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Basic Questionsparkling_truth/r/askMRP13/04/22 04:21 AM
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I would focus my efforts on the money part for now. Feel to share more about you job/education/income/expenses? I'll be happy to share some tips. You are 24 mate, one life only. Don't waste in on minimum wage.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/22 02:14 PM
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Been there as a mix couple so just sharing my 2cents here, also lived in 4 different countries already and going for 5 soon. You might get a lot of pressure soon for the marriage due to visa issues especially if it impacts your livelihoods. I married, didn't regret but had to setup some boundaries especially on the timeline. Now, I don't understand from your OYS if you 2 have visa issues where you are now. Are you in a mix couple? How different? Anyway understand if you want to change country be…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/22 02:03 PM
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OYS 8 Stats: Male | 29 Years Old | No kids | 7 years relationship married since 2 | 182 Lbs (83kg) | SW: 231Lbs (105 Kg) Dec 2020 | 5.11" (181 Cm), BF TB Lifts: Bench 160 Lbs | Deadlifts 300 LBs | Overhead Press 130 LBs Diet: 2000kcal Read: them all. Reading now: you are a badass and rereading WISNIFG Intro Good week, productive and feeling happy. Love to be in control of my thoughts. Career and Finance Nothing interesting to report from previous weeks. Finally slowly back in office so I could h…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/22 11:23 AM
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Got your point.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/21 12:00 PM
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Just doing nice things expecting something in return and getting butthurt when it doesnt.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/21 11:59 AM
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HOMS made a clever comment in another OYS. Is mostly emotional dissonance I'm experiencing by throwing RP at the wall without it matching whom I am now. I pass from killing my old self completely to getting back to it. The latter feel comfortable, it is what I did for 28 years. Is it me tho? Is it who I want to be in 10 years? Actually no. I don't know how to answer you, I have to figure it out.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/21 11:58 AM
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As you know no, it doesn't include that... Yet, you have no idea of the skills I had to learn and the effort I had and have to peruse to keep a bedroom interesting enough to initiate successfully 20 times at month for 7 years without a chance to touch a vagina properly or put a dick inside. The fantasy and the psychological I had to come out with. Try for the next 7 years and let's see where your mental health stands. And im even taking the responsabiity for this. I report it mostly because i ha…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/21 11:45 AM
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Although my OYS was a shit and I'm thankful for everyone comments and wake up call ( I'll update next OYS), i just want to say that the below you wrote was really important for me. Nice comment. "If there was ONE thing that I could go back and re-do in my journey, it would be exactly this. I would learn how to calibrate my "pre-MRP" frame to my new developing one. There were things that I LOVED about myself pre-MRP. But I felt like I couldn't do it 'right' just like you, so I completely shut tho…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/21 11:40 AM
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We love each other, spend quality time together, have common interests and hobbies, we support each other, rarely get disrespected or she acts bitchy ( I mean happens time to time but quite rare). Yes we have arguments as everyone but 99% of times are somehow related to sex. Both of us will choose to spend time together instead of friends or someone else on every single occasion. We have similar schedule and energy levels,just get along good in all aspects. We are just not that social people, we…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/21 02:00 PM
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I have a good relationship for my standards but good is the enemy of perfect. Thanks for sharing didn't know about Sepean. I had read some of his posts but not all of them. Looks interesting.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/21 12:49 PM
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Yeah I know it. Trust me I have read it enough. Point is, I want both? That's the confusing part. There must be a balance point somewhere. That's my struggle. I like intimacy, I like sweet words, I like vanilla sex and the lovely wife while being nice to each other like 2 sweet babies in love hugging in bed. I like being nice and not having always to pretend to be tough and have everything under control. I like to share my feelings time to time and just be weak when needed. But we are not allowe…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/21 10:43 AM
