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| 2 | Why do people on this subreddit assume the dating/casual world everywhere is like the USA?Then don't use the advice given. Look elsewhere, or create your own sub for people like you. Problem solved. | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 10:59 PM |
| 1 | Why do people on this subreddit assume the dating/casual world everywhere is like the USA?Lmao problematic... What is wrong with you? What are you wanting to get out of posting this question? | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 10:58 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys feel about getting recognized at your local date spotNo biggie. Don't be awkward about it, make friends with the bartender, establish a relationship where you have some inside jokes or something. That will just provide more social proof plus she may be down to wingman for you while you're with another girl. | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 10:55 PM |
| 1 | How do you chat up a girl in a coffee shop?"I watched gay porn one time..... The women never came... THE WOMEN NEVER CAME!!!!!" | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 05:54 PM |
| 1 | How do you chat up a girl in a coffee shop?What's the matter with you? Are you fucking retarded? ....do you want me to be fucking retarded? | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Why is being awkward and nervous seen as creepy by women?Well that's because you don't know me. You think you're a special case. You think you're hopeless. You probably would rather be hopeless because then it takes some blame off of you. You can always say that it's just the hand you were dealt in life, nothing you can do to change. I mean, what are you looking for in even making this post? Validation that you are indeed hopeless? You need to nut up, take responsibility for your misfortune in life and do something about it. Thousands have done it bef… | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 06:23 PM |
| 2 | Why is being awkward and nervous seen as creepy by women?That's an incredibly easy thing to do unless you're planning on dying tomorrow. Give yourself some goddamn credit. This self loathing isn't good for you and no doubt contributes to your awkwardness. How about this: approach one girl a day for the next 2 weeks. Just say hi, and tell them something you like about them. Maybe their style of dress or how they have their hair, etc. Just do that, expect nothing from them. Don't feel like you need to be their friend, just say hi tell them what you like… | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 05:55 PM |
| 3 | Why is being awkward and nervous seen as creepy by women?I'm sure it does hurt. You're going to have to power through it if you want to improve. There's no magical pill to take or words to say to make women feel at ease around you. You just have to deal with it until you don't creep them out anymore. | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 05:20 PM |
| 3 | Why is being awkward and nervous seen as creepy by women?Think of it like this: they may be creeped out, but they're safe, right? You might make them feel creeped out but you're not going to actually do anything that they're afraid of you doing, right? I mean you're not going to rape them, you're not going to kill them, you're not going to stalk them... Let them feel creeped out so you can improve and work on being less creepy. They'll think you're creepy but they'll get over it. If you don't work on improving and accept that in the short term you're … | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 05:11 PM |
| 2 | To do or Not to do ?I can understand wanting to help her out and make her feel better. But as you put it, virgins are a lot of work. Do you think you can actually have a relationship with her or are you just wanting to get laid and increase your body count? There's a lot going on here that's weird, and to be honest, I'd steer clear. Sounds like too much drama or potential for drama to occur, especially if/when her husband finds out you two are fucking. If you're just wanting to get laid and don't see any kind of po… | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 02:22 AM |
| 2 | To do or Not to do ?With how little effort you put into providing any info, I'm going to go ahead and say you probably shouldn't. | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 01:49 AM |
| 7 | Which one?Dude people are different. Every one has different personalities and temperaments. You're not going to get a one size fits all answer for this. Some women take the initiative and some don't. Wanna know something that will make it to where you never have to worry about whether she will take the initiative or not? YOU take the initiative EVERY TIME. If you like her, take the initiative and go talk to her. | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 07:29 PM |
| 4 | M23 wondering how to look more attractiveHair looks good. Overall, I'd just work on your style of dress. Maybe look through some men's magazines, like Details or GQ to see and understand different styles. To be honest you could go out and start gaming today and have success with how you look, but so much will rely more on your personality, vibes, and body language. Think of it like this: how you look/dress will get you noticed or help you stand out. A girl might see you and be interested. Your personality is what will keep her interest… | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 07:24 PM |
