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Why is there a bear with you?! 😲
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 09:07 PM
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Isn't there an n count thread for posts like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 08:43 PM
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I'm referring to his comment to me, not his OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 08:40 PM
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He said: You would think feminists would celebrate men who do not impose their sexuality or will on women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 08:36 PM
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Haha, yes I totally feel that to.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 07:54 PM
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Doing the bare minimum right thing isnt something you need a cookie for,
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 07:54 PM
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Why isn’t this a lifestyle that gets respect? what do you mean by this
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 07:47 PM
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oh hey, I have a BA in childhood studies. How is the degree going?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 07:46 PM
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My generation (millenial) and gen X failed at making our kids socialise because its easier to plonk them infront of a screen and placate them. Extroverts are having the time of their lives, there's an abundance of parties and activities to fill up their time with where they can meet other people and hook up/ date. Neurodivergent kids and introverts get left behind. Their parents never encouraged them to go out and they fiales at learning social skills. This can me mitigated or course, they just …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 07:34 PM
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It’s just personal information with very little to do with “safety” how do you know do you have proof most of it is fake? You can lose other things though like your job and reputation to a mob mentality eager to confirm biases and assumptions Obviously it shouldn't be used to spread bullshit, no one is denying that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:26 PM
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If u say so buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 03:20 PM
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Yeah, that's why I put 'feminine' in inverted commas.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 03:16 PM
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I dislike a lot of 'feminine' personality, such as being passive, agreable and mild mannered. I enjoy looking feminine because I think it's attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 03:09 PM
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I dislike a lot of 'feminine' personality, such as being passive, agreable and mild mannered. I enjoy looking feminine because I think it's attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 03:02 PM
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It's just a little trolling from my side Reported, then.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 02:52 PM
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Only a complete loser let's other people's opinions decide who they can and cannot marry. What happened to rugged individualism and independent thought?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 02:41 PM
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The men who actually have casual sex with these women have incentive to stop orther men dating them. But by all means get together with a bunch of incels, start a group and try not to get laughed at.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 02:34 PM
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So you agree with me. Everyone has different views on n count. Therefore, your Facebook group would be trash
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 12:17 PM
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Tolkien and Lewis (I don't rate the latter as a writer) were not exposed to the same information we have today regarding science and religion. And the two used two used debate theology amongst themselves. I don't know much about Collins, but it seems like he picks and choses parts of Christianity that agree with science.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 07:12 AM
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😆 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:49 AM
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Which country do you live in where someone loses custody of their child over Facebook hearsay?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:48 AM
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My one has less than 300 members, so not much content. I have seen four posts warning about a man being dangerous, one post about a man having lots of phones (to which a someone else said it was ok as he worked for a phone shop) and another asking if a man was ok and a woman replied that she had a nice fling with him ages ago and it fizzled out. Oh and a couple women have just said 'dm me' Tea can range from something midly interesting to something serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 11:15 PM
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And I don't know a single atheist guy who does care. All my male friends had sex with their wives and girlfriends within a month of knowing them. The fact is, some men care and other men do not. There is no consensus amongst men, there will always be some that agree and others who do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 11:05 PM
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all sorts, just non religious.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 10:54 PM
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And people constantly disagree with those men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 10:48 PM
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Not here to debate that The fact is there's no clear consensus regarding n count, the fact that this thread exists is proof of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 10:46 PM
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Yeah, funny old world isn't it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 10:41 PM
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🍪
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 10:40 PM
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But there's no consensus on that, hence why it doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 10:40 PM
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I've no idea how many times I've seen LOTR. It could be three times, it could be fifteen. There's never been a reason to track how often I watch it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 10:39 PM
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Yeah exactly. Contrapoints did a really good video on a PUA called roosh v. She pointed out that in his how book called 'banging' the sex part is about a paragraph long, and half that paragraph describes how he put a condom on, lol. The enjoyment came from chasing women and them agreeing to have sex with him. Not from having a lovely naked lady in bed that brings you pleasure and feels pleasure herself. In contrast you have men like casanova who genuinely love sex for the act itself. That guy en…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 10:35 PM
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Those groups exist to stop women being cheated on and to keep them safe from danger. There is a very clear consensus that both those things are bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 10:31 PM
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I don't count a lot of things. I couldn't tell you how many times I've eaten lobster, had acid or seen the lord of the rings trilogy. I don't do those things that frequently, there's just no reason to count?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 10:28 PM
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Yes! It's like they don't enjoy the sex itself, they enjoy the ego boost of an extra notch count.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 10:26 PM
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I stopped counting after three. Going for notch counts for the sake of notch counts takes the fun out of it IMO.Q
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 10:25 PM
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I'm talking about people who identify as religious, not people who's family are part of that religion. Also a lot of new age beliefs come with a sense of community, that is often why people join them and they gain traction.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 10:20 PM
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Let the low n people date other low n people and the high n people date other high n people. There's enough to go around. I'm a woman and literally not had a single person question my past sex life beyond 'have you been tested because I would like us to have unprotected sex'. In my experience if a man is getting his dick wet every other day by someone enthusiastic, he quickly forgets about all this n count stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 10:07 PM
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You are missing the point. Those religions make claims that are demonstratably, unequivocally false. If you are born in the modern age and belive them to be true, you lack critical thinking and intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 10:05 PM
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That is besides the point (and debatable whether it improved the west, but that's not a discussion for now). Modern day humans have the means to read the bible/ quaran and logically and critically evaluate its content. Anyone who believes it lacks critical thinking and to an extent, ethics.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 09:39 PM
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Abrahmic religion was made up to control people and innumerable teachings have been debunked it with science and..logic. You must have something severely wrong with you if you grew up in the age of information and believe shit like this: https://www.quora.com/What-are-stupid-things-mentioned-in-the-Quran?top_ans=85622882 https://lifelessons.co/spirituality/bible/ And you know, condoning slavery, pedophilia, rape and genocide.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 09:27 PM
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Wierd how new age spirituality is a sign of brain damage but Abrahamic religions are not. It's all fictional, the only difference is the time in which they were invented.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 09:14 PM
