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1	Dating, Marriage, and life is full of Female Privelege No, people are all dealing with their own set of issues and their struggle is relative to their past. You can't honestly say that you know what women's lives are like when you are not a woman, and not just the generalization of 'women' but an actual real woman in the real world not born into fortunate circumstances. I get that your experience may absolutely suck, but the one thing I ask is that we appreciate other people's struggles and don't discount them. If I did that to you would you not fee…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/22 10:10 AM
1	People of PPD. What are your strong dating opinions that you are willing to share that you are thoroughly convinced on? I dont believe that's true. I dont think most regular guys are just getting dates like that with "just fine" Its usually requires alot of work on their part. And yeah most guys will get dates eventually but that doesn't mean alot of those dates pan out. Because they usually dont. Even when you're rich, a lot of dates won't pan out. That's life. And most good things require a lot of work. Sad fact of life, you'll have to try again until you find things and people that work. You speak of wanting m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/22 10:02 AM
1	People of PPD. What are your strong dating opinions that you are willing to share that you are thoroughly convinced on? Well, most guys aren't particularly known for anything, and they seem to get the occasional date fine. I guess if you want to be a magnet for materialistic women then go for it. For me, I'm most attracted to regular guys and the fancy clothes and hair put me off. I guess because I can sense the attitude those men have, they're not easygoing, they spend money irrationally, and they care too much about how they look. Most attractive men to me have been the guy-next-door types that dress casual, do…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/22 07:18 AM
1	Dating, Marriage, and life is full of Female Privelege But it's also easier for men, because they're raised and taught "this is the way it is". You guys are trained from birth to be the initiators, the tough go-getters. That's why we applaud women when they initiate without that expectation. That's also why we applaud men for being good fathers, because they weren't trained to care about that stuff, and because there's less of them than good mothers. However, women do initiate too. And they also experience rejection. And it's also rare for women to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/22 05:19 AM
1	People of PPD. What are your strong dating opinions that you are willing to share that you are thoroughly convinced on? I think it's important too. Not necessary to get rich and famous though. Yeah women date up, but that can be just 5$/hr more "up" than her and she'd admire that. But in my experience a better job isn't even necessary. I've been attracted to coworkers with the same job title as mine; You know how sometimes your brain thinks "yes I'd date them" or "nah"? well it was truly the combo of half looks and half how well we got along that put them in the yes bucket for me. I've never actually had any plan…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/22 04:01 AM
3	People of PPD. What are your strong dating opinions that you are willing to share that you are thoroughly convinced on? If you're a man, if the female you're interested in isn't showing the same amount of enthusiasm for being around or talking to you then that's an easy way to know when to move on. Don't have to play hard to get, and don't have to simp when dating. If both people aren't naturally interested and putting in equal effort it's not a good long term plan. I give this advice to women too but I want to say it again for the men out there, knowing that dating is harder for them. If the lady doesn't have th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/22 03:42 AM
3	Your partner gets paralyzed from the neck down, do you stay? I believe I'd stay. Someone with disabilities isn't a problem. An asshole is a problem. An asshole that takes it all for granted - the hard work and sacrifices to be there for them, that's a problem. Then I don't think I'd stick around, because at that point, the asshole you're expected to wipe, got too big to be worth it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/22 08:57 PM
2	Blowjob Barometer Sometimes it's just nice to please your partner, and that's all there is to it. I would see it as more of a statement about how much she cares about him. No doubt being attracted to him is what initiates her involvement with him in the first place. I would never blow someone I'm not attracted to because I would never date someone I'm not attracted to. But if I blow you take it as a sign I'm feeling generous and horny and happy to be with you, in spite of your weight gain or bad smell.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/22 05:17 PM
1	What do you think of this behavior? You'll have to explain what you're talking about	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/22 05:09 PM
1	Men "riding the pussy carousel"? (my mum seeing men in their 20s that way) Human emotion is not something to rely on. I'm self aware enough to know that I'm not a loyal saint, no matter what my morals are. People that say they'd never do something or will never change, they are full of it. We all wish that was the case or feel it's true but let time be the judge. Take for instance my mother, who was loving when I was 5, and by the time I was 15 made threats that she was going to kill me. I don't trust people to love each other forever and not let things go to shit. Whi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/22 01:11 AM
2	Men "riding the pussy carousel"? (my mum seeing men in their 20s that way) Yeah, I think I am, but I still wonder, because that's such a definitive concept - to be with one person only - if it's ridiculous to call myself that. I've so far been with one man, going on 3 years, never even been on a date with anyone else and funnily enough as soon as I met B my whole heart was in it. If we ever broke up I don't know if my heart could ever be passed to anyone else. I've deliberated over it. He's had some health issues, and it's gotten me quite nihilistic thinking if he left…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/22 08:20 AM
