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ADVICEsparkledragon45/r/RedPillWomen09/07/18 04:07 AM
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He always makes sure to walk closer to the street when we're walking around. No matter how bad of a mood I am in, he will always make it his goal to make me laugh and smile! I never have much of an opinion on what to do or what to eat, but when I say I want something he will bend over backwards to make it happen! We'll be celebrating 10 years together this summer and 4 years married this month!
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/23 10:20 PM
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I'm glad I looked at "her" history, I now learned gays are bad for the soil. /s Seriously though, this seems definitely like a troll post. The "face reveal" and all the political surveys to show how "based" they are and posting on this subreddit seems like a catfish
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/22 08:45 AM
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I guess the bot doesn't realize the twisted origins of gender identity 🤷‍♀️
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/22 07:57 PM
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Can vouch, I worked at a phlebotomy lab for the last couple years and they did all the training in house! It was a great job!(I didn't actually draw blood, I just got to handle all the cool samples)
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/22 12:40 AM
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Female red pill and male red pills are different. They are both dating strategies, but serve different purposes. A lot of the advice given here is for women to get through the entire dating process and weed out the "fuck boys/red pilled men" via vetting. Contrary to what you may think, a lot of the advice here actually suggests for women to avoid dating a red pilled man due to those things you read. The game for red pilled men is for women to give up sex and the goal for red pilled women is to g…
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/22 10:42 AM
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A great first step is not swearing. It's a very masculine thing and doesn't sound cute coming out of a lady's mouth. Sometimes when I'm frustrated and in the heat of the moment I'm about to swear and catch myself I end up pivoting to a much sillier phrase (fudge monkey is my general replacement word for the F bomb). Even when I've burnt myself pretty badly cooking, I managed to avoid a swear, to which my husband thanked me and complimented my composure.
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/22 10:59 AM
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If it's a man worth his salt, your appearance won't matter as much as you think. As long as you have more to offer than your looks and have an attractive personality. I'm In my opinion a very average looking person (i have dry blotchy skin), but my husband tells me periodically that wife goggles are very real to him and that I'm the most beautiful person to him.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/22 02:23 PM
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My husband is in corrections, and so was his father. Whether or not he thinks it, he will change. My FIL became short and actually shook my Brother in law as a baby to get him to be quiet. He became cold and harsh. My husband has had to compromise his morals multiple times, and has seen the system fail the AIC (adults in custody). We have a strong marriage, but he still frequently comes home in a mood. I don't ask him to talk about it, I just make home comfortable and easy for him. Give him all …
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/21 09:23 PM
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I had an allergic reaction to vagisil cream and thought I had a yeast infection overseas the first half xD my husband and I joked about the start of a classic nosex marriage!
/r/RedPillWives23/08/21 04:50 PM
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Sorry about formatting in advance, I'm on mobile :p Congrats On tying the knot! If things don't go as planned, don't try to fix them! Sometimes travel plans don't go as expected, which can be a bummer! Just stay calm, positive, and go with the flow! When something goes wrong, ask yourself "what's the worst case scenario?" Generally it just means more money being spent, which all in all is not a huge deal. But if you freak out or stress it can take a simple issue and put a damper on the whole day…
/r/RedPillWives23/08/21 10:14 AM
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Just like a condom could've protected from hsv
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/21 05:23 AM
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Me and my husband play together all the time! We love anything competitive. Our main games together are Sid Meyers Civ games, football games, ssbm, forza, halo, COD, and Ark. When I have some down time (not very often though!) I play SO MUCH POKEMON. Us playing ssb: melee was what got us to start hanging out ;)
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/20 07:40 AM
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It's great and all that you guys don't need to work full time, but now instead of a future partner you've picked up an adult child. You're putting in more work in your life in general than he is. He's 23 and only working part-time? Is he going to school? Does he have plans to work more or go to school? You're cooking, cleaning, working, and school. He's been putting in minimal effort and getting the dream life. Why would he change his behavior? I believe you need to have a long conversation abou…
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/20 05:21 PM
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Crochet and knitting are pretty cheap to get into! The needles and one large spool of yarn is like $10 max. I watched Bella Coco on YT and just spent time practicing the few basic stitches. It was frustrating the first 30-60 minutes of figuring out how to comfortably hold everything as to be consistent, but afterwards it felt pretty natural! Final word of advice: don't overdo crochet sessions at first. I overdid it (my hands were aching but I kept going) and had a really bad carpal tunnel flare …
/r/RedPillWives28/09/20 07:10 AM
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My guess is Laura Doyle!
