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2016

FDS SUCCESS!spicyveggieramen/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 12:24 AM
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This is why I say white women who constantly talk about other white women are ops. They are so focused on being “not that kind of white woman” they downplay and even deny issues black and brown women face. It’s only improper by “euro standards”? Really, tell that to me as a little black girl who hated missing my bus because I knew it meant grown men would pull up beside me as I was walking to school telling me I was sexy and didn’t look like I was only 12. This garbage take also straight up impl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 06:17 PM
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Then everything I said went over your head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 09:58 PM
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If you go back and look at her edit, he subscribed to OF to see a girl’s content that he knows IRL, whom he’s friends with. 😭😂 I had to stop reading dating and relationship advice subs, it was like stepping into an alternate universe full of low self esteem and gaslighting men mad about so called invasions of privacy and telling women to communicate. The guy is a fucking bum, what’s there to talk about?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 07:43 PM
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Can I ask what is racist about it? Would you feel that way if she said Christianity is bad but Scientology is worse? I don’t want to fight, I’m just curious if you can break it down for me. Take the idea that Muslims are brown out of the equation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 07:12 PM
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It’s really unfortunate that xenophobia and racism is a large part of anti Islam ideas because it leaves genuine criticisms of Islam and the women who are hurt by it silenced. I used to be like that, hesitant to voice my distaste of it because I didn’t want to be roped in with ignorant right wing islamphobes. But getting older, researching, embracing atheism on all levels, understanding that pro women does not automatically equal “supporting women doing whatever they want”, particularly if what …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 07:05 PM
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I always have the urge to make a throwaway and make up a story when I see that type of complete nonsense posted just to make some pig’s nasty fantasy come to life. Then I snap back to reality and realize it’s not worth it and you have to be a particular kind of loser to spend your time doing that dumb shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 03:18 AM
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Umm what the fuck! This a not a normal or common anecdote about dating a loser and leveling up. This is a severe, life threatening lack of self worth. Finding a “good man” is not the type of happy ending this sick story needs. She should be getting intense therapy, mental help + celibate for AT LEAST 7 years. I’m so SO bothered by this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 02:58 AM
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It’s always “communicate”, “therapy” “tell him how you feel” in these dumbass subreddits, I can’t even read them anymore. You should not have to TELL a grown man how to treat you during pregnancy, or to help you when you fall wtf? Side note: the nasty ass “pregnant porn” subs that come up when you go searching for r/pregnant is enough to send me into a rage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 05:00 PM
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They’re confused and delusional. The majority of the people giving shit advice on dating subreddits are women. A woman asks how to tell their fiancé they don’t like the ring they picked and she gets bombarded with other women calling her materialistic and saying they’d be happy if their man gave them a ring pop (not even being funny, I’ve seen it several times). Women are socially conditioned to accept less so they feel angry when they see women asking for more. Another part is denial. I used to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 12:25 AM
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I think so! I let him know pretty early on sex = exclusivity for me and we agreed. It was about 4 weeks and I initiated it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 06:35 PM
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It was actually under the tree in a bigger box and the ring box was inside, lol. It was just us at home and was very sweet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 06:30 PM
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Of course. Thank you for the advice!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 06:35 AM
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Not a secret at all! It’s a rose gold oval shape with a halo and twisted shank. Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 06:34 AM
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That’s the plan. 🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 04:53 AM
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This is tea, trust me I know. I’m 28 and have been through it. I could go on and on about why I know he’s the one, how thoughtful and protective he is, how he gets my car running for me because I hate cold weather, how he makes or buys my coffee everyday before I wake up because he’s a morning person and I’m not, how he sends sweet texts and makes sure I made it through my commute safely, how we laugh and talk like best friends. I was just excited about my ring, and the incredible feeling of not…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 04:52 AM
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I respect this perspective but what difference does a year or 2 or 5 make, really? He could be the man of my dreams and completely change at anytime, right? I could change too. If it doesn’t work out, it won’t be because it was too soon, it would be because people are ever evolving. I’ve found someone I love and have faith in, and want to grow with instead of against.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 04:37 AM
