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This post could not have come at a better time for me. Just this last week I experienced failures in two of the areas I’m really working hard to grow in. I was getting a bit down on myself but this post just helps me to reframe the situation and realize I’m just going through the natural process of growing myself and getting better. Thanks for a super helpful post
/r/TheRedPill13/10/19 03:58 PM
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Real Social Dynamics of Congruence
/r/askTRP08/10/19 12:10 AM
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Watch this: https://youtu.be/lvjSTmUWZcA It helped me a lot and I hope it helps you too. You also need to work on cultivating an “I am enough” mentality. You should ALWAYS be improving your SMV, but just because it isn’t where it could be one day doesn’t mean that you won’t be able to get any girls right now. If cold-approaching and practicing pickup is something that you think will make you happy right now, then go for it. If not then focus on things that will make you happy/help you get to a p…
/r/askTRP07/10/19 01:54 AM
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Thanks man I appreciate the awesome response
/r/askTRP01/09/19 03:55 PM
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Yea football is a good way to get aggression out. I played linebacker as a kid and that was a good way for me to curb any aggression I was feeling. Now I lift a lot when I feel aggressive. Nothing like a good workout to mellow someone out. It could just be you needing to blow off steam from having a shit ton of energy/testosterone. Aggressive feelings can happen for a lot of reasons, and like I said strangers on Reddit can only give so much advice because we don’t know you. Just do what works fo…
/r/askTRP27/08/19 12:38 PM
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It’s a sign that, subconsciously, you have a feeling that you lack control/power over your own life. The world’s a crazy place and shit is hard. It takes balls to realize that these urges might be a sign that something is wrong, and even bigger balls to ask for help. Props to you dude. This might warrant talking to someone you trust and/or a professional about. Strangers on reddit can only do so much given that we don’t know you or your situation much. That beings said, I think a lot of dudes wh…
/r/askTRP27/08/19 03:06 AM
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Thanks
/r/askTRP22/08/19 11:32 AM
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Specifically she kept saying “you really can’t sleep at my place, my boss would find out and I’d lose my job” which totally would not happen but she was being super paranoid. She’s staying at a hotel with her boss and a coworker because she’s here on a business trip. And every time I suggested we go back to my dorm room she just made this face and said “I’m done with dorm rooms for the rest of my life, not gonna happen.” She agreed every time though when I told her I knew she was horny and wante…
/r/askTRP21/08/19 11:22 AM
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Thanks these comments are exactly what I was looking for. I’ll give this a try next time
/r/askTRP21/08/19 11:17 AM
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Last Minute Resistance. It’s when a girl basically chickens out of sex. Essentially the same thing as ASD if you’ve read the list of terms in the sidebar
/r/askTRP21/08/19 03:55 AM
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Thanks man, this is so obvious I don’t know why I didn’t think of this. I feel like such an idiot. I’ll use this next time I’m in a similar situation
/r/askTRP21/08/19 03:43 AM
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I tried so hard to but she wasn’t going for it either. The LMR was too strong so I’m trying to see if you guys can give me some better insight into how not to fuck up like this again
/r/askTRP21/08/19 03:37 AM
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All energy is sexual energy. After the age of 15, nobody puts as much effort as this girl has into making friends of the opposite sex- especially not with someone who previously annoyed the shit out of her. Pretty much all my female friends that I made after starting high school are pretty much my equivalent of beta orbiters. Most girls’ male friends are their own beta orbiters. If this girl keeps reaching out to you she clearly feels some sort of attraction to you. To answer your question thoug…
/r/askTRP20/08/19 03:01 AM
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Solid advice, let’s see if you can give me some more. My schedule is packed the next three days. I have lots of prep to do for going back to school and my family has planned with almost every way possible to spend time together before I leave. I maybe have time to meet up for a sunset or a dinner or something quick like that but not at all enough time to get the lay. Is the maybe hour of building sexual tension going to be effective in landing me a plate/FWB for next semester or no?
/r/askTRP12/08/19 11:03 PM
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Go with your gut. You already know the answer. A girl gave you a thumbs up. A GODDAMN THUMBS UP!! The other girl cold-approached you said yourself she went down there to smoke. If she was just being polite and wanted to make some lonely guy feel better she would have invited you to smoke or invited you to go to her. Instead she left her group of friends to talk to you. She wanted you for herself Both of these girls wanted you bro. Congrats!! Your hard work is paying off!!
/r/askTRP12/08/19 10:52 PM
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God speed!! I’m patiently waiting for your post
/r/askTRP12/08/19 10:46 PM
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Can confirm this is the recipe for success. I’ve recently joined the cheerleading team for a large university and the team wanted me to put on 5 lbs of muscle before fall semester started. Eating 5 meals a day, ensuring that you get at least 200 grams of protein a day, and lifting heavy weights with sets consisting of 6-10 reps will make you gain muscle FAST. It’s possible to gain 3lbs of muscle in a month no problem if you’re sticking to eating that much and lifting 4-6 times a week at least an…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/19 12:04 AM
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I used to have this problem ALL. THE. TIME. This is a side effect of being long-winded and/or boring. If a TV show is boring do you sit there and continue watching? No! You interrupt the show and change the channel to something more interesting. People are only willing to invest their time into things that interest them/ things they will get something out of. The longer something is, the more interest or reward a person has to gain from that thing in order for them to feel it is worth investing …
/r/askTRP25/07/19 09:51 PM
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The best advice I ever got going into high school: “Don’t fuck up.” Essentially, don’t waste time on things that won’t help you to be a better man. Don’t spend time doing things that will take away from the man you one day dream of becoming. 1) First and foremost, focus on your grades. You want to be able to choose whatever future you want for yourself (picking the job you want, picking the school you want, etc). Getting the best grades you can opens doors for you that allow you to make those de…
/r/askTRP23/07/19 06:16 AM
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Great advice, this makes a lot of sense. Thanks so much
/r/askTRP23/07/19 04:03 AM
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Solid advice. Used this one before and have gotten good results. That being said though, how does this exactly apply to sliding into DMs or to spinning plates that I can’t get with at the moment because of being away (vacations, summer, college, etc) but want to get with when I’m back close enough to schedule a meet up?
/r/askTRP19/07/19 04:36 AM
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