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Constant romantic rejection demoralizes them. Similar to fans of sports team who go decades without a playoff win. They see no hope. It why self improvement mental and physical so important.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 04:42 PM
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He likely the sterotype of a timid liberal guy when most liberal men are a mix of personalities. Same way most conservative men are not a sterotypical Hulk Hogan type but regular guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 10:22 PM
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You literally claimed women only comparing men to their peace but also state women do not want ugly poor men anymore because they habe financial independence now. Which is true but it undermines your whole point that women dating selection more wholesome than men. Both genders are equally shallow and that just human nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 03:39 PM
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No she was not and that still false. Men want sex more than women but both want relationships at similar rates. She clearly stated women do not compare men to other men. That a fairytale world as much as men love in relationahips more from sexist men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 03:23 PM
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Still can not defend your statement so you resort to petty insults like a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 03:18 PM
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Yeah she claiming women judge men less rigidly and do not do comparisons to other men. That as delusional as sexist men saying men are only capable of love. It gender bigotry 101.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 03:18 PM
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Can not defend your statement. Understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 03:12 PM
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Absolutely is. Framing women as morally superior is as foolish as sexist men claiming their standards are more grounded in reality. Both genders are shallow because were animals. The veneer of civilization makes people forget that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 03:11 PM
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Attractive men and women get away with toxic behavior more. That just human nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 03:05 PM
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Many people are racial,and religious tribalists. Having bigoted views does not stop men from dating and marriage contrary to reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 03:04 PM
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Significant portions of men and women cheat. Both genders are competing against other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 03:01 PM
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If their a conservative traditionalist. Anyone with common sense realizes those primitve gender roles were for when women were legally barred from high wage jobs so if a man was poorer than a woman then usually he was a bottom feeder finacially.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 01:45 AM

Most men can and do date down in looks for sex. Fit men date fit women but sleep with overweight women. Overweight and normal skinny men date overweight women and sleep with obese women. Obese and superskinny men can date obese women but do not have a tier to go down to have easy sex. Which is why they complain online.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:25 PM

Older people have more traditional social norms and are less superficial because their all breaking down from age.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:21 PM

Most young americans are overweight but not obese. It a different level of unhealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:19 PM

Less attractive not repulsive. A fit men get with overweight womrn for sex but not obese women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:17 PM

The obesity epidemic plays a roll. Top quarter men are in low supply and high demand. Most men are in moderate demand. Bottom quarter men are in low demand and can not rely on money like their grandfathers. So they must physically improve or accept their place in the sexual hierarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:12 PM

Most men who struggle in dating are just physically unattractive and repel women on a visceral level. Plenty of above average and average men are morally terrible people with wives and GFs.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:55 PM

Most men can get sex outside relationships just with less attractive women than themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:51 PM
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They really have a low sexual value problem. Above average men are in low supply and high demand. Most men are semi attractive with moderate demand. The bottom quarter of men are unattractive with low demand. So their in a scarcity mindset and reality. They need to self improve berfore volume approaching.
/r/seduction05/06/26 02:22 AM

Depends on the quality of man. Lowly and moderately desirable men are in high supply and low demand. Highly desirable men are in low supply and high demand especially in the past 40 cohorts as most men have big belly small arms dad bods by then so gray bearded muscular oldheads with money can date only pre menopause women if they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 02:44 AM

Its really just bad physiques from poor diet or pregancies. Many hot girls in my graduating class a decade later now are busted from eating fast food but no longer playing afterschool sports or birth a litter of kids with different men each.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 02:39 AM

Because most men are low to moderate desirable which are in high supply and low demand.Highly desirable men are in low supply and high demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 10:43 PM
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Don't know what fantasy world your living in. Above average men usually are married/dating or have a rotation of a handful of women. Because their in low supply and high demand. Many average and below average men are married or dating but it much more difficult for them. Because their in high supply and low demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 08:22 PM

I already stated general caution amongst strangers isn't the discussion. It dogma against others whether racial,gender,etc are inherently different and dehumanizing into wild predators.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:36 PM
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Men do the same when they approach women clearly more attractive than them then get surprised they get used for money. Both genders must be more realistic in their options.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 10:56 PM
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Average and below average men are more desperate now because they can't rely on money like their grandfathers. Above average men with the internet have easier access than men in the past to run through attractive women. It why male dating advice that promotes physical fitness is more popular now than building wealth which is what boomers were raised to do. Especially with the obesity epidemic being moderately muscular with low bodyfat is in low supply and high demand for both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 09:41 PM
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No but those couples usually last longer. If one person feels they could do better they usually cheat then leave. Equal exchange is the name of the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 09:36 PM

Remember alot of guys here have autism. They think approaching women at night in a Walmart parking lot is GAME.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:08 PM

