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1

He asked I guess lol I mean I don’t need this subreddit anymore but like to browse and comment still
/r/seduction06/09/23 11:51 PM
1

It may be what you are now but it’s not out of your control. You can lower your standards and/or improve your social skills and changeable things about your appearance. And you definitely need to drop the depressing defeatist attitude.
/r/seduction05/09/23 11:29 PM
1

How am I prejudiced against them?
/r/seduction05/09/23 09:03 PM
6

I wouldn’t say just barely but I find the 8s that have all the other qualities extremely attractive. I still consider them hot.
/r/seduction05/09/23 09:02 PM
5

Smart, fun, can dance and let loose, not tall but good looking, funny/can make them laugh, great career, own my own place, good friends, good stories and take them on fun dates and vacations, get along with pretty much everyone. I’ve dated girls like that before, just need to find the right one and seeing a girl right now who checks all the boxes so it’s not out of my league.
/r/seduction05/09/23 08:17 PM
1

Lol labeling yourself as an incel is the opposite of self respect.
/r/seduction05/09/23 08:13 PM
3

I don’t understand how someone who gets no sex can insult someone for paying for it. It would probably be good for you to pay for sex.
/r/seduction05/09/23 05:48 PM
62

I want a hot, loyal and compatible life partner
/r/seduction05/09/23 05:46 PM
6

Lol this is dumb af
/r/seduction04/08/23 05:50 AM
11

Except the very fact he did this means he didn’t play it right let alone perfectly
/r/seduction02/08/23 03:36 AM
8

No it’s not this is black pill bs
/r/seduction02/08/23 03:34 AM
0

Step 1 for you: stop being defeatist Step2: start working hard on your career. It’s very possible to make money if you work hard enough and make smart career decisions. I’m not in it, but a quick way to make it quick is get good at sales
/r/seduction17/07/23 03:58 AM
1

That’s not even that high for someone in their low 30s
/r/seduction13/07/23 11:04 PM
1

This is sleezy af just walk away
/r/seduction10/07/23 04:11 PM
9

Stop being creepy
/r/seduction31/05/23 06:38 PM
1

Lol what a stupid statement. I’ve never met a straight guy in my life who wants to pole dance. There’s no reason for it. They will assume you’re gay and then immediately switch that to creepy no matter how confident you are when they find out you’re not. There’s a reason it’s only girls in those classes.
/r/seduction02/04/23 02:25 PM
1

Never said that, there’s just better places
/r/seduction01/04/23 10:42 PM
1

Sure but it’s extremely easy to come off as creepy in that environment. Much easier to go to other dance classes to meet girls, ones where there’s still a bunch of girls, you can get close and dance, while also showing off your confidence. You’re working a steep uphill battle at a pole dancing class.
/r/seduction01/04/23 10:42 PM
3

I don’t think that but showing up to a pole dancing or twerking class to do so is inherently creepy
/r/seduction01/04/23 12:07 AM
1

Okay so you had one random day of success, doesn’t mean it’s a good place to go to do it
/r/seduction01/04/23 12:06 AM
30

Train one is an awful idea, no one wants to be bothered on the train. Pole dancing is also weird, every girl there (once they find out you’re not gay) knows you’re there just to creep on women.
/r/seduction31/03/23 06:16 PM
40

I might do this, it’s also good life skills so 2 for 1
/r/seduction31/03/23 06:14 PM
2

Go to bars where people are at the bar or standing, not at tables. Places with music and dancing helps a lot. Also, just go talk to them. It doesn’t matter if they’re with friends.
/r/seduction25/10/22 11:34 PM
1

This is great advice. Did you just make this up or get it from somewhere?
/r/seduction25/10/22 06:19 PM
2

It’s super easy to meet girls in bars. I do it multiple times every night I go out.
/r/seduction25/10/22 06:09 PM
1

Yeah I’ve been ghosted after fucking multiple times, even when they seemed all over me and loving it. Get over it. It happened and you won’t ever know why.
/r/seduction21/10/22 11:55 PM
5

Not really. I get them often, but that’s usually because I’ll go out and dance by myself.
/r/seduction07/10/22 10:27 PM
51

If it’s neutral then sure. If it’s negative then no
/r/seduction07/10/22 10:23 PM
3

I’m not the person to ask. Being happy isn’t possible all the time but achieving a state of equilibrium where you’re generally there is what I’m working towards. My own issues get in the way of that obviously. I’m at the point I’m looking for someone I can spend my entire life with after messing up past relationships so I’m just waiting for them to appear while trying to be my best self. I definitely put myself out there so I can be there when they do. I suspect that alone won’t be the finish li…
/r/seduction07/10/22 09:48 PM
1

For some perspective, I’m 30 and have a great job, career, own my own place and go on fun vacations, have a ton of friends, close and otherwise, do just fine with girls, yet I’m still not happy. That isn’t the finish line you are looking for.
/r/seduction07/10/22 09:15 PM
1

You’ve got to build enough attraction to where she wants to leave her friends. Or find girls with only one friend and use a wingman for the other, or find a girl that’s there alone.
/r/seduction01/08/22 07:09 PM
1

Occasionally is fine, if it’s all the time and to clubs with a single friend is another thing. Why would she not want you to go dance with her? I’ve never dated someone who would even want to do that
/r/seduction01/08/22 06:38 PM
1

Practice talking to other girls before you mess it up by being so unconfident with her. Stop ignoring her, just play it cool or make a move, that move should not be buying her a present
/r/seduction01/08/22 06:16 PM
1

Lol it’s only the second person you’ve slept with, getting lucky doesn’t make you an expert
/r/seduction01/08/22 05:56 PM
4

Then why even ask?
/r/seduction19/04/22 06:31 PM
8

You’re fine, it doesn’t matter if you can tell you’re fit in other ways. This is for girls that hide it.
/r/seduction10/12/21 09:37 PM
7

Or just the Midwest is a terrible place to live. The US is huge and many cities are much better for it
/r/seduction19/11/21 10:54 PM
16

