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No, it's a play on modern fairy tales and how they promote a superficially ideal characters. The good look pretty the bad look bad. Shrek isn't good-looking but is good, and Fiona is a princess but not looking like one. In the UK this used to appear on the GCSE curriculum
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 01:23 PM
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Says the person who has made a post whining lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 08:52 PM
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As a teacher, honestly, it's the men in my experience who find it a shock. I think on reflection this is due to there being more changes in a Father's role. Just being a provider and being absent isn't good enough culturally anymore, for a lot of people that is who their Dads were. Women have been sold the you have to be everything for a while and now are choosing not to have children following seeing their own mothers burn out.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 05:33 PM
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100% and not just time apart from our son but tome alone. I want to be able to go and get a coffee on my own and still then have some time with my husband. I have three roles me, a mum, and a wife. I need time to do all three of these things on their own or I have to pick on to be shit at.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 05:29 PM
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As a woman with a 2 year old me and my husband and I have changed our son comes first in the big choices we make. We pay for an extra few hours of childcare, so we still get time together and some time apart, too. He still plays games. I still read and insane a number of books. We still go from runs together to just one of us pushes a pushchair or takes turns to do a slow lap with our son. If you know what having children is and have frank conversations about the changes, it's honestly a good ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 10:09 AM
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If the women around you are over eating, maybe it's a you thing. I lost weight after pregnancy as I was really sick. My bladder stopped working and is permanently damaged. I lost 2 teeth due to malnutrition from HG I vomited at least once an hour. I also lost so much blood during a c section I had to have a blood transfusion as my giant baby did not want to leave. Pregnancy is no joke and something that can and does kill women, so maybe you know see it as a medical condition.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 07:34 PM
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A misandrist monster sounds cool though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 03:43 PM
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See that's perfect 👌 Thanks babe x
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 03:42 PM
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No thanks, it's more fum watching people overreact to my daft comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 09:54 PM
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Or am I being sarcastic, hence the lack of an actual response?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 07:47 PM
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The vast majority of women aren't unkind to men and im fact date them (while men still are going after the type of woman that wants to spit vemon about them and only use them as a resource provider and smearing the nice girls as the real problem) It's not reasonable at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 07:37 PM
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Why am I responsible for the emotions of a tiny minority of bad women?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 06:57 PM
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Have men tried not raping and killing women as I find this makes them less likely to show compassion.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 05:55 PM
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The trade off though is or should be unless you're daft and think a woman can be in two places at once. That woman may have a child later or not at all and may not be available as much to be a sole parent or partner. Passive can mean safe, and for some women, by coincidence, often the career driven this works. It is very difficult for two people to be at the top of their career. Someone needs to be less ambitious and be lead. I see relationships like this around me, including my own. I'm the bre…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 09:26 PM
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You don't think men screen on the desire for a woman to have children, be a present mother, or be available to take care of them as these were widely held marriage ideals previously
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 08:27 PM
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Then start a movement online, this is just a vague post.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 06:38 PM
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So women went out and did things, then men went along with it, why aren't you doing the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 04:36 PM
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In today's, how can men blame women for their own choices to become red pilled we have ... Women aren't our friends and lie to us to get is all in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 02:23 PM
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It could and can, I don't care what men are up to other than the one I married and the one I'm raising. I would say that's the case for a lot of women. Why don't men all get together and go for it? Why do they ask for women to change for them? That's not how women changed their role.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 02:22 PM
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Posts states cold, hard facts and historical data but doesn't include any how odd!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 11:48 AM
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I understood it. However, that's your viewpoint you have got to on your own without looking at other sources. Thus, it's unlikely you will engage in debate when you haven't even used Google yet to challenge your view yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 09:52 AM
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So that's a no then, grand, enjoy your rant.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 09:35 AM
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Any of that evidence for your viewpoint? As this just comes across as a rant.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 09:28 AM
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Are they, then, why are they the biggest group of domestic violence perpetrators? Remember, the domestic violence they most commonly commit is on children. Every gender can be evil like every person can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 04:08 PM
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Some men for sure are scum as are some women sometimes in the same way. To only think of one gender as evil is stupid at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 03:21 PM
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This baggage or history isn't gendered, and to be silly enough to think it is, is unlikely enough for someone to think it's rage bait.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 02:52 PM
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Umm, so rape is a thing, so even if we deny access, it does not prevent men from trying to gain access. If you want a certain result, say so and put boundaries in place and if your goals don't align, leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 02:51 PM
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Then whywhen a woman tells you what secual health is, aka my first message, did you say if effect no I mean that? Part of finishing out is the potential people won't agree. The biggest sexual health thing for women is pregnancy, either preventing, dealing with, or recovering.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 06:18 PM
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That could also be a plethora of other things, from heart conditions to body dismorphia. As with anything, if the way you are feeling is impacting your daily life, seek medical, not reddit advice. What your description is of a rock-hard dick does not come across as just not being able to perform but disappointment due to expectations. Obviously I have no idea what you are feeling but it's important so you can communicate that I tell you how your words are being received.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 06:11 PM
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TRT would be a lack causing low sex drive, not what you are describing. Why do you feel it's TRT?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:39 PM
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What happens because are you sure its not big feelings?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:31 PM
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Sexual health is me not having an STD or my coil going for a wonder. Or worst case my cervix trying to kill me like it did my Mum. Do you mean sexual well-being?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:28 PM
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Or is how we think about gender more of a social construct that we have developed over the course of adulthood and not really as unbiased as we think.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 08:02 PM
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You know that comment was made by an NBA scout about Langdon and was a comnet about his "high basketball IQ" as he had played basketball. NBA teams are not able to draft non basketball players ffs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 08:08 PM
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This is where I have heard ut in my experience, as stated in the first message. You sound like you haven't understood the conversation if you then try to tell me where I've heard it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:59 PM
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Yeah, I was on about women getting themselves off, which takes an element of knowing what you like, but cool story.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:08 PM
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In the context I'm highlighting this is brought up when discussing what type of wife they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:03 PM
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Again, but slower, the context is they want a wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:00 PM
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Jesus, as the context is, they are talking about taking a wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 11:55 AM
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Great, that doesn't impact if you want someone who knows how to perform a certain act. Well, expecting someone with no experience of this act is well daft.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 11:49 AM
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I see this brought up when men say they want a virgin wife and an incredible from the start sex life. A virgin is likely to need patience and support to achieve this. Thus, someone different is suggested as a potential wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 11:43 AM
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Lol let me know when your comedy show are.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 01:02 PM
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https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/home-news/men-sexual-assault-clothes-women-victim-blaming-rape-a8792591.html Source: End Violence Against Women https://share.google/D8dPL4MLF3d0bkVMk
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 12:57 PM
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Each gender has its own barriers for example women are told its their fault if they get abused for being somewhere or picking a person then get told they will be crazy cat ladies if they don't get out there. Everyone likes to have a moan. For me as a woman, its intent if you approach me and are reasonable and polite, you will be greeted with the same regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 12:29 PM
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Then why did you create this post? It gives playing a violin in the corner vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 06:28 PM
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Why do you think it happens with causal sex and not relationships as much?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 03:40 PM
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But is it more than those who would? And do we understand men also have differing standards for purly sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 07:40 AM
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To establish this, we first need to unpick why some people have causal sex as this is for different reasons to a relationship. The comment below is taken from https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC8853360/ Women (compared to men) reported significantly more negative emotional outcomes than men, including loneliness, unhappiness, rejection, regret, general negative feelings, and a perception of negative judgment from others. Using this, we could say if women are closing men who are more what c…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 07:40 PM
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The language you have chosen suggests you may have a bias that may make discussions around this topic less open. I've spoken about narrowing down if you wanted to talk about the studies or the experiences you had however you appear to have been sidelined by me highlighting your phrasing. Feel free to go back and read the messages.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 07:21 PM
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So you would like to talk about just those two experiences you had? Also, it's still giving I don't value women which shows an open bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 07:13 PM
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Are you referring to those studies? In which case, you should link them so we have the context. Or the above example also no idea why you think the word obses was needed in that sentence but it's very telling lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 07:10 PM
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How do you know the standards are different? Have you done a study to collect all the data from one woman, for example? Or are you just guessing on the small window of time you have seen?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 07:06 PM
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Imagine not having the critical thinking to understand that your minimal experiences might not be a true reflection of a whole group.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 07:18 PM
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Because when most men and women are married, it makes you look stupid. Women can now hold property, earn a living, even have a baby without a man. It's no longer a must do thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 03:24 PM
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All of what you listed tends to be done by other men, so maybe take that up with them. Men are men's biggest bullies in most cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 06:37 AM
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I mean, I walk past a woman and think wow she's attractive I don't expect him to be walking around playing dumb or wearing a blind fold. It's OK to go blimey she's stunning.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 06:55 AM
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The only person anybody should listen to about this is their partner, and even then, you might not listen as you shouldn't change key parts of yourself for someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 04:51 PM
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Do some posters know what creating posts like this means? If you think all people follow some sort of rubric due to having one trait, you are more likely to have subscribed to at least on Andrew Tate like podcast.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 09:24 PM
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The only people concerned about if other people are dating are governments who need the poorer classes to churn out children to keep jobs stable. I'm married, but honestly, even if I wasn't, I wouldn't care. I can get IVF and own a house prior to marriage. A husband was a bonus, not something I had to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 08:55 AM
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Some of it impacts both genders, so working from home, for example, stops one place people gain friends. Men are impacted more by this due to the number of seniors, aka office based roles they hold, and the sectors they are more likely to work in. Other things are the toxic masculinity working against them being seen as being a "man" and strong doesn't lend well to making solid open froendships. Men might feel less able to share emotional feelings, which supports bond making. Less men only frien…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 01:29 AM
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That's true if you marry the wrong person which i get you can't predict. However, if you don't "buy the milk" it's not even yours to claim it's not OK for someone to drink it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 09:11 PM
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Yeah, I mean, if you don't mind drinking milk that other people might have spat in, sure. If you aren't exclusive, she gets to pass her milk to anyone and might find a better milk drinker. It's the risk you make, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 06:56 PM
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No, I'm just bemused. You seem surprised someone on a debate sub might think differently to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 11:45 AM
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Dude, it's a debate sub. What are you expecting, ffs?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 11:26 AM
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I don't think there's a top anything is the point and to view a certain type of human as having a higher value due to where they came from is gross. Women get shit for saying a tall man, but apparently, men can see a white woman (not all Western women are white, my dude), and it's totally ok, lol. Very low standard refers to things like average wage, human rights, access to healthcare, ect, to not understand this is part of the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 11:20 AM
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Keeps demand down again is a ridiculous statement and reads as I don't value other humans if they have different chromosomes to me which is so fucking sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 11:16 AM
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Sure, but it's not the same as people raised in different locations speak different lanagauge and have different experiences. Again, for some people, that's what they want, which is great.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 11:15 AM
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It is sad you are in effect saying all I have to offer is money, and to me, that's telling, I feel bad for anyone who feels this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 11:14 AM
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Oh no I don't think women want or need to do it but they could if they choose too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 11:12 AM
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I think some passport bros think they are under cutting the market, and women here will die alone. When they were not what that woman wanted in the first place. You hear things like I've got plenty of options in (insert undeveloped country) cool. I've got plenty of options there, too, as my single wage has the same effect as yours. It's like a friend getting a lower cost TV which is great if that's what works best for you but then saying everyone is dumb for getting the more expensive TV just so…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 08:01 AM
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I'm not grading anyone in my head when I was dating. I was looking for a man who best met my requirements. My shopping list, so to speak, had things about attraction, work, future plans, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 07:19 AM
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A lot of this is to do with standard of life in developed countries both people have to work to have what they consider a good standard of life. If both people are working, then household take should be split as you are both paying as well. If you come from a country with a very low standard of life, you will accept life here on a single wage in poorer housing with fewer "luxeries." As you aren't working, you can do household tasks and be in a traditional role. What passport bros don't get is wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 07:16 AM
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More of classics, girl, so it has to be the DB5 for me. Does the car come with the Turkish boyfriend you also apparently have lol Have you tried Google Plastic Surgeon near me? As this will help your issues, for example: https://www.kamolhospital.com/service/25/cheekbone-augmentation-cheek-implant
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 01:00 AM
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You make enough money to buy a whole new face, this is such a non issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 12:40 AM
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Here we go. This is what I dont want this I can because I haven't got anything that shows up yet or a knock on the door from a baby. You get to choose to sleep with who you want, I get to decide you previous choices mean it's a no from me, dog!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 08:28 AM
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I don't want someone who is regularly having or had sex without a condom as some STDs lie dormant, and a pregnancy can still happen and knock on the door one day. This I don't choose men that have had a "slut" period to eliminate this as much as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 08:24 AM
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Please explain to me how the two methods you listed protect from STDs and how you know for certain a woman is taking them?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 07:49 AM
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No thanks. I see it as risk-taking behaviour due to the risk of an unwanted pregnancy or STD (no birth control is 100% effective).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 07:20 AM
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Or we can be big adults and stop worrying about what other people think. Instead of going, no, you can't say that like a toddler having a tantrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 02:01 PM
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As some of them are 19, the graph shows the ages my friend. A 19 year old is not getting a CEO position.if we look at women in the 35-plus category, we are at nearly 80% with children.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 06:04 PM
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Approximately 82% of women in the US have children by the time they reach the end of their reproductive years. https://www.statista.com/statistics/241535/percentage-of-childless-women-in-the-us-by-age/
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 05:56 PM
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Again according to whom? An EEOC (2016) survey of the top 75 tech firms in Silicon Valley found that women represent only 30% of the workforce.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 03:53 PM
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It's your list that's what you put, own it or say you know what that bit was wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 03:00 PM
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How many women can work 80 hours due to childcare issues as once we get passed 20 mnay have gad children. You are sounding really daft by the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 10:08 AM
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Please explain to me how you think women have better career opportunities when most senior roles in companies are held by men. Sir are you able to look around for a minute?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 07:05 AM
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Some of us like me want to stay home and as others have highlighted that they have married someone with an emotional age higher than a teenager.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 06:39 PM
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I'm married to a man. I messaged first on a dating site, so I'm not sure I'm your target audience. Now you answer A and/ or B.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 07:28 AM
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Your last sentence is a question, however the middle bit is reading as a rant.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 07:22 AM
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Why are you out here, trying to tell women what to think? It's giving. I just want to whine and be miserable that I'm not the "chosen one." Go and look at those into you and take your own advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 07:19 AM
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I'm intrigued as to what "clear eyes" means is it a colour or a state?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 04:11 PM
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Then why do several subreddits for men with small, big, or even average penis' exsit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 02:34 PM
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I think a big part of the issue is the costs. We know both parents work now, and two incomes are needed. This means some families stay together as the other option is not having a roof over the children's head. Homelessness is worse in most cases than being in a house with two people who no longer love each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 12:06 AM
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Fancy having some of that accountability for men that use sex workers being weak or does it not work both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:06 PM
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I'm not the one changing a question about men, to women as I can't tolerate men being criticised lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 04:52 PM
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Of course, a man switching a topic to issues with women is not in any way avoiding accountability themselves. Sir, are you stupid or ignorant? The poster in switching the focus is doing what you are whining about.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 04:14 PM
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How's therapy going? This is either ragebait or a mental condition and as its PPD who knows lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 10:32 AM
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Again, but really slowly, this question isn't about women ffs are you able to read. Imagine not being able to absorb information without bringing it back to women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 10:16 AM
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If only this was a question about women, but it's not, I but anybody to make it clear this is not a gender but overall issue. Yet here is someone going, yeah, but women. How about we keep it to the topic engaging with a sex worker is a risk-taking behaviour based on someone's inability to control their sexual urges, and it's a weakness.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 10:10 AM
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Firstly, no is an acceptable answer. People get to choose who they date, and if they decide sex work is a hard, no, that's that. Nobody has to justify themselves for a preference. I do, however, understand you are asking from understanding, not judgement. For me it would be a no, I think it's incredibly unattractive from the risk of STDs, pregnancy, and there's no "safe" way you could end up in a bath tub minus a kidney. I see buying sex as a risk-taking behaviour. Your sex drive allows you to m…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 09:57 AM
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I don't really care what anyone thinks to be honest but this is a debate sub and th whole point t is to debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 10:02 PM
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Please show me where I'm dismissing others' life experiences as that was not my intention.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 07:50 PM
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You write the first comment to mine,we are having a conversation that's how they work you entered the conversation by replying. I'm worried about your IQ at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 07:47 PM
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Here is your first reply to me, what an idiot lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 07:44 PM
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I've heard and experienced many men calling a woman a slut due to a single choice not an amount of bodies that's why I mad my point. It reflects my experiences which obviously may be different to yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 07:18 PM
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Apologies, I believe it is a double standard for a women to be called a slut purely as she has dated someone, that is considered low value.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 07:13 PM
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Being called a slut becuase you have dated someone that another person doesn't think is worth it not due to putting it about is a double standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 07:11 PM
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Yeah, we know this. That's why it's called a cycle of abuse. Having an Adverse Childhood experience score above 5 means you are more likely to have an attachment disorder. As well as impacting your choices, it can also impact your physical health. Some of this may be correlated as a neglected person will have worse health outcomes, but some are stress based. Having poor health limits your ability to access dating too. For anybody that wants more info, check out https://www.cdc.gov/aces/about/ind…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 07:10 PM
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Why do I have to go on side quests to prove what I have observed lol ps I'm married so no thanks. It's ok for tep people to have different experiences, in mine the word slut can be used to denote a disgust at who someone has slept with not necessarily an amount.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 06:56 PM
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And some people call women sluts not for sleeping with lots of men but rather sleeping with men they don't think was "worth it".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 06:50 PM
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I'm explaining to you that your point doesn't cancel out that some women are called sluts when it's viewed they are not dating "high enough valued" men. Two things can be true at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 06:32 PM
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I'm allowed to say I think both genders have double standards as disagree it is a valid argument you are not judge and jury. I've given one go back and have a look.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 06:31 PM
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People unable to regulate their emotions, aka respond in anger, have what is commonly called tantrums.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 06:30 PM
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Or maybe you call them sluts as you aren't emotionally mature and respond like a petulant toddler the call it a double standard when you get called out aka OPs double standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 06:24 PM
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I don't want a man who has toddler tantrums either, so it's on now perfect glad we agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 06:23 PM
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Of course you can, you can also meet a man that is generally socially inept and not angry, your point is?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 06:22 PM
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Your gender lol also the majority of this sub is men doing the same thing, so what's the reasoning for that then?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 06:21 PM
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OP also "made up" a double standard. There is no litmus test for a double standard. I'm really worried about your grasp on life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 06:20 PM
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That's an example to demonstrate my point, sit can you read English if not will this do, sai leggere?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 09:21 AM
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See how that's a different scenario and doesn't relate to comments like "She will go with anyone" ect. Your point doesn't cancel the double standard out lol If a man is being emotionally immature and I call it out, it doesn't mean OPs observation doesn't exist either.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 09:17 AM
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Oh, look, another post where someone hasn't understood both genders face double standards and criticism. Women are constantly told their standards are too high but then called sluts if they get with anyone. Just another dating double standard that happens to be gender based.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 08:55 AM
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Any idiot saying the following: I'm not racist/ sexist/ transphobic, but .... To me screams I know my views are biased and uncalled for, but I think my opinion is the most important thing, so I'm going to say it anyway. Mate, you can't even keep your opinions in your head if people don't want to hear them. How am I meant to trust you to understand and respect boundaries?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 10:19 AM
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Telling someone isn't a debate. That's the issue. You share your opinions and allow that person to make a choice. Once again, please do show me the evidence for your fact so I can see if it's true or not. That's how debates work. You present your "facts." Sorry, I thought we all knew that, but apparently not. I love your attempts at insulting me while you continue to make yourself look uneducated it's wonderful.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 05:29 PM
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So that's no, I don't have the stastics and was making things up, so now I'm trying to deflect as what I said was clearly not correct, got you. Imagine asking for evidence of someone's stance they are stating as facts and you thinking it's creepy you are giving off I haven't completed high school yet vibes lol. This is a debate sub sir feel free to engage with your findings at any point.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 05:04 PM
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Again, if it's so literal, there will be a ton of evidence for your 0.00000. Whatever your stat was, do share. Ps I've been married for many a moon but thanks for the concern lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 04:52 PM
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Would love to see your "literal" evidence for this bare in mind. we know 1% of the population cases 63% of all violent crimes, so based on that alone, the maths isn't maths.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 04:36 PM
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If I told you I have a bag of sweets here but one is a laxative, you are going to look carefully at the sweets before picking one to eat. We know it's not "all men" just we don't know which ones like a cheeky bit of rape and murder.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 04:26 PM
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It was a bit of a disaster, but I'm not sure she used a good enough flying pan lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 08:31 PM
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Th first one was just as I felt if I didn't write it. Some smart ass would be, oh, but kiddy porn is OK. The second one, yeah, there's a difference between watching something as you are intrigued vs. it's a turn-on you want. I watched a woman cook a sperm omelette (it was a porn style video) I don't want an omelette made but wondered well can you cook sperm lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 08:23 PM
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I'm telling you, I'm happy with the choices I've made and wouldn't change. This seems to be a stance many women on this post have as we all appear to value some things over financial stability as some of us provide that for ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 08:21 PM
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Yes, obviously, if he's watching stuff involving children or animals, that's a no-go. Or if he's heavily watching stuff like Scat or blood play thats not for me so im not going to meet that side of him (aka not just clicking on it and going what the he'll is this). Other then that no, not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 08:01 PM
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Indeed, yet here are some people saying we are OK as is thanks, and here is you going, yeah, but. How about you listen and start understanding that not everyone shares your view
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 05:34 PM
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Just the phrase "goes up in value" is ridiculous what are we meant to be doing here an auction lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 05:33 PM
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How many times do women have to say we are happy with what we have? Yet here is another post attempting some mental gymnastics to prove women are whatever OPs stance is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 04:57 PM
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I've read this, and all I've got to say is, as a woman, please do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 04:55 PM
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It depends on the woman. For example, I'm super outgoing and happy to approach, so if we have been friends for a while and I've not said anything, it's a pointless exercise. From what you have observed, is she is more shy. Thus, perhaps a letter and flowers that she could choose to respond to would be best. For someone outgoing but not an approacher just a straight so when are we getting married joke and then a seriously let's get dinner together could work.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 05:47 AM
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Again, are we all being stupid, the amount of hours is lower due to childbirth and carrying. It's not an opinion that's just a fact as to why the hours are lower. In effect, I've said women make less bread as they have less flour to make it with, and you are coming in saying yeah, but they throw the flour on the floor. It still means they have less flour ffs.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 09:29 AM
