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If I may, dude here. First off, confronting him over the 4 accounts will not go well. He’ll either get defensive about it or lie that there aren’t more (if he follows 4 publicly, there’s a chance there’s more). Second, it could be harmless and just his way of consuming porn. If that makes you uncomfortable you don’t have to stick around but that’s up to you and your preference (there are some who don’t watch porn at all and still get women). Third, if you are gonna bring it up, be tactful and do…
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/22 04:34 AM
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Bingo. Time and place. I have several intelligent ladies in my life. They don’t try to throw it in your face, or offer an opinion when they truly have none. Timing is key as this poster stated!
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/21 02:47 AM
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It’s not that we wouldn’t seek them necessarily. It’s that once you make x amount of dollars as a lady, I feel certain suitors are no longer acceptable. It’s old order trad thinking yes, but that’s what we want here right? 1) Women generally don’t want to put earn their men as we are supposed to protect and provide. 2) Men, especially one who is HV likely won’t be out earned. But say he makes 200k, a partner who makes 250k may be out of the question.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/21 09:32 AM
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That’s okay, you have time yet. If you settle down a little later it’s no big deal. The main things for attracting a HMV are simple things. Cook, clean, cute, and be a pleasure to be around with your feminine grace. We are simple creatures and don’t ask for too much. But apparently asking for some traditional things is seen as misogynistic, it’s why most guys will lie to you in real life. I am not gonna sugarcoat anything on this sub. Hopefully that helps a bit.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/21 02:08 AM
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The thought of marriage will arise by 6mo most probably for both anyhow. She has to bring it up though. Agreed if he does, he won’t jeopardize it. If he doesn’t, you save yourself time OP. Well said DR
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/21 08:29 PM
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Simply put, it’s sooner than later. You can attract more men now than you will at 28, and more men at 28, then you will at 32 (the type you want anyways). Unless you are pursuing a demanding career, I think the best time for women to settle down is 23-28.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/21 06:15 PM
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I agree with dr_hesp for the most part. You have a few years left in your prime at best. But I disagree with the proposal at 7-9mo mark. A HMV won’t propose that quick. In fact you may have just secured the relationship at that point. 1.5-2 yrs you may get one, but you should have had some talk about it before then (only if you bring it up) because he won’t (simple because he can afford to wait).
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/21 06:13 PM
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Well to be frank I don’t get off on dominance, I just know it’s a must for the yin-yang of a relationship. It’s fun kind of, but also taxing in some ways. But a girls submission to me is absolutely heart melting. I love when they look at me with those “what are we doing for fun next eyes”. I love the feminine grace when they smile at me and act like a small child (in the sense of leadership and in no other way). It makes me feel smart, strong, and capable of helping someone a lot, even though I …
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/21 05:16 PM
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How old are you street racer? Btw a way you can get by being dominate but still being submissive with eating is ask her : “guess where I’m taking you?”, and when she does, take her there. Boom dominance in tact and also she’s happy. But truth be told in my experience they don’t care usually, because it’s based on their emotions and how they feel. So the answer changes a lot. Pick a place you like and she will likely be very happy with it.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/21 05:10 PM
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First off great post! Another male perspective here. RPer for a while. Being watching, reading, consuming multiple angles for some time. I’ll try be concise, but a lot to cover. First you are absolutely correct about the clickbait/outrage of some of their stuff, but that’s the culture we have created with Twitter/FB/social media. Outrage gets attention. But however, they do offer solutions, it’s just they are quite nuanced and I think hard to pick up on (like you said if they gave them out, nobo…
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/21 05:07 PM
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Major hamster wheel OP, you need a break.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/21 05:30 AM
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I got many while working out too, dw it’s normal and a part of life. Perhaps try the pregnant cream stretch marks? It helped me a lot and secret tip (it’s not only for pregnant ppl) I believe it’s Vitamin E mainly that does the trick. Again, don’t fret!
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/21 07:07 PM
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Well articulated, I couldn’t agree more. So long as some of us reject this simp/OF culture, we be alright. And I hope/sometimes pray that there will become more of us than them. In the very least those BPers will see us living a life of joy, love, and fulfillment and wonder how we did it whilst going against the norm/culture. Again very well put, I hope my thoughts made sense too.