Humans are social animals from evolutionary pressures.Male competence is judged by ability to attract many women. Female competence is judged on the highest quality of man she attracts for long term commitment. It why adult male virgins are looked down upon similar to older women who are single and childless. It vice versa for older male childless bachelor's and adult female virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:04 PM

Your half right half wrong. Most men can find partners and single women generally want men they find attractive to approach. It just that usually it men they find unattractive physically or mentally if not both that approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 06:56 PM

Your quite literally lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 05:31 PM
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If you break down by age groups young women cheat more until mid life then men cheat more. It makes sense young women are more sexually valuable than young men so they have more options. Then vice versa for older men and women. Your gender bias is clouding both your judgments just like people who judge their own race with positive bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 05:31 PM
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Both genders cheat at roughly the same rate on general surveys. Pushing the other gender is more evil rhetoric is nonsensical.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 01:48 PM
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Both genders cheat at similar rates just for different reasons. People are too narcissistic and think the other gender more untrustworthy when it a Human problem. If anyone honestly think their gender cheats less and knows how to love properly is arrogantly delusional. Too may misogynyists and misandrists push that nonsense dogma like religion.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 01:19 PM
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The issue was extreme generalized rhetoric becoming a dogma of it own. Being wary of strangers especially if their stronger or outnumber you is common sense. Humans also remember negative experiences better than positive or neutral experiences so that clouds our judgment from gender,race,etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 12:58 PM
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The extreme feminist argument which is similar to racial bigots uses generalized bigoted language to demonize the perceived criminal element. Male violence against women is a global problem that requires extensive societal solutions. Painting men as natural predators of women is no better than when racists uses dehumanizing rhetoric to justify dogma.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 12:16 PM
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Men and women lie and cheat in dating/marriage at similar rates ( 1 in 3 ). Lesbians have the highest rate of domestic abuse and Gay men have the lowest divorce rate. Men are more physically violent because of evolution like most males of their species on the planet. Those men are usually more attractive as well to women because weak timid male partners meant death for the family. Immoral violent men from racial bigots to religion extremists or criminals find gfs and wives. Women aren't the mora…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 12:03 PM
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It all stems for being physically weak and unhealthy which is unattractive to women in a sexual context. Also unattractive to male peers in dominance competition hierarchy. Humans are apes with primal urges for tribalism,greed,sex,resources,and establish dominance hierarchies. From children in schools to adults at work or on the geopolitical stage. Bullying the weak links is common in most animals in the adolescent period to strengthen the group overall by forcing them to improve or removal from…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 02:57 PM
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Above average men are in low supply and high demand. The abundance of options makes them more confident and less needy than most men. Average and below average men act more needy because they have less options and are desperate to a degree.
/r/seduction22/05/26 03:25 AM
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Women don't in general because of the pregnancy risk. Humans have neocortexs so were not as purely driven by instincts as most animals but our primal biology still influences us. We're not free from it. Our chaotic civilization is evidence of that on the individual and collective level. Tribalism,greed,and violence flourish among us because we evolved from violent primates not angels.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 06:39 PM
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Denying evolution is the same as denying gravity. It evidence is all around us. Why don't you accept humans are tribalistic and greedy animals with primitive instincts influencing our personal decisions in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 03:41 PM
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Outliers exist. Some men want men or women want women. Humans are animals with primal instincts that influence our decisions in dating,politics,economics,etc. There is general pattern to human sexual behavior based from our millions of years of primate evolution. Mankind left the cave but the cave never left mankind.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 03:38 PM
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It common sense knowledge. Men don't have the pregnancy risk so they are more liberal in their sexual behavior than women. This goes for all males animals on the planet as well except sea horses because their males get pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 03:02 PM
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Most people date in a assorative manner. The problem is men go down in looks casual sex and that confuses those less attractive women into thinking those men are on their level and their better than the men who are similar to them in looks and health. Our evolutionary biology and modern technology is a mismatch.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 01:05 PM
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They also never approach women as a man. Lesbians and bisexuals unless their over 6 0 and unusually jacked for a woman don't naturally intimidate women like a normal man would. Women worry about telling no to men who get violent in response so that a undercurrent in straight dating unless the guy short and weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 12:57 PM
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The apps shows the profiles with more likes as well to keep women engaged.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 12:55 PM
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That only effects top tier women. It the fact average to below average women have easier access to men above them in looks now than previous generations did. Above average boomer men in the 80s and 90s had to hit up clubs etc to pull women usually. Now above average men can shop for women like Amazon.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 12:53 PM
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Datetime don't matter if you smash afterwards.
/r/seduction21/05/26 03:38 AM
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Some people marry for love others marry for business.
/r/seduction21/05/26 03:37 AM
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I got buddies that are above average. They smash women then eat leftovers from their foodie date who just got a kiss.
/r/seduction21/05/26 03:36 AM