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Which is why you have conversations...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 09:08 PM
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You can improve several areas of your life at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 09:04 PM
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Because they're looking for what to do ON TOP OF the obvious stuff like losing weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 09:02 PM
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They know weight is a problem, they're reminded being fat is considered gross constantly. They probably look in the mirror and pinch their fat bits before they go to bed every night, and when they wake up every morning. An entire movement was created because fat people get shamed on a constant basis. Anyone who doesn't realise this is delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 08:59 PM
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Fat people know they are fat, you telling them that doesn't help the discussion hence the downvotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 08:37 PM
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If he was exceptionally smart then my conversations would probably bore him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 03:44 PM
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It takes years to understand men and vet one properly for marriage and especially kids. Being in a shit relationship with a child comes qitg many problems for both you and the child. It's better to never have kids than have one in sub par circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 03:41 PM
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Likewise, I will leave a bloke who doesn't eat pussy immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 03:20 PM
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Everyone's different
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 07:26 AM
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Sometimes I'm just not feeling it, and pushing through doesn't feel right. I would rather get dressed and do something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 07:02 AM
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Sexual enjoyment leads to orgasm for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 07:01 AM
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For me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 07:00 AM
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Between the ages of 16 - 18 quite a lot. Sex just didn't feel good and I thought we were doing everything right. When I discovered a vibrator I knew what an orgasm was and found a partner who could give me one. Since then I've been very honest about my orgasms (or lack of). I think maturing you realise that you deserve to enjoy sex and no one's entitled to have sex with you if you are not enjoying. It is OK to stop in the middle of sex if the sex isn't going anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 09:13 PM
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Ah I see. I think if the entire world was a dystopia I would honestly poison myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 09:09 PM
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Women and men would simply emigrate like they already do from religious countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 06:45 PM
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Don't forget Backstreet abortions and mass emigration.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 06:43 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 06:25 PM
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Slow attentive fuckinf and Being dominant are not mutually exclusively. Y'all need to learn how to fuck better.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 06:23 PM
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The word daddy is fucking gross. I have legit ghosted men whilst dirty talking after they used that word.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 06:21 PM
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I've never seen the films but I follow loads of twilight meme pages and they're hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 06:18 PM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:47 PM
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Good sex improves a relationship. If a woman isn't into the type of sex you described, it would do the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:36 PM
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Oh I adore Natalie wynn. Which video was this?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:34 PM
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Oh I adore Natalie wynn. Which video was this?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:34 PM
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30s is when your hair starts to recede and you develop wrinkles. Obviously you can still look very attractive, but less attractive than you were before.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:27 PM
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You're an angel <3
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:09 PM
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Yummy! I adore steak but unfortunately cannot digest it very well :(
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:08 PM
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Eat me out and buy me a kebab after.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 11:55 AM
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The manosphere gives very little energy to fathers rights. Instead they bleat on about not getting their dicks wet. Curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 10:01 AM
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Most people don't think men peak in their 30s. I actually think it's one of TRP misconceptions that caused its decline into the black pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 08:50 AM
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If fifty percent of the population do it, by definition it is not strange. Also please familiarise yourself with term 'the ick'
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 12:11 PM
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'Provisions' have only been around since agriculture, and prior to that humans existed for millions of years. In the time you would chose a mate/s based on their genetics. I'm not saying provisions aren't deeply important to humans, I'm saying they don't tickle our lizard brains.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 10:16 PM
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I wouldn't know he's the perfect man until we had established some sort of chemistry through flirtation and closeness. So I would need to cheat in order to find out he's the perfect man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:25 PM
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Right, but that's not built into our genetics. Obviously people enjoy money and seek it out, but charisma and looks are what people find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:14 PM
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Hmm, I think at a primal level we care about genetics. In the grand scheme of things, Money is quite q recent invention to humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 07:53 PM
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First boyfriend I had was an unemployed poet/writer. He would occasionally send off some work and make 20 quid lol. Recent boyfriend left his job whilst we were together due to stress, didn't bother me. I didn't plan on having children with these men though. If I wanted children I would need to be at least comfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 07:37 PM
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Yeah, maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 07:35 PM
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Ah I see, yeah I know what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 07:35 PM
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It IS lack of chemistry. For her to feel aroused, she needs build up, flirtation and sensual touching. For him, he wants to get straight to it - and doesn't enjoy this part. They have fundamental different wants and needs I regards to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 06:12 PM
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Zendaya looks gorgeous without making up. She's got lovely features and a good complexion. Never understood why men rate celebrity women so low, it makes me care less about their dating struggles.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 06:07 PM
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Lol no. In female spaces (online and offline) women constantly blow smoke up each others arse. Women will literally go into a toilet cubical with a girl they just met and spend ten minutes giving them compliments. This happened to me three weeks ago. Found myself squished in a cubical witg two girls banging on about how pretty I was and how shocked they were that I was 32 and not early twenties. They were obviously exaggerating to make me feel good about myself, but it's nice that people want me…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 05:56 PM
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I have never understood why we always talk about Penis length in these discussions and rarely Penis girth? It's the girth that gives you that nice feeling. It's what gives the wall all the sensation. Are long dicks more likely to be thicker? Never really looked into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 05:54 PM
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This is exactly why I only start relationships with someone I have excellent sexual chemistry with.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 05:33 PM
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Ita going to differ greatly between cultures and even sub cultures. Quite pointless to attempt to speculate, if I'm honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 06:57 AM
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Some people develop feelings for their FWB.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 05:14 PM
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Did you even read thread probably? The boyfriend literally 'shrugged off' her sexual pleasure and saw it as 'not a big deal' He absolutely deserves to be dumped and she absolutely deserves better. Ensuring your partner enjoys sex is the bare minimum you can do for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 05:01 PM
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Sure, but a partner is a family member you choose. So you can ask those things of them. No one is obliged to donate an organ, so that was probably a bad example. O mean to say family member would consider donating an organ, however most would not ask a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:58 PM
