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Discussionspacemanofthezone/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 10:33 AM
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What you've written makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:58 PM
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Are most men okay with their wives getting sex outside of the relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 04:15 PM
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Yeah, but women fall for dandies that romance them as if they've never seen a woman before . Even if it's not genuine, some of this guys play women for all kinds of stuff. Just as some hot women use men. So whats submissive? Do you mean that men fear women and feminine features (such as manipulating your appearance and behaviour to appeal to potential lovers)?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 10:42 PM
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Being obese or ugly in the face is worse. But height is a big one. Depends. How fat, how ugly, how short... One attribute is not everything. But being tall helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 10:39 PM
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Also, I'm not an anthropologist, but I believe a lot of hunter gather societies have lax gender roles, but generally it's the men that dress themselves up in feathers and other colorful shit and perform (dances, tricks, other shit) to impress a mate and get a wife. Obviously humans are very flexible and women also try to impress men, so I ain't saying that they should stop doing that. Although I think most women should focus on being skinny and athletic and well -groomed, nice skin obv, but less…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 06:54 AM
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I wasn't talking about gay guys. Gays generally do it right and women lust after them, compliment them and adore them. The way "normal" guys want to be treated. But at the same time, hetero guys don't want to groom themselves as not to be seen as gays, when it's obvious what women want. There were times historically when it was normalized for hetero guys to be flamboyant, groom themselves extensively and wear attention grabbing clothing. What I was saying is, being a good soldier, worker, etc. l…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 06:45 AM
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Women absolutely value height in men. I'm talking about stuff related to character, life experience, etc. I mean I like men who are genuinely funny etc. but I sure as hell ain't sexually attracted to wit anymore than you are attracted to some chick's lasagna making skills. People are sexually attracted to physical attributes and things related to character matter for relationships and they matter once some level of attraction is there. I was talking about how men value gymbro physiques and caree…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 12:53 PM
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A lot of men like fucking chubby. My ex would feed me fried cashew with pulled pork cause he liked fucking big asses and I'm skinny af
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 08:19 PM
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Any man with half a brain cell works on his appearance, fitness, grooming and style to attract women and knows that's what matters. Intelligence, character, etc. may help to keep women, but they won't attract them. It's funny how men believe that the things they value in men are the same as the things women value in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 07:42 PM
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Obv a parody account, I mean its called Uglypostwall lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 01:17 PM
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Mmm I think he's saying these angelic, monogamous and innocent beings that women are liked it, like they did. Female loudness during sex is said to have evolved to call upon even more lovers. As the killer sperm and scoop peepee theory show us, the sperm competition doesn't end with getting to PIV with women, it starts there. "used as cumpdumpsters" lol why u gotta make every cool sex experience for women sound icky not gonna happen bro, it just isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 07:30 AM
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Delusional. I'm 29, a lot of the HS boys have gained 40+ lbs and started balding. Boys were hottest physically at 18-22 - those who had the potential and lifted, at least. The most facially handsome and psychologically OK men are married with young kids right now. The manwhores are mid range. The fugly boys either got a fuggo gf or are alone. As far as I can tell it's not hard at all to whore around with "nothing serious" in your tinder bio as a man, at least not in my generation. If you want a …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 07:17 AM
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Of course, sex is overrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 01:00 PM
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IME most "queen" energy types want a committed relationship, but their strategy is to date a number of men they like and wait for one of them to lock them in. So they are fwbs with a few men that meet their standards and when one of them decides he wants to get titled, they get titled and she cuts off the rest or creates a micro-competition. Dating in the first weeks is a gray area anyway. But I swear men sense when a woman has options.So having multiple FWBs in this case is a step to her goal t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 02:41 PM
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Straight woman here, I see no reason to not date bi-men, wtf? Last time I checked women were into pretty boys a lot and if anything bi men are better at grooming. Where I live people tend to be friggin biggots anyway and you have very few people who are open about being bi, esp. men. I admit that I'm insecure and would find it hard to feel truly enough for him, but then again, I'd rather be cheated on with a man than with a woman. Most guys, if they are hotter than me, will prob cheat/branch swi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 01:11 PM
