~ archived since 2018 ~
~ archived since 2018 ~
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Having trouble texting. How to avoid long-form back and forth? What a waste of timeWhat do you think about social apps? I keep reading instragram is better since u have more clout and can project RL social shit | /r/askTRP | 05/12/20 08:12 AM |
| 1 | Having trouble texting. How to avoid long-form back and forth? What a waste of timeUh.......... I'm talking about a current plate's behavior which is pretty interestingly enough, abundant with other plates I've had. So now that you have this info., what do you think? | /r/askTRP | 05/12/20 08:11 AM |
| 1 | What to do when intended plate starts asking to participate in her friend's, family's holiday things? Awkward momentsWhat's the author's name? | /r/askTRP | 23/11/20 07:12 AM |
| 1 | Any good reads about what to do or how to shift mindset when she happens to also have plates of her own? What then do you do?I mean either way, there's no real stopping. Unless if you live in an Arab state, I guess it's just important that they're all wearing condoms or practicing safe sex. You do your part too, it all comes back in circles then | /r/askTRP | 23/10/20 05:49 AM |
| 1 | Any good reads about what to do or how to shift mindset when she happens to also have plates of her own? What then do you do?She's already got a problem if she thinks a dude just being that six two and from a motorsport?? Is something. Then again women can be, and men too, can just be as superficial. Once I changed this mindset, I was able to enjoy women who are not the typical, and they tend to lighten up my relationship circle better. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/20 05:47 AM |
| 1 | Online dating when's the best time to ask for the first date or continue to text?Yeh most of my single friends concur the same. Why the fuck is that? Too many influx of dudes trying to do the same too?? The hell is everyone doing aren't most not going out much lol | /r/askTRP | 13/10/20 05:34 AM |
| 1 | Online dating when's the best time to ask for the first date or continue to text?Why not both? | /r/askTRP | 11/10/20 11:31 PM |
| 3 | Online dating when's the best time to ask for the first date or continue to text?Serious question why do you bother with Online, with such low returns. Lol Covid made that shit a possibility the funny thing is I think online has fewer activity compared to normal times | /r/askTRP | 11/10/20 11:31 PM |
| 2 | Telling a plate about my lifestyle and having her agree to it?If you nexted this girl, why are you still talking to her? She fucked up and now you decided to just give her what she wants and stop getting what you want? Only difference is, I answer when I want and that could be days after her initial texts lol I'm not giving too much attention away. But when I gave a second chance to plates, they actually were one of the best experiences to date Also with plates, they're gonna date other guys. The biggest thing I see on here is guys who want gf treatment fr… | /r/askTRP | 06/10/20 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Tips for same lay days without having to go back at home?I like this but it gets old and its typically a pretty constrained experience. I don't even know if parks allow tents anyway lol | /r/askTRP | 25/09/20 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Tips for same lay days without having to go back at home?might as well go all in on one, if you're able to escalate, might as well right? I can't do leapfrogging in this scenario though | /r/askTRP | 25/09/20 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Tips for same lay days without having to go back at home?actually all closed because of covid | /r/askTRP | 25/09/20 08:40 PM |
| 2 | Blocked before 2nd date because I pushed for sex too early? How do I handle this better in the future?Yea lol that would be pretty freaky though yea you pulled it too early but then again, women don't really know how to communicate too | /r/askTRP | 20/09/20 06:00 AM |
| 4 | Blocked before 2nd date because I pushed for sex too early? How do I handle this better in the future?The issue here is the approach and template OP could have the lousiest SMV and can be below decent looking but if the girl who hits him up is in a similar category, OP would have acted or approached with a similar template Correct me if I'm wrong but a shy girl will almost just always ghost because they're shy! This is almost saying like OP needs to pretend to be a nerd just to date the nerd, afterwards, after a lay and some more talks then you can figure it out Just make sure you're practicing … | /r/askTRP | 20/09/20 05:05 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone successfully made plates as life long or family friends?Which author?? | /r/askTRP | 28/08/20 05:18 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone successfully made plates as life long or family friends?There is a trend that many women who have "party years and ride the cc" often don't give the attention when they get the house and a dude to settle with. Good input. Yea, it seems like later years or many miles 30s women may seem to be like a good fuck but what do you mean exactly by cc'ing? Like do they really pretend that you're it and then dump you when you've got enough just like that? It's fucking cruel right. Why is your aunt doing that? | /r/askTRP | 28/08/20 05:17 AM |