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Because relationships and marriages are akin to being each others family members. I would not expect a friend to lend me a large sum of money, donate an organ or have me in their will. But I would for I family member.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:49 PM
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Not to the extent a boyfriend or husband does.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:25 PM
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I like having someone who is exclusive to me, who can get me put of a crisis and I enjoy cohabiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:42 PM
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Reminds me of those obtuse fake profiles that incèls make of women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 09:33 PM
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Op wants to discuss why women use OLD. I told OP why I used OLD. So yes, it does relate to OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 06:33 PM
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It directly relates to the post by agreeing with OPS posit that women use it to find 'hot guys'
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 06:28 PM
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Wut
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 05:54 PM
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I like how quick and straightforward forward it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 05:43 PM
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I love dating apps! I met my boyfriend on there a few years ago. We went for a drink date, became fuck buddies and them started a relationship. He's absolutely gorgeous, makes me laugh and always supports me. I literally feel like I won tinder. Before meeting there I had a ton of casual sex with younger hot guys, and even arranged a cheeky threesome :p I get people qualms witg it but I'm glad as he'll it exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 05:36 PM
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Dog shit, cat shit and pig shit - what do you want on your toast?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 03:46 PM
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A salty man writing as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 03:44 PM
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The bear then.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 06:35 AM
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when I bring it up, my partner just shrugs it off like it's no big deal. He doesn't understand why I'm making such a fuss over something so small. This is absolutely a valid reason to dump someone. What else is she going to do, nag him to make sex enjoyable?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 09:08 PM
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She did communicate with him. when I bring it up, my partner just shrugs it off like it's no big deal. He doesn't understand why I'm making such a fuss over something so small.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 09:07 PM
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Depends on the bear
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 08:12 PM
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Ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:59 AM
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He's the one who's reluctant to fix it, not her. She's come to him and communicated that she's unhappy, and he has 'shrugged it off'. Time to dump him.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:59 AM
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Well men need stimulating themselves to get off, so they probably won't cum from licking you out or rubbing your clit. What I mean is that they find the process a huge turn on and it makes them rock hard to lick you out and having you cum in their face. I mean look how many men are obsessed with squirting, enough dudes want women to cum and find it extremely pleasurable to watch.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 11:27 PM
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Wrong. They hav eyes an ears. They only need to hear about other peoples sex lives to reaslise how good/ bad theirs is. Plus sexual frustration is a feeling that you recognize without camparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 10:55 PM
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I would rather be a single mother or an old spinster with a bunch of cats than have an arranged marriage. Sharing a bed with someone I might not have any chemistry with for the rest of my life sounds like hell. Im glad the west moved away from that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 10:52 PM
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when I bring it up, my partner just shrugs it off like it's no big deal. He doesn't understand why I'm making such a fuss over something so small. She has brought it up. He doesnt care and sees the issue as 'small'
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 10:42 PM
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I mean..there IS an orgasm gap, and this has roots in how young men and women are exposed to sex in such a male-centric way. So OP he on to something,
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 10:41 PM
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upside down face fuck off the bed whilst I play with myself OR doggy with my face own whilst i rub my clit. Oral sex trumps everything though
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 10:21 PM
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ben shapiro, is that you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 09:34 PM
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She's communicated what she does like and what she doesn't like. I dont know what else she can do?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 09:31 PM
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Animals burn calories just by existing. So what your are doing with animal agriculture is feeding calories to animal that burns some of the calories, and turns the rest into food and you eat that food. If we used that land instead to grow crops that we eat, we will need much less land. The less land we use for agriculture the more land we have for wildlife and ourselves. That is one of the arguments for veganism that makes complete sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 09:24 PM
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Your partner literally expressed that he doesn't care about your pleasure. You need to dump him ASAP. A good sex life will make your life so much more enjoyable. It helps your mental health, your physical health and your relationship with the person. I cannot stress that enough. I strongly suggest you make it your goal to find a man (or woman) who you can have a good sex life with. A man who loves getting women off and finds that arousing in itself. I have had three LTRs. With each one about 1/3…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 09:18 PM
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Yeah lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 07:01 PM
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Chaotic lifestyle, hedonism, Impracticalities like different work schedule or location to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 06:59 PM
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So you mean things we find gross or just things we find off putting ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 06:57 PM
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I'm not a vegan or even vegetarian. But basic energy conversion means it takes less energy and resources to take calories from a plant, than to feed a plant to an animal and take calories from that animal.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 06:43 PM
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This is after men have flirted with me and I have a clear idea they want to hook up. Men just make this clearer so it's not hard to misconstrue what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 02:57 PM
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I find stones don't tend to brag about how much they can smoke. But I'm sure they're out there
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 02:55 PM
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Yeah no shit
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 02:54 PM
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Is it getting traction though? This is the first time I have hear it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 11:21 AM
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Giving the government the power to forcefully abort fetusus is going to have far more implications than anything you can ever imagine. Including women raising children without a father, after they have run away to escape said forced abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 11:20 AM
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I love a man who can dance. Also carefree men who like to enjoy them selves in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 10:49 AM
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Good for you man, genuinely happy for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 10:48 AM
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Dinners are a terrible idea for a first date. Get a coffee or grab a pint somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 10:46 AM
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Fortunately, people also care about bodily autonomy and human rights. So forced abortion will not happen in a democratic society.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 10:45 AM
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I'm not a huge fan of lots of body hair. Also being tolerant of high volumes of alcohol/drugs. Also I eat and enjoy meat, but there's this wierd idea that consuming loads makes you masculine - and I just find that icky.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 10:43 AM
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Fortunately the majority of humans care about the wellbeing of children, and we would not survived as a species if that was not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 10:40 AM
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What? Most women literally all have the option to be sugar babies and 'share' rich men for monetary gain. Guess what? They don't want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 09:25 AM
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Exactly. End of discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 08:18 AM
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I would rather a biological father pay for a child than for society via taxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 08:59 PM
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Oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 10:10 PM