| 1 | M23 wondering how to look more attractiveThe clothes themselves look fine. It's hard to tell how well they fit with the pics you took. You're too close to the mirror to see them in proportion to the rest of your body. | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Where to find girls who are more low keyIf it's keeping you from getting laid and you want to fix that, you should probably work on being less abstract and figure out how to relate to more people. Any time in your life when you feel like everyone else is the issue, it's usually you who is failing to adjust. | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 12:22 PM |
| 19 | Where to find girls who are more low keyYeah. I can tell you're 17. | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 02:59 AM |
| 4 | The “Scale from 1-10” is bullshit!I go binary. 1 or 0. Would I hit it, or no? Simple | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 04:21 PM |
| 2 | M23 wondering how to look more attractiveTo add to the haircut bit, I would suggest spending that $50-80 on an initial cut. Then snap some pictures of all angles. Get a note of what size clippers are used. Now you can take that info and pictures to a less expensive place and eask them to recreate it. $50-80 for a haircut 2-3 times a month is a lot, especially if you're just starting out living on your own. I'd imagine OP is a student or working an entry level job where that kind of monthly bill isn't sustainable. | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 04:16 PM |
| 4 | M23 wondering how to look more attractiveWhen you smile, smile with your eyes. The half smirk with mouth shut is kinda odd looking. Get a cleaner haircut, or learn to style your hair better. Short on the sides, longer on top is a good start and make sure the back of your neck is cleaned up. Keep a clean shave. Stubble is attractive if you can grow a full beard, but random patches are not. Wash your face, moisturize. A skin care routine is helpful. You can find info for that on Reddit or YT Your physique is average which isn't automatic… | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 02:53 PM |
| 2 | What differences are there between dating or hooking up when you are in your 20’s compared to when you are in your 30’s?A big one I notice is the double take. Like they glance over at you then turn away, then immediately snap their head back to look at you again. Lots of times I notice they hold eye contact for a split second longer than you normally would with anyone else, then look away and then look back at you. Those are subtle cues. What I see that's more direct is they're more willing to open up and suggest sexual ideas. Like this one in particular, I picked her up and we headed to a restaurant, a kinda tre… | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 11:45 AM |
| 1 | What differences are there between dating or hooking up when you are in your 20’s compared to when you are in your 30’s?It will get as good as the amount of effort you're willing to put into it | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 11:19 AM |
| 4 | What differences are there between dating or hooking up when you are in your 20’s compared to when you are in your 30’s?I didn't smoke anything. I was really drunk, got into a lot of trouble, made a complete fool of myself in front of a lot of people that I liked and respected. The morning I woke up and realized what had happened, every little thing I did wrong while under the influence came to surface in my mind. I felt completely exposed, naked, like I saw the real me and realized how much of an insignificant fool I am, how useless I am to the world and to those in my life and how substance abuse led me there. … | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 04:57 AM |
| 3 | What differences are there between dating or hooking up when you are in your 20’s compared to when you are in your 30’s?Subtle ways of showing it... I just kinda do my thing. I invest in nice quality clothing that fits well and wear a unique cologne. I like watches so I have a few time pieces that I like to wear. And my car is always clean. But those are all things that I just like to do. I hate having a dirty car. I love spending the time detailing it. I speak well, I'm aware of my posture and body language and use it to my advantage. I guess those are all things that anyone at any stage in their life can practi… | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 02:12 AM |
| 4 | What differences are there between dating or hooking up when you are in your 20’s compared to when you are in your 30’s?Fuck 'em. I'd love to learn how to dance! I guarantee if you ask any girl what is more interesting and attractive, a guy that knows how to dance or a guy that practices martial arts, 9/10 are going to say dancing. Doing martial arts is impressive to other guys that study martial arts, or girls that are particularly into that. But to your average girl who just wants to go out and have fun, knowing how to dance is a hell of a lot more attractive. It's like in the bodybuilding community. Guys think… | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 10:55 PM |
| 3 | What's the best way to react in a situation like this?That's the game. And that dude played it and probably won that night. Your ego is bruised. Simple as that. She wasn't your girlfriend, and from the way you describe it, it doesn't sound like you were taking much initiative in pursuing her. Best thing is to just learn from what you did wrong and move on. It sounds like you know that you should have been more direct and acted faster so start there. Are you actually friends with this other guy now or just acquaintances that night? If you're friends… | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 10:48 PM |
