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Yeah, and also I've been depressed for a couple years now. So it's led me to isolating myself and not being very social.
/r/MGTOW31/07/17 02:38 AM
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I have almost no friends now. And it gets lonely, but sometimes I feel like I would be lonelier with friends.
/r/MGTOW29/07/17 02:45 PM
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That video freaked me out at first, but then I laughed.
/r/MGTOW29/07/17 02:42 PM
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Woo!!!! I'm curious to see how many people we'll have by the end of this year. I'm guessing at least 60,000 or more. We'll just have to find out!
/r/MGTOW29/07/17 02:21 PM
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That said, when those perfect opportunities present themselves, definitely take them. Know your rights, stay calm as fuck and refuse to back down. I'll try to make the best of this. It's just hard, at least for my personality type (I'm introverted, don't like arguing, I prefer to be alone). When arguments come up, it's hard to speak my mind and not let the other person talk over me. It's like they're on a power trip and cannot be reasoned with, even if I'm 100% in the right. I guess I should go …
/r/MGTOW29/07/17 02:18 PM
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I know what you mean. Even after I first had sex, the desire for it practically vanished and it's pretty much stayed this way since then. Although I still get that desire at times, it's something I can brush off and move on from now.
/r/MGTOW29/07/17 02:09 PM
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It really is all about validation. I was at that point about 6 months ago when I lost my virginity (at 22 y.o.) and realized that I just wanted to know what sex was like, what having a girl who wanted to have sex with me (even though she probably would've wanted money soon after) was like and all the other stuff that comes with it. I simply wanted to prove to myself and others that I had sex for once. Of course, out of curiosity, I wanted to know the feeling of it, the connection, etc, but it wa…
/r/MGTOW29/07/17 07:38 AM
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Harsh outcomes is the only way people are going to learn. If you let people act like childish idiots, then soon everyone will think it is ok and it will become the norm. Then we will all truly be fucked. I agree, but sometimes, no matter what you do, the idiots just roll their eyes and act like it's okay anyways. Even when I tried to stop the bullshit, they just ignored it and went back to what they were doing. That pisses me off more than anything else. It's like the other person is telling me,…
/r/MGTOW29/07/17 07:18 AM
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You're not alone. I'm still interested in/willing to have sex, but I have trouble with girls so I haven't had the opportunity for awhile. I don't want a relationship either. Most of the time though, my right hand gets things done and the desire for sex goes out the window. However, it does tend to creep up on me again.
/r/MGTOW24/07/17 02:02 PM
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Just reading this makes me hate women even more. What a mess that bitch made for this man.
/r/MGTOW24/07/17 01:35 PM
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After taking the red pill, dating women and even sleeping with women has lost it's kick. I'd rather hit the gym, sleep with prostitutes, go home and forget about women. Is this normal? Anyone else starting to feel this way? I'd say that this is totally normal. For me, I'm just tired of the rejection and certain (not all, some actually level with me and are cool, but most aren't like this) girls acting like they're superior because it's their choice on who they want to be with. Like if you're not…
/r/MGTOW23/07/17 05:03 PM
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If you try to aim for perfect game, your results will suffer, because you are: Valuing not making mistakes in order to avoid situations where taking action was a mistake. You are only escalating when there is not doubt that she wants you to escalate In reality, you have to aim for the opposite. You are Valuing making mistakes in order to seize opportunities where taking action was not a mistake. Escalating even when there is still some doubt if she wants you to escalate In other words, be aggres…
/r/seduction14/07/17 01:09 PM
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In fact, if you look at it another way, sure I don't get laid. I have a story I'd like to share. I don't get laid either bro. I had sex once (lost my virginity back in February at 22 y.o.) and while I want to do it again, hitting on girls is, well, exhausting. All the rejection I've faced and not being sure of what to say is too much trouble. I went out again on Friday night and talked to 3 girls (one being a bartender). I didn't even hit on them because I had no idea what to say. I think that b…
/r/MGTOW12/06/17 01:27 AM
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I've also been ignored plenty of times. Some have acted annoyed for acknowledging them. It's a horrible thing to go through, I know. Like, why on Earth would someone be rude to me if I'm being totally polite? I just assume that they have their own issues to work out, but then I get bitter about how they thought it would be acceptable to be outright disrespectful.
/r/MGTOW26/05/17 12:58 AM
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I fully agree with everything you said. Number 2 is a big one. My guess is that most of the hot women don't expect to get old or look old as they age and so when it hits them, they'll be mortified. They'll get a nice taste of reality and will hopefully better their behavior.
