spicycurrymango Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	The Vanishing White Male Writer Sure. I don’t believe that one fucking bit. This sub has developed into a white man woe is me sub. Just like I expected it to… tells me all I need to know about y’all’s “left wing advocacy”.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	31/03/25 01:42 PM
-2	The Vanishing White Male Writer I honestly don’t care about white male writers when we have black male writers that go unheard of or are routinely disrespected…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	27/03/25 12:46 PM
4	The Untold Abuse of Black Male Slaves by White Women \| Part Two I see posts like this in this subreddit and I know I’m in a good place. I feel seen. Thank you all.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	30/01/25 05:52 AM
5	Strategic disinvestment from masculinity linked to poor psychosocial outcomes No. I grasp it perfectly and I read the abstract of the study the really poorly written article is about. It’s talking about who is likely to divest from masculinity and why they are. It points out that men that face economic hardship are more likely to divest from masculinity for those reasons, it also points out that men with privilege do it for reasons related to maintaining that privilege… it also goes on to set up further discourse about how this negatively impacts men, which the article do…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	25/01/25 06:40 AM
6	Strategic disinvestment from masculinity linked to poor psychosocial outcomes The most important factor in where one ends up in life is their environment. This effects black men on an individual level and trying to pretend it doesn’t does a disservice to all men who suffer this way and have it overlooked but ok.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	25/01/25 06:26 AM
29	Strategic disinvestment from masculinity linked to poor psychosocial outcomes There is a consistent divestment from programs that positively affect black men. You literally See it in the school to prison pipeline.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	24/01/25 09:55 PM
16	Strategic disinvestment from masculinity linked to poor psychosocial outcomes This is readily observable in black communities FYI.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	24/01/25 09:28 PM
2	Are We Dating the Same Guy groups. I’ve been posted to these groups about 5 times now.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	08/11/24 09:32 AM
84	An admission that feminism is not for everyone And if she did, she secretly hates them cause she actively erases their experiences. Not all men get to be “men” the same way.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	29/10/24 08:52 PM
120	An admission that feminism is not for everyone lol. She doesn’t know any black men.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	29/10/24 08:51 PM
4	Anyone else see misandry as being deeply intertwined with racism? I came here to write this. Thank you.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	18/10/24 02:45 AM
2	My very recent experience with Feminism as a "former male" (MtF, Trans) I’m sorry comrade. That makes me upset for you.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	15/10/24 01:59 PM
15	Gender Split Apparently Largely Limited to White Voters? All I’m gonna say is, white women owned slaves too.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	25/09/24 06:39 PM
4	NPR: male scapegoating threshold I have noticed this bias in reporting as well and sometimes it’s salient but it’s become an easy catch all for media. No one wants to challenge this because they don’t want to be sexist.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	18/09/24 06:43 PM
39	Why is racism the line most misandrists won't cross? Because they are reactionary. Reactionaries only respond to things with shallow understandings and making assumptions rather than actually taking the time to understand. It’s about signaling virtues, not actually having them.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/09/24 01:54 PM
58	The phase "men are killed by other men" and the phase "men are afraid of other men" contradict each other. Most children killed in child homicide are also male children. Who account for most of infanticide deaths.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	02/09/24 02:48 PM
1	Suicide is a killer. As LWMAs it's our duty to be there for men too. How is life for you these days? I hear you and have nothing but empathy for you. I get told often that men cause men the problems they have, which is partly true but I feel like there is nuance missing. I don’t really know what to do, but I know that I won’t allow this to be the end of me. I once heard that we “believe each other into being” and that is one of the reasons I think forming friendships and communities are way more important than a spouse or partner, even if it never feels that way, I see the results. We are still…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	19/08/24 06:26 PM
3	Suicide is a killer. As LWMAs it's our duty to be there for men too. How is life for you these days? I stopped expressing myself in a genuine way. I’m irony poisoned beyond normal modes of help. I lose my faith in humanity often. I am tired of the eugenicist ways I’ve seen women talk about not having kids with someone like me (black and bipolar) and having to accept that these are hurdles I constantly have to jump to feels tiresome. I will myself to live, and honestly without my friends I’d probably be dead.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	19/08/24 03:42 PM
1	Richard Reeves details the role black female lawmakers have played in hobbling efforts to socially support black boys and men I can definitely see that. Men are tired of people weaponizing feminism to reinforce patriarchy whether they realize it or not, even the pick-me bois.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	27/07/24 04:54 PM
