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Here's how to view a lot of this- Women are looking for a "safe castle" Within the walls of this safe castle, they can feel free, happy and let their full guard down and their sexual, sensual energy fully out. If you do ANYTHINgh to make them question that safety or the security of your 'walls', she's gonna back off if not back out. In fact, that's what 'shit tests' are- she's checking the strength of your walls. And, here's the key for you, if she finds a weak spot, she will instinctively keep …
/r/TheRedPill24/02/18 07:01 AM
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Yep. There's a pure logic here. The time and focus spent on YOUR life/business/income is more fruitfully spent there so that there is more 'leftovers' to be spent on the pure fun of sugars/hookers. Quality of life. Quality of tail. Simplicity. I get it.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/18 05:58 AM
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Nothing. Don't do a thing. She wants friends. See if she does/initiates anything 'friendly' You'll likely hear nothing directly to you (just a long series of generic postings) and when you get tired of it unfriend her.
/r/seduction15/02/18 10:20 PM
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I say "I love you, too" a lot :)
/r/seduction12/02/18 09:40 PM
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I'm subtle :)
/r/seduction09/02/18 11:59 PM
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To mock it back to The Stone Age??? Miss the sarcasm, did you?
/r/seduction09/02/18 11:20 PM
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Well, I'll have to say that 'hot' girls aren't exactly what I'm looking for. My experience has been that the 'top of the genetic lottery' have developed a narcissistic view of the world (not blaming but when things are easier from looks alone) it tends to screw with your perspective. I consider myself 'above average' as well and my past gf's have supported that insofar as they have also been well above average. I've done well However, the OLD/swiping stuff has become much harder recently. I don'…
/r/seduction09/02/18 08:22 PM
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Bumble is super easy! You look at pictures of women and swipe right on the ones you would like to meet and potentially sleep with. Then you close the app. A couple days later do it again. Repeat as often as you like. There's no annoying notifications of messages just complete dead silence like it's not even on your phone. It's really just a picture rating service- you get to decide what "attractive is" to you and women get to see how many men find them "attractive" Cool, huh? :)
/r/seduction09/02/18 05:29 PM
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Ask girls out. Repeat.
/r/seduction09/02/18 06:40 AM
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Geez, I'd all but forgotten Athol Kay! I loved his stuff when I read it several years ago.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/18 05:37 AM
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Attractive is simply the opposite of the above. Again, that's why I say being attractive is mostly NOT doing unattractive things. The basic grooming and cleanliness is all you can do above what you've genetically been given. Maximize what you have been given. Then don't 'negate' those by doing 'unattractive' things/behaviours. You can catch her eye with looking 'nice' and walking with confidence and using eye contact. But then when talking to her (presuming you use that confidence to go talk to …
/r/TheRedPill27/01/18 06:49 PM
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Being needy; not saying 'No'; deferring to her wants more often than yours; being always avail to talk/text/meet; no eye contact; weak posture; no guy friends; waiting for her to initiate/lead; one-itis; regulary cleaning, polishing and raising her 'pedestal'.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/18 03:15 AM
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"Be Hugh Hefner. James Bond also works"
/r/seduction08/01/18 02:19 PM
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You're welcome. Needy and dependant are the top 'unattractives' for both genders. If you act like you 'need' the other as opposed to 'wanting', it's a red flag. Controlling, passive/aggressive and manipulative are right around the corner.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 01:44 AM
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And on this line of thinking it's just as important to remember that the MOST important key to being attractive is NOT doing unattractive things. Doesn't matter how literally attractive you are if you keep doing UNATTRACTIVE things. ALL your upside can be wiped clean with one downside.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/17 07:17 AM
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Yep. Sure do. Do you know what humour is?
/r/seduction01/12/17 11:53 PM
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My line is "I wasn't asking him" or "well, he can't come"
/r/seduction01/12/17 08:48 PM
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LOL! I'm the opposite
/r/seduction27/11/17 05:41 AM
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"What made you choose that?"
/r/seduction21/11/17 04:50 AM
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Bingo!
/r/seduction19/11/17 06:48 AM
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Life is long. You're got more time than patience right now. You keep working on YOUR life and simply by living THAT life, the girls will find you.
/r/seduction19/11/17 05:46 AM
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Well said. It really is as simple as this ^
/r/seduction16/11/17 03:45 PM
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That's funny as hell! I simply find horoscope stuff ridiculous. Always have. Yet I discovered in OLD that it is astounding to me that whenever I see a woman that instantly 'does something' and I have to view the whole profile, the it is shocking how often they are Gemini. It's "wEiRd"
/r/seduction16/11/17 03:42 PM
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I'd be curious to hear more. You have some good points here so feel free to flesh this out and the other two as well. I'd like to see how the 3 blend.