/r/MGTOW26/05/17 12:55 AM
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For awhile, I would hit on women, but had little to no luck. I would quit trying, then think to myself, "Don't give up on getting women!" and would try and try again. Still, little to no luck. I was unhappy about that at first but I realized how great it is that women aren't that attracted to me. They actually want to stay away. And I would like to stay away as much as possible. Sometimes they're rude and give me weird looks if I just happen to make eye contact. Not all do, but the young ones wh…
/r/MGTOW24/05/17 01:54 PM
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Thanks for sharing this. I thought the women in Europe were better over there but I guess AWALT rings true no matter where you go!
/r/MGTOW24/05/17 01:43 PM
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That's a good idea. The last thing I'd want is for someone to interrupt the trip (unless something goes wrong and I need assistance) or keep following me around. I've thought about that before and I'm sure that would get annoying really quick.
/r/MGTOW24/05/17 01:35 PM
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Exactly.
/r/MGTOW24/05/17 01:32 PM
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I'm on the edge of wanting to end it all because of how messed up our society is. After all the things that I've been through, not just with women (though they are a big factor in this), but with the rest of life itself, I don't see a point in going on any longer and don't really care to keep going. It's difficult to explain, but I'm growing more and more exhausted of how this world operates. People tell me I'm a great person, a hard worker and all that, which is something I value, but then I qu…
/r/MGTOW23/05/17 12:55 PM
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Glad to hear it man. That's the mindset I want to achieve!
/r/MGTOW23/05/17 12:43 PM
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I've thought about trying it, but I can't seem to find the real stuff anywhere. I'm also nervous about the trip getting out of hand, where to trip, etc. Unfortunately, since I'm 22 and still living with my parents, my house isn't really an option. They'd find out right away if I was tripping and could spiral out of control. I have no issue with drugs, it's just the intensity and other things that I'm worried about.
/r/MGTOW23/05/17 12:41 PM
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Absolutely.
/r/MGTOW23/05/17 12:36 PM
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What happened?
/r/MGTOW23/05/17 02:18 AM
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Not surprising at all. They probably fantasize about killing men and getting away with it too.
/r/MGTOW23/05/17 02:07 AM
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That's horrible, but picturing it made me laugh. Like a "that's totally fucked up!" kind of laugh.
/r/MGTOW23/05/17 02:03 AM
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Same here. I think about the action(s), but it's hard to go through with it. Like what if it doesn't work? My reason is because of the reality of this world and women. I know it sounds bitter and it is, but I've pretty much lost all hope to the point that I don't want to live much longer.
/r/MGTOW23/05/17 01:59 AM
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People will do anything to feel more superior or better than you. Especially women love putting guys down. Very true. Especially the latter part. It's sickening.
/r/MGTOW23/05/17 01:50 AM
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Wow, that's shocking. It makes me hate women even more now.
/r/MGTOW23/05/17 01:43 AM
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there are a LOT of ways a girl can screw you over in college. I agree, but there are also a LOT of ways a girl can screw you over in LIFE.
/r/MGTOW23/05/17 01:14 AM
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I fully agree. I find it's best to just do what you have to do if it must involve them, remain polite and then keep your distance. If something doesn't require the 2 of you to be involved, still, keep your distance from them.
/r/MGTOW22/05/17 01:42 PM
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This. Sometimes you have get bitten to see the reality of this world we live in. It may be painful, and usually it is, but it's the only way we can make the better choice for ourselves in the future.
/r/MGTOW21/05/17 10:08 PM
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Ok. I get it.
/r/MGTOW21/05/17 10:02 PM
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Can you explain this? I'm not sure if you think I'm lying or what. Or are you saying that because she's a woman, it only happened the way SHE said it did because society favors women?
/r/MGTOW21/05/17 10:00 PM
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I've never had a girlfriend. I'm 22 years old, going on 23 in a couple weeks and I took a girl on one date which went horribly (never talked to her again), made out with another girl that I met at a bar, and hooked up with one girl on Tinder. This all happened in the past year. I lost my virginity back in February and while it was a great experience, it's not necessarily something I would constantly want or need. I agree with SnarkyFella, I enjoy my solitude now. Also, if you can, get it taken c…
/r/MGTOW21/05/17 04:25 PM
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Wow.
/r/MGTOW14/05/17 08:40 PM
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Exactly. I'd probably just end myself if I were in OPs position. I'm not saying that he should, but trying to put myself in his shoes, I don't know if I'd want to live any longer in that situation.