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It depends on the context for example, my husband, where we met, was living g with his parents as he had just brought his first place, and it was unlivable, aka being renovated. I had no issue with that, however I had my own place so he would come to mine. I can why it could be an issue if let's day you both house shared but then you both have the same issue. The issue at the minute is house prices, on an average salary you can't rent and save for a house so living back with your parents is smar…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 07:16 AM
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Of course, it must be the women on the sub, not your own issues with rationality that must be the problem, lol Do you have any evidence for your thinking, or are you just an outlier, too?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 07:12 AM
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Where did I say that I'm just explaining that's most likely the reason for less hours. Men choose to work more that's a personal choice they shouldn't be rewarded for it either, then.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 07:09 AM
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Are you aware of this thing called pregnancy? Women come out of the workforce for around 9 months each time and perform a lot of the child caring for due to the cost of childcare.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 10:59 AM
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Sure thing. I think it's great you don't think male loneliness is an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 07:41 AM
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Oh so you don't think men cause eating disorders odd take but sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 07:15 AM
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If that's what you think causes eating, disorders really all you're doing is telling on yourself, lol Also, apparently, you don't think boneless is an issue due to poor marriages for men, so that's nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 07:10 AM
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It's hyper femine bullshit that gets women to think their only value is doing unpaid labour and leading to issues around body image and good old eating disorders and makes men think the only qualities they should look for is pretty with child bearing hips leading to marriages filled with loneliness
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 07:03 AM
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Remember what people say and do does not always match up, hence why I'm questioning you how you know they had a high drive. So do you think meeting for sex twice but having multiple sessions is a high sex drive?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 03:58 AM
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Again, that's a single event with them. Have they called you back since, and is this a regular thing they do? If you don't know that information, how do you not know you just didn't satisfy them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 03:52 AM
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How do you know those women had "highersex drives" if you only hooked up once. A high sex drive does not mean was horny for a bit so had sex with you quickly that's not a high drive to me. A high drive is regularly wanting a lot of sex. Having a high sex drive also doesn't mean you will shag someone as soon as you meet them as for a woman tha tcan be a risk taking behaviour (men generally can overpower women ect)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 03:49 AM
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It's the hyper macho bullshit that results in men being told they have to behave a certain way, i.e., "boys don't cry" this often results in male loneliness. It's also the excuse for treating women like shit and leads to higher rates of DV. Everybody should be against toxic masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 09:34 AM
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According to who and how much less then men are women earning?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 08:52 PM
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According to who and how does that impact survival instincts?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 08:12 PM
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Firstly, modern people of any gender in most First World countries are not "suffering". They are not being denied human rights and to use language suggesting they are is stupid. As a woman in a first world country, I'm not in constant survival mode as I'm not being chased by a wolf or worrying about what's is ediable in my foraged food. Some modern men struggle with women as they come up with ill thought out stupid ass ideas instead of fucking listening to them aka this entire post.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 07:39 PM
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I just don't think online dating is causing loneliness, as I said its only a generation for some families (like mine) since they had no choice over who or when they married. These matches were done on family criteria and could result in someone not marrying at all. You could argue this caused loneliness, and we were less aware due of society standards. However, this doesn't mitigate that people in relationships feel lonely and that this is primarily impacting men who have poorer friendship circl…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 07:35 PM
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That's fantastic, and I'm happy for you,however, historically, weddings have not been spontaneous, and families have chosen. This means digital choosing via a criteria asks such isn't new in its nature but just it's application.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 07:15 PM
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Then, look at how "spontaneous" previous marriages were, as you may be surprised. For example, I met my husband on a dating site, but my parents and the bulk of marriages prior to them were arranged.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 06:43 PM
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Or you thinking a relationship will "fix" loneliness is the issue. Go out and make friends. Obviously, that doesn't replace a romantic relationship, but loneliness is multifaceted. You can be in a relationship and be lonely, for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 06:23 PM
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Please explain to me what you think socialism is and how right-wing parties that are well known for providing things support this. As privatisation is the opposite of socialism and I'm majorly confused by your stance.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 07:21 PM
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Men have always supported right wing more than women. This behaviour isn’t new, and right wing support has increased in women too. This is what happens in times of recessions just google what was happening in Germany pre Hitler. The impact will depend on the amount and if it continues into older ages or when the financial markets and lifestyles increase. I don't think it will have an impact on the way people date and if enough himan rights are removed, those who can will move to better protected…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 06:15 PM
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Why would society spiral without additional bodies if its not to work menial jobs?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 10:20 AM
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Then why are the USA seeking to offer a cash bonus for children?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 10:08 AM
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Odd as the US goveremtn are offering cash to have babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 09:51 AM
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You are aware you are on a debate sub right.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 09:47 AM
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You can say it's bad all day, I just don't think women are doing it for the reasons OP suggests.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 06:17 AM
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I mean, it's not if you want to be a doctor and you do a degree in computer science. It's not going to work out well for you. I have a friend with a BA in Football training not a lot you can do with that (he is a PE teacher but that's not what he wants)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 10:19 PM
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You are aware that's currenlty not happening right and the reputation rate is below the needed level.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 08:48 PM
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People can say whatever they want (again, within reason), you are in charge of you if you don't like it, don't listen. You can't, however, ban people from saying stuff you don't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 08:47 PM
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If you end up as a janitor after a degree you picked the wrong degree, why would that be anyone but your fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 08:46 PM
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Then don't listen, I don't like Trump is don't get to say he can't talk anymore lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 08:45 PM
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You aren't "meant" to do anything you have free choice to do what you want (obviously within reason). Advice can be bad, good, or indifferent, but that's a whole different story.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 08:21 PM
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Do you think men stay in bad relationships or get into bad relationships as often as women?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 08:19 PM
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So why should women date people who aren't attractive to them? If self improvements damage you, you choose them poorly why can't you accept that?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 08:18 PM
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Do you really think the economy wants this when it needs lower classes of people and lots of them to run it's low paid tasks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 08:17 PM
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Why would women want this? And why do you think making self improvements won't improve your life in terms of dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 07:55 PM
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Being indigenous isn't the same as being a British national. For example, I have British citizenship. My last name is Dubbio, also not a British name. Are we all really this stupid that deporting is done in nationality, not name or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 07:55 PM
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Imagine being so stupid. You thought a name was how passports were dished out.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 04:59 PM
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Hassan Sentamu is British, you doughnut lol. We have pivoted to looking like now have we as you obviously knew he's British. So now it's deport people not white and British just say your racist, mate. I've already figured out you're a dumb so you fit the bill. https://www.google.com/amp/s/news.sky.com/story/amp/ava-white-boy-14-guilty-of-murdering-12-year-old-girl-who-was-stabbed-to-death-after-snapchat-video-row-12619661 https://www.google.com/amp/s/news.sky.com/story/amp/boy-who-tried-to-stab-…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 04:46 PM
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Did the kid in the adolescent stab three little girls in a Taylor Swift dance lesson? No, as that was a different story. Sorry you are dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 04:34 PM
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How about this take if you stab someone who is defenceless, you are a low life end of. That's what he did in the show, and nothing that happened beforehand is a justification for it, and that's kind of the point. They don't really focus on the stabbing but let the story get carried away. When anybody conducts an act of violence due to any extremism, we should, as a society, say that person is scum and give them no more public attention. (Obviously, those in power should examine why and try to re…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:37 PM
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I go to the gym and have been to many over the years. This is never an issue in actual gyms. The classes I take that have clothing recommendations are due to risk assessments and apply to everyone funnily they ask for small shorts and tight tops. Come off social media and visit gyms, then comment as this sounds like the views of someone choricaly online.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 07:46 AM
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Apologies, I did not realise that study had been pulled. I didn't even look for the study as I had looked at it previously.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 02:08 PM
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https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2019/may/25/women-happier-without-children-or-a-spouse-happiness-expert https://www.forbes.com/sites/traversmark/2024/11/09/4-reasons-why-single-women-are-the-happiest-people-on-earth-by-a-psychologist/ https://www.stylist.co.uk/relationships/dating-love/single-women-happier-research/948690
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 07:47 AM
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Yes, this is another reason why lots of women won't end up in traditional relationships. I personally have lowered my hours rather than stopped working for this reason and some others. For example, career breaks for children impact your ability to get re employed at a senior level.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 06:05 PM
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Yet studies show that women who are single are happier than married women, so what about it being on reddit do you think makes it different?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 06:00 PM
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Shock, which last time I checked was not related to gender. I've seen men scream at events such as car accidents, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 11:04 PM
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Yet the things I would let that lizard armed, alphabet legged man do to me are insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 08:32 PM
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It's everything from Owen Grey (the level I sit at) to James Deen (a man that has been reported for raping on set).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 01:20 PM
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The words used are violent porn and aggressive sex, which are not just rape fantasies and is part of the issue. People are seeing this and not thinking about the full range of porn covered by those topics.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 01:00 PM
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No, it's not rape "play". It's rough sex you can google it and get pretty good idea of what it includes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 12:50 PM
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I do. It's just a different act. The goal is to orgasm that doesn't change regardless of the stimulus.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 12:27 PM
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I'm not comfortable writing a description of why I enjoy sex as that's a bit of a wank bait question to me. I like it in the same way other people like other sex acts.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 12:23 PM
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I don't believe my sexual preferences impact society.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 12:21 PM
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A. I like the way it feels in terms of engaging in said activities and like the way it looks and sounds in terms of watching. B. I ethically source said porn as much as possible, i.e., only use sites and performers I hear outside of porn to judge consent, etc. I don't believe sexual preferences impact my social beliefs and that I should be a nun to support women. If women wholeheartedly choose to make this type of porn and make decent money from it, I feel fine watching it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 12:04 PM
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Because I like rough sex, I hope that answers your question.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 11:33 AM
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That's true. However, OP doesn't appear to want to answer why she thought they might be friends. I have asked three times. OP is not asking about this one woman but all women, so OP has applied this to all women themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 08:00 PM
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So you talked with this girl daily, why if you weren't friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 07:00 PM
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She sees you as a friend, and you have now stated you regularly talked, again you are telling on yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 06:57 PM
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Read your first paragraph again and get back to me. On your post.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 06:51 PM
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Stay friends implies he was pretending to be friends prior and was unhappy with this after he asked for more.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 06:45 PM
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Stay as friends, so you were happy being friends until she was not providing an intimate relationship that's your issue. Also, the fact you have put every woman you are telling on yourself as you know you are being a tit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 06:45 PM
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Your inability to see women as anything but an intimate relationship provider is a personal issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 06:39 PM
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The big difference between the two is that men have traditionally been in more power and been able to expert their hatered or feel entitled to display it. Currenlty women are not in this position, and it's important to understand that it should not progress to misandry attacks. The bottom line is that it happened to you and does not make it ok to happen to someone else. Also, I'm sure there have been incidents of rape and violence towards men that were misuntrust. These need to not be dismissed.…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 03:48 AM
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You’re cute. Like my dog. He also chases his tail for entertainment.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 04:13 PM
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I have 200K karma as, on a few occasions, I've been marginally funny. Perhaps if you had over 6K karma, sometimes you would make a correct observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 02:33 PM
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The fact you read what I wrote and couldn't see how it applies to both issues is more telling.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 06:59 PM
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What specific thing I posted has laid you to discover said facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:38 PM
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I'm interested take a look at my posts and comments and show which ones you think are lying or hiding who I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:19 PM
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Sure, but as a man who thinks women want "dark and mysterious," which is not what I want, I don't think we are experiencing the same section of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:18 PM
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"It is always illogical to hate an entire group of people for behaviour perpetrated by a subset of its members and actively opposed or renounced by literally millions of them." The above is taken from Conor Friedersdorf's sum up of the op-ed, which can be found at: https://www.theatlantic.com/ideas/archive/2018/06/what-the-professor-who-hates-men-missed/562496 It sums up what I think about it. People will always write trash to get published as guess what the media loves? Oh yeah, money. She migh…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 01:26 PM
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Tell you what, why don't you search for posts here and see what is said? It's a pretty simple process, right? I've been open about not having any interest in dating anyone shorter or fatter than me (I'm 5 ft 5 and 154 lbs) I have even spoken about only being interested in men with good careers. In terms of penis size, I can't screen for that imagine "Hey, can you send evidence that you are over 7 inches". I've never been with someone and though your oenis size is why I will stop seeing you.. I'm…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 12:11 PM
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Lots of things, the above, alongside the ability to progress within the role. The job satisfaction that person gets from the role (that person as this is more individual). The other benefits from flexible working, pensions, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 11:49 AM
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Doctors, lectures, lawyers, and software developers we all meet at uni.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 11:19 AM
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It does happen, though, but is highly dependent on the specific case. https://ogletree.com/insights-resources/blog-posts/uk-retail-workers-win-landmark-equal-pay-case/#:~:text=More%20than%203%2C500%20workers%20have,the%20result%20of%20gender%20discrimination. https://afterathena.co.uk/female-asda-workers-win-key-ruling-in-equal-pay-claim/ https://ifamagazine.com/workplace-gender-inequality-more-than-13500-equal-pay-claims-filed-last-year/
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 11:16 AM
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I've got shit to do. I've not got time for anything but wage rage at work lol. Life is full of people with different attractiveness and if you can't accept that life is going to be very hard for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 10:41 AM
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I don't think it should be banned, but I think all porn should reguire an ID verification to stop children accessing it (unless it depicts a person under 18, which is a whole different manga issue). I know parents should do their job and use various parent restrictions, but they aren't, and I would quite like 8 years olds not drawing porn scenes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 08:50 AM
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As someone has stated, my hourly rate is higher. Didn't expect someone to need that explaining lol Also, I'm in a different field, and I'm higher qualified, so it's not the same job but different pay. Thank you for demonstrating your lack of understanding of the topic, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 09:14 PM
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Lol, I make so much more than my husband. I currently work half the hours he does and only now earn slightly less than him. Also, in my friend group, none of my friends want to be completely at home, and all have pretty good careers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 06:40 PM
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You're not entitled to a relationship I see used when someone wants a certain type of person or relationship regardless of if the other party is interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 07:39 AM
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This is more as we are starting to understand the role men play in infertility, and it's not just sperm count, which we first thought. Basically, men can have a "good" count, and the sperm look mobile, but the dna within the sperm can be flawed, causing infertility. We have always known this about the egg as the cell is much larger it's easier for us to work out. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK562258/ Women and fertility are more widely studied, hence why we have terms like geriatric preg…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 03:39 PM
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Which part of not being a relationship role model did you not understand? I personally wouldn't divorce my husband for any money as it is. I took a pay cut to move to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 11:47 AM
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No, as it involves breaking up my family and my child not having a positive relationship example. As a side note, 1 million also is not that much money anymore. I definitely couldn't stop working on a million as well a 3 bed house in my village goes for 700,000.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 11:36 AM
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Just like I expect the same of myself, so I will ask if I see someone I'm interested in. You will see in this thread I state I messaged my husband first. It's almost like you skim read and looked for what you were already cross about instead of understanding the full sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 07:06 AM
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You know a lot of these women are with men, right, so something isn't adding up here, lol The thing here is that you are asking for women's views but don't want to hear them, and they aren't going to help you. This is the issue you don't want a good faith discussion, and the views here are just going to irate you. Think what you want and be as cross as you fancy, but to me it's this attitude that is causing you issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 12:56 PM
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Yes, I have a husband. we have been together for 7 years and met via a dating app. I messaged first. Just to help with some common questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 12:20 PM
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As am I, glad we have both observed what we are doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 11:24 AM
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Correct, see how I'm not that person. Thus, have different views imagine that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 11:07 AM
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If you think people giving you their views, if it does not align with yours is evil that might be why you are undateable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 11:06 AM
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Posting this on this sub is only going to most likely make things harder for OP. I doubt they are going to get a lot for useful support or help. That's the issue. These views are not suddenly going to make dating easier for OP, and as this was aimed at women, they are likely to get annoyed at the responses.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 10:46 AM
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See the question at the end of my post. I think a lot of people spend time worrying about what others think instead of just living their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 10:40 AM
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I don't say that, and I don't care if a man wants a date that's on him to ask and ensure he is dateable, just like I expect the same of myself. Perhaps you are too bothered with what people are thinking instead of doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 09:56 AM
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Have you read OPs comments as that's not at all what he is saying lol He has commented what I've said he would 100% be ok with.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 06:54 PM
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Correct, but what one family needs and another does is individual, hence the word of possession. Here's the kicker I'm not lowering my quality of life, so the amount I would need per month to live comfortably is close to £8,000 per month when everything is added up. I'm high value, so a traditional man would understand that and get working. If you want me home, then pay for it, or don't pretty simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 10:33 AM
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Perfect, my monthly costs are around £5,000 a month for the basics, housing, food, bills, fuel, and clothing. I will also need additional money for group, swimming lessons, yearly passes for the zoo, aquarium, and museum. Various subscriptions are childrens' audible, mine, Netflix, music, Disney plus and paramount as well as my phone bill. Then there's the beauty appointments every 6 weeks my hair is cut, eyelashes, nails and waxing done.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 10:09 AM
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How other people have relationships is none of my business. I only care when I feel someone is being exploited. With transactional relationships, if everyone is old enough to consent and no sort of blackmail situation is going on, then I give zero shits.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 08:36 PM
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I'm a brit and live in Surrey a very expensive area, so no deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 02:26 AM
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Lol, these men can't even afford to provide for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 11:04 PM
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America is awful for raising children. I had an emergency C section, a private room, and weekly visits with scans towards the end (very big baby) it cost £16 due to parking. Costs like this need to be built in as a birth like I had is the 100K yearly income gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:48 PM
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In the UK, you get contributions to your state pension for being a SATM. Obviously, for most people, a state pension will not be enough, but we have opt out additional pensions now as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:39 PM
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Really, I'm surprised by this as French salaries are higher than UK salaries, although your housing market is more competitive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 06:48 PM
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I think the issue is the cost of single wages don't cut it anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 06:08 PM
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Also, why as a good Mother would I expect my child to struggle? Clothes, good food, housing, trip ect all cost money.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 05:40 PM
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I'm a Brit, and you have no childcare costs and a house already with a deposit paid, and you would be OK.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 05:26 PM
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Yeah, I was a Uni Lecturer, acorss two fields, so got very good pay. Husband is a paramedic, so it is limited by pay scales as to what he can earn. Which allows throws me one of us marks essays the other saves life's but gets paid half of what I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 05:25 PM
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What like not having anywhere to live I was the main earner lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 05:12 PM
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100%, it's not realistic to have a decent quality of life on a single wage. I have had to switch my job so I can work part-time and nights, so I'm around the maximum amount of time for my son, but I'm still covering the bits I pay for (I was our main earner previously).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 04:49 PM
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Why should I lower my quality of life? I want the same housing and lifestyle as I had before if the man is traditional enough he will work two jobs to provide it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 04:44 PM
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Cool, I hope you earn over 100K a year as that's what it will take in this economy. I will do it but I want the same quality of life and hosing as I could afford as a single person with a good career.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 04:43 PM
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OK I tell you what, that's fine. I will stay home and look after the child you can pay for everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 03:54 PM
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I'm at work and I've already worked 7 hours and you are still here. Do you live in a bubble? The outside won't hurt you. Go touch that grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 01:21 AM
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Have you ever considered going outside or getting a hobby or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 12:24 PM
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Curtesy of AI as I can't be assed to write an explanation for you, but you clearly need one Patriarchy is a social system where men hold disproportionate power and privilege, often leading to the oppression and subjugation of women. It's characterized by male dominance in various areas like politics, economics, and culture, and the belief that men should hold power in the family and society.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 05:48 PM
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Firstly, attractiveness is personal, so what I think will be different to someone else. It's not being macho itself that's the issue for me it's the lack of emotional engagement and entitlement. I'm an adult I don't want to have to self regulate another adult who can't do it themselves all while they expect me to lay back and take their two pumps as they don't care if a woman has fun in bed. These two features make me dry up quicker than getting hit by a sand blaster.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 12:29 PM
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He's moaning women are in spaces saying we don't want to be approached he has no control over what the women say, so the easiest option is not to engage in these spaces. It's not about not agreeing. It's about being cross, someone shares a view you don't agree with aka life.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 05:31 PM
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Looking at your reddit post history, it's quite clear you don't like women, and anything women do will upset you. If you do not wish to hear women's views, don't engage with subs and media with them in it, solved your problem. It continues to but but women are saying stuff and having a toddler style paddy every week.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 04:58 PM
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A as a "bit misogynistic" outweighs "lives a life in loneliness." I have a son, and although I would like him not to be misogynistic, I will always choose his happiness over my views *within reason. I accept that as we get older, our views don't always age well (for example, my in-laws are really struggling with trans). My son is 18 months old, and in 18 years from now, there will be new expectations. I don't expect my son to agree with me on all topics as that's not a realistic expectation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 10:13 PM
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Sorry, I'm struggling to understand the above. Perhaps due to the formatting, English is not my first language. Could you reword this for me please?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 05:44 PM
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Could you link some of these studies for me so I can take a look at the outcomes and methodology, please? Below is some of the studies for Father led single families. Prior work finds that several important child outcomes vary along gender of the single parent. Hoffman and Johnson (1998) find that adolescents who reside in father-custody families have a significantly higher risk of drug use compared with adolescents living in other family structures. Moreover, youth living with a single father h…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 05:37 PM
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As we have data that nearly 50% of families experience poverty, we don't have that for the other areas. You are welcome to find me some evidence to show me otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 05:08 PM
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It's 4 times more likely to cause poverty, with nearly 50% of female led families being in poverty. That's a significant amount. Yes, all of the things mentioned can be caused by poverty or fatherlessness. To complicated issues, fatherlessness is more common in certain races and parental ages. Social studies are complicated. The reason we know and have set figures for poverty is that it's a quantity of data, not qualitative data. Apologies, I presumed most people would be aware of the complexity…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 05:07 PM
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As Fatherlessness increases poverty 4 times over. What did you think the increased rates of poverty were caused by magic?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 04:58 PM
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Oh no, poverty is increased by Fatherlessness it's one of the biggest increases thats what I stated. Poverty is the biggest impact of fatherlessness. As the study said, it's nearly 50% single parent mother led family. The issue is we can't tell if the fatherlessness or income issues are the route that causes a lot of what I listed are seen in solely low income studies. It's fair to presume fatherlessness makes it more likely to have these, though as it impacts poverty so obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 04:56 PM
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Yes, as these are all the reasons that can not be separated from Fatherlessness as they are often in tandem. Apologies if you are not aware how social studies are conducted as we can't have control with just fatherlessness. Thus, we can not fully examine one issue. Below is the study with the rates of poverty in Fatherless families just to help you out. Children living in female-headed families with no spouse present had a poverty rate of 47.6 percent, over 4 times the rate in married-couple fam…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 04:22 PM
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There are definitely things that we expect father rather than mothers to teach children we live in a gender society whether we like it or not. I just wanted to highlight when a father leaves, that's the least of the impact compared to what we know happens. Basically, Father's are super important and should understand this and not be deadbeats. We shame the shit out of single women time deadbeat Dads get the same. Dad's also need better options for contact when relationships break down in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 04:14 PM
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Eight lines into the article "most notably child poverty" The 2007 Unicef study , which this article paraphrases, discusses if these factors are a direct result of fatherlessness or correlated to a single income family.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 04:10 PM
