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Only a complete loser let's other people's opinions decide who they can and cannot marry. What happened to rugged individualism and independent thought?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 02:41 PM
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Let the low n people date other low n people and the high n people date other high n people. There's enough to go around. I'm a woman and literally not had a single person question my past sex life beyond 'have you been tested because I would like us to have unprotected sex'. In my experience if a man is getting his dick wet every other day by someone enthusiastic, he quickly forgets about all this n count stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 10:07 PM
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Which is why you have conversations...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 09:08 PM
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You can improve several areas of your life at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 09:04 PM
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Because they're looking for what to do ON TOP OF the obvious stuff like losing weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 09:02 PM
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They know weight is a problem, they're reminded being fat is considered gross constantly. They probably look in the mirror and pinch their fat bits before they go to bed every night, and when they wake up every morning. An entire movement was created because fat people get shamed on a constant basis. Anyone who doesn't realise this is delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 08:59 PM
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Fat people know they are fat, you telling them that doesn't help the discussion hence the downvotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 08:37 PM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:47 PM
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The manosphere gives very little energy to fathers rights. Instead they bleat on about not getting their dicks wet. Curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 10:01 AM
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If fifty percent of the population do it, by definition it is not strange. Also please familiarise yourself with term 'the ick'
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 12:11 PM
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'Provisions' have only been around since agriculture, and prior to that humans existed for millions of years. In the time you would chose a mate/s based on their genetics. I'm not saying provisions aren't deeply important to humans, I'm saying they don't tickle our lizard brains.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 10:16 PM
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I wouldn't know he's the perfect man until we had established some sort of chemistry through flirtation and closeness. So I would need to cheat in order to find out he's the perfect man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:25 PM
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Right, but that's not built into our genetics. Obviously people enjoy money and seek it out, but charisma and looks are what people find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:14 PM
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Hmm, I think at a primal level we care about genetics. In the grand scheme of things, Money is quite q recent invention to humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 07:53 PM
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First boyfriend I had was an unemployed poet/writer. He would occasionally send off some work and make 20 quid lol. Recent boyfriend left his job whilst we were together due to stress, didn't bother me. I didn't plan on having children with these men though. If I wanted children I would need to be at least comfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 07:37 PM
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Zendaya looks gorgeous without making up. She's got lovely features and a good complexion. Never understood why men rate celebrity women so low, it makes me care less about their dating struggles.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 06:07 PM
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Ita going to differ greatly between cultures and even sub cultures. Quite pointless to attempt to speculate, if I'm honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 06:57 AM
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Some people develop feelings for their FWB.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 05:14 PM
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Did you even read thread probably? The boyfriend literally 'shrugged off' her sexual pleasure and saw it as 'not a big deal' He absolutely deserves to be dumped and she absolutely deserves better. Ensuring your partner enjoys sex is the bare minimum you can do for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 05:01 PM
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Sure, but a partner is a family member you choose. So you can ask those things of them. No one is obliged to donate an organ, so that was probably a bad example. O mean to say family member would consider donating an organ, however most would not ask a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:58 PM
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Because relationships and marriages are akin to being each others family members. I would not expect a friend to lend me a large sum of money, donate an organ or have me in their will. But I would for I family member.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:49 PM
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Not to the extent a boyfriend or husband does.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:25 PM
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I like having someone who is exclusive to me, who can get me put of a crisis and I enjoy cohabiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:42 PM
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Reminds me of those obtuse fake profiles that incèls make of women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 09:33 PM
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Op wants to discuss why women use OLD. I told OP why I used OLD. So yes, it does relate to OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 06:33 PM
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It directly relates to the post by agreeing with OPS posit that women use it to find 'hot guys'
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 06:28 PM
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I like how quick and straightforward forward it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 05:43 PM
