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Well, are we only discussing white women's preferences here? Because the other commenters below are talking about all women in general. And damn, anything bigger than 7 is huge imo. But then again, maybe it's white women's anatomy that makes them want big.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 06:01 PM
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Lol, you have thought about it more than I have. I think hot is the inherent appeal of a person, in a way. And sexy is attributed to their actions and movements. For instance, if a crush of mine can speak Spanish, it makes him even sexier. Not sure what you mean by masculine man, as I don't buy into the dichotomy of alpha/beta, but, I will tell you that if I find a guy to be physically attractive and he is doing something sweet, I get more attracted to them. It's...hot? It's an inherent quality.…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 05:13 PM
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Wait, how are hot and sexy different, to you? Anything that turns me on is hot/sexy. Like a guy helping an old lady cross the street. :/
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 04:44 PM
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How does it make perfect sense? I think a guy can become hot via his actions. If a guy does something I can't do i.e. lifts a really heavy weight or teaches me a completely new scientific concept, for example (I am a STEM person), I think it's fucking hot/sexy. Or if he is able to have a conversation with me on some professional topic (in the office, for example) and treats me as an equal, we can have a productive and stimulating conversation from which both parties take away new things, it turn…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 09:26 AM
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Waht ?:O Anime conventions are sacred places for fun :/
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 06:24 PM
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Wasn't sure..
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/17 08:29 PM
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So? She provides him with comfort, love and respect especially when he is jobless, penniless and a total goof socially. She take care of him and loves him dearly. The comfort provided by him is very much reciprocated.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/17 07:20 PM
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LOL! Chandler is a beta bux? If I recall, Monica has a stable chef career while, for some part of his life, Chandler has no job and reboots his marketing career. He is even jobless for majority of the show. But ofcourse, you would ignore that fact. Also fact, Monica dumped Richard- not the other way around. He wanted her and even desired her when she got with Chandler.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/17 10:46 AM
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What can I say? I aim to please.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/17 03:08 PM
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I mean that we do our partners because we enjoy giving pleasure to them. Why else would you want to bang?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 08:56 AM
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She isn't that attracted to him so she expects something in return for the sex she gave to him, If she has sex with a guy, she is not attracted to him? That is a weird conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 08:54 AM
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Yeah, that's pretty mean. I would have stood up to those chicks if I was there. That is not justified if he is not a horrible guy....
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/17 04:47 PM
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Ok, not verbatim. So you are paraphrasing, Got it. I wouldn't use that kind of extreme language unless a guy was literally using me like a fuck toy or using me in some horrible way. So in certain situations, it could make sense. Edit: If you didn't deserve it, it is quite messed up of them. Lol at your blue comment. I am a human with my own beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/17 04:40 PM
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RP says not to value women for love (women are disloyal and hypergamous, women aren't capable of love except for their children), not to value them as friends (don't be a beta white knight friend zone cuck, next her if she doesn't put out right away), not to value women's minds or opinions (women don't know what they want, don't listen to their opinions or anything they say, women are irrational and inconsistent), until the only thing left to value is our "warm, moist holes". I've seen "women ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/17 04:37 PM
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What? They used that language verbatim? Who?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/17 04:35 PM
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completely twisted them around He literally copied what the guy had typed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/17 04:33 PM
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Because if you're a man and you're complaining about this, you're a worthless fuck and you deserve less than nothing, and you deserve to be abused and fucked over and shafted. Wow, like no one ever said anything that extreme. Why is everything so black and white / extreme with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/17 04:29 PM
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Hello? Why else are we doing it?!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/17 07:22 AM
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Yes it is. I was only making a joke but you gave a thoughtful response. You definitely are a romantic. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 02:13 PM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 12:22 PM
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What do you mean you like to get to know people before getting nekky? In my imagination land, people just have sex telepathically, without any physical contact. No need for silly get-to-know-me games. I dare you to CMV!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 07:22 PM
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Mansenthisownway asked you: Can you imagine dating a cute and wholesome looking girl and therefore being much slower in escalating into a physical relationship than with a more sexually charged individual? You said this to the comment about waiting for sex: Nope. It's only about the strength of desire. If a girl desires someone, she'd let him know. She won't be playing these stupid games. And thank god I don't know you personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/17 06:16 PM
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Nope. It's only about the strength of desire. If a girl desires someone, she'd let him know. She won't be playing these stupid games. LOL, have you ever met any real women? Women don't always act as the aggressor, if at all. The men take the initiative and women respond if they like them or not. These are not games. It is called natural progression of things. Y'all have been so brainwashed by porn and all the modern stuff thtat you think every woman should instantly be initiating sex with you if…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/17 10:47 AM
