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| 0 | What’s it like smashing a big girl?Is she fat or curvy? if she’s 200 lbs Tasmania devil built then don’t do it, if she’s curvy slim thick ig model type then go for it like a crackhead on a trampoline. | /r/seduction | 25/07/26 06:01 AM |
| 1 | I ended a date early on principle and am regretting it. Do I still have a chance?So you’re not looking for anything LT, but get in your feelings when she isn’t either? Odds are she was shit testing you, looking to see if you’d beg for exclusivity. But honestly this could work in your favor, she’s an attractive girl that you kinda rejected and essentially passed her shit test ( at least in her eyes). Next time just invite her over to your place for some gourmet Dino nuggets and dic. | /r/seduction | 28/01/26 03:13 AM |
| 1 | Guys that never got girls in a club setting, what changes did you make to get lucky?When I’ve gone to the clubs to meet women, I’d have a terrible time meeting them. But when I went out to have fun with the boys or by myself , the energy, the laughs, the drinks flowing, everyone dancing, etc. the girls were more receptive. One time i was briefly unemployed, about to lose everything and they invited me out, went and was having a good time when half way through the night a fine ass Latina came up, pulled me in by the neck and whispered in my ear “you fine asf, you’re coming with … | /r/seduction | 24/01/26 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Girl told me she’s not able to date right now but still trying to see meAnytime she hits you up just invite her over to your place, and make it clear you trying to hook up. You probably played it too safe and coming off as a friend instead. | /r/seduction | 28/08/25 11:32 PM |
| 6 | Should i use this girl for dating experience/dick gameImmoral, We hear guys all the time complain about being used like this. Let’s be respectful to the girl and let her down gently so she can find someone that cares for her. | /r/seduction | 05/06/25 03:16 AM |
| 7 | It's not a woman's job to tell you when and where to go on a dateThanks for this reminder, I’ve made these mistakes lately using the excuse of “ im a foreigner in x country…”. | /r/seduction | 26/05/25 01:51 PM |
| 2 | My female friend told me 'I rejected him when he approached me at the bar, but the way he carried himself after I rejected him made me change my mind, so I gave him my number.'These post are always funny from women “ I rejected him… but guys don’t stop trying we like it and it makes us feel good” and don’t actually provide any value lol. | /r/seduction | 24/05/25 04:57 PM |
| 2 | Should I be on this sub if I’m mostly interested in finding a relationship?Yes, Do you think just because you’re not sleeping with your fwb as much and you’ve declared you want a GF that the world will give you one? You need the skills to seduce a woman so she can then see your qualities that you mentioned. Your second paragraph answered your question. | /r/seduction | 15/05/25 02:05 AM |
| 14 | Do you keep in touch After meetimg or hooking up with women while traveling?Well there you go, I see nothing wrong with your plans ( I do the same). Were you up front with her about your intentions? Or you sell her a dream? | /r/seduction | 14/05/25 11:56 PM |
| 27 | Do you keep in touch After meetimg or hooking up with women while traveling?So she was attractive, smart, and you had chemistry, is that rare for you to find in your travels? You never know if you would meet her in/ or she’d invite you to another country, could have hit her up once a month to check up on her and her travels. | /r/seduction | 14/05/25 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Fear and panic when another guy tries his chanceWhen you told the guy the leave, how did that work out for you? Did the girl respond positively? When other guys approached do you just sit there quietly or what have you done? I usually come back and act like I’m her man already say something like “ hey babe who’s our new friend?”. Introduced myself to him and then continued my conversation with her. In the end she’s not your girl so you can’t get emotional if she chooses to talk to another guy. | /r/seduction | 14/05/25 07:31 PM |
| 0 | What to do if girls leave you on read?She did nothing wrong she doesn’t owe him anything, but blocking her is for his own good. Also I disagree that blocking people is not feminine, him blowing up on her, begging her or getting mad at her for not responding is feminine. | /r/seduction | 04/05/25 07:22 PM |
| 3 | What to do if girls leave you on read?The truth is you do care, turn off her notifications, block her and her post. Move on to other girls that are actually interested. | /r/seduction | 04/05/25 06:28 PM |
