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Lol at the auto correct.Glad it helped you. :) Oh,I know,I get tons of creepy messages from men on a non-dating website just cause I'm female.I've been learning how to be firm and rude in cases where it's needed. I grew up around creepy misogynist people so I know all too well,as well as seeing it online.
/r/seduction12/03/14 05:23 PM
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It sounds like she's trying to "earn" your affection.Her mom could have been that way. Her love language could also be acts of service so it may just be her way of showing it,as well. I think you need to figure out some way of letting her know,or she's likely to feel used and hurt.You are getting something out of this and she is likely to feel lead on so I think you should ask yourself about that. Depending on your friendship you might want to sit down and say something like "I appreciate your h…
/r/seduction12/03/14 07:38 AM
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The best sedditers I've noticed are the ones thay treat the HB (male or female) like a person. Not a target, not a goal to be reached. Thank you for saying this.This is the part of seduction on reddit that I find very creepy and off putting and makes me less likely to want to respond to a guy talking to me,cause what if he thinks this way? I have seen some great tips on seduction but the bad parts worry me quite a bit.
/r/seduction12/03/14 07:12 AM
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I get what you are saying. I just saw some things that really concerned me on here,and others who think different from you may take it as law.
/r/seduction11/03/14 05:10 PM
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Maybe you are browsing in a different part of seddit than I am?But as I said,some parts are great...some...not so great. Like minded people tend to attract like minded people though I do talk to women who are different than me so I can get different opinions. I'm glad it helped you and that you and your girlfriend are happy. :)
/r/seduction11/03/14 04:51 PM
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It's sort of expected... And sorry for not expanding on that,I will now.When I'm sleepy I don't always remember to explain my every point.I wouldn't do something like that either but sometimes people have their pet peeves,no matter how silly it is,and it can turn them off.It's understandable that it pisses you off.And it seems like you don't want a woman who is like that. I'm sorry...I know it can be difficult.It's just like with other things in life,sometimes it works out,sometimes it doesn't,s…
/r/seduction11/03/14 03:32 PM
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Hahah.I usually know exactly what I want.Not everyone voices what they want cause of so many other people trying to convince them that they want what the other person wants cause of their own selfishness.Sometimes women have been so brainwashed into being polite and making others happy they do not speak out about what they really want.It's a more complicated issue than that but there's a brief summery. I know guys who don't know what they want either,it's not gender specific and has more to do w…
/r/seduction11/03/14 03:22 PM
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Argh,sorry,my screen must have cut off the first part of your sentence cause I didn't see the part where you said you were starting to go down on her then continue to be touchy,so that puts it in a new context all together,so sorry about that. The other part of my comment was where you said a girl was crazy and high maintenance for not wanting to have sex with you,maybe there were other things about her that said this,but if it's just for not wanting to have sex with you I'm not sure what to thi…
/r/seduction11/03/14 03:05 PM
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Lol.I asked cause of his fixation on finding a girl to have sex with but he says he gets emotionally invested,so it's all sorts of confusing as what sex seems to actually mean to him,like on one hand he seems to want a quick fuck but then it seems like he wants a relationship where it means more,I don't know. If OP finds that creepy,my apologies to him.
/r/seduction11/03/14 02:53 PM
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mmm,bunch of men giving other men advice without actually listening to women,I find that quite odd.Why not talk to actual women instead of assuming what they want?I've seen a few things on here that are good but a lot of is rather creepy and would send most women I know screaming for the hills. No,I'm not a troll.haha.
/r/seduction11/03/14 02:42 PM
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Ok,dude,if a girl says no,then back off.Don't continue to be touchy,this will make you seem like a creep.Respecting her will get you much further,though you should respect that anyways without any prospect of more.Take this from a girl.And it's not crazy or high maintenance for her to not want to have sex with a random person,every girl is different,there are some that love to have sex with random people and some who will not,and neither one is bad.But each standard should be respected.
/r/seduction11/03/14 12:39 PM
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Girl here... I don't think they are losing attraction cause you want to see them.I think they just aren't attracted for other reasons,heck,it could be something silly like the way you chew or something,I don't know.Maybe it's something that has nothing to do with you. A few things on this sub sometimes worries me in advice,some of the advice on here would creep out a lot of girls. O_O Tell me,what does sex mean to you?You can PM me if you want to.
/r/seduction11/03/14 12:36 PM
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Maybe I should go into gender studies. :) I have a friend who thinks he is determined to be a jerk like his father cause of genetics and so he's been acting it out...frankly from what I've been seeing he acts a lot like his mother who he is around the most.
/r/seduction28/02/14 03:17 PM
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Meh,I don't quite agree.I've known loads of guys who think and act like "girls",and girls who act and think like "dudes" in a stereotypical way. But I agree with the last part.
/r/seduction28/02/14 09:34 AM
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Well,that's what she does with me.lol. The problem is,I still live with her and so if she buys things like that,it means bills may not get paid or I may not get to eat (I pay for as much as I can,but still).
/r/seduction28/02/14 09:24 AM
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Well,I'm a girl,but I've experienced similar with guys.Guys and girls are really not as different as they like to believe.There's just different personality types and the way they were raised,in my opinion.
/r/seduction28/02/14 02:22 AM
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Pretty much all of your comment.My mom is pretty similar.
/r/seduction28/02/14 12:44 AM
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Same here.
/r/seduction28/02/14 12:22 AM
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Lol,well,some girls actually like it when guys ask to kiss her,even.Depends on the girl of course.Or even just saying hey,I want to kiss you or I want to have sex with you makes things less awkward,in my opinion. Maybe she sensed that about you and just didn't feel safe.
/r/seduction23/02/14 07:47 PM
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Well,it's asking for permission to proceed.Yes,they do...it's especially important if you don't know the person well,to find out what is ok with them sexually or not.
/r/seduction23/02/14 07:04 PM
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I don't think she saw it coming either.LOL.Asking is sexy.
/r/seduction23/02/14 06:23 PM
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It was only one situation.And I know those one situations can be very painful.But you could have gotten rejected for anything,even hair color. It's not feel good drivel,it's what some people actually prefer.No,not all people,of course.But if someone honestly prefers one that is smaller,it's like you are accusing them of lying if they say hey,I like this and just want to let you know not everyone likes bigger.They are just letting you know their own personal truth,not trying to emasculate you.Eve…
/r/seduction22/02/14 02:50 AM
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I'm sorry. :/ How many situations? In my opinion most people get rejected 8 out of 10 times almost no matter who they are.
/r/seduction22/02/14 12:28 AM
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Only doomed in some situations,but not others.
/r/seduction21/02/14 10:52 PM
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Maybe she didn't feel comfortable with having her number handed out and wanted to call you from a different number and get a feel for what you are like before doing that.
/r/seduction14/02/14 02:48 AM
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