spicysenor Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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-1	How do I inspire my boyfriend? It sounds like he’s definitely taking on a lot of stress, and lot of it might be unavoidable. So it requires much better coping mechanisms with purposeful intent. The main things are making sure he gets enough sleep that is aided by good nutrition and exercise. Sex is always a good option as it helps produce those healthy hormones to combat the stress. Simple options include making sure he always has access to a healthy and empowering snack or meal and making sure you are enabling healthy sleepi…	/r/RedPillWomen	16/06/25 03:27 PM
2	“too nice, too perfect… it’s a turn off” In an overwhelming number of circumstances, yes. Through the lens of RPW lifestyle, if you're genuine about who you are, you will find success. Trying to adhere to some perceived personality or demeanor (like a social media influenced one) in an attempt to maybe hide yourself or exaggerate yourself will, most of the time, result in men evading you. I think about this cliché interaction: "Sorry, I'm weird." "But I like weird!" It translates to: "I'm a normal person but sometimes I feel like socie…	/r/RedPillWomen	23/06/24 03:55 PM
3	“too nice, too perfect… it’s a turn off” As others have mentioned, if it comes across as disingenuous, like putting on a perfect/nice/cute girl act to fool a man into thinking something untrue, that's bad. And it may surprise you to know that most men can see right through those kinds of acts but will then choose how they want to react to it and proceed in the courtship/relationship, weighing the pros/cons. But if a woman is genuinely just very nice and "perfect" and "proper," there are men who may not want to pursue that and there are…	/r/RedPillWomen	22/06/24 06:15 PM
4	Makeup increases attractiveness in male faces To be honest with you I was lumping all of those into the same basket. It's very easy to tell when someone has added something to their face, especially if you've seen them before without it (as in this study). It's a very subjective behavior (as all art is). I can't really claim to rate the attractiveness of men with or without makeup, but I always find women without makeup to be more attractive than ones with. But perhaps I'm atypical in that regard.	/r/BlackPillScience	01/05/24 02:14 PM
19	Makeup increases attractiveness in male faces I'm sure this is accurate from a metrosexual point of view. But makeup would also drastically reduce attractiveness in a lot of traditional societies, including plenty parts of Western countries. Using makeup to cover a red blemish/zit in one particular area shouldn't be proclaimed as "makeup" but I also don't know anything about the culture of makeup.	/r/BlackPillScience	29/04/24 06:58 PM
3	Had Sex. What do I do Now? Just a few observations here: Are you enjoying the sex? Is he enjoying it? Are you seeing/talking to other guys? Is he seeing/talking to other girls? Honestly it seems like it's something worth continuing. The transactional sex thing you're alluding to is kind of weird and you need to understand that, from his perspective, it's just going to seem like one of several things: 1) You don't enjoy sex with him and would rather stop. 2) You're having sex/dating/talking with another guy and he is lower…	/r/RedPillWomen	29/04/24 06:51 PM
5	What roles do parents play in raising their son to be a high value man? Having mature parents with a secure attachment style will do wonders for a man. Unconditional love and support from parents is also a cheat code in life; no matter what happens, they will always have that to fall back on. It allows them to take more risk and lead more freely without being overwhelmed by a fear of loneliness/failure. The men who do not have that support structure growing up and continuing into adulthood may suffer in different ways.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/03/24 03:29 AM
-6	In Finland, 68.4% of men "completely agreed" that "there are two biological sexes," compared to only 31.6% of women. It's proven that humans have 3 sexes. The 3rd is EXTREMELY rare so it's not really something anyone really thinks about outside of medical science. Is this supposed to be a bait post?	/r/BlackPillScience	23/03/24 04:13 AM
3	Getting married in 2 months and fiancé broke down in tears due to sexless life The sex thing is just a symptom of a deeper issue. Don't focus on the sex/libido part as much, as it will be repaired when the other more foundational issues are repaired. You both need to have a fresh outlook on the relationship and start talking about the literal things you both want. Write them down. Share them with each other. Talk about the meanings and feelings behind them. Be partners and help each other out. It could be that there is no way to repair it. But you must exhaust yourselves i…	/r/RedPillWomen	05/02/24 07:35 PM
