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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 25 | Tips for going to bars alone? | spartan-kick | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 02:31 AM |
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| 1 | What did I do wrong?Bruh this some high school level antics | /r/seduction | 13/05/22 06:45 AM |
| 21 | How often/much do you guys shave your privates?Once a week. It makes it look/feel bigger. | /r/seduction | 09/03/22 03:24 AM |
| 35 | This is crazy but I’m moving out of London to WarsawThat’s it, I’m visiting Poland this summer | /r/seduction | 06/03/22 11:36 AM |
| 2 | I (27M) just read the mind of a chess player girl (23F) and I need a horror movie to watch tomorrowI recommend watching Sinister. It’s not really scary, but it’s super creepy cause it involves kids doing some demonic shit. | /r/seduction | 17/02/22 06:41 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Yes, it will affect your reputation. People will think you’re a cool and friendly guy who is also good with girls. | /r/seduction | 12/02/22 12:12 AM |
| 1 | What am I doing wrong and why can’t I get any girls?Probably engineering or comp sci. It’s not uncommon to have classes with only dudes, especially in some of the upper-year math-heavy courses. Depends on the schools demographic as well. . | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 08:00 AM |
| 7 | No friends No hobbies...helpDon’t focus on dating apps right now. Use the meetup app. Easy way to meet new people, and try out new bars and restaurants. Even if you don’t vibe with people there, going out and interacting with strangers is a really good way to start developing your social skills, or at least get out the house. Seriously, I challenge you to go one weekend without TV or the internet, and get outside. This was my biggest problem when first starting day game. Go outside, and talk to a couple people. Friends are… | /r/seduction | 28/01/22 10:13 AM |
| 1 | I often go too far with romantic/relationship talk too soon and they get overwhelmed. How do I bring them back down to seeing me as chill?Say exactly that. During the first date or when you’re texting beforehand, express you don’t know what you want, but you would like to keep seeing them. Simple answer. If you know you only want to fuck, then don’t do any grand gestures thinking it’s the only way into a girls pants. Tell her straight up that you want to keep things casual (don’t say you want to fuck or hookup cause they will feel like a slut and not want to do it). You also do need to have fun and go out with her a bit. Even if s… | /r/seduction | 23/01/22 04:03 AM |
| 3 | I often go too far with romantic/relationship talk too soon and they get overwhelmed. How do I bring them back down to seeing me as chill?Stop saying/doing things you think they want to hear or have you do. This is the classic “nice guy” tactic. Start saying how you feel, and doing things the way you want. | /r/seduction | 22/01/22 06:38 AM |
| 1 | Good seduction and “game” YouTubers?James Tusk - has really good videos on day game | /r/seduction | 20/01/22 10:50 PM |
| 3 | Women coming to you?Woman don’t really approach. Let’s get that clear. Just go outside, do things you’re interested in, through these interests you’ll meet women who you might have a connection with. Don’t go out and join whatever club because you want to meet women because that’s disingenuous and people can tell. It’s a matter of being at the right place, right time type of thing. | /r/seduction | 20/01/22 08:21 PM |
| 6 | Is this a shit test?Sounds a bit desperate mate. Don’t settle for being plan B. Know your worth, and move on. | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 08:23 AM |
| 1 | When to communicate?You could try, but don’t force it. Definitely hit her up Friday to confirm. | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 04:02 AM |
| 1 | How to get a girl in my room and escalate?I would add, don’t force it. If you like the girl, flirt with her a little by touching her playfully or teasing her verbally. I e heard so many stories from girls about guys trying to put moves on them without there being anything there. | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 03:12 AM |
| 15 | [deleted by user]Make friends first. Approach everyone. Guys and girls. Don’t have any expectations when you do. If you’re not feeling like they’re giving you the same energy, just make an exit out of the conversation and don’t try to get their socials. Just try to be the friendly guy that everyone knows. Not saying everyone will want to be your friend, but who cares. I literally did this a couple weeks ago. There’s this dude who goes to the gym and I kept seeing him there around the same time as I do, and he’s … | /r/seduction | 18/01/22 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Tips for going to bars alone?Good point. Guess I just have to break out of my shell a little. | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Tips for going to bars alone?I’ve never gone to a bar alone. Always with friends. But they seem to be pretty busy these days. | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 05:15 AM |
| 4 | Tips for going to bars alone?Thanks. They make it look so easy and nonchalant on TV haha | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 03:30 AM |
| 7 | Tips for going to bars alone?I’ve barely been alive that long haha | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 03:28 AM |
| 4 | Everything is closed and it's cold. Where tf do I meet women?If you’re in lockdown, there’s not much you can do about it mate other than dating apps. | /r/seduction | 14/01/22 09:18 PM |
| 2 | Reached out to a girl I used to talk to and only were friends with, after few messages she said we should grab a coffee and go for a walk in the park, is this a generic normal meet up or probably something ‘deeper’?Could be generic, hard to tell. But make your intentions clear. The day before or the day of, ask her if she is still ready for the coffee date. That way she knows you think of it as a date and not a couple of friends hanging out, and if she has any objections she can make it clear. Or you could just straight ask her if she thinks of this as a date. Asking her directly will be embarrassing if she says no, but you just gotta handle it with poise. | /r/seduction | 14/01/22 07:50 PM |
| 2 | Need some support to uplift my spirits boisIt’s rough out there man, I won’t lie to you. It’s a numbers game, so you will get rejected plenty. Some of it might not even be your fault, and that’s okay. Don’t get too hung up on it. Surround yourself with good friends and family. And start occupying your free time with hobbies you look forward to, that even if 100 girls rejected it doesn’t matter cause you’re too busy enjoying life. | /r/seduction | 13/01/22 06:41 AM |
| 6 | [deleted by user]No. You’ve already asked twice. If I were you, I wouldn’t have even asked the 2nd time. If she really wanted to see you, she would have picked an alternate date. Either way, move on. | /r/seduction | 10/01/22 11:53 PM |
| 4 | How to reply to corny message ?This is the one | /r/seduction | 09/01/22 02:18 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]If you’re only looking for one night stands then don’t meet the girl. If you’re an easy-going kinda guy and don’t mind expanding your social network (even if she doesn’t want a hookup), then I would meet with an open mind. But I would still test the waters by flirting, touching, teasing to see if she’s really into you or just wants attention. | /r/seduction | 03/01/22 07:06 AM |
| 2 | How often do ur Tinder dates get canceled?What used to work for me was asking them to meet up the same day. Usually, I would hit them up and ask if they wanted to go for ice cream after work. It shows you’re spontaneous, and know what you want. If it doesn’t work and they don’t want to reschedule, I would drop them and move on. | /r/seduction | 02/01/22 03:27 AM |
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