| 1 | When hanging out or interacting with plates, what are some cues to watch out for to prevent or stop any emotional... attachment?Change the subject, alphas don’t have the time or desire to listen to some girl bitch about her problems I like being able to, but sometimes they'll just pull the you're changing the subject card lol | /r/askTRP | 18/08/20 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Good on reads on how to stop being an emotion sponge or have her rely on me for it?People will claw at it from you, you must choose how to spend it wisely for it will never get replenished. This your own quote or from someone? | /r/askTRP | 17/08/20 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Women with baggage and a bad path to cuckery?My confusion stems from plates questioning exclusivity when I'm always prospecting, is it generally just okay to let them do the same? | /r/askTRP | 09/08/20 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Women with baggage and a bad path to cuckery?What happens if she sees the man hitting her up or she succumbs and sees her ex because you happen to keep prospecting and are a bit too busy to dynamically spread out time. Plates are never meant to last but if she wants exclusivity and you're always vague about it, sooner or later things would implode, what happens then? | /r/askTRP | 09/08/20 06:10 PM |
| 2 | How do I go about asking my plate to not mention me at all to her family or close friends?How do I go about it? Don't want to sound awkward. Hey um. Don't mention me to any of your friends or family, it's weird lol | /r/askTRP | 30/07/20 12:28 AM |
| 1 | Girl talking about how bad her ex was but still talking to me?Why the fuck do you need to pick apart what was “wrong” with her ex? How in any way does that help you stick your dick in her? I've experienced it before, a girl would show me a text from a guy "she's dating" and how the dude would talk smack about me I didn't like that so I just completely blocked her lol | /r/askTRP | 30/07/20 12:09 AM |
| 2 | How often do couples or people who are into each other text and call each other?Too clingy is unattractive | /r/MGTOW2 | 26/07/20 11:59 PM |
| 2 | Plate or ex...? Called it off but now texts about a new guy she's talking to?she even sent me the dude's photos, smh, I respect all bros but it ain't cool if he's talking smack about someone he doesn't even know lol | /r/askTRP | 26/07/20 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Plate or ex...? Called it off but now texts about a new guy she's talking to?Though her strategy is honestly draining my time and energy lol are there any good reads about side pieces? I know who plates are, I can text them whenever and we can come back even if it's months in between. Some dynamics, however are very complicated | /r/askTRP | 26/07/20 05:00 PM |
| 1 | Plate or ex...? Called it off but now texts about a new guy she's talking to?I'm an idiot setting orbiters. It's very shitty trying to prospect these days, I'd usually talk to 1-2 women an evening and this wouldn't bother me. I'm in defense mode, and I'm actually looking into online dating for auxiliary lol working on some photos. The last time I didn't hard next a plate gave me an awesome experience, that was a great relationship. So now, if someone wants time from me, they're going to trade something back. I feel like I'm taking advantage here, but she actually doesn't… | /r/askTRP | 26/07/20 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Plate or ex...? Called it off but now texts about a new guy she's talking to?Should there even be a reward because she tells me that she talks to other dudes? Atleast in this case, I know what's going on. I had a past experience with another ex/plate, she doesn't tell me anything until I found out. It got awkward. Two years later I found out she had a kid, and is single. Do I even acknowledge this chud she's talking to lol | /r/askTRP | 26/07/20 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Is there a site I can use for paying dating sites safer?how does pof look nowadays? is it like okc where it got nuked? also, I'm just going to try the tinder upgrade | /r/askTRP | 27/06/20 06:51 AM |
| 1 | When it comes to online dating, good but a limited number of photos are key but would it help to link your Instagram?is it then okay to post quality POV shots instead of just you? a lot of IG influencers have random BUT greatly composite photos and a few photo of themselves | /r/askTRP | 25/06/20 03:21 AM |
| 1 | Things that we should know about recording?Is it still porn though if it's your own sort of "porn"? I know I'm being a little hypocritical but my buddy says he keeps his as a sort of chest to remind him. Whether that's ego fragility or something else, funny enough, I'm not the one who actually thought of the idea. One of my plates did | /r/askTRP | 21/06/20 02:58 AM |
| 1 | Replying to plate nymphos? Don't want 2 get tired of texting backIf you're just a fuck buddy youre just a fuck buddy. I'm not sure which premise to put this into. Aren't plates just essentially a fuck buddy anyway? But there's also a difference between clingers or ones that show or want exclusivity. Sometimes, if you get around the panic attacks from them, you get a better return and it's usually a longer time with the plate. You get what I mean? | /r/askTRP | 16/06/20 06:05 AM |
| 1 | Replying to plate nymphos? Don't want 2 get tired of texting backI might have missed it but there's a space for dealing w/ replies about having a busy day but never about you having a busy day. Unless I'm mistaken. This sort of stuff actually feels like balancing a real physical plate lol | /r/askTRP | 16/06/20 04:28 AM |