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I love dating apps! I met my boyfriend on there a few years ago. We went for a drink date, became fuck buddies and them started a relationship. He's absolutely gorgeous, makes me laugh and always supports me. I literally feel like I won tinder. Before meeting there I had a ton of casual sex with younger hot guys, and even arranged a cheeky threesome :p I get people qualms witg it but I'm glad as he'll it exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 05:36 PM
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Dog shit, cat shit and pig shit - what do you want on your toast?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 03:46 PM
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A salty man writing as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 03:44 PM
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when I bring it up, my partner just shrugs it off like it's no big deal. He doesn't understand why I'm making such a fuss over something so small. This is absolutely a valid reason to dump someone. What else is she going to do, nag him to make sex enjoyable?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 09:08 PM
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She did communicate with him. when I bring it up, my partner just shrugs it off like it's no big deal. He doesn't understand why I'm making such a fuss over something so small.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 09:07 PM
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Ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:59 AM
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He's the one who's reluctant to fix it, not her. She's come to him and communicated that she's unhappy, and he has 'shrugged it off'. Time to dump him.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:59 AM
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Well men need stimulating themselves to get off, so they probably won't cum from licking you out or rubbing your clit. What I mean is that they find the process a huge turn on and it makes them rock hard to lick you out and having you cum in their face. I mean look how many men are obsessed with squirting, enough dudes want women to cum and find it extremely pleasurable to watch.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 11:27 PM
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when I bring it up, my partner just shrugs it off like it's no big deal. He doesn't understand why I'm making such a fuss over something so small. She has brought it up. He doesnt care and sees the issue as 'small'
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 10:42 PM
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I mean..there IS an orgasm gap, and this has roots in how young men and women are exposed to sex in such a male-centric way. So OP he on to something,
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 10:41 PM
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upside down face fuck off the bed whilst I play with myself OR doggy with my face own whilst i rub my clit. Oral sex trumps everything though
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 10:21 PM
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ben shapiro, is that you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 09:34 PM
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She's communicated what she does like and what she doesn't like. I dont know what else she can do?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 09:31 PM
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Your partner literally expressed that he doesn't care about your pleasure. You need to dump him ASAP. A good sex life will make your life so much more enjoyable. It helps your mental health, your physical health and your relationship with the person. I cannot stress that enough. I strongly suggest you make it your goal to find a man (or woman) who you can have a good sex life with. A man who loves getting women off and finds that arousing in itself. I have had three LTRs. With each one about 1/3…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 09:18 PM
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Yeah lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 07:01 PM
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Chaotic lifestyle, hedonism, Impracticalities like different work schedule or location to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 06:59 PM
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So you mean things we find gross or just things we find off putting ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 06:57 PM
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I love a man who can dance. Also carefree men who like to enjoy them selves in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 10:49 AM
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Good for you man, genuinely happy for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 10:48 AM
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Dinners are a terrible idea for a first date. Get a coffee or grab a pint somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 10:46 AM
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What? Most women literally all have the option to be sugar babies and 'share' rich men for monetary gain. Guess what? They don't want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 09:25 AM
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Well this is definitely a unique take.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 10:59 PM
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Aww, you're too sweet <3 Honestly I just really lke the kids. I dont take any of the bad stuff they say or do to heart, because I know they use behavior to communicate their own negative feelings and self regulate. I definitely party too much lol, I also spend lots of time outdoors, enjoying my (many) hobbies and spending time with awesome people (also my colleagues!) Im sorry your ex went through a tough time, I hope things get better for them <3
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 10:19 PM
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I work with autistic kids. Whilst I think people on the spectrum are amazing, interesting humans - it is a lot of stress to raise them and they can really struggle in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 09:11 PM
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It sucks for both if they want to have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 09:09 PM
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I don't like the term 'stalking' I prefer 'extreme liking'. Just kidding, obviously I would be mortified and report him to the police.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 04:45 PM
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I have developed crushes with men who haven't flirted with me. I fantasise about them flirting with me in my head. If I get to know them and that never happens, or if I decide I don't like him - the crush and sexual fantay just dwindles.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 10:59 PM
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Yep, we need to reclaim these words !