Yeah I mean that’s all you can do. It seems like she just wanted to have fun and not fuck
/r/seduction09/10/21 12:16 AM
33

You lost your shot last night. Coming back again the next day screams desperation and wouldn’t work. Should’ve tried harder to close. Older women are pretty straightforward.
/r/seduction08/10/21 11:28 PM
7

That sub is nuts and an echo chamber. They banned me for just commenting in a completely unrelated sub. It’s only useful if you want a doormat for a bf.
/r/seduction08/10/21 11:26 PM
7

I get anxiety too yet put myself in situations that run against it to have a carefree attitude, if I’m having fun it’s easy, if I get a weird look from a girl or something it can make me second guess myself but you just gotta plow through it and just say fuck it, fuck them, they don’t matter and move on.
/r/seduction08/10/21 11:19 PM
9

I would argue even better than her touching her own
/r/seduction08/10/21 11:07 PM
-3

It never had a chance
/r/seduction08/10/21 11:03 PM
1

Yeah
/r/seduction12/08/21 07:46 PM
4

Get a soda water with a lime
/r/seduction11/08/21 05:10 PM
3

And that’s a good way to do it?
/r/seduction21/06/21 03:08 AM
3

Humans aren’t dogs and acting and thinking like one isn’t attractive
/r/seduction20/06/21 11:55 PM
1

Well yeah that’s seems to follow rules 1 and 2 perfectly
/r/seduction04/03/21 08:49 PM
1

Yeah sure but I also feels women’s taste in men varies more than men’s taste in women, not saying men don’t have preferences either tho. Attractiveness does matter, but there are many other things you can do to make yourself your attractive or more available.
/r/seduction04/03/21 08:29 PM
4

Eres muy bonita Quieres ir a mi casa o tu casa Me encanta la musica
/r/seduction17/02/21 11:34 PM
1

Lol oh okay I thought it was some video game language or something. That’s pretty cool you’re bilingual, that should help
/r/seduction17/11/20 01:04 AM
2

Idk what this is but I have a feeling it’s contributing to your virginity
/r/seduction16/11/20 11:22 PM
1

Or how about this? Be funny and make them laugh and then they’ll want to be around you.
/r/seduction12/11/20 12:03 AM
12

Rule 1: Be attractive
/r/seduction12/11/20 12:00 AM
1

Great
/r/seduction02/11/20 04:40 PM
1

Lol having an onlyfans account is something sought after girls do? You’d think attractive girls in a nice area would have standards and enough money
/r/seduction28/10/20 10:32 PM
1

Throwing myself in the deep end getting a sales job made approaching so much easier. Especially a cold call or cold approach sales job. When you have a job where you have to get rejected every minute of every day to filter through 100s of people to get one to talk to you, and then try to not mess that up, it really numbs you to rejection in all aspects of life.
/r/seduction28/10/20 06:11 PM
1

If you’re getting brutally rejected, you’re doing something wrong. Sure you might get a completely dismissive, bitchy response occasionally, but if you’re getting ripped into something isn’t right.
/r/seduction28/10/20 06:06 PM
1

No it’s not perfume, spray a squirt on your wrist and then rub them together and then on your neck.
/r/seduction28/10/20 04:24 PM
1

Wtf no.
/r/seduction28/10/20 04:22 PM
1

I got a gf at the start
/r/seduction28/10/20 04:21 PM
2

Girls will smile at you if you make eye contact with a friendly face and they think you’re attractive. Easy filter on who you should approach
/r/seduction28/10/20 04:20 PM
0

You can be a gentleman without being a simp
/r/seduction28/10/20 04:00 PM
1

Literally google it. You’re wrong. Language isn’t static and words have multiple meanings depending on their everyday use. It’s used all the time to talk about older women. “I’m going out with the girls” is said all the time by older women, not talking about children, but even 50+ year old women. “My girl” can be used for any aged women, “I’m going to go talk to that girl” is used all the fucking time for women aged 18-40. Many women like it as it’s a compliment that implies youth and vitality. …
/r/seduction15/10/20 06:12 PM
2

do you date underage girls? Thats accusing me of being a pedo. girl /ɡərl/ Learn to pronounce noun noun: girl; plural noun: girls 1. a female child. 2. a young or relatively young woman. It’s one of the definitions of girls. So not only are you accusatory and pedantic, you’re also wrong.
/r/seduction15/10/20 06:02 PM
2

All women are girls as well. Holy shit I didn’t even reply to you and you’re calling me a pedo based on simple vocabulary. I’m fairly young so I would still call girls my age girls. Fuck off. Gay women are attracted to different things, hence why they’re gay. Obviously everyone is different but it’s pretty common knowledge that women and girls that are attracted to men are attracted to men that they see other women are attracted to
/r/seduction15/10/20 05:39 PM
2

Do all the rest and act confident and charismatic and other girls will express slight interest and they’ll notice
/r/seduction15/10/20 03:54 PM
3

That was dumb to say around her family
/r/seduction15/10/20 03:53 PM
2

It’s a women’s perspective and it’s wrong
/r/seduction15/10/20 03:49 PM
3

The Disney version is the version every girl grew up watching so the origin story is irrelevant
/r/seduction15/10/20 03:47 PM
3

It’s not a neck beard, it’s girls giving dating advice to men, which is always terrible advice
/r/seduction15/10/20 03:43 PM
3

He literally didn’t have to do anything but not fuck it up. Her friend set it up, her friend set up the driving situation, she started kino, and she suggested to take him home. Real easy to just play it cool in that situation.
/r/seduction28/07/20 06:52 PM
1

Lol you don’t have to workout to get girls
/r/seduction28/07/20 05:55 PM
21

DMing randoms on instagram is weird, DMing girls you know and may have expressed interest in the past but don’t have their number by commenting on a story or something to get a conversation going is normal now and it works
/r/seduction20/05/20 03:43 PM
1