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Hello, I have a Master’s degree in Childhood Development, and quite frankly, you are talking out of your ass. Guess what the biggest issue is its poverty from living in a single income family. This topic is well researched and is summed up at: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/co-parenting-after-divorce/201205/father-absence-father-deficit-father-hunger I've included the bulk incase it's paywalled. Diminished self-concept and compromised physical and emotional security: Children consistent…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 03:44 PM
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Please explain to me how this stops men from actually sharing their preferences? Have any bills been passed to stop them?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 07:40 PM
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Thanks this has stopped me from being abused lol what was the point of this comment or where you just cross about what I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 01:50 PM
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It is a real risk for women. I also had a guy show up outside my work (I was a head teacher, so if you gogle my name, my school registration would come up). We have security, though, so I messaged him and then got him removed. A lot of my friends have a I meet a guy for a date and he behaved inappropriately story. These are more common with online meets, I'm guessing, as you don't share a friend group they could be shunned from. This impacts whether or not people want to engage with online datin…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 12:27 AM
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They worked for me. However, I was "proactive" in using them. I used POF it had a tinder like swipe feature (this was some 7 years ago now) if I saw someone I liked I wouldn't swipe I would go on their profile and if I felt we matched I would message them. The issues I faced were men who were on a dating app for a relationship but clearly just looking for a shag. There were also a lot of men in relationships who I would do a quick check (reverse image search and social media check) to find wives…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 10:28 PM
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I hope you reported her and this does not happen again to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 02:30 PM
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I chose a virgin nice guy and still nearly got killed , funny that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 01:58 PM
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Yes, I have only had sex with men I've been in relationships with. I date for relationships, and once I see something in that person I wouldn't want to date, I then also wouldn't want to have sex with them. When discussing in private a man I no longer wanted today but was very attractive, a friend said just sleep with him. My response was yeah but that involves looking at his smug face and I can't do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 12:34 PM
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The thing with names is not gendered what you need to remember is you are naming someone for their whole life. You need a name that can be shouted in the playground but also be an email signature.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 04:52 PM
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If your value of a human depends on sex, stay away from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 03:27 PM
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Men currenlty are not denied paternity tests, it's just currenlty opt in not out. I was a teacher (I now teach teachers), and I have been present at a DNA gathering for a paternity test a mother did not want. It was done at school for comfort for the child, and as the concenr was, Mum would not take the child to the appointment. The child was the Dads he got custody, pretty simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 11:28 AM
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It's always an extra limb, always lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 06:37 PM
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You can hold whatever preferences you want a pirate with three legs, whatever, even screen for them. The issue I have is when you talk shit about people not within your preferences or except a woman to meet it for you. You also can't be aggressive or unkind if three legged pirates aren't into you. If someone's worth changes depending on whether or not they turn you on, chances are you are a trash panda of a human.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 06:24 PM
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I knew what I wanted (found my husband on POF, and yes, I messaged first). I would look at the picture first. If I liked what I saw, I would see if he met what I was looking for. It wasn't necessarily a red flag, but things like a job that involved a lot of travelling were a no for me as it didn't match my life. As well as obvious things like age ect.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 12:55 PM
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You think I liked that it happened, some men are freaks same as women. When you comment shit like this, you sound like a small child having a tantrum as something did not go their way.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 04:48 PM
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Why did you feel the need to comment this?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 04:15 PM
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Perhaps when you are able to separate romantic and sex you would have more understanding. I see this phrased as a man who thinks a woman should change for him and adapt to him but won't do anything to find or keep her. That's not a sex issue but a character issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 11:40 AM
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If you don't think women have anything to offer stay away from us, solved your problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 07:09 AM
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The only time I have ever ghosted someone is when their behaviour became obsessive. I was a head teacher. Thus, you can search my name, and my place of work would come up. He did this and would appear outside work. I messaged him to say I was not comfortable with this, and he continued for several days. I ghosted him and had security remove him.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 02:45 PM
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Just purly in terms of masking as an education professional, girls are better at it. For example, most boys with ASD do not speak until after 2 years of age, if not later. However, girls with ASD start speaking within "normal" tine frames. The girls are just copying what they hear and have no understanding of functional language at that point, just like boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 04:04 PM
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That's your view it's not mine as I believe the "risk" comes from a number of things and the age gap is just one of them. It's OK for people to disagree in fact it's pretty common, again why is this a suprise to people ont his sub. In 2000, she had more money than most but still significantly less than Leo at the time as she had not earned a significant amount of her contracts. You asked if she had more resources the answer to this is no.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 02:35 PM
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You can get a paternity test now if you want one, just get one if you do, just right now it's opt in not out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 02:20 PM
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She was not in 2000. Are you able to understand that when they first started dating, so that's not true but nice try. I'm not saying anything about whether age gaps are right or wrong just it's another risk to consider, like all elements of a relationship. Why is that causing people so much distress to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 02:16 PM
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No, as stated many times, it just increases a potential risk, and getting into any relationship has risk factors based on hundreds of things. A gap in resources is just something to consider among other factors hence the increased risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 02:14 PM
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Show me where I say that or do I say it adds to a potential risk?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 12:23 PM
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No study will show the whole world, just a small snapshot, you can't by the nature of studies talk to everyone. This is why studies often contradict each other and a study for pretty much everything (within morals can be found). Hence, why you saying they did not exist was daft.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 10:10 AM
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Oh, but I thought there were none, yet here are some and they don't meet what you wanted, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 09:48 AM
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I said an increased risk, but that doesn't mean people shouldn't or can't date. There's an increased risk of drinking alcohol I still drink. Apologies, I thought we both understood what shouldn't mean. An increased risk is not an indication of a personal opinion on a person engaging in an activity but rather an outcome of said activity.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 09:47 AM
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You will notice the above comment still does not say they should not date, which is what I asked you to show.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 09:33 AM
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Then what are these? https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0145213414001021 https://www.researchgate.net/publication/8100312_Couple_Age_Discrepancy_and_Risk_of_Intimate_Partner_Homicide https://bmcpublichealth.biomedcentral.com/articles/10.1186/s12889-018-5118-1
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 09:31 AM
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Again, I did not say that just this is one of many potential tosk factors. Please tell me we are all aware that relationships have risks, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 09:16 AM
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Show me where I said they should not be together or even where I said people with a difference in resources should not be together?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 09:07 AM
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If you think that's how relationships work I feel sad for you. I don't think relationships should be transactional to access resources, but you do you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 08:36 AM
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It's an added risk to be considered. The difference means abuse is more likely, so the greater the gap in resources the higher the risk. All relationships have risk, if you can't manage and judge a suitable level of risk don't be in a relationship. It's also about the full picture and the resource issue is a single factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 08:26 AM
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That's not what a risk of manipulation is. The issue is the person with more resources can use this to get the person with less to do things they may not wish to. Sorry, I thought this was an easy to grasp concept. Perhaps the issue is that some people don't understand what a manipulation risk is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 08:09 AM
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Not in the same manner, though, a brain full continues to develop and create new connections until you die, sorry I thought everyone knew that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 07:04 AM
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That's not the debate. Are you OK? Is the issue the access to resources which at the time he had more of thus making it a higher risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 07:02 AM
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Oh so now you are wrong it does not matter, I see. The issue is when someone has more of anything, there is a higher risk it could be used to manipulate the other thought he more you earn the higher your mortage, expenses ect tend to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 07:02 AM
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Well, yes, in the case of Leo, that seems to be his "cut off" date. Also, there is research about the brain not fully developing until after 25. https://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/publications/the-teen-brain-7-things-to-know#:~:text=Adolescence%20is%20an%20important%20time%20for%20brain%20development.&text=The%20brain%20finishes%20developing%20and,the%20last%20parts%20to%20mature. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3621648/
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 05:51 AM
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They dated 20 years ago before Gisele even had a Victoria Secret campaign where she earned the bulk of her money. Her career took off after him some 5 years after him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 05:46 AM
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Not the same amount of resources as him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 05:45 AM
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It's not about the age it's about the added risk of a large age gap where our person has more resources. The issue isn't Leo dates under 25s but that those women are half his age and do not have access to the resources he does. This adds an element of increased risk vs a relationship where both people are at equal resource levels.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 05:34 AM
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Says the person that felt the need to create a whole new post and that wall of text over it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 11:40 AM
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No one has to stay in any relationship or marriage if they are unhappy, is that really hard for people to grasp?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 11:39 AM
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When I used apps (I met my husband on POF), my age was my real age as the photos were recent as the idea is you meet, so what's the point in lying? Age filter wise, I would go 2 years younger to 3 years older at the time I was 29 wars old. I felt that age band had similar life experience to myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 09:34 AM
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The question is biased as it presumes only two scenarios created by OP exist, thus limiting the level of engagement and depth of answer OP will get. No amount of word salad will change this on your part. If you think women are unsympathetic don't ask a question you don't want the answer too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 04:15 PM
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That's a biased question you are presuming a woman's stance. The fact you can't figure that out is the issue. Also, you aren't OP, unless this is your other account you are using to comment, which is sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 04:10 PM
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So OPs question presume women all are either a or b that's the bias it's not an open-ended question. If you think the whole of 50% of the population can be grouped into box a or b, you have bigger issues than this question. If you want a true depth of answer, you ask an open question that's not what OP has done. Rather, they have posted several paragraphs trying to justify their stance, aka bias, and then a closed question, which in itself is biased.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 04:08 PM
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Then you aren't asking a question, you are sharing information. Trying to do both makes the question biased as really you want them to side with the information you shared.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 04:00 PM
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What's with the wall of text? If you want to ask a question, ask one don't use a poorly written question as a vague reason for a wall of text rant.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 03:08 PM
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Have you tried goggling as to what an algorithm is as that has more to play in what you are seeing then you appear to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 10:26 PM
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In effect, if you do anything else, you face two issues. Let's say they fall in love, you will always wonder if it's you they actually love. Or you will come across as behaving oddly as when we behave outside of our normal behavior, we often have to think about how we are behaving and change it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 05:02 PM
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It is just Tiktok, though, where people make videos for views tthrrndsith what gets views and responses. This has worked for this creator as here you are posting it. The issue with matching energy is bs just be normal. You don't want to go into a relationship feeling you have to be someone you aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 04:59 PM
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Reads a lot like an attempt to change the subject, odd. Do you think that laws are all that are needed to stop murders or other unwanted behaviour? Would love to, you know, get rid of the money my government spends on the military as war is illegal, so that's enough, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 06:18 PM
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Illegality isn't stopping people from being murdered and women are targeted bu men for a variety of reasons. If you think it being illegal means it stops and making it illegal is all anybody should do to stop something. I would love to live in your world.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 06:11 PM
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Wait, did we stop all murders? Fuck me I've missed this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 05:37 PM
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https://www.femicidecensus.org/ Why does the above website exist then? Is not being killed a privilege?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 11:48 AM
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Regardless of gender some people prefer a person who is low maintained and relaxed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 11:44 PM
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This isn't a gendered issue, and rather peoples personality preference to make it a gendered issue is pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 11:18 PM
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Husband is a paramedic and regularly goes into houses where domestic violence is actively happening if he turns up before the Police. He says these mainly men are cowards, and 90% stop when a louder man arrives. He has taken a fire extinguisher to the face previously due to this approach. The boyfriend was very clearly mentally not OK. I took care of him, and we made light of it. I told him to at least to protect his face, lol. It's his job, so a bit different, although in the UK, paramedics are…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 06:57 PM
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If you feel you need to be compensated for having a child, you are going to be an awful parent. Being a parent is willfully without praise or reward, putting your child and their well-being first. The truth is that fewer people should have children. I was a teacher for many years, and some people had and messed up children because they thought they had to have them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 07:32 AM
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I just presumed someone hadn't had the birds and bees talk with him, and he is about to come offline when his mum takes his devices away. Props getting told off for this comment but fuck it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 10:44 PM
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So why do yours count but mine do not. I've shown you evidence of an article on the first tone on a Google search and explained my life experience, but that doesn't count for you. However, your experience and use of n Internet example does can you see the double standard there?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 10:23 PM
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Do you think Twitter is real life, I'm confused? Or are we only using Internet examples when it fits our views? You appear to be trying to justify your stance without acknowledging the glaring bias you show by moving the expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 10:20 PM
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You said NEVER, yet there it is. Are you now altering this view? I don't allow friends to ever use any unkind terms for anyone as I'm not a cunt.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 10:13 PM
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Yes, I have here is an article written by a woman about men being body shamed. Doing just what you are asking for almost like you could of just goggled it to find it. Women hating to the point of stupidity. https://www.cosmopolitan.com/uk/body/a44759229/men-body-shaming/
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 10:08 PM
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Show me some evidence that every woman is doing this. It's not all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 10:01 PM
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Firstly, remember history is not always "fact" based and that social movements mean different things to different people. The following article gives you a brief overview. https://www.history.com/topics/womens-history/feminism-womens-history
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 07:04 PM
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The backup option is the one she settles with for life. Sir, are you OK? This sounds like a you issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 08:16 PM
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Anybody that feels that need a contact would scream to me: "I don't understand consent and won't listen to your boundaries." This would make me run for the hills.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 11:33 PM
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Because who would want unlimited sex and a clean house, right!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 05:37 PM
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Oh sorry when where you made the spokesman of all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 05:37 PM
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You might not get the women you want, is all I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 05:36 PM
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I think it's just about being brutally honest in order to find a relationship. You have to find someone who meets your standards and you meet theirs. If that doesn't happen, you can either. Lower your standards and potentially end up with someone you have settled for. Become someone's standard with education, promotions, the gym, or even plastic surgery and wonder if it was all worth it. Or take your approach of just funding another focus and making yourself happy. I think most sane people would…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 02:33 PM
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As a woman, this is said on here to men all the time, and the response is always x, y, and z does not replace a romantic relationship. Obviously, I understand, however, for a few very extreme men they believe they are "owed" a woman, and generally, extremists of any kind are very loud and normal, aka most men hear their dumb ass ranta about how you need a woman for whatever. Also, when it comes to marriage, particularly those with traditional gender roles, as that's what those entitled few want.…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 02:27 PM
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The way you have worked your answer and this being a question aimed at women make you look like you feel you get to say the views other people have shared are not valid as they do not meet your bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 09:46 PM
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Your wording makes it sound like people sharing their views are not valid as they don't fit what you are looking for. People's experiences will vary, and language is always up for intruptitation. Due to the target audience, the this question relates just to women, so I've asked you for your views as a man, and do you think only women choose "bad boys".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 09:42 PM
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Well, yes, otherwise I wouldn't have had to look for it. The issue is that my passion is work that often is not everyone's, and they could be frustrated by the fact I was always on call. I'm not looking for someone with the same passion as me but rather the same view son work. Apologies, I thought that people would be able to understand that. However, this point has flown over your head. I'm screening for the same value rather than passion. We are not in the same career or field.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 09:39 PM
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Oh, so you don't just want to shit on women. Why do you presume all women are making reckless choices about dating OP? Why do you think when people share their views, you get to say they are wrong? Have you considered how your wording of this makes you sound like you are not self reflecting in relationships and if you are out of intrest what changes have you made?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 09:30 PM
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Yep, and I'm now alarmed. Is this guy and other men out there dating the same "type" of person and wondering why it's failing all the time. This seems like either a weird observation or an attempt to shit on women that wasn't well thought out as OP comes across as lacking reflection within relationships due to how it's worded.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 08:46 PM
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Of course, there have been changes, as sometimes you think you like a certain thing, then you experience it and go nope, not for me. For example, as my dating has progressed, I knew I wanted (I'm married) a person whose career was a passion this happened as a lot of men I dated struggled to understand my passion for my career. Having this in common makes it easier to relate as at the time my career was not just a 9-5 but could mean I got calls outside of this. I'm a university lecturer and will …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 08:27 PM
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Let men be delusional, they will only create posts like this. Why do you believe you get to police someone else's thoughts, stay in your lane.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 02:22 AM
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Oh dear, not even able to string together some sort of poor strawman excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 08:17 PM
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Why are you debating the same behaviour but separating for gender?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 08:01 PM
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So do men, what's the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 07:31 PM
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If you are struggling to understand that the term disorder can mean two things, then perhaps the last comment should be self reflection. Also, I'm not a psychologist. Within diagnosis 9f ASD in children, an educational psychologist is only used to advise on the needed resources to access education for an EHCP request.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:45 AM
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Not the words almost all and the age of 3. It is far more common to see a lanaguage delay, particularly in boys with ASD at or under 3 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 05:43 PM
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Again, it's a name that was created due to the thought and evidence around its disordered presentation. That's the name of ASD. That's what it is, point blank. I've explained where it's come from for you. I didn't name ASD go after the person that did. Also, remember that the neurological word disorder and the medical word disorder are different presentations. The brain in those with ASD has disordered AKA out of order firing neurons that have been viewed that's facts. However, a disorder as in …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 05:42 PM
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I mean, I only used diagnose children and created their education plans: "Autism is a bio-neurological developmental disability that generally appears before the age of 3" https://nationalautismassociation.org/resources/autism-fact-sheet/ The evidence supports autism as a disorder of the association cortex, both its neurons and their projections. In particular, it is a disorder of connectivity, which appears, from current evidence, to primarily involve intrahemispheric connectivity. https://pmc.…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 09:32 PM
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That's due to it being named prior to the understanding. For example, in England, it still sits under the social, emotional, and mental health banner. This is despite us knowing it's a neurological disorder, but as that's where the services are, it's expensive to change. We also don't fully understand what causes the genes to be expressed as it appears to be a mix between genes and environmental factors. For example, a geriatric mother massively increases the chances.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 07:11 PM
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As someone who wrote a first class Master dissertation on Autism the Empathising–systemising theory is very much no longer in use. We now understand Autism to be a neurological disorder. It appears differently due to cognitive differences in male vs. female brains, which can cause a bias in its diagnosis. Male ASD in a child under 3 years almost always has a very obvious language delay, but will be able to communicate via taking an adult to an item. A female of the same age has the words but sti…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 05:27 PM
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I'm a former teacher in a unit that worked with safeguarding cases, and the rage I would get for Mother's who picked known abuser over their children is so high. One of the most bizarre cases was due to this man being such a high risk. The mother agreed only to meet him in public places (this was as close to not in your house with your kids we could get legally). They said they always meet in a local KFC that had no bathroom, riddle me this when she gets pregnant a month later. I remember the co…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 09:32 PM
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I'm a brit for context, I think as a Brit, we are a bit less influenced by these things due to the ways our Unis socialise us. Lots of people go just for the experience as it's virtually free it's not a class thing either for a standard uni. I think men in the UK are generally better at keeping friends due to this, but obviously, I have more Brit friends the n US, so I have bias. The pandemic did have a big impact on this with a group of people in effect missing face to face uni altogether. I do…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 08:01 PM
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Thanks, I think the issue is what most subs have where it becomes an echo chamber. People don't want facts they want people to agree with them, which is not a debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 06:35 PM
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I do try to be mindful, and it only gets mentioned on posts where it's asked for. I agree when talking about preference it's all about how we word things. If I prefer not to date someone shorter, then me that fine, but to suggest someone shorter is less of a person or not worthy of a relationship is not. I still got shit as the height things seem to really get to some people, and I understand some people may word it off, but attacking everyone is not helpful and prevents open and honest conversa…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 09:56 PM
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It's different if it's a single issue, I will state that. Also, let's be honest, everybody gives pants dating advice as no one has the same looks, character, and wants for a partner as you. Dating advice is tricky like that. For example, my dating advice would be pants as I haven't dated in nearly 10 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 09:39 PM
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I think if you believe the majority of a group holds certain views, you are going to struggle to trust someone from that group. I know most men are not murders but if I see one at night and he starts approaching me, I'm getting my phone put, just in case. This is the impact of me knowing a small percentage of men kill.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 09:30 PM
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Fully in love but not trust, what an odd take. You are just sounding bizzare at this point. Not fully trusting someone and living together, sharing expenses, and potentially having children is going to lea to all sorts of problems. So once again, if you don't fully feel, you can trust that person don't be in a relationship with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 09:24 PM
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I'm just saying if you feel you can't trust women on a simple as a topic as this, it's going to make maintain a relationship with one much harder. The fact you are in a relationship and still took the time to find all of this is not a good look. Why did you feel the need to go down this rabbit hole if you are in a happy relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 08:26 PM
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If you go to these lengths to prove women "lie" I would suggest just not having a relationship with them and moving yourself away from them as they are clearly causing you distress. As a woman, I'm honest about my preferences, but equally, the moment I say I won't date anyone shorted, then me or obese man do some of the men here have a tantrum. The truth is if women have certain standards, you moan. If they don't have certain standards, they are lying. Just day you don't like women as people and…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 08:14 PM
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Trends and averages are tracked via data. That's just how they work. People can always think differently, which is fine. I'm just explaining how I personally choose a partner, which is with an idea of what I want first. Which, as we have seen from the comments other people also do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 01:08 PM
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Cool, so what government role do they have?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 09:34 AM
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It's not though as I know what I feel fits and doesn't, OP just doesn't understand I use fit to decide which shoes to try on, and that means lots of shoes aren't considered.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 08:30 AM
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If the shoes are free but the wrong size, why would I want them?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 08:10 AM
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Right and aee you ordering one of every size from a 6 to a 12 or so you use your know size to narrow it down?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 07:01 AM
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If you want to talk trends and averages, add in your data source. If you don't, you are making it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 06:27 AM
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When you go to the shoe shop do you try on any shoe or the ones in your size?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 06:25 AM
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Everything you have but is your bias. You are presuming women have X amount of options and can go X amount of years. This is not true for all women. Again, with the men's stuff, you are seeing men who may have, for example, trauma and need a secure bond with a female to feel safe as crazy. Stop presuming stuff about people base don't what gender you think they may be.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 10:02 PM
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It comes across that you think men and women should think the same and that all women will experience the same hive mind bs. I feel most of these posts would be eliminated with a basic understanding that people are individuals shaped by their experiences. They may have common themes, but most people think in some ways differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 09:59 PM
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Oh, sorry, I forgot we live in fanasty land where no one ever makes a bad choice and chooses a poor fit. Maybe delete the post you put on relationship advice to make this more believable, though. Sounds a bit like you have a few poorly fitting shoes in your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 09:32 PM
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Just another excuse to bash the "other" gender like 99% of the posts here
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 08:52 PM
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You can, but if you have a shoe size, it's a pretty reliable way to know what size you need.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 07:50 PM
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That's because men and women have different sized feet. I'm not a fan of trying to force my foot into mens sizes because it would make a man feel more comfortable. It's not my job to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 07:29 PM
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I can afford 95% of shoes too. I'm still only going to buy the ones that fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 07:08 PM
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It's a phrase. Try goggling that slang is the change of a word to mean something other then it's meaning. Emotional still means emotional, and labour still means labour within this phrase. An example of slag would be a pony that can be an animal or an amount for money in the UK.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 06:30 PM
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Wait, so you don't think phrases are a thing? Are you aware that in order to understand this sentence, you all need words in the order right. Otherwise, sentence this sense makes none.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 06:20 PM
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Apologies, I'm a Brit, and the Oxford Dictionary is very much a single or compound word affair. There is a separate Oxford Dictionary for phrases and idioms, though, but that isn't commonly used.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 06:19 PM
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Sir, there is a gap, it's not a word.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 06:15 PM
