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You don't know. And the men interviewed admitted they were sexual assault videos. Seriously. Bye.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/04/26 07:53 PM
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Feel free to cite the studies 👍🏽
/r/MensRights21/04/26 04:36 PM
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Well yah, because the hosts want to completely paper over the fact that they actually came out of a woman to start with.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/04/26 05:17 PM
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Opinion. Show us the studies plz k thx
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/04/26 05:15 PM
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Thank you. I see a lot of opinion expressed as fact, not just here but elsewhere. It's completely valid to ask what facts/ studies/ etc people claim to cite, or source their opinion from. People who downvote someone else asking for their sources may be demonstrating their apprehension that the facts don't support their opinions. I myself tend to look for valid studies on everything from health to psych, & soc, to demographics, economics, etc.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/04/26 05:11 PM
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Prove it's consensual.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/04/26 11:09 PM
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I'm very sorry that happened to you. Thank you for posting.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/04/26 11:08 PM
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"Legally obligated". LOL
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/04/26 11:07 PM
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Way to reframe it to suit your own cognitive dissonance.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/04/26 11:07 PM
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Cite the study.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/04/26 11:07 PM
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"20,000 videos of men raping unconscious women." Sexual assault. Just on that one hosting site. That's enough math for me.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/04/26 11:06 PM
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it's stochastic violence against women. Not all men - but always a man.
/r/MensRights18/04/26 06:24 PM
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No surprise that a women-resenting sub like this is all in tizzy about the worst of them being exposed, so that women can be aware enough to avoid getting drugged and sexually assaulted. I don't expect any of you to check in with yourselves, but if you did, you might turn into better people.
/r/MensRights18/04/26 02:44 PM
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Wow - I feel ya. I had a roommate way-back-when who was newly-diagnosed and un-therapied BPD (she hadn't told me until after she moved in.) Even just as a roommate she was almost immediate, roller-coaster drama-hell. I was sympathetic, but also low-fi terrified she'd wreck my lease with her drama and boundary problems. I studied up on BPD and convinced her she'd be happier elsewhere (Whew! thank dog!) Congrats on your freedom!
/r/Divorce_Men03/10/24 07:19 PM
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Wow - I feel for you dealing with BPD in the house - and happy it ended well with relatively low drama!
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/24 07:43 PM
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Keep in mind: another option is to put the house in a trust, and rent it out to pay for two domiciles. Because chances are, the house will go up in value over time as an asset. That's hard to replace.
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/24 07:38 PM
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Help her find a good job. Glad you get to be free soon. I'm sad so many people are trapped this way! My parents divorced when we three kids were in high school - of course we downsized, but it was better for all of us. Lower stress, and we three kids all put ourselves through college & we're all fine. (I think kids should at least shoulder some of the costs of college. Parents need to live, too!)
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/24 07:36 PM
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No reason to pay alimony for life. Most states limit that, esp if the kids are gone. Talk to your attorney, and school yourself online as well - many of the state laws are online and summarized by many related companies and organizations. And don't forget hiring a forensic accountant - many spouses hide assets.
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/24 07:28 PM
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I would suggest putting the house in a trust with both of you as the beneficiaries. You'll need your lawyers & a financial planner to plan all that out. Then rent it out to help pay for two separate places. (Too bad for your wife, everyone needs to compromise. Maybe she can find a 2 BR condo with a pool.) In any case, try to avoid selling it, since it will likely rise in value.
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/24 07:24 PM
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Of course. I think it's fairly well-known that it can be tricky to figure out a socially-acceptable and face-saving next move, especially at work. And that playing one's cards close to the vest is safer. And as I said, I replied to the OP, who was talking about an incident where he was actually clueless, which was why he didn't respond to the girl's interest in him. insert thumbs up emoji, mine's not working LOL<
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 04:24 PM
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That still doesn't mean that men can't be clueless. Sometimes they are. And the guy I was replying to specifically said himself that he was, and it was really sort of sweet. Maybe chill out a little bit bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 04:16 PM
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My ex roommate used MeetUp to meet a lot of people when she first got to town (from NY). She joined hiking groups, (even led some)-- plus groups that met up to go do things, like check out certain clubs, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 02:22 AM
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Yeah, I get it - that's why I suggested activities & that were basically just more social versions of things you already liked. I really think the benefit of most of this is just to broaden your activities enough to advertise yourself a bit. You don't even need to flirt. The other thing that sometimes happens is - a girl notices you & maybe you're not for her, but you remind her of her gal pal, and she acts as cupid for you guys. I've done that. Like I said, girls are always on the lookout for a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 02:20 AM
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Maybe you could broaden what you're already interested in. (Applying solution-focus therapy hacks here...!). So for ex., if you like dogs, maybe help out at a rescue that appeals to you. How about teaching yoga, just as a side gig, once a week? (everyone interacts with the teacher - you could even teach for donation, since you already have a main job.) Are there any group sports or arts that appeal to you? Hiking, biking, museum-visiting, community garden groups? Habitat for Humanity? Any dude w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 11:09 PM
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Without knowing anything about you, I can say one thing, that a lot of girls might not notice who is interested in them either. That's one good thing about dating apps, you can clearly click on who you're interested in, and see if they respond. I get that it's scary to ask someone out, but that's the clearest way to let someone know you're interested. It's also harder for everyone to meet people after school, so work and extra-curriculars/ volunteering are great ways to keep meeting people. It i…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 07:39 PM
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"Can" does not imply anything but "can". Please read for comprehension and relax thx.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 07:30 PM
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Yes that's true. There are plenty of super cute guys that everyone else seems to think are amazing that just don't strike my taste. To me it's a matter of taste. Plus your tastes in what you like in a man can change over time, as you also change. Age-appropriate, styles, whatever. Plus even whether you care if he's cute or not. (Just talking hetero here - YMMV.)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 07:28 PM
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"chatting me up for ages, making small talk, sending expressions of interest" - that sucked? That chick paid attention to him repeatedy, and he failed to notice. She was undeterred, so she made it super clear. LOL So be specific. Let's hear it. Which expressions of a girl's interest suck, exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 07:23 PM
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Aww, that's so cute!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 08:54 AM
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Are you kidding? I've remember the first time I saw a number of guys I dated - and they were strangers when I first saw them (some at school, some at work, one at my bus stop to work.) There were also super cute guys who got dropped because we didn't click. But I never think of ranking them. Either I'm attracted to a guy or I'm not. Sometimes it's not at first, but then I get to like him as I get to know him better. For ex., maybe a guy is shy. Sometimes that happens when I start out liking his …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 08:54 AM
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That's very funny. Also a great example of how clueless men can be, but in a sweet way!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 08:35 AM
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It's true both ways though. If I can tell some dude digs me, and I don't dig him back, his attention does zip for me other than that I notice it. I don't treat him badly over it, I'm nice or diplomatic. I just don't flirt back. Friend zone.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 08:32 AM
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The clues I get when a guy finds me attractive are things like: he finds a way to be near me; has a kind of admiring or even stunned look in his eye/all-over body language; might be smiling, sometimes his mouth falls open. One guy fell backwards over a whole bunch of folding chairs when I looked at him. Locked eyes with another cute guy across a crowded hallway in college once as we were all leaving a party--dated him briefly. I've had at least four guys and one gay girl show up at my door out o…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 08:27 AM
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