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Was on a date last Thursday and similarly to you I have been on only a few in the last few months since I got out of a 4 year relationship. I made out with her three times. The first question is when you originally got her number did you kiss her? If so then don't think about it too much you can do it again whenever, if not keep reading. I don't recommend kissing her at the lounge your goal there is to make sure you two sit close enough that you can have easy access to touching her arm, hand, th…
/r/seduction04/06/13 07:50 AM
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After opening if the conversation gets to a point where it is starting to die. One question I always have in my back pocket is "What are you passionate about?". Majority of the time the girl will start listing off things, then you just pick one you find interesting and steer conversation to discussing that passion of hers. This is a very authentic, rapport building conversation especially since I'm genuinely interested in her response. For the shy girls that have trouble answering, first off thi…
/r/seduction28/05/13 01:52 AM
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Nice is fine, not being assertive is what is unhealthy. Is it really that women are not appreciating who you are or is it that you are not making the true who you are available to them. I use to blame the "nice guy" thing, but one night I realized that every time I was at home angry I could point back to a moment I wasn't assertive. Next time you are hating on yourself for being nice, I challenge you to find the time early that day when you weren't assertive(not approaching a girl because she lo…
/r/seduction04/05/13 07:40 AM
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Good looking out with the positive comments. I don't like to share routines and openers until I have given them multiple field tests, but I will make sure to keep posting them. I'm constantly writing up new ones, it is FUN.
/r/seduction28/09/12 02:40 AM
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The time window for the most alpha thing possible has passed. ideally you would have sensed(2 years of talking....) that the relationship was moving to friend zone so you would have played the card first and told her first you just want to be friends(even though you don't). Then she would be the one all mindfucked on seddit trying to figure out why your not attracted. Anyways similar to what Dahka said I think you got two options. Tell her cool she makes an awesome friend. Continue to kick it, b…
/r/seduction26/09/12 05:22 AM
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I don't specialize in cougars, but my buddy does and recently I asked him about it, he is 25 years old if that helps. He gave me the following tips for bagging a cougar: 1. Go out early, cougars get grouchy by 11pm. You should be closing before 10pm. 2. Direct openers work a lot better than indirect, I hear him call older women beautiful fairly early in the conversation. To me I think it is a mistake, but he is really damn successful, so i can't hate. 3. Make them feel young. Example: I was tell…
/r/seduction15/09/12 07:12 AM
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That sucks that you had to go through that. I have a challenge for you..... Clear you mind and imagine yourself 5 months ago a few seconds before you first went on Seddit. When you were sitting in front of your computer screen about to click on the mouse......... What were you thinking, what were you looking for? What was your goal!?! You need to remember the goal or you won't be happy. We use this site for many reasons, what was yours. Last you stated: I got a little soft and started to fall fo…
/r/seduction04/09/12 06:32 AM
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I like how nopfapfiend advised to get the girl back involved. Try this one out: Turn to the girl and be like (C&F tone) Wow I know what is wrong here you didn't introduce me to your....(pause, eyebrow lift) friend here. What is up with that you are a terrible host.(sly smile) You should have her laughing by this point and she will introduce you. Thus you are in the group.
/r/seduction03/09/12 08:43 PM
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Money holds a lot of power with people...... me included. To get over approach anxiety I would go with my homie to an outdoor mall. The second I got out of the car I handed him 10 dollars. Then I said if I don't approach 10 women you get to keep my 10 dollars. I'm proud to say I have always got the 10 dollars back. Also in the beginning write a simple script for your conversations, because if a girl rejects she is rejecting your script not you. Here is a script that has been field tested: Opener…
/r/seduction03/09/12 09:00 AM
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