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Most men I have been with absolutely love eating pussy. They enjoy the intensity of the orgasm it gives her and the subsequent ego boost. It's the same for some women (myself included). I feel like I'm in a different universe on this sub. I have always known men and women do be aroused by their partners arousal. That's how sex has been most my life?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 11:01 PM
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Well this is definitely a unique take.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 10:59 PM
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Love is a word we use to describe intense positive feelings, affection towards another and passion. https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/love
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 10:51 PM
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I got some for my BF and he never uses it. He will also occasionally moan about how deep his crows feet are 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 10:23 PM
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Aww, you're too sweet <3 Honestly I just really lke the kids. I dont take any of the bad stuff they say or do to heart, because I know they use behavior to communicate their own negative feelings and self regulate. I definitely party too much lol, I also spend lots of time outdoors, enjoying my (many) hobbies and spending time with awesome people (also my colleagues!) Im sorry your ex went through a tough time, I hope things get better for them <3
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 10:19 PM
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I work with autistic kids. Whilst I think people on the spectrum are amazing, interesting humans - it is a lot of stress to raise them and they can really struggle in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 09:11 PM
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It sucks for both if they want to have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 09:09 PM
1

You absolutely can observe the chemicals that cause emotions I'm humans. And you know..look around you and notice that people have intense positive feelings toward another humans. Hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 08:56 PM
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I don't like the term 'stalking' I prefer 'extreme liking'. Just kidding, obviously I would be mortified and report him to the police.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 04:45 PM
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I have developed crushes with men who haven't flirted with me. I fantasise about them flirting with me in my head. If I get to know them and that never happens, or if I decide I don't like him - the crush and sexual fantay just dwindles.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 10:59 PM
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I'm a woman who hooks up with younger men when I'm single. Like, I will approach them and straight up ask to hook up. Usually they're fun, vibrant, energetic and obviously very handsome. I enjoy having awesome sex with them and then chilling with a beer after. I even enjoy going dancing with them and getting drunken take aways together on my sofa. HOWEVER, I know these men still have a lot to explore and I know for a fact that commiting to a 32 year old will not benefit them in the long young. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 10:35 PM
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Emotions are observable, horoscopes are not. You know, if you want to be a beta buck and leverage money for unenthusiastic duty sex - more power to you. I will continue to enjoy mutually enjoyable sex with someone I fancy who makes me laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 05:16 PM
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I'm a very shallow person who isn't risk adverse and enjoys casual sex. So as long as he doesn't say anything stupid or make me feel unsafe then him being physically attractive is enough. I don't claim to represent all women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 10:19 PM
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Love is an intense emotion towards someone and chemistry describes the emotions between two people. You are literally arguing against the dictionary there.. Wrong. Women worship celebrities, women worship status. Even men are drawn to status, look at Taylor Swift and all the men who have convinced themselves she's attractive. Worshiping a celebrity isn't always about sexual or romantic attraction. Also wrong. See above. If women were primarily attracted to looks, they wouldn't prefer older men a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 10:16 PM
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Sex - literally seconds. Relationship - maybe a month
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 08:40 PM
2

Yep, we need to reclaim these words !
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 08:16 PM
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Because that's how language works. If people don't like a thing, they create and use specific words to express that dislike. You have specific derogatory words for this usage.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 06:31 PM
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Emotions are very much real and the vast majority of humans experience them. People enjoy money and status for practical reasons, but it doesn't create a deep, interpersonal affection between two people. It also doesn't make someone adore having sex with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 06:27 PM
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I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 05:42 PM
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This only applies to men who want to exchange money for sex. There are easier, less convoluted ways to do this. For men who value mutual attraction, love and chemistry - looks are important.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 05:01 PM
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This is all.discussed in the study I dropped. TLDR theres many physiological reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 07:13 AM
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Short hand for 'whore', a derogatory word for a prostitute. Now it's just a derogatory word for a women who wants to fuck men other than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 12:12 AM
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Orgasms require arousal and physical stimulation. Arousal alone won't make you come.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 12:08 AM
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It's to do with the individual womens anatomy. The shape, size and the distance between their clitoris and the 'urethral meatus'. For some women, the clitoris just isn't stimulated enough through PIV. Dick size isn't going to make a difference. I can only come through PIV if I rub my clitoris with my hands. The best way to get off is by oral. Oral orgasms are far more intense that PIV orgasms. With oral sex my eyes roll.to the back of my head and I disappear to another planet for 20 seconds. I c…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 12:05 AM
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I had am older women (late 40s) tell me I should date older men when I was 18. Her reason was that they 'know what they're doing in bed'. Been with men from the ages of 18 - 37 and never ever seen a link between age and sexual prowess.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 05:40 PM
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Most my friends are male nowadays. Some have partners, some don't. I've only ever encountered one issue and that was a friend developing feelings for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 05:10 PM
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😆
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 05:08 PM
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Truth hurts Comparing someone wanting a tidy and clean space to nazis is far from the truth mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 05:02 PM
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Make the most of it!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 01:02 AM
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I've just watched some of ''Baby reindeer' of Netflix. It's a true story about a struggling Scottish comedian who ends up with a female stalker. How he deals with (and doesn't deal with) it is tied up in his past trauma involving another person. It's a hell of a whirlwind but incredibly dark in places. Really entertaining but kinda fucked up and not for the feint of heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 01:00 AM
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Its been that way in the west since at least the 80s. But I think it differs slightly from each country.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 10:49 PM
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Contrapoints did a really good video roasting Roosh Vs PUA books. He started one off them by saying that you will be rejected about 99% of the time. So essentially he's saying 'my advice has a 1% chance of working!' And some men still.took them seriously ?! Lmao, can't make this shit up!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 08:57 PM
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I'm happy to date blue collar men and I have. The only issue is that jobs fucks your body so they can end up with lots of health issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 08:50 PM
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I think a partnership needs to be balanced. So if you both have the same strong personality traits, then you can clash. I'm super extroverted and social, and like to party. If I dated someone the same then life would get quite messy. A more introverted person mellows me out, and I can bring them out their shell. I think two autistic people can work really.well as a partnership, but it depends on how their autistic traits manifest.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 08:42 PM
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🍪
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 08:15 PM
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There doesn't have to be in order for me to share my opinion that British men age more poorly than other European men. Every country in Europe has vastly different environments, and vastly different regions within those counties. Comparing one country to almost 50 others is a bit silly imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 08:12 PM
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I'm not a British man, so your comment doesn't apply to me. Aging is due to a myriad of factors and it is a fact that some people age better than others. It is what it is. Right so it's down to an individuals lifestyle and environment, not down to their nationality which is what you claimed for some reason. Also please refrain from downvoting..