Yes they are. First is race. Most people prefer their race and have racial exclusions on other races. Body type another one. Most people dont like superfat or superskinny bodies because their unhealthy. The lack of attraction is evolutionary hardwired into most people. That without getting into religion and politics. People are gonna reject you berfore you say a word and that ok. Just improve what you can and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 04:05 AM

No people that have low confidence usually have low desirability. Confidence based on nothing is delusion. People improving their fitness also improves their mentality. You need both to be attractive overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 03:49 AM
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Men with high muscle mass and low bodyfat to have a V taper physique are uncommon. Women can have a hourglass physique with high or low muscle mass because biology puts their fat in the glutes and lower body usually while their young so their more common but still in low supply since most people are fat or weak.
/r/seduction03/05/26 02:14 AM
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Men also have the physical strength to put down unwanted suitors. Only comparison is prison where non hyper masculine men are targeted for assault constantly because they are deprived of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 07:32 PM
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China has that problem and their society isn't falling apart just their birthrate. It a false assertion to push their worldview on frustrated men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 07:23 PM
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80/20 rule only for online dating. IRL people date and marry in a assortative manner along racial age and body health lines.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 06:36 PM
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Men actually excerise more than women but women are more sexually selective than men because of the hardwired pregnancy risk.
/r/seduction28/04/26 02:22 PM
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No. I'm a guy. This is simple biology. Men need to build muscle to get a V taper. Fat doesn't go to our shoulders or arms but our torso and face first.Young women can be overweight with a hourglass with fat going to their glutes and legs first because of estrogen.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 02:44 AM
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Now your being too emotional. Both genders lie to get what they want from the opposite sex with giving up the least
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 01:20 AM
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Depends if more was promised or not. Similar to men who pay for dates and get upset when no physical affection showed back. Going into romantic relations with unrealistic expectations done by both genders. Men can't buy sex from women usually and women can't sex love out of men usually.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 12:06 AM
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Context matters. Overweight young women can still look good because of biology. Obese young women are so big biology can't help their appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 12:02 AM
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Women under 40 fat despots go to lower body to maintain a hourglass figure while young men fat goes to torso and face
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 08:30 PM
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Men are willing to date outside racial body and age preferences for sex but get selective for dating or marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 08:28 PM
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Wanting sex and long term commitment are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 08:24 PM
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More biology. Men aren't sexually selective as women because no hardwired pregnancy fear. Same for all male animals on the planet expect sea horses with the males getting pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 01:46 PM
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That just limiting your pool to your network but dating pool is different from Midwest towns to coastal major cities.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 01:43 PM
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Most people prefer similar age partners but physical fitness can extend people prime years. As a young man I've been attracted to women in their 50s who were still fit with a hourglass physique. Now age gap relationships seem untenable because of different life stages physically and mentally personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 12:40 PM
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Anything in life worth value takes effort and work. Only thing given to you is a death sentence for being born.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 06:19 AM
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Desperate and unattractive men have no dating standards. Attractive men are selective in dating from race,age,and body type while unselective in casual sex. Women are selective in both because of the hardwired pregnancy risk filter.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 06:17 AM
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Sex options not dating options. Men are not that picky in looks for sex because no pregnancy risk but only settle at their level in dating because of the financial effort and family friend circle exposure. Attractive men are about a quarter of the population and same for women as most people are fat and poor. Instagram model looks in either gender are rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 03:16 AM
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Most women are fat and poor just like most men so attractive men are picky with their dating options like attractive women are with their sex and dating options.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 03:09 AM
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Because attraction is hardwired into people and suppressing that primal drive is extremely mentally unhealthy for most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 03:06 AM
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Most weightlifters look like they don't lift because of bad diets. Point still stands about human physical fitness and attraction.
/r/seduction20/03/26 11:05 PM
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Obviously not all. Some women like fat or skinny men or women. Just like some men like fat or frail women or men. Most people in both genders what healthy and physically developed bodies. Denying that is denying reality.
/r/seduction20/03/26 08:20 PM
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Honestly for alot of guys it's starts with getting women but many reach a point where they satisfy that urge and just do it for the work on themselves.
/r/seduction20/03/26 08:03 AM
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20 to 40 pounds of muscle is natural and enough to attract women and be noticeable in clothes. It the men with 50+ pounds of muscle that look like freaks. Like men love big butts but not BBL baboon butts.
/r/seduction20/03/26 08:00 AM
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We're not talking about roided bodybuilders just jacked naturals think baseball and football players.
/r/seduction20/03/26 07:56 AM
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Women are heavily attracted to natural muscular bodies like a martial artist. Bodybuilders only appeal to women Bodybuilders and gay men. It equivalent to saying men don't like big butts when men like natural big butts not BBL baboon butts.
/r/seduction20/03/26 04:28 AM
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That belief rooted in positive sexism not reality.Negative sexism paints women as emotional and unintelligent beings needing men guidance and rightfully reputed. Positive sexism paints women as these pure hearted angels who judge men only by character in attraction when they are animals with primal urges for food and sex just like men. Physique is foundational for attraction just like gender race and age.
/r/seduction20/03/26 04:24 AM
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Women literally are hardwired to like muscular men with a V taper just as much as men are hardwired to like women with a hourglass figure. People keep trying to reinvent the wheel when bodygame been known for thousands of years. It why those ancient statues are aesthetic men not frail sticks or land whales. These other dudes are coping.
/r/seduction20/03/26 04:21 AM
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Google exists. I'm not stating sources for basic stuff like the sun is hot.
/r/seduction16/03/26 02:54 AM
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Should I bring scientific studies for claiming the earth is a globe or rotates around the sun. This is basic stuff people should know about. Like we all get hungry and will die someday.
/r/seduction16/03/26 01:13 AM
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Stating basic evolutionary science is facts. My opinion on those facts would be feelings.
/r/seduction16/03/26 01:10 AM
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Again your trying to prove a fantasy worldview. Humans have racial gender and age preferences and exclusions. Acting like physical attraction isn't the foundation of relationships is delusional. People need to accept the reality we are animals with primal urges.
/r/seduction16/03/26 01:01 AM
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Humans are animals with primal urges for food and sex. People have gender and racial and body exclusions in dating. Ignoring that is ignoring reality
/r/seduction15/03/26 08:31 PM
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Being physically attractive is like people with above average memory or athletic abilities.They don't realize how good they have it until they age and their body starts breaking down on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 01:42 PM

