spaceman06 Archive

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–	Women’s Selectivity Is a Major Cause of the Orgasm Gap in Casual Sex But where you ever sexually attracted to people where you are not at a serious relationship with? Something like "If I were at a serious relationship with him at this specific moment I would make sex with him"? Because if the answer is a no, then its not you dont do casual sex because you arent a whore, the thing is you dont usually feel sexuall attraction towards people. I can want a motorcicles but would never steal one, or I could not care about motorcicles. If the second it doenst mean I wou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/26 03:25 PM
–	Women’s Selectivity Is a Major Cause of the Orgasm Gap in Casual Sex he was talking about casual sex	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/26 01:47 PM
1	Why is black pill wrong? To most women redpill is wrong. 85% of women have responsive desire and 25% of men too, outside of fertile period (1-2 days every 28 days for women) and infatuation phase (but only toward the guy(s) she/he is infatuated with), the desire 1 "do I want to have sex and do sexually adjacent things with person X at moment Y assuming we are single, or if we are at relationship, at this relationship we are?" is always a no (remember this is unrelated to desire 2 "would I have pleasure doing sex with pe…	/r/ExRedPill	19/05/26 11:45 AM
–	So how do you know that a guy is not a fuckboy? "I don't believe unless they mention sex first one date 1, that sex is something to be discussed that early." When you have that catholic point of view, yes it is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/26 12:31 AM
–	Do you think that women have responsive desire? Yes 85% of women have responsive desire and 25% of men have responsive desire. Responsive desire happens because of qualitative low testosterone, since most women have qualitatively low testosterone they have responsive desire. I saw a spontaneous desire women becoming responsive one after menopause reduced her testosterone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/26 01:51 PM
–	What’s a recurring pattern in your dating life, and what do you think it says about you? Actually not, what happens is: There are 2 desires for everything. Desire 1 "Do I want to have or do X at this moment Y?' Desire 2 "Would I have pleasure doing X at this moment Y if it was happening?" Both can be yes and no, or just one no. The problem is that when asked, wome say what what desire 2 is a bigger YES, and thats not enought. People here at reddit always ask (about sexual desire or romantic one), and they dont specify and women assume its a question about desire 2 being a bigger yes…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/26 02:09 PM
–	Do women value/need safety and social/emotional signals to be intimate? Yes, all sort of safety concerns not exist at lesbian sex and lesbians dont want as much sex as your average biological cis man. So the answer is something else, or this is just part of the answer. If I dont enter rooms with a red door because of trauma (but can leave rooms with red doors), if I dont want to go to a almost any restaurant X, Y and Z where all of them dont have red doors, this means: A)The this red door trauma theory is false and the reason I dont enter rooms with red doors is som…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/26 01:39 PM
–	Do women value/need safety and social/emotional signals to be intimate? "I think it's more about safety. Women face by far the most risk in heterosexual sex. " Wrong as same thing happen at lesbian sex. Its just limitations (rule for it that doenst apply at any other area of life) that happen just because and not out of personality or morals (its low qualitative testosterone) and you have to pass all of it to have and want sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/26 12:58 PM
1	Nuances on spontaneous and responsive desire Responsive desire people have those nuances types. First: Desire 1 "Do I want to make sex and sexually adjacent things with person X at this moment Y assuming we were both single (or if we are at relationship together, at this relationship)? Desire 2 "Would I have pleasure doing sex and sexually adjacent things with person X at this moment Y assuming we were both single (or if we are at relationship together, at this relationship)? Both can be a yes and a no, or just one a no. To responsive desi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/26 10:39 PM
1	Men shouldn't approach women unless the woman has "genuine desire" for the man. One question, after around a time betwen 3 months 3 years, did this sexual desire (that cause behavior) reduced alot? Did it reduced to an amount around 1-3 days each 4 weeks?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/26 06:22 PM
1	Men shouldn't approach women unless the woman has "genuine desire" for the man. "For starters, if a woman approaches a man and compliments his appearance, he can at least be certain that she finds him attractive. " "Congratulations", you are either a men of type 1 (that thinks women works like men) or type 2 (that know women have limitations but dont know entire context). A women can say a men is beautifull like a flower at garden or beautifull as the sunshine or as a beautifull napkin made by her aunt. But we arent a napkin, or the sunshine or a flower, we are a person. A …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/26 06:15 PM