2	Is 3 years younger too big of an age difference? The age difference is not something you should worry about. It's more about you two as people in relation to each other.	/r/RedPillWomen	22/12/23 04:58 PM
2	"Male Feminism" has actually been exposed as nothing more than a failed and unsuccessful sexual strategy. Even self-proclaimed "Feminists" are attracted to "Masculine" men, instead of "Woke" ones. This makes a lot of sense. BS men versus HS men; that explains a lot of ideas and interactions I have had personally as well. I know the "soy-boy" meme is in full swing, but even those guys will have some masculine traits lying dormant that don't come out until the right woman comes along.	/r/BlackPillScience	12/11/23 03:10 AM
6	How do Men Want to be Seen as Physically Attractive? Words alone can be very meaningful. Whether you're truly in a state of arousal or heightened attraction or not, simply saying "Babe I love your body part" can make a man go wild. It's very true that compliments like these last years inside the heads of us men, I still remember the tone of voice and inflexion of a previous partner saying simply "god, you're really hot." Men and women both have the capacity to be socially "trained" by their romantic partner by complimenting and being intimate wi…	/r/RedPillWomen	08/11/23 07:40 PM
3	The “girlfriend effect” Some information for ya'll to consider: Many men, when entering healthy relationships and reaping the mental and physical health rewards from the companionship, will become remarkably healthier and more attractive. Loneliness and stoicism can do a number on us, especially our skin health and overall physical attractiveness. It's like survival mode, many men don't really have any substantial support system and are seen to be producers and workers mainly, measured by their sole individual success.…	/r/RedPillWomen	31/10/23 02:17 AM
12	My boyfriend says he wants variety Podcasts like the one you describe are more about posturing and egotism than any real emotion or telling the truth. Monogamy is by far the most common and normal thing for most heterosexual (and homosexual, for that matter) men. A truly polyamorous man will make it pretty clear that they are from the start.	/r/RedPillWomen	15/10/23 06:14 PM
3	Will men find it a turn off that I am a quiet home body who doesn’t have many friends? Being a homebody is a good thing usually, and it leads to a more long-term sustainable relationship. You can both be at home without feeling like you're missing out and do what you enjoy, together if you want. Going out means you need to really enjoy doing the same active things and that can be a bit harder to manage (unless you're just a naturally good fit for each other). The best combination is both being homebodies and then having common interests for going out (hiking or restaurants or what…	/r/RedPillWomen	21/09/23 09:58 PM
2	I like older men but feel repulsed when they show interest in me You can date women.	/r/RedPillWomen	11/09/23 01:04 AM
-1	Traditional and “Progressive” Men are not mutually exclusive Yes, at least to a degree higher than "conservative" men. There is likely a better binary indicator for men who are dominant in their romantic relationship. Healthy male role model growing up vs. none for example.	/r/RedPillWomen	16/06/23 12:06 AM
1	Traditional and “Progressive” Men are not mutually exclusive Apologies, I should have worded that better. Basically I agree with you and that was definitely not clear in my original comment. Edited for clarity.	/r/RedPillWomen	15/06/23 11:59 PM
-2	Traditional and “Progressive” Men are not mutually exclusive I will go ahead and say that I agree with you on this. Most of the “high value men” (still trying to understand that) are moderate or liberal leaning. You have to be in order to command respect and usher in personal success. The loud minority makes it seem like the "soyboy" type (which I've seen appear as much in conservative men as liberal) is incapable of being a dominant partner in a sexual/romantic relationship.	/r/RedPillWomen	15/06/23 07:14 PM
3	How do y'all feel about podcasts like "Whatever" and "Fresh and Fit"? I enjoy hearing the weird perspectives and opinions. Most of it is pretty pedestrian on its own but it’s interesting to see how far some people go in certain directions. The “Whatever” host comes off as kind of a beta/soy boy/Incel type from the little I’ve watched. But the guests are usually entertaining.	/r/RedPillWomen	01/06/23 08:39 PM