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/20 03:41 PM
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I mean, if YOU feel like he's ignorant in any sense and don't respect his political stance, why even be with him in the first place? If having someone who has the same views as you is important, then you should take this as a sign you're not compatible.
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/20 08:24 AM
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I own that dress too! My husband loves it, it's very classy without being too dressy!
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/20 08:56 PM
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As a nice glimmer of hope, my stepmom was about 45 with 3 girls and a teenage boy when she got divorced and started dating my dad. There's hope for women of any age with children, it just might be a tough road :)
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/20 05:31 AM
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Cooking for me is a hobby! I spend spare time looking at recipes and trying them when I have spare time!
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/20 09:17 PM
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My biggest question is why you care so much if he invites his exes to what seemed to be your wedding? If you really don't trust this man enough for him to be around his exes at your wedding then how can you trust him as a husband? What is so threatening about his exes/him that makes you not trust his judgement?
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/20 06:08 PM
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I love my bread machine! I don't bake loaves in it, but it mixes, kneads and proofs the bread for me! I haven't bought bread in months Homemade Mac and cheese is actually really easy to make and super customizable! You can do different cheeses, meats, veggies and spices! You make a basic roux (4 tbsp butter and flour), 1-2 cups milk, and 1 lb of cheese. By the time the noodles are done boiling the sauce is done! You can bake it with a bread crumbs topping if you want that extra crunch
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/19 03:52 AM
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Does that work? I feel like it would still gather up the clothes. (I get my hair balls in all of my laundry, towels are the more annoying things) Don't mean to sound argumentive, I just don't want to commit to an idea that is a lot of work for little payoof :p
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/19 09:59 PM
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Does anyone have Any good way of getting hair balls out of laundry? My hair is really long and always gets tangled into my clean dish towels in the dryer
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/19 07:45 PM
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Here's my cheesecake recipe! My husband loves it, but it is really rich: Graham crackers​/oreos/cookies 2-3 tablespoons butter, melted Pinch of salt Filling 4 8 oz packs of cream cheese, softened 1 ½ cups white sugar ¾ sweetened condensed milk 4 eggs 1 cup sour cream 1 tablespoon vanilla extract ¼ cup flour Preheat oven to 350, grease 9” springform pan. Wrap the bottom of the pan with 2 layers of aluminum foil. Crush cookies into a fine crumb, mix with melted butter and a pinch of salt. Firmly p…
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/19 07:03 PM
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I used to think I wanted kids, but over the years the desire has waned. I don't feel like I am mentally/emotionally strong enough to care for another life. I struggle caring for pets, I don't want to unintentionally neglect a child. Plus, with no children we can retire early and take many more vacations!
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/19 12:15 AM
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Why don't you think therapy will help? Therapy is great at giving tools for coping with negative thoughts. And as long as you are using men to fill a void and make you whole, they won't want to date you. You'll become clingy and dependant on their attention. In your post history you were even considering lying about having a child to get a relationship. If you think lying I'd a good way to lock down a relationship, then I really think you need to work on yourself. Save yourself and others some h…
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/19 11:35 AM
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Can I have that spicy sweet pineapple chicken recipe? It sounds sooooo good :D
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/19 10:16 PM
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My captain is in the military and does yearly 2-3 weeks of training over the summer. Sleeping with the TV on with a sleep timer set helps. I also listen to ASMR videos on YouTube, cause some of the personal attention videos make me feel less lonely. Make sure your room is cool enough and you have enough blankets! When my captain did his basic training (5 months) I wrote him a letter almost every day. Maybe bring a journal to bed and just start writing him a letter as you try to sleep? Side note:…
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/19 05:50 AM
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Met 2013 in a Community college history class. He sat down next to me the second day and gave me a business card with his name and number (us being 18/19 it was funny and smooth) I was dating someone else at the time, but it fell apart beginning of June. I was lonely and sexually frustrated started texting him because I was pissed at my ex and wanted to lose my virginity. We talked for a bit and I made it clear I was just looking for something casual, as was he. Our first date was in the back of…
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/19 05:18 PM
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I am pale skinned with super dark body hair. I am halfway through getting laser hair removal and it has made me feel more confident and happy. It saves a lot of time on my showers, which saves money on water and razors. On the flip side, it's mildly expensive. I had been wanting it since I was 17, and had been saving up for it. I still checked with my Capitan to make sure he was fine with me dropping a bunch of money on something cosmetic.