1	Men shouldn't approach women unless the woman has "genuine desire" for the man. The average usa unique sex count is 10.7 If you order women from usa from 14 to 44 years old, by unique sex count, bottom 50% have a unique sex count of 1.33 at average. Yes only 1.33 men around her vinicity (and others cities she travelled to) are sexually attractive to her.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/26 06:11 PM
–	Contrary to popular PPD beliefs, lower testosterone levels in women are not responsible for lower libido "I mean, I guess it would matter if you were trying to derive a formula for female viagra or something." A not injected vacine that cure cancer not work to cure cancer. A low libido women wont want to use that, because she doesn't want this amount of sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/26 11:20 AM
1	The overwhelming majority of women don't initiate or make the first moves because they are cowards. I am not pua men, the videos I saw (because of procrastination) were totally bullshit stuff, they assumed and talked about women like they were neurodivergent humans And you cant know they arent pua.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/26 03:00 AM
1	The overwhelming majority of women don't initiate or make the first moves because they are cowards. Here is happening with women like you: I’m very shy, and I tried watching YouTube videos to stop being shy, but most of them basically said you need to do things only a non-shy person could do. So they were useless. Then YouTube started recommending seduction videos. Because of procrastination, I watched some, but they talked about women like they were a neurodivergent group instead of half the human population. A big part of their advice was always: “Don’t care about rejection, you learned some…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/26 02:25 AM
1	The overwhelming majority of women don't initiate or make the first moves because they are cowards. thanks god you arent a lesbian	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/26 12:16 AM
1	The overwhelming majority of women don't initiate or make the first moves because they are cowards. "and because they don’t like women who have sex" few words prove you wrong, homosexual males at grindr	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/26 12:14 AM
1	The overwhelming majority of women don't initiate or make the first moves because they are cowards. so you assume the average men works like you and dont bother them. You are basically the reverse of a catcaller, the catcaller (type 1 men) believe a women is like him and catcall her (type 2 knows women have limitations but dont know entire context would catcall only whomen that call him beautifull or is using more provocative clothes, there are 6 types of men) you assume most men works like you and never bother one	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/26 11:11 PM
1	What are the signs that a woman is genuinely desired - and not just settled for as the available option? I have a theory that 85% women and 25% man that have responsive desire have " just because" limitations towards sex and sexuality, then at infatuation period ( 3 months to 3 years) they become closer to spontaneous desire and feel more easily stuff, their brains rationalize the guy/ girl he being more special. One example of just because thing is the anxiety crisis emotion that something bad is happening and rationalization is the idea that you are feeling that because your heart is beating real…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/26 03:30 PM
1	How to communicate sexual desire with looking totally weird? So basically everyone has secution% that is percentage change of seducing someone and goes from 0 to 100%, But this is just a percentage and you apply to something, so result is secution% of person that you tried. And if you use sucess as data this will be biased towards famous people or people that tried alot (a problem approval voting system have when you have tons of candidates you cant know everyone). So he basically has lower seduction% and increase his amount of tries to make up for that?	/r/seduction	30/12/25 01:51 PM
1	What separates women who have higher standards for casual sex from those who have the same/lower standards? " It assumes the opinion about someone is immediate and unchangeable. " Nope and I am literal example of that, had a friend, and spend 5 years and few months being her friend before having sexual desire for her (because of shyness and she was my friend, usually didnt looked her body long to be able to see what thing X her body is, because X can attract me by itself makes me feel something) and then 4-6 months after it had romantic attraction. My point is that if Z +W is greater than X + Y, she h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/25 10:17 PM
1	What separates women who have higher standards for casual sex from those who have the same/lower standards? Imagine: X = the number of men she would want to enter a relationship with after thinking "I want to have sex with him" and actually doing it (including the step to confirm she truly wanted it). Y = the number of men she thought "I want to have sex with him" and actually did it, but did not want a serious relationship with him, either before or after that thought. Z = the number of men she decided she wanted to enter a relationship with only, before deciding she wanted casual sex with them. W= t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/25 09:07 PM