Change yourself into a high value man.
/r/seduction14/04/20 10:35 PM
2

I’m a pussy cause I use online to help get laid? I have no problem approaching in person.
/r/seduction14/04/20 10:33 PM
1

Wtf is this post?
/r/seduction08/04/20 04:25 PM
1

Cool story about you, doesn’t apply to anyone else here tho.
/r/seduction03/04/20 04:12 PM
0

Gotcha, seemed like the other reply you made up the thread implied you didn’t. Good for you
/r/seduction02/04/20 04:09 PM
0

Did you fuck her?
/r/seduction02/04/20 04:08 PM
0

Well you also wasted a ton of time when you’re leaving, but yeah that’s just unrelated to the pick up
/r/seduction02/04/20 04:04 PM
-1

You untied her shoes in a chem lab? That’s dangerous and immature
/r/seduction02/04/20 03:43 PM
2

Oh so you wasted the whole semester playing games and then ran out of time
/r/seduction02/04/20 03:42 PM
3

I’ve lost more girls from not texting them enough than the other way around. Probably cause I don’t text much in general.
/r/seduction29/03/20 07:49 PM
31

Wow this is weird opening reddit and this being the first thing I read after doing just that
/r/seduction25/03/20 02:28 PM
7

Nah this shit is cockblocking the fuck out of me
/r/seduction24/03/20 04:37 PM
1

I love Latin girls as well and it’s good that they like me too. From what I’ve noticed is you have to be interested and make an effort to be apart of their culture. I don’t know Spanish but I know a little bit and make an effort and like to dance and that’s usually enough.
/r/seduction24/03/20 04:36 PM
1

I can tell you’re Persian. Am I right?
/r/seduction24/03/20 04:25 PM
3

I don’t know what other people are on about you “winning” here. You definitely fucked this up. There’s so many better ways to handle this that keep your frame while also getting the girl. First, you should’ve made a move at the park. Luckily she liked you so it wasn’t a dealbreaker and she wanted to hang out more. Then you invite her over to your place right off the bat after not making a first move in a much better setting. Just cause you swindled her into your room doesn’t mean it’s all fair g…
/r/seduction23/03/20 10:12 PM
16

That’s such bs. I have many really close friends. Just have to switch off hanging out with them and make an effort to go out and see them.
/r/seduction23/03/20 05:36 AM
2

One time you’re allowed to be a dick to someone without girls thinking you’re an ass is when you 2 obviously were in the middle of something and someone comes and interrupts it. You can start by politely asking them to leave, but if they don’t you can give a girl a look and if she responds with one like ‘i know.’ You can literally tell a guy to fuck off and not have her get upset. Obviously read the situation and don’t go overboard and make sure she’s on the same page throughout that you wanna b…
/r/seduction12/03/20 01:00 AM
1

You were never ‘friends.’ She liked how you approached her and whatever you were texting her. She was probably like wtf is this guy doing taking so long the entire time. She set this all up, you did nothing.
/r/seduction12/03/20 12:51 AM
1

Everyone I’ve known that said this use it as an excuse to not approach. My friends and I have high standards as well and theres almost always someone in the bar attractive enough to at least hook up with for the night, if not, the just practice and talk with someone else til someone who is shows up, it looks good if you’re seen flirting with other girls.
/r/seduction12/03/20 12:37 AM
2

You’re overthinking this. If you make eye contact with a girl then go talk to her. You should be able to tell if she looks away when not interested vs when she is neutral or not interested. It’s not hard if you’ve had any social interaction in your life.
/r/seduction12/03/20 12:27 AM
1

God you sounds like a creep who just took this advice from a PUA website and ran with it to defend your creepiness
/r/seduction12/03/20 12:24 AM
0

You’re either hanging out with some real insecure guys all the time and need new friends, or it’s something else about you that puts guys off
/r/seduction12/03/20 12:13 AM
2

It’s a book
/r/seduction11/03/20 11:41 PM
6

Yup. I came here awhile ago 2015 or so, and it was so much better, definitely had PUAs back then but they were obvious and just YouTube videos and such. Best thing I did was read models and then went out and tried it myself. Nothing special like day game or anything just hitting on girls at bars and just social stuff and I got way better. I’ll do “daygame” occasionally now, as in just spark up conversation with random girls in my day to day life now, just cause it comes way more naturally now, b…
/r/seduction11/03/20 11:34 PM
1

It does if you have enough value. You can’t be a r/choosingbeggar
/r/seduction08/03/20 12:53 AM
1

You don’t, but that attitude isn’t going to help you get a girl tho. They want to be fucked. And want a man that is valuable to fuck them. A man that will love them and fuck them. That they are sexually attracted to. Just loving them is not enough. You have to provide other needs for them, humor, intelligent and emotional connection, sexually chemistry, and love.
/r/seduction07/03/20 11:58 PM
1

Sure man
/r/seduction07/03/20 10:47 PM
1

Yeah exactly, the reason why what that guy is saying is bs. It’s “unconditional” until she withholds sex.
/r/seduction07/03/20 09:35 PM
1

Yup. It’s why no girl wants you. Someday you might learn.
/r/seduction07/03/20 09:05 PM
1

That’s nothing special. Anyone can offer that.
/r/seduction07/03/20 07:03 PM
7

I take ‘no hookups’ as a better chance of hooking up with that girl. It means they’ve most likely been down to hook up in the past and I’ve just hooked up with many girls who have that in their profile.
/r/seduction06/03/20 10:58 PM
1

What do you offer them? They don’t need your “protection.” That’s an antiquated view of women.
/r/seduction06/03/20 09:57 PM
1

I’m attractive but no model. I’ve worked on myself a lot over the years to get to this point. It wasn’t always like this. I worked on myself for myself, professionally, socially, and emotionally and live a busy and exciting life that doesn’t require a woman in it, but comes with them because they like that. Step 1 was stop caring what others thought of me. Also, surround yourself with like-minded friends who are always looking to improve in whatever they’re passionate about. You’re mindset seems…
/r/seduction03/03/20 05:48 AM
1