/r/MGTOW14/05/17 08:37 PM
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Totally agree. My grandpa told me a few years ago that I was/am lucky that I'm not tied down with a girlfriend or wife. I thought at the time that that was a crazy idea because I really wanted to have a girl to be with, have sex and all that. I didn't understand where he was coming from. After I finally kissed a girl, as well as losing my virginity, I learned that while sex is nice sometimes, it's not something that I absolutely need to have. I don't need a girlfriend. I thought it was torture b…
/r/MGTOW10/05/17 12:56 AM
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This gives me more good reasons to listen to my IPod while I shop.
/r/MGTOW01/05/17 01:01 AM
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I agree. YOU get to make the decision for what you want to buy and no one else.
/r/MGTOW30/04/17 10:45 PM
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I prefer to be alone most of the time. People wear me out really fast and I need alone time to recharge. I know that talking to people isn't bad and I wasn't suggesting that it was. I just don't want to hear all the crap that random stranger's are talking about.
/r/MGTOW30/04/17 10:44 PM
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I fully agree. They're never sorry. They're only sorry that you're upset or that you feel hurt by what they did, as if you're feelings are wrong. They do that rather than apologizing for their own behavior. It's like they treat you as though you're a wounded puppy about to get run down. It's horrible. Things like this make me wish I never even existed.
/r/MGTOW30/04/17 06:42 PM
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You my friend, know exactly what's going on in this world and I'm glad that you aren't giving into society's expectations.
/r/MGTOW30/04/17 06:40 PM
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Yeah the Associates is 2 years, but I've had to repeat classes and took breaks. So it's taken me about 5 years to complete. My job involves a lot of manual labor and it's "behind the scenes" where I don't have to deal with the customers. So it's not too bad, but I would like to make more $$.
/r/MGTOW30/04/17 06:32 PM
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Agreed. If you don't do things for women as you're expected to, they get rid of you. Most guys see this as a bad thing, but in reality, nothing could be better than that. 100% Freedom.
/r/MGTOW30/04/17 06:26 PM
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I grew up in the 90s and 2000s as well. I'm about to get my Associates Degree, but nothing more after this though. School sucks. Just curious, what year were you born? I was born in 1994.
/r/MGTOW30/04/17 06:12 PM
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That's true. If it's dinner and a few drinks, that's fine, but anything more than that usually means trouble.
/r/MGTOW30/04/17 05:57 PM
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Yep. Or when girls have their girls night out. It's really disturbing.
/r/MGTOW30/04/17 05:51 PM
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Yeah it's sickening if you imagine the kinds of things she may be doing behind your friend's back.
/r/MGTOW30/04/17 03:12 PM
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They're all delusional and think they can do whatever they want.
/r/MGTOW30/04/17 03:07 PM
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That is why he relied on "buddies" to do the job for him. I can't stand when guys act all tough with their friends standing 5 feet away in case shit goes down. One guy in high school said he'd kill me (we made amends though, no fights/problems now) since I was talking to his girlfriend. That was stupid on my part, but when he said this to me, all of his friends were in their "group" just a few steps away. No wonder he felt like a badass.
/r/MGTOW30/04/17 02:58 PM
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Can you give me some examples on how to do this? I'm not sure if I'm following.
/r/MGTOW30/04/17 02:52 PM
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I have thought about that myself. But my problem is with how my parents raised me and that most of my life I've been a pushover because of it. I don't feel like I fully learned how to be assertive. I will stand my ground if absolutely necessary, but even then it's hard to just be masculine and I'll back down if I feel like saying no will turn out bad for me (like when I'm at work for example). I think that I don't care enough about myself to assert my own interests/needs over others because I wo…
/r/MGTOW30/04/17 01:04 AM
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It's not just you. I'm noticing this more and more. Everywhere I go. Even yesterday at Target, there was this dumb girl with her hubby and she gave me this "Get out of my way," look. I moved since I don't want any conflict, especially with her white knight, but I was pissed at myself for letting her do that and was pissed at her for the entitlement factor. However, I did the same thing back to her when I ran into them again later and she moved, but I sensed that it was like a, "Fine, I'll move..…
/r/MGTOW23/04/17 03:55 PM
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Wow guys, this really blew up! Thanks for all of your replies/support and everything. It's good to know that there are other people to relate to. A lot of times it's hard to not feel like I'm alone with everything I described, but I feel much better knowing that there are others in the same boat.