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As soon as a woman touches a chad she's ruined for every other guy, and she's ruined for life. Since most women are already getting fucked at the age of 15 by a Chad, they're all rotten apples. Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/17 10:37 AM
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The basis of your argument is a strawman that claims women don't freak out with their husbands. Oh, I think they do. Lol. And sorry if your wife doesn't :/ Edit: It is kind of hard to hide your true self from someone you married. You share the same space and your true layers eventually show. Again, your assumption that all women do it. This is why I think PPD is so pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/17 04:07 PM
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TIL drunken, meaningless and often forgotten sex that drunk people have is emotional intimacy and true love.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/17 04:02 PM
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Lulz. Genius.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/17 03:58 PM
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It's more of a Venn diagram than mutually exclusive pools. Seriously marry me right now, you sexy mathematician, you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/17 03:56 PM
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Yeah, sorry about that. It is late here. lol. He loves the money. It's simple. He feels gross doing it to himself but he enjoys the attention too. I can't understand the dude. He tells me he has insecurity issues, etc. OK, I get that part but like, if he really did, he would feel bad about selling himself?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/17 09:21 PM
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I literally have a Gay best friend who has men pay for his trips to Europe, Africa and whatnot. It is a bit gross. Even if the genders are reversed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/17 08:26 PM
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If haven't met the right guy, can go on for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/17 05:54 PM
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There aren't single women. If a woman is single its because there's something seriously mentally wrong with her And here I thought we were actually getting along. I am single. Does that mean I am mentally ill? That's harsh dude. I know you hate some chicks for being height-obsessed but this is a cruel generalisation and you know it! Also, where do you live? I am sure you can find one single chick where you live. I am not in the USA now- NYC sucks for women. Enough said. No! My last hook-ups have…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/17 06:10 PM
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but that's it, its online. Well, you can increase your chances of meeting cooler chicks if you go out more. You got to sort through garbage to get to gold in life. It happens in almost every sphere of life. It takes perseverance. Be honest: Do you only chase tall chicks? A lot of guys chase after tall chicks and then complain they are single! I am single too but due to not meeting a guy who cares enough to understand my problem (I have a chronic illness). But what can we do? Only step out in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/17 05:42 PM
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Maybe OP should try for shorter girls? Well, if he is chasing after leggy girls(as most men do), he has no right to complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/17 10:30 AM
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That is just ridiculous. I am 5ft 3 myself and find it inconvenient to date ridiculously tall guys. Do you even know any real women or do you just chase after height-ist girls? EDIT: lol at your attempt at bizarre though. Mexican soap operas? Hahah
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/17 09:05 PM
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I prefer guys to be no taller than 5 ft 10. So please stop generalizing our preferences and look around for more of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/17 08:03 PM
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Did anyone call you autistic? What do you mean by my kind? Oh, and how does it feel to be a cheating cunt?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 05:19 PM
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But what about your wife or girlfriend? Or boyfriend...if you're into that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 05:11 PM
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Aww thanks for your meaningless concern for my babies, which is mostly an insult. Gosh, I can only hope they turn out to be as delightful as you. :-)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 05:08 PM
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Lol, OP is a human being entitled to his opinions. Not some exclusive cult follower with a "BP or TRP- choose one" mentality. God, you guys crack me up! Just for the record, his posts are hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 05:03 PM
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My wife and I just had a kid four months ago, and she's only having sex with me twice a week. Yesterday evening I suggested having sex and she said she was exhausted. So I stormed out of the house in a hissy-fit and shut off my phone and forwarded my mail to a different address and legally changed my name to Chadwick Thunderlobes. Is this enough Dread Game so she'll have sex with me more frequently? Rookie mistake. He should have changed his name to Channing Tatum. That would fix everything
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 04:53 PM
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Agreed, I tried to write more satire on TBP but I can't do it these days. I want other people to write some so I can sit back and make funny comments! There was some pure gold on TBP in the past when people took time out to write hilarious posts. I wish someone would. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 04:40 PM
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How do you define traditional?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 06:14 PM
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So, it's OK if you don't want to try new things: A virgin girl is like a clean slate, she doesn't have kinks and a defined sexual appetite, as she hasn't tried that stuff in the past, so she wont try to make you do stuff you don't like. But if a woman doesn't want to try new things, it is a problem: A woman who's had a lot of sex probably has already set in her mind what kind of sex and positions she likes best. She knows what she likes and she likes to try that. If you want to try something els…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 06:04 PM
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No worries. I need to get better with my expression as well. I am urging the victims to stand up and walk out the door,which is easier said than done. It's not about consenting as much as tolerating - if that makes sense. Although to be fair, while you're in the abusive state, your discerning abilities are rather diminished due to the constant gaslighting and guilt trips.
/r/ExRedPill06/03/17 06:43 PM
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You're a piece of shit.
/r/askTRP01/03/17 03:45 PM
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marry me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/17 06:31 PM
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Porn is a lie. It is giving women the illusion that they are desirable to men and that men want to dominate them in the deepest ways when in reality, all men are just waiting for Chad Michael Murray.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 11:08 PM
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Every woman has low self-esteem. Even the hot ones. Especially the hottest ones because their looks make them a target for fucbois, which result in them being pumped and dumped dozens of times by dozens of times. This is bollocks. Hot women who have been tricked by fbois are more likely to be cautious. Some may develop trust issues because of that. A different thing than insecurity. Or, as I prefer to see it, they fuck the fuckbois out of their own desire know what sort of guy those guys are and…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 11:03 PM
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Woah. This is one of the wisest things I have read on PPD. Well done, sir/ma'am.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 10:51 PM
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In this scenario, she was being over the top with the ketchup. Just get up and use it. Don't ask for her permission for your taste buds. TC.
/r/askMRP12/01/17 06:40 AM
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This is where I don't think it's right. He said that she didn't want to go all the way and he started fingering her and escalating anyway. I think that's borderline and desperate.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 06:07 PM
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Rape = random guy dragging someone into a dark alley and force fucking him / her, usually with severe injuries. Holy shit. You are a fucking extremist.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 12:46 PM
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Then how do you explain ASD theory and pushing through LMR? A guy posted here recently about how he kept going when a girl said no to PIV and after a thousand No s, she gave in(who knows why- she may as well have been fearing her well being). His justification was that she said yes after 10000 nos. That particular scenario was pretty fucking rapey and the comments didn't call him out on anything.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 12:44 PM
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You and your wife both sound annoying as hell. You both make a big deal out of condiments and ketchup. God bless you. edit: no. it doesn't have anything to do with looks. You both have poor dynamics and give importance to trivial things.
/r/askMRP11/01/17 12:08 PM
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She is so getting validation from you, it is hilarious. Keep boosting her ego brah.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/17 11:59 AM
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But if you contribute NOTHING of importance, then i won't waste my time paying you with conversation, attention Reading your posts, I would kill myself if you tried to "make conversation" with me. You are sure as hell not "paying" anyone with your convos and attention. NEXT!!!!!!!
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/17 09:47 AM
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You treated her like shit. She cheated out of frustration and you finally have a reason to justify your shitty behaviour. Ofcourse you find it funny- this gave you a scapegoat to justify your dick behaviour. You don't own your behaviour at all and call the chick crazy.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/17 10:55 AM
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U mad brah?
/r/MGTOW28/12/16 12:05 PM
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Bro, the eye contact thing is so overplayed. People stare at people when I space out and look away when they catch me. So if every guy here thinks that every girl who makes eye contact and looks away is into them, I don't even know what to say, except stop reading books on attraction.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/16 08:47 AM
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Lol. I really hope some dude gives you anal while you are screaming no no no ;) I know you will have sweet dreams about this since you brag about doing it in the anus a lot. ;)
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 04:33 PM
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Fishing for compliments? She is just wondering whether you like her or not. Jesus man. "I like your shirt" is the lamest reason to give. Come on.
/r/askTRP25/12/16 07:52 PM
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It is not shocking. Obviously if a woman fancies a guy, likes his personality, is emotionally into him, she will feel freakier with him than some rando she met for a ONS. This is no rocket science. It's basic logic.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 11:33 AM
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Good for you brah?
/r/askMRP20/12/16 03:11 PM
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LOL, yes, he should drive her to divorce with stfu and lifting. Idiot.
/r/askMRP20/12/16 10:27 AM
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The only alternative is talking, which is tedious and inefficient Grow a pair and talk to her. Be a real man. This is not time for lifting ffs.
/r/askMRP19/12/16 10:17 AM
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Ok, so he is some douche doing a social experiment on these chicks. LOL. Gotcha. Carry on.
/r/MGTOW18/12/16 09:13 PM
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Which college did you go to?
/r/TheRedPill18/12/16 07:07 PM
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He said he forgot to wish her entirely. You wish people you are not even having sex with. People forget birthdays. It happens. But to make her apologise is kind of immature.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/16 07:27 AM
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No mention of how long he knew her. she probably has 12 other guys she is currently banging show she all demands make a big deal out of her stupid birthday. Assumptions. Assumptions. she is practically still a fucking stranger to him. They are having sex. They are not strangers. What tf is wrong with our generation? You just fuck people and don't give a shit about humanity? WOW. Wishing someone happy birthday isn't going above and beyond. It is basic decency that this guy lacks. I have no intere…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/16 07:22 AM
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You know what gets me Ray? OP's actions will have serious impact on this woman. She will suffer damage to her self esteem just because this little punk here wants revenge on girls. 19 y/old girls have wronged him. They are as immature or naive as OP so why should I cut him slack just because he happens to be a male? This post really disgusted me.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/16 08:31 PM
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Not everything in life is a binary situation, 1 or 0, true or false. Treating someone right does not equate to putting them on a pedestal. There is a middle ground between pedestalizing and acting like a selfish bastard. You may have seen results because you stopped pedestalizing. But no one should be pedestalised or abused, IMO.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/16 06:24 PM
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Feelings of anxiety and panic are different than feelings of love. Get your facts right. I would love to see this fucking research btw. Please do share this article you are referencing here.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/16 05:54 PM
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You can be a better man without being a 'doormat'. Seriously how insecure are the guys on this sub for real? No one can make you feel emasculated without your permission. Taking advantage of a decent woman to feel powerful is so pathetic, I would laugh my ass off at OP if he was bragging to me in person about this. What a piece of shit.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/16 05:53 PM
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You're 19 and you think 'girls fucked you up?' You can't even buy a drink in my country. Also, this field report is so shitty, it makes me want to laugh at you. You are bragging about mentally abusing a girl who: 1)Was completely honest with you about desiring and wanting love. 2)Didn't treat you bad but you still think it's OK to take revenge on other women by treating this one like garbage. 3) Tries her best to please you. And you're making her work for affection even when she has not harmed y…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/16 05:41 PM
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He did not own his actions. He simply refused to acknowledge them and guilt tripped her for speaking up. I don't understand why pussy behavior is rewarded on TRP. OP needs to grow up. I don't give a shit if this gets downvoted. Edit: Forgetting someone's birthday is shitty.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 10:52 AM
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And you would know because you have one?
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 10:46 AM
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You've told her verbatim that you are having sex with other chicks?
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 08:37 AM
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So she loves you and you are cheating on her? I don't get what is so hot about that.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/16 04:26 PM
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Exactly, friends don't pay for each other all the time. But I do pay for friends occasionally. It's not a big deal. However, if you are paying all the time, there is a problem. Been there with my guy friends as well.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/16 10:57 AM
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Absolutely sarcastic. You are convinced that women like those kids; it's college- people are superficial and horny. Everyone is having fun at uni. Women certainly don't idolize these frat-steroid-pledgebois like some TRP dudes are convinced. I have seen regular (even 'ugly') guys have sex all the time. Perhaps you are too picky and aiming for women that are really attractive. It's the same thing they are doing. It's called competition.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 03:35 PM
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No kidding. They think every man who has a female friend must want to bed her secretly and whine about how it is unfair. b....but real life is like porn and every female in my life didn't touch my peepee! Boo Hoo.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 12:03 PM
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Well, not every man who is friends with a chick wants to have sex with her secretly. If you're lurking there because you want to be with her, that is just deceptive and self sabotaging. I don't understand the guys who stick around for sex when women rejected them and complain about it. So whiny and dumb. Move on. And yes, no one should laugh at a friend.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 11:59 AM
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One can be a good guy without being a doormat. Nuance is key. This is something else- being a nice guy doesn't mean having zero self respect. He probably feels lonely and needs friends but he needs to stay away from toxic people like her.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 11:48 AM
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Probably the best advice on this thread. Kudos.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 11:38 AM
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The guy has no self esteem, period. Typical victim behaviour. I forgave her because I'm a nice guy who likes her. Besides, why would he befriend shitty people is beyond me. You reap what you sow. Befriend someone with a bad character, you get a friend with a bad character.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 11:37 AM
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How can anyone "use" you as an orbiter without your permission? This is what I don't get about majority of the posts on here. No one can make you do anything unless you play along- willingly or reluctantly. Some women might take advantage of the fact that you like them but is it really their fault that you stuck around? Secondly, many of women I know have been strung along by men- they have been the orbiters, if you will and I don't see it as any different. It is awful for anyone to stick around…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 11:31 AM
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Yes, indeed frat boys are the cream of the crop. With their aimless partying to raise funds for charity and getting girls wasted to fuck them. They are truly classy individuals and I can only dream to be a man of their league. Then college girls will want me. :(
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 08:54 AM
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Yes, your wife really wants you.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/16 06:41 AM
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but would've cut contact afterwards I agree with this. Not sure why she is still responding to this dude. But if she doesn't, she might feel like he was just using her. Anyway, back to the basics. People own their behaviour. She owns her actions and this guy owns his. I do not agree with the comments here that are supporting him. Simply because they are coddling his feelings and trying to make him feel better. He did something selfish, he should own it- not come here for solace or reassurance th…
/r/askTRP06/12/16 02:57 PM
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I don't care what she could've done. He didn't share the details of the emergency anyway. I am being real with him. Giving someone ride in an emergency is not exploitation of his resources- he could have said no easily. It was low of him to exploit her situation. Not cool.
/r/askTRP06/12/16 07:59 AM
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What a pitiful move to coerce someone into sex.
/r/askTRP04/12/16 09:43 AM
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You sound extremely paranoid.
/r/askMRP19/11/16 09:14 PM
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Sounds like you don't give a crap about them when they talk to you. Why are you surprised that she is moving onto a guy who listens? You clearly lack in that trait.
/r/askTRP18/11/16 07:54 PM
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..And I am mad that I have to be mad about stuff. Why can't I get a surrogate
/r/TheRedPill18/11/16 09:30 AM
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I prefer quality over rank quantity.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 09:26 AM
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Try not to be a jerk to people who don't share similar interests. If you can't stand them, avoid. If you can't avoid, smile and keep the convo brief. There are many other people who love to read and have niche interests. I am one of them and find it hard to engage in small talk. I just smile, say hello, walk away or just listen if I don't have anything to contribute. That is life.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 02:55 PM
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Could be or, he doesn't come across as emotionally available.Quite possible if he is holding onto his uber macho frame facade I think. Women want to settle down with a guy who genuinely cares about them at the end of the day. A guy whose behaviour non verbally conveys to them that he will never be the source of emotional support that she wants in the time of need, he will not be the one.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 07:45 AM
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Did you even read my comment on your thread? Clearly you were only there to pick a fight. Sorry but not everyone stands for what one or two racist commenters happen to be there. And you should know that. You called someone a feminazi and that made me feel shitty for actually apologizing as well. Peace out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/16 03:05 PM
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