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 08:07 PM
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Always comparing people to nazis, smdh.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 08:03 PM
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Well I'm trying to look at things objectively.. For your assertion to be true, there would be an identifiable factor - which I don't think there is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 08:00 PM
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Uh huh
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 07:52 PM
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Smoking and sun damage is what speeds up aging. The UK doesn't have much sun and smoke less than a lot of countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 07:49 PM
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Britain is mostly over cast.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 07:26 PM
3

Who's we? I don't know you.How would I know if you are or aren't ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 07:24 PM
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Im 33 so that would be far too young for me. I would go as young as 24 for casual - if they were seasoned at sex and dating that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 06:55 PM
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My gym is mostly male zoomers.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 06:28 PM
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Nope. There's pressure on men to marry within their socioeconomic and age bracket.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 06:23 PM
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thats just depressing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 06:19 PM
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They can buy spf moisturiser and put that on am and pm. Not rocket science
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 02:02 PM
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Yes to sweaty, no to the rest. 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 01:30 PM
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Mens value also encompasses their looks, which does dwindle with age. Look after your looks, men!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 01:20 PM
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I honestly think a lot of women don't experience good sex so they have neutral or bad connotations with. Knowing your own body and what you like is necessary, but so is an attentive lover. I have friends who just forget about sex when they're single and when they find a boyfriend they're at it like rabbits. Myself and other women I know get frustrated after too long without sex so end up seeking it out. Like if I'm desperate I will phone someone who I really shouldn't be having sex with just put…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 12:35 PM
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Same ! I Also love good annunciation and vocabulary. I just talk absolute shit all the time so I appreciate people who speak thoughtfully 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 12:30 PM
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Lmao, older men are as likely as younger men to be slobs. Older men are more likely to be higher earners, but that doesn't outweigh the negatives of marrying older.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 09:49 AM
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I'm going to be honest, this seems like an unrealistic scenario so I don't really have an opinion of it. For what it's worth, lampooning someone doesn't mean you are 'upset' with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 09:45 AM
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It definitely isnt.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 05:55 PM
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First one obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 10:39 AM
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Didn't say that. And please stop down voting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 08:28 PM
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My point is that if you stay a virgin until marriage and marry young then you may well have missed out and will get FOMO. You also might not have a good sex life because you haven't been able to find out if the two of you have chemistry beforehand. If you have the freedom to date around, you go into marriage knowing that it's right for both of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 08:18 PM
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I Have been fully naked outside on several occasions. It is such a wonderful feeling that I would hate to compromise.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 08:14 PM
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Freedom comes with highs and lows, but I would take it over any form of oppression.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 05:55 PM
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Of course
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 05:54 PM
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It is the price to pay to pay to be free individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 05:13 PM
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The worst thing IMO is not feeling the sun and sea on my bare skin and feeling wind through my hair. The idea of always dressing modestly is depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 05:11 PM
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Which is why dating is useful. You get to know someone and experience life with them. If it doesn't work out, you try with someone else until you find the right one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 05:10 PM
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No, it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 05:08 PM
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Settling down too young runs the risk of not being with the right person and living with regret. There's also the risk of not having a full filling sex life because you have only been witg one man/woman. You get one shot at life, then you're dead and that's that. So I want to fill it with as many positive experiences as possible and never live with regret.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 04:52 PM
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Same with girls, better to marry some high value guy when they are both early to mid 20's than run wild till 30, I couldn't think of anything worst to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 04:29 PM
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There's no such thing as a standard being 'too high'. If someone is ONLY romantically attracted to 7' red headed Bulgarians who tame lions for a living - that is their prerogative. Either someone makes life better than being single, ot they do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 04:27 PM
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I would ask him what drugs he was on, and if he would shar ethem with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 04:22 PM
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Yeah. They say anger is sadness that has nowhere to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 04:19 PM
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You should definitely worry about STDs to an extent, but you shouldn't worry about what others think.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 11:36 AM
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I'm aware it exists in places like Hollywood, and I do think age will become part of inclusively one day. I haven't noticed older women getting less respect in real life, but that's not to say I disregard other people's experiences if they say that's what they experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 11:34 AM
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Massively. Which is why people should just be what makes them happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 11:10 AM
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Not being sexually attractive en masses isn't the end of the world. Especially as your libido goes down anyway and sex means less to you. Older women can and are still respected, age even means you're taken more seriously in a lot of ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 10:21 AM
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I'm sorry but it is. Women who prefer bald men are the minority. Like men who prefer old or fa women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 10:12 AM
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They controlled for maternal age in the autistic study. https://www.spectrumnews.org/news/link-parental-age-autism-explained/
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 08:03 AM
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Oh yeah, I'm not saying that an older mum comes with less risks than an older dad. But being an older dad DOES come with higher risks, so it's in womens interests to have children with younger men. There's also higher risk of autism to consider.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 02:37 AM