1	What separates women who have higher standards for casual sex from those who have the same/lower standards? "That's why as a general rule, something can be true, but you take it to absolutes. You don't see nuance, you don't recognize what "statistically" means, you take it as a universal rule." Rules have to deal with exceptions or its not a good rule and is problably a bad rule. It a rule for some behavior have exceptions for the rule you gave for it, you are problably doing this behavior "just because" (like emotion "something bad is happening or is going to happen" when you have an anxiety crisis a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/25 05:01 PM
1	What separates women who have higher standards for casual sex from those who have the same/lower standards? "Something men never have to think about which leads to inaccurate takes like these. Casual sex for women is high-risk, low-reward." Even for lesbians?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/25 05:00 PM
1	What separates women who have higher standards for casual sex from those who have the same/lower standards? Most men (75%, and also least amount of women 15%) dont have "just because" limitations towards sex and affection, so when a women (those with the limitations) do sex and get infatuation towards the guy (or stuff he did to get sex caused infatuation and influenced her to do this first sex) she most of time, assumes the guy is way better than he really is because the lack of those limitations that make harder to her be ok with and want affection, sex and sexually adjacent things with someone. Thi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/25 04:59 PM
1	What separates women who have higher standards for casual sex from those who have the same/lower standards? "The idea of having lower standards for someone I'd have to see and interact with more makes no sense to me whatsoever" It could make sense if you assume you HAVE to be at a serious relationship. Lets simplify into protection factor(money, personality, know martial arts, is strong,...) vs fun factor (, sexually attractive, like to do sex, do good sex, is funny, like to have fun....). You dont need to pick someone with a protection 8.5/10 and fun 4/10, you also dont need to pick protection 7.5/10…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/25 04:42 PM
1	Nuances on spontaneous and responsive desire Ok, will respect you. Sorry for asking such personal quesiton.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/25 11:47 AM
1	Nuances on spontaneous and responsive desire You didnt answered the question. Do you worke like X, Y Z or W?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/25 03:17 PM
3	Nuances on spontaneous and responsive desire He was taking about women not caring about beauty. But beauty influence if the beauty make him look like he has something she doenst want. Dont feel sexual attraction to younger guys, his beauty make him look younger and she doenst feel attraction. Dont feel sexual attraction to lazy people. The way he dress make he looks like he is lazy. Dont feel sexual attraction to those who look like he will be doing sex with her just because he is a male gold digger. Able to feel attraction because he look…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/25 02:22 PM
1	Nuances on spontaneous and responsive desire "I think a lot of the time people are missing that women are more attracted to personality than looks" MAYBE, maybe we are commiting a fallacy. But it would require some teste to check it, so please answer those questions, and answer if you are of type X, Y, Z or W. One question do you look at men bodies outside of fertile period and honeymoon phase, what about other women, they do it? Maybe a fallacy is happening and we are thinking women dont feel sexually attracted ("Would I want to make sex …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/25 02:16 PM
1	Do women like sober casual sex? But if you could snap your finger and become nor nervous, would you do it? I mean you can have: 1-You are nervouness and know this nervouness is making you not wanting it, not really yourself not wanting it. You drink alchool to remove it from yourself and make your true opinion show. 2-You are nervouness and know this nervouness is making you not wanting it, not really yourself not wanting it. You are drinking near people and drinking makes you less nervous and you decide you want this sex afte…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/25 05:31 PM
1	Do women like sober casual sex? Most people to go other cities using vehicles, yet vehicles arent free and walking is free.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/25 05:26 PM
1	The ability to find FWBs, not relationships, is the measure of how sexually attractive a man is. To know if a woman have higher standards for casual sex, just ask this question: Have you ever any boyfriend (or person you would want to be you boyfriend) that you didnt had any casual sex before being his boyfriend? Making casual sex because you want him to be your boyfriend and at your mind this already count as being at a serious relationship with him (as his yes to that is the only thing left), doenst count. Women here, feel free to answer this question. Another question, to those boyfriend…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/25 01:00 AM