/r/seduction15/11/17 12:08 PM
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Dude, life is LONG. Put in the work now and it'll get really easy. The confidence of "accomplishing" what you want pays off in wheel barrows full of attraction. Here's a clue- go get a copy of Mate by geoffrey Miller and see if all the free podcasts are still up on MatingGrounds. Download ALL except Helping Joe. Once you understand how "it" works, you'll take all this 'virgin pressure' off. And please stop comparing your life to everyone else's. We are all different and learn differently. That's…
/r/seduction14/11/17 03:59 PM
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Text after the date and tell her you want to see her again. Texting as a pattern (daily, not stopping) is a little needy. Text or call to set up dates and to check how her week is going and/or if you have a few minutes. Otherwise, you are "very busy with your life" , right?
/r/seduction14/11/17 02:33 PM
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By believing this ^ you're letting other people set your value for you. Wrong mindset. And entirely unattractive. "Attractive" is mostly NOT being/doing "unattractive"
/r/seduction14/11/17 05:39 AM
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Don't make it "a performance" Get naked and see what happens. You need to let go of having a "specific outcome"
/r/seduction12/11/17 07:38 PM
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Dude, his wife DIED! Read the story, a-hole
/r/TheRedPill09/11/17 07:04 AM
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Or the earlier comment about 'sudo'-intellectuals. LOL. That's someone that shouldn't be pointing fingers at others and their posts
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 06:54 PM
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You're welcome.
/r/seduction05/11/17 08:05 AM
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I was just messin' with you about surfing. And I'm sure you'd rather be with her than here. She sounds awesome! Go DO something about it. No 'gut-spilling' just DO something. Tell her you want to spend time with her. (Note I didn't say 'ask') Telling is decisive. Asking is deferring to her opinion. Confidence knows the answer. Make sense?
/r/seduction05/11/17 07:48 AM
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What we think doesn't matter. It's oddly what even you think about whether she is attracted. The question is whether YOU are attracted and interested in spending more; personal; intimate time with her. Do you 'feel' better when you are with her? If so, tell her you want to get together. Just the two of you; not the group. It's simple. And it's NOT a question. It's "Hey, everyone thinks we're dating. Come join me for a (drink, snack, coffee, etc). It'll be fun" That's it. If she says 'No' somehow…
/r/seduction05/11/17 07:34 AM
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Excellent reply!! As far as overt signals, other than laughing and eye contact and 'being close' (which most guys don't "see" ), an easy escalation that can turn on the bell in their heads is 'simple touch'- touch his arm while you laugh or respond to something he said.
/r/seduction04/11/17 06:35 PM
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I agree. 'Sex w "somebody" is the same meaningless thing you see in a zoo. To make it a win-win, you have to care enough about who you are with to make an effort to think of more than yourself. I make it a point in my path (and have said it out loud to several of the women I've been with) that I won't sleep with you tonight if i don't want to see you in the morning. Great sex can only become phenomenal with time. You need to 'learn' them and they you. When all the magic buttons are known and pus…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 05:04 AM
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Please GOD tell me the trick to this!! At 54 and in good shape, I struggle to get anything of value for some reason. I must be missing something.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 05:42 AM
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The staring and glaring is most likely as "he's mine" thing. And asking if you know her was checking if you've been talking to her already. You can avoid more guessing by just asking her out. Start taking her out and then she won't have to guess if you're interested, too
/r/seduction13/10/17 05:30 PM
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A more complicated yet easier answer. You aren't dating at all, right? So as far as 'other women', your "social life" is not something you talk about. What you are trying to convey is that you don't and WON'T talk about HER either when you are dating (as in the details of your sex life.) VERY important to women that you respect HER love life with you. You don't "kis and tell" so to speak. Protects her 'repuation' AND increases her trust so she can open up fully/sexually with you. Pretty straight…
/r/seduction13/10/17 05:04 PM
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Do you mean now or when you are dating?
/r/seduction13/10/17 04:55 PM
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No problemo. She wants to feel 'special' and more 'attractive to you' than all those others. Just don't let her think that you have "no options" Walk tall and "let" her see the other women looking. It'll keep her 'honest' :)
/r/seduction13/10/17 12:17 PM
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Absolutely dead on except for the part about the 'bad boy'- though the bad boy has that "all about me; taking what I want" vibe, at some level she KNOWS it's wrong. What she "craves" is the captain part of bad boy but the "aware/giving" part of the 'nice guy' Remove the neediness from the 'nice guy' and remove the 'selfishness' from the bad boy and you have the dream-"a GOOD MAN"
/r/TheRedPill13/10/17 12:11 PM
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She wants your ass! Every gf i've ever had "noticed" oother women checking me out. I, on the other hand, was quite oblivious to it. They spot it a mile away. It's their "he's mine" intinct
/r/seduction13/10/17 12:03 PM
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You're welcome. Could it be simpler?
/r/seduction10/10/17 01:01 PM
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Hmmm. Who do you think gets laid more- Eeyore or Tigger? Which one do you sound like right now? Do you think she found that 'perspective' (which shows in your bhvr and face like a hatchet in your forehead to a girl) attractive??? You got some work to do. Start with optimism.
