they say anything other than (1) yes or (2) no, but I'm not opposed to it, you can dump their racist ass
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 02:13 PM
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The dude had a beef with sushi, like wtf. I hate that I have some of his content views, but some of it was hilarious in an absurdist way. Like dude would have a beef with breathing, and a take on how it makes you beta, if he could
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 05:30 PM
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No worries. It isn't for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 05:04 PM
1

Depends on if you like classic RPGs, but honestly Dragon Quest V is a perfect story filled with great moments and the ios port is good
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 01:16 PM
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Chances are you can find a chick who looks just as good who will give you the ass early if that’s what you are looking for. I've never dated the "not till the 3rd/5th date" type, but I also have more I care about than how good you look. Like if I'm only interested in your looks then, yeah I'd probably move on, but I have always tried to date/spend time with people I think I would have a great time with. Dudes out here waiting 2 months to have sex with a strong 6 This is gross, and can we please …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 01:07 PM
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Is having a good realtionship with your parents emotional incest? We discuss at 11
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 01:03 PM
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Indeed, aren't dating apps skewed heavily male? Probably means less women are on the apps
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 08:42 PM
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It's not a bad start, but there's no personality. It looks like the show room/floor model. I don't think being "feminine" is the problem here
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 08:20 PM
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I wouldn't hit on people when they're shopping. Save it for the bars
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 08:16 PM
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Danger of cold approaches is that after few rejections you will be known as that creepy guy who hits on women. By whom? Do you live in a town of like 1000 people?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 07:34 PM
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Hell, one of them outright stopped mid make out, said that my fingers smell like someone else's pussy (I was with some one earlier that day), and she continued to blow me. I'll take things that never happened for 200 Alex
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 07:31 PM
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Yes, I base my life and opinions on memes and jokes. Do y'all hear yourselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 07:31 AM
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100%. Whenever I see a racist or a sexist, I think, "Oh they couldn't hack it and they're mad at the world for it."
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 09:52 PM
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Would you vote for someone like that? No
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 09:50 PM
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Goddamn dude, let me ask were you on the debate team in HS and do 75% or more of your sentences begin with, "Well actually . . ." I made fun of him because: It was just a hate rant, not an argument. His goal was not to persuade, it was to piss off women and get kudos from similarly frustrated men. It's absurd to tell other men you don't know what they should like or who they should date. Like why does this guy care? It's an irrelevant argument, no one dates American women as a whole, they date a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 09:41 PM
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I too had risky sex (including in a confessional) in my early 20s. Carrying about who did what in college in your late 20s/early 30s is kinda sad unless it involved/hurt you in some way
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 09:33 PM
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The first college relationship ended because I couldn't block a girl and my gf was constantly going on jogs with random guys
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 09:10 PM
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Are you for real? So this is a red flag for you: HS relationship. First college relationship, lasts two years. Second college realtionship, last 3 years, people get jobs/opportunities in different states and decide against long distance. Current partner. In what world is this uncommon or a red flag?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 08:52 PM
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Cogent: (of an argument or case) clear, logical, and convincing Synonyms: convincing, strong, powerful, well-reasoned "American women are fat, divorce machines" doesn't meet my standards for that word. So no, I'll just make fun of him, thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 08:46 PM
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Well I guess some of us have higher standards
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 08:37 PM
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Well, to use your own words against you, you said, "Western men are more egalitarian" and then "Men [you] don't want an egalitarian realtionship." So there's one quality you lack. You aren't an egalitarian.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 08:36 PM
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What points? This is just a hate rant. There are no cogent points worth debating.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 08:33 PM
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Well I would like to keep shaming him if that's all right. I don't waste my time debunking hate rants, I just make fun of the author.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 08:32 PM
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It sounds like you want to date non-American women because you lack the qualities you said were better in western men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 07:25 PM
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I think it's a bit of a complicated concept with some "family resemblance" at play There are easy cases: Born with female genitalia, XX, normal hormone levels, etc. And tricky cases: All of the above but with XY instead of XX, which is very rare, but can happen. So I think any adequate definition would need to be framed in terms of certain qualifications and norms To use a classic example, defining "game" is quite tricky. Some are competitive, some aren't. Some involve multiple people, some are …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 07:17 PM
1

The Financial Times is a UK paper . . .