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/21 07:05 PM
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It isn’t feminism that causes the problem for us. It’s the culture. Everything is beta-tized/BP. And too many are plugged in. I agree simps gonna simp. It’s just a sad sight for me (as a male) to see my fellow counterparts screw themselves in so many different ways, when the 🚩is clearly visible. But only to us RPers. Truth be told 80% of girls/guys are plugged in and it’s sad too. Causes dating issues for those that want to live traditionally. It is what it is though, I have unplugged and naviga…
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/21 06:55 PM
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Sure, it’s a filter. What frustrates me is my sex is beyond dumb at the sexual market place, and they are getting raked over the coals daily. It won’t be me, but it’s sad to see. And it has effected my true friends too now, it’s really just sad to see for me.
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/21 05:36 PM
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Exactly. I’m not saying don’t be educated, or provide for yourself. And yes it is a broad stroke, but we are generalizing here on a balance of probabilities. And if you are RP you inherently understand that the dynamic that functions well is the man is the provider, and the women is the care taker. Not saying it’s 100/0 for both. But the ratio should be proportionate. As the poster after you stated, the burden of performance is squarely on men, and IF they are paying for everything, there should…
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/21 11:53 PM
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“wHeRe AlL tHe GoOd MeN gO?”
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/21 06:31 PM
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Stay at home mom/mothers. Even sadder is when I talk to most women, they actually deep down want that. When I ask why they don’t pursue it? Because I’ve been told by my family, friends, and who ever else, that pursuing a career is better for me. Sure, it can be. But if deep down that’s what you want? Women are being pushed away from pursuing a great thing, for potentially a great thing. Been told they can have there cake and eat it too. I vehemently disagree, and it’s one of the sickest lies fem…
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/21 05:19 PM
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That’s nuts, but true. Feminism has taught women not to do a whole lot, but also demand a whole lot. That’s not 50/50 at all, and it’s not harmonious with our nature. If I’m bringing the bacon, you cook it so to speak and literally. That’s the rub. I want a provider, yet provide not much. So infuriating to see that be the prevailing logic today.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/21 05:13 PM
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This right here. They don’t want to look inwards and fight the culture that taught them being a strong independent women is correct. They’ve also been taught I believe, to look down on SAHMs and not to do anything for men. It’s really sad because we are the yin-yang balance that masculine and feminine energy needs. You can’t have a masculine female and masculine man. And when you get the opposites, it’s a recipe for a disaster imo. God made us the way we are, and I think for good reason. We are …
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/21 05:08 PM
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Somebody who respects herself, and her body. Somebody who holds herself accountable for her actions. Somebody who doesn’t need a handout. Somebody who will cook and clean and be submissive to the right man. Somebody who brings value to a mans life and doesn’t nag or detract from his life. Somebody who understands that men and women are different, aren’t made equal, and respects that. There are a few more points, but those are more controversial. In essence though, somebody who is fit, feminine, …
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/21 09:46 PM
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I must have. No, definitely not saying that. That’s wildly incorrect. I maintained there should be no pressure of sex. It’s wrong and coercion.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/21 05:10 PM
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For males or females?
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/21 05:09 PM
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Well the comment changed now. And the way it is now, yes I 100% agree. There should be no pressure for sure, I said that too.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/21 05:25 AM
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That’s fair and all, but that seems not based in reality. RP cuts through the bs. And generally speaking, we want sex #1. And you guys generally want security. We generally won’t date someone who doesn’t put out (unless she’s super worth waiting for, which I assure you any HMV has options and won’t wait) And vice-versa generally you aren’t gonna date a man who is his parents basements (unless he’s super worth it and shows massive potential. Also if you are high value yourself, you would want som…
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/21 05:19 AM
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Exactly. You are never done learning. It’s very childish to say you learned it all. Even experts in their own fields use statements such as “I believe” “As far as I know..” Trust me you haven’t learnt it all. Don’t take that mindset into it. You can surely learn more, whatever that small thing is.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/21 05:11 AM