/r/seduction10/10/17 05:16 AM
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So why did you go out with them?? Interesting how you talked yourself out of everything I said by beating up condition one of the logic. It's tough to be your best on a date if you're not interested
/r/seduction10/10/17 05:07 AM
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Write this on your forehead- "Attraction is NOT a choice" It's a feeling. It's fluid. It's not math or logic. Who gives a shit about some neg crap from someone who lives to criticize? Really! Reframe- you got two dates already! So you are attractive enough to get dates from girls you find attractive. Problem 1 solved. Right? Next- the key to being attractive for second, third and bed dates isn't about your looks anymore. You passed that one on getting the first date. Staying attractive is about …
/r/seduction10/10/17 04:54 AM
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Did you try to walk twice when you were one year old, fell and quit? Geez. This is about trial and error; learn what works; learn what doesn't. Your response was perfect, btw. Next!
/r/seduction10/10/17 04:44 AM
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Right. So build up your emotional strength rather than destroying memories. That completely invalidates the experience. This IS about self improvement so face the memories and learn to incorporate them rather than purge them.
/r/seduction10/10/17 04:41 AM
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Hypergamy is 'fucking/trading up' She isn't untrustworthy unless she hides her agenda and/or you presume she won't want to fuck around. It's pretty taboo everywhere but be careful about labeling. These are her choices and options. They may not match what society teaches but doesn't make those desires wrong. Don't want to speak for you but if there were no consequences from 'society' we all (men and women) would fuck more with more partners. Thus 'player' and 'slut' labels to keep us in line.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/17 08:17 PM
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Interestingly, I don't see her bhvr as hypergamy or being untrustworthy. She likes sex; that's a natural female trait. Only thing she needs to do is be clear with 'bf's" that she wants open/poly relationships. The danger is, of course, the lovely societal ritual of slut-shaming.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/17 07:36 PM
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You actually friendzone yourself. She doesn't "do" anything. Not showing sexual interest displays "I just want to be your friend"
/r/seduction08/10/17 06:29 PM
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This is exactly the same programming that has been taught by "society" for the last 60+ years. Used to be more subtle but it's still here. What they don't understand is that the bahaviour they are trying to create in men is what they think they want. Who wouldn't want tohave everything go their way? But what they are missing is that attraction ISN'T a thinking process. The fact are that these charateristics are now entrenched in the majority of men but they are actually unattractive to women. Se…
/r/TheRedPill05/10/17 03:51 PM
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That stat doesn't support the story so it doesn't exist right now. It'll be back tomorrow
/r/TheRedPill29/09/17 08:48 PM
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Beta's get girls because the girls are taught they want a nice guy. Plus, beta's do everything and overlook everything. What these girls are ignoring is 'nature'. Masculine is attractive. Beta gets boring. So, yes, beta's get girls . . . .til that wears off
/r/TheRedPill27/09/17 07:16 AM
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Most of the battle to "be attractive" to women is not what you add. It's STOP doing UNATTRACTIVE things!
/r/TheRedPill27/09/17 07:11 AM
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Yeah, where is it written down that love requires marriage/commitment?? The irony is that he DOES care! He cares about himself He cares about you enough to know that marriage equals complacency and being taken for granted.
/r/MGTOW23/09/17 05:19 AM
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So sorry to hear this. I've arranged a week on/week off. Wouldn't take less. The article (and your ex) don't acknowledge what these daughters are losing. There are literally WALLS of books stating that the most important influence on a female under 14 is her DAD; not her mom.
/r/MGTOW23/09/17 05:09 AM
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The point of this book (if people read it right) is that people must recognize that they and their partners may have 'different' ways of expressing and experiencing 'signals' of "love" Yes, women have been 'taught' that gifts are love. Boys are taught 'Atta, boy' is love. Doesn't mean that's universal or right. Just how it is. It also means that you have to be aware of your signals and let your partner know. And vice versa. The ultimate point is to be aware when you and/or your partner aren't fe…
/r/MGTOW23/09/17 05:05 AM
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Correct. No one can do that. The truth though is that in relationships, 'the masculine' leads and the feminine follows. So, it's actually crucial that "he" leads the relationship where he wants it to go. So yeah, that kinda breaks down to "his job to make her happy" if you understand "happy" is following and experiencing her full feminine. That doesn't mean it's his job to "make" her happy (people choose what they want to feel so that's HER job to be happy following his lead) It's also his job t…
/r/MGTOW23/09/17 04:22 AM
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Exactly. Did the same thing. Working like a dream
/r/TheRedPill21/09/17 11:01 PM
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Dr Glover would be proud- a book in a few paragraphs. Perfect! Awesome!
/r/TheRedPill13/09/17 11:24 AM
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Might be off on the percentage but it's an old woody allen quote- "90% of success is just showing up"
/r/TheRedPill10/09/17 08:31 PM
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