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I mean she can do whatever she wants, this is exhausting. Why is she not fucking the LTR guy for so long?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 05:59 PM
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Yeah, that's just choice of words. Not implying that it's a punishment as in the way the law punishes criminals. I generally disagree that men don't select dirty women. Women can be as promiscuous as they wish, if living in a fairly big city and when it doesn't show (trashy, sloppy drunk, etc.)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 04:57 AM
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Not true. They punish non-discrete/trashy/low-self-confidence women. And they don't punish, just don't select them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 01:56 PM
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Are you crazy, the 11 man is amazing. 11/10. Also five is 7-8. Giving "objective" scores to people is bullshit. The women are hotter than the men/have put MUCH MUCH more effort into looks obviously. I think it's mainly effort, it easily bumps a person's looks 1.5-2 pts.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 09:21 PM
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Yea that's my point and I don't know why men on here insist that women are like scamming men for free dinners. Like, you turned out to be a creep, bro, or a stuck-up, or extremely boring, OR HAVING EXTREMELY SEIXST PREJUDICE, that's why she never returned your calls after that diner. No woman is scheming to get free food out of men, unless she is LITERALLY STARVING like in starving, like in holodomor or something, otherwise, this is not a thing, it doesn't exist IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 10:37 PM
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Sure. It's not women who make war. You bring this to yourself, as a gender. women didn't build the barracks, not at fault
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 12:16 PM
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I'd avoid relationships with men with no standards (knowing he has had sex with... below average women or in high numbers). But usually these men are below average themselves. Technically, If I was looking for strictly NSA sex at the moment, I wouldn't care if they guy was hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 12:02 PM
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Policeman Jobs that are not actual jobs Young people jobs in men who are not young Working for their mom, aunt, grandfather, etc. can be a reddish flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 11:59 AM
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First of all, It's weird to accept if you don't like the man in the first place, unless you are literally starving, and I mean literally. I doubt it that men ask many homeless, starving women out to dinner, though, so it's an unlikely situation. Is it morally wrong? Yes. I doubt it that women do it, like, at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 11:58 AM
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I've found that men may enjoy the options quantity provides, but they totally get competitive and up their game for a high-quality woman, that their buddies will high-five them for/be jealous of. High-quality is looks and presentation, followed by status and personality. Status is also connected to presentation. Only they don't use the word status, cuz that's manly and emasculates them, they use "class". They want a woman other men wanted, but couldn't get, so they can feel like the coolest man …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 07:00 AM
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A lot of people are resentful for all kinds of reasons. Older women resenting younger women and having internalized mysogyny is absolutely something that happens, but it's far from being all women. Happiest older women I know are the ones who didn't focus excessively on being a decorative thing in their youth and used their energy and focus to build a life outside men, be it a nice family (which of course includes a man, who is a good man and also a friend, partner, etc.), career, cool hobbies, …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 06:56 AM
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Yeah, but in highlander's TV show Duncan McLeod was like 400 years old and he had a GF that was like 1000 years old, but they didn't age physically so it was not a problem. Counterpoint: an immortal woman who stops aging at 32 can date 19 years olds as long as she is hot. Not sure how this contributes to the gender discussion, as these are fictional scenarios.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 06:50 AM
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Keep in mind that women also have the right to be immature, to change priorities later in life, and to pursue individualism and financial freedom above all in today's society (which rewards it). They have the right to be obnoxious brats that pursue fun 18-25 and racking body counts and objectifying men when talking to their girlfriends, and then to realize that their hangovers are getting worse every year and that casual sex is a cool thing to try, but it's infrequent and lacks the fun of a stea…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 06:38 AM
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I mean, people are allowed to have all kinds of standards, but do men IRL actually ask details? Men I've dated seriously NEVER asked or wanted to know details about my sexual history and I'm the same. We've discussed past relationships and what happened/worked/didn't work out in terms of value. ​ IMO wanting to know details about a lover's other experiences is just weird. Overly promiscuous people (men and women) usually have a reputation or blatantly advertise themselves as such, and they are e…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 08:46 PM