Lol fuck no. I hate texting. I probably send 10-20 messages back and forth for each good match in setting up a date, and convert around 10% of those into actual dates. Could be more if I put more effort into it or wasn’t so busy. If I put in effort to swiping and responding I can easily get 3 dates a week set up. I’d say around 80% of them are on the level of attractive and down to hook up with for a bit and hang out if they’re cool, and 20% are pretty hot gf material.
/r/seduction03/03/20 05:02 AM
1

Cool. You also did nothing to make her want you besides being bold, but that’s not going to be enough. It wasn’t creepy but it was a bit weird. You’re taking these PUA tactics on their face, they’re more guidelines that you learn to use differently in different situations.
/r/seduction02/03/20 10:13 PM
1

You should try to remove or at least lower expectations. They can only disappoint. Girls aren’t going to just make it easy for you, especially attractive ones.
/r/seduction02/03/20 10:09 PM
2

True, and that’s about it. It’s not nothing but pretty close to it.
/r/seduction02/03/20 10:04 PM
3

You did nothing
/r/seduction02/03/20 10:03 PM
1

Guys aren’t so black and white attractive or not, definitely not as much as guys agree on girls. All girls have different taste in men and you never know til you try.
/r/seduction02/03/20 09:45 PM
1

I’m 5’8” (5’9” online) and do great with online dating. Takes effort and I have an exciting life and an attractive face but I’m not rich (not poor either) and not tall
/r/seduction02/03/20 09:42 PM
1

Uh it’s a long shot but “Hey how have you been?” Don’t overthink it
/r/seduction29/02/20 05:21 PM
1

Yeah that’s manipulative and creepy. Make plans with your friends so there’s actually something to invite her to
/r/seduction29/02/20 05:00 PM
1

You don’t put them on a pedestal, think of other women like their normal girls like them
/r/seduction28/02/20 11:00 PM
1

Do you have sisters or a mom?
/r/seduction28/02/20 10:54 PM
1

That sounds weird. If you’re going to do that why not just go to a regular bar and talk to girls who aren’t paid to be there?
/r/seduction28/02/20 10:51 PM
2

Drinking games and music
/r/seduction28/02/20 09:00 PM
1

Why would you say that? That’s pretty mean and I can’t imagine you have a shot with her ever now.
/r/seduction28/02/20 08:58 PM
1

I usually don’t respond right away when I first see it and then come back to it when I remember, whether that’s in a minute or the next day. So depends on how much I want to.
/r/seduction27/02/20 09:17 PM
25

You should either start with that second line or try and create a casual conversation off your opening. Admitting to a disingenuous initial question is a bad look, it either looks unconfident or manipulative, or both. But good job, gotta get that first one out of the way!
/r/seduction27/02/20 09:01 PM
4

Took 6 hours of your time. You literally have nothing better to do? What do you say when girls ask what you like to do? Oh I just spend all my time trying to talk to girls. That’s not attractive. And you’ve said you’ve been practicing game for 5 years now. Something’s off.
/r/seduction25/02/20 12:32 AM
6

You’re not getting results tho. You wasted so much time for 2 texts back from one girl before being ignored. I get my results from just having fun, living my life, and taking opportunities as they present themselves. Your method is so forced and your results show that the girls can sense that and it’s unattractive.
/r/seduction25/02/20 12:19 AM
1

Don’t take that advice. It’s weird and creepy.
/r/seduction25/02/20 12:06 AM
1

You didn’t build enough attraction in the initial meeting. Drop it and maybe you’ll see her around naturally, if not, there’s plenty of other women out there.
/r/seduction25/02/20 12:04 AM
2

I would never say that either, it’s like trying to prove to her that you have friends and other things to do when that completely unnecessary. Just say alright cool bye
/r/seduction24/02/20 09:58 PM
3

You didn’t actually improve much
/r/seduction24/02/20 04:53 PM
2

Always confirm a date the day of and maybe even the night before as well. If they haven’t heard anything from you in 2 days they aren’t going to just show up hoping you’ll be there.
/r/seduction24/02/20 04:50 PM
2

You’re in the minority. I’ve killed too many conversations with girls ruining my chances bringing up any of those topics and even continuing off them bringing them up to ever do it again. There a time and place though for sure.
/r/seduction23/02/20 04:29 AM
6

If they bring it up sure, but it kills the vibe most the time, better to just avoid it
/r/seduction22/02/20 04:43 PM
7

Or just in general
/r/seduction11/02/20 02:23 PM
2

Yeah and when one of us gets eyes from a girl and we ask each other should we go? Fuck it. But idk if I’m feeling it? Fuck it. Alright fuck it let’s go.
/r/seduction08/02/20 01:17 AM
5

I go out with my friends and we say alright we aren’t leaving until we get rejected 10 times. Usually by the second or third we’re talking to girls for the rest of the night.
/r/seduction08/02/20 12:15 AM
1

No because I assume they’re all attracted to me. It’s a mindset, not a task.
/r/seduction07/02/20 01:57 AM
2

Yeah she’s not worth it even if she is into you. Be nice but don’t make any effort to befriend or hit on her.
/r/seduction22/10/19 03:51 AM
2

She told other guys that she didn’t like you giving eye contact? But she was touching your feet? This girl is either not interested and creeped out or interested and playing games. Be nice but don’t give her attention, let her chase you or let it go.
/r/seduction22/10/19 03:41 AM
1

It used to be a much bigger difference for me until I stopped worrying about it
/r/seduction01/10/19 10:52 PM
2

That’s a good start but I would try and get them to invest more in the conversation, asking questions is a good way to get the conversation going and necessary, but getting them to share more by using open ended questions and then getting a good conversation flow going is important. Make comments and suggestions and in-depth inquiries on why the think about something a certain way to get it going and then share about yourself as well to make a connection. Sharing 1 thing about yourself for every…
/r/seduction01/10/19 10:36 PM
3