Monks and priests have to spend decades of mental and physical training to suppress their desires and even still many still struggle with sexual or drug addictions.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 08:03 PM

Because sex and relationships are a primal urge just like food. Your hard coded to desire it. It why gay people who try to suppress their sexuality get depressed and unalive themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 05:22 AM

They understand but it still a sexual turn off. Just like we can understand a nice pleasant woman but if she obese it a turn off. Can't argue with primal instincts from millions of years of evolution.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 05:02 AM
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People expect the 40 year old Virginia stereotype. Similar to people thinking all players are 6 5 perfect jawline and muscles with Sixpack. It cartoonist in both extremes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 04:59 AM
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Women still get played by attractive and arrogant men just like men get played by attractive and narcisstic women. People fall weak to their primal temptations in food and sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 04:56 AM
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Women are attracted to powerful men in body mind and resources same way men are attracted to healthy and intelligent but still pleasant women. Humans are just animals with primal urges for food and sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 04:54 AM
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Agree and disagree. Humans are tribal paranoid and greedy animals with primal caveman impulses for food and sex. Religions and customs try to curtail these instincts in both genders but nature wins in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 04:48 AM
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Context. I'm was referring to men can't get pregnant so they are more willingly than women to go down in looks for quick sex. Obviously any healthy young woman can get pregnant. Humans also all bleed and breathe air as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 05:32 PM
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That just the sexual game. Attractive men are willingly to sleep with less attractive women because we don't get pregnant. It similar to unattractive men who get food dates with attractive women but no sex. Just like it unhealthy to compare yourself to rich people don't compare yourself to above average looks people. Just become the best version of yourself physically,mentally,and financially and see what you can get. In this one life you don't get a choice in what cards you get just how you pla…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 04:19 PM
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Your not living in reality if you think drugs use and masturbation valued equally as sex with another person in mutual attraction. Physical validation is being acknowledged as physically attractive. People don't value what they have in abundance and value what they lack. Rich people it money and attractive people it looks.Poor people,and unattractive people think about what they lack constantly. That's human not weakness. Now constant complaining isn't gonna change reality so people have to try …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 04:01 PM
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Using drugs or constant masturbation aren't healthy replacements for sex with attractive partners. That common knowledge. Not being physically validated effects all genders straight or LBGT people. Just like constant validation makes people confident or arrogant the reverse constant negative remarks makes people depressed. Again it why fitness is preached because excerise changes your brain chemistry and physical form.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 03:37 PM
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They're usually physically attractive and use that to manipulate aroused women to their advantage. Similar ways attractive women use aroused men to manipulate. Halo effect is real and both genders are guilty of it. It why people should vet people the more they are your physical type.
/r/seduction20/02/26 03:28 PM
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Masturbation doesn't doesn't satisfy like being with a physically attractive person and the mental glow afterwards it just a quick fix. Men being too pushy for sex are either too desperate so their starving or they're so attractive they're used to getting sex easy. The latter usually just find another woman since they have alot of options. Which is why physical fitness is preached to unfit lonely men so they stop being desperate and needy to women and go from a scarcity reality to a abundance re…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 03:23 PM
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Most people date and marry their gender counterpart in looks. If your struggling to find someone your either overestimating yourself or your a racial minority in another race enclave.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 03:06 PM
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While being dependent on external validation is unhealthy criticism of people who receive little to no validation that they shouldn't let it affect them is as delusional as people who receive constant positive validation that they shouldn't be confident. We are still social-sexual animals and mental health deteriorates when those needs aren't meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 03:03 PM
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It's not the advice itself that frustrating but the quality of the advice. Instead of preaching of personality flaws it usually poor physical fitness. Best advice I've gotten was from above average men who used to be below average and across the board they got results after improving their physiques. Personality was secondary. Reality is were all animals with primal urges that live and die.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 12:30 AM
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No a male ick would be a woman that yells and cries constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 07:27 PM

