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But that would happen once you've been dating for a bit, right? So I don't see how that's equivalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 12:58 PM
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What's the equivalent of paying the bill for a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 12:25 PM
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What if he finds generosity in the form of paying for a date attractive? To respond to the other comment, you don't offer the full bill because it's what he did, it's because that's what you expect from him. You should hold yourself to the same standards you hold others. If you think it's hot for others to be generous on the first date then chances are he does too. If you show yourself on the first meeting to be so selfish that you can't even offer to pay for his meal then why would he want to c…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 12:11 PM
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Also splitting the bill is such a shit offer if they're offering to pay the whole thing. You should be offering to pay the whole meal not just your half.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 11:57 AM
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You've obviously never played a game of who can tap their card first. No one will ever say yes. It's up to you to insist because you are a good and generous person.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 11:57 AM
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Oh don't worry, the dating subs are right out of my bubble without being quite as extreme as redpillers. I don't live in a bubble at all and am well aware of redpill views etc as I like to know what other groups are saying. But there's only so much I can take before it becomes entirely masochistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 07:05 AM
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Being asked to pay is unattractive from both men and women. If a man offers, don't you think it's nice for you to also offer and then actually follow through?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 06:47 AM
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Hahaha I don't think I could stand the amount of redpillers in this sub to actually subscribe. I don't think I have anything else to add here but thanks for the entertainment during my workday.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 06:42 AM
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Why do you expect someone to pay for your meal when you won't reciprocate? Don't you think that's a bit selfish? Do you not like to be a nice and generous person?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 06:39 AM
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a readiness to help the weak Are we still viewing women as weak these days? It's not silly, it's setting a standard and expectation. If you are expecting a man to look after you in these small ways then it stands to reason that you also expect him to do so once you are in a relationship. Once you are in a relationship, however, the terms change and the things a man must do to look after you become bigger. Therefore, it stands to reason that at some point you will become dependent on your partner…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 06:14 AM
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Hmm I think you wouldn't have been banned if you had stated there what you did here, but ok. I completely agree that we should be striving for gender equality but we're not there yet. I personally try hard to break gender roles and certainly don't agree with the meals for sex mentality. But unlike what you seem to be saying, I don't think that break gender roles means that women should be paying for meals in the hopes they will be rewarded with sex either. I don't want gender reversals, I want g…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 06:05 AM
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Please explain what you mean by chivalry then. If you literally only mean men paying for dates then that's not really chivalry. Personally, I like to pay for my dates and like when others pay for me because for me this is a sign of generosity. It has nothing to do with gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 05:51 AM
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I corrected my spelling. I meant to say we as "women". Chilvary is just a term that means outdated gender roles. Why you would want to perpetuate women being entirely dependent on men is beyond me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 05:46 AM
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I am a woman and I highly dislike "chivalry". I am attracted to fun and caring people. Paying for the first few dates doesn't indicate anything. If men view paying for dates as a means to have sex, then we as women should not be promoting this sentiment. I enjoy having sex and don't need to be paid to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 05:36 AM
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u/nothatyoucare this is actually a good example of viewing sex as a reward for men for paying for dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 05:22 AM
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Why the hell couldn't you just say that last bit from the start. You made it sound like you were saying that sex is the reward and didn't at all clarify that you were trying to say the opposite. Your responses throughout made it sound like you were saying that sex is the reward. You could have just clarified instead of starting shit by dodging questions and making strawman arguments. Unfortunately, your comparison to a same sex couple doesn't really work. Even though we are all striving for gend…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 05:00 AM
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Thank you. I'll respond when I have a moment. Currently at work and clearly slacking off.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 04:30 AM
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Cheers
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 04:12 AM
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Firstly, I'm not into this purple pill shit but I will go ahead because I'm losing my mind. Basically, someone asked about when the right time to have sex with someone is and someone else responded with their personal time frame. In response to this, you asked them if dates are usually equally planned and paid for by them and their dates. In this same context of paying for dates and waiting for sex, you said you don't want to do something for someone if they're not willing to give back to you. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 04:10 AM
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