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It's really not people who have been writing about it for years. Its more written records in terms of social studies are a modern invention. The equity and social exchange perspectives. Another way to explain men and women’s partner age preferences is to think of heterosexual relationships in social exchange terms. At the most basic level, social exchange theory (Homans, 1961; Thibaut & Kelley, 1959)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 03:46 PM
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Mate, try Google next time, it's 2024. Also it's two separate words, aka a phrase, so it won't appear in the dictionary. Hope you finish high school though, good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 03:39 PM
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Why do you care?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 01:42 AM
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Yes, because we have a bunch of 100 plus people influencing current policy, silly me. Your comments just show some people talk out their rear end.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 12:17 AM
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No, your value is your N-count paying to up it, is so gross who does that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 06:25 PM
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Why do you think i should have to show mine when OP won't show his? Thus, it's not a good faith debate, why waste my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 05:37 PM
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As I said, you show me some evidence for your stance, and I will show you mine. Pretty simple sorry you are struggling to manage this sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:19 PM
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So more is an amount, are you aware of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 12:59 PM
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Oh, but you don't feel the need to disprove, so I don't feel the need either, or you show me your evidence, and I will show you mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 12:58 PM
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You are thinking of wars like WW1 and WW2, which are out of living memory now with more recent "wars" the outcome is different. The below includes examples of more recent wars to help you understand. https://www.carnegie.org/our-work/article/tracking-wars-disproportionate-impacts-on-women/
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 12:38 PM
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People like allsorts and what they consider to be compatible will vary. There is no guaranteed formula.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 05:07 AM
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What you need to understand is that people think differently from you, and that's fine. You also need to address what makes you think they are lying to you and why it would even matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 04:02 AM
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This could be me. I have a Master’s. My husband has a Batchlors. He is on a pay scale (NHS), so it's more about time in the service pay rise. I do out earn him, though. However, his status, income, job, etc, to me is not his "value". He is not in a prized career but loves what he does, and that was the bit that was important to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 03:09 AM
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You can tell this post if not from a woman as it is a shock to no one women are commonly misdiagnosed for allsorts. This is due to the way medical studies often test more on men or build on previous male heavy studies. Mental health is also very complex in general as you can't just do an MRI to diagnose like you would a broken bone. Thus, two doctors with the same training may diagnose differently as humans see different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 03:06 AM
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The cost of living, more choice around LGTBG+, falling fertility rates due to lifestyles
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 04:18 AM
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And how do we know the single causes for lowering birth rates is sexual liberation then.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 04:04 AM
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As I said to the other person, then their would be some evidence, care to share how you know society is collapsing, and it's due to ssxual liberation?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 03:44 AM
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And what evidence do you have for these "cracks in the wall" and the causation of it being sexual liberation?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 02:27 AM
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Are you aware how long "sexual liberation" has been a thing? In theroy, it started in the 60s that's not far off 100 years now, so I don't think it's likely. If anything causes civilization collapse, it will be the greed of the 1%.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 01:32 AM
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I do remember what the 90s were, like what with me being born in the 80s. Like the attempt, you're not old enough to understand distraction, though. No large party is going to do anything as they aren't held responsible, as I said, but odd, take to say he was voted in for fun. Enjoy the economic crash, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 06:03 PM
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Again, most social issues are being downplayed, so it's not a manosphere specific thing it's a holding the government accountable thing. It's also not a left thing, Trump is not going to do shit for most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 05:54 PM
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Today on reddit is an ad about men getting support if they have been sexual abuse. This suggests there is not a "censorship" or the ad would not be there. All social issues are widely underfunded and poorly supported as the government does not really care about general folk.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 05:28 PM
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Odd, I've seen an ad today on Reddit with the stats that 1 in 6 men are secually assaulted and where to get support. Often, it's people not taking the issues seriously, a lack of government funding, and/or supportavtive programs that are causing problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 05:17 PM
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What a sad viewpoint, of both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 05:07 PM
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Most subs are echo chambers by nature as only those with views on the sub in the first place come here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 09:05 PM
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Again, read my above post and explain to me how stating and men is a false dichotomy. As what you have included is not the definition of a false dichotomy. When you present another group to be considered within a discussion, it's inclusion. But go ahead and explain why you think highlighting both genders can be abused is biased.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 08:23 PM
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I know it better than you know what false dichotomy is, lol. Please explain how me saying "and men", is an oversimplication of the additional options for your purposed question, and how that should have been denoted from your post?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 08:09 PM
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I'm sure in the 1500s, similar things were said about sex workers, yet here we are. Sex can ve paid for already. These AIs and robots will have charges associated.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 08:06 PM
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Do you know what bias is?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 07:53 PM
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So why in the title did you write women, did you forget men exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 07:12 PM
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Men also choose their abusive partners and gold diggers, your point being?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 07:08 PM
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I am indeed. Attactive is in the eye of the beholder, so to give you an idea, he's 6 feet, slim but not skinny, blue eyes, blonde hair. I think he's attractive. If I were to rank him, he is the second most attractive man I've been with(I've only had 2 other relationships/ sexual partners, so my pool is pretty small). He is, however, the top rated in terms of compatability and being a lovely human.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 05:27 PM
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Newsflash, pretty much all politicians do not care about the none 1% and lie to get into power. This is true of all parties in some degree. I do think due to the way Trump is idolised by his voters he will be worse as he knows he can get away with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:00 PM
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Physically, there has to be an element of attraction because I'm honest. The best example is I would take a man who is less attractive physically but is a match emotionally rather than more attractive but less of an emotional match. When I fall in love, I love the person for whom they are not what they look like. The attraction is for physical intimacy. I wouldn't relax for physical intimacy with an "ugly" person (which, to me, is a character thing) so they immediately become unattractive if the…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:58 PM
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I am honest about what I like the issue is if it doesn't match what is expected. The other thing is who I find attractive and who I would date aren't the same. I don't like casual sex so may find someone attractive physically but would not touch them with a barge pool as their personality is repulsive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 09:41 AM
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That's the issue it's not what people sign up to when they want a longterm relationship. Often, the posts start. My wife had never had sex before we meet and now we are married is not having sex with me in X amount of years. Guess why some people are virgins as they don't like sex and do it out of obligation which they can't keep up.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 09:39 AM
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Women by less than 10%, please show me which party made political promises favouring women in divorce precedings as I can't see the relevance . Also, note that even if this was the case, it's men failing men again as to why aren't you voting more?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 11:57 AM
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It's a subreddit basically people in longterm commited relationships but no sexy times.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 10:55 AM
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What gender are most people in power again?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 10:54 AM
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Don't marry a woman significantly less wealthy than you and have her career unsupported when she has children, then you're fine. Still seems like a preventable issue, again another man another excuse. Men need to stop marrying down and then moaning about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 08:37 AM
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You don't get to tell someone what to think because you don't like it. The entitlement here is the issue. This is why men struggle with dating, not n counts or high value women it's the chip men like you have on your shoulder. Who wants to deal with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 08:56 PM
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I mean, if you want a 16 year old virgin that might be the issue, you know context here is important. Also, news flash you can pick how you want umless the law disagrees.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 07:30 PM
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Depends what you are screening for. Also this is the issue straight in to a man telling me what I think, umm kindly fuck off lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 07:29 PM
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If you want a low n count, that's cool it's your own personal preference the issue often happens with the way you say it for example: I don't like muscular men is very different to I don't like muscular men as I think what are you training for to kill me, gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 06:42 PM
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Most crimes committed are not by "gangsters"for starters. We see the same with dangerous women like those on death row receiving tons of "fan" mail. Also, if we are judging the whole gender by the actions for some are all men evil and dangerous, then as its mostly men that murder?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 04:52 PM
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44% of men my age are married, so your struggling doesn't add up. Sounds like another excuse for mens behavior. If you all just stopped doing it, that would solve it. Men always making excuses expecting women to solve their problems (this is obviously a play on what is said to women during these "debates") https://www.statista.com/statistics/318927/percentage-of-americans-whe-were-married-between-age-18-32-by-generation/
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 01:11 PM
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Then men need to stop doing that and take responsibility for their enabling behaviours. Just like women are told its their fault for being attracted to muscular men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 12:27 PM
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100% I just think both sides need to accept some things really aren't a gender issue but a perception one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 12:26 PM
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Tell that to the men that go nuts when they post about Gold diggers and I comment you should of picked better lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 12:05 PM
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That's often what's said to women. Oh, she chose a man who was violent as they were attracted to that. It's seen on this sub regularly, yet when gold diggers, aka finically abusive relationships, are mentioned, it's never the mens picking that is questioned. If you think one can exsit, and not the other, you might have a bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 12:05 PM
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I think it's valid in both cases within reason, but people, especially on this sub, want to say it but not hear it. That's not how life works if you think people can pick less abusive partners as women the same is true for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 11:35 AM
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No, one this sub if someone posts about the wonderful time divorce rape or gold diggers and I say oh you should of choose better cue the tanturms. If women should know men are abusers on sight men should know they are gold diggers ect.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 11:34 AM
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The issue I have with this phrase is that men are happy to say it until they get told the same about gold diggers or deadbedrooms.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 10:22 AM
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Oh, another one that doesn't understand. I'm referring to a law, The Human Rights Act. That's where Human rights come from Google it then come back and tell me why you think someone being killed or tortured is up for deabte.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 08:03 AM
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I'm just stating that Human rights are not up for debate on any level.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 04:29 PM
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Literally not engaging with all that BS it's human rights for all simple. If you think there's some sort of behaviour based loophole, you are a dreadful human.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 04:05 PM
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Says the person that thinks deny rights as behaviour doesn't suit them, is OK.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 04:04 PM
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Have you read what's in OPs post? This is about women being denied human rights due to not complying with their behaviour expectations. Any yeah, but about this topic is gross. Human rights for all there is no you have to do x, it's a basic right to life pretty simple concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 01:12 PM
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Once again, if you think a group, if humans need to treat you a certain way to have himan rights, it's not me with a problem, it's you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 12:02 PM
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I can not stress this enough if you think denying a group of human rights as their behaviour doesn't fit your expecting, you need to have a word with yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 12:01 PM
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Sure, it's me that still problem the person that thinks everyone should have himan rights as standard. Not that they are a tool to be used to bribe "good behaviour."
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 08:20 AM
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If young men need to be pandered to, to see women as humans, I would rather we just all end human race as that's a ridiculous expectation. How about young men are taught to manage their own feelings and behaviours in a healthy way rather than having a figurative tantrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 06:22 AM
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If a group of people have to engage with a group, they do not wish to, for example, if they are gay, how can you say they hold the power? If this was the case, the alienation would not have any consequences. Also, if that group needs to get something from the other group to be treated as humans, then that's the saddest thing I've heard and they need to do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 05:30 AM
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Anyone who does not see that relationship is straight child sexual abuse is nuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 04:43 PM
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I'm an older woman, I'm 35. I only have an issue with age gap relationships when someone may have been groomed. Take the actor Aaron Taylor-Johnson. He was 18, but his now wife was his boss that to me screams it could have been grooming. That shit is not OK.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 01:27 PM
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You are aware that there are abortion limits that happen before a fetus becomes a fully developed baby (with the expecting of medical terminations as the baby would not survive). But thanks again for proving you have not considered the full argument and approached with your own bias, the village idiot strikes again.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 01:00 PM
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Some people hate a certain group of people, in this case, women that they can't accept that they could be successful. They feel the need to make snide and thoughtless comments to try and make that success look different to fit their narrative. These types of people are not even worth engaging with and go straight in the bin.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 07:41 AM
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I do wonder if our preferences are linked to weaknesses in our genes and to ensure we widely don't find our family attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 07:31 PM
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For context, they are both tall, Mum is 6ft 5, and Dad is 6ft 1. I take after my Dad's Mum, who is 4ft 11ins. My preference is my preference. I don't like super fit men, yet my Dad and Mum where (Mother is dead) were super fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 06:55 PM
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That's the thing with opinions they can be different and still be valid. As each person can think what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 06:34 PM
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My Dad is a muscular man ex army. My mum is taller but a former ballet dance, so very slim. It just looks like it should be the other way round.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 06:23 PM
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I'm married, but prior to dating, I owned my own property, Master degree educated, well above average income. This is what I was looking for. Had to have a job they were passionate about. I wanted someone who understands the want to do well at work as it's important to you. (My husband is a paramedic) Had to have money sense, i.e., could have secured debt or student loans, but not credit cards run up due to just wanting stuff. (My husband had a mortgage on his house, no student loans, and had ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 12:50 PM
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I mean, mine is my Dad he is a horrible creature (we are talking criminal charges) and uses his ASD as an excuse for his behaviour. I think the issue, though, is not the ASD but the way people around that person have treated them. If it becomes an excuse for poor behaviour, of course, they are more likely to turn into awful adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 07:53 AM
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No, of course not. I'm not having sex with anyone I've only known for 2 weeks. Dying or not, he could be lying, could still iverpower me, and having sex as a woman puts you at risk. I'm not doing this because someone has a sob stroy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 11:23 AM
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There are several reasons why some people consider an embryo to be different from a human, including: Capacity for sentience An embryo lacks the capacity for sentience or consciousness. Biological development A fertilized egg is a clump of cells without a brain, and a nervous system doesn't develop until after the 14th day. A human brain isn't viable until week 23, and only with modern medical support. Stage of development The difference between an embryo and an adult is only a difference in sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 05:20 PM
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I was asked how I would respond, not how they may be feeling, check the thread. People can feel and believe what they want and, still be factually incorrect feelings are not rational.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 10:55 PM
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Yeah, they've lost something, a pregnancy. That would not be how I have or would respond to the death of a baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 10:20 PM
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I'm British, and that is not true as we have the equality act and a group called Men in Early years who recruit and support men. Our current ambassador for early years is a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 09:06 PM
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Lol, or he is bad at negotiating. Escort "My rate is 100k per minute I charge in 30-second intervals"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 07:46 PM
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I think they meant escorts.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 07:36 PM
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I sincerely believe that every average man (6/10 and above) has the ability to shut their mouth and not let every stupid thought come out. Yet here we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 07:31 PM
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I'm in a pretty much all female career, and men do get promoted quicker than women as it looks good to have a male teacher for the little ones. However, if I was a man, I imagine I would then be I a traditionally male centred role for like for like. I would like to have had a baby without pregnancy. Does that count, lol? As others have said, it's different issues, and most of the gender based issues in the modern world are less of an issue than class-based issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 06:24 PM
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I will come at this as a teacher of small children (under 6 years old). Two children fall over a girl and a boy. Generally, the girl is cuddled. The other gets told, "You're a big boy jump up." This is how we treat children. It's not OK and needs to stop. I obviously tell parents this. It demonstrates, though, how are expections culturally are different for men compared to women. This attitude prevents men from seeking support until their heads are often under water, taking more support to help …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 05:15 PM
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Don't believe that's true, or guns would be banned to prevent school shootings. This is all about control
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 12:58 PM
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You asked me what I said to a woman who had a miscarriage I answered. It appeared to not be what you expected. I asked what you expected me to say, and you are yet to reply Funerals happen after babies are born and survive in tact (awful term but factul) often after the viability date, aka after an abortion is no longer allowed. Just so you know, as you appear quite unaware.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 11:46 PM
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Nice divergence attempt, but what are you saying that's not "Sorry for your loss". You appeared to think you had a gotcha moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 11:33 PM
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Sorry for your loss, what the fuck are you saying lol? Side note women are encouraged not to tell people till after 16 weeks due to the likelihood of miscarriages in the early weeks. It's almost like it's not a fully developed baby yet, and things form wrong or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 10:55 PM
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Oh dear, so wrong. All you can do is point out a spelling error. How sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 08:12 PM
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Child destruction is the crime of killing an unborn but viable foetus; that is, a child "capable of being born alive" before it has "a separate existence." So this would be after the abortion cut off, maybe goggle stuff first or just look stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 07:49 PM
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If he doesn't try stuff and I have to start writing instructions, I'm out, thanks. Happy to give pointers and suggestions not willing to write a handbook.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 07:45 PM
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We should call people who don't know the difference between a birthed baby and a bunch of cells "village idiots."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 07:44 PM
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So on mass would mean the majority apologies if that term went over your head. Are you saying you think the majority of men are doing this? Which planet are you on lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 02:00 AM
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Just not on mass for some reason, so as I said to OP, most men aren't perceiving this as a widespread issue. Guess you're only upset when others don't agree with you, typical.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 01:46 AM
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You could be wrong as well . Do you have any other evidence that this is a widespread issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 01:39 AM
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Then why don't they take part in the solution OP suggested on mass? Seems simple no one is stopping them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 01:37 AM
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You are perceiving this as an issue where, as it would appear, the wider male population does not feel the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 01:36 AM
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The issue needs to be bigger than the difficulty of the solution. By your own statement above, it's clearly not, and you appear to understand this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 01:29 AM
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You are saying a solution is needed, but the solution you suggest is already available, but men aren't choosing it. It's either there is no problem or your solution isn't an appealing alternative.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 01:25 AM
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What's the point here? No one is stopping men from doing what you suggest. Men are making a choice already you just don't like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 01:20 AM
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I mean, everyone is hypocritical at some point. For example, do you want to go no contact or get back with your ex as you don't appear to know?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 02:03 PM
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See the thing is children are everybody above 12 months old until 14, 16 or 18 (depending on where you live). As someone who teaches child development, most saying yes is not understanding language. This would be around 3 years old for a girl and 4 years old for a boy (the genders gap for language is girls first, whereas boys develop faster for physical things due to cultural bias). A child who understands language will understand the words, "Let's have sex" but sex is an abstract concept as a c…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 06:08 PM
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No, you think a baby can consent that's demented. You need a lobotomy if you are unable to understand why a child who can not even understand language can not consent. What a fucking weird take, get help. The same can be said for saying women can't consent. You started this with your views. No one is gaslighting. You are just being asked to explain you aren't doing that when your views are questioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 04:33 PM
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What are you on about? Do you think women are unable to consent or having sex with children is OK.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 03:52 PM
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Note the word consent so either you are claiming all sex with women is rape and every man is a rapist or you didn't think what you said through. Children can't consent due to not being able to understand the act of sex and it's risks. Incase you didn't know why we don't have sex with children.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 03:12 PM
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I hope you have a lovely 13th birthday next year. This is the only explanation for thinking that having consensual sex is bad for some people but not for another.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 12:56 PM
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The date of the common use of current medications, which is listed in the 1960s. Apologies, I thought you could maintain a topic of conversation. Do you have any evidence of uneducated births being the majority of births in the 1980s, as you stated, or did you pull that from thin air?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:51 AM
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Sorry, I was still editing. I've now attached the associated research paper.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:36 AM
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I was born in the 80s. My mum had a C section, what are you smoking lol Read this will you the date of the common use of pain relief is the 1960s but many different less effective methods where tried before. Again can google what a twilight birth is. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/26126073/
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:34 AM
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Before medication, there was very limited birth control. Rape still happened, and women were seen as objects to be owned. What choice did they have?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:20 AM
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You know most people have a medicated birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:01 AM
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Everyone has a match, you just have to accept your market value.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 11:46 AM
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It's said to women here all the time, funny how you don't like it when it's handed back to you, odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 11:45 AM
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Have you tried lowering your standards? You just are not aware of your market value and seeking out those that align.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 11:24 AM
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Why would I care what other people are doing that doesn't involve me. Also sex is free. Are you always paying for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 11:17 AM
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You know what you wrote, hence the dirty delete
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 05:50 PM
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Bless your heart, love a good threat me. I'm being sarcastic as OP appears to be cherry-picking for their own rant, which is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 05:41 PM
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Babe, can you do a TLDR as you are giving me a word salad. Again, goggle could answer how feminism helps men, give it a try. https://righttoequality.org/why-feminism-is-good-for-men-and-why-all-men-should-be-feminists/ https://feminist.org/news/feminism-is-for-men-too/ https://medium.com/all-about-women/4-reasons-why-feminism-is-for-men-be2d573e608a
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 03:16 PM
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You could have goggled this to give yourself a little hint. https://www.gao.gov/women-and-gender-public-policy#:~:text=Women%20are%20more%20likely%20to,when%20rates%20have%20decreased%20globally. https://www.amnesty.org/en/location/americas/north-america/united-states-of-america/report-united-states-of-america/ https://equalitynow.org/news_and_insights/why-womens-rights-are-vulnerable-in-america/
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 02:41 PM
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Constructing a concise argument is not for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 09:24 PM
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Correct women aren't forced. However, we do understand how effective marketing can be, and that is a male dominated business. All companies, including make-up companies, have mainly male CEOs and senior teams. Make-up companies work closely with laboratories to make products again a male dominated industry. Most comestic companies that dominated were created before women could own bank acocunt or get credit, so that's all well and good in theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 01:20 PM
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In response to are men doing it? Who do you think owns the large comestic companies, magazines and marketing departments. Men make money off pushing makeup. All the below have male majority owners (as in stakes as a lot of these companies are owned by various shareholders) Loreal Estée Lauder Smash box No 7. Chanel Makeup
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 12:20 PM
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“Almost 30% of Gen Z women identify as LGBTQ+, most as bisexual," What do you think the word bisexual means?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:23 PM
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Sorry, I don't engage with hatered, be better, or learn when to close your mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 03:06 PM
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I think the cost of maids, surrogates, cooks, and cleaners are too high. Thus, men are expected to either find a Mummy wife to do these things or accept they are priced out of the market. Obviously /s.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 02:34 PM
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Yeah, so you're proving my point no single cause is making the population decline, but 7% of people not being in same sex relationships. Thus, not being able to potentially conceive as easy or being trans removes some of the population from the number of people wanting to increase the birth rate. Are you able to comprehend this?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 02:32 PM
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Mate, have you heard of Goggle? It's 7.2%. https://www.statista.com/topics/1249/homosexuality/#:~:text=In%20a%20recent%20survey%20conducted,part%20of%20the%20LGBT%20community.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 02:16 PM
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I believe this is due to the gaps now happening between children, along with the average age of the first birth going up. In a short space of time in England, the average age for a woman to have her first child is 29.2 years. These two things mean my first all around 35 are yet to have but are planning second or third children. They would have done this much earlier and much quicker. This, in part, has caused a gap as people don't feel the need to rush children we know it's a gradual decline in …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 01:15 PM
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Are you aware that older people are no longer fertile and thus unable to have babies. If you have a large number of unfertile people within the population, the figure goes down. This happens due to trends, i.e., the baby boom after the war caused large amounts of people within a short space of time. No stastics when we look at a bar chart tend to be a straight line up or down rather with dips. We are entering a dip due to a previous age trend. Apologies I thought you would know that. This is why…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 12:00 PM
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We can agree to disagree. I personally don't think one of these factors on their own is causing "plummeting" birth rates. Without them interacting with each other I feel we may have more of a maintain or gradually declining (this in part is also as we have more old people, so the birth rate was always going to drop once we got top heavy enough). You, however, are welcome to think whatever you want as we can't isolate these factors to prove this either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 11:40 AM
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Tha would be for child labour, try reading the chapter about this in Hans Rosling's Factfulness: Ten Reasons We're Wrong About the World — and Why Things Are Better Than You Think.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 11:32 AM
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Can you count? Including OP's suggested reason, which is number one, people not being straight would be two, and the cost would be three. See, counting is fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 11:31 AM