| 1 | What are some good tips to say when a woman wants to "share and grow" your work with youGive her something to do that she can't fuck up bad -- they always fuck up -- and that you could do yourself easily. like what for example? one of my plates we don't get to see each other too much (work related makes me have to travel away) so I'm kind of stuck here but at the same time, I don't want to make it like I'm yoyo-ing and having to keep her entranced. Takes so much energy just by thinking about it | /r/askTRP | 10/06/20 03:13 AM |
| 1 | Are there any good reads about Plate/Cougar dynamics?well how is round 2 coming along lol | /r/askTRP | 09/06/20 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Are there any good reads about Plate/Cougar dynamics?what does a stage 3 clinger sound like..? | /r/askTRP | 09/06/20 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Are there any good reads about Plate/Cougar dynamics?Our stories are pretty similar. In your case atm though, oneitis is as bad. But things seem to be a bit tricky when it comes to getting new network potentials, I mean, we're still pretty much on lockdown. Have you tried online? For that LTR. I'm just not so sure about it now. I can still always hit her up, but she's even blocked me because she had issues with my plating dynamic. I think I'd be insecure if she's actually doing the same. But it's still continuing a saved game... It's a pretty much… | /r/askTRP | 08/06/20 08:41 AM |
| 1 | Are there any good reads about Plate/Cougar dynamics?Wouldn't you feel like an ass if she's maybe using that, going all out, kind of a do or die chick thing because she wants exclusivity? What then can you do? I guess it would be worse if she was actually paying my actual rent lol | /r/askTRP | 07/06/20 06:42 AM |
| 1 | Are there any good reads about Plate/Cougar dynamics?The issue is that she's getting into my attention and space a little too much. To a point that it feels like I have to call her nightly, shit, we just literally saw each other 3 days ago lol | /r/askTRP | 07/06/20 06:37 AM |
| 1 | Are there any good reads about Plate/Cougar dynamics?to game her or be clever. Some know, some do not and some, like this woman likes the game. What do you mean by gaming her btw? | /r/askTRP | 07/06/20 06:36 AM |
| 2 | Are there any good reads about Plate/Cougar dynamics?Here's what I say, generally, older or let's just say "settled" or soon to be settled + close to wall or on the wall, past wall (whatever trp defines) as long as she's got her own place and is financially well off then this seems imbalanced because no younger woman will have her own place, have her shit taken care of. But then, the craziness doesn't really appear until after surface level. I think the lack of attention some women at this point in their life plays a big role. My advice to you is … | /r/askTRP | 07/06/20 06:36 AM |
| 1 | Are there any good reads about Plate/Cougar dynamics?I'm just very skeptical because of past experiences. How some people, some women and men, can use past gift or help as a thing to say, a leverage. I paid you when you were down, and you're doing this to me. Makes me feel like an ass hole. Well, more of. | /r/askTRP | 07/06/20 06:19 AM |
| 1 | Plate who is hypersexual, wants sexytimes as much as she can?Then that's where she replies that I can't satisfy her or that I have no time for her lol, she says that to be a able to manage her or she wants to be able to have that "organic" feeling What if she says that I literally get what I want whenever I ask for it? (Which I do) and that it's not fair? | /r/askTRP | 02/06/20 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Plate who is hypersexual, wants sexytimes as much as she can?Trial and error so far. Sometimes staying on a good rhythm. I'm more of a nightowl and get things done that way, wake up in the noon and do all my social shit during it then when the night falls, I get down to boogie. Then I switch it up, with the help of noots and working out, it gives me some good entertainment or boost | /r/askTRP | 02/06/20 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Plate who is hypersexual, wants sexytimes as much as she can?Trial and error so far. Sometimes staying on a good rhythm. I'm more of a nightowl and get things done that way, wake up in the noon and do all my social shit during it then when the night falls, I get down to boogie. Then I switch it up, with the help of noots and working out, it gives me some good entertainment or boost | /r/askTRP | 02/06/20 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Plate who is hypersexual, wants sexytimes as much as she can?You hit it right in the bullseye that it smokes. I'd simply ignore and talk to her later. I'm getting combative retorts, she resorts into: "well anon, no, you can't have this p*ssy because you've made it wait for too long" or "I feel like you only call me because of this and then you go away for far too long". Like what the flying fuck. It's literally been only 8 hours and after working, I want to still call you, how the flying heck? I want to get experience trying to balance this. It is anyhow … | /r/askTRP | 02/06/20 07:22 AM |
| 1 | Plate who is hypersexual, wants sexytimes as much as she can?Another user nailed it correctly. Nymphos, have you had experience with one before? | /r/askTRP | 02/06/20 07:13 AM |