0	Men "riding the pussy carousel"? (my mum seeing men in their 20s that way) Ok, I just wrote with bitterness in mind because that was my mom's experience. I'm glad your parents worked out. As for my mom, well my dad was settled down with her, and then she got super religious and weird and drove my dad away. She told me later it was because he never touched her, and religion was her way of coping. Not hard to believe, as my dad is quite eccentric, and my mom is quite clingy, and lol unfortunately I may have gotten both of those traits. But it was for the best because the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/22 08:04 AM
6	Men "riding the pussy carousel"? (my mum seeing men in their 20s that way) People that are bitter tend to discuss how they think things work as a way to vent and convince themselves that it's not their fault, "this is just how men are". My mother thinks this too. To be more exact, she would say something along the lines of: Men are all after one thing and none of them truly loved me. As a girl, this hurt my spirit, being told that, and never seeing a hopeful example in real life. So my cope, whether it's true or false is to believe that this problem was her fault, that…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/22 02:00 AM
3	How big of a deal is it, dating someone who has different political beliefs than you do? Are relationships better when both people are on the same page, politically? Or do political differences make for more interesting interactions? Just curious what people think. Better to not be opposites, would cause too much conflict. And also not the exact same, would hinder both of your personal growths. Somewhere where you both understand and respect each other's opinions and don't have argumentive personalities.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/22 11:47 PM
2	Would a man being rich and famous change things? I think most people have exceptions, and have experienced falling for someone with less desirable looks. I have a height preference, but it doesn't mean much (for whatever it's worth). It didn't take fame and fortune to win me over, he was attractive in the way he looked at me and spoke to me. If I had to add anything to the discussion: If you're single, you might as well look around for someone that makes you feel desirable while you can. It really is conflicting being in a relationship where t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/22 11:16 PM
2	What do you think of this behavior? It isn't that. It's that there is an abundance of good women, and men are blinded by the few bad ones they are attracted to/make headlines/from other men's stories	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/22 04:18 PM
1	What do you think of this behavior? She is a POS for lying about her history. Not only is she "that type of girl" but on top of that she's a liar. Hopefully you find out sooner than later.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/22 09:19 PM
1	What do you think of this behavior? If she fucked a new guy every week for a whole year but then expresses that sex "means something " to her now. Then fuck no I don't think it's possible to find meaning after that. I mean some guys don't even care if their girl thinks sex is meaningful as long as it's only with him. I'm just saying if she truly did change for the better it's ok and in that case you really shouldn't take it personally, it's about her values at that point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/22 06:11 PM
1	What do you think of this behavior? Well when you say "only this guy is waiting" you really have to factor in when her last sexual encounter was. If it was 5 years ago and she's undergone some kind of spiritual development then I'd shrug it off. If it was 6 months ago then honestly seems scummy. If we did invite another woman it would have to be a mutually agreed upon NSA threesome, I'll entertain that idea. But just him and another woman? Very unlikely at least anytime soon.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/22 05:57 PM
1	What do you think of this behavior? So you're more concerned with not dating a slut than wait times? Then just say that. Would've saved us a lot of back and forth. Just stop dating sluts, that's the only answer.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/22 05:39 PM
1	What do you think of this behavior? Let's say she doesn't want to sleep with you quite yet, but she's also not sleeping with anyone else, she is sexually attracted to you and has expressed that sex "means something" to her now. Roll your eyes if you want. The point is her heart is in the right place and she's not doing this for her image, she's doing it to be sure she loves and trusts you first. That in my opinion is fine. But if it's still not good enough for you then so be it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/22 05:28 PM
1	What do you think of this behavior? Well I made a guess that you meant a girl from the past while he was single because we weren't on the topic of cheating. No, that would be different. I don't know what you're getting at. I wouldn't tolerate that. And as I've tried to say already, you shouldn't tolerate disrespect either. And frankly the entire time I'm involved with someone I expect exclusivity from him and from myself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/22 04:36 PM
1	What do you think of this behavior? Obviously that can happen but it's RARE. And chances are it's because they read some dumb women's advice blog about female empowerment or something. But it's not natural. It's not natural to desire a relationship with someone without finding them sexually attractive. If she is doing that, my best guess is she must be desperate for financial support and stumbled upon someone desperate for any type of female attention. or has no other options but you. You should be able to tell this though, and le…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/22 04:27 PM