Humans are animals. Looks matter more than personality is the norm and natural. Attraction is non controlled. A straight man isn't attracted to a man. And a gay man isn't attracted to a woman. Acting like looks is a secondary filter is delusional. Now people who only care about looks are delusional as well and usually have bad relationships and a nasty divorce or two. Reality is they both matter and looks is the primary filter then people usually judge their character and moral compatability. Go…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 06:18 AM

Your obese with a wife that probably obese as well. Obesity is unhealthy and unattractive to most people for obvious reasons. Attraction matters more because sexuality rooted in evolution looks for health and symmetry. Being a good person a bonus not a requirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 03:26 AM
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Overzealous response. Many bisexuals do still prefer the opposite sex while others prefer the same and then you have the ones who are 50/50. That just reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 01:58 AM
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Many bisexuals are still prefer the opposite sex so they only engage in homosexuality in unique circumstances like prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 04:30 PM
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If he actually said that word for word he a actual creep. That insult gets overused by women when unattractive men approach them but in that context it appropriate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 02:46 PM
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Many men and women cold approach they just have to be attractive as the person and not weird. You got approached by someone weird and less attractive than you so your paranoid but that how many people meet before the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 02:43 PM

Black men still vote more liberal than any other race of men and nore than white women who voted majority Trump.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 02:41 AM

For whites. For other races it different. Black men are more anti Trump than white women for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 01:03 AM

Attractive conservative men have no problem finding conservative girlfriends or wives. It the average or below average conservative men that struggle since most young women are progressive or centrist.Especially the ones with the passed down boomer men entitlement in a modern dating age.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 12:59 AM
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I explained because the gay community more tight knit than the lesbian or wlw they're relationships are more stable.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 05:19 AM
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Disagree. Bisexuality more acceptable for women so alot of bi women date women then cheat on them with men(real preference) while many bi men only date women because of public perception. It's why lesbians value lesbians over bi women the most while gay men have a kink for taking a "straight" secretly bi man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 05:06 AM
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Age old question are women prettier or are men just more horny. Because lesbians report difficulty in approaching fellow lesbians while gay men have the highest sex rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 04:55 AM

Conservatives are literally obsessed with religious extremism and racial dominance.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 02:26 PM

Coming from the people who push racial dogma and religious conspiracies constantly that rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 02:25 PM

Empty promises
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 02:03 PM

Meanwhile repubs are becoming 1940s politics.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 02:02 PM

That just as delusional as gay people being privileged in a straight supermajority. Equality feels like oppression to the privileged.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 02:01 PM

She ran a bad campaign and had two immutable disadvantages in race and gender. People forget Obama was so charmastic he won red leaning and white supermajority states in 08.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 01:59 PM

As a man it just reactionary backlash. It's common in every nation throughout history whenever a oppressed group get equal standing in hierarchy the formerly oppressive group responds with hostility because humans are tribal animals that value dominance hierarchies just as much as wild apes in the jungle.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 01:56 PM

White men. Other races of men aren't shifting right as much because of republican hostility to non-whites.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 01:47 PM