2	Richard Reeves details the role black female lawmakers have played in hobbling efforts to socially support black boys and men I can somewhat agree. I think that racism and misandry go too well together though, specifically because these things enshrine white womens place in the patriarchal structure. I don’t think it’s far off to think we will be more egalitarian in some respects, but I don’t know when that will be because the culture is almost always reactionary.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	27/07/24 04:03 PM
6	Richard Reeves details the role black female lawmakers have played in hobbling efforts to socially support black boys and men Sorry I was referring to seeing men as human enough to have empathy for in regards to our struggles as men let alone as black men.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	27/07/24 03:57 PM
6	Richard Reeves details the role black female lawmakers have played in hobbling efforts to socially support black boys and men I guess, but it’s just not something I think is popular in any case.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	27/07/24 03:16 PM
21	Richard Reeves details the role black female lawmakers have played in hobbling efforts to socially support black boys and men Lots of black men talk about this and yall literally ignore them. I don’t know how else to put it. Tommy J Curry is one of the biggest examples of this. Sure he has fallen a bit from grace because the men who support him can be a bit much, but he talks about how little space is made for black men in these conversations and I have rarely, if ever, seen his works mentioned in this sub. Lots of the topics in this sub are centered around white men feeling bad, and the social harm that is done to the…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	27/07/24 01:59 PM
6	Not giving women agency is harmful towards both women and men. I feel you on this, I notice this with black men a lot, especially with the demands that we fit a certain type of archetype to be seen as worthy of love and acceptance	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	18/07/24 01:25 PM
3	One of the most glaring Feminist contradictions There is a certain type of woman who only dates black men because they know they wield societal advantage against those men. Especially if they are considered “undesirable” to white men for whatever reason. When we talk about false rape accusations, I often see white men ignoring the very real history of white femininity being weaponized against black and brown men. White women, can and often lean into racist stereotypes about black men they deem worthless cause they aren’t attractive or useful …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	17/07/24 08:31 PM
2	What are people's opinions on TERFs and trans rights in general? Yeah, neo-reaction is all about an appeal to traditionalism and “nature” (the appeal to a rigid gender structure) and victimization (for the justification and creation of in-group, out-group dynamics, often under the guise of reclaiming power), the co-opting of feminism and feminist ideals by not just leftists, but even conservative women show that these things are pervasive in the current culture. Trans people are considered “unnatural” even though transness is actually another variation of hum…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	17/07/24 08:21 PM
-1	What are people's opinions on TERFs and trans rights in general? Neo reaction always plays a part in this kind of thing. There are women who will ultimately sacrifice trans people to further their own interests. I have seen time and time again neo-reactionaries have dominated the conversation, misusing concepts from radfem politics to further their bigotry rather than challenge it (I don’t call them radical feminists, because I believe that neo-reactionary feminism is just an offshoot of radical feminist ideology that is closer to the second wave of feminism …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	17/07/24 06:55 PM
5	There is a reason why Feminists conveniently never seem to want to discuss Black Men/Boys in any capacity outside of the ridiculous depictions offered by the likes of Bell Hooks and Kimberly Crenshaw, because to do so as an honest actor literally breaks Feminism White femininity must be protected at all costs, when we look at the demographic of who is teaching Americas children, who makes up majority of the police force, when we are talking about -isms, who do they think we are talking about in these conversations? Just white men? Or a system in which they participate??	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/07/24 05:18 PM
16	There is a huge contradiction between feminists saying women can't differentiate good men from bad men, and feminists also saying only creepy men worry about false allegations. Yeah, this is a crock of shit. I’ve had women literally tell me I was dangerous because I’ve asked for their number on a dating app. “I can’t tell if you’re gonna stalk me…” or “I’ve made this mistake before so I’m afraid to do it again…” and it’s like if you thought this of me, why would you even contact me? And on the other hand when you express a bit of hesitation they make it about you feeling some sort of guilt cause you’re a bad man secretly and the fact you hesitate or don’t want to be in…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/07/24 03:25 PM
7	There is a reason why Feminists conveniently never seem to want to discuss Black Men/Boys in any capacity outside of the ridiculous depictions offered by the likes of Bell Hooks and Kimberly Crenshaw, because to do so as an honest actor literally breaks Feminism They do not want to talk about these things because then they are forced to contend with their own anti-black racism. Let’s not even get started on telling white women about the role they play in patriarchal/ white supremacist hierarchy. Black boys are surveilled and punished as children as practice for their mass incarceration as adults.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/07/24 03:12 PM