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You should respect it for sure. But the statements about being a “worthy” man and a “manly” man are wild statements to make. Because in essence you are saying if they love sex or want to see how that goes first, they aren’t manly. I could flip the script in many ways here, and I am sure you would not appreciate it.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/21 05:07 AM
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You sound most reasonable in your post. I wouldn’t say it’s demanding at all. It seems that you have different priorities at the moment, and that resentful feeling can build especially if you want to be on the same timeline for life and daily life. Overall, you gotta be happy with it through and through. If not, it’s probably not worth the headaches I’d say. You are definitely not being crazy, I know crazy and this ask is reasonable for sure.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/21 09:05 PM
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Read the thread ffs. I’m not making shit up.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/21 03:35 PM
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“Similar/higher class structure, higher salary than me. I don’t look at porn (maybe once in 6 months and I’m grossed out with what’s out there every time) or have any addictions.” And she mentioned it twice more. Literally said so herself! I’m not making anything up here.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/21 03:35 PM
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Are you listening to yourself? It’s what I said. Attraction is different. I’m not telling you what to like. I’m telling you what you will come across. Good fucking luck. You are so thick in your skull, holy shit.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/21 02:45 PM
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It’s really shitty situation. Next time, just know within a year he pretty much should say it, unless he had a huge bunch of problems getting love from some important source in life (ie therapy issues). Knowing that, should help avoid this. Again, very sorry to hear this.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/21 02:41 PM
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That’s fine, do you. I ain’t whining. I fuck. I made it to the top 20% because I realized the game. I’m headed for the top 10%, then the top 5%. I’ll never stop. Don’t you worry. My options are becoming endless. I age like fine wine. No complaints here. My fellow man is fucked, but that’s their problem. I do wish you the best and hope you truly find what you want. Don’t settle! Gl.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/21 02:39 PM
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And they were what then? 16-17? That’s puppy love. It ain’t real. It feels real. Until you love someone deeper later in life, then you realize oh that wasn’t love, I just thought I was in love.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/21 08:35 AM
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Not unemotional, we have emotions. We just generally don’t share them with y’all. The ones that do, either are weak, or they don’t have strong guy friends to bounce it off. We absolutely share our emotions, feel every emotion, it’s just that we don’t show you that. We are proud of being stoic, and a lady’s rock. To summarize, we have em, just don’t show you ladies often, for obvious reasons.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/21 08:34 AM
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How old are you? Seriously. Cause that doesn’t sound like anybody who is older than 20. We know what love is. We are capable of it. We are just scared of the commitment and the fact that this girl I started dating at 18 may be the last girl I sleep with. It’s the commitment, not the love. Jesus other poster was right, you need better male friends. Either that or they are saying that you, so they can sleep with you with no recourse
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/21 08:32 AM
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That’s messed up. And now he broke up with you, and also doesn’t want you to be with others? That’s beyond fucked up. If he never told you he loved you, move on. We know within a year if we do hands down. Also not sure what you need clarity with. Seems like you have the answer you seek.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/21 05:52 AM
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Maybe, just maybe, his reasoning is an excuse. Tbh my first had one more partner than me, and it bugged me. If he continually brought it up (I didn’t but it ate away at me), his ego was possibly bruised? It’s possible. I doubt he didn’t love you. As men we want to have sex a lot, and perhaps knowing you’d always have one more partner ate away at him. If so, it’s a massive ego thing and nothing else. That’s what I glean from this, but I also am using my personal experience. It’s easier to say som…
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/21 05:42 AM
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Bang on right here. It’s not the degree that matters, it’s the ability to have an intelligent conversation. Which can be achieved w/o a degree. But as poster states, bimbos are fun, but only for a while. Not a lifetime. Well said!