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/19 06:34 PM
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My main three are Time, Touch, and Words of affirmation. All I want really is for fianc-bae to be home so we can cuddle and just hang out. I don't like the words of affirmation unless it's sincere. He's not big on compliments or anything of the sort. He's definitely a quality of time person, so we always make sure to have our chores done before the other person gets home!
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/19 03:38 PM
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We both work 40 he scheduled weeks, but fiance works a lot of OT and his commute is twice as long. We don't hire outside help, not practical for us. We discussed it before moving in together. He was pretty upfront about what he wanted for division of labor, and I was totally on board with it. I generally have a lot more time after work to get stuff done, so I handle day to day stuff. I go to the store about 3 times a week, I do laundry and dishes and make dinner. My fiance can't cook, so I alway…
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/19 02:38 AM
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I lost over 30 pounds in the last year just from CICO. I was never terribly fat, but I was about 25 on the bmi chart. I am now a 22, and I weight the least I ever have in my adult life. Let me tell you I can see a difference with my fiance! When we started the journey together, and at first when I'd say I was doing things so I could lose weight (exercise, eat less in the day to justify pizza later) and he'd just tell Me not to worry about it. Now when I tell him, he thanks me and encourages it! …
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/19 04:19 PM
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My fiance was a completely different person when he came back from basic training. His priorities and view on life changed, and he was much more serious about our relationship. I've also heard the opposite of that happen when they get back. Just enjoy spending time together when he gets back. Also just because he's in reserves doesn't mean he won't get deployed. My fiance is reserves and was told he's probably getting deployed this year (only probably because his contract is up shortly into the …
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/19 03:55 AM
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I did AdoreMe a while back. It was great and at the time after your fifth purchase you got something free, but I got charged for the free item :p it can be a bit spendy for the matching set too :p Edit: that was before they were a subscription box, which was a few years ago, I can't speak for what they are like meow
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/19 02:23 AM
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I want to keep improving on things I've been working on since last year: - lose 5 lbs - make 2 new recipes that my fiance will enjoy - swear less - keep up good skin care - clean out wardrobe of all clothes that I haven't worn in a year
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/19 03:22 PM
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To celebrate that we're done with the holidays (and dealing with our families) I'm making an herb and garlic crusted NY strip roast with roasted broccoli and Jasmine rice. The leftovers from this and my family's turkey (we got all the dark meat sent home with us!) Means we won't have to cook for a while!
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/18 02:14 PM
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Start at the bottom of your hair and slowly work your way up to the roots. It helps get tangles out gently and doesn't tug on your hair as much
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/18 09:19 PM
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I haven't used olive oil, so I'm not sure. All I know is if you use OO as a beauty product you need to get the real high quality stuff, not most of the stuff they sell at grocery stores. OO is a common item that is counterfeit/fake, just like honey
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/18 09:07 PM
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I use Ogx brand argan oil, and have been for almost 2 years I think. You just use a small amount, rub in your hand then massage through your hair :) it's great and doesn't leave n oily feel
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/18 02:56 AM
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As far as haircare goes, I have some good tips! (My hair is my pride and joy and is down to the small of my back :D) -try to minimize the amount of times you wash your hair (I do it once every 5 days) -when brushing your hair, do it when it's dry and go from ends to roots. It'll help get tangles out and not be so harsh on your hair -use a nice leave-in oil or conditioner after you get your hair wet to help keep it soft and smooth (I use argan oil) -when washing your hair: shampoo scalp and condi…
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/18 11:50 PM
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I love that dress btw 😍
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/18 03:59 PM
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I really enjoyed The Good Place! It's really fun and quirky and Kristen Bell is Def a celebration crush of mine
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/18 06:08 PM
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Our local Fred Meyer carries it through the holidays for $6.99/lb. I cooked lamb once before and I got it from our local butcher for I think about $7.99 (I can't remember, it was apart of his Christmas gift last year). How do you usually cook your lamb?