That's a conspiracy theory pushed by white conservatives to justify bigotry against non white hiring. Just as irrational as religious belief.Accusation without evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 01:44 PM
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Less about testerone and more about the pregnancy factor. Every female animal on the planet more sexually selective than their male counterpart because of the birthing/fertilization factor. Only exception is sea horses because the males get pregnant weirdly. It also reminds people were all primal animals apart of nature not above it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 12:28 AM
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Because of tradition values women are shamed for having sex and specific sexual preferences outside immutable features like race and face and height. Women wanting certain body types means they're just as carnal as men and not above the perverted fray that religion and gender roles force them to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 11:59 PM
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Most women like men with high muscle mass with a overweight BMI. That takes 2 to 3 years for most men to achieve and can maintain into your 50s. Most women don't like bodybuilders who have obese BMIs with super high muscle mass from steroids. Even skinny models like Tom Hiddleston have some lean muscle. Most women sont like obese BMIs whether fat or muscle or underweight men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 11:51 PM
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Different races of women do prefer different levels of muscle on men.Just like different races of men prefer different butt sizes on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 11:47 PM
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Same for women. Not all obviously but meet plenty of attractive women with husband's and boyfriends who are terrible people themselves because it's overlooked because their hot or atleast cute women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 05:38 PM

What you expect they go through life as women not men. Even lesbians/bi women dating dynamics witj other women will be different for men. Just like men can't give women advice on period hygiene unless their a medical expert. Attractive men who were previously unattractive whether super fat or super skinny give the best advice because they know both sides of dating. Similar to a rich person who was raised poor giving financial advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 12:52 AM
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I'm non religious and multiracial so I vote left out of self preservation and ideology but do have issues with third wave feminist demonization of men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/09/25 08:23 PM
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I'm speaking a general. Of course most women aren't going after only top tier men that a terminal online take. They are going for men above them that attainable. Like a 4 wanting 6 or a 6 wanting a 8 because they can sleep with those men but not date them because men lower their physical standards for ONS but raise them for relationships. Women don't do that and can't understand that male mindset. It why gay men have higher body counts than any other sexual orientation.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 12:52 AM
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It's not older men because the average age gap for straight couples is 3 to 5 years. So women are limiting themselves to attractive men. They are the first generation of women to be able to financially live without a man and date online with attractive men outside their local town. Today young men will need to put more effort than their grandfather's who benefited from patriarchal laws that forced women to find husbands to survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 12:31 AM
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As a former Christian that was the moral position of me and my extended family. My granduncle tried to kill his son for being gay with a shotgun. To religious fundamentalists homosexuals and pedophiles are equivalent in immorality.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 10:54 PM
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No but some people are with their friends usually women because emotional expression less social taboo for them. A healthy relationship requires a physical and mental connection. Without the physicality it's just a deep friendship and without the mental it's just a situationship. Only instance of a non physical relationship is a marriage where one partner incapacitated like a coma or severe disease but the physicality was there before their health collapse.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 02:02 AM
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Healthy relationships require both or either its a friendship or a situationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 11:16 PM
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Women care about the physical as well. They have ideal racial,facial structures,and body types just like men do and are more picky about it because of the pregnancy risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 11:14 PM
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Most people even have moral red lines for their children like if they grow up to be a murderer or pedophile.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 11:11 PM
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That's a friendship not a relationship then.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 11:09 PM
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Expensive dates are fine if they pay the tip to show they give a fuck and aren't using you as free food. You shouldn't have to ask for the tip pay as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 09:27 PM
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Better argument would have been men feel about obese and old women how women feel about most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 06:07 PM
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Not a virtue just makes dating life easier. Similar to rich people have to worry about getting robbed more than poor people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 03:26 PM
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Better comparison would be men not wanting obese women or single mothers. Bringing homosexualiry into a heterosexual context is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 03:24 PM
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Only men who can claim that are autistic and physically disabled men. Most men just need to improve their looks(high muscle mass+low bodyfat),personality that attracts more people than it repels,and a stable financial status. Everyone won't get equal results because of facial and racial preferences but doing those three things will help most men globally.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 05:41 AM
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Won't matter when AI takes all the jobs.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/25 04:52 PM
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You could argue churches have been radicalizing children to become superstitious adults hateful of other demographics of people based on a magic book written by irrational middle eastern goat herders.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 05:14 PM
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They know what they want but are socialized to more forgiving to men looks because of puritan culture from Religion while men are encouraged to be as vain as possible since childhood. They still as vain as men but are socialized against expressing it. Same with racial preferences. Everyone has them but people get uncomfortable expressing in public in fear of public perception.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 11:18 PM
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The dorito chip physique does great as long as they have big legs to match their strong torso. It the the Johnny Bravo physique that unappealing and mocked.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 11:10 PM

Young people being priced out of the housing market and education doesn't help. Can't support a family as a taxi driver like boomers did.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 08:42 AM

The internet has inflated both genders dating expectations. We're the first humans to have internet are entire lives seeing how it affects people in real time. Seeing attractive people affects the brain like hard drugs. You only see so many in person before the internet. Now you see a ocean of them in a day online. Same as the obesity rate caused by food addiction. We live in a technological civilization our biology wasn't designed for and can't keep up with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 08:38 AM

