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I don't find fitness fun either, especially when it's cold as hell outside or when I'm not feeling motivated. But I still try to go 3 times a week no matter what because what you do now sucks, but the benefit pays off at the end :D
/r/seduction02/01/12 06:22 AM
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Thanks for the post. I usually can do the "Hi, how are you doing" and a quick compliment like "That's an unique scarf, where did you get it?" parts easily. But when it comes to asking them out, I get nervous. Do I just say "I enjoyed talking with you/You are pretty cute/etc", smile, and hand her my phone? If she rejects you, what do you say? Just smile and say "not a problem, enjoy your day" and leave?
/r/seduction01/01/12 06:51 AM
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If she rejects you the first time, on the second date, do you just escalate the same way and hope she is more comfortable? If she keeps rejecting you and you keep trying, is that too forceful?
/r/seduction28/12/11 01:41 PM
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What do I do to never tell? Should I say "Wouldn't you like to know?", "no no no, tell me about you"
/r/seduction25/09/11 03:01 PM
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I did not know Mystery was hated on? I love that guy. He's weird in a good way.
/r/seduction15/03/11 11:40 PM
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You are right 100%. I wasn't confident enough to keep pushing it.
/r/seduction05/12/10 05:14 AM
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Yeah that's what everyone has been telling me, got to escalate and flirt the very first meet up. Just wanted to post what's been happening so far.
/r/seduction05/12/10 05:13 AM
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Aw man, really wish I knew this one month ago... How do I know if she is accepting my touching? Like if I give her a high-five or touch her arm, how do I know she likes me so I can move in closer to her?
/r/seduction03/12/10 11:23 PM
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It always seems strange to bring up the subject of sex. I know if a girl is very open, it's easy. But if the girl is reserved and stuff, won't she feel a bit uneasy?
/r/seduction03/12/10 11:19 PM
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Any good 'phrases' to say? I'm not never good at being flirty and stuff. :(
/r/seduction03/12/10 07:15 PM
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I don't think you could of said it any better or clearer. Damn, that was good!
/r/seduction03/12/10 04:25 AM
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I don't think you could of said it any better or clearer. Damn, that was good!
/r/seduction03/12/10 04:25 AM
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When I take her out next time, whether that's for a whole day or just for a lunch, I'll try to engage her in a good conversation and get her to talk about her (we know each other briefly from before) to build comfort and do basic kinos, then later on I'll try to escalate more. If the girl is independent/reserved and not one of those whiny, "i got to talk about myself", should I be doing the same thing? Just try to open her up with a good conversation.
/r/seduction03/12/10 04:24 AM
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So to not be in the friend-zone, I have to escalate the very first date and keep going? Is escalating kinos creating comfort? In addition to having a good conversation and getting to know the person?
/r/seduction03/12/10 04:06 AM
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Thanks, I'm nervous! Hope it goes well :)
/r/seduction03/12/10 04:04 AM
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This is probably what I'll do based on what I read from the posts. PLAN: I'll try to do basic touching when we first me, and I'll try to find a place where we can have a deep conversation about passion, future job, talent, etc. And while she's talking, I'll reaffirm her by touching her arm and shoulder . My major concern is how do I transition from the 1st step to the 2nd step of escalating kinos without making it awkward? From basic touching to holding hands and her knowing you are touching her…
/r/seduction03/12/10 04:03 AM
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A seddit university would be awesome for PUA! I really need to get better with girls. I go to George Mason University in VA, anyone around that area? PM me please
/r/seduction29/11/10 06:02 PM
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A seddit university would be awesome for PUA! I really need to get better with girls. I go to George Mason University in VA, anyone around that area? PM me please
/r/seduction29/11/10 06:02 PM
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How do you know if a girl is reciprocating kinos? Like if I go hold her hand and she accepts, that's reciprocating right? What about the first level? If I go touch her arm, give her a shoulder hug, how do I know if she's reciprocating because I don't think she'll give me a high-five or something. I always can't tell if a girl is giving me IOI...