| 9 | What differences are there between dating or hooking up when you are in your 20’s compared to when you are in your 30’s?As I'm thinking about it now, I think the best thing is to focus on improving yourself. Try new hobbies, take chances, just try to experience as much life as possible. You know? If you find something you like, pursue the ever loving shit out of it. Get really good at it. You'd be surprised how attractive it is to be passionate about something and to actually be good at it too. If it's a social hobby like rock climbing or something, make friends with those people. Help them out in life. Build a c… | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 09:56 PM |
| 5 | What differences are there between dating or hooking up when you are in your 20’s compared to when you are in your 30’s?He's making statements that are highly subjective and support this cynical narrative that is so common in these circles. That you have to be wealthy, have to have a certain amount in the bank and if you don't, you're destined to fail and be alone. I know this is somewhat hyperbolic, but it's that same mindset that leads men to believe that if you're less than a certain height no women will find you attractive. There are plenty of guys that defy those standards and have success with women. Sure, … | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 09:44 PM |
| 7 | Girl comes during intercourse?Every woman is different. Their bodies respond to different things. If you found yourself a girl that comes from penetration alone, fucking get out of your head, and enjoy that shit dude. I'm all about pleasing whenever and wherever I can, but there's definitely something to be said for just jack hammering the shit out of her and knowing that she's getting off from it. | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 07:58 PM |
| 1 | What differences are there between dating or hooking up when you are in your 20’s compared to when you are in your 30’s?Well said | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 07:39 PM |
| 1 | What differences are there between dating or hooking up when you are in your 20’s compared to when you are in your 30’s?This. A lot of this. | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 07:34 PM |
| 24 | What differences are there between dating or hooking up when you are in your 20’s compared to when you are in your 30’s?Let me first say that I think that what most regard as dgaf attitude is cringe. Even typing it out here feels kinda cringe, but I don't know how else to describe it. So, I'm active duty military, have been in for 14 years. I have a few deployments. I've experienced some pretty stressful situations. I'm also sober. Have been for almost 4 years. I hit rock bottom while dealing with some family issues and my own bullshit. I experienced something that I don't know how to describe other than an ego d… | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 07:29 PM |
| 11 | What differences are there between dating or hooking up when you are in your 20’s compared to when you are in your 30’s?Nice virtue signaling. I'll maintain the open minded approach of teaching my children to not worry about or judge what two consenting adults are doing with each other. | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 07:15 PM |
| 9 | What differences are there between dating or hooking up when you are in your 20’s compared to when you are in your 30’s?These are limiting beliefs | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 07:01 PM |
| 17 | What differences are there between dating or hooking up when you are in your 20’s compared to when you are in your 30’s?There's no age where it just automatically gets easier. Sure as you get older and acquire more life experience and usually wealth and self-sufficiency, it will only help you, but you still have to do the ground work on yourself. Hell, I'm sure there's 20s year old that will out game me all day. Honestly the best thing about being 25 was that rental cars were cheaper when I'd travel. Some of my most fulfilling and fun relationships and conquests were when I was in my 20s. So no, you def don't hav… | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 06:57 PM |
| 54 | What differences are there between dating or hooking up when you are in your 20’s compared to when you are in your 30’s?I think what helped me was that I just continued to work on myself. I had some pretty intense experiences that have shaped me in the past few years and helped achieve a legit and profound relaxed dgaf attitude. I still get nervous when approaching or meeting for a first date but def not like it was when I was younger. Good luck my bro | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Asking for casual sex when you don't want a relationship yetI actually have a perfect example from like 7 years ago: I was on a second date with a girl I met online. She was cute, petite, and pretty jaded. The first date was meh, nothing special, no real connection plus she bitched about her shitty relationships and most recent one where her ex was super manipulative and gaslighting. But we made out in the parking lot for a while after the date. A week later we met up again for drinks. Pretty much the exact same experience. At the end of the date I walke… | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Friendship to FWB? Is it possible?Is there any chemistry or sexual tension between you too? In order for this to turn into a fwb, there needs to be mutual attraction, and she needs to see you as a sexual man. Do you do well with other girls? The quickest way to create that tension (in my experience) is to get with another girl, and without seeming obvious or weird, let it be known to your friend that you're sexually active with this other girl. Keep it nonchalant. Put the girls you're sleeping with ahead of your friend. Say you'… | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 06:01 PM |