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 07:08 PM
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Sir. You are too down bad. We're going to have to ask you to leave
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 06:45 PM
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Well I think you and American women can reach a mutual agreement to not date each other
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 06:39 PM
1

Nope, I don't know a guy who has tried it and feels like it's a must have
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 04:45 PM
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Every dude after jerking off gets disgusted to what he just jerked off to and the act itself. I don't think so. I think it's just normal
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 05:57 AM
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Yep. And then as a result they just deny that a man they see as lesser( due to height, looks, etc.) could succeed with women due to being genuinely funny and charming
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 05:45 AM
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For sure, my point is this forum makes if sound like if you are a "sub 8" man your only option is a creature from swamp lagoon
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 05:31 AM
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I'm married to the streets
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 05:24 AM
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Counting nightclub admittance fees and dates as the odd things out, what percentage of women do you think, "[have] Onlyfans, strip clubs, prostitutes, women getting a rise through blowjobs"? Because it's miniscule. Most women don't have an only fans, most women aren't prostitutes, most women don't "get a rise [raise?] through blow jobs" in spite of being hit on inappropriately at work. Like what world do you live in?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 05:20 AM
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I don't think I get the reference. White dude, good hair, very muscular
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 03:36 AM
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Oh gotcha, so they weren't actually hot, I just thought they were. Grow up dude. He was charismatic as fuck and hit on everybody, so he played the numbers game + had game himself
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 03:30 AM
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Nope, pulled the hottest women out of anyone I knew. But tell yourself what you need to
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 03:13 AM
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Hyperbole to prove a point my dude. Men dude interpret to me that they need to make zero effort
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 03:09 AM
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Lol kinda my point. People on these subs make it seem like only gigachads ever sleep with attractive women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 03:06 AM
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I've had women tell me that they were attracted to me because I was such a bad dancer but still had the confidence to get out there lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 02:18 AM
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Question: in what scenario does the person's stripping factor into whether they obtain a job? It would probably hurt them if anything. No, I don't grasp your distinction, because you didn't make one.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 02:15 AM
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Dude, you just changed my life. I'm gonna call my law school first thing tomorrow to give it back and pursue a new path. Thank you man
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 02:12 AM
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No, they could potentially dance their way to pay for tuition. That is not the same as obtaining a job by dancing. Believe me, no reputable law firm will hire you based on your pole dancing skills. Or can you not grasp this distinction? (Which is meaningless anyways since most women do not strip/do sex work to pay for college)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 02:05 AM
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Lol, when women say that they mean, "Be genuine and true to yourself" they don't mean "please don't shower for a week and please constantly talk about anime titties"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 01:58 AM
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Dude, the biggest player I've ever known was like 5'6-5'7. It isn't as hard as y'all make it out to be
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 01:56 AM
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Fair enough. I do worry about that on these forums. But there's just so much space between a "chad" and a normal dude, so it's hard to give advice
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 01:55 AM
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Really? I've always thought women didn't have high enough standards
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 01:51 AM
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Well I couldn't honestly say I don't have that
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 01:46 AM
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Paying for college /= securing post graduate employment. How did they secure the law firm associate position? By stripping? Or by succeeding in law school? But I get that reading is hard for red pill men Edit: like damn dude, looking back I made this distinction in basically every post responding to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 01:43 AM
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That's not even what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 01:23 AM
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The fact that you still put friends in quotations shows you don't get it. But maybe I'm the weirdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 12:49 AM
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My point is that paying for school is not the same as paying,/stripping for the job. You still have to be a competent law/med student. So they didn't "dance their way to the job", they got the job by doing well in a competitive academic program
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 12:47 AM
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I even wonder, why do you think ANY man would even WANT to be in power if it was not to obtain sex. Lol, this is so pathetic. You could be a dive bar bartender and have just as much success with women (not to shit on them, just you). I do the stressful, high powered work I do for the intellectual challenge. Sex has nothing to do with it. I didn’t become an attorney so I could bang hot women, I did it to do intellectually challenging and fulfilling work. This is just sad my dude. BTW, I doubt you…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 12:44 AM
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Gotcha, you know most male/female friend dynamics are not like that right? Like I have female friends I know are very attractive, but I don't want to be with them. Because that isn't our relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 12:34 AM
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Well more upfront work, but if you account for the rate of success they'd realize they are getting a bad deal
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 12:29 AM
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First of all, can you show that's the majority or even "a lot" of women? Second, stripping to pay for school is very different than getting a job by dancing/stripping. Let's say 99% of women stripped to pay off law school. If that was unrelated to them getting their legal job why would you care?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 12:27 AM