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 08:16 PM
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Because that's how language works. If people don't like a thing, they create and use specific words to express that dislike. You have specific derogatory words for this usage.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 06:31 PM
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This is all.discussed in the study I dropped. TLDR theres many physiological reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 07:13 AM
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Short hand for 'whore', a derogatory word for a prostitute. Now it's just a derogatory word for a women who wants to fuck men other than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 12:12 AM
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Orgasms require arousal and physical stimulation. Arousal alone won't make you come.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 12:08 AM
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It's to do with the individual womens anatomy. The shape, size and the distance between their clitoris and the 'urethral meatus'. For some women, the clitoris just isn't stimulated enough through PIV. Dick size isn't going to make a difference. I can only come through PIV if I rub my clitoris with my hands. The best way to get off is by oral. Oral orgasms are far more intense that PIV orgasms. With oral sex my eyes roll.to the back of my head and I disappear to another planet for 20 seconds. I c…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 12:05 AM
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Most my friends are male nowadays. Some have partners, some don't. I've only ever encountered one issue and that was a friend developing feelings for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 05:10 PM
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Truth hurts Comparing someone wanting a tidy and clean space to nazis is far from the truth mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 05:02 PM
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Its been that way in the west since at least the 80s. But I think it differs slightly from each country.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 10:49 PM
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Contrapoints did a really good video roasting Roosh Vs PUA books. He started one off them by saying that you will be rejected about 99% of the time. So essentially he's saying 'my advice has a 1% chance of working!' And some men still.took them seriously ?! Lmao, can't make this shit up!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 08:57 PM
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I'm happy to date blue collar men and I have. The only issue is that jobs fucks your body so they can end up with lots of health issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 08:50 PM
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I think a partnership needs to be balanced. So if you both have the same strong personality traits, then you can clash. I'm super extroverted and social, and like to party. If I dated someone the same then life would get quite messy. A more introverted person mellows me out, and I can bring them out their shell. I think two autistic people can work really.well as a partnership, but it depends on how their autistic traits manifest.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 08:42 PM
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Always comparing people to nazis, smdh.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 08:03 PM
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Uh huh
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 07:52 PM
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Who's we? I don't know you.How would I know if you are or aren't ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 07:24 PM
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Im 33 so that would be far too young for me. I would go as young as 24 for casual - if they were seasoned at sex and dating that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 06:55 PM
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thats just depressing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 06:19 PM
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Yes to sweaty, no to the rest. 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 01:30 PM
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I honestly think a lot of women don't experience good sex so they have neutral or bad connotations with. Knowing your own body and what you like is necessary, but so is an attentive lover. I have friends who just forget about sex when they're single and when they find a boyfriend they're at it like rabbits. Myself and other women I know get frustrated after too long without sex so end up seeking it out. Like if I'm desperate I will phone someone who I really shouldn't be having sex with just put…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 12:35 PM
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Same ! I Also love good annunciation and vocabulary. I just talk absolute shit all the time so I appreciate people who speak thoughtfully 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 12:30 PM
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Lmao, older men are as likely as younger men to be slobs. Older men are more likely to be higher earners, but that doesn't outweigh the negatives of marrying older.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 09:49 AM
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I'm going to be honest, this seems like an unrealistic scenario so I don't really have an opinion of it. For what it's worth, lampooning someone doesn't mean you are 'upset' with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 09:45 AM
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It definitely isnt.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 05:55 PM
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First one obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 10:39 AM
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Didn't say that. And please stop down voting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 08:28 PM
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My point is that if you stay a virgin until marriage and marry young then you may well have missed out and will get FOMO. You also might not have a good sex life because you haven't been able to find out if the two of you have chemistry beforehand. If you have the freedom to date around, you go into marriage knowing that it's right for both of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 08:18 PM
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I Have been fully naked outside on several occasions. It is such a wonderful feeling that I would hate to compromise.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 08:14 PM
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Freedom comes with highs and lows, but I would take it over any form of oppression.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 05:55 PM
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Of course
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 05:54 PM
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It is the price to pay to pay to be free individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 05:13 PM
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The worst thing IMO is not feeling the sun and sea on my bare skin and feeling wind through my hair. The idea of always dressing modestly is depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 05:11 PM
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Which is why dating is useful. You get to know someone and experience life with them. If it doesn't work out, you try with someone else until you find the right one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 05:10 PM
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No, it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 05:08 PM