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Well men tend to peak in looks between 30-45 God no!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 02:26 AM
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He still has extremely hot women going for him, He has quite openly said that he uses money to attract women and duplicity to keep them. Tate isn't ugly-ugly but he's no dream boat either. He's tall and that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 02:24 AM
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Paternal age comes with an increased risk of birth defects.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 02:21 AM
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https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7803514/ As a library, NLM provides access to scientific literature. Inclusion in an NLM database does not imply endorsement of, or agreement with, the contents by NLM or the National Institutes of Health. Learn more: PMC Disclaimer | PMC Copyright Notice  Aging (Albany NY). 2020 Dec 31; 12(24): 25373–25394. Published online 2020 Nov 20. doi: 10.18632/aging.104141 PMCID: PMC7803514 PMID: 33229621 Effect of paternal age on offspring birth defects: a s…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 02:18 AM
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That's not a universal thing, it's dependent on culture. However, attitudes towards physical aging are universal. All countries and cultures across history have a similar view of aging in regards to attractiveness. But we're going in circles now.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 02:15 AM
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Most women like hair, but definitely not all… Exactly. The majority of women prefer hair over baldness. Ergo, baldness is (generally) seen as as a negative amongst society.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 01:26 AM
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Aging makes you appear gruff. Gruff tends to be masculine. So women are unfairly disadvantaged in this regard. Never thought of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 01:16 AM
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You can be bald and still be attractive. You can also be old, fat, flat chested and still be attractive. One unattractive physical feature doesn't always outweigh the attractive features on an individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 01:15 AM
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You are missing my point entirely. I'm not saying those words are always insults. I am saying that WHEN they are used as an insult, it is because the person using it regards it as negative. The fact that people purposely use 'bald/balding' as an insult exemplifies that it is regarded as a negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 01:10 AM
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Physical traits used as insults reflect what people think about those traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 01:02 AM
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There's subtle waya you can display wealth tastefully. Holiday pictures, classy, fashionable clothes (not massive logos or anything tacky). I feel you'll attract people for the wrong reasons though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 01:01 AM
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It can absolutely be a sign of aging and poor health. You lose hair when you age and when you get sick. There can be other reasons but our monkey brains see baldness and subconsciously link it to being old/sick. Hair growth and hair transplant treatment is a million dollar industry for a reason. You can look at most undesirable and desirable physical traits in humans and link it to fertility and health.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 12:53 AM
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Yeah, no shit. My point was that it's used as an insult because people find it unattractive. People find it unattractive because it's a sign of aging and poor health.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 12:45 AM
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When it's used with the intention to hurt someone's feelings, it's an insult. Same with 'fat', 'old' or 'flat tits'
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 12:40 AM
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'Bald/balding' is universally considered an insult to men, and its what happens when they age. Same with wrinkles and sagging skin - they're deemed unnatractive and are a result of aging in both women and men. I find that women develop finer lines earlier than men, but men seem to have deeper, thicker lines. Men also seem to get larger pores as they age. I don't know if this is down to skincare routines or the difference in male and female skin. We all decrease in looks, it's inevitable. You hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 11:30 PM
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Unfortunately my city of 220k has a page witg only 200 members.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 09:56 PM
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My boyfriend (who is met on tinder) has classical handsome facial features (strong jaw, smooth skin, hunter eyes, thick hair) but he's actually 5'6 which is my height. Boyfriend before that was handsome and me but I don't think he was classically good looking. Men at clubs were literally Chad's, I scanned the room, saw them and approached. Absolutely none of them made bank. I've had two unemployed boyfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 09:53 PM
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I've been with both sides of the spectrum.. First boyfriend would never ever cry, and claimed he hadn't since he was prepubescent. I believe him. He didn't cry when his child was born or when something really sad happened. Being stoic all the time really wasn't good for him, he was always on edge and just..simmering. he would snap and get angry about the smallest thing and could never express why. My boyfriend after that cried constantly, once he started crying when he was listening to the gladi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 09:50 PM
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One of my exes was like that. He didn't even cry when his kid was born. He did get angry a lot though. Couldn't shed a tear but would get angry easily about small things. It was strange. I think he's doing better now though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 09:34 PM
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The bloke in OP was suing for 'emotional damage' not for a loss in finances or work.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 09:10 PM
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Well having read this thread, it seems like the bloke doesn't have a leg to stand on and the judge isn't actually going to sue any of these women. Depp v heard is irrelevant. Those were accusations of law breaking, unlike the case in OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 08:46 PM
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Eh, this all seems like a slippery slope to me. Falsely saying someone broke the law should be illegal or obvious reasons. But saying you had bad dating experiences with someone? People literally do that all the time in person and online, to famous and regular people.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 08:13 PM
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If hes been dating 50 women, there is going to be some overlap between each woman, which is why these groups exist. That's why it's called 'are we dating the same guy'
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:38 PM
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You're being obtuse and off tangent. Preventing people from telling stories that make another person look bad is a VERY slippery slope.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:19 PM
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My understanding is that those pages are there for women to warn other women about certain men. It also prevent men from seeing to women at the time and feigning exclusivity.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:17 PM
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Or maybe these women did all have bad experiences and are just telling their story? Is that illegal now? Don't people do that verbally every day and online with celebrities?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:08 PM
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I get the harassment part, but are we really suing people for saying mean things about others? Is this the free speech that America likes to bleat on about?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:16 PM
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He's a 5 star man!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:05 PM
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Well I know for a fact that unattractive men are no better at treating women compares to attractive men. So, might as well date the good looking ones..