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Things that impact the fertility rate: Not everyone is heterosexual, shit is expensive, so people buy houses and start families and/or have fewer children. No one single cause is making the birth rate drop.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 10:34 AM
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Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 07:31 PM
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Address women's medical issues better. I got really sick in pregnancy and nearly died as despite being sick for over 10 hours a day and having blood sugar readings lower than 2. I was tolthesethings happen in pregancy. I feel I could not risk my health by getting pregnant again when this whole situation could have been addressed with anti sickness meds and IV fluids. Other medical issues like PCOS, which can directly impact fertility, are also ignored . I will not feel well enough to have childr…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 09:12 PM
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When I was single, this was my "list" At the same point of life, so full time work in a career style job. No more than 3 years older or younger than me, which was mainly ruled out by the above statement anyway. Similar income as in within 10k of my yearly take home. Similar assets I owned a property at the time and have a good pension. Lived within a hours drive away. Be attractive to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 09:11 AM
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Oh, so you don't know how to use an analogy correctly, got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 04:55 AM
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Taken from the definition: A thing that is comparable to something else in significant respects. So please tell me why you think abortion is similar to a Tiktoker posting content you don't like?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 12:00 AM
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Please explain to me how similar tik tok and abortion are in your mind? The whole reason this is petty as its a single content creator on an app, and you are comparing it to abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 09:49 PM
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Is it justified, though, as to me, it's coming across as stupid and petty. Let people do what they want (again within reason) on apps and remember you are only responsible for your own actions. If you don't like her block her account, it's not that deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 09:31 PM
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Free speech is a thing, and people should be able to post what they want (within reason). If you think a couple of tiktok videos will make a bunch of young girls forever seek validation from men. I feel sorry for the culture you have grown up in. As someone in good old England, these videos are funny to me, and if she cooks well, great. I think our culture is the issue that is not a single creator on an app, and minimising it to this makes you sound like you don't understand the issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 08:14 PM
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If only more men were in power to help resolve men's issues /s This is the point of the issue, though if they are getting overlooked it's by other men I.e men are the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 07:24 PM
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Me and the bear while OP freaks out and gets his man period.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 07:23 PM
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I think questions like this are always approached with our own bias as we can't read minds. Thus, people never really change a view, and big old, no, you dont think that way issues occur. I don't think people should be trying to tell people they are seeking self validation by dressing how they want, and even if they were, why would that be an issue to anyone but that person. These discussions rarely happen in good faith and just become a shit on certain people narrative. Which newsflash goes now…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 12:27 PM
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Why do you feel you get to decide how much external validation someone needs? It's none of your business, and unless you can read minds, you are always applying your own judgement and bias. Like stay in your lane and focus on your problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 11:39 AM
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I dress how I want because I can. But the real question here is why do you care? How I dress or who for is none of your business. This sort of questions just make me think what a sad life this person must have yhat this is their burning question.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 08:49 AM
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To that person they are, it's you feeling that they are not. Please explain to me why you feel you get to decide what is fair?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 10:05 AM
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Entitlement: fact of having a right to something. Car eto explain why that wouldn't fit?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 09:11 AM
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Other people making choices about who they date is down to them. You don't get to dictate to them who they should choose, that's being entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 08:55 AM
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We live in a culture where people get to choose, and some people decide they only want a shall we say premium package and turn down everything outside of it. That's it they choose and act according to their wants and needs, pretty simple. I don't get what the issue is understanding this?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 07:35 AM
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If that's how she feels. Why does it bother you so much? People get to feel and think within reason what they want. If someone decides unless the person is x, y and z thry aren't for me that's up to them. You just have to get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 07:21 AM
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Very positive as I met my husband. However, I would regularly message first and went on a bunch of awful dates and saw too many dick pics. As a woman, I found it easier to message first as I knew what I was looking for and could find what it appeared to be (I put appeared as you can write anything on a profile). I had "rules" like I wouldn't meet untill we spoke for over 4 weeks on the app only. This seemed to weed out the quick fix fellas and mean I wasn't giving my details to a bunch of guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:57 PM
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Why did he not know that divorce was a thing? That sounds like an IQ issue if that's the case, as he should have just said no to marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 08:56 PM
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Why was he not aware that divorce was a thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 06:04 PM
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Raped implies without consent, he did not get married and have a child without consent. Just like I did, I took out my mortgage at free will. She did not come up with the amount the court did. Which tells me you have no idea what you are talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 05:23 PM
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He had a child and got married on his own accord. My mortgage has gone up without my permission. Can I claim mortgage rape?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 04:22 PM
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Divorce rape is not a thing!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 04:18 PM
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Of course, hence why I said it takes a long time for culture to change, but this expectation exists due to the way male family members arranged marriages which women had no say in
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 07:41 PM
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So if unmarried women could access banks, Sarah Howe's exploration of women who couldn't use banks wouldn't have happened. Unmarried women used her Ladies Deposit scheme due to having no other options. Maybe read Google before posting, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 07:39 PM
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According to the evaluation, men are choosing to initiate and are not forced. "As discussed thus far, the research shows a tendency for males to be more direct, comfortable, confident, and frequent in initiating intimate relationships."
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 07:27 PM
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Any evidence it doesn't work for over 50% of people or are you just guessing?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 04:36 PM
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According to who?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 04:35 PM
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I'm not nitpicking I asked you for evidence of your stat you don't appear to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 04:06 PM
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So nit over 70% then?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 03:59 PM
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That's a statement. I got any links to the data I found less than 14% are subs for both gender listed as a kink. https://bedbible.com/fetlife-statistic/
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 03:44 PM
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Evidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 03:35 PM
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Evidance?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 03:22 PM
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Historically, are you able to follow a conversation?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 03:22 PM
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You can't self suffocate, by holding your breath this is why evidence is important.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 03:21 PM
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Aka none, cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 03:07 PM
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Evidance for this or are you talking out of your ass?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 03:01 PM
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Evidance?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 03:00 PM
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The reason why some women don't approach is deep seated in a lack of equal rights if you can't make the link I'm sorry about that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 03:00 PM
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Yes, the men in the family did this and paid the female family money. It was still men doing the approaching. Please tell me how you know all about what women feel would love your physic abilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 01:49 PM
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100% against the religious mutilation of boys and being British, I think it's a disgrace the female equivalent is illegal, but the male is not. That's the difference, though. I'm outraged about the inequality, and you are saying, but it's only a few states like that's OK. Owning and having different concepts are you aware of this? In England, it was not until a law was passed din 1975 that banks were not allowed to stop women owning accounts. Prior to this, they regularly did. It's th whole it's…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 01:45 PM
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So men are expected to approach due to a toxic masculinity expection, which no doubt some women uphold. It is also historically routed in the way marriage was arranged by the men this is due to a lack of women's rights. Almost like it takes a long time after the rights being given for the cultural shift.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 01:41 PM
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Death happens when abortions are refused is also pretty unreverisable. If only we had some way to freeze sperm reliably first or something. In the UK, women could not hold a bank in their own name until 1975, which was the year The Sex Discrimination Act passed that prevented this. Oh, so if you can't demand outcomes, this whole post is trash as men can't demand the same advantages to dating as women apparently have, cool. Let OP know you will you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 12:50 PM
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I agree the abortion thing is a one-off. I still can't believe it as a Brit, but it is causing tension between the genders. In the UK, women could not open a bank account in their own name until 1975, which is just a sad fact I'm affriad. This is over 10 years ATMs were introduced, so banks were very much widely used.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 12:43 PM
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It has the same outcome but better. With a vasectomy. Prevention at the source. Women could not hold an account without a male co-signer this could not hold an account on their own. Are you OK? Inequality in rights is when people are not given equal opportunities or rights. Thus are treated unfairly and experience discrimination. (Note the word or)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 12:34 PM
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Would enforced vasectomies not stop pregnancies? (Obviously, I don't think this should happen) As stated, those were all 40 years ago, yes, that is not the 60 years ago you stated. This demonstrates that we often forget our own Mother's couldn't hold a bank account without their husbands. https://blogs.lse.ac.uk/socialbusinesshub/2021/11/15/why-we-should-still-be-concerned-about-gender-inequality-in-the-uk/ Just as I'm in the UK and can't be asked to type out all the issues as I'm sure thry are …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 12:23 PM
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But it's not all women saying it so it's fine as I'm a nice girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 11:23 AM
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Please tell me which medical procedure for men is regulated and refused after a time period? Also, Google, when women could hold a bank account or get credit, these were all 40 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 11:15 AM
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Do all men, though, as with the rise of figures like Andrew Tate and the wonderfully sexual abuser that Trump is getting in suggests otherwise. I have only used the statement to someone male or female bragging about a partner who is asking for praise about basic tasks or I don't rape. Why do men seem upset if a woman wants to date someone attractive? Oh wait, that's right. Unless you are included in the standards, they will always be deemed too high.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 11:12 AM
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Was this post genuine or just mad to whine and say yeah but me. Women want equality, and some men are upset, which means they can't be lazy and aren't just handed a woman as she has no choice as its no longer 1920. The bar is on the floor in part is us laughing at you all wanting praise for being a "nice guy", or doing basic ass shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 10:45 AM
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Oh, so you agree that there was an answer in there, interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:54 PM
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If you can't find an answer in my above statement, you are proving my point, go you!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 02:47 PM
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You will note that this is the reason many women would choose to be invisible, not "attention" per say, as in positive attention but the extreme negative attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 02:28 PM
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Women should not be the gold standard for men's happiness both in a way it's not a woman's job to make a man happy and also a man should not feel pressured to have a romantic relationship. However, friendship and the relationship a girlfriend offers are different pretending they are the same makes you look well stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 01:46 PM
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I see them as a type of attention looking and touching are both types of attention, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 11:58 PM
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Harassment is giving unwanted attention. The bar man wanted my attention just not while I could speak (insert joke about that being a fair point).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 10:56 PM
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Or are they laughing it off to excuse their behaviour. Laughing and making it out like a joke minimises what they are doing, it doesn't make it any less about power.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 10:55 PM
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So, how conversations work is sometimes they involve other topics. The point her is invisibility would stop harassment more in my opinion than being pretty would increase it. See that link there.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 10:32 PM
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Bodyguard to represent they are safer than the other person, are you OK? I can't believe that's gone over your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 10:27 PM
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I think when we are thinking about harassment that will be an abuser who is looking to abuse. Perhaps the prettiest person is most at risk if in the same place, but overal being open to the abuse is the bigger risk. Some attention will also fall into this as some men aren't looking for the prettiest person but the easiest lay, shall we say.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 10:26 PM
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Again, this would depend on where and what those two people are exposed to. An ugly person on the night bus vs a pretty person in an uber. Risk still I believe has more of an impact then looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 10:14 PM
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I feel that OP did make that connection as they have stated beauty equals attention, thus suggesting ugly equals no attention. The safer the person, the less likely to be harassed who is getting approached the person in the alleys or the person with body guards. Apologies if you couldn't understand the terminology.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 10:12 PM
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As stated for me, I don't mind attention it's harassment that is the issue. I've faced harassment many times, and some people see anything as attention. That's the issue. Where does the line end? No one can truly agree. I would be invisible not because of attention, but it's the only way I can 100% eliminate harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 10:10 PM
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Odd as OP seems to have made that correlation and hasn't stared otherwise, perhaps you can read minds though. And if cyclops goes down a dark alleyway enough times (which is a dumb idea) but pretty lady has a team of body guards. Guess who gets harassed the most. Are you able to comprehend that?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 10:07 PM
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Sorry, I don't appear to understand. Why is it silly. The only way to not be harassed in some capacity is to be invisible, so being pretty makes no difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 10:05 PM
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I knew what they were suggesting. I just wanted to confirm their stance that attractive means abused and that someone not deemed pretty enough is "safe". An abuser will pick a less attractive person if they are an easier target, which apparently has not passed OPs mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 09:58 PM
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This appears to be a shock to you, but I'm not a 10 out 10. If I'm in makeup, I'm a 7 on a good day. Being attractive makes no difference we still get harassed. Rape, harassment and abuse are displays of power and control they happen due to someone being vulnerable, not pretty. I'm sorry this has never occurred to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 09:56 PM
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For me, it's the type of attention, not who a smile at the bar, grand even come over and say hello. Following me home, spiking my drink, or trying to break into my house (all things that men I don't know have done), not OK. I would rather be invisible to every man then be harassed. Also, do you think men would choose to be ugly given the option? I think everyone would choose to be attractive, so I'm not sure what your point there is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 09:46 PM
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I mean, apart from the obvious, so if a friend found out he had done something awful like rape someone, he goes in the bin. Friends and family would have to have evidance beyond I don't like him basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 08:21 AM
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I'm pretty confident I'm not the only person to find a partner on a dating site.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 04:49 PM
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Also, remember, if a woman doesn't delete their profile, the app will keep it up even if she hasn't logged in, in years to make it look like they have more women.Then you have the chat bots pretending to be women. This throws the experience as out of, let's say, 10 female profiles, only a generous 5 of them are actually engaged in the app women to start with.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 12:54 PM
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That is a big part of the issue. Women aren't engaging as much with dating apps for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 12:50 PM
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I'm a woman, and they worked fine for me, and none of my single friends appear to think dating apps are wrecking their mental health. I will say as a woman in her 30s (friend group about the same age), some of my friends are point blank, not wanting to date in any capacity. Th eissue I hear friends reporting and I had is some people use them as a fuckabilty pokedex and have no intention of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 12:37 PM
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That you talking ill of fat women again thought that never happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 12:20 PM
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I'm just being sarcastic. The issue here is that you think your weight is so big of an issue that you may as well not try the things women have suggested. No one can help you with that approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 12:20 PM
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So fat women aren't coddled as you are free to say what you want about them, and I presume they are allowed Internet access.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 12:18 PM
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Lol, like yesterday you referred to a sub five ass face fatty, maybe clear your posts first, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 12:01 PM
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Then, according to the approach here, you have to do everything on that post as your value is lower. Have you tried dating an obese woman with 10 kids /s.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 11:59 AM
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The issue here is personal thry aren't attracted to you, so instead of seeing that post and thinking, I could be more of whatever they put. You have decided the issue is your attractiveness as they aren't dating you. Thus me putting anything is pointless as you have already ignored one post.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 10:47 AM
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I love this. You evidently have no idea about addressing homelessness, lower drugs and crime rates, and adds more people to the economy. Clearly spoken with ignorance or idiotically, you can decide which.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 07:38 AM
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Read the string OP seems to think it mattered hence the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 07:36 AM
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It was a question for OP as they gave homelessness as evidence men have more oppression than women. Homelessness is not a gender based issue as what most causes of homelessness do not change if you are male or female. The response from countries may better support a gender which is what we are seeing, hence the difference in percentages via each country.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 08:41 AM
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This was not the case for me. I had plenty of messages from attractive men who made it clear they only wanted something casual, so we did not meet up. Getting the man who was attractive was never an issue for me. I've never had casual sex. My husband is the third man I have ever dated. We were 30 when I got married for context. However, each woman will be different this is just for me. Things I looked for were a job, similar morals to myself, a love of music, and a similar level of intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 08:13 AM
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Most shelters are for men in the UK, so now we aren't addressing female homelessness as well as men's. We also have a surge in D.V. or most likely a surge in reporting. This means women are supported out of these homes then due to issues with social housing and shelters, we can't house them. We have also come out of 14 years of Tory policy they aren't known for spending money on issues like this. This change may have been noticed, but what can charities do with no funding to create female based …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 07:02 AM
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This depends on the country for obvious reasons https://ourworldindata.org/data-insights/men-are-more-likely-to-be-homeless-in-most-countries-but-there-are-exceptions To you, does this mean women are repressed in the countries with higher rates of women homelessness?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 11:04 PM
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I'm just commenting for any men in the UK who read this and want to try. You can self reffer you without even speaking to your GP for free CBT. You just need to be over the age of 16 and registered to a GP (just as the funding comes via your Local authority so they use your surgery address). Depending on your local authority, it may be italk or Steps to wellbeing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 04:03 PM
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No, when I was dating, I would ignore any man who wasn't who I would date (I dated to marry). I just saw them as getting in the way, like why would I waste my time? This isn't what I want. I will say I was still polite, just not willing to entertain them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 02:11 PM
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I'm not having sex with someone I've just met, I don't have a death wish. I didn't even let anyone know my address or visit their home on a first date, are you mad? This response is aimed at men who don't understand why women have to presume you might do something as well. You could overpower me if you fancied.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 09:24 PM
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And the spelling mistake is relevant, how? Apologies if it prevented you from understanding the sentence. Please, write. I have heard from other students as evidence in your assignments. The correct data is below. https://www.hepi.ac.uk/2020/03/07/mind-the-gap-gender-differences-in-higher-education/ The higher education participation level for young women has now reached 56.6%, compared to only 44.1% for young men. More women do attend, and not everyone in attendance will be having heterosexual …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 11:46 AM
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You've figured out what research is congratulations 🎊 or you could site some research to ebidance your claims. Here is the sex league table for unis showing sex is happening at quite a rate. You will notice the lower unis like Surrey are single sex heavy (Surrey specialises in Midwifery this more women) . https://unifresher.co.uk/cities/national/trending-national/revealed-these-are-the-unis-with-the-students-having-the-most-sex/
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 10:55 AM
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So, how research works is the wider the experience group the more weight to the claim. Your single event experience is very low. We also have no context everyone has shall we say a strike range you could have been aiming too high we have no way of knowing this (equally we also have no way to prove my claim obviously). During your research project, you will do a whole section on ethics, which covers our own research bias. I have bias and could be just seeing people together, but I did have to spe…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 10:39 AM
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Please tell me how you know this vs my experience as a College lecturer youve got it in teaching lol (in England so age range is 16-19)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 10:22 AM
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Give him a few etiquette classes and a nice wardrobe. Drop him in a college class that is mainly female, like nursing or teaching, and let nature take its course. Evidence I'm a teacher (Primary, so mainly all females) the men on my course at uni went to all female parties where not only fellow students but their friends were and did pretty well for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:53 PM
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Going to leave my husband if he gets grey hair and doesn't dye it to the exact colour it was before
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 01:42 PM
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Imagine taking time to research something as you don't like what the movement is. It seems disingenuous, but you do you. Social movements are dynamic, highly contextual phenomena. They differ in how they function and selfidentify, and in the environments in which they emerge. Social historian Charles Tilly (cited in Foweraker, 1995:80) writes that a ‘proper analogy to a social movement is neither a party nor a union but a political campaign’. Using this definition pretty much anything with the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 08:29 PM
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I'm married and British. However, I would have never married an openly out Conservative to begin with. I say out as obviously I am not able to see who my husband votes for.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 09:22 PM
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I know right over, just plain white bread. He says the crust is a bit tougher than he would choose. I eat the most bread, so I got the deciding vote. Also, I order and pay for the food shops
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 07:59 AM
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I'm happily married (I'm the wife), and this advice for me sits alongside the common. You have to make compromises to make it work. Which in some respects is true however if you are changing big parts of you or your lifestyle don't get married to that person. For my husband, his compromises include having tiger loaf instead of just white bread and the theromstate up 1 degree. Nothing major, and I make compromises too, we have the tv he wanted, and the thermostat is about a degree colder than I w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 07:04 AM
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So do you think less than 30 people is a good sample size?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 09:49 AM
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No thanks, try posting in a subreddit called CMV lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 07:19 PM
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And in other news the sky is blue. This whole post is screaming im cross and having a tantrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 07:50 PM
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Most women are totally fine not being paid, but it seems as you want to live in fantasy land I thought I would match your outright delusion, how did I do? Also how much should my invoice be I earn more then my husband and I'm yet to charge him yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 05:05 PM
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Well, I mean the average person on here seems to expect a prostitute, house maid, and cleaners, so that is three salaries to pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 04:32 PM
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Just me sliding an employment contract over on the first date. "Yeah it's £22 per hour but if I go over 30 hours there's an additional rate"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 07:10 AM
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Cool, so am I getting paid per hour for the date, as we seem to be making dating a transication herre?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 05:35 AM
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Apologies, I figured everyone would have the intelligence to figure it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 07:08 PM
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Another wonderful dumbass, care to read the second paragraph I wrote.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 06:22 PM
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Did the second paragraph go straight over your head, then? Come on now this isn't hard I've literally written it out ffs.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 05:33 PM
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We gave you, sir. Please stop your misogyny is showing, lol Also, what role did you have in the central government at the time? Let's say property laws were changed in the 1920s. Also, congratulations on still being alive. Ps I may have chosen a specifically old law to highlight the stupidity of your statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:35 PM
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You first, babe.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:22 PM
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When are men going to take responsibility for themselves and stop blaming women for their issues ffs. This may be sarcasm based on the average response when women highlight issues men contribute to.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:44 PM
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No, introspection is a learned skills having a vagina does not impact your ability to learn skills. The second paragraph reads I'm angry women don't pick me and makes the whole "argument" seem disingenuous as you have a motive to be "upset".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:27 PM
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Again, I choose areas where I presumed most men are doing those things unless you think less than half of men are wearing deodorant, being kind, or talking about achievements on a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 05:47 AM
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Half the people in the study did do it the answer was still the same. If this was true, you would start to see a downturn in effectiveness as the studies get bigger. It wouldn't be a sudden off switch. You will note I included both pretty small and larger studies for this reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 05:37 AM
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Any evidence, or is this just from your experience? Below are some of the things cited to improve attractiveness. https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0191886914003626 https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0191886915001336 https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3851331/ https://psycnet.apa.org/record/2011-10737-001 https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/19134127/
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 05:27 AM
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I have a cleaner who does the deep cleaning and a robot hoover. The husband does the washing up and takes out the bins. Bins are once a week, and he washes up every other day. I clean the kitchen as I cook, so pretty much every day that includes cleaning the fridge and re organising the food. Husband puts the washing on I iron and put it away. That happens once a week
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 05:59 PM
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Generally, golddiggers aren't going after someone who makes good money. They pick targets, and those are people with property, investment, and wealth far beyond the top 1% of wage earners.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 05:55 PM
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It's written in a way that, to me that comes across as trying to incite reactions from both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 06:56 PM
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This is such a low effort troll post. Do better!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 07:28 AM
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Oh so women must get some too for the lack of human rights back in the days, should I put my Venmo up lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:21 PM
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I think a lot of people go to university expecting some sort of social hive, but that will only happen if you first attend a university with good social networking opportunities and second join enough social groups. In England, you are what like 17/18 when you pick and to be able to select a university for those experiences, may be a challenge.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:20 PM
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There is a wider cultural issue here where we start with gender roles early and traditional. Those are boys are rough, and girls are gentle this feeds sexism. This then feeds into men are dangerous because this issue is not just women though its men as Fathers, Uncles, Brothers and Friends saying things like don't go here or with that man. The issue is society as a whole, but yes, anybody saying all men are predictors is sexism. The actions depend though if that person decides to not go places a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 03:53 PM
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Julian, for me, too, providing that he is following the medical advice for his anxiety as I understanding g having professional support and actually following it are very different. Also, what I consider mild might not be the same as OP. I feel my lifestyle not being someone who wants to go out all the time would match up better with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 02:06 PM
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Again a single person is academic evidence, this seems to be quite a hard concept for you to grasp.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 04:24 AM