3	His clingy female friend and how to approach boundaries as a RPW This needs to be a very direct conversation. And you need to frame it to him that it’s a “you and me vs. the world” kind of thing. Friends are nice to have but if he really is getting a decent amount of female attention /validation etc.. from her, you need to strategize how you can instead provide that. Man & woman (husband and wife) transcends friendship and that’s something he needs to be reminded of. He needs to create space between his friend and fill in that space with you. Be very logical …	/r/RedPillWomen	31/05/23 02:39 PM
5	How to get more comfortable with being naked? As others have mentioned, just do basic household activities and chores while naked. You don’t need to necessarily look at yourself in the mirror, just be comfortable with the feeling of no clothing. I know it can be hard to see yourself in the way that your partner does, so you can just ease into it and have them help you through it.	/r/RedPillWomen	15/05/23 07:05 PM
3	Boyfriend treatment vs husband treatment? Do you draw a line somewhere? My plain thought is if you're holding back at all, it will show, and will stunt the relationship.	/r/RedPillWomen	30/04/23 06:09 PM
1	Do men actually care about n count and what is the standard usually The number of previous partners thing is not an issue in itself. It is more about the personality of the woman and how she presents herself to the world. A woman with a low count but who is overly flirty and obnoxious about her sexuality could potentially be more off-putting than a woman with a higher count but who is naturally herself, showing confidence and a reasonable, well adapted personality. Logistically it can be difficult to match with someone who has a wildly different count than you d…	/r/RedPillWomen	30/04/23 02:38 PM
1	What actually tends to happen to women who marry conventionally attractive men? This may refer to people who are early bloomers not processing any of their own insecurities or trauma until later in life, causing a much more serious "mid life crisis." The dorks and nerds, who dealt with all of it before turning 20, are often more well adjusted and adapted to life. Leads to better sex life too (as long as physical fitness is take care of). It's not guaranteed but it's something to consider when communicating with a partner about life plans. Just make sure they're not compensa…	/r/RedPillWomen	29/04/23 08:31 PM
2	I want to be a stay at home mum and have kids The cool thing about doing what you want (like getting married and having kids) is it becomes a new life for you and you do not have to adhere to what your parents or hometown want. I would say just focus on being yourself and make sure you're only inviting positive and forward thinking people into your life. I'm sure you will find a great partner!	/r/RedPillWomen	29/04/23 06:12 PM
1	Is my boyfriend correct about all vaginas feeling the same? They do not all feel the same. Which just means certain dicks and certain vaginas can get along better than others. Not really something to concern yourself with though, as it’s not a wide spectrum and it’s more important to focus on emotional/intimate feelings and what you’re looking for overall in a partner.	/r/RedPillWomen	19/04/23 11:18 PM
0	How do I get over his wandering eye? Does he lower his guard with you (being in safe company)?	/r/RedPillWomen	19/04/23 07:02 PM
2	How do I get over his wandering eye? You can think of this a little bit as “locker room talk.” One man conversing with another who happens to be newly single. It’s like agreeing with and helping out your friend even if you have to embellish or lie a little to hype them up. “Yeah man, you never know if there’s someone better out there, so you just have to find what you want and make sure it’s a good fit…” etc… I’m the kind of person that will adopt this language when talking to single friends or friends in need of a little uplift, b…	/r/RedPillWomen	19/04/23 07:00 PM
6	do I look fat/overweight to you? Gonna be real with you: you look absolutely fine. You're at a good weight for fitness training (if that is something you want to do). But you do not need to lose weight if you are worried about that.	/r/RedPillWomen	18/04/23 01:30 PM
5	Girl Power Unchecked: Boy assaulted by girl on bus. I used to have a girl bully me in elementary school. At school and on the bus. It’s actually weird thinking back to it now, she would hit me for literally no reason. I was small for a long time, didn’t hit my growth spurt until later middle school and high school. It was like she had been indoctrinated to come after me or something. It taught me to be overly protective of myself and not trust anyone, even women, when it comes to personal space and seeing people as potential threats. Not a good w…	/r/MensRights	06/04/23 03:37 PM