Humans are average mammal difference with male and female strength,size,and reproductive chances. We're not extreme like elephant seals with the males being twice the size of the females and only 1 percent of males reproducing
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 08:36 PM
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To be specific there is transhumanis technology and different ideological movements within the transhumanist movement on what to do with that technology.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 06:14 PM
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Christianity is a ancient superstitious myth. I'm talking about real world technology and the worldwide transhumanist movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 06:08 PM
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Their are also those on the far right who say we should embrace those primal urges and want a pure darwinian survival of the fittest type civilization. I'm a leftist that believes mankind won't evolve until those primal urges are uprooted out of our DNA like a cancer via biotechnology or cybernetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 06:04 PM
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I've seen super religious conservatives think the same as well
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 05:56 PM
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People don't like evolutionary reasons for human behavior because it reminds them of the brutal reality that we all are just animals with phones and clothes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 04:44 PM

40% men and women are obese. 30% overweight. 20% underweight. 10% are fit and healthy. The average man can get a obese GF but most don't want one for evolutionary reasons like women with short&unfit men. They don't exist to above average men and either settle for the below average men on their level or die alone wanting above their league like broke men wanting a IG model. The internet warped both genders sense of dating reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 05:55 AM

Casual sex wise yes. Relationship wise no. Many gay men complain about how gay dating has the horny drive of straight men without straight women pushing for relationships. Also factor they don't have the social pressure to settle down and have kids while young so they can play the field until their golden years then find a sole partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 05:44 AM

Another privilege is straight/bi people having so many options population options versus homosexual people having less than 10%. That's without getting into mutual attraction and relationship availability.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 01:52 AM

The women are right but instead should use obese women and elderly age women instead of gay men for hetero men and having unattractive options.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 01:47 AM

It be more correct if you compare it to obese women and elderly women. Both genders have options of the opposite sex they aren't attracted to as long as your average among same gender peers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 01:43 AM
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Depends on the quality of women you go after that you can be equivalent to in looks. Most people are overweight or obese. As a man get 20 to 30 pounds of lean muscle and sub 15 bf which is about 2 years in the gym that teenagers do you will be in low supply and high demand. Just like slim waist big hips women it's a zero sum game because of evolution.
/r/seduction07/02/25 09:41 PM
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It more based in evolutionary psychology. We are just animals at the end off thre day.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 06:03 PM
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Average Western man and women are overweight/near obese. Just because the average person unhealthy and unattractive doesn't change humans natural inclination to fit people who are an increasingly small pool in the west as we get fatter. Your as rare as a fit muscular person in the west as a person with a million dollar net worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 01:01 AM
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Studies have shown most men and women of all races and cultures want fit/muscular members of opposite sex to reproduce with. Do some people want anorexic or obese yes but they are the minority. Women think they need to be a size 0 to be hot just like men think they need to be built like the Hulk. Both are extremes not rooted in reality. Both genders like moderate fitness forms.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 12:52 AM
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Both genders have ideal body types because of darwinian evolution. Plenty of men and women have improved their dating options by consistent excerise and diet.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 12:39 AM
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Better analogy be obese woman with a gun approaching you in the parking lot at night beacuse the physical strength difference scares women more than just being male. Beacuse they don't like getting catcalled by old men but their one misstep from a stroke and not a physical threat. Even tall burly lesbians talk about being treated like men with long hair by straight women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 04:38 AM

I accept that but use that to filter friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:34 AM