2	What do you think of this behavior? When I say good intent I mean with your best interests in mind while still sticking to her boundaries.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/22 04:11 PM
2	What do you think of this behavior? I mean the whole goal is to be happy, whether that means not getting with someone in the first place, or breaking up, or staying but working through something. If at any point there's resentment you know to act, it's the red flag. I kinda get the frustration of being the only one to wait but at the same time you're dealing with a person not a utility. If she simply doesn't want sex with you yet, how would you even enjoy it knowing she's not ready? Why do you assume she's comparing you to men fro…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/22 01:08 PM
2	What do you think of this behavior? Women say all the time they don't want a yes-man nice guy. They want someone respectable that can lead. But you're out of your mind if you think women don't like to be romanced every once in a while.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/22 02:31 AM
2	What do you think of this behavior? Well fortunately most women have a low body count and don't have to stick their hand in the fire 50 times before wising up! Let's not forget horniness inhibits rational thinking in adults, so you don't have to be brain dead to have risky sex, you just need a functioning libido and low impulse control. If my boyfriend doesn't go into debt for me like he did his ex buying gifts, I don't take it personally, I am glad he is wiser and making better financial decisions. It has nothing to do with me no…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/22 02:28 AM
1	What do you think of this behavior? I'm actually not generalizing all men. I'm pointing at all the posts that ask the same questions or CMVs every week. With the same mindset, the same flawed idea about how women work. Yeah, I will call those people incels or whatever other term they prefer. I'd imagine they'd like "Red-pill-aware". You have no idea where I'm coming from. I don't know where you got this idea that I am mad at every male here. Or that I see you all as a "whole". Worst examples how? How could I have been less offensi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/22 02:19 AM
3	What do you think of this behavior? Women aren't fish. They want to be with you. And they're practically handing men guides on here with all the personal anecdotes they post. Why would a woman lie about what they want? Really what do you think we have to gain from telling you the wrong thing? Best to get women's perspectives right from the source, not from other men's interpretation of it. Our brains are different, men are going to misunderstand, and misconstrue that interpretation to support an ideology.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/22 02:05 AM
3	What do you think of this behavior? All I ask is that instead of being salty, try understanding where a woman might be coming from. Empathize instead of feeling resentment, if it's not outlandish. Then if it's a deal breaker then leave. I've been in the same situation of disliking something from a partner's past but reined in on my emotions to understand his. Looking at the big picture I was able to say I was being irrational and it's not worth ending the relationship over. But let's say it may be for you. That's fine. Resentment …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/22 01:53 AM
1	What do you think of this behavior? The chances of this happening to you are slim, and if you find yourself in this situation where you're having trouble establishing exclusivity and a sexual relationship with her all you have to do is break it off. And luckily early on in the relationship. I'll speak for myself and for the women I know intimately. If our mind is monogamous, we don't act this way. But we can absolutely have irresponsible impulsive moments just like men can, where we may end up having NSA sex. I personally haven't …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/22 01:43 AM
2	Is it possible that women are not straightforward about their sexuality because they are afraid of a possible male backlash? So you're reading what women think HERE, then you're logging off and watching other women act differently. Try asking the women you see acting strangely why they do what they do. I can't tell you. The only time I'll defend the made-up woman is when I'm seeing logical inconsistencies.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/22 01:30 AM
2	What do you think of this behavior? If you don't like the term incel pick one. Women are constantly posting to help you understand them, but somehow the same themes reoccur, as I said earlier. Men aren't actually listening to women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/22 06:37 PM
1	What do you think of this behavior? I told you my opinion though, and I asked why are you curious. I'm not promoting an agenda. My opinion is that that behavior isn't rational but neither is worrying about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/22 06:30 PM
3	What do you think of this behavior? It doesn't happen as often as you think. Let women do as they please. Your only argument is that you're not getting what you want so fuck what they want. I just said don't be with such woman if you don't like her. There's a lot more women that don't hold out. There are men I don't like, but I don't rage about their behavior, I don't assume they're representative of other men. I maturely avoid them because there is no point in whining. Why can't the men here do that?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/22 06:24 PM
1	What do you think of this behavior? Does it really matter if I'm using the correct term though? Language is imperfect. I don't think there's a word to describe that people. It's the underlying belief system, the victim mentality and female hatred that I'm speaking of. Incel fits well enough. If incels are 22% of the population I would not be surprised to find a lot of them in this type of online environment. Same deal with the word feminist. But see the term doesn't bother me, the message behind it does. So I reiterate that I'm ma…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/22 06:12 PM