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I don't know, when I was younger I had a period I was specifically after older men for sex. Like an obsession for a while, "Now I'm gonna fuck people's dads". But still hot-ish older men. (Think 40+ when I was 23-4). Like when men chase MILFS, had to get it out of their system. ALL of these men wanted to make me their girlfriend (they were 4, so maybe not a statistically significant study). They are very flattered having a young woman's attention, guess it's validating to bring a young babe to y…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 06:24 AM
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Yeah, but the idea is that women share this information among themselves - who is an asshole in bed and who is actually skilled, discrete, etc. That's the best way to protect ourselves from assholes who will hurt us (physically or our reputation) and to get the most bang for our buck. IMO women who are after the hottest guys for casual are either too young and inexperienced or just not really after the sex. Hotness is great, but some young women chase dick for social cred and pretend it's for th…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 06:15 AM
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When women choose ltrs they really care about the quality of the sex and the effort the man is putting into it. With casual sex you don't vet for this, you sort of hope that the best dancer is the best lover and afterwards you leave a review on dickadvisor for the other women to know. Some very hot men are shit in bed just sayin.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 08:48 PM
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it's a well known fact that dick makes women impure and defective. that's it. the more dick she's had, the less her value is. doesn't matter if she wanted it even. the cultures that hold this value are the most advanced, peaceful and rich. usually their names end in stan, but sometimes they end in ussia, orth korea or audi arabia. We want to live in such cultures, not in icky-sticky places like western europe and usa where they even have gay rights and stuff, yikes. but yea some men like to beli…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 08:44 PM
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Men in the age bracket are not interested in LTRs or suck at them. Below 30 in my locale women literally make all the investments in a relationship. To learn about men and yourself. Met my fiancé 4 years ago during hoein around, we kept seeing each other, cue true romance theme music. Men offer such a lovely buffet of cheap dick that it's absolutely ridiculous not to try it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 10:35 PM
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The thing is every guy is a nice guy to some woman, when they think you're above their league they are not confident and they "simp". And no guy is gonna be nice to a truly lesser, disgusting woman who tries to get on his dick. There are bad people and good people and a good man that's attracted to you will surely be a really nice guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 10:29 PM
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People settle for careers, lovers, etc. Yeah, a better option surely exist in a world of 9 billion people, but you want love, sex and partnership right now. IT's much more about the stage of life/development than the actual partner. I'd settle for who I want, but not about what I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 01:23 AM
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Yes, and? It doesn't to men either.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 01:20 AM
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Sounds like your friend is miserable because of her very outlook on life (pessimistic). I know a lot of miserable parents. Most people I know are miserable and complain, it's a mindset. Having children has nothing to do with it. Having children's importance for happiness and fulfillment is def overrated. Some people like kids and should def have some.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 01:08 AM
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Well incels would be players if they could, but lack in the looks department. Both group are despised because they lack empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 01:01 AM
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Both of you severly overestimate the amount of emotional investment women put into one-night stands and present a ridiculous description of lazy sex as "dominant" and "hot". Yeah, she's not gonna tell you "that was mediocre" in the morning, because she doesn't want to hurt you. But what you describe as hot dominant sex is a male fantasy, not a female one. Sometimes women put up with and cheer such sex, because they want the man. They are in for the man, not the sex. They want the mediocre lover …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:49 AM
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Yes. The bodies the build are ridiculous, far from sexy. The things the obsess over are just... And it's so simple, just be somewhat athletic and care for your health and your already ahead of the competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:40 AM
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A 7% bf body is ideal, but not required. The idea is not fat and in somewhat of a shape trumps big muscles. You don't need to be perfect, fat from it. I was describing an idea. Just lose fat, train for health and athleticism and don't obsess over muscles and CONSUMING NEEDLES CALORIES TO BUILD THEM.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:39 AM
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I am definitely not a woman with a neckbeard. I got men with his tongue on my clit. I won't lick myself. It's physically impossible and much less fun. The advice I gave will give men options.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:33 AM
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Like they need science to know that a manwhore is a manwhore is a manwhore. Like if a known murderer approached me on the street I'll get in his car, because I'm not sure about the chances of murderers killing again, I'll have to google that. Some promiscuous women want to marry more chaste, romantic guys, it's a preference. They want romance and family now and go for whom can provide it. It's a hypocritical one, but men hold it too. A lot of people hold double standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 11:19 PM