1	The ability to find FWBs, not relationships, is the measure of how sexually attractive a man is. One thing to avoid that is to check if she has a high body count, I mean if she has low body count, do you think your body and soul is made of gold, do you really think that with tons of man out there with tons different personalities and bodies only you (and few others) were able to make her want do something with? "high body count" because she is a serial monogamist doenst count. But serial monogamists usually arent able to have real high body counts.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/25 12:50 AM
1	Why don’t women desire men as much as vice versa? Actually, not when you increase your testosterone alot or have alot of natural testosterone (close to low level man testosterone), their libido increase. Not only libido, but (sorry to say that) because responsive desire (that 85% woman have and 25% men too) woman work like a neurodivergent person, this include rationalizaton for what she do or not do and etc, the difference is night and day. I know one example of a woman that was spontaneous desire and lost testoterone because of menopause, she…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/25 01:56 PM
1	The ability to find FWBs, not relationships, is the measure of how sexually attractive a man is. actually more one night stand with womans not at fertile period then fwb	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/25 12:19 PM
–	How should the playing field evened out for men who seek casual sex, when men and women are not equally open to casual sex? lesbian vs gay ecosystem show you are wrong	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/25 12:54 AM
1	Being likable does not mean being sexually attractive. "They are saying it in the context of getting into a romantic relationship which would obviously include sex at some point." Not exactly: r/DeadBedrooms	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/25 12:06 AM
0	Do you think it's ok for men to be with women they're not attracted to because they can't do better? ", he'll need to work on lowering those (same goes for women)" They dont as being single is a choice and casual sex is a choice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/25 08:21 PM
5	Do you think it's ok for men to be with women they're not attracted to because they can't do better? Being single is good. You date someone because this specific person is better than being single. Being single is a good wine, being into a relationship with an awesome person is a extremely hyper good wine.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/25 08:18 PM
1	Responsive desire is not sincere and is completely transactional, unlike spontaneous desire. Nope its, not thats why man complain about it just later in relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/25 08:14 PM
1	Responsive desire is not sincere and is completely transactional, unlike spontaneous desire. desire become spontaneous during honeymoon phase and last for 3 months to 2.5 years, and this can happen during pre-"i'm your girlfriend" era (dont know the name in english), its impossible to know, unless you research her past.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/25 07:44 PM
1	Do women generally experience shame about sex and their sexuality? " because the risks of sex (pregnancy and potential pariah status)" Lesbians make more sex than homosexual man, this may be false.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/25 01:47 PM
1	Do women generally experience shame about sex and their sexuality? "Just smiling is enough for some men to believe you're into them, now imagine what being openly sexual would do." Because woman don't do it and arent sexual, so if a woman is confortable with doing sexual thing X they assume they are wanting the guy or wanting sex. Thats why many men think woman that is using revealing clothes, love sex alot and casual sex and etc... They believe a average woman wouldnt be ok with using it, unless she is a sexual person. The same for calling a person beautifull.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/25 01:40 PM
0	How many times have you guys gotten laid from cold approach "personally i got about 10%. BUT you have to know how to recognize DTF women" Then you are inflating your numbers by not trying with some, your ratio is not 10%. Its like only playing with elo 400 chess players to get a chess win rate of 90%.	/r/seduction	06/06/25 03:32 PM
-1	How many times have you guys gotten laid from cold approach "How many times have you guys gotten laid from cold approach" Your question is already wrong. What matter is the ratio of sucess. Person A =seduction% of 50% (is able to seduce to get laid 50% of hetero/bisexual women he tries) and tries with 10 = 5 times getting laid. Person B =seduction% of 5% (is able to seduce to get laid 50% of hetero/bisexual women he tries) and tries with 200 girls = 10 times getting laid. Person be is 10x times worse, but got laid 2x times more. The problem you are using…	/r/seduction	06/06/25 03:28 PM
2	How come women dont realize how hard is it for men to get laid ? https://contexts.org/files/2016/06/GI3.jpg One study trying to find the gini coefficient (number usually used for money inequality) of amount of sexual partners	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/25 02:28 PM
