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spanishtraveler82/r/seduction10/10/19 10:01 PM
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Amazing amount of HORRIBLE answers in the comment... The reality that it took me a long time to figure out is that, what was holding me back was my over-sized EGO. That is right. The problem is that you are thinking too much about yourself. "What will she think about me?" "What will she say if I say I like her?" "How will she react if I tell her about my job?" People tend to think that seducing is about making a woman like you. But the reality is that it is more about making her like herself. Th…
/r/seduction17/11/21 01:22 AM
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I think you setting yourself up for failure. The goal when going out should not be "get x numbers" or "compliment x women". It should be about you feeling good about yourself. Setting this random numbers will only induce you to stress and stop you from actually having a good time. And if you don't meet them, with disappointment.
/r/seduction19/10/19 04:10 PM
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When did you exchange numbers?
/r/seduction14/10/19 11:16 AM
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Being sexual is not a crime. Been however the fuck you want is not a crime. It might be better or worse, but it is definitely not a crime. And if you are not hurting anyone, and respecting the desires and wishes of others, you are not even a bad guy. Ignore the ones that feel offended by that, I keep moving forward. The world is vast. I guarantee you that there are people like you out there, both male and female.
/r/seduction14/10/19 10:25 AM
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If you think you are not a sex predator, and a woman decides you are, why would you care about that woman? Are you a cheater? What if a woman would think you are a cheater? Would you care about her? Or would you just think that her bad experiences have clouded her judgement and now she makes unfair assumptions about people? It is the same principle, after all.
/r/seduction14/10/19 09:58 AM
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Why do you value the opinions of others about you, more than your own? In these case are not just the opinions of other. It is even worse. You value what YOU SUSPECT that the opinion or others is. You are not even sure.
/r/seduction14/10/19 09:47 AM
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Can you rationalize your fears?
/r/seduction14/10/19 09:36 AM
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Hahahaha, thanks man, I appreciate it. You are a good man too :)
/r/seduction11/10/19 08:16 PM
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You are welcome. Good luck!
/r/seduction11/10/19 10:07 AM
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As I suspected, you are already late to the party. You are having friendly chats, and she mentioned a boyfriend. You have to take it a step further RIGHT NOW. I wont lie to you, you have more chances to get rejected than to get accepted, by the way it sounds, but it doesn't matter. You need to either move forward or to let go. If not, this will drag you for a long time, hindering you and probably hurting your self-steem. First of all, an advice: Stop thinking about idiotic concepts like "validat…
/r/seduction11/10/19 10:00 AM
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Are you flirting when you talk? Or does it feel more like a friendly chat?
/r/seduction11/10/19 09:35 AM
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This is not my profession. And I am not selling. Just sharing.
/r/seduction11/10/19 09:21 AM
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Now you know what happened, it is a good thing. Now what you have to do is pretty clear. Ask her out. Think of something to do the two of you together, and tell her if she would like to come along with you. She might either accept, which means that it begins your charming quest, or she will turn you down. Either way, it is better than being stuck. General advice for asking a girl out: Do not make it about the two of you. Make it about the event itself. Bad "Ey, how about we go out you and me thi…
/r/seduction05/10/19 11:27 AM
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I wish you best of luck. If you post a follow-up, I will be happy to give you my thoughts.
/r/seduction03/10/19 08:37 PM
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Yes, I am a programmer.
/r/seduction03/10/19 04:53 PM
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Best thing you can do: Don't set expectations. Do not think if you are gonna kiss her. If she is gonna invite you to her bedroom. Forget all that. Instead, make this night about "feeling good around women". Have fun. Enjoy the conversation. The goal for a date, in your situation, should be to come home after the date and be able to say "That was fun!" Give yourself time to recover your trust, and once that is done, you can try to take it up a notch. You dont need to do it in one night (nor 2 nor…
/r/seduction03/10/19 03:49 PM
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Good luck, buddy. If she doesn't, don't forget to have fun at the party. There will be more girls over there ;)
/r/seduction03/10/19 03:40 PM
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What happened is that you didn't own your feelings. Let's take the day where you admitted, standing close to her, that you like her. Let's see what each one thought: You: "Fuck, she heard it. Now if I talk to hear she is going to feel uncomfortable. I better step back" She: "Oh, he likes me...? Ok, let's see what happens now..." A few days happen: She: "He hasn't said anything to me for a while. Have I done anything to piss him off? Shit... I better step back a little, not to make it worse" It i…
/r/seduction03/10/19 03:39 PM
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You are setting you expectations way too high. You are expecting going out to her to be such a great thing where you have to perform amazingly. What you have to do, before asking anyone out is actually talking to her. Once you get an idea of her character and the vibe between you two, it will not be so hard. My advice would be, find an event where you two can talk, without making it explicitely about you two. For instance... "Ey, tomorrow my friends are me and going to hangout at XXXXXX. Why don…
/r/seduction03/10/19 03:22 PM
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The best way to know is to arrange a 2nd one. If she is in, I would say it is looking good.
/r/seduction03/10/19 03:10 PM
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Negging? What the heck are you talking about? Why would you want to have anything to do with someone that can be so mean. That kind of sentence doesn't even deserve an answer. Move on, and find you someone worthwhile.
/r/seduction03/10/19 03:05 PM
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My first medal! Thanks to whoever gave it to me!
/r/seduction03/10/19 09:23 AM
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What you have to learn is how to create conversation. This is a skill on its own that you should learn and apply to everyone, not just women. It will boost your charisma and social skills. There are 3 ways to create conversation: Closed questions Open questions Statements CLOSED QUESTIONS: This is the worst thing you can do, and you should keep it to a minimum. This are questions that can be answered with a "yes", "no", "maybe", "I dont know". The reason why this is bad is because you are not as…
/r/seduction02/10/19 12:31 PM
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I have a good advice, but it requires you to wait at least 5 years... not sure you will like it
/r/seduction02/10/19 12:04 PM
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You are pushing yourself too hard. To get to talk to people with a good attitude and disposition, you have to start from the point where you feel comfortable. Find someone you get along with, someone who is easy to talk to, go out with him to a social gathering, and just talk to each other. The point of being there is not to talk to people. It is to make you comfortable. You have to feel ok being there, talking to someone. Once that is achieved, you can try opening yourself to others, always do …
/r/seduction30/09/19 09:45 PM
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