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I disagree. If hot enough, he can have a gf even if completely socially awkward or psycho. If you are hot, but very poor, you can get a slightly older, less attractive woman and have her give you money. She'll still be fuckable. Source: seen it. If you're hot, you get a pass. More news at 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 09:43 PM
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They absolutely compromise on boobs if the woman is skinny and otherwise attractive and nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 09:13 PM
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You literally are trying to tell women what their preferences are/should be and I'm the clueless one. It doesn't work that way. Enjoy your wins, winner ;) But it's not the women's fault they won't date you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 09:11 PM
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Bullshit. Too big shoulders, too much muscle, a lot of them with extra fat, gorillas with guts, disgusting. 5x5 2 times a week for like 40 minutes + at least 800 kcal deficit will give you the body women want. Men don't like to diet though, they have their gainers and protein shakes and BCAA because as a man you just can't be too big. Add swimming to the routine. After 1.5 - 2 years you can do 1 weightlifting session/wk to maintain + 1 swimming session. And the body's really not that important, …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 08:38 PM
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I am a woman, and you are totally incorrect in your view of what women want. Good looks: Highly controllable despite of genetics through style, cosmetic procedures and diet. Good Sex: I am a woman and I won't even consider dating a man who's not a good licker. 3. Yes, you have to work on your personality and presentation too. Not a woman's problem if you're lazy, she does it full-time too. 4. In romance, both parties want to feel special. When you romance a woman, it's about making her feel spec…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 06:22 PM
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Well, I don't know, maybe we live in different places. But in gyms, the guys who train, at least where I am, they train for physiques that are not that much appealing to women, but the one catering to male complexes of being strong. Women like skinny with some musculature, easy to built, but requires diet. Men like buff. I SWEAR men don't have any idea what women like AT ALL. Closest I've came across is peacocking technique, and they need to use ridiculous teenage lingo to avoid "take care for y…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:53 PM
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The "feminine" things like caring for your appearance and creating mystery/romance have been taught mostly to women. But that's bullshit. Men used to wear wigs and make-up. Some men have style, are extravagant and flamboyant and attract attention. This not only makes you look appealing to women, it makes you more of an object of desire and interest. Men want to be desired, yet they don't do the things that make a person - woman or man - desirable. They've been brainwashed by their bros that maki…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 11:33 AM
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I meant for the men, not the women. Are you saying that fame/status can compensate for lack of youth/looks in women, for an example with the Ben/Amy coupling and Tilda/Sandro?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 11:05 PM
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I asked for looks, not fame, and gave celebrity couples as visual examples of what I consider punching a bit above their league.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 05:11 PM
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Because you get saggy/skinny fat and your tits sag and you get a flat ass without muscle, and it's much harder to build muscle. Seen what deadlifts do to a woman's ass? Of course fit = attractive, the amount of muscle is very different of course, but men have more by default. I'd say it's equally hard to be fit for men and women, because it's much more down to genetics than gender. People with bad genetics need to work with what they have.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 05:07 PM
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Anyone care to share ideas about what lies men like to hear?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 04:34 PM
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No. Taking a less attractive guy and investing in his looks is not the same as taking an already handsome guy. Two reasons: If he is with you because he lacked in the attractiveness department, he may leave you once he sees that he's lost the weight and he has better options. I've seen it play out so many times. Women do it too. The question is, in a broad sense, what is the optimal strategy for women. Which strategy maximizes pleasure/personal happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 04:32 PM
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I mean, realistically staying together for life is a challenge regardless of attractiveness levels, because there are multiple factors involved and life is full of surprises. But winning is having a happy, mutual relationship with a guy above your league for at least some time, say a few years.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 04:29 PM
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What do they want?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 04:24 PM
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No man is without flaws. Some are all flaws, but none are perfect. So I asked specifically about men who are physically attractive and capable of having fulfilling relationships (so not abusive or incredibly stupid for an example. just stupid is ok, just not incredibly)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 03:18 PM