2	How come women dont realize how hard is it for men to get laid ? This table shows something different. https://contexts.org/files/2016/06/GI3.jpg	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/25 01:52 PM
2	How come women dont realize how hard is it for men to get laid ? "They really think our world revolves around their penises 🙄" He is talking about sex as lesbians dont have tons of sex compared to heterosexual man and are as exactly as you are and no problem that exist because he is a man would exist with one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/25 01:48 PM
1	Women are turned off by any proactive behaviour by a man two impress or date a woman. They only respond well to naturals. "Yes one can pretend/play up-to a certain point" He is talking about doing stuff to seduce woman and not to pretend. As some example I go to the gym and take care of my beauty only because attraction related stuff, I dont do it for myself at all. This is not pretend, I really go to the gym, buy clothes and go to the barber, and if I had a girlfriend I would still do that because she deserve a hot man, it would be evil as fuck becomming hot to attract people and then stopping to take care of your…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/25 01:38 PM
1	Women are turned off by any proactive behaviour by a man two impress or date a woman. They only respond well to naturals. "Women are turned off by any proactive behaviour by a man two impress or date a woman. They only respond well to naturals." You are talking about responsive desire, that 85% of woman have (outside of new relationship energy and fertile period) and 25% of males have. Things have two desires "I want to do or have X" and "I would be having pleasure if I had X or was doing X", both can be true, both can be false, or just one can be true. You can have the first one being false while the second one be…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/25 01:29 PM
2	How come women dont realize how hard is it for men to get laid ? "Women don’t generally want to risk STIs and pregnancy so random men can get off whenever they want. Why can’t we understand their “plight”?" Lesbians don't do alot more sex than homosexual man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/25 01:17 PM
1	Do women pursue attractive men just for casual sex? "And yes, all of the above are also reasons that women don’t want to have casual sex with men." "Women not wanting to have casual sex is not a “problem to solve”. Why in the world would we want to?" Because: 1-Making sure the woman dont become pregnant when she doesnt want to is good thing to try to archieve. 2-Teaching a man how to have care about a woman pleasure is good, caring about a woman plasure is a decent thing to want men to archieve. 3-Being afraid of being raped is bad, we must stop …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/25 09:24 PM
1	Do women pursue attractive men just for casual sex? then the problem is NOT: 1-being afraid of pregnancy as this doenst happen with lesbians 2-Bad sex because man dont understand woman as they are dealing with woman when its lesbian sex. 3-Being afraid of stronger man raping her as another woman isnt a stronger man. Then its a matter of society finding what what the real answer is and then teaching people how to solve the issue.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/25 08:38 PM
1	Do women pursue attractive men just for casual sex? One question, do you know if lesbians do less casual sex than hetero woman? Because to discover something, we can always look at related things without problems that we talk about. If we dont like pizza because the pizzaman always assume we like pineapple at it and put pineapple at it and pizza with pineaple sucks, does ordering pizza from a pizzawoman that knows pineapple at pizza sucks and will never make a pizza with pineaple a thing?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/25 05:45 PM
1	Do women pursue attractive men just for casual sex? "Not wanting commitment means you’re looking for a flesh light. The only parts of the woman you’re interested in are the ones that are going to pleasure your genitals. " It means he is not demisexual. By your logic he either need to feel sexually attracted only by people he is romantically attracted to. OR Feel romantically attracted to every single woman at this earth.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/25 05:41 PM
–	Men and women talk about two completely different things when they refer to "casual sex" "I am love with him and will do casual sex because I am as in love as me as his girlfriend and we will maybe get togheter or thats what I want", is by definition casual sex, BUT for the sake of discussing certain things, the distinction must be made.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/25 11:48 AM
1	If you have to chase a woman, you've already lost. Your post is bullshit, research about responsive desire, your post is wrong for 85% of woman and 25% of man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/25 12:49 PM
1	If you have to chase a woman, you've already lost. "Men with lots of testosterone love to chase. I love men who will pursue me hard. Not sorry for it either." Nope, they dont, 850 testosterone here. Its just that because of responsive desire (85% of woman have it and 25% of man have it), they NEED to activate their desire.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/25 12:48 PM