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OYS 5 26/10/2021 RP 3 months Link: OYS 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 Stats: Male | 28 Years Old | No kids | 7 years relationship married since 2, European married Chinese | 185 Lbs (84kg) | SW: 231Lbs (105 Kg) Dec 2020 | 5.11" (181 Cm), 22% Body Fat (40%+ Starting Body Fat) Lifts: Bench 130 Lbs (3x8)| Squat 150 Lbs (3x10) | Deadlifts 130 LBs (3x8) Diet: 2000 Kcals, 200P 100C 80F Read: sidebarx3, NMMNGx2, TMMSLFx2, WISNIFG How to be a 3% man, Practical female psychology, TWOTSM, SGMx2, TRM, MAP, How to win frien…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/21 09:46 AM
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5'11 Seems you are right, damn google.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/21 02:27 AM
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For now mostly trying to go out, build my social circle, read books, and staying around the gym. I would like to pick up some hobbies unrelated to the gym but still looking for something I like and suit my schedule.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/21 02:26 AM
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I will read it. Definitely my style.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/21 02:24 AM
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Looking forward to it because my libido is dead this month and I can't initiate it properly.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/21 02:24 AM
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Yeah definitely, need to internalize it.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/21 02:23 AM
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OYS 4 28/09/2021RP 3 months Link: OYS 1 | 2 | 3 Stats: Male | 28 Years Old | No kids | 7 years relationship married since 2, European married Chinese | 185 Lbs (84kg) | SW: 231Lbs (105 Kg) Dec 2020 | 5.9" (181 Cm), 26% Body Fat (2 months old need update) Lifts: Bench 121 Lbs (3x8)| Squat 90 Lbs (3x12) | Deadlifts 100 LBs (3x8) Diet: 2000 Kcals, 200P 100C 80F Read: sidebarx3, NMMNGx2, TMMSLFx2, WISNIFG How to be a 3% man, Practical female psychology, TWOTSM, SGMx2, TRM, MAP, How to win friends an…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/21 10:23 AM
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OYS 3 28/09/2021 Link: OYS 1 | 2 Stats: Male | 28 Years Old | No kids | 7 years relationship married since 2, European married Chinese | 185 Lbs (84kg) | SW: 231Lbs (105 Kg) Dec 2020 | 5.9" (181 Cm), 26% Body Fat (2 months old need update) Lifts: Bench 121 Lbs (3x8)| Squat 90 Lbs (3x12) | Deadlifts 100 LBs (3x8) Diet: 1800-1900 Kcals, 180P 100C 80F Read: sidebarx3, NMMNGx2, TMMSLFx2, WISNIFG How to be a 3% man, Practical female psychology, TWOTSM, SGMx2, TRM, MAP, How to win friends and influenc…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/21 09:33 AM
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I know.... I didn't want to know...
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/21 08:32 AM
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Thanks mate.Yeah naked I don't like what I see in the mirror, I look like a 50 YO and we are just 28....Weird because I don't even weigh so much. Clothed I can cover it now since I'm tall/large shoulders. Lot of anger here, agree. You are correct. I'm overthinking as well.Lack of PIV was not a big issue before RP, I was just disappointed but didn't even ask her to start therapy for 7 years. I didn't mind so much. I was getting decent sex overall by other means. The RP hurt me particularly becaus…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/21 07:36 AM
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OYS 2 23/09/2021 Part 2 Wife/Sex/Libido/Mental health: No porn or masturbation since late July. Went full Rambo in August. We had sex almost 20 times on August, 12 in September as of today. I have been initiating less. Honestly, sex quantity is not even the problem anymore, something clicked and is working. We have passed some new boundaries and trying new things I never thought she would be capable of. AWALT. I'm trying to accept it and killing the Unicorn but can't negate anger keep popping up…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/21 05:00 AM
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OYS 2 23/09/2021 Part 1 Link: OYS 1 Banned 28 days due to Rule 9, I'm back. RP 2 months Stats: Male | 28 Years Old | No kids | 7 years relationship married since 2, European married Chinese | 185 Lbs (84kg) | SW: 231Lbs (105 Kg) Dec 2020 | 5.9" (181 Cm), 26% Body Fat (2 months ago, scanning next week again, I guess sub 25% now) Lifts: Bench 110 Lbs (3x8)| Squat 90 Lbs (3x12) | Deadlifts 100 LBs (3x8) Diet: 1800-1900 Kcals, 180P 100C 80F Read: sidebarx3, NMMNG, TMMSLFx2, WISNIFG How to be a 3% ma…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/21 04:58 AM
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OYS #1 24/08/2021Red pill since 1 month About me: Male | 28 Years Old | No kids | 7 years relationship married since 2, never had PIV (technically half virgin)| European married Chinese girlNot using the main account because can connect to me, Redditor for years. Lifts: Bench 66 Lbs | Military Press 66 Lbs | Squat 37 Lbs | Deadlifts 55 LBsStats: 191 Lbs (87kg) for 5.9" (181 Cm), 26% Body Fat Read: sidebar, NMMNG, TMMSLF, How to be a 3% man, Practical female psychology, TWOTSM, SGM, TRM, MAP, How…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/21 10:28 AM
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