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Really? Cause I work with women attorneys who put in 12 hour+ days. They've earned everything they got and I saw them treated unfairly for being women. Probably by assholes like you who refuse to acknowledge the work they do and just say, "they're pretty so it must be that". Fuck you dude. I hope you never have a position of power.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 12:24 AM
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My point is that you are wrong. Maybe I'm insane, but I feel most women I've matched with are approximately in my league. I think I'm a good catch, but I don't have a six pack or a seven figure salary. I'm a normal dude. I do have a law degree, but I don't think that's a huge factor for people
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 12:17 AM
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Cool man, not to toot our horns, but are we the rare socially/sexually competent dudes in this forum?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 12:12 AM
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Idk, maybe Brazil is fucked, but that isn't my experience in corporate America. Some of the most competent attorneys, accountants, executives I've known are women. Sorry you are just a sexist pig. Also change your fucking flair. You aren't "leaning red pill" you are one of the most blatant examples of their toxicity I've seen
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 12:09 AM
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They love to talk about how women would prefer to share a chad/alpha/hvm vs be with a beta. Uhhh, not in person. I have never seen a woman sour on a man faster than after he hits on/makes out with her friend. He's basically nonexistent to her sexually after that. It's only on apps where women don't know who else He's talking to that Chads slay
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 12:04 AM
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I'm in a relationship now, but for real. Pretty much every club has a better ratio than tinder. Plus, in person you can typically focus on one person at a time. That's an advantage vs "oh I thought you were cute/my type, but I swiped and matched with an NBA player, so now I'll talk to him" (hyperbole to prove a point)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 11:59 PM
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So women attorneys, cpas, mbas, doctors, etc. just danced their way to the job? Or had big boobs? This is just pure misogyny. Can some women coast off looks? Sure. So can some men, but probably less so than women. This doesn't change the fact that the majority of women are grinding like the rest of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 11:54 PM
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Maybe that's clear to you, but I have no idea what it means. I'm an attorney, my female colleagues work very hard in both their professional and personal lives. So, what exactly do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 11:50 PM
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I won't deny dating apps are bad for men, though I had a good amount of success, but have you considered meeting women through mutual friends or at bars/clubs? To go off your post, at a bar/club you aren't competing with the chad 6'3 doctor, you are competing with other men at the club
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 11:45 PM
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men work for what they acquire, women do not. What do you mean by that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 11:41 PM
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I said it once today, and I'll say it again. These subs are FANTASTIC for my self esteem. I thought I was a normal dude, but apparently I'm a 10/10 alpha chad. Thanks y'all
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 11:38 PM
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This is NOT what I meant by talks about politics. I was thinking more like a discussion about the Chinese initiative in Africa, or the political consequences of lithium mining in South America Lol, my guy you are so unintentionally funny. How would anyone know you meant that? And why do you get to determine what is legitimate talk about politics? Plus, if we are talking about "interesting", who says this is more interesting than a nuanced discussion of machiavelli? And also, this leads me to bel…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 11:32 PM
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There are different types of "liking"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 11:10 PM
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What unpleasant realities?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 10:49 PM
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Or they are a cool person? I'm sorry your capacity w/r/t the opposite sex is so limited
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 10:47 PM
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Man, I missed so many chances with my women friends who never asked me for any of that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 10:24 PM
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(d) think they are cool dude who they have stuff in common with (this is the majority)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 10:21 PM
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It says that some aspect of being a psychopath is an advantage for reproduction. But who cares? You can easily be a normal, chill dude and do great with women. Me personally, I care more about being a good person than having sex. But maybe I'm lucky that I don't have to choose
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 10:18 PM
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There’s no reason for someone in a relationship to spend alone time with a single person of the opposite sex Other than them being a friend? Can you not know someone of the opposite sex without wanting to fuck them?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 10:11 PM
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You do know that most platonic relationships are not like your clearly romantic relationship with this woman. Like why don't y'all just date? You said feelings were there. I have a lot of platonic female friends, I have never slept in the same bed as them, cuddled in said bed, and then acknowledged that feelings are there.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 10:08 PM
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Maybe fine in terms of sex. But if you aren't putting sex on a pedestal you'd realize that a good partner is more fulfilling and meaningful than a lot of casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 10:00 PM
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Does your life revolve around sex or the thought of sex? Sex is like the 8th most important thing for me. Sure, I love it. But my career, friends, family, goals, etc. rank much higher. Maybe psychopaths are more likely to insist on no condom or the like. I have no idea. But being a father when you don't give a shit about the kids doesn't seem like a huge reward for me. Who gives a shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 09:58 PM
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In my experience good men do just fine, men who think they are owed sex for being a minimally good human do bad
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 09:44 PM
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Hey its whatever works for y'all. My GF has male friends she's hungout with alone a lot, and I've hungout with female friends alone a lot. It's not even that they are unattractive, they are conventionally very attractive, but that just isn't the relationship either of us has with them. It like knowing your sister or brother is attractive. You can acknowledge they have good features, but you have zero sexual desire. And w/r/t friendship jealousy, I think it’s if it interferes with the main relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 09:36 PM