/r/seduction29/11/10 05:57 PM
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Awesome post, just what I need to get a date. But I got a few questions: -When you say "how can we make it happen" and she says "find me on facebook", should I just say "I was thinking of your number" or something -I am in college, so there isn't a lot of ideal date places, only some hangout places/restaurants (can't go to bars, under 21). Can I text her to come over to my dorm and just chill? How can I word it so it doesn't sound so creepy but at the same time she knows it's a date and not hang…
/r/seduction29/11/10 01:50 AM
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Should I be flirting the first time I meet her? or after I get to know her better and ask her to grab some food? Are there any good articles on flirting? i know there's a bunch on escalating kinos. :)
/r/seduction27/11/10 06:01 PM
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Where can I find more about push/pull? What is that exactly? I know about escalating kinos and really wished I done that earlier with the girl I liked...
/r/seduction24/11/10 06:31 PM
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Thank you! Will definitely put it 45mins!
/r/seduction22/11/10 02:34 AM
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Yeah that was my problem, I didn't make any attempts at escalating...damn. So you are saying the next time I see her, I should shoulder hug her, arm brush, touch arms with her? How do you know when to move on to the next level(hold hands)? I guess my question is how do I know she is responding positively so I can escalate higher. Do I just go for the hand holding and if she doesn't like it, stop?
/r/seduction22/11/10 12:53 AM
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I usually focus on the conversation, make it towards her and her interests. And I also try to increase kinos, going from the greeting hug to the hand touching.
/r/seduction21/11/10 06:13 PM
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You shouldn't decline her invitation, just stick with basic kino like touching her arm, shoulder hugs, high-five. Then after a while, take it a level up and see what happens.
/r/seduction21/11/10 06:06 PM
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Thanks man, will definitely continue getting better.
/r/seduction20/11/10 09:23 PM
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So you are saying that when I take a girl out for dinner and I give her a high-five, touch her arm, hand, give her shoulder hugs, then move to holding hands, I can be able to kiss her?
/r/seduction20/11/10 04:52 AM
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Why is it when she starts complaining to you that she views you as a friend? I never really got that.
/r/seduction19/11/10 10:48 PM
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You are right, I have been texting her for small talk before and I def am probably friend-zoned. Got to do better next time, so stick with texting only for date-setting. :)
/r/seduction19/11/10 10:46 PM
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Very true, going to get a drink with her and see. But my view is that girls don't just text guys for nothing right? So there's got to be a little bit of interest?
/r/seduction19/11/10 10:14 PM
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Welcome. I am new to PU but those seem like good openers. To me, I feel it's what you say after the opener that gets the girl's attention..
/r/seduction19/11/10 01:53 AM
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O man, I like this girl right now and mostly we talk through IM and texting. How can I fix this? Should I call her at night instead of texting/IM her? Is it bad that we have conversations online/text? I text her 'how was ur day', 'wuzzup', and other casual things. What should I be texting her about then to build attraction?
/r/seduction17/11/10 06:28 PM
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Yeah, I'm going to up kino like hell. Touch her whenever she laughs, touch her arm, leg, hug her,etc :)
/r/seduction17/11/10 02:20 AM
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Wow loads of good info. Thanks a bunch for putting in the time to do this. Going to follow these advices!
/r/seduction16/11/10 06:08 PM
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Care to list some techniques to make it clear you are going to kiss a girl? I think I def need to show her that I like her through touching, then if she likes it, I'll go for the kiss.
/r/seduction16/11/10 05:25 PM
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Shouldn't I kiss her when she seems interested? I mean if we are just talking in the car about school, job... Is it bad to kiss on the goodbye hug? or should it be in the middle of a conversation? OKAY-->I'll just turn to face her, get close, smile, hold her and go for it. Gotta grow some balls!! EDIT: Is it too late if I haven't made a move yet and it's been 2 months? All i been doing is talking to her.
/r/seduction16/11/10 04:53 PM
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Great advice, thanks. Like the quote, I'll use it! No more verbally saying "I like you". Now i gotta make the move, hold her hand and stuff.
/r/seduction16/11/10 04:44 PM
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YES SIR, RIGHT AWAY!
/r/seduction16/11/10 04:25 PM
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Yeah I see your point, does make me sound needy. I got to start touching her, and see how she reacts when I place my hand on top of hers. Is there any techniques as to how to make the move? I figure I'll say something sweet about her and grab her hand. EDIT: Is there anything else I can do to make it obvious to her that I like her? I'll say "you look great" and "I missed you".
/r/seduction16/11/10 03:56 PM
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