I’m 5’8” and had no problem approaching and dating attractive women. They do give shit tests on it occasionally to see how you react and if you’re insecure about it but once you pass that they don’t care. Obviously there’s ones that filter you out immediately but that can happen for a multitude of other reasons anyways.
/r/seduction01/10/19 10:29 PM
5

You didn’t even have to kiss her, you could’ve just ripped her pants off and fucked her right then
/r/seduction19/09/19 11:46 PM
1

You gotta let it go. I felt the same and 4 years later I’m finally dating someone else. They may not be that other person and you may always love the other person, but they were there for that part of your life and you can be thankful for it, but someone else is right for the next part of your life.
/r/seduction28/08/19 11:09 PM
1

You should’ve made a move. It didn’t escalate because you didn’t escalate it. She’s not gonna do it.
/r/seduction28/08/19 11:02 PM
1

You don’t show that side until you’re making out at least
/r/seduction28/08/19 10:55 PM
1

You don’t live in a city do you? This is not an issue whatsoever even going to the same bar where I live. Maybe the bartenders notice but who cares. If you do it respectfully you shouldn’t have an issue.
/r/seduction28/08/19 10:36 PM
1

Look it up. That’s basic communication.
/r/seduction26/06/19 08:05 PM
1

I mean the only time you see her is where she works so you gotta make some small talk when you’re ordering I guess and then as for her number. Something like “ Hey I think you’re pretty cute and I’d love to take you out sometime” its a stretch and I personally never hit on anyone while their working but what else can you do?
/r/seduction26/06/19 07:17 PM
1

You just said you were catching feelings in your post. Something unique in her eyes? That could mean anything. Make a move, nothing else you can do but try.
/r/seduction26/06/19 07:10 PM
3

You can if you’re honest with both of them about it. Otherwise you’re being selfish and a cheating bitch.
/r/seduction25/06/19 11:59 PM
1

And then you’ll start this all over again once he texts you again. Just break up with your current bf what you’re doing isn’t fair to him.
/r/seduction25/06/19 11:49 PM
2

You can’t generalize all men like that. You’re being dumb. Your bf doesn’t like sex for some reason so you fuck your ex behind his back. Who also wants to be with you for some reason but you won’t leave your current bf who you obviously aren’t happy with. Grow up and make a choice.
/r/seduction25/06/19 11:20 PM
2

Well then let him know you want to open your relationship so you can fuck your ex. Why are you asking us for advice on this subreddit? This is your problem that you’re causing 100%.
/r/seduction25/06/19 11:13 PM
1

Why are you with him? Do you ever initiate sex with him?
/r/seduction25/06/19 10:52 PM
1

Uh... why not?
/r/seduction25/06/19 10:50 PM
2

Idk what thing your talking about but you need to make a choice. You’re being a bitch.
/r/seduction25/06/19 10:19 PM
1

What are you doing? How can you catch feelings for someone you don’t even know? And there’s no way she has feelings for you, she probably doesn’t even know you exist. Either go up and talk to her and ask her out or move on.
/r/seduction25/06/19 09:47 PM
1

Find your local cougar bar
/r/seduction25/06/19 04:52 PM
7

You both are pretty fucked up. Just break up with your current relationships already and be fucked up together.
/r/seduction25/06/19 04:41 PM
1

I’m dating an older woman right now
/r/seduction18/04/19 02:18 PM
2

Why wouldn’t girls older be interested? Do you not have anything going for you?
/r/seduction17/04/19 09:18 PM
1

Obviously
/r/seduction17/04/19 09:06 PM
5

Drop em. They’re boring.
/r/seduction17/04/19 07:38 PM
3

I feel weird hitting on girls in those club settings as well. I also enjoy dancing by myself. However, if an attractive girl actually came to up me and wanted to grind her butt on me I would jump on that opportunity. You seem like you’re doing fine, you’re there to just have fun and girls pick up on that. Just continue to enjoy yourself but just take the opportunities given to you.
/r/seduction04/03/19 01:40 AM
1

Just make a joke of it and call her a cougar or something.
/r/seduction20/02/19 11:20 PM
1

Giving her a note isn’t bold. Starting up a conversation is.
/r/seduction20/02/19 10:23 PM
1

Yeah. Other times I’ve tried introducing myself or saying hey your cute and that doesn’t work either
/r/seduction20/02/19 09:05 PM
1

So I’m a pretty good dancer and can definitely get to where girls are “approaching” me on the dance floor. But once they are in my space what do you do t make a move? I’ve had girls rubbing their butts up against me in a crowded dance floors but once I reach down and put my hand on their waist they act like oh wtf are you doing?
/r/seduction20/02/19 07:46 PM
1

The only new words to me you’ve said in that statement are bitch and league. Good. I’ll never stoop to your league you barren cunt.
/r/seduction20/02/19 04:01 AM
1

Im perfectly secure. You’re the old dude posting in a seduction sub telling high schoolers to give up learning social skills til they turn 30. What happens when you get your degree, start making good money well before 30, and have a ton of free time? You’re advice sucks because it’s not applicable to most people. You’re getting way too heated off any sign of confrontation and can’t even intelligently respond and instead respond with ad hominem attacks. You’re in no place to be giving advice. No …
/r/seduction20/02/19 03:51 AM
1

Mid-late 20s here. Looks like I’m on a similar path. Heart broken and scared of commitment. I don’t cheat I jut cut off relationships before they get too far.
/r/seduction20/02/19 03:46 AM
1

They asked for mine just as much as they asked for yours. Ah so making 6 figures is what makes you a man? So some people never become a man their entire lives? What a toxic mindset. Enlighten me on why that’s such great advice. Let’s all give up improving ourselves until we hit 30 cause it’s all pointless and no one takes you seriously until you hit that arbitrary landmark. Lol fuck off loser.
/r/seduction20/02/19 03:36 AM
1

