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| 18 | What can I bake into divorce decree to prevent further alienation? | Legal Rights | spent_shy | /r/MensRights | 29/09/15 04:29 PM |
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| 1 | Custody battle is about to kill me.So your feeling is correct about not putting them in the middle. I wouldn’t involve them in the negotiations of the arrangement at all unless they’re in their late teens. Ie They don’t get a say until they’re near adults; Therefore no guilt or stress on their part, maybe just some whining. I’d be wary of you kids not getting enough time with you. It’s easy for a bitter ex to shape the mind of your kids against you, especially if you get limited time with them. Have you seen signs of alienation f… | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/02/19 03:35 AM |
| 3 | Custody battle is about to kill me.I had luck when I petitioned the court to have an “ad litem” attorney appointed for my daughter. The judge may never listen to you, but you can be damn sure she’ll listen to your kids attorney. Because of the drama, The ad litem appointed a counselor that specializes in alienation cases and mandated that the ex and I take her alternating visits. Took six months, but my relationship with my daughter is now back on track. I don’t know if an ad litem attorney can be appointed in your case given its… | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/02/19 12:54 AM |
| 1 | Wife keeps asking for a divorce and then changing her mind. Should I stay or should I go?There are two possible scenarios here: 1 - She dissatisfied with you as a man. Attraction in women is driven by being courted by a man who doesn’t quite need a woman. By continually caving when she tests you, you’re showing that she has all the power. This testing is subconscious on the part of the woman, so don’t confront her or try to have a rational argument about it. You can “pass” her test by refusing to bow to her irrational demands. This will increase her attraction. That stated do this g… | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/02/19 02:57 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone in Illinois won custody or increased their parenting time based on parental alienation ? Right now I have EOW And a weeknight. My 13 year old is wanting NOTHING to do with me. Claims she’s more of (my ex wife’s last name) than (my last name). Told her sister I’m not her real dad etc..PM me if you need anything. Im happy to another parent suffering from alienation. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/02/19 08:32 PM |
| 3 | Has anyone in Illinois won custody or increased their parenting time based on parental alienation ? Right now I have EOW And a weeknight. My 13 year old is wanting NOTHING to do with me. Claims she’s more of (my ex wife’s last name) than (my last name). Told her sister I’m not her real dad etc..Because children, especially younger children, are highly dependent on their parents they are vulnerable to a Stockholm Syndrome like influence if one parent decides to alienate the other. Basically to ensure survival, the child shapes his/her perspective to match that of the parent that’s taking care of them. As the other parent in such a case, your best bet in such a case is to maximize the time you spend with your child, regardless if they want to see you or not. Without time with your kid, y… | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/02/19 08:30 PM |
| 3 | Has anyone in Illinois won custody or increased their parenting time based on parental alienation ? Right now I have EOW And a weeknight. My 13 year old is wanting NOTHING to do with me. Claims she’s more of (my ex wife’s last name) than (my last name). Told her sister I’m not her real dad etc..I had luck when I petitioned the court to have an “ad litem” attorney appointed for my daughter. The judge may never listen to you, but you can be damn sure she’ll listen to your kids attorney. Because of the drama, The ad litem appointed a counselor that specializes in alienation cases and mandated that the ex and I take her alternating visits. Took six months, but my relationship with my daughter is now back on track. Also read the “Divorce Poison” book. Has plenty of Dos/Donts and strategies … | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/02/19 02:37 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone in Illinois won custody or increased their parenting time based on parental alienation ? Right now I have EOW And a weeknight. My 13 year old is wanting NOTHING to do with me. Claims she’s more of (my ex wife’s last name) than (my last name). Told her sister I’m not her real dad etc..You clearly don’t understand parental alienation. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/02/19 02:30 AM |
| 1 | Wife keeps asking for a divorce and then changing her mind. Should I stay or should I go?I think you should read some books on women’s psychology from a man’s perspective. Maybe some stuff from Athol Kay. You’re expecting a rational response and for her to be explicit about what she needs. That’s clearly not going to happen. The basics: Start getting in shape, acting in charge, and doing what you please. I think you’ll oddly find her becoming more satisfied in the relationship. Your conciliatory (“I’ll do what she wants behavior”) is a part of the problem. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/02/19 02:25 AM |
| 3 | Here I am again at a bar killing time to go home, hopefully shes asleep when I get home. I come here after a long day at work to kill time, I cant stand going home and interacting with her. Shes terrible. All we do is argue. I hate my home life. I want out!This! | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/10/18 02:56 AM |
| 13 | Kill her, kill her lover, or should I kill myself??Walk away. Your only real (and best) option. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/16 04:43 PM |
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