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Apologies, I presumed you knew what academic evidence is. To help you please see Supported by evidence such as data, facts, quotations, arguments, statistics, research, and theories.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:23 PM
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By someone if you mean cats then yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 06:58 PM
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You want me to link the post on this sub underneath this one. It's the one about all women who wear make up are insecure
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:23 PM
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Have you seen the post directly underneath this? With genders are just as guilty
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:12 PM
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More entitlement I love it, don't you dare tell me what make up you don't wear lol what a sa little man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 03:36 PM
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Again, I've not said if I wear makeup at all, yet you're out here being mad, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 03:17 PM
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Imagine being so insecure what other people do causes you great offence lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 02:36 PM
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At no point did I make a comment about how I present myself this is all your own bias
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 01:52 PM
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Please explain to me how it is insecure for me to state how people present themselves is up to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 01:28 PM
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Imagine thinking you get to decide how someone else looks because of how you feel the entitlement is strong here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 12:49 PM
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Women now talk openly about the struggles and pressure of connection, which any fertility issues are automatically blamed on the women. Issues around carrying a child (I lost 2 teeth, 5kg, yes 5 full kg putting me underweight, and now get to take medication for life) There's also the whole how's it coming out and recovery situation with let's be honest very little support. You can't remove the burden as it is a physical burden of just getting a baby to a day old. This is often what stops some wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 07:39 PM
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If you admitted people are individuals, you might have less of a chip on your shoulder.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 07:34 PM
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Apologies, I can't guesstimate the number of people who, in your specific scenario, would be non monogamous. You are asking for a percentage these come from studies it would be considered unethical to conduct such a study as it likely has limited merit or purpose. Is that a better answer for you. Basically, your question is trash, hence a trash answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 06:44 PM
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If you need to have sex with someone else for me, a monogamous person would not be a happy relationship and would rather leave as that's still time-consuming and complicated. I imagine this sentiment is shared.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 05:46 PM
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For me, I couldn't ring and sort certain bills or stuff to do with our houses as we were not married (same for my husband). It would have cost more to get this done via a lawyer, than elope. We also wanted children my Dad is an awful man, and being married impacts who the child goes to if the Mother dies.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 12:55 PM
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Don't recommend it lol but it happens, and we make pregnancy out to be all sunshine and rainbows it's not. Part of the reason the birth rate has gone down, I imagine, is women being more open about the long-term complications.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 02:17 PM
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I lost two teeth and have to take medication for the rest of my life. I had Hyperemesis Gravidarum and have damaged my oesophagus permanently due to intense vomiting. 1 in 10 women get it during their pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 12:52 PM
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I love th bitterness of the reply you will notice the question is about men and women for starters before you go off on one. You're so angry your ability to understand the question has left the building lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 09:37 AM
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When I said fashion at the time, I was more relating to the overall view of everyone and the influence media has on people's perceptions of themselves as opposed to what people like as individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 07:25 AM
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I wouldn't care at all it's just hair, it's not a big deal at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 07:00 AM
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No, as what they do with their hair is none of my business, lol. What other people do to feel comfortable in thier own skin I don't get to or need to have an opinion on.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 06:53 AM
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I think this all depends on what you are attracted to. Also the fashion at the time, we are seeing more of a pushback towards skinny figures, the Kate Moss look sort of thing. With baldness, I think it depends on the person as some people suit it and some people don't. I'm interested to see if the group of people on here that think make up is deception loose their minds about push-up bras, though lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 06:30 AM
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So tell me how tacticaling the root cause of all violence would be an issue then? That's what I said, but no, you didn't hear that bit as you had already got your soapbox out to rant, read the room.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 03:30 PM
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In terms of SA, the "help" has always been really low level with lots of what you are wearing? Where are you, BS? In part due to the nature of the crime with generally there are only two people present, and no one wants to think of someone they know, as someone who would commit a sex crime. SAs also aren't happening in board daylight as the person, as you said, is most likely known, and I would say related to you if we really want to be truthful. The random attacks are people, who wouldn't dare …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 09:39 AM
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So, no, you don't have any evidence you're just ranting and don't like it when evidence against your point is shown. Thus, you deflect with I don't understand you, which just shows your inability to have a good faith debate when challenged.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 08:12 AM
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It's the only evidence presented so far, so yeah, why have you got some different evidence. As you listed a rant with no evidence, I found some directly relating to you, posted the day after your post here that you had not seemed to consider.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 08:09 AM
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It tells me that using you as an example, often negative generalisations are made and supported as you received some up votes for that comment. This does not reflect your statement despite it being your experience showing that we are most influenced by our personal bias than the comments we make.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 07:35 AM
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Which to OP they must be as they willing make them in their own comments which is not what they have written within the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 09:27 PM
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This would work better if, within your own comments, you hadn't made large-scale generalisations about women like in your experience, "Women's behaviour" of the poor variety has been allowed. You posted about this yesterday on this sub. Maybe I have a bit of self reflection as you seem to be doing it, too.Or is it OK when it's not your gender, then?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 08:15 PM
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Something in your story does not add up, and we both know it, but you do you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 07:50 AM
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Notice how that's a different product. Are you guys OK? It's just makeup, and most of it is obvious, for example, if you think someone has a black line on their eyelid. You have bigger issues than worrying about makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 07:27 AM
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Please tell me how eye shadow gives you different eyes. Are you out here thinking some women have green eyelids or something lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 06:22 AM
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The equilivance is in the method, not the example. Apologies if you have struggled to comprehend that. My flair is a red flag to annoy people, glad to see it work. Anybody can figure out from what I'm posting. I'm not pink pilled. Otherwise, I would have said Chris Brown is ugly. Come on, now use your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 06:39 PM
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That's a single person using your logic because Men are sending Lucy Letby (a nurse in the UK who murdered a bunch of babies) fan mail and saying crap like she was too pretty and nice to do it. I can say all men love women that murder babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 02:18 PM
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Cross sectional studies are used to determine prevalence. They are relatively quick and easy but do not permit distinction between cause and effect. Case controlled studies compare groups retrospectively. They seek to identify possible predictors of outcome and are useful for studying rare diseases or outcomes. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/12533370/#:~:text=Cross%20sectional%20studies%20are%20used,studying%20rare%20diseases%20or%20outcomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 08:02 AM
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Show some evidence for this then?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 08:01 AM
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Men not being able to self regulate their emotions to the point of being violent. Yes, this must be a women's fault. Send me to the bears. I'm done with this shit lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 09:13 PM
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No, not at all they just may have additional challenges due to income.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 09:08 PM
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I think you still need a pretty decent amount on both sides as well. Life is pretty bloody expensive right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 08:49 PM
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As it's based on time, not income, I also don't see my relationship with my husband as transactional. I technically have more time than him (mainly as he's a paramedic, so he doesn't do set hours it's 5 on 4 off basically), so why would I not do more. Also, I'm a way better cook, not blowing my trumpet, it's fact lol. The cleaning I like doing we could afford a cleaner but I know I would clean before they come hence there being no point.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 08:48 PM
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Because it's time based, no, I will be paying more as I pay all of the childcare. See the issue here you are seeing labour as who ever earns more gets out of it, not whoever had the most time does it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 08:21 PM
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Buzz words come and go OP asked what it is I answered what is your issue here?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 07:58 PM
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That's part of fairly split, for example I'm the breadwinner on my house but work less hours (I'm currnelty on mat leave but I go back in 2 months) thus it's split pretty even in our house. He does, bin, cat litter tray, hovering and washing the dishes as well as split childcare. I do cooking, cleaning, and the other half of the childcare. Washing clothes is whoever is home when the baby is asleep and a load needs to be put on.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 07:53 PM
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Again, do all of this yourself if it's so easy. My washing machine is not a reasonably priced one it's a top of the range and predictable just out of warranty, but it sounds on its last legs. I think this is due to the grey part coming loose, which should be a cheap £20 fix. If I replace dit like for like, it would cost around £800 or a £780 difference. See why I'm repairing it now?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 07:50 PM
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Does it, in England, children have regular checks, medical and dental , vaccinations, developmental bits, so teachers meetings. Haha, my washing machine is on its last legs, so daily currenlty I've just ordered some replacement parts that I think I can fit myself. Again, if it's all so easy, you should do it all and solve the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 06:35 PM
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If it's fairly spread, then yes, the issue arises when both people work and one person is still responsible for all these tasks. See how that works.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 06:32 PM
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Lol, you think kids only get sick twice a year. I'm English with a child under one and have more vaccinations than that to book in. If this is all so easy, you do it then, problem solved, you do it, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 06:29 PM
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You could have just Googled what it was. Organising a playdate, or booking the kids’ medical check-ups. Working out how to hide vegetables in their evening meals, or ensuring there’s enough on the shopping list. Worrying about whether your son is on track at school, your daughter needs new shoes and when to replace your washing machine. https://www.bbc.com/worklife/article/20210518-the-hidden-load-how-thinking-of-everything-holds-mums-back
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:53 PM
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Evidance, in this case, would be a link to the quote or similar pretty easy to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:02 PM
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No evidance it doesn't exsit what would that look like lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:19 PM
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Cool, see, that's what I said. You see that right there. Note IP has no links to his made-up quote even when I asked for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:55 PM
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Sorry, me saying how I feel upsets you so much. How else would you like me to say this isn't true or my experience so not to hurt your feelings?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:04 PM
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You show me the conversation where that response was.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 12:22 PM
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Because what you have written is a fanfic and not what actually happens
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 12:07 PM
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So show some more up to date, data then
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 12:06 PM
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It's a hypothetical question, people can answer how they see fit based on what they perceived the risk. Thus this question is more like what plus what equals 4 and you are upset some people have said one and three. If you are unable to understand that I feel sorry for anyone that has to interact with you on the daily.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 12:05 PM
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According to who you have said a study but not linked it, how suspicious.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 11:55 AM
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You try getting a date or relationship without a mobile phone
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 11:52 AM
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Some peoplethink incorrectly compared to me, what a laugh imagine the entitlement
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 11:51 AM
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Having money is important at any age is the point, you are going to struggle if you can afford a phone contract is that not the truth. You just want to be offended and go yeah but this.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 11:02 AM
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Of course studies are lying but you aren't, right lol some people think differently to you sorry this has offended you so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 11:01 AM
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So a man without any clothes, food or house would do just fine then, right? Dude, you are losing your already slim grip in reality. In order to live nevermind date everyone needs an amount of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 08:36 AM
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Are you aware that maybe you have confirmation bias and could be looking for single young men? Are you also aware that unless you asked them if they were seeing someone you wouldn't actually know? Are you aware your experience will be different from someone living somewhere else? This is why studies where people from a large section of the population being asked the same as unbiased as possible questions is important.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 08:34 AM
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Did they then ask why they get fanmail from women?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 07:25 PM
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Yet both the men you named have partners, so obviously, someone found them attractive ffs.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 05:23 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 03:06 PM
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Unfortunately, we don't seem to collect the data on single mother births we know about unmarried due to the way births are recorded. For example, in England, if you are married at the time of birth, only one parent sings the birth certificate. Any links to the full studies as the ones I clicked only parts come up so I'm unable to read them. Once again if people choose not to have children you do not get a say.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 10:34 PM
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https://worldpopulationreview.com/country-rankings/out-of-wedlock-births-by-country https://bigthink.com/strange-maps/births-out-of-wedlock-europe-us/ That's not the case for a lot of the world now, really. What if women don't want children? You don't get to override their choice for your own wants. Women are humans I know who would have thought it, not baby making devices. This is not The Handmaid's Tale. Any evidence for more sexual partners means more affairs then?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 09:45 PM
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Dating and the birth rate are not causation as people have babies not in relationships via IVF for example. Ahh I see you want women back with less rights and chosen out for you. No sorry love taking someone's human rights is not ok. Can you show me evidance for the increased risk of affairs you talk about go back and read the last few lines of first comment back to me real slow.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 09:16 PM
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But if the majority of people are dating, it's fine. You don't think the lowest divorce rates might have been caused by no one really being allowed to get divorced, then interesting take. My parents' marriage didn't work as it was a poor match, which is pretty common as guess what when parents arrange marriages often it's about strengthening family connections not love. Also, especially with women, can you show me evidence in marriage that women are more likely to have affairs, please?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:54 PM
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Then why are so many people in a relationship? The maths isn't working on this one. Also, my parents had an arranged marriage it was a shit show.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:27 PM
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Educating those who deal with rapes, there are alot of reports of victims not even having a recorded interview in the which is piss poor. Doing basic level investigation and recording would be a good start.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:26 PM
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That would be great if more then 5% of reprots where convicted but that's not the case currently.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:06 PM
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That's a fair point we will never stop any crime, but currently we do so little in forms of prevention other then putting the onus on the victim. Which causes part of the issues we see in reporting where the victim is blamed it happened to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:46 PM
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Why is let's stop rape such a hard thing for some of you to admit would be a good idea? Why do we focus on victim blaming and not saying maybe it's the rapist fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:45 PM
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That's valid however for some of these men there may be other issues at play such mental health problems and any additional support provided for that is good. We don't know what these men look like or who they are so realistically the message goes put to all men. If it doesn't relate to you great don't listen but don't have a fucking tantrum and go but it's not all men, cool then the message isn't for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:44 PM
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Good job. I used the stastic for all sexual assult then. Shame those things aren't reproted men should stop being such wimps and record it and stop hiding behind a woe is mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 11:52 AM
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Then why are most rapists men?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 11:32 AM
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Ahh, another deflection as men are rapists according to someone else here, they also can't be prevented. So men are just awful animals, and women should avoid them at all costs.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 11:05 AM
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When you're told, some men rape and that make should be said as all men are perfect. Go on a mad rant and go well, I don't get raped so it's OK. Men get raped my dear, sorry you you haven't figured that out. Again another emotional response, is it your time of the month?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 09:25 AM
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Your misogyny is showing sir lol Sorry being told you might have to hear men rape people got you so testicular
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 09:20 AM
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Where do I say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 09:10 AM
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I lied its 5% that get a conviction. As you will see it's on recorded rapes. For victims, reporting rape is effectively a lottery and the odds are rarely in your favour. In the year to December 2021, there were 67,125 rape offences recorded – an all-time high. Yet the number of completed rape prosecutions plummeted from 5,190 in 2016-17 to just 2,409 in 2020-21. The numbers of convictions almost halved (2,689 in 2016/17 compared to 1,409 in 2020/21). Only 5% of rapes that were given an outcome b…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 09:08 AM
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Oh your still talking, great anyway if men could stop raping peoplethat would be great.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:59 AM
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So prevention is a thing. Sorry I thought people knew that, obviously not common lanagauge. How about we convicted the other 94% of rapes reported and not resulting in a conviction?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:58 AM
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Men are doing the majority of raping, how about you stop this woe is me and man up like OP said lol It's some men so should we just not tell any men incase it makes them said finding out some men rape women we can't risk hurting their little feelings. God you are all so emotional.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:56 AM
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You, hold the rapists accountable instead of going on its women not reporting that's not what's making rapes happen, it's the rapists. Stop the rapists, tell men to stop raping people
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:49 AM
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Now you are just showing you know you are talking rubbish.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:48 AM
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Man, up and woe is me. Of course, it's not the rapists fault. Stopping raping people and this all stops, kill it at the source the fucking rapist who again are mainly men. Stop raping people ffs it's so simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:41 AM
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Oh so you investigate all rapes personally fuck me you must be busy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:36 AM
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The rapists, rapes are caused by rapists and the crime they commit ffs are we all being this dumb. The issue with raoe is its hard to proof often the rapist targets a person they know and gets them alone. This makes reporting a challenge as it splits friends and families. People reporting rapes know its unlikely to lead to any conviction so what's the point. We 100% should stop rapes that stops this whole argument do yes I do think men (the main percentage of rapists are men) should "fix themsel…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:28 AM
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Lol, if no one is reporting rapes no one is also investigating false claims your stance does not work. If someone is accused of rape a trial clears them without it arguably they are always treated as a yeah but so and so said they raped them. So shouldn't you want rapes reported?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:25 AM
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Do I start with sorry about your mum not hugging you or end with that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 04:44 PM
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I'm thinking of doing a post saying I've done a tea leaves reading, and it said all men ain't shit what category does that fall under is it docussion or debate /s.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 04:40 PM
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Can I start quoting Disney as examples now is that where we are at lol Scars a POS that's why I choose the bear.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 04:20 PM
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Welcome to. I watch too much porn so suggest weird shit like it's normal. As porn has themes that are more violent and away from what most people having sex looks like you get people saying shit like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 11:35 AM
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Make sure you seek out help and help aimed at men as male victim DV is treated differently. For example, I have a lifelong non molestation order (no contact, at all, including digital) and serious action is taking if its breached last year while I was pregnant (10 years after it was granted) to tell me he hopes my baby dies. He got a lovely 6 months community service order for that. I know that had I been a man and a woman, did this to me messages like that might not be taken as seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:54 AM
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It won't make you feel any better, but as a female who has been through domestic abuse, the response from men can be the same. I have gotten shit like, but I'm not him, so why won't you let me choke you out in sex. Ummm, sir, even if that wasn't the reason no is no. I've recieved, I wish you told me sooner, why Dave are you sat on the cure for PTSD?. And my personal fave, it's not all men. How is me telling you a man, a specific man came pretty close to unaliving me, saying all men are killers. …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 08:45 AM
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I'm my experience even on this sub I've spotted people who post with a female flair you go onto the previous comments of posts as what they have posted is dulu and you see its either a brand new profile (Purplepilldebate isn't a main stream sun so odd first posting choice) or they are posting elsewhere as a man (so they are either a man, a troll or both). Some female hate females, and that is how they feel that's allowed. Women abuse women, and women are bullies, and women cause other issues, ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 05:07 PM
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Or better yet, use a different flair to pretend you aren't red pill lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 03:02 PM
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Spoken like someone with no understanding of social science or is just unhappy, it disagrees with them. What dance piece is about women picking a bear in the woods over a man asking for a friend?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:26 PM
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What you have presented found no trends or averages that's the issue. In the two full studies I could access, it said that in the conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 01:34 PM
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No one has said you have to do anything. However, you have written all your issues are Women's faults have some accountability as attudies like yours might be a contributing factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 01:33 PM
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No, you are selecting studies that do not have a hypothesis directly linking to your indeeded debate. You have not presented the evidence asked for. I love how you are quoting the two studies about ovulation that actually found women are more likely to cheat on anyone during ovulation. Both studies combined had less than 100 participants. For scientists research a sample size of 10% or no more than a 1000 is in this case, a 1000 per study is considered needed. The studies mentioned together are …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 01:29 PM
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I find they struggle what with their heads taking up so much room up there. I'm full on waiting for a I don't need evidence like this isn't a debate sub. If there's no evidence post in CMV as it's a view, they can't be debated ffs.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 01:21 PM
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Maybe don't wring WOMEN are responsible as it means you think you are entitled to sex, you and neither am I entitled to decide what someone else does with their body.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 01:17 PM
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And I've replied that one isn't relevant in my view. The second is not the full article, and the other makes no real judgements. This is the issue you think you have evidence, but it's not robust, so there's nothing really to debate. I agree that everyone in a relationship needs to be attracted, but I feel there's a spectrum of what people are attracted too. For example the Internet seems to love Timothee Chalmet I think he looks like the child catcher. That doesn't mean he's unattractive I'm ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 01:16 PM
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Your first is about if women find men more attractive in relationships and found Relationship status did not affect the perceived attractiveness for males. However, as in Experiment 1, female ratings varied across relationship status. How does this relate to being a loser just so I can understand why you feel it evidance when the study did not draw any hard conclusions. The second, please, can you link the full piece as this is only the abstract. Your third also makes no hardline conclusions sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 01:09 PM
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Then they should have no problem in showing what informed their view. If you think it's not adult to ask for how people informed their views, you are going to struggle to effectively debate anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 12:53 PM
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Academic writing must be supported by evidence such as data, facts, quotations, arguments, statistics, research, and theories. What you have posted is an opinion piece
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 12:49 PM
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I would be impressed if OP even finds that study lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 12:17 PM
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I found nothing, what did you find?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 11:47 AM
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My family is from Naples. Sorry, some/most Italians are racist. I'm sure I don't have to tell you to avoid smaller towns. The larger and more North the place, the more open-minded generally has been my experience. I'm Ginger and a woman nowhere near the same, but I get less sexually aggressive comments in those places.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 11:05 AM
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According to whom, you have presented no evidence or showed where your ideas have come from. This currenlty is just presented as you having a rant and pulling ideas out your rear end.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 10:58 AM
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The pressure out in Italy to marry the "right person" is insane my family that side is more progressive than my Irish family, so I've lucked out. My mum died when I was 20, so my Italian family took more of a lead for context. I'm married. I got married weeks before my 32nd birthday. The only reguest from either side was a religious wedding, which was fine. I don't practice, but equally it being religious meant nothing, so it's OK. His family are non religious, so she needed a little heads up th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 10:56 AM
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Mash potatoes with so much cheese.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 10:02 AM
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My Mum and Dad were a Catholic arranged marriage. My mum aged 34 her first husband had died and was seen as strong and would get my Dad to behave. My Dad aged 19 was shagging anything that stayed still for long enough. As you can guess, it did not work out. My Dad still shagged everything, and my Mum felt she just had another child (not helped by my dad being 5 years younger than her first daughter). I came along a year later and they started living separately pretty soon after. The marriage was…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 09:20 AM
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Why do you think you get a say in how and when women have sex? If we don't want to have sex,so what you are not entitled to it and don't get to go stop messing this up for us. Women also do not need to match with anything we have freewill ffs.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 08:35 AM
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It's always been bears 🐻 you where always the second option.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 08:33 AM
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I do say that is part of the issue but it's made worse by an app with no single idea developed by itself for its target market.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 07:58 AM
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That's your opinion, but we don't know, as Bumble did not do its market research. Instead, the vice president of Tinder ripped of Tinder. Like that's a shitty thing to do, and it will fail as at no point has the app been developed for its main user.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 07:38 AM
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As stated further on in the chain, Bumble has taken Tinder and made women message first without changing anything. Any idea they have used have come from other dating apps and are not specifically designed for women. I suspect the issue is that the recent shitty ad campaign points to this Bumble does not understand its main user and has not developed clear KPIs. A study was not done by Bumble to see how women interact with apps to understand. For example, most women I know don't really swipe the…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 07:31 AM
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They did apologize, but it screams we have no idea how to market and would rather make the issue the people we market to than self reflect. They have had a bunch of failed ideas, so they probably are really struggling, but there constant rip off, of other sites when they have a different target user isn't working. They need to go back and research how women are I teaching with sites, look at their algorithms, look at their marketing, and come up with something made for their target audience, not…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 11:52 PM
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Mummy was working, so she didn't baby me like a precious grown adult I am. Some people are just straight-up dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 11:02 PM
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Everything is designed for a user. Sorry, this appears to be news to you. Dating apps main messagers traditionally are men, so guess who they tailor to. That's how apps are developed they don't fall out of the sky. Bumble has done a load of weird stuff, a BFF funder, linked with Spotify and a carrier finder, to name a few. They are throwing shit and seeing if it sticks with very little market research. It's a poorly run company, which is a shame. There are men on the senior board. Nearly half of…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 11:01 PM