Join a sport
/r/seduction20/02/19 03:32 AM
1

The dude is late 30s at least, that’s like 4-5 people a year which isn’t that much. Maybe he wasn’t looking for someone for awhile but yeah that’s fairly old and something else is probably up unless he wasn’t actively looking. Some people like being alone better.
/r/seduction20/02/19 02:55 AM
1

80 isn’t that ridiculous
/r/seduction20/02/19 02:48 AM
1

Don’t put your late timetable on other people. I was fully independent and treated like an adult by the time I was 22
/r/seduction20/02/19 02:43 AM
2

High school is one of the easiest places to make friends
/r/seduction20/02/19 02:41 AM
2

Don’t tell her not to send them or say meh. That’s mean
/r/seduction15/02/19 10:18 PM
3

r/relationships
/r/seduction15/02/19 09:36 PM
2

You seem cool
/r/seduction13/02/19 02:26 AM
1

Some things definitely can and maybe this hooks one girl but the majority of girls would just stop replying at this point. I try and get to a date as soon as possible cause my type of humor really doesn’t translate well over text
/r/seduction12/02/19 10:55 PM
1

This is funny but they probably wouldn’t find it so
/r/seduction12/02/19 10:35 PM
1

Ask her to hang out and go for it!
/r/seduction08/02/19 02:35 AM
1

Have you kissed her yet?
/r/seduction08/02/19 02:12 AM
1

You have no idea if he actually fucks these girls. If it really bothers you that much then ask him. He’s the only one who knows. We aren’t going to be able to give you an educated answer on here.
/r/seduction08/02/19 01:59 AM
3

Just tell her. It’s a lot more effort and time to try and make her do it
/r/seduction08/02/19 01:47 AM
0

Did you seriously go through all the effort to post about some dude who you stalked on fb and don’t even know? Who gives a shit.
/r/seduction08/02/19 01:45 AM
1

You’ve got to be very physically attractive for that to work well
/r/seduction31/01/19 04:45 PM
31

This whole video was a long way of saying the last sentence“create a plot line in your interactions”
/r/seduction16/01/19 09:42 PM
4

Good job man! Now you gotta listen to what she is actually saying and respond based on that, don’t try playing games until you get a better feel for it, girls are smart, you’ll probably lose haha
/r/seduction27/11/18 12:01 AM
1

Be on her team and lead her. If you get separated just shoot her once if you encounter her, don’t “light her up.” Have fun
/r/seduction20/10/18 05:27 PM
2

She’s not gonna send nudes if she thinks your just gonna send them to all your friends
/r/seduction20/10/18 05:12 PM
1

Why do you need to tell her that? You flew halfway around the world, what else does she want?
/r/seduction17/10/18 12:22 AM
6

Eye contact, positioning themselves nearby, smiling invitingly
/r/seduction10/07/18 12:09 AM
3

When it’s in liquid form those bonds are constantly moving from one to another, always keeping that general pattern of H touching O atoms as one side is + and the other - charged. It’s a weaker intermolecular bond that is more “fluid” and changing. So it depends on how you define “on” but I definitely think that includes “in” so I would call it wet. You could make an argument that ice is not wet I guess from that structure argument, but most I’ve has a layer of water slightly melted on it unless…
/r/seduction09/06/18 05:27 AM
5

No cause with his definition of having water on/in it to be wet, the other water molecules have water on or inbetween them so they are wet
/r/seduction09/06/18 05:17 AM
8

No because fire is the process of combustion. The fire itself is not combusting
/r/seduction09/06/18 04:28 AM
9

Well some of the water has water on it so it is
/r/seduction09/06/18 04:12 AM
3

You’re way overthinking this
/r/seduction23/04/18 01:15 AM
1

Creepy
/r/seduction12/04/18 07:33 PM
1

Depends on how you answer it. If you don’t even recognize it as a shit test it doesn’t work. I just think that’s a weird question and would respond like I thought it was
/r/seduction10/02/18 10:54 PM
1

Make a move or move on dude
/r/seduction10/02/18 07:06 PM
2

Oh god she seems like way too much to deal with. Not even a kiss after that. Did you try? She put a guy who hit her over you... drop her and watch her come running but stand your ground. She’s using you for validation.
/r/seduction10/02/18 04:46 PM
2

If you’re ready to commit go for it and Girl 1 seems like a sweet girl and that calculator is not a cheap gift. But you have to let her know that but it’s a weird situation if you haven’t even kissed her yet. If see how it goes with her hanging it and putting yourself out there. If she still.... 5+ months after getting out of a relationship still can’t make up her mind enough to even kiss you I’d tell her straight up I like you but you need to figure out your own issues and I can’t wait around f…
/r/seduction10/02/18 07:16 AM
1

Tell them the truth and ask what they drive
/r/seduction10/02/18 06:20 AM
1

Oh god no
/r/seduction10/02/18 06:20 AM
1

If you’ve never even kissed a girl just get some experience. Idk your personality but if you can be outgoing and dance even a little you can just go to a club like place and dance and kiss a girl there to get the monkey off your back. It’s easy, just have fun, dance, don’t expect anything and then when you’re vibing and dancing close, front to front just go for it slow but with confidence, if she doesn’t kiss you act nothing of it as long and she’s still dancing with you it’s cool just smile kno…
/r/seduction10/02/18 06:17 AM
1

Yeah I mean I’m not trying to start a text convo I hate texting. But maybe they say something interesting and I can comment and then I say something like that
/r/seduction07/02/18 04:10 PM
1

Why would you choose a boring dinner date over that? I’d just wait til your next event and then message her inviting her
/r/seduction07/02/18 01:36 AM
0

No it’s grammar and vocabulary
/r/seduction07/02/18 01:10 AM
1

I don’t really use Facebook but for text I guess I just use Hey! how have you been? :) if it’s a girl who I used to see a bunch that usually works, otherwise just mention oh this cool event I’m going to or something they’d find interesting . I’m not an expert here but I get fair results
/r/seduction07/02/18 01:02 AM
3