7	Is it possible that women are not straightforward about their sexuality because they are afraid of a possible male backlash? The problem with this post's premise is your assertion that women are dishonest. Start with the base level respect of taking women's word for it. Otherwise, why should we give you the time of day?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/22 12:24 PM
4	What do you think of this behavior? I think the incels and like-minded people dominate this sub so that's why I'm generalizing. Day in and day out there are new posts about women's "insane standards" or some nonsense about women making LTR material wait. It's all the same.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/22 12:17 PM
6	What do you think of this behavior? The fact that you think that's how men think women live their life is crazy. I don't see the point in the post if it's not. In the rare chance you meet one of these unicorns nothing's stopping you from leaving her. But it doesn't happen outside of manosphere imagination. And it's so hard for you guys to understand that people change, I guess. If a woman doesn't feel like sleeping with you early like she did with guys in the past, you hold it against her and take it personally, it's like suddenly…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/22 12:11 PM
8	What do you think of this behavior? I come to this sub just to see if I can reason with these deluded people. It's truly sad. Don't know how to get through to them. It's like talking with fundamentalist vegans. They don't want to learn or understand, they want to roll around in their incel beliefs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/22 06:06 AM
52	What do you think of this behavior? I don't think this is how most women live their life. I think it's how men think we live our lives. I don't think many women would understand why M would withhold sex from H but not other men, it's not actually a thing. Or rare. So what do I think of it? I think it's dumb. But why are you asking? It's not something you should worry about, don't stay with someone you think is playing these games. Most of the time if she's waiting to have sex with you she's not having it with other men either. Thi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/22 02:03 AM
2	CMV: The biggest misandrists I see online are men This is it	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/22 12:00 AM
1	Who came first: simps or entitled women? That's your copium, the BB AF tale, where she won't get her BB because your refuse to be it. She will find one anyway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/22 12:30 PM
3	The reason men think women's attraction is complicated and intricate and easily lost is because most of them are only on the cusp of being attractive to a woman Either way it's better to do your best in becoming attractive and then let the chips fall where they may by being your "best self" but not fake. No need to worry about those details in courting, if the speed of your texting turns her off then chances are she's not very turned on by you at all. She only enjoyed the attention and once she realized your attention isn't scarce it became meaningless. Find someone you really click with where both of you are equally excited with each other.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/22 08:54 AM
10	Who came first: simps or entitled women? I think men that complain about the unfairness in dating act entitled frankly. You aren't owed a woman just for being here and just because other men get women. Simps aren't owed women either. And women aren't owed men. And anyone that falls into that category of thinking you "deserve" love, sex, commitment - you don't, that's not how those things work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/22 08:45 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread No I think it's very rare circumstances when someone should be off the hook for doing something atrocious. Hitler was definitely mad, but he wasn't mentally retarded. Being pissed, holding prejudices, or having been abused as a child doesn't justify those actions. If you have the mental capacity to know what is right or wrong according to society then you are fully responsible for your actions. And you're right, his own moral code justified it from what we can tell. Clearly if you want to be wel…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/22 09:16 PM
1	If a man asks you to dinner, is it wrong to accept if you have no intention of having a relationship with said man but instead to get free food? I would never go out to eat with anyone just for free food. I have my own money and I can cook.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/22 02:02 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Yes, I can rationalize killing animals for my own food, whether I enjoy the meal or not. I'm not sure what you mean by moral systems. Do you mean each individual's construction of morality? Morality is always subjective, based on opinion of what is fair or okay. Abortion would be a classic example. Suicide isn't immoral in my construction. What I'm saying is you can violate others' morals, you can violate your own morals, and others can violate your morals. If your opinion is that something is i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/22 12:39 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Are you looking for the word "amoral"? For me morality comes into mind when someone acts in a way that affects another's best interests unnecessarily without their consent while aware of the damage/benefit they're causing. Awareness is a key point, because: I can rationalize animals killing animals for survival, and wouldn't place a morality statement on it. I can also rationalize animals killing animals for fun/out of instinct, or out of ignorance. Fun isn't necessary to survival and it can be …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/22 11:15 AM