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What part of fulfilling relationship is hard to understand? :) Not being mean, just asking, because "getting cheated on" is not my idea of it. Question is how these women and similar IRL women with hot guys that love them, do it in your opinion. I am not from Pluton, I know very well that grooming and looksmaxing help a lot, but that's the basic thing and doesn't get you hot guys if you're not top genes material or wealthy enough for plastic surgery. However the hottest of hot guys (that are not…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 03:15 PM
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Good ideas. Thanks for honest non-butthurt answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 02:22 PM
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Are they handsome?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 01:49 PM
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I don't think you understand the question. I gave specific examples. Thank you for your ideas, but they don't answer the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 01:34 PM
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How's he to know?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 01:22 PM
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Ok. What does good game for women mean? Being social, fun, outgoing? Anything more specific?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 11:29 AM
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Okay, so it's a good strategy for a woman to fuck handsome men's brains out if her endgoal is building a loyal, monogamous, quality relationship with them? It's a high-risk strategy for sure, but do you think it works often enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 11:28 AM
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But he has options in highschool. I'm talking conventionally hot guys. I mean, obv Hanisch had better looking options than Amy, come on.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 11:23 AM
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So choose shy and more introverted good looking guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 11:19 AM
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I don't agree that Brad is above Angelina's league at all. Does being a freak in bed help? Then best strategy would be talking to every man you genuinely like and then fucking his brains out, then being kind, fun and pleasant and hope for the best? But isn't that sort of what hookup culture is?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 11:19 AM
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But what is the show at all? I'm talking about building a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 11:16 AM
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The question is about looks, not potential/success. What do you mean invest early, when he's 12? Otherwise, he can be lower social status, unambitious, etc. for the purposes of the question. But still, I'm talking about a good relationship, not one where the man is abusive, doesn't treat his woman well, cheats on her, or has some unforgivable character flaws. Basically, how do you think a woman should approach dating if she wants to have a good relationship with a man she passionately desires, i…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 10:50 AM
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Exactly. None. Having kids is something that requires sacrifice and selflessness. When men fail their family responsibilities to have fun or further their careers and finances, it's boys will be boys. It's just their nature, bruh, don't you understand? Men are built to spread their seed and do cool shit and women are built to... care for their offspring and clean while they do it, while also going to work and looking great. So when women bail, it's never "girls will be girls, tee-hee", it's oh m…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 01:51 AM
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Hey man, what's your problem really? All I say is the truth, I don't judge women for making certain choices, I observe that there is a big social pressure for them to conform to certain choices. Also observing that these choices are by design disadvantageous to women. Mothers are celebrated? And what do they get? A pat on the back and a "Good job for being a mom and producing workers for the economy" badge? Do you know what an incentive means? Where are the actual rewards or real respect for mot…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 01:21 AM
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Thanks for the honest insight, much appreaciated.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 11:06 PM
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Thanks for sharing an honest insight. It actually aligns with my real-world observations, and is also comforting my insecurities.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 09:50 PM
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Maybe. Yet, I'd still want to be genuinely sexually desired, loved and respected by my husband AND OTHER MEN (not to cheat, but to feel wanted). I want to be sexual and desired till the day I die. The message you get is, you can't be sexual after a certain age as a woman. Now, I know that's not true, there are even men that are specifically attracted to older women, and there are couples who remain sexual well into old age. But I don't understand this aspect of male sexuality well enough. I have…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 09:41 PM
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I support men who don't comply with their own set of bullshit gender roles too and have sympathy for them. But from what I see, they are still the privileged class versus women. (And still the best privilege remains being rich (right after being in good health, which I wish you above all).) People can judge me as much as they want, my post is geared towards other women, encouraging them to not buy into bullying tactics. For women, it's currently advantageous to not follow feminine gender roles, …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 09:05 PM