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Settling down too young runs the risk of not being with the right person and living with regret. There's also the risk of not having a full filling sex life because you have only been witg one man/woman. You get one shot at life, then you're dead and that's that. So I want to fill it with as many positive experiences as possible and never live with regret.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 04:52 PM
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Same with girls, better to marry some high value guy when they are both early to mid 20's than run wild till 30, I couldn't think of anything worst to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 04:29 PM
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There's no such thing as a standard being 'too high'. If someone is ONLY romantically attracted to 7' red headed Bulgarians who tame lions for a living - that is their prerogative. Either someone makes life better than being single, ot they do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 04:27 PM
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I would ask him what drugs he was on, and if he would shar ethem with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 04:22 PM
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Yeah. They say anger is sadness that has nowhere to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 04:19 PM
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You should definitely worry about STDs to an extent, but you shouldn't worry about what others think.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 11:36 AM
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I'm aware it exists in places like Hollywood, and I do think age will become part of inclusively one day. I haven't noticed older women getting less respect in real life, but that's not to say I disregard other people's experiences if they say that's what they experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 11:34 AM
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Massively. Which is why people should just be what makes them happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 11:10 AM
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Not being sexually attractive en masses isn't the end of the world. Especially as your libido goes down anyway and sex means less to you. Older women can and are still respected, age even means you're taken more seriously in a lot of ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 10:21 AM
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I'm sorry but it is. Women who prefer bald men are the minority. Like men who prefer old or fa women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 10:12 AM
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They controlled for maternal age in the autistic study. https://www.spectrumnews.org/news/link-parental-age-autism-explained/
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 08:03 AM
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Oh yeah, I'm not saying that an older mum comes with less risks than an older dad. But being an older dad DOES come with higher risks, so it's in womens interests to have children with younger men. There's also higher risk of autism to consider.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 02:37 AM
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Well men tend to peak in looks between 30-45 God no!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 02:26 AM
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He still has extremely hot women going for him, He has quite openly said that he uses money to attract women and duplicity to keep them. Tate isn't ugly-ugly but he's no dream boat either. He's tall and that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 02:24 AM
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Paternal age comes with an increased risk of birth defects.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 02:21 AM
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Aging makes you appear gruff. Gruff tends to be masculine. So women are unfairly disadvantaged in this regard. Never thought of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 01:16 AM
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You can be bald and still be attractive. You can also be old, fat, flat chested and still be attractive. One unattractive physical feature doesn't always outweigh the attractive features on an individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 01:15 AM
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You are missing my point entirely. I'm not saying those words are always insults. I am saying that WHEN they are used as an insult, it is because the person using it regards it as negative. The fact that people purposely use 'bald/balding' as an insult exemplifies that it is regarded as a negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 01:10 AM
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Physical traits used as insults reflect what people think about those traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 01:02 AM
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There's subtle waya you can display wealth tastefully. Holiday pictures, classy, fashionable clothes (not massive logos or anything tacky). I feel you'll attract people for the wrong reasons though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 01:01 AM
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It can absolutely be a sign of aging and poor health. You lose hair when you age and when you get sick. There can be other reasons but our monkey brains see baldness and subconsciously link it to being old/sick. Hair growth and hair transplant treatment is a million dollar industry for a reason. You can look at most undesirable and desirable physical traits in humans and link it to fertility and health.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 12:53 AM
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Yeah, no shit. My point was that it's used as an insult because people find it unattractive. People find it unattractive because it's a sign of aging and poor health.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 12:45 AM
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When it's used with the intention to hurt someone's feelings, it's an insult. Same with 'fat', 'old' or 'flat tits'
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 12:40 AM
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'Bald/balding' is universally considered an insult to men, and its what happens when they age. Same with wrinkles and sagging skin - they're deemed unnatractive and are a result of aging in both women and men. I find that women develop finer lines earlier than men, but men seem to have deeper, thicker lines. Men also seem to get larger pores as they age. I don't know if this is down to skincare routines or the difference in male and female skin. We all decrease in looks, it's inevitable. You hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 11:30 PM
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I've been with both sides of the spectrum.. First boyfriend would never ever cry, and claimed he hadn't since he was prepubescent. I believe him. He didn't cry when his child was born or when something really sad happened. Being stoic all the time really wasn't good for him, he was always on edge and just..simmering. he would snap and get angry about the smallest thing and could never express why. My boyfriend after that cried constantly, once he started crying when he was listening to the gladi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 09:50 PM
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One of my exes was like that. He didn't even cry when his kid was born. He did get angry a lot though. Couldn't shed a tear but would get angry easily about small things. It was strange. I think he's doing better now though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 09:34 PM
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Well I know for a fact that unattractive men are no better at treating women compares to attractive men. So, might as well date the good looking ones..