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Thank you. I’m so unbelievably in love with it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 12:38 AM
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Bumble actually 🧏🏾‍♀️ We matched, he waited for the appropriate time to ask me on a real date, paid, and didn’t pressure me to move faster than I wanted to. I believe OLD can work if you vet properly, which this sub taught me how to do!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 12:36 AM
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Another example to add to what OP is saying: I talked to a guy who lived 2 hours away and I would tell him I wasn’t interested in long distance and he would tell me “I don’t mind driving to you, it’s only 2 hours. I actually like driving.” Bitch, I said long distance doesn’t work for ME, I didn’t ask if you were okay with it. It’s men disregarding your boundaries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 06:37 AM
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Not me seeing this, getting feels and wanting to rewatch S2. 👩🏾‍💻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 02:37 AM
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A combination of PMS and Clueless also being my favorite movie had me watching this with tears. 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 04:13 PM
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Same girl. Took years to find him. 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 01:43 AM
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A lot of millennial men are functioning alcoholics. Drinking everyday, multiple beers a day is not normal or healthy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 11:31 PM
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It’s only awkward if you let it be. When the check comes, you don’t react because it’s not up to you to decide. Out of like 50 OLDs last summer, I only had one guy give me a “what do you wanna do?” look when the check came. I just made the same gesture back as if to say “what do YOU want to do?” and he ended up paying for it. I had another let the check sit there for about 5 minutes before finally picking it up and saying something like “oh, is it on me?”, and I just smiled and kind of shrugged …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 02:22 AM
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They actually didn’t have an open marriage according to them. They were separated. Not even together. Jada started seeing an R&B singer, and he recently spoke about it causing them to clarify. There’s also plenty of evidence that Will had his own flings with 25 year old models, too. So I haven’t a clue why men are using this instance to push the “er der women cheat too” narrative. Except the usual...they’re brain dead misogynistic assholes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 02:01 AM
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That’s what I was thinking. More like 100%.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 03:50 PM
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In these situations I always say: either he’s not interested or he’s boring and bad at conversations. You don’t want him either way. 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 01:42 AM
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I think so. When I was a serial online dater, I would ask what qualities they liked in a woman and usually “thin” or “fit” would be thrown in there, happily revealing their shallowness to me just because I fell into their “slim enough” category. I would also ask about bad dates and experiences and 99% of the time it was that someone was fatter than they looked in pictures. I remember I asked a guy “really? nothing worse than that?” and he thought for a moment and told me a story about a girl get…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 01:39 AM
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I met a girl who was 25 engaged to a 40 year old and it immediately made me less interested in pursuing a friendship with her. Just strikes me as bizarre and I’d never be able to keep my mouth shut about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 07:31 AM
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Similar thing happened when I met 48 year old high school teacher at a peaceful protest recently. I’m 27 so obviously I saw him as nothing more than a mentor and friend with a similar passion for social justice. It didn’t occur to me that he was interested until his texts got more and more flirtatious and later and later into the night. I just have to laugh at the audacity...what the hell would I want with a nearly 50 year old man? My dad is 51.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 07:27 AM
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I’m so glad I found a non religious anti porn account. I love retweeting their content on my timeline full of women who don’t understand that their stupid fucking “men can buy only fans content and watch porn if they want, Becky 🙄” mentality makes them the same pickmes they make fun of if not worse because their dumb ass alleged ~sex posi~ attitudes lead to the sexual degradation of women as a whole. On top of being pedophilic and full of rape culture, porn has always been racist as shit. If you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 12:48 AM
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Had a t*nder date (🤮) and asked him about any bad experiences on the app. He said he met a Russian woman who “went crazy” on him, and he described it as follows: they met, hooked up and agreed they both didn’t want anything serious. He mentioned via text he was driving to a larger city soon and she asked him if he could drop off a package to a friend in that city. He ignored her text because he felt it was too much of a “boyfriend” task and when he got back she asked him why he hadn’t responded …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 06:33 AM