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What? Of course I wouldn't censor male attraction to younger women. I'm young myself! As for it being predatory, it's not inherently disgusting if men have the hots for younger women, but some men DO act predatory towards them. I don't find it inherently predatory, but some acts of manipulation can be considered predatory. But president Macron's wife is 24 years his senior and used to be his high-school teacher, that's predatory too. He didn't meet her as an adult. So women can be predators too.…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 08:34 PM
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Who's talking bricklayng, lol. I'm talking about maximizing own sexual pleasure, building own wealth and having a fun life, instead of a life committed to being subordinate and comforting to men while they have their fun, which is what women are told to do. Society teaches men to be selfish, but women to be altruistic. And it's sad when they buy it. Don't get me wrong, plenty of narcissistic women out there, but they still have to be subtle about their narcissism and it mostly works when they ri…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 08:06 PM
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If it's true, the thing about men being attracted most to young women. I'm still young and have very neotenous genes, but still it is depressing. I want to have sex and romance well into old age. What I observe is that men are most attracted to beautiful, well-maintained, high-status women. Meaning that proper care for appearance and health plus high status is the win for women. But you have to invest effort. I'm talking Eva Mendes for an example. There's also outliers with even more mad younger…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 06:49 PM
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As I said, there's always some rationalization, be it religious, biological, ethical, social or aesthetical. And yet, when women are relatively free to do as they wish, they do what they want and the boys start bitching about women not being proper women anymore lol. So if the reasons were so biological and ingrained, women wouldn't be doing those things and taking those risks in the first place. If the reasons are ingrained, why worry that women will break the rules? It should go against their …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 06:27 PM
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How come social roles are always men get to do the cool shit and women the lame shit. If the reason is not Allah said so, it's science said so, and they'll even make up bullshit pseudosciences to support their claims, just as it used to be with black people and phrenology. The idea has always been to break down women from and early age and pigeonhole them in the supportive, agreeable, lesser role. Be it by constant impossible beauty standards or moral/ethical standards and punitive measures/insu…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:38 PM
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Pickme's don't like a guy for his personality, they are desperate for male approval. Pickmes have a problem with self-esteem and they let men walk over them, that's the definition. Just being kind to a man you fancy doesn't make you a pickme, it makes you a normal woman. Until he tries to push your boundaries just to see, which all men do at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 11:16 AM
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Pickmes are notoriously unsuccessful. A pick-me is not a woman with a pleasant personality, it's a woman with no boundaries. Don't conflate the two. A woman can be kind, outgoing and fun, can hold traditional values, can have male interests, can love men etc. and still have strong boundaries. Of course sometimes she's gonna get called a bitch by a loser who doesn't get what he wants from her, but she's not bitchy. A pickme is desperate and loses herself for a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 09:30 AM
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Pick me's often simp for men who don't want them and would never want them the way a woman wants and needs to be wanted, instead of investing the time to raise their stocks and then have their pick. They are not so much reviled, as pitied/disrespected. The strategy rarely works by itself. When it does, more power to them if they got what they wanted. But they often get dumped for a better model eventually. Also they tend to be hopeless romantics, which is naive after a certain age. I say let men…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 09:22 AM
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Eh, that comes from other men, because they have huge complexes related to "masculinity". If the man is handsome and can pull it off, "feminine" things are extremely attractive to women. Last time I checked all the female population would lose an arm for a chance just to touch Bowie and could never care less about your average masculine gymbro and his humvie. Hell, I'd rather dig out Bowie than even speak to what a lot of men a consider proper masculine man. Also consider how flamboyant male sty…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 04:53 AM
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Consider this: when women used to be financially dependent on men, men used to be financial/security instruments. This is not biological, but social. We are hunter gatherers, paternal investment is overrated in terms of biological urges. Men being providers is mostly bullshit. I mean, it's a social role, but not one women are that much sexually interested in. Romantic and sexual interest is inspired mostly by HOT guys, especially with young women who have little life experience, real value syste…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 05:30 PM
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I haven't and wouldn't, but I'm conventionally attractive. However, I know women from higher social classes and women from lower social classes, and what can I say... There is an universe of difference at how the same man will treat a high-status woman and low-status woman. Also, high-status women can afford to be and stay attractive well into their fifties and after that, age gracefully. Personally, I date for romance and am in a romantic relationship for years, where he is the one pulling more…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 10:47 PM