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 03:29 PM
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Umm what? So because I date a good looking man, I should expect him to have a bad personality? What's the link between the two?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 03:00 PM
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Why? As you said, compatability isnt anyone's fault. Feeling bad about it is illogical.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 01:31 PM
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If you are not sexually compatible then it's irrelevant how good the persons ex was.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 01:20 PM
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Oh geez, if only sex was a set of skills that you could learn!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 01:06 PM
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Power is power - Cersai Lannister.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 01:02 PM
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Basically they probably cheating cheating gfs and fiancé's.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 08:56 AM
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Holy cow, is this the same person ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 06:06 PM
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Why are you OK with sleeping witg someone's girlfriend but not wife? Why is their a line between the two?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:03 PM
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Mind blown
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 11:59 AM
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I don't know how myself or any women can speak for the entirely of our gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 11:02 AM
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A myriad of reasons. Sometimes I'm not ready for a relationship myself, sometimes the guy is a bit too 'wild' for a relationship ship, sometimes he's too young and 8t wouldn't work. Don't take it to personal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 11:01 AM
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Men don't hit their peak sexual market value in their 30s. 'Sexual' Market value is about looks, mens looks peak in the 20s - I would say mid 20s. I would not encourage my child to settle down in her early 20s. She needs more life experience before she decides to chose a person to spend the rest of her life with.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 10:52 PM
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Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 02:56 PM
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Haha, not heard this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 02:54 PM
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I think he's hot in an unconventional way. I love his energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 02:54 PM
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I've had a lifetime of fulfilling sex and relationships. I have absolutely nothing to moan about :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 02:51 PM
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Unprovoked insults towards Internet strangers is not the behaviour of a happy and unfulfilled individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 02:19 PM
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Celebrities tend to stick with other celebrities, they're quite shallow like that. I'm sure lots of beautiful women would have sex with him because of his looks and charisma.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 02:18 PM
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I think he would still be successful if he didn't have money tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 02:04 PM
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I'm sorry life hasn't treated you kindly, but it's not my fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 01:49 PM
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I fucked him within a few hours of meeting him, he's very much aware I have had casual sex in the past. As has he, maybe more. Also please refrain feom calling me 'scraps' it is rude and unnecessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 01:34 PM
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They have more traditional elements than places like the UK, Germany ect. My point being womens decision to approach or not approach is cultural.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 01:22 PM
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Beautiful women are attracted to Pete Davidson because of his charm, charisma, big dong and looks. Knowing this is an ego boost.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 01:18 PM
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If someone approached me in the street with a microphone and a camera, I would tell them to fuck right off. I hate this culture where its seen as acceptable to film people without their consent. Influencers really are the worse. They need to be told to fuck off more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 12:47 PM
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I can't imagine what they would be like if I was walking on my own
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 12:41 PM
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Experienced it in New York, even when I was holding hands with my five year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 12:07 PM
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A sensible man approaches a woman in a club only AFTER she gave him the gaze/smile. Yeah. She smiles at him, he strikes conversation, if the conversation goes well and she seems interested he offers to buy a drink.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 11:57 AM
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The balkans are pretty traditional in a lot of ways. Maybe it correlates with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 11:46 AM
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Yeah, that is wierd. I know very little about France and the dating scene there. I know some women who have said there's a lot of sexual harrasement in Paris, but whether or not that's French men I don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 11:35 AM
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There isn't an expectation that a sugar baby is exclusive. Most sugar babies have more than one sugar daddy. Gold digging is basically a shallow relationship. There is an expectation that you are both exclusive. Sugaring is escorting witg extra steps. But I suppose it is marginally safer than escorting because you see less men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 10:27 AM
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I'm also based in the UK and it's normal for women approach. Unless they have gfs, most men aren't going to turn down a date or sex - so it's not like we have much to lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 09:55 AM