Cheesy works. If you’re funny and not cringey
/r/seduction07/02/18 12:43 AM
1

I go for 1-2 days if available, if not that than soonest available dare which is usually the next week or something
/r/seduction07/02/18 12:18 AM
1

Commenting on a social media story works well for me
/r/seduction07/02/18 12:14 AM
1

Have you hooked up with her yet? Seems like an ideal situation if you have. You can be friends with benefits if you play it right I guess. Nothing’s stopping you
/r/seduction31/01/18 11:07 PM
3

Oh god yeah you went way too traditional with this. You should’ve asked her to hang out or grab a drink in person the night before
/r/seduction26/01/18 01:07 AM
1

Yeah you’re supposed to be looking for it but not look like it. Girls pick up on that stuff really easily. Oh so you were alone too, that makes it worse. I don’t like to pick up girls on a dance floor anyways, I like to talk to them at the bar or whatever and then ask them to go dance, but that’s just me.
/r/seduction30/12/17 11:36 AM
1

They could probably tell you were just there to pick up girls and weren’t having fun yourself
/r/seduction30/12/17 10:36 AM
2

Car is a classic but some girls won’t do that. If it’s cold outside you’re kinda out of luck unless you have a friends place or party to go to or something
/r/seduction30/12/17 10:18 AM
3

I feel like you’d fit in great with Greek life with that attitude.
/r/seduction30/12/17 10:06 AM
1

Oh god no don’t say that. I’d say let it go if she’s already rejected you twice. If you are I would just ask her out normally
/r/seduction14/12/17 06:03 PM
1

Models is more of a mindset type book
/r/seduction05/12/17 10:41 PM
1

Situational stuff is always the best, then once the ice is broken you can introduce yourself
/r/seduction05/12/17 08:35 PM
1

She would be like wtf if I said we’re dating
/r/seduction01/12/17 08:33 PM
1

Cause there’s no pretense on it going anywhere further, we’re friends, and act like friends while together
/r/seduction01/12/17 05:05 AM
1

Not even close, we only see each other once a month or so, text sparingly, and see other people
/r/seduction01/12/17 04:10 AM
1

I always try and go for the pull and only when logistics don’t work out do I ask for the number. They usually flake.
/r/seduction01/12/17 01:07 AM
1

Dude you need to man up, go over there, and fuck her. With what has been said and arranged so far you honestly (if you don’t puss out) just ask if she wants to hang out, her place or yours, and then right when she gets there say something like “I just want you right now” or something to that extent and go for it, start heavily making out with her and taking off her clothes. You could even not say anything at all. Right when the door opens, confidently just step in give her that look and start ma…
/r/seduction01/12/17 01:05 AM
2

Not true at all. I have a FWB where we hang out, are actually good friends, have deep conversations and fuck. But we are not together and there’s no pressure to be.
/r/seduction01/12/17 12:55 AM
1

One of my favorite things to do when I was with my ex and we were having a fight was to right in the middle of a heated argument to throw in something funny, related but funny. Just stopped the fight in its tracks when she stopped, smiled, and laughed.
/r/seduction01/12/17 12:47 AM
1

Dale Carnegie - How to make friends and influence people
/r/seduction01/12/17 12:16 AM
3

I have never received a blow job with a condom on, just make sure she doesn’t have a cold sore or something. Wrap it up when having sex for sure tho.
/r/seduction23/11/17 01:49 AM
7

Pretend you never found that out and proceed with assumed attraction. People can like and even love multiple people at once
/r/seduction07/11/17 08:47 PM
-1

Smile!
/r/seduction26/10/17 05:08 AM
1

You’re making a child/girl pose in the second pic
/r/seduction13/10/17 08:59 PM
1

Go for a walk after dinner, get ice cream or something if you need an excuse
/r/seduction09/10/17 05:38 PM
2

You aren’t seducing anyone. Seems like you’re afraid or nervous or something. Man up and take these opportunities.
/r/seduction09/10/17 03:57 AM
6

You need to get over yourself. You talk about not even needing to seduce these girls yet you’ve never even kissed a girl. Don’t text them that, how about starting by actually kissing them? Go hang out at a park or some bs like that. A girl, even one that is into you, is not just going to fuck you that easily, they don’t want to feel like a slut, you gotta make them feel comfortable and like it was their idea
/r/seduction09/10/17 01:56 AM
1

You’re messing up, you don’t get 50 pts, you’re supposed to have 50 pts to get Models. So you have 34 point but get models so the scale is broken
/r/seduction08/10/17 02:42 AM
4

Surprised you could even spit game while on acid. If she knew it’s probably no big deal. Don’t mention it and do it better next time
/r/seduction07/10/17 11:48 PM
3

Ask her out
/r/seduction05/10/17 04:59 AM
1

Tinder works well for me, some of the hottest girls I’ve slept with are from there
/r/seduction03/10/17 11:11 PM
4

Hand or arm touch, easy if she’s wearing jewelry and you can point it out saying you like it while touching it. Then when you’re walking somewhere you can casually (important, nothing is a big deal) put your hand on her lower back to lead her. Also can put your arm around her if it’s an acceptable environment sitting somewhere. Then you can pull her into you by her waist and kiss her later. These are really the only key ones I’ve ever needed. The more the better tho, as long as it’s casual and s…
/r/seduction03/10/17 11:02 PM
1

Do you really wanna be going for 19 year olds at 28? I'm 25 and 18-19 year olds are really immature to me, most are annoyingly so. 20-21 min here
/r/seduction30/09/17 04:39 PM
1

I try calling and don't have an issue with it, but with girls my age (mid to low 20s) they really just want a text most the time. They don't need to answer right then, they can be too busy to take a call a lot of the time
/r/seduction30/09/17 04:33 PM
1