1	If you have to chase a woman, you've already lost. Let me ask you something, you dont pursue, but do you actually feel something before someone pursue? Lets imagine you decided to be the kind of girl that pursue man, would you be able to do it (outside of fertile period) or you would still not be able to do it because you wouldnt attracted yet by any man (to then pursue them)?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/25 12:47 PM
1	Q4W: Would you be willing to receive no male attention at all, if it meant eliminating unwanted attention? Read about responsive desire. Weating clothes for yourself is possible being the norm can be possible.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/24 12:50 PM
1	How the hell am I supposed to succeed being neurodivergent? Aella (data scientist, of girl) is autist and said she was seduced by a guy ask asked how he did it, and she gave her a book about seduction and she started to read it and was able to understand and apply it. You should ask her if it worked for her it will work for you, I tried to ask her at reddit but she didnt replied. She is a woman with spontaneous desire that is not (at least now) shy (and beautifull), it will be easier for her than for you of course. Also her blog: https://aella.substack…	/r/seduction	29/09/24 06:28 PM
–	I DON'T buy that men who date a younger woman do it because they're easier to manipulate "it's not the same dating a 20 secretary with little responsabilities that dating a 40 yo with a manager position that has to travel to other cities once a week. " By that logic dating a 20 years old is not the solution as 20 years later she will be 40.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/24 08:26 PM
–	What if we could reinvent Dating Apps? Its mostly boil down responsive desire (85% woman have it and 25% man have it) vs spontaneous desire (15% of woman have it and 75% of man have it), and how it dictated how they are "allowed" to act. I could write a long post with tons of detail, but I am in a lazy mood right now. What could be tried is something like this: Tinder would have those changes: If you create an account at tinder you be forced to pick one of the choices: 1- Casual. 2-Casual, open for long. 3-Long open for short. 4-Long…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/24 03:32 PM
1	Are the gender ratios on dating apps actually skewed? 75% of man would want that, responsive desire man is 25%	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/24 01:37 PM
–	What if we could reinvent Dating Apps? If you really want to hire some computer programmer to your company and he needs to know java, going around telling people that those you want to hire need to know java, would be the most logical thing to you to do, and not only that would be something you would want to do, you would make some people learn java and they would be a good fit for your company. Unless you believe that someone getting what you want specifically because thats is what you want, is a negative thing and are not valid cho…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/24 01:25 PM
–	What if we could reinvent Dating Apps? Being single is a choice a valid choice, casual sex is also a choice a valid choice (but harder to happen to people with responsive desire, that is 85% of woman and 25% of man). Having high standards is not only not a problem but a positive thing. Imagine you go to movie theater to watch some specific movie X. There is the act of going to a movie theater (being at a dark room watching videos at a large screen with high quality audio and sound while earing popcorn) and the movie you are watching.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/24 01:21 PM
1	What would porn made for the female gaze look like? "Also - look-up what women search on pornhub, it's usually pretty rough." This could be from woman with spontaneous desire. 85% of woman have responsive desire (what people of thinking of what woman behave or like) and 15% have spontaneous desire. This is 5,666... responsive woman to each spontaneous one. Assuming spontanous woman are 17x more likely to wach porn as some example they would be 75% of the woman viewerbase (3 at every 4 woman user would be spontaneous) and this would influence thei…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/24 08:58 PM
2	What would porn made for the female gaze look like? This is called responsive desire, 85% of females have it, 15% are spontanoues. With male is 25% responsive and 75% spontaneous. There is no such thing as male desire vs female desire, but responsive desire vs spontaneous desire.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/24 08:48 PM
1	What would porn made for the female gaze look like? One question does a unwatched porn (a porn you didnt watched yet and dont know it exist because you are not searching for it) activate the responsive desire of a woman with responsive desire? What I am talking about, you have responsive desire (85% of woman hve it) and so is not watching a porn and not searching for one, how something would change your responsive desire to make you watch some porn at first place. When you are at a park, a restaurant, a beach and etc... the spontaneous desire guy…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/24 08:41 PM
