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Sometimes you swing and miss. Fact. Better to strike out swinging than looking. Fact
/r/seduction26/08/16 08:08 PM
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Nice = Censored = Not Completely Honest = Subservient to the Wants of Others = Not Prioritizing Self = Not Developing Self = Not Leading/Leadership Material = Not Fit to Head the Household... But girls minds do it faster and don't care if it's logical, as long as it matches her emotions.
/r/seduction26/08/16 08:06 PM
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Fuck what I think. Make your thoughts, feelings, and time more important than others. That thought about not wanting to be a jerk? That's you putting other people on a pedestal above yourself. Stop it. Make yourself the most important person to you, but treat other people nicely by choice, not by obligation. Some people won't like you, but many others will for (1) being consistent/congruent (2) always being honest, even when you lie (3) you're an expert/master in something, even your hobby (4) y…
/r/seduction27/12/15 08:38 PM
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That rarely happens in real life. Charge it to the game and move on. The better you're able to do that, the better off you will be in the long run
/r/seduction23/12/15 04:58 PM
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Basically, I'm saying, many of us are or have been, trying to achieve difficult goals, but in due time, they will seem like modest accomplishments ...like, learning how to properly use commas for me
/r/seduction31/10/15 07:21 PM
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So you're telling me I can dodge bullets? I'm telling you, in time, you won't have to.
/r/seduction31/10/15 04:01 PM
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This is pretty much how to smash 101. Great shit my nigga. I know you Asian, but still. This is pretty much all anyone needs. Pretty much noticed the holes in my game and saw my highlights as well. Can't say enough about how solid this is
/r/seduction12/08/15 07:10 AM
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"There is no spoon" If you want to say no, just say no. Be comfortable with the possibility of people thinking you're a jerk. If you don't think you're a jerk, you're right.
/r/seduction23/07/15 08:22 PM
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Reading models and applying models is two different things. Next time, just ask for the time or directions, are eye contact, nod and high. Just get used to opening people. Soon, people you open will start random conversations. Get used to having random conversations with random people. Make the goal to be to make the conversation as long as possible. Get used to having conversations that start small go on forever. Apply this to both men and women. Eventually, you'll get to the point where you ca…
/r/seduction22/07/15 07:18 PM
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As a guy that didn't get into his first real relationship until close to 28, I was a selfish person, who didn't listen and communicate well. I got into some weak relationships but learned decent lessons. The best lesson was that hot on the outside isn't worth annoying, frustrating, and dumb on the inside
/r/seduction18/07/15 04:47 PM
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You can't compare best case unlikely scenarios to most likely common scenarios...yes, there will always be exceptions for best case scenarios
/r/seduction19/06/15 08:53 PM
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I was hesitant to do this but many women are attention whores and love the attention. I have female friends mainly to make it easier to meet more women. I screen them and if they're cute but brainless, I keep them around as friends so I can observe what women do. Never listen to their words, just watch their actions
/r/seduction06/05/15 01:31 AM
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Good points, but just to clarify for myself, is the case the majority of the time that this most likely WILL lead to dating, or WONT lead to dating? I know the factors in every case are different, but from your personal experience and the experiences of others you know, what is generally the most likely outcome, in your opinion?
/r/seduction18/02/15 07:34 PM
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There was no specific career defining moment for me. There were many small steps followed by occasional leaps. Most significant leap? When I took a fine woman on a date and thought about how I wasn't sure I liked her, rather than hoping the pretty face liked me. Basically, friend zoning a dime because of her personality and not thinking twice about because of her looks. Abundance
/r/seduction25/01/15 09:52 PM
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Femininity is attracted to masculinity. The more feminine she is, the more likely she's looking for masculinity. Pretty girls rarely date pretty boys in my experience. Truly understanding and believing the abundance mentality. It's the first step to true confidence and the bedrock of it in my opinion. Basically, you're yourself, if she doesn't like you, it wasn't meant to be anyways. Be a man. #BookOfPook Second, 0 or 2+, never date just 1 unless you're in a relationship. Only other time you dat…
/r/seduction25/01/15 04:56 PM
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They say the people you pass on the way up are the same people you pass on the way back down. What I've learned from here is an underlying theme of leadership. Failed relationships are often a failure in leadership. Leadership isn't do this because I said so, leadership is so this because it makes sense on the path to achieve our awesome goal. Your friend may either disagree with the goal, disagree with the path, and/or like most men not see the full truth in how the path leads to the goal. I wo…
/r/seduction25/01/15 04:47 PM
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Don't talk English, speak body language. She may say no or reject, but as is the old addage, one back and two forward. I try, if I fail, I continue building comfort and try again later. I make sure she knows what my intentions are and that I'm going to keep trying. If I get stopped, I don't sweat it. She will try to shit test me and I tell her I'll get it when it's time to get it. This last part is probably the most important part. Girls don't react to it noticeably, but their behavior always ch…
/r/seduction25/01/15 04:38 PM
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Actions speak louder than words. Ask for the number because you think she's cute and you want to know her better to see if she fits your standards. Have a clear purpose for your actions. It's okay to say you think she's cute, but don't fawn all over her. Lastly, be truly confident and know that as much as you like how she looks, it may not work out, and if it doesn't, you'll be fine because there are plenty of other attractive women out there.