| 300 | What differences are there between dating or hooking up when you are in your 20’s compared to when you are in your 30’s?In much of my 20s I never had success with the young early 20s girls. Now in my mid 30s those same girls in that age range throw themselves at me. I still look pretty young, still in the same average shape, but more money, nicer car, more relaxed, less desperate. | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 05:40 PM |
| 3 | How often do girls agree to a date solely to be entertained freeHow old are you? Women want the same thing they've always wanted. | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 03:01 AM |
| 1 | I have been on 100+ dates with success rate of 5, how do I improve?Jesus this. Bro needs to put on his dgaf hat for a split second and make a move. That's all it takes. You either get a kiss and progress or you don't. Laugh it off or something idk. Stop wasting people's time though man that shits messed up. If a girl is traveling to see you, assume sex and proceed. Smh | /r/seduction | 08/06/22 01:15 AM |
| 3 | Never text her too oftenThis is pretty solid advice | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 10:37 AM |
| 1 | Advice here actually works!Well no shit dick wad. What is the point you're trying to make? | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 03:29 AM |
| 2 | When a girl tells u her most innermost secrets!In my experience, when a woman is opening up this much to you but there's no sexual tension coming from her, then she's too comfortable with you and feels absolutely nothing romantic towards you. You're essentially the big brother or gay best friend to her. Not to be insulting at all, just describing an archetypal role you might be filling in her eyes. You're both married, both unhappy her awaiting divorce papers to finalize, you...are just unhappy? Personally dude, I'd stop worrying about wheth… | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 03:07 AM |
| 1 | How forward/direct/sexual should you be?If she finds you attractive whether physically or just digs your personality, you can get away with saying and doing things you wouldn't be able to if she didn't find you attractive. Only problem is most women don't tell you right off the bat whether or not they're into you, so the best you can do is just do you. Sometimes it will land, sometimes it won't | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 11:24 PM |
| 1 | How to be a chick magnet?This is key | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 10:37 PM |
| 3 | What motivates you to flirt with women?You came here feeling sorry for yourself asking for advice and you're criticizing someone who gave an honest, legitimate answer and is transparent in his reasoning for why he likes what he likes...? You're a sad sad person. Who even are you, Elliot Roger? | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 11:39 PM |
| 5 | What motivates you to flirt with women?How old are you? If women constantly reject you, it's probably cuz there's probably something wrong with you, or your method for meeting women. Figure out what that is and fix it. Like, what are you bringing to the table that would make a woman choose you over Chad-Thundercock? Have you ever blown your load inside a beautiful naked woman? Cuz that's usually motivation enough to want to do it again and with someone different. What motivates me to flirt is the possibility of making a new acquainta… | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Going for the kiss if not going to lead to anywhere?Yeah people have lives to live. Do you think that a woman is supposed to drop everything and go on a date with a total stranger she just met? Who are you, Elliot Roger? | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 05:21 PM |
| 0 | Going for the kiss if not going to lead to anywhere?Dude I'd proceed as I normally would in any date. Theres a high probability she doesn't have anything actually important going on after the date. She just said that to give herself an out Incase it goes poorly. "Oh this date with OP is awkward and weird, I like country music and he likes rap...good thing I've already disclosed I need to pick up my dry cleaning and return some video tapes. So I have an acceptable reason to leave early" There's also a high probability that if she does actually hav… | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 01:41 PM |
| 1 | Going for the kiss if not going to lead to anywhere?Lol incredibly flawed thinking. work on yourself. | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 01:33 PM |
| 1 | How do I know if a girl gives me the fuck me eyes or she is just casually looking up because Im taller?Hard to describe, but I knew the first time I saw them that it was definitely fuck me eyes. Their gaze softens but at the same time they glare deep into your eyes. There's often a movement in the mouth and brow. Idk hard to explain. Watch a movie where it's clear the girl wants to fuck then keep a look out for that I guess? | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 07:38 AM |
| 2 | what to sayNeed more context. Why are checking up on her? What are your intentions in texting her? What is she doing while you text her? Does she have any food allergies or a pacemaker, etc. Need more info. Otherwise I'd just say "sup ho" | /r/seduction | 15/03/22 05:32 PM |
| 3 | Should you be the guy she shares her problems with?The only woman you do this for is your wife or girlfriend. Or a woman you have no sexual interest in | /r/seduction | 18/12/20 04:51 PM |
| 3 | Let's make a group for daygame challenges !Or live your damn life however you want and don't worry what others do | /r/seduction | 21/11/20 06:05 PM |
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