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As someone in a relationship, but who got laid a lot before that, there are like 20 things I would prefer to do then having mediocre casual sex. Like read a book, go to the gym, see friends, watch a great movie, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 09:28 PM
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No matter how successful you are, people will still judge you based on the sex and relationships you have (or don't have). Really? Because I have a lot of single colleagues and I have no idea whether they have regular sex or not. I judge them on their work and personality
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 09:20 PM
2

Newton died a virgin by his own account
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 09:15 PM
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3 girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 09:08 PM
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I mean I think it's a common feeling, but it can go too far. I think I can understand if he chooses to hang out with them when he could hang out with you. But I have hung out alone with female friends (movies, grabbing coffee/drinks, etc.) when my GF is out of town or busy. She was cool with it, and, while they are quite pretty, my women friends and I don't have the kind of relationship where there is sexual tension. I think this should be more common
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 09:07 PM
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So are we supposed to take away that psychopaths suck? Or what's the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 09:02 PM
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They also care so so much. Like if my current GF cheated on me I would be devastated . . . for maybe a month or two. Then I would move on and find someone else and learn from the experience. It's almost as if they started from such a romantic place that they could only end up in a cynical place. Less romantic men have immunities and can accept that sometimes people fuck up or are bad people but it doesn't completely jade them
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 08:59 PM
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Neat, works great for me at least
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 08:39 PM
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I mean that's a great physique but not unbelievable/mind-blowing. But who said you had to look like that? Believe me, tons of hot women are with guys that don't have abs. Maybe most. Edit: I mean I basically look like human Shrek with a beard and I've done pretty great
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 08:23 PM
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I interact with her on a near daily basis and we always have a good time and are planning for the future. But could I be? Sure, I guess. But then I'd just find someone else to be with if that happened
/r/AllPillDebate16/09/22 08:16 PM
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Move this, drive me here, answer my text etc Do you mean like: "Could you help me move this?" Or "Could I catch a ride to X?" Like normal things any actual friend would do for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 05:38 PM
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I guess I'm just a chad/alpha then. Man these forums are great for my self-esteem
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 04:53 PM
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I think my GF does that by dating me, hanging out with me, going to my friends and family events, etc. And not to his. Like WTF, it's such an immature attitude. I do different things with my current partner because she's a different person with different interests than my last. However, if there's an overlap of interest/desire, then I'm going to do it with my current partner even if I also did it with my ex
/r/AllPillDebate16/09/22 03:55 PM
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Or you could date someone who has that same interest as you? If healthy eating is important for both of you, there's no "Compliance"; you're both just doing what you want to do. "Leading" is just such a weird attitude for me. My GF and I share a lot of interests, and we each take the initiative to suggest/plan fun things we both like. Do I initiate plans more? Maybe, but I don't keep a tally because having a good time with my GF is more important than "leading".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 03:51 PM
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My GF jokes all the time that most attention I get at bars/parties is from other straight men. I lift heavy things a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 03:46 PM
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Funny, I talk about all that stuff all the time with my GF or other women friends/colleagues. But I will grant that most men think they are much better at having those discussions.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 03:37 PM
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Oh man, I love when people tell on themselves. You were talking mad shit about women not being able to have intelligent discussion and yet you don't know that those are (1) words and (2) used in absolutely the right context
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 03:35 PM
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What broader and deeper topics?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 04:44 AM
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If you don't find someone interesting, don't date them. But it's weird how you get to be the arbiter of what's "interesting" to the detriment of 50% of the population
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 01:51 AM
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It's not about that. It's the simple joy of lifting heavy ass weights. Or as Socrates put it, "It's a shame for a man to grow old without seeing the beauty and strength his body is capable of."
/r/AllPillDebate15/09/22 11:01 PM
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What does the woman offer? Sex, but I presume women want sex as well. Do y'all like the people you date? Have you ever been with a woman who nerds out about the same shit you do? Who makes you laugh?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 10:53 PM
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Also, it's gross. Friendly yes, but compliant? Wtf does that even mean? I'm not my partner's boss, and if she kept doing things I didn't like I'd just date someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 05:56 PM
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I think the issue is you extrapolate way to much from the data. Also just like in nature, a woman will never have this intense desire for companionship or a burning desire for sexual release like men do, which is why the numbers are always in their favor. Where could anything possibly say this? Really? There's conclusive proof that women will never have either of those experiences? Women weaponize sex because they are aware of how much it means to men. For example: 87% of women "moan" to get the…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 10:03 PM
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Why are the majority of posts in here about teenage experiences? Like yeah, being an akward, ugly teenager sucked, but most people just used it to develop a personality and moved on. Did I ever get burned/made fun of as a teenager when trying to ask a girl out? Sure, of course I did. But why should that matter now that I'm an adult? It hasn't happened in like 12+ years
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 09:11 PM
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Evidence - https://www.slixa.com/blog/news/science-reveals-whos-hornier-men-or-women/ Doesn't this say basically the opposite of what you claim?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 06:06 PM
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