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In my view, as I said to OP, who then went off on one. Bumble took the male app and just changed the person messaging that has not been effective. We see Bumble has no idea how to market to women. Their current approach is telling women not to be celibate which is weird as fuck. Bumble needs to study how women engage with apps, for example would letting men message, but only men you have searched and viewed gain more engagement as its clear women messaging first isn't working. Also, have they lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 10:45 PM
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That's what everyone is saying, though women are not sending messages is what I've put and, I doubt that would buy premium for the site (I don't know for sure so it would need to be stuided). It's a buisness issue as it's backfired so bad they are no longer sustainable, so its not women send fewer messages it's women aren't engaging with this platform in a way it can be profitable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 10:22 PM
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Sounds like you don't want to be told you are being ridiculous. This is not the thing to be pissed at Bumble with.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 10:18 PM
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Then what is the issues it's a dating site either us it or dint it's not a big deal ffs.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 10:12 PM
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I have no idea why that would oncolvw sridying the behaviour of those using the site. You are entitled to expect a business to not change its methods if it is not working. That's a businesses perogative. Your choice comes in deciding to use them or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 09:32 PM
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Because their method wasn't working, hence the switch. So most women were messaging next to no men. If you don't like it, set up your own app or don't use them. Companies are allowed to change their methods, providing you are informed they have done this, now its your move. You sound very entitled expecting a business to fail rather than change its methods to stay afloat.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 08:57 PM
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I think it's just a company being a company that is not getting many messages sent when women took the lead so switched. The ad campaign saying basically don't be single women it's a sad life is what makes bumble comes across as a POS.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 08:36 PM
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It makes me laugh he said all this and his god damn Mother is a scientist lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 06:11 PM
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Evidance for the cheating and unhappiness? I found the following: https://scholar.google.com/scholar_lookup?title=The+case+for+marriage:+Why+married+people+are+happier,+healthier,+and+better+off+financially&author=LJ+Waite&author=M+Gallagher&publication_year=2000&#d=gs_qabs&t=1715969344658&u=%23p%3DT62dLfANRwIJ
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 06:10 PM
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You can't ban other people from engaging, what a stupid thing to say. Just because it's not for you doesn't mean you can ban it. Also, any evidence for your BS percentages you pullucke don't of your ass, which appear to be where you keep your head
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 02:29 PM
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This is the answer, you can just stop watching and engaging with them if it bothers you. Or if you do want to engage set your own boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 01:09 PM
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I match whatever has been presented. If the guy is nice to me and polite, I will be polite back and be mindful of the rejection. I tend to just say well if I wasn't married, I would. Shifting the refection to my situation rather than anything about them. It just feels nicer that way. If they are rude or persistent in a harrasing way they get told in no uncertain terms they would have to dig up my decaying body to even stand a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 01:07 PM
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Again, as you can see, at some point alcohol means you can't consent as stated in all these laws. Like sir, who are you arguing with at no point have I said being drunk means you automatically can't consent at this point you are arguing with yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 05:53 PM
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S should we stop calling women gold diggers, and using terms like divorce rape. Or do these things only matter when men are the target.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 05:04 PM
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Damn women, they won't even data within their nationality.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 04:43 PM
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Not like a passport bro for pandas or anything then lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 03:42 PM
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Are you really trying to gatekeep what people can have a fear of? Come on now. People are allowed to have fears even if you don't like them. People do not need to go to therapy as they don't like what they are scared of. And no, that's not evidence. That's a sentence you made up. Google what evidence is will you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 03:34 PM
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I can't decide if I'm picking a water bear or Teddy bear might depend in which outfit I get lost in the woods in lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 03:32 PM
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Jesus, we have a pro here. Thanks for the first well thought out reply in this chain, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 03:28 PM
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Great distraction, so no, we can't tell them apart that's the point. Also, bear attacks are stastical rarer (obviously because of exposure). However, this reflects who women are told to fear more. Please show me evidence women saying men are bad increases male led violence?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 03:25 PM
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Pure hatered to the point that of absolute stupidity I love this. Yeah bear over this man please just to talk to I think the conversation would be nicer lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 03:22 PM
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Take that up with the data available, it doesn't care what you think. Also, stating what data shows is reading not bias I did not conduct the studies or apply any bias. Perhaps Google what bias means.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 03:10 PM
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So how do I on sight tell them apart again? And if I don't feel safe with men, I don't know why should I pretend I do to make men feel better? Maybe we should address the issues that cause bad men instead of blaming women for saying we don't fucking feel safe. The victim complex here is strong ffs. Men are so emotional.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 03:02 PM
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No, it's been shown that due to women coming into contact with men more, the stastics support bears are safer. If you went on data alone, you are safer with a bear than a man. Data is black and white and only shows what it shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 03:01 PM
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Show me evidence that bears are more dangerous, this has been gone over, and it doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 02:59 PM
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Lol, this whole sub is I hate whatever gender because. On this sub someone told me divorce rape is the same as you know rape, ffs. He was not cancelled lol. Please tell me where in the laws it states men have less freedom of speech? Why do you think women should not speak their minds to make you feel more comfortable?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 02:56 PM
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Who is doing all this raping and murdering is it lizzard dressed as men? https://interactive.unwomen.org/multimedia/infographic/violenceagainstwomen/en/index.html#home Please tell me how to test an unknown man as good or bad on sight as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 02:52 PM
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Wonderful attempts at distraction. Can you show me a source that a woman would choose a man 99.99% of the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 02:51 PM
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Evidance?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 02:42 PM
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Show me where is said what type of bear again, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 02:40 PM
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🧸
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 02:39 PM
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Yeah, if you don't even believe my answer to a hypothetical question, no, I don't want to meet you in the woods.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 02:38 PM
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When your privilege is removed, it feels like oppression. Not being chosen is like a chip on their shoulders.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 02:37 PM
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Sure, Jan.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 02:36 PM
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Did you know female bears raise their cubs nearer the roadside as it turns out male bears are scared of us? Go figure. Someone is 100% about to get big mad about this and reply with I wouldn't want to be in the woods with a woman either.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 02:33 PM
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Yet here you are openly angry about it,one does protest too much lol Also where does it say it's a grizzly bear, I picked a Teddy bear, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 02:31 PM
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It's just a bunch of people not understanding each others stances and what it boils down to is. It does not matter at all what someone else choose and telling them no you meant this is fucking stupid. Also, I'm picking a water bear over a man every day, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 02:30 PM
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You're allowed to think whatever you think (shame some people won't allow women this privilege). However, this shit is beyond overworked now.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 02:25 PM
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I'm just stating the obvious there's a whole lot of yeah, but posts being made.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 02:22 PM
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It offended you that much did, it how telling.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 02:18 PM
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My hypothesis is that men are so offended due to a lack of understanding of the cultural differences of men and women that they can't even accept an answer without 600 BS, yeah, but posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 02:15 PM
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It's not my place to make a judgement. I'm not on the jury. Why do you think you get the right to be judge and executioner? You just need to respond with go to the Police and seek therapy you don't need to do anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 07:43 AM
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See, the thing with being drunk is its sliding scale, which has a few wines, and being unable to string a sentence together is very different. At no point have I said, being a bit drunk, but there are levels of being intoxicated when you can not consent. Also I along with most of the UK population would not wipe my ass with the rag that is The Daily Fail (what it is called here as its known for being shit).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 07:11 AM
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I'm English, you are charged with a crime, and then you go to court for a trial. We have the Crown Prosecution Service who would ultimately decide if the person was intoxicated enough that they could not consent prior to even going to a trial. In your link, it also states memory loss as a sign this happens way before anyone is anywhere near unconscious. And as said in your link its nuanced so will depend on the evidence presented.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 05:47 AM
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I think having sex with someone who is intoxicated is a crime. If they are so intoxicated, they can't conscent. I didn't say anything about the profession I just said this whole post is OP display some behaviours that if displayed in the wrong situatio n is most likely to end up with him in court on rape or sexual assult charges.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 11:20 PM
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Zero, my Dad was a police officer for Met Police (London). Google them, it's not a good look, lol. On his team, he was a member of said SWAY team accused of all sorts of abuses where nothing but creeps. And I mean my Dad was told in front of me that "Fuck me, you make a good pair of tits". Delightful pricks. My husband is a paramedic, but I didn't go after him because of that, lol. In the UK, there used to be a sight called Unfirm dating, which just the thought was super creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 07:02 PM
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Sure, if it makes you feel better
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:56 PM
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Yes, anyone who questions you and has tits is a feminist, obviously. We can't have you doing any self reflection or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 05:46 PM
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Eats with their mouth open or makes too much noise when eating, I can't do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 02:30 PM
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I dumped a guy as he said Kachina instead of China English was his first language. It was painful.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 02:29 PM
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Thanks, for understanding, babe.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 11:21 AM
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It's not very smart to say I don't think rape counts if OP wasn't outing themselves as likely to become a sex offender, I would take them seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 11:19 AM
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OP women keep telling me I don't understand consent, and I'm being a creep. Is this an issue with me? No, it must be the women's fault. Ffs have a word with yourself before you end up on thin ice, as you will soon learn about consent in the prison showers if you aren't careful.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 08:41 AM
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OP has basically written a post in the theme of OJs if I did it book. If I thought he had contact with real women I would be worried lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 08:39 AM
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Please explain to me why this study would not be valid due to its location? Partner abuse is the same whether you are as clearly laid out in the research. I see no issue with th methodology relating to the variable of location that would make an impact. Also, I hope you don't take medication as lots of research is not done in developed countries due to cost. The fact that you do not understand this or even what a journal website is shows you are well lacking in knowledge of research studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 07:40 PM
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Oh, so we are changing the goal posts some more as there is evidence you just don't like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 07:26 PM
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ScienceDirect is the world's leading source for scientific, technical, and medical research. It literally says this if you Google it, it might come as a suprise to you, but many research journal publishers are online.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 07:25 PM
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You asked for evidence that you did not ask for an age limit. adolescents are anyone younger than 19. https://bmcpublichealth.biomedcentral.com/articles/10.1186/s12889-018-5118-1 Perhaps if you wanted a certain type of evidance you could have communicated that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 07:14 PM
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Wider age gaps were also associated with more frequent emotional and physical victimization and higher odds of unwanted sexual behavior. https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0145213414001021#:~:text=Wider%20age%20gaps%20were%20also,odds%20of%20unwanted%20sexual%20behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 07:06 PM
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I was in an abusive relationship when I was young, and what we forget is abuser pick their pray. They know what to hide and actively dress themselves up as the right person to being the manipulation. The red flags now looking back is if it's too perfect, i.e., he likes everything you like and dislikes everything you like to start to ask questions. Also, if your family, friends, or bloody dog don't like them, there's a good reason even if you don't see it yet, most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:38 PM
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Age gap relationships are a risk factor not abuse themselves but can make abuse more likely along with a hundred other variables. Providing everyone involved is able to consent, it's legal, and no one is having a hold over the other, be it financially or emotionally, then go for it. I only view someone as being abused when abuse is happening. This has nothing to do with age dating with an age gap (when legal) is not abuse in itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:27 PM
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Get some friends
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 02:19 PM
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So no, there's not a lot of cases to evidance this,and you haven't even looked to see if there is, cool. Context is important. Without it, you are just talking rubbish, and you know it. Oh is a legal framework not the same thing, life's unfair get over it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 09:05 AM
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Please show me all the cases where prenups are thrown out? Also, explain the term "divorce rape" as rape legally involves a penis and vagina (which is why it shouldn't even be used legally as its not gender neutral but that's for another day). Also, if life is unfair and women should get over it, then why get a prenup life is unfair if you are dealt an unfair hand get over it. Or is it just women that have to get over it, and when it's you, it's a problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 08:39 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 08:28 AM
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I read these as I've never left my computer screen, what's it like out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 08:28 AM
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So there's this thing called an algorithm the more you watch, the more you see. Also, once again, social media is media. it's in the name. It is produced off trends to get engagement. It's not a true reflection of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 06:30 AM
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No, what's the point in marrying a really good roommate
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 06:29 AM
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Unfortunately, fear is not logical, I have blessed intelligence on you. I pray you use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 09:50 PM
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Cool great for you, I'm thrilled and that helps me how.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 09:46 PM
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What even are you on about
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 09:46 PM
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So they aren't a child they are a teenager and it's only pedophilia in some states and countries, right so much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 04:01 PM
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Of course people just don't get to tell people what they are thinking or feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 05:19 PM
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You're an adult you get to choose who you date. Approach it like all other dating, do you have common interests, lifestyles and goals I the longterm.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 08:44 AM
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The real answer lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 07:32 AM
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A person's chance of being attacked by a bear is 1 in 2.1 million chances. The chances of a woman being raped, physically abused, or stalked by a by a man is 1 in 3. The 750,000 black bears of North America kill less than one person per year on the average https://interactive.unwomen.org/multimedia/infographic/violenceagainstwomen/en/index.html#home
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 07:27 AM
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Love happens when you aren't looking or it, what does that mean boomer workmates?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 07:27 AM
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I feel some sort of safety bear personality could be created. lol take a first aid kit and just stand next to women saying you're safe with me all night.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 07:25 AM
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Then don't go, if you aren't sure you want to go. But as others have said, women still feel the same in large, although the widescale, you don't think that because sentiment is entitlement at its core. By all means be upset or disagree but so that tell people you know what they think that's just being a cunt is my advice for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 07:18 AM
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Then don't, OP appears to still want to interact though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 07:15 AM
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Don't use this as a BS excuse for rascism what a twat.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 01:42 AM
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Here we go more insults as you don't like what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 01:40 AM
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One results in death that the point, some women would rather just die then be raped. Sorry you are finding that hard to deal with. Why is it difficult for you to understand the trauma caused by rape?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 01:25 AM
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Rape is a penis in a vagina without consent it's a legal term. You don't get to decide what trauma is enough for someone to want to die. Other people's experiences are not less valid as you don't agree with them. Your views on rape also don't count as your do not have a vagina to experience rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 01:20 AM
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I think it depends on the person too and what they found traumatic as we shouldn't be saying oh that's not a bad rape that's dumbass shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 01:10 AM
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Damn pronouns always changing be a helicopter next
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 12:58 AM
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She doesn't appear to care and doesn't want a relationship so she doesn't care what anyone thinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 12:57 AM
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She doesn't appear to care at all and is banging multiple guys j know funding you are not center of the universe can be hard to deal with but some women really don't care what men think and she sounds as like one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 12:45 AM
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Then she doesn't care what you think as it's not an investment relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 12:38 AM
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But she doesn't want a long-term relationship either. She's not asking for a commitment, and she is making that clear. If she doesn't want marriage, it still does not matter to her. If you want it or not, she has made her decision, and it's up to her if she wants to change it. If you want marriage, be with someone who wants that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 12:25 AM
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Men can say they are more scared of women, and they would also be statically correct again, obviously, as we don't come into contact with bears as often as humans. And as stated previously, bears don't really do the paperwork to claim their kills, which is a shame for this debate. I notice we have gone from science to 8nsults "no sane man" wonderful I see when things don't go your way you try to insult people and suggest they are not sane on a post about stastics. Was this reply just so you coul…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 12:17 AM
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This person doesn't want a boyfriend or a husband so how would that matter, can you read OK.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 11:57 PM
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Why would a woman want to be taken seriously by a man that can't manage to sepeeate body count from ability, humor, knowledge or kindness?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 11:56 PM
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Why would a woman need to be taken "seriously" by men?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 11:03 PM
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Descriptive StatisticsIn the descriptive Statistics, the Data is described in a summarized way. The summarization is done from the sample of the population using different parameters like Mean or standard deviation. Descriptive Statistics are a way of using charts, graphs, and summary measures to organize, represent, and explain a set of Data. You can use descriptive stastics like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 10:09 PM
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Its thr issue though every woman knows someone who has been raped I don't know a single person attacked by a bear as silly as that comparison is that's the point that of the question. Women fear men more than bears because of culture and experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 09:52 PM
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If you read carefully, you will see I put this, but you are so busy being cross you didn't even read it, try again. This is just showing some mens response is so anti they don't even read the context they just stay mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 09:46 PM
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My experience is men rape and attack as well as culturally being told to avoid men. Knowing it was only a 1 in 3 chance I would be raped does not make me feel better
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 09:41 PM
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Yet on this sub we have all women are gold diggers, only traditional women should marry, all women fleece you in divorce but none of that involves people being responsible or changing there views and its not bigotry right as that's when the show is on the other foot Also I've been raped and abused by a man never a women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 09:21 PM
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Just don't get married, you don't appear to understand why most people get married so it's not going to go well for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 09:08 PM
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My husband is the best Dad ever (yes I might be a bit bais). I posted about this on askwomen, but I was using an old phone to play music and searched something about the baby. It showed all the things he searched while the baby was asleep from activities to milestones. He wants ehats vest for our child and knows I'm a bit busy at the minute (baby still has some breastmilk) so doesn't ask me despite my MA in Child Development he goes out and tries to find the answer himself. He is also so kind an…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:59 PM
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Or you just don't like what women say, whatever doesn't matter as we think different things
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:40 PM
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I think some women are so affriad of men they are genuinely choosing a bear. This isn't a protest this is how much we have made one gender fear another and feel they won't believed or will be blamed for the others actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:31 PM
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You didn't post I make sexist comments but you shouldn't did you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:23 PM
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Women are seeing the question as rape vs murder men are not. I think that's the key issue. Men then don't understand that rape comes with internal injuries, including being made infertile, STDs, pregnancy, and the shame as someone will blame that woman regardless. Hence why some women choose death, death is numbness to what happens after rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:21 PM
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A woman as I haven't been made to fear women all my life, see how that works. The issue is not the fact that when women answer its the fear ingrained in them. This question shows the cultural issue, and men do not likinf the outcome but apparently also don't want to accept this is a result of our culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:17 PM
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Cool, anyway that's my opinion and it's different from yours. Let's talk about why you feel you can judge and belittle women options if they don't fit your narrative?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:15 PM
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Haha this shows the attuide of some men when faced with a women's view. I don't have to like it but I can for sure laugh at it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:13 PM
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Oh, so you're hypocritical, got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:12 PM
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I'm sorry you are offended. I don't want to be raped and that I intrept this question as rape vs. killed. I'm sorry if understanding rape is worse then death is upsetting for you. I'm sorry you are unable to accept other people's opinions and instead have to go on a rant about it. I'm sorry you can not accept a women's view without feeling the need to question her intentions. Remember, in what you are saying, you also accept not all women date the top 80%, are gold diggers or take 50% in the div…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:11 PM
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It's because culturally, we tell women to fear men and men's actions like rape are a result of their actions. No one says why where you are in the woods when you get attacked by a bear.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:08 PM
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27m ago you Where are you from I know a few Asian/ middle eastern men that chase American women. Maybe take your own advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:00 PM
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Yes. You can say that's not how you feel but you don't get to call someone else liar if you don't agree as that screams entitlement and shows your inabilty to accept others views. You don't have to like them but they are still there get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:56 PM
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Cool, that's you, and this is me. See how that works. Different people have different views. Why is that so triggering for you and why do you think you get to tell someone else what to think?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:50 PM
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Statically, you are more likely to be attacked by a man, obviously as you come into contact with more, and humans target humans like bears fight bears. Also if you go missing in the woods and do get eaten by a bear they tend to eat the clothes and don't do the paperwork to show they ate you. This is why, culturally, women are told to fear men often by other men (brothers, uncles, and fathers). This question was made to feed off that fear women are made to have of men even in childhood. If you ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:48 PM
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Cool, I still pick bear as you can't even accept my answer like fuck you would accept no to sex, your entitlement is telling on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:23 PM
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I bet he did, anything for views with these creators.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:15 PM
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Oh, so sheer entitlement, cool. Also how's therapy going lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:14 PM
0

It doesn't. Involving or being based on a suggested idea or theory : being or involving a hypothesis : conjectural. hypothetical arguments. a hypothetical situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:08 PM
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Has he already taken the coke, or are you supplying and are you also on coke? Asking the important questions here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:07 PM
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It's a hypothetical question choosing is the point ffs again are you thick as shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:03 PM
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Cool, so in a question aimed at women, a man's views are irrelevant as the question is not aimed at them. See how that works. I'm the target audience. Are you really this slow.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:01 PM
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I just don't think they want to know rape is worse than death to a lot of women. If they accept that, then they also expect all forms of sexual abuse for assult to harassment have a negative impact. That sits uncomfortablely for some men and lord does it show, I wonder why. Some men are telling on themselves with there answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:00 PM
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What bear are you going for? I thought a water bear would be mine lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:58 PM
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As the question is aimed at women as you are not a woman, it's the latter as you were unable to understand the question was not aimed at you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:56 PM
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So no I didn't say that as those are different words in a different sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:52 PM
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Thanks for agreeing you are wrong on how I feel and have no right to tell me how to feel. Get back in your box.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:51 PM
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Are you a woman, or are you stupid?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:50 PM
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Please highlight where I said that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:49 PM
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You don't need to get married it solves your issue, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:48 PM
0

Why do you think you can tell me how to feel?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:48 PM
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Why do you think you can tell me how I feel?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:47 PM
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It all boils down to don't you dare tell us you would rather be dead than raped as then it sits on us when we seuxal abuse, assult, harrass and rape you. Well live with it I would rather die then be raped and get fucked for telling me how I should feel is what they need to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:46 PM
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100% they don't believe a choice in a hypothetical situation they don't care if they or their friends rape us.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:44 PM
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How is saying I don't care what you do, bitter. You are a big boy and can make your own choices, I don't have to care about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:42 PM
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We do believe women when they are raped thry say while saying they don't believe when we make a choice in a hypothetical situation, not understanding the irony is almost poetic lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:38 PM
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BuT tHe BeArS DoN't CoMe InTo CoNtAcT aS mUcH. With the whole that's because they aren't targeting humans, humans target each other going straight over their heads.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:36 PM
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Then don't get married, we don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:25 PM
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Choosing the bear demonstrates that some people do not understand the physiological impact of rape and that some people would prefer to be ripped apart then be raped. Everyone disagreeing is falling to acknowledge this is the main sentiment as some people want to think rape is not as bad a crime as it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:24 PM
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Might not be what you are asking, but STD rates are increasing in the generation past the menopause as condoms aren't needed as a contraceptive. There is definitely a link between STDs and fertility when you are no longer fertile. This could also suggest that those who are fertile take more precautions due to the risk of pregnancy, which lowers the STD rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 09:17 AM
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Listen, some people moan as it's uncomfortable to say hey, the issue with this might be me. That's not just a man thing. For every woman's standards are too high, we have all the good men are gone. Same things different gender. Remember, this sub and the whole of reddit are more male vs. female users, so you may see more male based ideas purely due to who uses reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 08:45 PM
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As another poster has said, "Better you find out now, your views don't match, then 6 months down the line."