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Apparently this is an Amaerican thing. I'm in the UK and it's pretty common for women to make the first move. I met my bf on tinder and I was the first to suggest a drink. My bf before that we switched numbers and I escalated things. When I've been single at clubs I have also straight up asked dude's to hook up with me Speaking to women in the UK and Europe this is pretty normal behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 09:45 AM
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The vast majority of people want to be in a loving relationship and cohabitation. People also want kids, when they're in the right circumstances. Wanting to love and be loved is human nature, just look at how much art and culture is dedicated to love. A decline in marriage doesn't mean people are in 'situationships'. More people want to live as a married couple but don't feel the need to do the paperwork or pay for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 12:06 AM
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It depends on how many kids you have. I work with children so I know how difficult it is constantly supervising multiple children. But then some jobs are harder than that, so depends really.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 06:01 PM
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Masculine looks but feminine temperment. Feminine energy is not ideal for me, but he would still be sexually attractive. I'm not sexually attractive to feminine features so I would not end up in bed with them. My first boyfriend had a bit of a Russell brand thing going on which worked for me (not the noncing, the clothes, hair and accent).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 07:10 PM
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They are both.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 06:18 AM
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Yet you see innumerable people saying this innumerable times. The mods can only delete so many.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 06:28 PM
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Of course, he just doesn't ever want to wear mine. Boyfriends have always gladly let me wear their hoodies and football shirts though. They think it looks cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 10:27 AM
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Young people should travel the world and expose themselves to other cultures. If they find a partner on the way, great. However, whilat I'm sure it has good intentions at it's core, the reddit passportbro community is just another hub of hatred constantly shitting on western women and being as equally shitty to other women in different ways. Another problem I have noticed IRL is that when both partners parents get old the couple have to decide which country they are going to to support their agi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 10:19 AM
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You're only 23, you have years ahead of you and ample opportunities to improve your live in many ways. I think the first thing you should be looking to improve is your social circle. Keep your schedule busy with new experiences and your tribe will eventually gravitate towards you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:56 PM
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I can relate. I know that I enjoyed time with my exes, including sex. Hell, that's why I was with them. However, I broke up with them for a reason and those reasons mean I have 'the ick'when I see them. In short, the memories are sullied. I had one break up that was incredibly sad but not toxic, and I still really fancied him and held on to the good memories. Fortunately, we did get back together.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:53 PM
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A lot of casual sex happens when people are drunk/high and because of that, have marginally lower standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 08:17 PM
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You literally can't win. Don't fuck them straight away and you're a prude with a low libido. Have sex too soon and you rack up your n count over time. Best thing to do is ignore what anyone thinks and just do what you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 05:56 PM
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🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 04:54 PM
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I cannot fathom why anyone would do anything sexual near a dumpster.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 04:40 PM
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An occurrence so uncommon that it's not a 'thing'.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:48 AM
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How is using your boyfriends hoody toxic 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 02:52 PM
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Actually I think it's the opposite, way more people are on the spectrum than we realise.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 01:07 PM
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Iir, women are also more discerning about what constitutes as violence (for example a shove). Where as men tend to downplay it more.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 12:20 PM
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That's awesome. Men can be such cuties sometimes <3
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 11:08 PM
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actually get down to brass tacos to the point Is this an idiom? I've never heard it but i like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 06:07 PM
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I used to frequent this sub 5 or so years ago. Things don't seem to have changed much.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 12:27 PM
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I am Gen X and social scenes were better, since you had to go out and have fun in person. Lots of roller rinks and bowling alleys and camping trips and silly house parties. It was fun. These are still incredibly common. I live in a city and there's innumerable events to sift through on Facebook. Went to a goth night last night for the first time, place was pretty rammed.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 12:21 PM
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I find the world is now split into people who go out, and people who don't. Town is full of people 18-50 who enjoy music and socialising. People make friends, swap numbers and go on the pull all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 12:14 PM
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Their friends communicated to them in secret that they want out. Sorry dude.
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