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/18 03:14 PM
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We frequently work opposite shifts with his new job, so the next few days I'm cooking some fancier meals! (Fancy for us because we like to be frugal) Tonight I'm doing teriyaki marinaded salmon with rice and stir fried broccoli and carrots for him and bok choy and green beans for me :) Tomorrow I'm doing a herb roasted leg of lamb with Jasmine rice and root veggies (his dream meal :D) lots of rosemary, garlic and wine with this dinner!
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/18 10:27 PM
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He planned it all himself. We had been living together for 2 months (dating for 2.5 years) when he asked my dad for his permission to marry me. Then he spent the next 3-4 months looking for a ring. He'd say he would working late or would be at the gym extra long. We had a trip to Europe planned in August. After the long flight to Paris we went straight to the Eiffel tower where he proposed. It made the trip pretty great ;) we both agreed on a long engagement, because we wanted to save up money. …
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/18 03:21 PM
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November goals: - lose 3 more lbs (I'm already back to my high school weight yay!) - learn 4 new recipes that my fiance will enjoy eating - have everyone's Xmas presents either purchased or already figured out - keep up with laundry better
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/18 03:49 PM
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I personally feel like there's no wrong length for hair as long as it's healthy, flattering, and feminine. There's no point in having butt length hair of it's all split ends!
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/18 03:09 AM
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I actually had my fiance pick out dresses for me last year when he told me he wanted me to wear more dresses. I didn't think I looked good in white, but he pushed me into getting a white dress and I love it. I want him to pick my entire wardrobe honesty xD
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/18 02:41 AM
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I second all of these games! Catan and trivial pursuit especially!
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/18 10:04 PM
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You can search specific recipes like chili, or searching recipes by categories lime "soups", then refining the search by cuisine and main ingredient. And they let you save/download the recipes
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/18 11:03 AM
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I feel the same way about this topic. I enjoy having sex with my fiance, but I honestly don't feel the need for him to make me orgasm every time were together (though I have a lower sex drive compared to most people). I just really enjoy seeing my man get pleasure from being with me.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/18 03:17 AM
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I fiannly subscribed to Cooks Illustrated magazine for their recipe database. It's so worth $4 a month! I made their Chicken Picatta (https://www.cooksillustrated.com/recipes/10318-chicken-piccata?incode=MCSCM00L0&ref=new_search_experience_1) and served it with noodles and broccoli. It was super yummy, though fiancbae thought it was a bit too lemony for him. Also I dropped almost all of the chicken on the floor :( Tonight I'm making Chicken Vesuvio (https://www.cooksillustrated.com/recipes/11170…
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/18 05:24 PM
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I've talked to on tinder a lot of ladies that seem nice, I've just never followed through with meeting up!
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/18 04:11 PM
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That's pretty much what it was. Also when i wrote this i was super emotional and left out details. I didn't realize how much of a toll his work was taking on him
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/18 01:50 AM
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Well the issue is behind us now, but basically he works 65+ hours a week and coming home to an empty house made it feel like it was all for nothing. Everything is fine and we talked it through. I don't have a "curfew" anymore
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/18 01:34 AM
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I made calzones! A simple pizza dough, filled with meats and a ricotta cheese mixture and baked until golden brown! Fiance approved! :)
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/18 06:21 AM
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He works 72 hour weeks, and he likes coming home to me instead of an empty house hold. This is also like the third time we've had this come up, which is why it is an issue. I was just at my dad's not doing anything. I know his response wasn't the most appropriate (and looking back in my post now my portrayal of the situation made him seem much worse than what happened) but i know I'm not completely blameless. My fiance posted his side of the story in the comments, feel free to read that
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/18 04:30 PM
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I've had a similar situation happen to me. When someone says they are going to follow you to your car, you don't feel safe. It doesn't start like that. It starts with comments and small gifts, where everything seems fine. But you know there is a greater intention behind everything. Some people (especially older men) you can't tell to stop. They don't listen. They get mad and "offended." every day i work they came and try to find me even though i told them i stop, and multiple other managers told…
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/18 04:27 AM
