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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	2/2/3 custody? 2/2/3 was great for the first year or two, my son was 2 then. After we all got used to new status 7/7 was quite natural transition - actually requested by the little fellow, to everyone's relief. It is not uncommon for us to jump in on others week (as expats we are both far away from support network). Overall I would say it's smooth as it can be. Plan is to move to 14/14 sometime when puberty starts hitting.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/04/21 04:54 PM
2	I am a 30 year older man Recently separated and trying to understand my chances at finding love I guess I need a boat lol Kudos and goos fortune brother!	/r/Divorce_Men	20/03/21 07:22 PM
3	I am a 30 year older man Recently separated and trying to understand my chances at finding love If you are looking for a serious relationship, it will not be easy. There was recently a thread on https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/ and majority of women avoid single dads, for anything more than a friends-with-benefits kind of setup. Which is probably what you need at this point more then jumping into a serious thing. That was my experience as well. Single mums might be the best bet, once you come to terms with the old relationship. But to echo rest of the replied, I am 100% behind th…	/r/Divorce_Men	20/03/21 06:38 PM
4	Little laugh for you guys good morning from CET t the world	/r/PussyPassDenied	08/10/20 05:45 AM
-2	Won't work on a group project because "she has a boyfriend" I was pretty sure you are, but also, that you are either not part of any of those, or you are but resent it on some levels and not having a blast.	/r/PussyPassDenied	30/09/20 06:00 AM
11	Won't work on a group project because "she has a boyfriend" You are going to have a blast working in the real world! Civilization is kind of a group project, so is every state, nation and company.	/r/PussyPassDenied	30/09/20 05:21 AM
1	Way to deal with gold-diggers I’ve never been in a healthy relationship, so my views on women are based on movies, misogynistic podcasts and boomer comics unhealthy relationships I've been in and a plethora on unhealthy relationships people around me were in	/r/PussyPassDenied	18/05/20 03:06 PM
46	Way to deal with gold-diggers I prefer the "women are gatekeepers of sex, men are gatekeepers of commitment" but it is the same basic sentiment. Cringey or not that's what it is.	/r/PussyPassDenied	18/05/20 09:31 AM
1	Rejection Cca 2.5 years later, and yeah I've been through, even though it seemed impossible. Time will sort it out. There was a moment about year and a half in where she invited herself to a family dinner at my place. I suddenly realized, I dont want this person close to me anymore. It was such a relief. One of the key things that pulled me out of the limbo was exercise. I was never before enthusiastic about it but it came to the point that I wanted to just make myself tired enough so I can fall asleep. A…	/r/Divorce_Men	09/07/19 04:57 PM
1	Helpless When I replied to your first post I kinda skipped mentioning therapy since considering the situation I assumed you're already doing it, but if you're not you definitely should. "Around 84 days" :D	/r/Divorce_Men	26/01/19 04:16 PM
1	CMV Women are more shallow than men now a days. Sure it is buddy	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/19 06:32 AM
1	CMV Women are more shallow than men now a days. It's not reality that height has anything to do with any of those things	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/19 06:10 AM
1	CMV Women are more shallow than men now a days. What? Only last one top shelf of the grocery store has any connection to reality	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/19 05:30 AM
4	So lost It is very important to know that you are truly blameless here. Secondly, this is out of your reach and responsibility. Even if you were married it is the same. My ex wife got depressed. Pills helped her mood but she stayed cold towards me. It took me a year to accept this is beyond my power or influence, and even if it is caused by sickness it is nothing less real. Mental illness destroys relationships, that's a fact and a statistic. It wasn't you, it wasn't her, there is no guilt, it's the ill…	/r/Divorce_Men	24/01/19 06:18 PM
2	Divorced but living in the same house This is a horrible idea, unless its an extremely amicable divorce and everything has already been settled in the way that both of you are happy. I tried this and it almost destroyed our arrangements and any chance of future communication. It broke at one point, we had to find something very quickly. It was also a divorce with a kid, often I was repeating to myself that this is for his benefit but it wasn't. He adapted really quickly and everybody was way better the moment we stopped sharing a ho…	/r/Divorce_Men	08/01/19 05:59 PM
1	What is your stance on ghosting? It's not disrespectful to cut all ties, that's not ghosting. Cutting all ties requires action, for example sending a message. I'm not talking about time they took to write messages and leave voice mail. I'm talking about time they're spending making plans, developing feelings, not chasing others etc. And yea if you spoke/texted/dated/had sex with someone you are responsible for this stuff, unless you were crystal clear beforehand about 0 commitments.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/19 04:49 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (06 January 2019) I started dating 2 years ago after a divorce. At first, I was starting in the same nice guy way, and it was pretty bad. So I went into RP a bit, started lifting, changing my approach to women and yes successes followed. But, not with women I like. They were all ons/polygame/fwb, usually with a bunch of horrible baggage in the mix. On top of that, I was unable to climax with any girl in this phase. Being emotionally absent would mean my tool would just stay hard whatever they tried - and some of …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/19 04:07 PM
1	What is your stance on ghosting? it actually wastes somebody else's time and here is the root of the disrespect. if someone is under belief that you're going out again, they may be not even looking for other options. and until they figure out they've been ghosted, their time was wasted.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/19 03:59 PM
1	Should this guy get back his 4 million dollars for the wife paternity frauding him? situation he is putting them in? really?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/19 08:11 PM