| 0 | Plate who is hypersexual, wants sexytimes as much as she can?If you don't just don't make a post whining about how she left you for another guy. Isn't there a compromise in regards to this? Not being sarcastic but certain communications or behavior maintenance to do? For example, I don't or rarely send any content to a plate, rather, they only get to do their pic taking and the like when I'm physically with them. But making them orgasm through calling when my hands are tied can also save time but keep em at bay | /r/askTRP | 02/06/20 03:55 AM |
| 2 | Plate who is hypersexual, wants sexytimes as much as she can?Unstable plates show crazy signs but they've also been the best times to spend with. Some can be ride or die which is unbelievable and some can just be super hinged that it gets bland and boring. | /r/askTRP | 02/06/20 03:53 AM |
| 1 | Plate who is hypersexual, wants sexytimes as much as she can?It's funny because I'm more motivated to chase things such as work, or passion projects and even more prospecting. This usually isn't the case when starting multi-plate balancing occurs, but at this phase, it makes me wonder, and at the same time, it makes me double-take how I feel about it. Should I be afraid that I feel scared? (That I might miss out on a hypersexual plate or if she just moves on) or am I wasting all these positive energies by getting my attention slashed? | /r/askTRP | 02/06/20 03:49 AM |
| 1 | What to do if plates find out about each other?Be truthful but don't tell girls shit what do you exactly mean by this? | /r/askTRP | 28/05/20 03:44 AM |
| 1 | How to reply to weird shit tests? "Sorry I'm just lookin' for 1 awesome dude"Don't fall for it. If you wanted to lock her down you would have. Extremely difficult when it's a bit of a long-distance or work-life balance can be too overwhelming, in addition to balancing other plates or keeping active for prospects. What do you mean by lock her down? | /r/askTRP | 21/05/20 05:41 PM |
| 1 | How to reply to weird shit tests? "Sorry I'm just lookin' for 1 awesome dude"All of it comes down to vetting at this point. What do you exactly mean by vetting If you don't care, just ignore her. If you really care, make clear where your red line is. No ultimatums, no contracts. One of my recent best plate experiences and from what I've also read (case study) was when they/myself just did care a little bit despite the shit tests they've done. We were even able to make a semi porn film and she didn't care lol so there are some catches but is it worth the headache? I think… | /r/askTRP | 21/05/20 05:39 PM |
| 1 | How to reply to weird shit tests? "Sorry I'm just lookin' for 1 awesome dude"Sooner or later redlines or things that tick me will have to show. Is there any other way to stop bitches from just being bitches? Or are some women just destined to be like that? It's difficult to create trust when they try to do silly shit tests, and then you feel manipulative | /r/askTRP | 21/05/20 04:40 PM |
| 1 | How to reply to weird shit tests? "Sorry I'm just lookin' for 1 awesome dude"do you reference it at all or do you just ignore it in later convos? I can sometimes sense that it's all weird shit tests and they have other interpretations, but doesn't it seem wishy washy to just ignore it and never mention it later on? | /r/askTRP | 21/05/20 04:29 PM |
| 1 | How should I respond to needy plate texts?Good behaviour in my opinion is when she goes out of her way to make me feel good. Like buying me stuff, cooking for me, cleaning my house. And even then I don't reward that much, just a compliment or something like that. In your case, she's been driving 2 or even 4 hours to get me. Take me out, and let me crash at her place. So there's something definitely worth fixing. I feel like that her type of personality would definitely get tired of this, and things would just get exposed. I meant that s… | /r/askTRP | 12/05/20 11:57 PM |
| 1 | How should I respond to needy plate texts?You're looking for someone to give you that golden text so you can get back into her good graces and keep this precious single-mother (lol) pussy. But when it comes to communication, should I at least somehow subtly indicate or tell her that YES, I like it when you're this and NO I do not like that. I feel like just ignoring or my lessening of attention to her, even through text (which seems like I'm already doing btw, but it's just due to my lack in text skill, and time) is already a known trai… | /r/askTRP | 12/05/20 11:51 PM |
| 1 | How should I respond to needy plate texts?Sage advice. I'll also work on my communication/texting. About good behaviors, I find it hard to categorize. She would often text me something such as: "I can just imagine you back here and we're both on the couch, you're awesome to cuddle with". An hour or later after I replied and closed. Is that good behavior? I mean it definitely makes me feel better, even in the heat of the day, once again though, I don't like to reply in the middle of the day. Another way is to reply "Hey, so busy right no… | /r/askTRP | 12/05/20 11:34 PM |
| 2 | How should I respond to needy plate texts?Sorry, yea I suck at it. Clearly, I can't use "I didn't see it" all the time. Or even make up an excuse such as my leg broke, just doesn't feel genuine to me. Most of the time I try to keep it vague, or I blame a finger to the day job (it actually does take my time) but I've never really looked into making things up for plating. For the neediness, I think you answered it well. She can be a bit dramatic. She even just canceled the 2-day vacation. So much time lost. Is it smart to just agree with … | /r/askTRP | 12/05/20 11:10 PM |
© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter