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Hence the post major setback and the I fucked up. I know I realize I was operating from her frame Just wondering if I can recover from it. I feel I went back a year!
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/16 05:28 AM
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That thought has crossed my mind. I would be better off without her, but I need to try for the kids she still is the mother of my children.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/16 09:34 PM
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See I never had an issue with sex with her. It was always there, my issue with her is the anger and control she wants to exert.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/16 09:32 PM
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I think there is something seriously wrong with her. I recently lost my dad and even in the middle of the worst days of my life she was seeking attention and showing me attitude over small things like. You didn't ask how I was feeling, you don't care about me etc. It is more intense once a month but I think she may have bpd. Man I a. Pissed at myself because I know the answer and the mistake i made.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/16 09:24 PM
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The elephant in the room is she cheated so she thinks I will too. She is a control freak needs to be the center of attention. Basically wants to wear the pants in the family. I am not playing and have been taking back control and working on my self and ignoring her shit. So she was offended that my cousin created a group without her. Her reasoning what are we talking about that she cannot be a part of, you don't make me feel part of the family etc.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/16 09:19 PM
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That's cause I am too alpha to seek help. I do shit and not talk about hence the one post. Dude I have been married for 15 years with crazy. I think even after a year I am not over the shit I have been through. No I haven't had a main event. I play soccer in the winter softball in the summer. I have an awesome job and have reconnected with a lot of friends. I went on a Vegas trip with boys beginning of the year. I recently lost my dad and let me tell you that does a number on you. As I said I fe…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/16 09:16 PM
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Thanks for the response. I was thinking of involving her family and just going nuclear. Maybe ignoring is the better option. I have not had a main event yet. My smv is high and she knows I am a catch because she discussed exactly that with her friend
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/16 09:09 PM
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Yes I know there is a problem. I think she needs professional help on that front. She takes offence at the smallest thing and then expects validation from me. There has been talk about suicide and cutting herself. I see through the BS now but my kryptonite are my kids and she knows it.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/16 09:05 PM
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But you said "No". Does she know she is supposed to ask again? Were you clear on what you wanted or are you acting like a woman?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/15 01:06 PM
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When did you find out?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/15 01:04 PM
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