/r/seduction13/01/15 11:33 PM
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Beards are definitively masculine, so they CAN be
/r/seduction09/01/15 05:26 PM
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This
/r/seduction08/01/15 08:13 PM
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I don't know a lot of over weight guys, but I have two good friends that are over weight that get girls and make other guys (even myself at times, lol!) jealous. One is about 5'4 and nicknamed the Hobbit but in the last year bagged two of the hottest girls everybody wants at our job. He has good personality, isn't afraid to ask for what he wants, and is foremost a man. He's a short, fat, pudgy, 35 year old man that doesn't do drugs and doesn't have a lot of money or a nice car, but he's cool wit…
/r/seduction08/01/15 05:42 PM
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News flash for short guys : personality is about all it takes! Talking from experience, non bitch tall women often date shorter guys because they're often more interesting because they've developed and achieved more to compensate for their height often times. Tall guys tend to be lazy and not as funny, captivating, or engaging. There's always exceptions to the rules
/r/seduction08/01/15 01:12 AM
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I was thinking more of Christopher Waltz
/r/seduction07/12/14 02:07 AM
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I agree. Been here, even recently. Making moves and getting rejected works best. Definetly better than not making moves and rejecting yourself. Come to think of it, the 80/20 rule probably applies here e.g. 80 percent of the rebuffs to you making a move probably come from 20 of your attempts. When I think of it, the older I get the less frequently I get rebuffs. I mean, by age 25 women know that being alone in residences with men after 10pm often is a situation where sex occurs frequently and is…
/r/seduction11/11/14 02:38 AM
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This should really have way more upvotes. I swear this is the solution to half if not more of the problems on here, especially with the decent looking dudes.
/r/seduction07/11/14 03:54 AM
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This. I'm no pimp, but I've learned to go for three at a time cuz going for one at a time leads to the itis. Also, when in a relationship or headed that way, don't cut off contact with other girls, just flirt friendly and keep the lines open. Also, when getting the itis, I try to evaluate how I'm spending my time and see what I'm not doing. Typically, I start cutting gym time, cooking for myself, eat out more, less time on hobbies, etc. I've learned I have to make sure she's fitting in with my l…
/r/seduction16/08/14 02:30 AM
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This
/r/seduction16/08/14 12:44 AM
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Hell yeah she could! I've stopped texting bitches cuz they were texting me repeatedly while I was out with my boys. If a chick can do no wrong or can never seem too clingy /needy with you, chances are that you're needy yourself. If you have a life, it's easy to see when someone else doesn't.
/r/seduction20/06/13 01:29 AM
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your response (and whatever you say during your interactions in general) should've been (1) outcome independent and (2) whatever's on your mind. If I were in your shoes, I wouldn't been like "wow! I'm thoroughly impressed with how good you are at being a bitch! (turns to friend) Is she like this in real life or does she just play tough at the bars?" All with a big smile since she knows she's being a bitch but may want to see if you have the balls to call her out on it. This is if I was in your s…
/r/seduction21/04/13 06:32 AM
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I like to say within the first few phone conversations (or occasionally after the first sexual encounter) that I'm not looking for anything serious right now. That's all I've ever needed to say.
/r/seduction13/04/13 08:15 PM
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Thanks for all the replies. Thinking through this, it's a little bit of what most people have said in one way or another. In my day job, I'm a manager with a current team of about 30 people. Part of my job (I'm actually rated on this via survey and partially determines my merit raises) is how well I connect with my people and make their jobs/lives easier, more enjoyable, more meaningful, etc. I've been doing this for a couple of years so I try to read queues, BL, non-verbals, etc. as well as kee…
/r/seduction08/04/13 03:20 AM
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I have a long term non monogamous side chick that knows what she is and is fine with it. The truth about a chick like this, at least in my case, is she will eventually start looking for serious ships, but fuck you until it is serious somewhere else, flirt with you during (even when you ignore and discourage it), and start fucking you again after. Mine has been there for going on 4 years now. When I get a gf, she knows what's up as well. The main thing is she has to be built for that type of thin…
/r/seduction22/03/13 05:16 AM
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The girl that probably thinks she's my GF right now was a random club approach.
/r/seduction08/12/12 03:04 AM
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