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I work until about 7-8 weekedays, depending on events. Weekends i get off at 5 and 3. On week days i will head straight home or go to the store first before going home. Saturdays occasionally i will has dinner set up with my friend, but that generally ends at 6:30-7. Sundays i either head straight home or go to my dad's house to play magic cards. Sundays are usually my problem days because my dad likes to dilly-dally and talk and follow me as i try to leave. He does all the repairs/yardwork. i d…
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/18 04:26 PM
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I'm always home and cooking for him the rest of the week (if he cooked for himself he would die xD). He went from a job where he did nothing for 12 hours a day to car sales which is super competitive. He works 5-6 12-hour days, and just got a promotion 3 days ago because of it. He's been overworked and stressed about the job and some days it just weighs him down when he gets home. He feels like that when he comes home from working long days/weeks and I'm not there to welcome him home that he's w…
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/18 04:22 PM
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My dad says he likes his and is happy he makes me happy. My family is not really one to talk about these kind of things out in the open. I know my step mom likes him, and i appreciate her opinion more than my dad's. (My dad and brother tend to be very passive aggressive and uppity) Fiance thinks my family is too passive aggressive and materialistic. My dad likes to brag about his new house improvment/work bonus/next big purchase to him. My dad also always has to be right so their conversations t…
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/18 04:09 PM
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I wish i could be this coherent, but i would start crying after the first sentence. All my life, ive never been able to talk about my current feelings without crying. I finally had the realization last night that if it can't talk about myself openly then i might need therapy. I want to be able to talk about myself without crying for once
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/18 03:59 PM
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No, this is the only thing we've ever had a problem with. Everything else he does he does it with me/us in mind. He's very appreciative of everything else o do and is very sweet. This has been our only problem we've had in our 5 years together.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/18 03:55 PM
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He usually likes his dinner about 30 minutes after he gets home, but i always have the oven preheating. I always give BJs on command (execpr when I'm having breathing issues or super sick). Usually it's only Sundays i see my family because everyone has that day off, the rest of the week I'm home
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/18 07:15 AM
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Work, my dad's, the store. Very rarely I'm out with my friend unless it's for something like a lunch date.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/18 07:12 AM
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I'm almost always with my family when I'm not working or at home.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/18 06:02 AM
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So I'm kinda copy/pasting a response to answer your first question: Essentially he works as a car salesman and works 13 hour days. He's very drained at the end if the day and it makes him feel much better coming home to me instead if an empty household. That's the reasoning behind it. I'm not offended, I'm just having a hard time hearing something i didn't want to think was true. Working the car sales job makes him more money than what he was doing before (private security), but he comes home mo…
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/18 05:46 AM
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Essentially he works as a car salesman and works 13 hour days. He's very drained at the end if the day and it makes him feel much better coming home to me instead if an empty household. That's the reasoning behind it
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/18 05:37 AM
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Even if let him know in advanced im not going to be home before him, he gets a little irked. His work he gets home anywhere between 8:30-9:45. Frequently on sundays I do something with my family. I didnt realize he got off at 8 today. I left the moment i saw his text and had to awkwardly ie to my family about why I was in a rush to get home. I'll probably revisit this post and pull the important bits that I am feeling.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/18 04:42 AM
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I have dealt with a similar situation before at my old work and actually was able to get the man to be banned from the store because i had panic attacks and was unable to work when he came in (most days a week for +3 hours at a time). Go to your boss/HR rep and tell them that you feel unsafe!!! No one of any gender should feel unsafe or scared at work. If it happens again, do not be afraid to just walk away! You do not need to take that from creepy old men (or any verbal harassment from anyone).…
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/18 05:43 AM
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I've always liked Pheobus in Hunchback of Notre Dame (Disney). He's a very upstanding polite gentleman who stands his grounds on what he believes in. And he is super sweet to Esmeralda
/r/RedPillWives05/07/18 08:54 PM
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I understand the forgetfulness so much! What I've come to do is set reminders on my phone to do certain chores, lable timers specific activities, and make a lot of lists. it helps me keep track of little things like changing the wash and remembering to get toothpaste at the store. (I even set timed reminders on my phone to go off while I'm at the store to remind me to get things!)