I care about reasons. Some people voted beacuse of race and gender on both sides which is caveman mentality and unreasonable. Others voted for policies which is atleast understandable even I hate those said policies.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:27 AM
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Yeah if you gain atleast 20 pounds of muscle and 15% bf you will have your pick of fit women as long as your near normal in other attributes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 10:32 PM
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Alot of people don't like to be reminded that their animals that will die someday.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 06:21 PM
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Humans are a sexually dimorphic species like most mammals. Where the males are bigger and stronger than females on average. If women didn't prefer taller muscular men the genders would be the same height and strength on average like foxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 01:51 PM
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Humans have existed roughly 100,000 years and had civilization for roughly 10,000 years. Are technology has outpaced our genetic development which hasn't changed much since cavemen days. We are hairless murder apes with nuclear weapons. Expecting humanity to behave ideally is like expecting a toddler that just learn to walk to win at the Olympics.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 04:44 AM
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Humans are naturally semi polygamous since most of humanity existence 1 man to 2 women reproduced before civilization started. It can't be blamed on men died more hunting because women hunted too unless pregnant or child caring. If women weren't picky we never evolve past cavemen era. Also if they were as picky as elephant seals where 2 percent of males reproduce we never have a functioning civilization. Most mammals gender wise behave similarly in sexual selection beacuse it works not because i…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 04:16 AM
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Sexual selection is and has been a zero sum game for all of biological life existence. Outside of cultural enforced monogamy you can't being equality to a situation that by it very nature is inequal without forcing couples together like the middle east which is evil. Unfortunately this part of life that brings us the most psychological pleasure also brings us the most psychological pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 03:57 AM
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Just like for most people walking no problem. But to a handicap person walking a fantasy they use to or never had.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:56 AM
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Both realities can be true. Women want the ability to have their own money and a financial partner so they have options to get out bad relationships. Something similar for men is maintaining high level of fitness while in a relationship so you can replace a woman if she cheats on you easily. People don't putting all their eggs in one basket and it's not good for one own survival in any aspect of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:08 PM
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Women lack of financial freedom forced many to marry men they wouldn't have if they could open their own bank accounts. As we see in present times women remaining single because their survival is dependent on a man providing. They are generally still attracted to resource abundant men beacuse of tens of thousands of years of evolution. Just like men want to impregnate as many HEALTHY women as possible. The evidence we are animals is everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 06:56 PM
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Personality matters especially for long term partners but you still have to meet their minimum looks threshold unless you got serious wealth. Working on your personality is for people who get dates but can turn them into long term relationships not people who disgust the opposite sex at a visceral level.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 01:37 AM
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That's because of evolution. Women have been picking the men who have the most resources for tens of thousands of years and men want to pick as many HEALTHY women as possible. Notice the best looking women pick rich men and the richest men have bodycounts in the hundreds or thousands. We behave this way beacuse we are animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 01:13 AM
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Beacuse women only had the ability to open bank accounts for 50 years so young men are dealing with women real preferences in dating older generations didn't have to experience beacuse they limited women financial freedom.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 08:03 PM
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Because of Obesity the health standards for both genders went to hell so people who were mid in the 80s are now exceptional attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 11:21 PM
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It does if your average height and face for your ethnic group.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 11:12 PM
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The Darwin Pill
/r/seduction04/06/24 07:10 PM
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The CDC polled men about their health and 70% said their fit when 70% are obese or overweight.
/r/seduction04/06/24 07:08 PM
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No it takes 2 to 3 years to hit the 1.6 shoulder to waist ratio for most men. 3 months in the gym isn't gonna do suit for increasing attraction unless your on roids or a midget.
/r/seduction04/06/24 07:05 PM
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Men and women find different body types attractive. Obese is the worst for both but overweight men do better than underweight men while for women it's the opposite because women want men bigger and stronger than themselves and vice versa. Most men are also fat and weak so if underweight men gain 20 to 30 pounds of muscle and be lean they become a rare commodity in high demand like women with a hourglass figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 04:10 AM
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You can't use logic to persuade people who believe something without logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 10:44 PM
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Adding plurality shows the nonsense of the question because you are safer with 100 men than 100 bears. If you pick a apex predator over half your species that's how you win a Darwin award. Also dogs kill more people per year than bears but I still pick the dog. Fear of strange men or women is valid though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 10:27 PM
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Humans are animals and behave very similar to our ape cousins despite what religion and society preaches but it doesn't justify behaving like a caveman in modern society though it gives the explanation why so many people are hateful greedy and violent.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:05 AM

That's how collective punishment is justified like in North Korea if one person critical of the government their entire family for three generations is imprisoned. You can take someone debt but not their sins. Progress is made when everyone working for a better equal future not generational trauma hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 04:57 AM

Calling out and stopping is different from collective responsibility and accusation. Just because sheriff Bob in Georgia shoots unarmed black people doesn't mean Billy in Arizona responsible for his actions. Now if he agrees with those actions that different. You can only control yourself and try to influence others but their actions are not your sins.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 04:43 AM

Unfortunately people dehumanize groups that are different from them whether it's gender race or religion and since humans evolved to remember bad experiences over good ones they use that to justify Hate and distrust. It's a flaw of mankind nature from caveman survival days.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 02:50 AM

Men are not individually responsible for rapists no more than all white people were responsible for lynching of blacks in the south.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 02:41 AM
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Humans used culture like gender norms to enforce what humans evolved to like in the opposite sex. Reproduction is a inequal fierce competition based on sexual dismorphism and darwinism just like other mammals we are related to. Some people don't like that and think we moved beyond our caveman DNA but evidence in every race and nation shows we havent.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 09:59 AM
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Both genders have evolved to find certain physical and personality traits in each other attractive that are discriminatory but is the reality of the situation so both can either try to become as close to the standard albeit one genetics as they can or give up and shut up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 09:34 AM
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Context is important a predatory man and bear is picking your poison while a random bear and random man clearly a dumb question unless you believe in literal collective behavior based on gender,race,or religion
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 01:44 AM
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Unfortunately common sense isn't common
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 01:37 AM
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