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:37 PM
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No, it's not the normal. The only thing all these women have in common is you. That denotes the issue is who you are attracted to you or who you go for.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:34 PM
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Find better people to date, sounds like you are dating oddballs.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:30 PM
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What like mensrights lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 11:17 AM
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Oh so now their mentality is they of a 16 year old. That's a teenager not a child. If you are willing having sex with someone unable to effectively consent is sexual abuse if that's due to age its described as an act of paedophilia. We don't ask pedophiles what they are attracted to. So once again men are willing pedophiles or sexual abusers in your eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 08:26 AM
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Of course, as mens space are so kind and loving towards women and totally don't see them as either a sex object or POS. Both sides can be shitty it's human nature how is that a fucking shocker to some people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 07:19 AM
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Just read this book, and it will help explain the barriers to women wanting and enjoying sex, according to science. https://www.goodreads.com/en/book/show/22609341
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 07:18 AM
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We are also basically a tree. It's the context it's used in. You know if you take something out of context and rehash it, you could say anything. Your post would work better if you used some direct links to issues you have seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 07:12 AM
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They are abstract ideas like numerals. We decided the amount one should be called one, and you can't prove that it has to be called one it just is. Abstract terms are challenging to prove and often change over time, like one word having several meanings. It doesn't mean one is wrong it's just subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 07:30 PM
1

Cool, all men dating women are pedophiles, adding that to my reason why I choose the bear list thanks babe.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 07:22 PM
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According to who that still your opinion, you aren't getting the hang of evidence very well. Children with curves, oh so anyone who gets in a relationship is a pedophile as the reason we have an issue with this is ability to consent not age. You heard it hear first all straight men and lesibans are pedophiles.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 06:22 PM
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How's the career in comedy going?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 01:44 PM
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In real life, everyone, men and women don't want to hurt peoples feelings or come across unkind is the main issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 07:58 PM
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This would depend on what he wants to know and if he is prepared to listen. Many times, women do give honest answers here, and men tell them thats not what they think. General dating: What areas could I work on to improve my success? Love: What is your love language, and what does that look like for you? Dating: What is the one turn-off or bad habit you wish you could change about me? Mum: What has been the moment you felt the most proud of me?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 03:02 PM
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Is that not the same gender stereotyping as you all went mad at the bear for?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 02:47 PM
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There's a reason no one is talking about it lol https://ifunny.co/picture/the-incel-armies-of-africa-nobody-s-talking-about-8Yb4gOSMB People are taking it real serious lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 02:04 PM
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Who needs empathy when you have anger and a lack of self-awareness lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 01:59 PM
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100% just have to endure the same 15 posts of lack awareness and complete slander of a gender as someone can't get laid by the type of person they want. Nit aimed at you as you appear to have more braincells than 90% on here, but the above was gender neutral as it's both sides before you all get your knickers in a twist.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 01:58 PM
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Nine of them due to dating most of them due to land and money as humans are territorial as it happens. War is the action of greed not just. Perhaps open a history book and have a little read.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 01:56 PM
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You can't expect them to have an ounce of self responsibility. The only way civil war is starting is if us normal people riot, which I highly doubt will be due to dating.maybe poor standard of living, useless governments and corruption but dating doesn't fall on most peoples reasons for war.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 01:52 PM
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If that's your logic, I feel bad for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 01:50 PM
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I was told yesterday there is going to be a civil war due to women being able to say no to men. Like sir, asking you to do any self reflection results in a tantrum you are not about to start a civil war.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 01:45 PM
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In todays headlines, women act like humans, and a man is surprised about this, more at 10pm.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 01:44 PM
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According to who this is an opinion based piece heavily influenced by your own bias. Please, MODs of PPD make people include evidence and just have a baseless rant mega feed
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 08:02 AM
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That's why I said no one should be named until a conviction is given (in England you are charged go to trial then convicted if found guilty).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 05:16 PM
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Lol, what fantasy land are you living in. Just day you don't want women to live anywhere and be done with it What a sad little life, you must live. I'd you just stay inside all the time as obviously if you don't want to get beaten up but I'm not going to your the one that should stay inside. Oh and can I have your Dad's number, I need to ask a favour.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 04:39 PM
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And the predator walks away, lol. You know how many men do this in clubs as it's pretty high. I have the prepared line of "Look mate, unless you are going to give me your Dad's number so I can peg him, don't worry your Mum can film. We have nothing to talk about. I don't like men who cry before sex. " I find it normally stuns them into silence, and they go something like "Oh I was just playing. You didn't have to be aggressive like that" and retreat. See, these types of men can't manage when the…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 03:46 PM
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Then what do you have against no one making a judgement until after court and every rape allegatio being investigated as said in my first comment. Your whole attuide screams well it wouldn't be my friends when it could be anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 03:38 PM
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Yes, it's worse for men. You are part of that reason with your logic. Congratulations.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 03:09 PM
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Or here me out, we could address the issues thar cause crime, like poor access to mental health support or people struggling to live on their paychecks. This sounds like an angry man with his head so far up his ass that he can't see where he is going. If you want to stop crime, you need to address what causes crime. Ffs are people that stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:47 PM
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You're still saying, "Let's believe women, then maybe she's blaming the wrong guy". Do you understand what the implications of saying that are? When false accusations are below 10% as are rape convictions you see the issue. More rapists a go free then people who make false accusations. You are also yet to make the connection men can and are raped this is a men's issue to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:13 PM
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You answered your own question. You asked if rape is believed, then went on to talk about false accusations, suggesting people shouldn't be believed. I think no rape cases should get any media attention until after a conviction, but sentences should be more robost. Women are asking for investigations to happen. Imagine having to protest for the Police to do their god damn job, and people are still like, well, 2-5% of allegations are false. OK, then investigate all of them so you can find the fal…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 08:16 AM
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Jesus christ, the only person to ask me that was my midwife at my first appointment lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 09:17 PM
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You can, but you can out rev. If you wanted. I always put Miss as I don't use my married name at work as well my husband didn't do my degrees lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 08:09 PM
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This is why having an Equailty Act is important in the UK. You can't even ask if someone is married until after you have employed them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 07:58 PM
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Everyone has similar struggles, just different things for different genders. Some men think all it takes is to be nice and then take offence when that's not the case, hence the phrase.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 03:13 PM
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Neither of those ages makes rape or violence feel unlikely. Also, I've seen men who look 20 aged 40 and vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 02:41 PM
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As the study is not on NTs, it's about ND. Studying NTs does not explain the increase in ND people. When looking at any increase in a population, when you have already identified its above average, looking at another population group doesn't answer why that increase happens. All that does is add extra people, then data, then time and money to a study. A well thought out study is highly targeted to meet its hypothesis.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 11:48 AM
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The hypothesis is not a comparison on ND and NT. It's a comparison on ND with other platforms vs. ND without. We have no interest in NT during this study at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 11:39 AM
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A misogynistic man is just going to build me a kitchen so he can tell me to stay in it, so he's the safest option, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 08:46 AM
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A pig and a water bear (Tardigrade) I like to travel light.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 08:44 AM
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Lol, have you seen house prices? You can Ocsar the Grouch lives in a bin and still has a 35-year mortgage for that place.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 10:36 PM
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So all the men stayed home and nothing happened, cool. You are forgetting if all the men went women would just fight women are you OK sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 09:17 PM
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Maybe just don't date women, you don't seem to like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 09:04 PM
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Online dating, not just apps but people meeting through Discord as an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 07:29 PM
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Show me it's the top 20% of men that could just be a choosing a man that is 5ft 6 over a man that is 5ft 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 07:17 PM
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According to who?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 06:58 PM
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It's not anger he says as he posts a multi paragraph rant lol *
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 06:55 PM
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Yet here we are with a bunch of men going, no women don't really think that, they think this, what I say they do lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 06:49 PM
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No, as I can't be upset about it if I'm accessing OF as that would make me a massive hypocritical ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 06:49 PM
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None of this says women are attracted to only the "top 20%" and see how that work you post to the topic of debate, not around the topic of debate. This says a woman will leave a man if a better mate becomes available, which is not rocket science.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 06:48 PM
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But it's because ...... cue a grown man having a tantrum lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 06:46 PM
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Do you understand you can't police other people's opinions and trying to say women are lying makes them pick th bear more. You aren't even able to understand and listen to what they say. Did you even follow the rest of the 600 billion posts about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 06:44 PM
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Are men lying to themselves as their ego can't manage a hypothetical situation with a good damn bear?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 06:41 PM
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This seems to come as a suprise, but teachers have sex they aren't nuns. What they do outside of school if it's legal is no ones business. I don't think any board can limit a second job while teachers need a second job to survive. How about we pay teachers so they don't leave as Walmart gives them more money.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 06:37 PM
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Also, we are all gold diggers that only go after the top 20s of men. Even fat single Mums who obviously should just off themselves and stop wasting air. But men couldn't possibly pick better or be held accountabile for thier actions that's only expected of women on things like rape which definitely is a women's fault and telling us to travel in packs is only sensible. I get this sub is an echochamber but the amount of men in here I don't think have seen grass let alone touched it is too damn hig…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 06:30 PM
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Oh, look, an attempt to make women look less intelligent than men on Purplepilldebate. I've never seen a million and one posts here suggesting the same thing. Also, have you tried posting in the ihavesex subreddit, and this post stinks of unwashed penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 06:03 PM
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So men can't either, also what happened when men went to war did society in the places they left fall apart?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 03:54 PM
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Hello, I'm from education, and a study is currently being undertaken. Looking at the impact of non-traditional types of dating and the neurodivergent population increase. In England, we have had a massive increase in ASD in children (which is widely though to be inherited from the Father-, although we have no real idea, it's just a pattern people notice) People are trying to figure out why as the way and timings of diagnosis has not changed in this period. Interestingly, we also have hot spots, …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 02:53 PM
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That's a fair point it's not like a gay penguin island is a thing. We also don't understand why someone might be gay in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 02:37 PM
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Maybe your standards are too low. You appear to be going after the top 20% of women /s.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 02:27 PM
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It suggests that most people get into a relationship. Which doesn't support the narrative that women only date 20% of men, or this wouldn't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 02:26 PM
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You have typed lots, but none of it proves your point in any manner.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 02:25 PM
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Show me?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 02:23 PM
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Correct, but they still survive themselves, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 02:23 PM
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Because we have eyes and see normal men in relationships and marriage also none of the studies support the 80 to 20 narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 01:59 PM
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I think the title should be "needed" as we are no longer living in a situation where that's the case. You also seem to have forgotten about lesbians we see gay animals across many species, although in small numbers, this does demonstrate its not always needed to have a male.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 01:58 PM
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Most people date to find a longterm partner
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 12:23 PM
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No, you're correct. I don't believe I'm psychic or can read peoples auras.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 12:19 PM
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The most common abuser is a parent (Mother then Father) then it's a partner, and then it's a family member.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 11:31 AM
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Dumb bitch should is great lol no it's disclosure and barring service check so an enhanced which we both had is anything on your police record ever so a stop and search to genocide.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 11:00 AM
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A DBS is a check on someone's police record in the UK. we both work in a profession where you have to have one anyway, so we just shared each others In the UK, there is also a database to check if someone has been found guilty of DV.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 10:49 AM
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Unfortunately, and in the words of the men who are asked the same but with gold diggers, I'm not gay which is a crying shame, really. I took a bunch of precautions like. I DBS' my husband before we meet with his permission. I met in a public place in the daytime. He didn't get to know where I lived until we built trust. Also, the sad fact is that being with anyone increases your risk of abuse. Men should also consider this when taking a partner. I think it's a bit daft if they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 10:26 AM
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So that's not how academic debates work, but good star for trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 10:04 AM
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Any of those sweet links to you know show you actually looked yourself, and this isn't emotion based. Currently, you are still presenting zero evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 10:03 AM
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I love his divorced person persona lol I'm just sick of the same conversation they never show their working so to speak but expect everyone else to so I find it funny sometimes I just post a GIGsayig evidance.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 09:47 AM
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So where is your evidence for this?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 09:45 AM
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He has provided no evidence to show what the impact of a study of this number would be.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 09:44 AM
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He hasn't presented any evidence for his stance. He has an opinion that he is allowed he however, he has not disproved the evidence. Welcome to academic debates. Your first time?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 09:23 AM
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Any evidence to disprove this study as so far you have only presented your opinion. I've also added some more for you, did you know 81% of violence is men on men I think you guys are stupid picking bears as last time I checked they don't target humans abd can't use a gun, but you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 09:21 AM
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This is why we don't use stastics as a man will say yeah, but no. Thank you for walking into said bear trap and proving it doesn't matter what we use or say some man will disagree. Why would a woman want to be in the woods with a man that won't even listen when she voices, not even an view but, a study. Do you kind sir have any evidence to disprove this? Added after original post with different studies we also have. Between 25 and 38% of women experience some sort of violence perpetrated by male…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 09:02 AM
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We have here is one of my comments from the post. This refers to self reported by men sexual violence at a rate of 1 to 9, so if you know 10 men statically according to this study, at least one will admit to this. https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/society/2021/oct/29/research-reveals-rapes-and-assaults-admitted-to-by-male-uk-students
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 08:48 AM
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Explain to me how it is sexist to say a bear over men in a hypothetical situation. How does a woman picking a bear impact your rights, and daily live. None of you understand what discrimination or sexism is, is the issue. As stated previously, statically, the bear is safer this is obviously because we have contact with fewer bears but explains why women say men they are not told to fear bears. If you don't like it stop blaming women for mens violence and telling them to fear men you are part of …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 06:00 AM
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Yeah damn women having opinions on a hypothetical situation. I find it incredibly condescending when someone is unable to accept someone else's opinion without having to write a three paragraph rant.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 09:32 PM
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And that to lots of women is a better outcome than the PTSD from a rape, soak it in.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:53 PM
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I just want you to know I don't care as this is a hypothetical situation, and every time a man says ywah but this, he's proving the point that women aren't believed. When they give their OWN opinion, what happens when we get raped. At least if a bear eats you alive, no one asks what you were wearing, who you were with, if you were drinking, did you smile at him, did you let him buy you a drink.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:26 PM
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I've got some lyrics, I invited this girl I don't know to the woods She said that it would be no good, A bear is statistically safer than you, I went batshit nuts and threw my poo, I'm just a man asking a woman to come to the woods with me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 04:14 PM
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If only my first comment said something suggesting it being BS and agreeing with OP throughout?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 03:57 PM
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Or a British Indie band. Imagine this is a vague nothern accent: Hi, where The Contenless Rhetoric and this is our new song She picked the Bear over me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 03:53 PM
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That's the whole point of the post, and here we have you getting upset about it, proving the point further. Congratulations. Also, explain to me how it's misondurstic to say a man rapes fellow humans more than a bear? Hint if this is the case, any study that denotes a gender is more likely to do a thing is prejudice according to your incredible logic. It's not a stereotype if it's factual. This whole post is sarcasm, and you are so busy being outraged by a thing that does not exist it's flying o…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 03:07 PM
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They might, but tendencies are like symptoms. You might have a runny nose it could be due to allergies, a cold, the flu, or you've been crying.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 02:30 PM
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Cool and I said the same bears don't interact with humans very often, so following my own research, a bear is three times less likely to rape a woman. A bear is also less likely to hold you hostage as a sex slave, a bear is less likely to film your rape and send it to all your family or but it on the Internet, bears don't beat up women because their football team lost. I'm getting good at this, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 02:29 PM
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Apologies if I wasn't clear, that's a question I'm asking on the original post that was seen where their any expectations. As no one has seen the rental agreement, no one will know as listed in my reply. After this, there are a bunch of reasons hosting could be deemed one gender only.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 02:21 PM
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No community, race, or gender is likely to have more covert narcissistic than the other. Having a certain mental health issue does not mean you have the same interests. No group is a hive mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 02:19 PM
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People just like to be offended at things, and it seems that certain men, particularly on this sub, have got their panties in a twist over it. At most all it's showing that we make women culturally fear bears more than men as they here and see more stories of male violence because there is more violence than to bears. We don't need to say to women don't go to that par tof town at night as we don't have a bear prone area. It's not that deep. Not one of my friends have said a bear raped me. Three …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 02:15 PM
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I'm English and in England if it was a house for those who have experienced domestic abuse, one or more has a special need, religious reasons, a mother and baby unit or due to safety (I.e female sex offenders). Then yes, it can be legally deemed female only housing. The other reason could be how it's rented if the rental argument as this is a sub let says no subletting or has a clause all others have to agree and they don't then it's a no go either. The thing with laws is that the application is…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:39 PM
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There is a reason this home would have deemed female only. Can you share what that reasoning was?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:30 PM
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