/r/MGTOW23/04/17 03:40 PM
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This says it all. You're 100% correct. Never base your happiness on someone's opinion of you or try to get them to approve of you. I did all this is work trying to chase tail with very little to no reward in return at the expense of feeling terrible. This is also a big one for me. Getting little to nothing back and feeling like shit for the rest of the night or even for days following.
/r/MGTOW23/04/17 03:37 PM
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Yep. My parents occasionally talk about me getting married and having kids. I don't know what caused them to bring that up, whether it was something on their minds that they wanted to share or if we specifically talked about it. I can't really remember. Sorry to disappoint you Mom and Dad, but that's not happening!
/r/MGTOW23/04/17 01:30 AM
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Not only does it need to be done - and that's what they intuitively want - but occasionally it actually gets them turned on! It's a sick/odd reality. The girl I was with started messing with my hair after I told her off. Like in a flirty type of way. Usually I'm not confrontational and I don't like conflict, so I mostly keep my mouth shut. But when one goes way past my boundaries and I want to say something, I give them a mouth full of whatever they asked for. haha
/r/MGTOW23/04/17 01:25 AM
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you need to treat them BADLY I mostly agree with this. One time me and a girl were arguing and I absolutely lost it. I was yelling probably louder than I ever have before and moments later, she actually treated me with more respect.
/r/MGTOW22/04/17 08:22 PM
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30k as in $30,000 or 30,000 miles? Ford, DRIVE ONE.
/r/MGTOW22/04/17 08:14 PM
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I work for Audi, so I'd take the RS4 all day long. No doubt about that!
/r/MGTOW22/04/17 04:31 PM
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...and she honestly sees absolutely nothing wrong with it That's what makes me sick. Like it's perfectly acceptable to do that to him, but it's not acceptable for him to find out the truth. Jesus Christ.
/r/MGTOW22/04/17 04:29 PM
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Good god this pisses me off. She says that he shouldn't have opened her mail. Okay, fine. Well, she shouldn't have lied and took the money behind his back. He was under the impression that the rent was $1200/month and he was paying $600. When in reality it was $407/month and as a result, he covered her entire rent and she gets a bonus out of it. This makes me sick.
/r/MGTOW22/04/17 04:27 PM
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Gotcha.
/r/seduction24/01/17 02:41 AM
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She wanted me to touch her. This was my first time ever doing that. Also her friends were there with us and she kept saying she had to look after them. So I wasn't really sure how to move forward from there. Just gaining experience here.
/r/seduction23/01/17 02:42 PM
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Don't worry about it. Trust me. If you have nothing to say, don't reply. If you have something to say to her, say whatever you want. It seems that you're worried about what to say and that if you say the "wrong thing" it'll mess it up. Just go with what you feel. Fuck being smooth.
/r/seduction23/01/17 04:31 AM
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Keep in mind some girls just want to dance and have fun and aren't looking for a hook-up. It's important to keep that in mind and just have fun. The truth right here.
/r/seduction23/01/17 04:26 AM
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Good advice, but I wouldn't tell him to prepare openers. That's only going to make him more nervous/awkward when talking to them. Maybe just complimenting them or something would be good enough to start a conversation. That way he can be in the moment without having to memorize things to say. But other than that your advice is good. Especially this piece. But you CAN say “I’m going to be a guy who TAKES ACTION” because approaching a set like that IS under your control.
/r/seduction23/01/17 04:20 AM
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Please don't approach girls from behind and touch them if you haven't spoken with them or made a connection in another form, that is super creepy. Sometimes eye contact isn't always possible unless you walk around the entire group of girls first which is a huge waste of time. Especially if the girls change location a lot. I would say if you're walking up behind them, a light touch on her shoulder is fine. I've never had a issue with that. It's just like getting her attention. Nothing really intr…
/r/seduction23/01/17 04:12 AM
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Good advice.