Yeah she definitely seems like that kind of girl that loves male attention. But I feel she also wants to settle down, but only with a guy that would take care of her (money, etc) I mean I'm doing something right cause she wants to hang out and hooks up with me and texts me first and such, but yeah I fucked up and asked her to be exclusive pretty early and that's when she said she wanted to keep it casual. So now, yeah basically I'm backing off and just gonna try and keep my emotions out of it as…
/r/seduction30/09/17 05:14 AM
1

Alright what about a girl who has a lot of guy friends, some girls friends but mainly guys, and you've already slept with her? Bad news still? She doesn't want to commit but says she's not been hooking up with others
/r/seduction30/09/17 04:15 AM
4

The mindset. Doesn't teach anything. Discourages people.
/r/seduction28/09/17 03:01 AM
15

Wow that was awful. He's not happy because he's not secure enough with himself that he thinks she's gonna run off with someone else.
/r/seduction27/09/17 10:49 PM
6

Yeah each time I get hurt it's not as bad as the last. Gets easier and easier to become detached
/r/seduction27/09/17 02:12 AM
1

Maybe he thought he could change your thoughts on it? And maybe he thinks that cause you hooked up other ways early on. From reading your responses he seems very sexually oriented with his interactions with you.
/r/seduction14/09/17 08:00 AM
1

Sounds like he wants to have sex with you and you don't so he's losing interest.
/r/seduction14/09/17 07:38 AM
1

Same
/r/seduction09/09/17 01:25 AM
2

Don't call after she doesn't respond. Call when you know she's responding and by her phone
/r/seduction25/08/17 02:55 AM
2

I like to send a text the next day, just something small bringing back an inside joke or something funny from the night before
/r/seduction29/06/17 05:38 PM
1

This is great. I've always wanted to approach in a grocery store but don't know where to start
/r/seduction28/03/17 10:12 PM
1

Idk maybe to some girls. Why are you talking to a girl 598 miles away anyways?
/r/seduction28/03/17 09:52 PM
1

Along with the selfies, if all her pictures, including ones with friends are from the same angle, she's usually hiding a feature she feels insecure about.
/r/seduction28/03/17 09:50 PM
1

I've gotten some good results w online and my rule of thumb. Get an interesting convo started, 5-10 messages back and forth, who cares how long it takes, are you busy or are you not? (if you're never busy and always respond right away that's another issue) Then ask her out and for number at the same time. Set up date over text for as soon as possible.
/r/seduction28/03/17 07:57 PM
1

I wonder why
/r/seduction28/03/17 07:52 PM
2

Not if your occupation is interesting
/r/seduction28/03/17 07:50 PM
1

Exactly how I'd imagined he looked
/r/seduction28/03/17 07:27 PM
1

You're overthinking this. She obviously wants to test it out with you if she's coming over to your place to hang out. Just be laid back and act cool and when you go in for the kiss make sure it's at a good time when you've built comfort and kino. You sound needy and like you have one-itus and she can probably sense this. Be a man and make a move and read her reactions. And no matter how she reacts always be cool and comfortable with yourself.
/r/seduction28/03/17 06:59 PM
2

How is that anything like the same boat as him? and thats not a boat you wanna be in neither
/r/seduction21/03/17 01:11 AM
5

What resources did you provide? Literally just a brag not related at all to what was posted
/r/seduction14/03/17 10:07 PM
4

What does that have to do with anything?
/r/seduction14/03/17 08:17 PM
4

Wow that was tough to listen to. He basically repeated the same 3 points over and over again.
/r/seduction01/03/17 04:57 PM
1

Most people would call me short, at 5' 8" and I have definitely gotten much better. I got a nickname of awkward boy in high school from some assholes
/r/seduction21/02/17 04:39 AM
4

You should probably reply to that message. If she didn't want to see you again she wouldn't have messaged you first on there. Maybe she's just cautious about giving her number out for some reason n
/r/seduction22/01/17 04:09 PM
1

Asu is a shit school academically
/r/seduction16/01/17 03:55 PM
3

Not if you don't know what you're doing, my tinder and bumble convos are either just normal and kinda boring or more interesting and then die off when I make a comment and not ask a question
/r/seduction02/12/16 08:28 PM
3

I guess I suck at creating tension
/r/seduction02/12/16 08:15 PM
1

How do you get a number w/o asking or hinting?
/r/seduction02/12/16 08:09 PM
3

Then a smart one corrects you and tells you that they don't live in the antarctic
/r/seduction01/05/16 08:04 AM
1

We are me.
/r/seduction23/08/15 06:39 AM
12

Wish I could do my first quarter of college over again without the shitty long distance relationship i kept from high school that ended a couple months later. was way too easy to talk to girls
/r/seduction22/08/15 02:05 AM
1

so clubs or bars aren't your thing, but concerts are perfect, if you are into any type of music. You don't need to drink to have a good time, meet lots of people easily, can dance, and you get to meet girls with similar music taste
/r/seduction11/05/15 08:03 PM
2

hi my names ______ whats yours? ... yea I'm just out here having fun, friends were being lame tonight
/r/seduction14/12/14 09:35 AM
3

yes i feel girls aren't creeped out at all, even the opposite, as long as you pull it off
/r/seduction14/12/14 09:31 AM
5

went out to a bar solo for the first time last week. Ended up getting kinda drunk and dancing my ass off, saw some friends down there as its kinda a small town but didn't hang with anyone for too long. Danced with a bunch of girls and made out with at least 4, including 2 girls that were friends and going back and forth haha. Just went out to have a good time and it worked, was a lot better than i expected. It is nice because you can focus on what you want to do (pick up girls?) and don't have t…
/r/seduction13/12/14 09:47 PM
1

How do you tell girls they are making bad conversation without putting them off even more?
/r/seduction03/12/14 06:35 AM
1

how have they evolved?
/r/seduction25/11/14 07:41 PM
1

It helps for me, haven't done it for too long but when I don't fap I feel more confident and just better in general, also gives me more incentive to break past the AA cause I can't just go home and wack it. I wouldn't call it superpowers but I feel it does make a difference.
/r/seduction25/11/14 07:39 PM
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