1	If a dating app gender ratio was reversed, do you think it would solve dating problems? To fix the problem for responsive desire woman you would require 3.4x more woman than man (or even more), this means you have at least one male person wanting serious relationship (because they will be responsive desire) to each woman (or even more). This assumes the percentage of spontanous desire man that wants relationship is the same percentage as the percentage of spontaneous desire woman that wants a relationship. Of course this would imply alot of responsive desire couples (to make sure y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/24 12:50 PM
1	If a dating app gender ratio was reversed, do you think it would solve dating problems? The problem is 85% of woman have responsive desire, while at man 75% is spontaneous. When talking about what you want, you can want, nothing, casual sex or relationship. With responsive desire, (excluding some exceptions like fertile period) the answer to "do you want casual sex?" is NO (remember its unlreated to "I am having fun doing this casual sex that started or that would start if it started? unlike every single other area of life) and it can't be changed by itself and must be changed by e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/24 10:10 PM
1	If a dating app gender ratio was reversed, do you think it would solve dating problems? Sexual drive is about "how much fun I am having while drinking this awesome wine?", responsive desire/spontaneous desire is about "does I want to drink this wine?", they should be related and are related at every single other area of life, but arent at sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/24 09:14 PM
–	Many women don't realize that emotions are not reality. "Men feel that women are too picky, therefore they must be." Man that say that dont know that responsive desire exist and most woman have it. They wouldnt say that if they discovered this fact about the world	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/24 05:33 PM
–	Many women don't realize that emotions are not reality. Do you mean like anxiety? When I had anxiety (used to drink alot of coffee), I had those feelings "there is something wrong happening right now", "there is something wrong that will happen", "there is something I should be doing but I am not doing". After the 3rd time I had anxiety and my mom told me that was anxiety, I knew those feelings werent real and every single time I had it (the next 2 weeks, I stopped drinking coffee and it stopped), I was able to know those feelings werent real despise…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/24 05:28 PM
1	Is there anything more essential than confidence? "if the best way to build confidence is to practice" You have confidence if you have the result, thats the definition of confidence, but if you need confidence to have the results you wouldnt be able to get this confidence at first place.	/r/seduction	13/05/24 02:00 PM
1	Is there anything more essential than confidence? Not giving a shit will make you get who you can and not who you want.	/r/seduction	13/05/24 12:05 PM
1	Is there anything more essential than confidence? Yes, unless I am doing "argument ad absurdum" fallacy: If confidence was the most essential thing it would create an catch-22, confidence is the most essential thing in seduction, but you wont have confidence at your seduction because you dont have the most essential thing in seduction (that is confidence). To be able to have X (confidence) you must fist have X (confidence). Having X is a prehequisite for having X, and thats impossible, unless: 1-Its impossible to have X. 2-Having is not a prehe…	/r/seduction	13/05/24 12:03 PM
-1	Is there anything more essential than confidence? "Is there anything more essential than confidence?" Yes, because if confidence is the most essential thing, how someone would have confidence, if confidence is the most essential thing and they dont have it yet? The answer being a NO would create a catch 22. Unless I am doing a "Reductio ad absurdum". EDIT: Found the solution to this paradox, they dont know confidence is the most essential thing and so is able to have confidence because they think that what matters is something else. After that,…	/r/seduction	28/04/24 04:36 PM
1	"just move on" is NOT good advice So seduction is great for opening, escalation, controlling neediness, and having general social skills with women - but it can't generate attraction when none is there to begin with. And what is the name of the thing used to do that? Another part of seduction is learning to be social so that you introduce yourself to a large number of girls (i.e. opening a lot of sets), maximizing your chances of finding a yes. Looks like thinking about woman as items, like if mr beast said you will receive a fe…	/r/seduction	14/10/23 07:36 PM
1	"just move on" is NOT good advice This is exactly right. People think if they execute a perfect set it will turn a no into a yes but that's never the case. Then this sub is worthless.	/r/seduction	13/10/23 04:11 PM
1	"just move on" is NOT good advice Why would I want woman that is making it hard for me? Because no one at the moment X is forced to like who you are at this moment X.	/r/seduction	13/10/23 04:09 PM
1	"just move on" is NOT good advice The time you spend haggling with a "no" chick, you could find a "yes" chick. People aren't items where mr beast say you will receive a ferrari and he gives you a porsche instead and you think "I am ok with that". Well, if you think like that, its up to you.	/r/seduction	13/10/23 04:05 PM