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 03:29 PM
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Umm what? So because I date a good looking man, I should expect him to have a bad personality? What's the link between the two?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 03:00 PM
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Red pill rhetoric is hilarious. Pages of mental gymnastics describing how to be a 'bad BOY Player' and one article about making her come which you have to search for. If a woman is having mind blowing orgasms and laughing her self silly inbetween, all that becomes completely irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 02:06 PM
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I don't know - too many reasons to count. Sometimes you stay because you think you can work on the sex. Could be 100s of reasons. I regularly have sex with someone before commiting to a person to avoid shit like this from happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 01:44 PM
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Why? As you said, compatability isnt anyone's fault. Feeling bad about it is illogical.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 01:31 PM
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If you are not sexually compatible then it's irrelevant how good the persons ex was.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 01:20 PM
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Oh geez, if only sex was a set of skills that you could learn!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 01:06 PM
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Power is power - Cersai Lannister.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 01:02 PM
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Basically they probably cheating cheating gfs and fiancé's.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 08:56 AM
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This comment gets hammered out 20 innumerable times on each thread. If someone has been on hear longer than three days, just assume they have already read this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 06:19 PM
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Holy cow, is this the same person ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 06:06 PM
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Why are you OK with sleeping witg someone's girlfriend but not wife? Why is their a line between the two?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:03 PM
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Mind blown
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 11:59 AM
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I don't know how myself or any women can speak for the entirely of our gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 11:02 AM
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A myriad of reasons. Sometimes I'm not ready for a relationship myself, sometimes the guy is a bit too 'wild' for a relationship ship, sometimes he's too young and 8t wouldn't work. Don't take it to personal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 11:01 AM
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Why do men on here have to constantly point out that women only date/hit on men they find attractive? There's about 20 comments like this in every thread. Like..duh, obviously. It doesn't need to be pointed out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 10:59 AM
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They get orgasms to, that's kinda how it works. You should try it some day.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 11:55 PM
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I get get orgasms, and I'm good with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 11:54 PM
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It's best when each person 'leads' the areas of their lives in which they're most competent.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 11:17 PM
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Men don't hit their peak sexual market value in their 30s. 'Sexual' Market value is about looks, mens looks peak in the 20s - I would say mid 20s. I would not encourage my child to settle down in her early 20s. She needs more life experience before she decides to chose a person to spend the rest of her life with.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 10:52 PM
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Yet I have had zero issues with dating my entire life. Most boyfriends I slept with the same day I met them. Good looking men with bags of charisma who eat my pussy like a rabbid dog eating a kebab. ❤ 😍 😋
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 10:30 PM
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ph release stats every year. Iir the most popular was WLW and cunnilingus. They also liked mmfs and some stuff like gangbangs. Which makes sense when you think about it. But it's still just a minority of women who watch it at all. I think literotica is far more popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:30 PM
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Not all relationships are meant to last. I have heard women like having short flings witg him and they stay friends after.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 04:13 PM
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He has less status than a lot now them though. Especially Arianna grande.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 03:33 PM
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Youve called me 'ran through', 'low value' and 'scraps'. People with your rhetoric are completely outside my dating pool. I am happy with the caliber of men I am able to attract and settle down them, and that's all that matter
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 03:06 PM
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Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 02:56 PM
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Haha, not heard this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 02:54 PM
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I think he's hot in an unconventional way. I love his energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 02:54 PM
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I've had a lifetime of fulfilling sex and relationships. I have absolutely nothing to moan about :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 02:51 PM
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Unprovoked insults towards Internet strangers is not the behaviour of a happy and unfulfilled individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 02:19 PM
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Celebrities tend to stick with other celebrities, they're quite shallow like that. I'm sure lots of beautiful women would have sex with him because of his looks and charisma.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 02:18 PM
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I think he would still be successful if he didn't have money tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 02:04 PM
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I'm sorry life hasn't treated you kindly, but it's not my fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 01:49 PM
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I fucked him within a few hours of meeting him, he's very much aware I have had casual sex in the past. As has he, maybe more. Also please refrain feom calling me 'scraps' it is rude and unnecessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 01:34 PM
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They have more traditional elements than places like the UK, Germany ect. My point being womens decision to approach or not approach is cultural.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 01:22 PM
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Beautiful women are attracted to Pete Davidson because of his charm, charisma, big dong and looks. Knowing this is an ego boost.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 01:18 PM
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If someone approached me in the street with a microphone and a camera, I would tell them to fuck right off. I hate this culture where its seen as acceptable to film people without their consent. Influencers really are the worse. They need to be told to fuck off more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 12:47 PM
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I can't imagine what they would be like if I was walking on my own
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 12:41 PM
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Experienced it in New York, even when I was holding hands with my five year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 12:07 PM
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A sensible man approaches a woman in a club only AFTER she gave him the gaze/smile. Yeah. She smiles at him, he strikes conversation, if the conversation goes well and she seems interested he offers to buy a drink.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 11:57 AM
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The balkans are pretty traditional in a lot of ways. Maybe it correlates with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 11:46 AM
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Yeah, that is wierd. I know very little about France and the dating scene there. I know some women who have said there's a lot of sexual harrasement in Paris, but whether or not that's French men I don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 11:35 AM
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There isn't an expectation that a sugar baby is exclusive. Most sugar babies have more than one sugar daddy. Gold digging is basically a shallow relationship. There is an expectation that you are both exclusive. Sugaring is escorting witg extra steps. But I suppose it is marginally safer than escorting because you see less men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 10:27 AM
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I'm also based in the UK and it's normal for women approach. Unless they have gfs, most men aren't going to turn down a date or sex - so it's not like we have much to lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 09:55 AM