| 10 | Is it common to date multiple people at once before becoming exclusive?In that case would you be ok if the woman you settle down with did the same? | /r/seduction | 07/04/25 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Are you supposed to get her to meet you the same day of meeting her?1.) don’t ask if she’s single, if she gave you her number and is talking to you then she is. she may be talking to someone, just about to break up, etc. don’t put that thought in her mind. 2.) coming off desperate, you are not a priority to her, she may be hanging out with friends, family, another man. You gotta schedule these things in advance, like a week or two out. This is why you should be talking to multiple women. Ex: you met Ashley today, but this weekend you going out with Shaniqua and … | /r/seduction | 07/04/25 11:11 AM |
| 1 | Should I have approached?Same thing, just let him know what your about to do. | /r/seduction | 06/04/25 09:39 PM |
| 2 | Should I have approached?Should have approached, I’m guessing your friend is an adult and can be by themselves for 5 min. It’s no different that going to the bathroom without them. | /r/seduction | 06/04/25 07:20 AM |
| 1 | need someone to explain me why it happens (regarding cold approach)1.) you seem desperate once she txt you, so for example you meet her Friday she txt you later the same day and you want her to meet you that same weekend. 2.) going off point 1 - meeting on the weekend, if she’s actually busy with school, work, her social life. Then you are asking her to take up time when most people have time to hang out just to hang out with you a stranger. You are not a priority to her yet, so txt her, call her for a little bit and schedule out the date/ hang out time/date. | /r/seduction | 05/04/25 08:09 PM |
| 2 | I did ItNice! it’s kind of fun right? Good job bro now keep it up. This is a skill that If you don’t use will go away. As you know Regret lingers longer than rejection, you’d be on your deathbed regretting not asking her out. | /r/seduction | 02/04/25 11:58 PM |
| 12 | I catch so many looks at the gym…Of course you should, you share a common interest. Also if you don’t end up dating the girl, she an attractive acquaintance providing “social proof” to the other women in the gym. Ex.I approached a girl in the gym, later I noticed she had tattoos ( not for me) but she’s cool and introduced me to her female friends she works out with ( I ended up dating one of them). | /r/seduction | 02/04/25 12:42 PM |
| 21 | Hobbies that could make you better with women?Definitely cooking, I’ve had women come back to my place just to cook with me or just eat and drink wine. This can be a 2nd or 3rd date option, it’s cost effective, will have her engaged ( have her help you prep.), logistically efficient ( already at your place, comfortable). | /r/seduction | 28/03/25 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Just learned the hard way.Girls give out their numbers and never even txt back sometimes, I say go for it the dude doesn’t own her. | /r/seduction | 17/03/25 11:46 PM |
| 2 | Help am i coming to strong ? Needy ?Have you read/ audiobook the book “no more Mr. Nice guy” you could start there. It’s all good bro most men have been in your position ( me included), like you mentioned you neglected yourself, pick up hobbies/ things you were doing before you met her, when you feel like calling or texting her just call or txt a friend or go hangout/ keep yourself busy is what I’m trying to say. | /r/seduction | 17/03/25 07:29 AM |
| 1 | Help am i coming to strong ? Needy ?Ur needy and need to move on and start dating other women, probably best to address why you’re needy first,block this girl cause she will string you along u til she gets in another relationship. | /r/seduction | 17/03/25 06:21 AM |
| 1 | How to get this girl numberI’d say go for it, one day she may never show up again and you’ll regret not asking. Also just make it casual like getting a cup of coffee or something so she knows it’s not gym related but not too serious to scare her off. | /r/seduction | 16/03/25 11:23 PM |
| 1 | How often shall I text with my girlfriend in a day? If I don’t hear from her a couple of times- I feel like I miss her .You should be focused on other things, gym, another job, education, seems like you have too much time that you’re always needing attention in the morning, throughout the day, and at night. If you really want to txt her just send it yourself, no need to wait for her to always initiate the interaction, you can txt her first too, on top of that she may feel she’s always the one starting the conversation. Lastly, you must understand she’s a single mom so she’s really busy with everyday things and on… | /r/seduction | 16/03/25 12:14 AM |
| 2 | Am I too filthy for him?Fail on your part for deleting, leave it there and communicate with him that this is your attempt at trying to “ keep this alive and hot while he is away” BUT do not bring up your past partner. Men tend to start overthinking about the “past partner” thing. Ex: “ how much of a freak was she with that guy, was he bigger than me, did he teach her that?, etc. | /r/seduction | 20/05/24 05:50 PM |
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