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/21 05:34 AM
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No idea whatsoever. So disconnected. The burden of performance is on us. We must create value to be looked at as something. Women are born with value and must preserve it. “Privilege is invisible to those who have it”. They won’t understand that 80% of men are basically sexless because sex is easy as walking into a candy store from them. It’s why most men resort to porn, IG, and OF, because that subsection of men are COMPLETELY invisible to women. They aren’t even considered. OP even states she …
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/21 05:30 AM
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Your stance on porn, vices, and addictions is all good. One shouldn’t have those regularly tbh. As long as you don’t either then that works. Some people are hypocrites like that, not saying you are. And does average career mean average in salary, or a career that’s viewed as average? Because those are two different viewpoints.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/21 12:41 AM
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Oh that’s very true. I plan on moving to a major city soon, this is one of my reasons. Pool is much larger and yes you should be able to find what you are after. For sure! Great point. But also kinda sad we gotta resort to that. On the other hand, at least some unicorns will/do exist! Ahaha
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/21 07:39 PM
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Are you religious? Because these aren’t basics. Porn is a part of men since age 8-10 and it’s going lower now. I had an addiction for 16 years and only now cut it off. I assure you, there are men like the ones you want, they are just far and few in between. If you are okay giving up your dream person where everything is correct, but they make 40-80k and that’s the only flaw, then GL. Because you may find, it’ll get harder and harder as the years go on, and you may kick yourself at 35-40 for not …
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/21 05:16 PM
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Not missing it, I get it. You don’t want sub-par. Problem is, it’s a small pool. Anecdotally you may be around high earners, but it’s not standard. What if OP found her dream man but he made 40-80k? He becomes undateable, which is quite sad. Making decisions out of fear is never good, esp if a life long one. But I posit you this, I feel similar. That the pool of women I truly want is small. At this rate marriages rates will continue to decline. And you’ll have a bunch of 30-40yr olds who could h…
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/21 05:12 PM
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I made an original comment now. I thought so. In that comment I say now you are looking at 3% of men given everything you want. GL. It is what it is (and I fucking hate that saying). Note: also a professional statistical person. And yes it’s a guess, but a damn good one. Given that only 10% of men will out earn you. Combine that with other factors you want and yes your pool will be very very small. Many other posters have stated tons of reasons why the dating market is messed up, I suggest you h…
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/21 04:39 PM
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I’m gonna keep it 100 with you. If you don’t want your man to be watching porn or looking at IG thots, AND he needs to earn more money than you PLUS be in good shape, you seriously are looking at less than 3% of men. Add in some other factors like being liberal, and whatever else and you basically have no pool of men. Either you will have to lower your standards somewhat, somewhere, or you can hold out hope you find the 3/100. GL
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/21 04:36 PM
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No we wouldn’t. And no same doesn’t apply. Again you are looking at the world how we view you. It’s not how you should view us. We are different. Stop doing that. What makes a women attractive isn’t what makes a man attractive. These are the exact lies that feminism teaches. Not saying you are a feminist, but the way you talk, sure has a lot of talking points like you are.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/21 04:33 PM
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That above comment above porn and sex is absolutely correct. 30% of men aged 18-25 are virgins now. It’s a stat. So not wrong. And that changes how you view the world and what you want to do in it. Couple that with a financial crisis, now this crisis, combined with how much houses cost. It’s no wonder we are here. We aren’t the only victims. Both men and women are of this new found culture. And as other posters said, no real HVM cares if you make 6 figures. I can assure you this. It’s a bonus, n…
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/21 04:30 PM
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Not conspiratorial at all. They want the nuclear family non existent. Much easier to control weaker humans than strong ones for sure.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/21 04:20 PM
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So does he have to make more than you? Because if so and combined with all the other things, the pool of men that do so is not high. I’d say that’s less than 5% of men. Very small pool to choose from, therefore overwhelming you’ll run into what you consider “losers”. I’m not saying porn is great either btw, I have cut it out of my life, just saying given the criteria, it may be a harder find.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/21 04:07 PM
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Couldn’t agree more with this poster. We do, and it won’t go well because of what you said. Either you’ll get a suave liar, or an annoyed good person. 10/10 don’t recommend. Avoid the Q’s that can be answered in one word. Use open-ended ones more often. Adds a spice, reduces mundaneness, and let’s people open up, which will likely give you what you seek, without going into “interview mode”. Try “funner” questions like What are you passionate about? Rather than Are you into xyz? One allows explor…
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/21 09:53 PM
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Great post, truly. Well said
/r/TheRedPill22/06/21 03:52 PM
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Not just that, but deep down they must know their “strong, independent women” act is getting old. For the last time, we dislike masculine women. Don’t snap your fingers at me like I’m a child lol.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/21 08:48 AM
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Read the rational male by rollo Tomassi. It’s undoubtedly one of the best books in the sphere. Will really help you unplug from the lies WARNING: It will change your worldview, and leave you slightly angry (“anger phase”) but imho it’s well worth it in the end. Good luck young cadet!
/r/TheRedPill02/05/21 01:17 AM
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We aren’t less, we are simple. I know what I want and am upfront about it. I love hanging out with someone and getting to know them and laugh. Building a connection is truly important if you gonna spend a life together. It is just those things I listed are most important and encompassing for me. Fit: shows discipline and care for ones body Friendly: nice to me, friends, family, doesn’t nag Family: above plus good with kids Feminine: self explanatory as y’all here. I’m quite masculine, I don’t ne…
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/21 01:34 AM
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Sounds like you take care of yourself, and they don’t. Seems to me like they are jealous. Whenever people are hating, you are well on the right track. It’s tough, but keep up the spirit!