/r/seduction23/01/17 04:08 AM
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I would ask them if they want to dance. Put your hand out and motion for them to dance with you. If you want to talk, just talk. Do what you want. You can get away with quite a bit in clubs and never have an issue, as long as you don't let it get out of hand. However, I would recommend not going up behind the girls in clubs and putting your hands on their waists right off the bat. While you can still get away with it in a lot of cases, it's a bit of a touchy spot on women and they might not like…
/r/seduction23/01/17 04:00 AM
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Just don't give a fuck about what others are doing. Focus on what you want to do and only that. I know exactly what you mean. I started going out a few months ago and still struggle with this. Often times I get down on myself if I don't work up the courage to go and talk to girl and feel that she wants someone "better." Each time, it varies and some nights are more difficult than others. Just remember though, NOBODY is better than you. I know it feels like some people are, but they aren't. Bette…
/r/seduction23/01/17 03:42 AM
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Very true. Phones are often distracting and can really limit how many girls you/we talk to. I just leave it in my car when I go out at night and had a much better time talking to girls that way. Last night I brought my phone with me and had little to no success. So there is some truth to this IME.
/r/seduction23/01/17 03:27 AM
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Thanks man. Right now this is all new to me, so like you said, with time and more experience, things will improve. It's kind of tough right now considering that I had such a crazy experience that happened so fast, while 99% of the time before, I never got that far with a girl. So it was a real eye opener for me. I hope that makes sense. But yeah, I won't give up. She even said that she goes to the place we went to a lot, so I may just run into her again. However, I won't expect it, because then …
/r/seduction23/01/17 03:06 AM
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Well the assumption I'm making is you're flirting out on the floor with her, maybe dancing together, etc. I should have clarified more, but yes, you are correct.
/r/seduction12/01/17 02:27 AM
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Now I see what you mean. I've read somewhere that a lot of times the girl will say no just to see what you do. Like if you escalate and she rejects it, some guys will try again right after and she'll actually be receptive to it. It doesn't always work out that way, but I will add to your comment... If you get a NO response, take a step back > Say a statement of empathy (I.e "Haha I'm sorry! I'm just in a good mood!) > change the conversational topic as if nothing ever happened ...and then try ag…
/r/seduction10/01/17 04:20 AM
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For sure man! I'll be going back to the club again this weekend and really start practicing this.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 04:02 AM
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Yes, this makes sense now. It sounds kind of like a game of cat and mouse without going full on cat and mouse if you know what I mean. It's a test.
/r/seduction10/01/17 03:35 AM
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the number ONE reason you are scared of bwing physical is because you don't know what to do if you get a NO response from the girl. You hit the nail on the head. I never really thought about it that way. After doing some self-reflection, I realized that it's really easy to know what to do if a girl says yes. Simple, keep escalating. If she says no, it can make the situation awkward and leave the guy (me) feeling left out, hopeless, unsure of himself, wondering if he should try again or move on. …
/r/seduction10/01/17 03:29 AM
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The truth right there. I was nervous due to my lack of experience with girls/not sure of what do/when to do it. So when girls want to dance and hangout, it is combo of feeling nervous and excited. Nervous to make a move and excited that girls are willing to be with me for a bit. The nervousness overpowers the excitement, so it fucks it all up. You're right, just gotta go with the flow.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 02:57 AM
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You're not alone. I really don't have friends either. Just family, coworkers and people I know from school (who really aren't my friends). Never call yourself a loser for that. I know it sucks to be alone and feel lonely. It feels like it will never get better sometimes, but if you put the effort in, it will get better, trust me. All I can really say is just make changes in your life that will enable you to talk to more people and become friends with them. Since I'm in a similar position, I can …
/r/askTRP10/01/17 02:16 AM
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If she says no, I think this is a good time to experiment with push-pull. You just go to the damn bar. What are some ways that I can do the push-pull thing in my case? I've read about it just to get a general idea of what it is, but say the girl doesn't want to go to the bar with me and I go alone, is that more of a push or a pull? Also, if I decided to talk to other girls at the bar, what would that be?
/r/seduction10/01/17 01:32 AM
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Thank you. I will definitely try these things out and see what happens! The eye contact thing is an area that I need to improve more in but I can now hold eye contact with people for longer periods than before. It's getting better, slowly but surely!
/r/seduction09/01/17 07:04 AM
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That's definitely a big part of the issue if not the main issue. I find myself starting to get too far in my head and think of all the outcomes if I make an advance. Like "what if she doesn't like it? What if she does? What next?"
/r/seduction09/01/17 06:52 AM
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Thanks for the quick response. Let's say I try the bar thing where I motion towards it and leave my hand out for her, but she doesn't take it. Should I keep going to the bar or just stay on the dance floor? I'm unsure if that means she is rejecting me or just rejecting sitting down at the bar and is still interested in dancing for the time being. A lot of times I get too far into my head and think that I'm bothering them if they reject an advance or change in activity and I stay with them. No on…
/r/seduction09/01/17 06:38 AM
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