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I worked for a bank and so many women would contact us with a story of “my ex is denying me access to our checking and savings, what can I do?”...I loved being able to tell them there was no way he could remove them without their authorization and to proceed as usual.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 12:57 AM
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Jfc I saw that earlier and said why the fuck does this have so many upvotes.....? The fact that she only posted it to show off what a cool understanding girlfriend she is... the atrocious comments telling her suck him off....it’s all too much. 💆🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 05:30 AM
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Yes girl we’re all cute or whatever and have intimidated men. 😂 We just mean that’s never a legitimate reason why they start pulling away. It’s something portrayed in movies and books like ~the poor dirtbag guy pushing the hot rich sweet girl away because he’s scared to open up or be seen as not good enough~. It doesn’t happen. Men stop paying attention when they lose interest or something better comes along. It’s never, ever that complex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 05:13 AM
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Yeah sure men get intimidated by women but the myth is that that’s an explanation for wishy washy behavior and them pushing you away. Men love to punch up and have zero shame about dating out of their league, whether it be by looks, money, social standing or whatever. They like it. They love to show off. It wouldn’t be cause for them blowing you off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 05:07 AM
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I’m confused why you’re so convinced that he’s genuine? You don’t know him. The idea that men push women away because they’re scared or intimidated is a romcom myth. He is not scared, he’s not even “playing games”, he’s uninterested. Yes, even after a great first date. Yes, even if you felt sparks. He may have liked you, but he lost interest. Remember that if a man wants to talk to you, he will. Please don’t project complex thoughts or feelings on to this man about you. The fact that he responde…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 04:57 AM
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At the end of the day it’s still a movie and there will still be forced happy endings. I think the main takeaway from the movie is them pointing out people’s tendency to make every excuse for the person their interested in and how we as a society, gaslight ourselves and others into believing what we see, hear and think isn’t what’s actually happening when it comes to dating. The main message is if someone likes you, wants you, loves you — you’ll know. Period.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 05:45 AM
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I’m actually laughing my ass off at “our girlfriend” and them sending pictures to her of them fucking. 😭 Reading that sub these days makes it so hard for me to even have sympathy for the situations these women finds themselves in. If you’re casually posting about your man fucking another woman and worried about if it’s okay to feel jealous that you aren’t getting as much attention, I feel like you are beyond help and advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 04:08 AM
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I can’t. Knowing it’s 100% likely that it’s some fat, nerdy, incel bastard behind those comments is almost as sad seeing these gorgeous women seek validation from men on reddit of all places.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 03:57 AM
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My go to response is something like “does it look bigger when it’s hard?”. Either that or a screenshot (through snapchat so they know I did it) just to frighten them. Then after they freak out and ask me what I’m gonna do with the screenshot, I block them, and delete it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 03:46 AM
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I wonder why he can’t use his real photos for this experiment? Because he knows he’s actually ugly and would get annihilated?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 12:02 AM
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Ooooh girl. I was in this situation time and time again. Although I did my fair share of crushing on LVM, I always did it from afar because I knew their game and that I could do better. I dated kind gentlemen with good jobs and manners and I liked NONE of them. Like you I was scared I was only attracted to toxicity. A few months ago I finally met a good man who’s got a heart of gold AND gives me those butterflies. I’m still learning what healthy love looks like but don’t get discouraged. You jus…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 09:31 PM
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This. I had a guy asking me out for drinks once (which I mentioned in another thread that I don’t have an issue with), but it was a busy month for me and I told him I was only available during the day. I would suggest coffee or lunch, and even though he would admit he was not busy during the day he’d still say “let’s just wait til you are free for drinks or even dinner”. He finally said something to the nature of preferring drinks because it takes away nerves. I told him I don’t get nervous on d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 03:36 PM
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Okay but can I ask what if you actually prefer coffee or drinks because you don’t want to commit to an entire meal and evening with a man? Seriously asking because I would often suggest these short dates myself. There was not a worse feeling than realizing I did my hair, makeup, and wasted my Friday or Saturday night on someone I had no interest in after 20 minutes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 05:18 PM
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Jesus Christ. My first thought wouldn’t be that he didn’t “care” that I would crying, it would be that he sounds rapey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 03:55 PM
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