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I achieved this "seducers mindset" when I went to a college town with my cousin back in February for a weekend. My reason was partially bonding time with my cousin and also we both had girls we were talking to who we planned on meeting up with. Neither of us spent any time with the girls we went to see. We both got rejected. Hard. It sucked. But you know what happened? We went out that night intending to have a good time and as we are walking into the first bar, a girl who is walking out puts he…
/r/seduction07/07/17 02:42 AM
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Congruency is the term that has guided my thinking for the past year. I've stepped out of the world of PUAs and all that but in one of Julien Blanc's videos, I heard him talk about congruency as having your thoughts, words, and actions aligned. Realized I have been living the opposite of that and stepped away from this world of pickup to truly improve myself for me and not for the objective of getting laid or being better with women.
/r/seduction11/06/17 03:00 PM
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Eh this shit comes naturally the closer you get towards living a congruent life. In a relationship right now after a while of serial dating and it's honestly a lot easier and more fulfilling than single life was. Funny enough my girlfriend and I went on a hike over memorial day - left my place around 6 am and came back just before 7pm. As we were parting ways , she asked "did we really just spend over 12 hours together?". To me, I was out doing something I wanted to do and enjoy doing so yea whi…
/r/seduction11/06/17 02:44 PM
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How did you learn? I've been wanting to get into this kind of dance but have no idea where to start.
/r/seduction18/04/17 02:02 AM
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Close to reaching that point myself. Living in my parents basement right now and moving out is definitely​ the next step I need to take. Luckily, I've been planning for that for the last 6 months and now it's time to do some viewings and pick a place.
/r/seduction15/04/17 11:48 PM
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I honestly just pretend like that like wasn't there and take the interaction forward. She doesn't know me yet and we haven't even exchanged a message. If everything else looks inviting then no need to dwell on this one line
/r/seduction14/04/17 01:53 AM
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You can definitely say that (make sure it's not the first thing you say) and while it is a question that can be answered with a yes or no, you can still expand from it You: you come here often Girl: No/Yes You: I usually go to x gym but heard about y at this gym so I decided to check it out. Finding more selling points to this place though Corny? Yes. But it's authentically me and works for getting the results I want. Give it a shot if you need ideas.
/r/seduction05/04/17 03:37 AM
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My go to when this happens is to look away completely then look back and walk over to her then say "we were making eye contact for way too long there, I had to come say hi. I'm spellicup*. This has worked during the day and at night but I haven't tried it at the gym yet. I'm interested in seeing how that plays out! Maybe something along the lines of "I usually don't notice other people exist when I'm at the gym but that eye contact was too long. I had to come say hi. I'm spellicup ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ Wher…
/r/seduction05/04/17 01:48 AM
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Yeah, I don't see why this is a controversial idea. /u/JaggedYellowPill is not saying to exclusively date or approach people at work just that it's yet another venue that's open and shouldn't be dismissed.
/r/seduction01/12/16 06:42 PM
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Spot on. This is all on point with both my experiences and the ones girls have shared with me. The deeper in the "friend zone" you are the more the change is noticed and intrigues her so I do think that step #1 is key. Of course, like /u/Bigjohnthug mentioned if you are not tied to any one girl and are confidently talking to girls and displaying intent then you avoid this problem from the start.
/r/seduction17/02/16 04:40 AM
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Post your profile on /r/tinder to get advice on how to best improve it
/r/seduction27/09/14 08:00 AM
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Good use of a 3 second count. I've always limited the 3 second rule solely to approaching but thanks to your post I'm thinking about expanding its use to other aspects of pick-up.
/r/seduction12/01/14 09:31 AM
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Like it's my job. Plan on going out at least every other day when back home and talking to people. Recently got into pickup and would like to use my break from school to blast through approach anxiety and get a few hookups.
/r/seduction15/12/13 02:31 AM
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It's by Mark Redman. Short at 134 pages and a very easy read
/r/seduction11/12/13 03:20 PM
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Got an epub of the book from amazon after reading this comment and devoured it. A lot of good stuff in there. Would highly recommend anyone wanting to improve their college game to read it.
/r/seduction10/12/13 09:03 PM
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It works really well. I'd suggest not seeing them for a longer length of time than usual and when you do hang out with them start light on the kino then keep escalating. Don't think about the past state of your friendship with her; go in with the idea of "I want to get with this girl" and use what you know to do so.
/r/seduction10/12/13 08:56 PM
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Two lines I picked up straight out of the book Conquer your Campus: Hey, I've seen you around a few times before but we've never met. I'm ___ and you are? *Hey, I know it's a small/big school and all but I've never seen you around before. I'm ___ and you are? Variations of any of these two should be enough to get you started on a conversation.
/r/seduction10/12/13 04:15 AM
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Successfully used the "wait" line on a girl to get a K close over the weekend. Adding your jacket suggestion to my list of things to try so thanks for that.
/r/seduction09/12/13 05:47 AM
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"Worked for a tailor one summer in high school and I picked up a couple of things about the profession". That's loosely how I'd switch the frame on the question. If she is more inquisitive, keep the story going until choosing to steer conversation somewhere else
/r/seduction09/10/13 01:09 AM
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