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Apparently this is an Amaerican thing. I'm in the UK and it's pretty common for women to make the first move. I met my bf on tinder and I was the first to suggest a drink. My bf before that we switched numbers and I escalated things. When I've been single at clubs I have also straight up asked dude's to hook up with me Speaking to women in the UK and Europe this is pretty normal behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 09:45 AM
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The vast majority of people want to be in a loving relationship and cohabitation. People also want kids, when they're in the right circumstances. Wanting to love and be loved is human nature, just look at how much art and culture is dedicated to love. A decline in marriage doesn't mean people are in 'situationships'. More people want to live as a married couple but don't feel the need to do the paperwork or pay for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 12:06 AM
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It depends on how many kids you have. I work with children so I know how difficult it is constantly supervising multiple children. But then some jobs are harder than that, so depends really.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 06:01 PM
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Masculine looks but feminine temperment. Feminine energy is not ideal for me, but he would still be sexually attractive. I'm not sexually attractive to feminine features so I would not end up in bed with them. My first boyfriend had a bit of a Russell brand thing going on which worked for me (not the noncing, the clothes, hair and accent).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 07:10 PM
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They are both.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 06:18 AM
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Yet you see innumerable people saying this innumerable times. The mods can only delete so many.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 06:28 PM
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Of course, he just doesn't ever want to wear mine. Boyfriends have always gladly let me wear their hoodies and football shirts though. They think it looks cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 10:27 AM
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Young people should travel the world and expose themselves to other cultures. If they find a partner on the way, great. However, whilat I'm sure it has good intentions at it's core, the reddit passportbro community is just another hub of hatred constantly shitting on western women and being as equally shitty to other women in different ways. Another problem I have noticed IRL is that when both partners parents get old the couple have to decide which country they are going to to support their agi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 10:19 AM
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My partner and I are both Liberal but we have out qualms with the left and will often criticise how our political movement can be at sometimes. But yeah, I find that masculinity is less contrived and performative with liberal men. With Conservative men their masculinity always seemed like more of an act to me. Masculinity runs deeper than just gender roles. I think liberal men tend to be more creative and free-spirited, which I have always valued.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 08:13 AM
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You're only 23, you have years ahead of you and ample opportunities to improve your live in many ways. I think the first thing you should be looking to improve is your social circle. Keep your schedule busy with new experiences and your tribe will eventually gravitate towards you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:56 PM
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I can relate. I know that I enjoyed time with my exes, including sex. Hell, that's why I was with them. However, I broke up with them for a reason and those reasons mean I have 'the ick'when I see them. In short, the memories are sullied. I had one break up that was incredibly sad but not toxic, and I still really fancied him and held on to the good memories. Fortunately, we did get back together.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:53 PM
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A lot of casual sex happens when people are drunk/high and because of that, have marginally lower standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 08:17 PM
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Why would she talk to HR? And why would HR care?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 08:15 PM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 06:24 PM
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How is the risk high? You express interest to a female friend, they turn you down and you just move on with your life. You risk rejection no matter where you met the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 06:24 PM
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You literally can't win. Don't fuck them straight away and you're a prude with a low libido. Have sex too soon and you rack up your n count over time. Best thing to do is ignore what anyone thinks and just do what you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 05:56 PM
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That is why you get to know the other person and have some sort of rapport. This is what people in the west have done decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 05:45 PM
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All it does is change how people navigate dating with colleagues, which is a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 05:39 PM
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Im not against colleagues dating, and have expanded on that in another comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 05:37 PM
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Yes but it happens less because of this code of conduct and social stigma.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 05:13 PM
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Yes, this puts it really well.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 04:57 PM
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🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 04:54 PM
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Well like it or not, hitting on someone at work will often lead to a report to HR or other colleagues avoiding you. It is in companies interests to have a peaceful work environment, so this will likely never change.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 04:42 PM
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I cannot fathom why anyone would do anything sexual near a dumpster.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 04:40 PM
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What usually happens is that they become friends at work, hang out outside work and that blossoms into something sexual/romantic That's completely different to leechy men hitting on colleagues and making lewd comments at them in the work place. No one wants to work in a place where they feel uncomfortable around other people and have to avoid certain people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 04:36 PM
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People should absolutely be reported to HR for approaching and flirting at work. It's completely unprofessional and makes for a shit work environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 04:27 PM
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Lol, the guy literally greats single parent families by having a load of kids with different mums and not sticking around. He's the loser, and a hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 04:13 PM
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An occurrence so uncommon that it's not a 'thing'.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:48 AM
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How is using your boyfriends hoody toxic 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 02:52 PM
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Actually I think it's the opposite, way more people are on the spectrum than we realise.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 01:07 PM
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Is that pedobear?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 12:40 PM
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Iir, women are also more discerning about what constitutes as violence (for example a shove). Where as men tend to downplay it more.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 12:20 PM
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That's awesome. Men can be such cuties sometimes <3
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 11:08 PM
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actually get down to brass tacos to the point Is this an idiom? I've never heard it but i like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 06:07 PM
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They certainly act like theyre 12 lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 06:03 PM
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I used to frequent this sub 5 or so years ago. Things don't seem to have changed much.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 12:27 PM
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I am Gen X and social scenes were better, since you had to go out and have fun in person. Lots of roller rinks and bowling alleys and camping trips and silly house parties. It was fun. These are still incredibly common. I live in a city and there's innumerable events to sift through on Facebook. Went to a goth night last night for the first time, place was pretty rammed.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 12:21 PM
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I find the world is now split into people who go out, and people who don't. Town is full of people 18-50 who enjoy music and socialising. People make friends, swap numbers and go on the pull all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 12:14 PM
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Their friends communicated to them in secret that they want out. Sorry dude.
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