sphen86 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Do men actually want love? Couldn't resist making that post? What are you on about? I chose to address only the part of your post that I'm entitled to address. My perspective as a man. I'm choosing not to speak into the "women policing" or "women think xyz". Is that not a reasonable thing to do? That's a fair point that rejection may change a man's perspective or needs. I don't think that's a healthy response though, the same way overeating isn't a healthy response. I think more people could benefit from therapy to explor…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/23 08:27 PM
2	Do men actually want love? You're probably right that some do. I'd be looking for a healthy relationship with a woman who wants an equal partner, not a rich partner. I believe there are plenty of women who, even if conditioned to want "men who bring more", are conscious of it and fight against that idea.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/23 07:57 PM
2	Do men actually want love? My understanding is that when it comes to love and relationships, women want to be seen and treated as equals, not looked down on as a lesser person in need of a man who provides for them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/23 06:50 PM
2	Do men actually want love? Got it, thanks for clarifying! Side note, I'm aware of r/menandfemales and r/womenandmales but this is the first time I've seen men and males together. Just curious, are you using "males" as a noun deliberately or unintentional?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/23 12:32 PM
4	Do men actually want love? Sure, I understand not seeing a stranger's experiences as reality. So let's use yours. Look at all the families and couples in your neighborhood. If what you're saying was true, 90% of those people shouldn't exist together. Unless you somehow believe the top 10% of men in the country are concentrated in your neighborhood, or that 7 houses on your street all belong to one man who shares 7 wives. Do you see now how absurd and impossible that statistic is? There is one thing we can find common grou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/23 12:24 PM
2	Do men actually want love? Couldn't you say that of young people in any generation? Or is there something specific about current young people that makes them extra clueless?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/23 12:06 PM
2	Do men actually want love? Relevant in what way? I don't think your comment is very clear	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/23 12:01 PM
7	Do men actually want love? If women preferring the top 10% of men were true, only 10% of women would be satisfied. If what you assert were true, a huge percentage of women ARE having to lower their ridiculous high standards. I reject your idea that unattractive or average men are simply doomed. I am surrounded by evidence showing otherwise. The majority of people I know are in relationships. The people in my life are all average, not rich, not the top 10%. Therefore I must conclude it's your personality and beliefs that a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/23 11:47 AM
3	Do men actually want love? I truly don't know what more to say to that. I'm sorry you believe that. I'm sorry so many men in your life have let you down.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/23 11:30 AM
2	Do men actually want love? Will never be physically equal, sure. But it remains that when it comes to love and relationships (which is the subject here), women want to be treated as equals. If I, as a man, want love and respect from a woman, I should probably make sure I understand what they want from the relationship so we can both be happy. Otherwise, I may end up living a sad, lonely, and resentful life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/23 11:20 AM
3	Do men actually want love? How is feminism a misunderstanding? Women today are not the same as women of the past. Society changes over time. As a man who wants to be in a healthy relationship with a woman in the present, it benefits me to understand what women want, rather than expecting them to follow tradition just because. Women want equality. That's not a misunderstanding.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/23 11:04 AM
0	Do men actually want love? I dunno about that "protect and provide for" part. Kinda suggests those men are looking for someone they think is beneath them, who will be dependent on them, and need them. A healthy relationship requires equal partners.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/23 10:52 AM
3	Do men actually want love? I don't blame you for thinking this way. I'm sure you have enough bad experiences to validate this belief, but I assure you there are men who love themselves and others, who aren't only having sexual feelings.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/23 10:36 AM
3	Do men actually want love? I couldn't disagree more. I don't want to speak for women so I'll wait for them to chime in, but as a man: if you say you want love or romance as a man most women think you are closeted gay or an emotionally stunted manchild. That's why most men replace that need for love and emotional intimacy with an obsession with detached mechanistic fucking If one can so easily replace a desire for love or romance with a detached obsession for sex, then one didn't truly desire love or romance in the first p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/23 10:25 AM
2	Feminism's problem isn't that they hate men or not care about their problems. Is that they only superficially care. One of their favourite arguments: if there's a bad apple in the bunch and the others don't remove it, they're bad as well. I think for many, this is well-meaning. It is true that a man who hates women is not going to listen to a woman telling them their behavior is unacceptable. A misogynist has to be called out by a man. But there is definitely some hypocrisy there. When a woman says hateful things about men, it's rarely called out by fellow women. It's usually supported and perpetuated. And wh…	/r/MensRights	07/07/23 09:06 PM
1	The absurd idea of "weaponized incompetence" I agree with all of that. I never said "he's not being accused of it". My only point is that OP's situation does not prove that "weaponized incompetence is a fake manufactured concept designed to hate men". It's a real issue, it's a form of abuse, and it affects both men and women.	/r/MensRights	07/07/23 08:19 PM
0	Why does Wikipedia downplay misandry? Do you need evidence that the sky is blue? I see misogyny everywhere. Usually the only people who can't see it are the ones performing it. edit to add: you're not going to believe examples from a random internet stranger anyway, so why don't you ask any of the women in your workplace how frequently they experience misogyny. Get evidence from some real people in your life.	/r/MensRights	07/07/23 04:51 PM
-2	The absurd idea of "weaponized incompetence" To me, to the several people who have also commented to say as much, and to all the men and women out there who experience actual weaponized incompetence. I agree that it's completely unfair to accuse you of this when it's literally just forgetfulness. And sure, people doing this to you might have some hatred for men that they're projecting based on past experiences. That doesn't mean weaponized incompetence is an absurd concept, fabricated to hate men. That's a gross generalization which does a…	/r/MensRights	07/07/23 04:00 AM
-2	The absurd idea of "weaponized incompetence" By taking an example that's clearly NOT weaponized incompetence, and using that example to invalidate the entire concept.	/r/MensRights	07/07/23 02:48 AM
-4	Why does Wikipedia downplay misandry? I know this is a late comment to your day-old response here, but I just felt the need to say I think it's absurd that this person you're replying to thinks ANYONE needs arguments or evidence of misogyny. But looking through their history, they just seem to be a devout feminist-hater so you're probably wasting your time 😞 I'm glad you got something out of it yourself, at least. This sub is strange. And scary. I've only been familiar with r/MensLib and in my first venture here, I'm seeing a ton of…	/r/MensRights	06/07/23 11:42 PM
-1	The absurd idea of "weaponized incompetence" No you're not, your title and conclusion are saying the idea of weaponized incompetence is BS manufactured to hate men, with a strawman example that's supposed to prove it? I'm sorry that you may have been accused of something that isn't true, and your feelings about that are valid. But the way you've phrased your post is really disingenuous.	/r/MensRights	06/07/23 11:33 PM