/r/RedPillWives25/06/18 12:21 AM
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Youre 21, haven't really experienced life yet. You think what you want now is what you want for the rest of your life. 3 years ago when I was 21, I thought I wanted 3 kids. Now I have decided I'm not going to have any. I wanted a tattoo all through my teen years, but even when I had the financial capability at 19, I realized that it might change how people see me. The same will go with a kid. I personally think that having a child from a previous marriage isn't as bad as having one without a rel…
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/18 02:41 PM
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I just get anxiety over little things, it doesn't cause strife. He's incredibly helpful and loving when I'm having a hard time. I just don't want him worrying after a long hard day at work about something that can't be fixed. For some silly reason I never thought about doing it over text xD
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/18 01:59 AM
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How do I best explain to my fiance that I'm having a depressed day/week? I'm a fairly emotional person when it comes to strife, and I have a tendency to cry. I don't like crying in front of him every time I'm feeling depressed. What's a good way to approach the subject besides "I'm having a rough/depressed day?" (I tried that approach the other day a teared up) I don't want him to worry, I just only feel like I'm at 50%
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/18 05:33 AM
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I would say don't do it in person, just because he might smooth talk you into doing something you don't wanna do
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/18 06:02 AM
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Just don't, it sounds like bad news. Plus, you shouldn't give it up so quickly.
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/18 05:24 AM
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There is so much you can make with just garlic, salt, and cheese too. Roasted veggies can taste like chips even!
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/18 12:16 AM
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Oh my goodness my fiance is basically the same way. I can't even use pepper on any if his food! My advice is find something that he does like, like pasta sauce, learn to make it from scratch and add flavor and seasonings to it. Figure out what spices and herbs he does and doesn't like and learn to cook with those! My fiance doesn't eat any spices or onions or peppers, so I've learned to cook using just herbs, garlic, salt, honey BBQ sauce, and sounds sauce. It's become a fun puzzle to figure out…
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/18 12:21 AM
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When we compared our lists, we realized we both wanted the same things and talked about our concerns for the future, like the cap working wy too much :) I recommend it!
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/18 10:41 PM
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My fiance and I recently wrote out our list of expectations for each other when we're married. We wrote out all the obvious ones and the ones that may have seemed controversial. We compared our lists and debated one or two of the points to make sure we were on the same page about everything. It really helped us understand what we want from each other.
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/18 08:15 PM
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For me, it's how I approach every day. I watch what I wear, what I say, how I act, how I look, and what I do for my fiance. I try to eat healthy, not drink in public, not swear, cook and clean for my man, and so on. I want to be a person that my fiance is proud to show off. RPW has really helped my own self improvement. It's helped me lose weight, stopped swearing, and really helped me STFU. Overall, it has been one big self improvement place. It's helped me realize how to be the best version of…
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/18 08:12 PM
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My hobbies are cooking, baking, video games and magic the gathering. My fiancee and I love to spend our day off together playing multiplayer games together and trying to beat one another. We even went to Vegas for a super smash Bros tournament xD
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/18 05:01 PM
2

I screwed up. I was going to go out dancing with my friend Saturday night and possibly sleep at her house if I didn't feel safe driving home. I told my fiancee this and he told me that he doesn't like it when I go out/drink/stay somewhere else and not come home. I said a bunch of stupid things, and unintentionally/jokingly compared him being gone for 3 weeks in military stuff to me being gone for one night having fun. After more talking, he ended the conversation by saying, "this isn't wife beha…
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/18 06:41 AM
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After almost 6 years of being together, we still don't (and refuse) to fart in front of each other. It's just polite and not feminine at all :) sometimes one slips out and we have a good laugh
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/18 04:26 AM
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Most takeout actually is super easy to make! I made homemade potstickers and they we're SO GOOD. They just took a long time to fold
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/18 01:31 AM
3

My man is not a fan of seasonings (only basic herbs, garlic and salt) and is picky, so it's been a but of an adventure figuring out what to cook for him. I made a NY strip roast with a marinade of garlic, sage, rosemary, thyme, EVOO, and salt. Rub it generously on the roast and let it marinade for a few hours. 450 for 15 minutes, then lower it to 350 until you reach preferred doneness. It was amazing. Roasted broccoli is his favorite way to have his veggies. 2 heads of broccoli, salt, garlic pow…
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/18 12:04 AM
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We met in a history class in college. He proposed at the Eiffel tower in Paris 😍
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/18 08:19 PM
3

My man is fantastic at planning! We've been together for 4.5 years and got engaged right before I turned 22 :)
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/18 07:35 PM
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ISFP! I very much live in the now and love trying new things, but planning is not my strong suit.
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/18 06:54 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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