sparkreason Archive

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49	How to play the game right. Just from what I know from my own experiences.		sparkreason	/r/seduction	01/06/11 08:30 AM

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1	what are the significant differences between trying to find a girlfriend and picking up girls? Picking up girls is like going to the buffet. You can pick what you like there is a tremendous variety in flavors. Some you will like and some you can't stand but it's on your budget as you wish. Having a girlfriend is like going to the grocery store for the week, you know what to expect, it requires some real work in the preparation but it's worth it because you are vested in it ... at the end you are doing the dishes...you are going to have to do the dishes and clean and stuff. Being Married i…	/r/seduction	09/12/12 12:46 AM
10	Halloween costume ideas for the bar scene Look if you want to win you need an element of mystery. Go as the dread pirate roberts Wanna lay it on crazy thick? Do the stache and get blue non prescription contacts. The costume is super simple. And any girl that sees it... if they are going to pick a guy to fuck they will pick a night fucking the dread pirate roberts than some douche. If they ask your name wink and tell them that they'll have to work to find out. Be completely relaxed and play charming games with them and they'll eat that s…	/r/seduction	21/10/12 01:23 AM
1	I don't want as many women as I can handle. I just want one. Someone I can love and treasure until I die. How many other sedditors are looking for monogamy? You know I'm married (happily I might add) so I read this subreddit more to live vicariously through guys out in the hunt, and also pick up tips to keep the Mrs constantly interested. I was exactly like you, and to be honest your views are perfect for you. Here's how I did it. You need to find someone that is similar but different. Now that may sound strange, but it's true. Similar in regards that you have common bonds that you can build a relationship on. Different in that they are interesting …	/r/seduction	06/10/12 07:35 AM
11	Posted this in r/pics before but I figure I'd post this here as well. While ordering calzone, I asked on the comment box "how should I ask girls out?" This is what I got from the calzone box Wise Calzone box is Wise... and greasy	/r/seduction	30/01/12 01:22 PM
11	What are some good 'pet' names to use that are cute without being too creepy? Here's my repertoire Girl I'm with Darling... am pursuing is Darling.. girl I just met Darling. Darling all the women. It's funny because it's unique enough that when a girl hears it she thinks it's special until she hears me say it to another and then she's like "oh I thought he was flirting with me, but I guess he's not, but wait how does he flirt?" it totally messes with them it also makes them wonder if I'm flirting with the other girl. I'd just find something unique that works for you and t…	/r/seduction	11/11/11 10:29 PM
1	What does being a man mean to you? What does being a man mean to you? -Work hard don't cry unless something important passes away take care of business, yourself, and family, be there for friends. Kill bugs and or catch and release bugs Don't put up with any bs from people or to people Satisfy your woman Grill Be able to build fires Put together furniture and electronics Rescuing stuff that needs rescuing and being the shoulder for others to cry on How do you become a man? Y Chromosome Do all the things mentioned Don't puss out W…	/r/seduction	05/06/11 05:02 PM
1	How to play the game right. Just from what I know from my own experiences. But you can have all that stuff and have your act together and that still >doesn't mean you won't have approach anxiety. None of that stuff will >give you the personal confidence to approach someone. None of it will >help your inner game. I know this definitely not to be true by my own experiences. I have never not ever met a single person that has their life together that has a single problem with women. Not one. I know plenty of guys who don't who do. It's that simple. Your "inner game" is you…	/r/seduction	02/06/11 02:29 PM
1	How to play the game right. Just from what I know from my own experiences. Bingo you got it.	/r/seduction	02/06/11 05:12 AM
1	How to play the game right. Just from what I know from my own experiences. I don't think it is because the bacteria on your body will reproduce very quickly especially if it is warmer. I always take one in the morning, one at night, and maybe another one at lunch if I am very active and maybe one before dinner if necessary. I like being clean.	/r/seduction	02/06/11 03:15 AM
2	How to play the game right. Just from what I know from my own experiences. Step 2. Get some.	/r/seduction	02/06/11 03:12 AM
2	How to play the game right. Just from what I know from my own experiences. I think the problem for most guys here is that they can't do the >>approach. Right and I'm telling them that when they have their stuff together the approach is easy. Who cares? He got laid. Relationship? Ha! Yeah he got laid. And that's all he got. If you validate yourself by a piece of pussy I hate to break it to you but it isn't really worth a damn thing.	/r/seduction	02/06/11 03:11 AM
2	How to play the game right. Just from what I know from my own experiences. Hey that's great that you are doing stuff with your life all you need now is the social interaction stuff. Go to parties and events, wine tastings or one of my favorite professional happy hour "mixers", music concerts, Volunteer explore different worlds and don't be shy either. Introduce yourself to people and since your at something ask the three questions that always bring report use how questions. How's it going? How did you find out about _____ , How do you know _____ , How long have you bee…	/r/seduction	01/06/11 10:12 PM
3	How to play the game right. Just from what I know from my own experiences. You keep listing things that don't involve approaching women. Most men put too much weight on the approach, that's why if it doesn't go exactly as you predict it feels like failure. The approach should be natural and not forced. It's as casual as talking to anyone. I see losers with no job and nothing going for them get hot chicks to > fall in love with them just because they approach them with > confidence and don't give a fuck. Yeah the "don't give a fuck" is the key. the loser with no job is …	/r/seduction	01/06/11 10:05 PM
7	How to play the game right. Just from what I know from my own experiences. When I see posts like this, I really want to know more about the >individual. I mean, you make yourself sound like the Dos Equis guy, >but what's the Dos Equis guy doing posting on a self-help online >forum? I didn't always have things figured out (and for the most part I still have tons to learn), and the reason I was posting here was because I saw the subreddit come up on my front page from others posts and I remember when I was looking for tips and things like that. My father wasn't really ar…	/r/seduction	01/06/11 03:52 PM
3	How to play the game right. Just from what I know from my own experiences. Well if you are interested in a girl and she isn't into you. You need to evaluate really how much energy is it worth to do this. If you think she's worth it than proceed to the next step. If this one really looks like a hassle put your focus elsewhere it isn't worth it. Alright you want this one, but how is the key. Every woman has a weakness and it's not diamonds, or anything cheesy. It's her friends. Identify them and target them and them only. Pretend like the girl doesn't exist. Entertain he…	/r/seduction	01/06/11 03:19 PM
3	How to play the game right. Just from what I know from my own experiences. one more thing I forgot to mention. This step dance thing is kind of like sales, and really the key to sales is "fear of loss". Limited time only, if you act now you'll get this, etc. Getting them to realize that they will have to fight for your time and attention will completely get them chasing you. It's the fear of loss mechanism that kicks in.	/r/seduction	01/06/11 02:46 PM
2	How to play the game right. Just from what I know from my own experiences. no. I mean 1 step forward 2 steps back. if you are moving 2 and then backing up 1 you are effectively chasing them, and they know it. What I mean is hang out with them and then go hang out with other people. Now I know you may wonder how do things progress? Well you see you make them take 2-3 steps in your direction. Make them chase you. You are the prize, the one with his life together. If they want to be a part of your life make them make some serious steps (and they will... they always do bec…	/r/seduction	01/06/11 02:42 PM