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Of course it doesn't make you more sexually desirable. Do you think money makes men sexually desirable? Money helps you get what you want (it's a great instrument for getting what you want in general, works wonders) and if that's hot men, it can help with that. More importantly, as I said, it keeps you free from having to share finances or depend on someone undesirable, and pursue someone desirable instead. As for the autism thing, I wouldn't consider mild autism that big of a drawback. The man …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 09:47 PM
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Dude, that poker player looks like spends a lot of time watching his diet & making his hair and beard and choosing fitting clothes. Sure, it's likely that he'll date a hot chick, that's his personality and interests and social circle. People are different. I suppose Bill Gates wanted something different, I mean I guess he could figure out a way to convince a model-tier woman to date him if he wanted. Both guys were choosers and they chose according to their preferences. Counter-argument. All red…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 06:10 PM
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People use all sorts of negative slang language, and the definitions are often superficial. In this case, women use "fuckboy" to warn each other that a man has a history of unstable relationships, is likely to mislead them, or that it is likely that he's been with many women in an extended social circle and a more reserved woman might feel uncomfortable about her boyfriend having a lot of encounters and meeting with said encounters. Adult women rarely actually shame men about that, and when they…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 03:35 PM
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Because men value discipline, power and hierarchy more, as they benefit from it, and women value freedom, justice and equality, because they've always been an oppressed class. All oppressed classes lean left-wing. I am fiscally quite conservative, but socially very liberal and right now I'd rather make a compromise with my fiscal views, because you can't get rich if you're institutionally oppressed anyway. Money equals freedom in our society. And even more money equals power. In a traditional so…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 06:02 AM
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No, just bad footwear speaks to me about how much a man cares (or doesn't care) about details and his appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 06:00 AM
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Some men have great hair. Some have a great smile and blue eyes. Either very very attractive men or moderately attractive but with great personality (warm and a sense of humor). Not wearing fugly shoes. A lot of men wear fucking ugly shoes, I don't know from which store they buy it, but come on. What's with the ugly shoes. So not wearing ugly, dirty, or otherwise unappealing shoes is a plus. I wouldn't fuck anyone with bad shoes, not Leo Di Caprio, not young Clint Eastwood, not young David Bowie…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 07:16 PM
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Its cause when men say they want casual sex, it means that they want a harem situation with a lot of women. Men don't like it when other men fuck their women, even if they don't want them. So they expect a woman who "agrees" to casual, not a woman who pursues it. They are hypocrites. Don't do it ladies. Don't hang on uninterested dick. Smash him, then fuck his buddies, his coworkers and his boss. Then bail. He's like a spoiled kid who doesn't really like his toy, but won't share it with the othe…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 01:52 PM
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"HV polygamist men" AHAHAHAHAAH no. "High socio-economic hobos" "Tall dwarfs" "Young centenarians"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 10:53 PM
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I don't know, I've got money and had men exploit me for money and a place to live in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 06:55 AM
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IME smart men, when talking to women they want to fuck, always present themselves as relationship material and not "players". Even Leo DiCaprio level of attractive guys will make themselves sound vulnerable, relationship oriented, and yes, n-count, when they want to bang you. A woman meets a handsome guy, who seems comforting and relationship oriented and it seems that she has a chance. The passion runs wild, she's soon on his dick. I and almost all women I know would always go after a low n-cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 10:18 PM
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Good for you. You seem to have a very shitty attitude though. I would filter for that :)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 10:32 AM
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I care about a man being generous more about him being wealthy. I also care about men being ambitious.So for an example it's one thing to see a self-made millionaire or just someone who is well-off thanks to his ambition and intelligence - I'll respect him.It's another thing to see someone who is wealthy because he inherited money. That's meaningless. In other words, women judge (or at least should judge) men based on character, and their actions speak about their character. Most of all I care a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 09:52 PM