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/21 03:50 PM
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This hits the nail on the head 100%. You need not worry about the wall at all if you look for your king now. I know I am looking for that queen as we speak.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/21 09:21 AM
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I said main, not only. Obviously have to vet for good wife stock and mother material. Humour and intelligence aren’t must haves here. I just need the F’s. Fit, friendly, family, feminine
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/21 12:14 AM
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Fit girl/ugly face, not even close.
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/21 02:20 PM
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I don’t believe it’s a sad view. Sadly that is the reality though. Truth hurts/sucks. High SMV men are not looking to women’s careers as LTR indicators. Looks are the main criteria I believe.
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/21 02:10 PM
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Forget this one. Lift weights. Improve yourself. It’s okay for what you like. Move on, she’s beyond fucking toxic. Time heals all mate
/r/TheRedPill14/12/20 05:20 PM
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Exactly. Cuck yourself if you will, no true alpha in my mind will put up with that past. The proof is in the pudding.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/20 01:06 AM
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I had this recently. She was poly and was absolutely willing to give it up for me. But y’all know what I did. NEXT
/r/TheRedPill02/08/20 01:03 AM
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BLESS THIS WOMEN 🙏🏽
/r/PussyPassDenied01/08/20 10:55 PM
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The cognitive dissonance is unbelievable
/r/PussyPassDenied01/08/20 10:49 PM
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SiW tRaDeMaRk It
/r/PussyPassDenied01/08/20 10:48 PM
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Amazing post sir. “Chase excellence, not women”. Again fucking said!
/r/TheRedPill28/07/20 04:10 PM
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I think what OP meant by that is that they are a compliment to your life, not the focus. With which I agree. However I’ll also agree they should make you a “better version” of yourself as well, otherwise what’s the point?
/r/TheRedPill14/07/20 06:20 AM
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They are re-writing history as we speak. Makes me sick
/r/TheRedPill10/07/20 12:10 AM
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Lmao did I say marriage? I meant partner you hop around with them every 6 months to not be common in law, potentially have a kid if you want (I know what you’ll say but having progeny is something worth having IMO). If not swap out. I agree with you marriage laws are out dated and I ain’t no simp raising another’s kids. Men opting out may be a bigger downfall to marriage than anything else, that’s what these dumb femnazis don’t get 😂
/r/PussyPassDenied27/05/20 03:54 PM
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Easy pussy is nice and all, I’ve enjoyed myself lately. But it does make finding a women to marry harder, it’s a trade off and I am not sure I’ll like it in the end. That’s all I’m saying, I wish you luck in your endeavours mate.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/05/20 03:50 PM
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Lol for real? It’s this stance that causes a fuck up. Don’t worry you’ll get your wish and nearly everybody will be miserable soon. Feminists are doing away with the nuclear family at an alarming rate.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/05/20 03:38 PM
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Exactly. Bros got your back through thick and thin. Tbh I haven’t had that until recently and may have had a slight jealously/anger towards those who did. But once you have it you realize, wow I can talk my truth and yet women will respect me cause they don’t have to hear it all
/r/TheRedPill27/03/20 07:27 PM
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You’ve immersed yourself in a very unhealthy attitude I’d say my friend. Talking to your friends is Oprah? I feel like people like you are why Red Pillers get a bad red and why this sub has gone to shit. Do you at least think a shrink is acceptable? Or you believe bottle and die? Because if you bottle you’ll die a lot earlier due to stress, that’s a FACT.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/20 07:25 PM
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Why not? So you are supposed to bottle and die? That seems unnecessary. While I won’t share with women, I have a small tribe of men who I train with regularly and we share what’s going on in our lives. It isn’t a pouting thing, but to be able to express and talk about what is happening, is VERY important for anybody’s mental health.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/20 07:05 PM
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For yourself or females in the workplace? Cause although I don’t mind women working, it causes them to have less options as their hypergamous nature only allows them to marry up. No wonder why women with stay at home husbands often are upset and unhappy.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/20 10:48 PM
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The rah rah go get girl attitude has severely damaged their long term happiness. https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2016/may/18/womens-rights-happiness-wellbeing-gender-gap The article claims its due to taking on more duties, which is traditional men do not care for. I could care less how her status is or how much money she makes, yet feminism insists that you must have this to be complete. My goodness how they have been misled by the media, parents, and the government.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/20 10:06 PM
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Well. Said. Sir. Amazing post!
/r/TheRedPill17/12/19 06:30 AM
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