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Outer Game sparks_to_flames/r/seduction07/09/20 03:39 PM
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Strange when I click the link I see this [removed]
/r/seduction07/10/20 11:52 AM
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'Removed '
/r/seduction07/10/20 04:11 AM
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I've saved this post, rooting for you and waiting for the update
/r/seduction07/10/20 02:29 AM
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"If I were interested in a someone, hell yeah I'd move mountains and my entire work schedule to be with them.".. 100%!!! I'm like that too. She once had a fight with her boss and left crying... I left the office and was prepared to take a deduction just to be by her side. Thank you for your detailed reply. Actually I'm tired of these games. I won't ask, after all I did for her I deserve being shown more interest, if not, then to hell with her. I'll preserve my dignity and won't bring it up. As f…
/r/seduction10/09/20 01:14 PM
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That's a good support plan that I see goes with option 1. Actually that's kind of what I'm doing, we go to each other every now and then. The other day she delivered a good presentation so I texted her about it. We had a test at work and she came and gave me the answers. I'll keep it cool, stay in contact as we are, but won't bring I'll going out, it's on her.
/r/seduction08/09/20 03:23 AM
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"Option 2 reeks of impatience and desperation.." that's enough reason not to do it. Thanks.
/r/seduction08/09/20 03:15 AM
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True, very possible, and then it'll be worse damage. Yes those two times may be legit, so she has to make it up to me, not me chase again. In the meantime, we talk when there's an occasion and it's cool. Thanks for the perspective.
/r/seduction07/09/20 05:50 PM
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Makes sense. She does know it's on her, that's why she said she didn't forget and we'll have to do something soon. So she doesn't need reminding. I think even bringing it up is like begging. When she told me the "I didn't forget" bit I joked and said "oh well, even if you did, it's fine". I really want to see her, but I feel doing any more than what I did is risking my self respect. Desire vs. logic.
/r/seduction07/09/20 05:46 PM
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Good one. This'll help for sure, but what do you do with yourself when AFTER the conversation you realize you could've said this and answered when that and you suddenly get that smart reply that would've been much cooler than the plain one you used etc..
/r/seduction03/09/20 03:10 AM
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But after identifying the "knots", what did you do? In my case it is receiving very very little support or affection from my mother when I was young, was rarely good enough to her, so I guess that's what set me to seek validation elsewhere. Now, what do we do?
/r/seduction02/09/20 06:52 PM
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Be careful you don't stare at the wrong person though... It can easily escalate into something you didn't expect. (If they were intimidated by you)
/r/seduction01/09/20 11:38 AM
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That's great, and to make it perfect, supplement with a heavy dose of "whatever happens, it's ok", in the back of your mind. You're now invincible.
/r/seduction24/08/20 03:12 AM
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No More Mr. Nice Guy.. (name of the book)
/r/seduction22/08/20 04:19 PM
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This is true, from my experience, There's this girl at work, she's chased by many guys and many flirt with her, but I'm not attracted to her and am very relaxed with her, she's all over me. she told me she's attracted to me. She asked me twice to hang out after work but I made excuses. two days ago she told me she was irritated when I was too busy last week that I couldn't chat with her like I normally would. Cool right? now contrast that with another girl that I want so bad. I hardly get 15 min…
/r/seduction22/08/20 01:03 PM
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The best lessons are those learnt from experience, thanks for sharing the details, that's a lot better than pure theory. I also read NMMNG, that shocked me because it described my attitude and the difficulties I was facing... Unfortunately I learned all this after messing up and losing a girl I have been pursuing for 3 years! Never heard of Models, I'll check it out.
/r/seduction22/08/20 12:44 PM
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