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Well while you are not investing your time in a non-commital man, you can invest it in yourself. Women should TOTALLY be more selfish. The bitterness comes from being taken for granted as a whole and individually. And they know it's true. Last thing these girls need is another fat slob online telling them to just lose weight or to settle down for a limp dick at at 23, else they will be a forever cat lady. These women see that girls who are winning have this queen sass that comes from having a hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 08:07 PM
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Yes, I'm talking precisely about how to get commitment from HVM and not get used in the process. Don't invest till they invest. Play the numbers game. Know your value (and keep it high). You know of a better way?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 03:46 PM
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Anecdotal, but having high standards and treating men like an option (plus actually keeping other options open) UNTIL he has made a commitment to you is a great female strategy. Being more "whatever", always accommodating, always willing to wait until he decides he's ready, this leads to men thinking of you as a "whatever girl". I swear that they can SENSE when you have another dick waiting and are not in a rush to lock his golden dick down. Now I'm not talking about waving all other dicks you r…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 02:25 PM
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only thing you proved is that you are a butthurt cunt. No, these girls that don't want you at 22 won't want you at 32 either. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 08:14 PM
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bro you just keep writing words but that doesn't make them facts. Just because you want something to be true doesn't make it so. Research what advanced paternal age means for offspring or stop pretending you care about the health of your future kids. Facts are facts. Evolution never took into account knowledge or resources, never cared about college or careers, because these things are recent inventions. As men age, the quality of their sperm degrades. Women have a strong preference for young ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:42 PM
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bro I'm explaining to you that advanced paternal age is responsible for circa 50% of birth defects and there's nothing you can do to change that. Medical community has always been biased against women, like when they assumed that infertility is always women's fault (being "barren") and men can't be sterile. Doesn't make it so. Sperm divides - sperm degrades. With AGE. Look, I'm none to judge, if you wanna party till you are 40 and settle down with a 23 year old who's gonna give you a "healthy of…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 08:39 PM
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Perhaps due to advanced paternal age.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 07:11 PM
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You are retarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 07:11 PM
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This is medical sexism at it's best. Studies looking at maternal age disregard the fact that socially women have children with older men and paternal age causes a lot of the birth defects, mainly autism, Down, and neurological disorders. Children of MEN older than 30 also live 10 years less and suffer more degenerative diseases when older. Older mothers are a problem, but mainly for carrying the birth to term. Eggs don't have cellular division like sperm does, and sperm degrades a lot past 26-30…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 06:44 PM
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I have the hots for older men and have had since a teenager. Don't try to date them, but really find them hot. I date closer to my age for practical reasons. But I don't find any 40+ guy attractive, on the contrary: the rare specimen that manages to stay attractive past 40 just screams SEXxxXxxx to me. I guess it's similar with men who have the hots for cougars - a good looking woman in her 50s screams "great genes" to them or something. That's what I think. And something psychological about con…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 09:02 AM
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Men also don't like needy women, because it displays insecurity/lower value/no other men are interested in her. Best dating strategy for women is having a lot of options, doesn't have to fuck them, just know that she has them. Why would he want to make an effort if you just... sit there, waiting patiently for him to get his shit together?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 01:18 PM
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you realize that kids were raised communally by the village and women had sex with multiple partners and the strongest sperm won (yay), but people thought that when multiple men fuck a woman her body creates the baby from all their sperm to make a sort of a genetic frankenstein and there were less stds but some genetics defects because the village was like 100 people maxbut all in all it was great, a constant fuck fest, the best men and women got to reproduce the most and they went to picnics in…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 01:04 PM
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Physically attractive - HANDSOME FACE trumps all - I like TALL AND VERY VERY SLENDER - If fat, must have BLUE EYES and not be very fat (I'm slim and won't get fat and expect the same) - If not tall, must have a VERY HANDSOME FACE- Nice sence of style or willing to work on it, doesn't see grooming as gay- Facial hair > no facial hair, IF IT LOOKS GOOD ON HIM (it does on most guys) Emotionally Attractive- Not an asshole- Not dumber than my cactus- Affectionate, likes kids and animals- Feminist/emp…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:29 PM
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i don't care for any male rationalization, if he wants me to be faithful, he needs to be faithful too, because I don't want any other woman fucking my man and i'll end the relationship because of it, so he's free to "spread his seed" anywhere he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 03:22 PM
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