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Why get so technical lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 04:45 AM
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Looks like someone has been on the wrong side of the news lately xx
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 04:46 PM
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God, I see what you've done for others...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 04:37 PM
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Meanwhile my dad goes crazy if he even sees me 5 feet near a man and I'm an adult basically. If you ever want to make your offspring become asexual and have anxiety about starting relationships this is the way because it's just not worth it to deal with their craziness for some guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 04:35 PM
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A bit cheesy but yay for self love
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 06:06 PM
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I laughed so hard, I love you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 03:44 PM
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Ew no thanks - the risks are higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 03:40 PM
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Exactly 👏
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 06:38 AM
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This comes off as if you're bragging... you're disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 12:44 AM
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Fr, this isn't the 2000s anymore Many types of people are addicted to the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 12:42 AM
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once a cheater always a cheater
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 12:40 AM
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I mean they're right if the "feminism" they're referring to is the one that's promoting hook-up culture and onlyfans lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 12:39 AM
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Aw... I was imagining a buff tall tattooed guy that gives off gloomy vibes and only wears black
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 12:34 AM
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Hahahaha the poor dude apologized, absurd indeed
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 12:32 AM
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It's smart to be disgusted and not encourage cheating. Some men are deranged and will kill you if you do decide to help their SO's cheat on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 12:25 AM
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Ah nice, I'm happy that you were able to find a good paying job though! I hope I get lucky enough, haha, I'm so anxious and it feels bleak to get a job for some reason - but maybe all I have to keep doing is applying until someone hires me. Thanks for the response!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 11:49 PM
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So it will end... eventually... just as the oc said.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 11:01 PM
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I love your ideology, I'd do the same. By the way, did it taking getting a degree or any special certificates to get that $23/h?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 10:59 PM
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I talked a bit about why many women are less happy with life nowadays in here: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/11aqnwy/comment/j9vi505/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3. It's not just young mothers, it's really every aspect in society is crushing us in many ways. From work to cultural expectations to feeling enough now with social media exponentially increasing beauty standards so it's unobtainable to the average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 09:22 PM
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Yah frankly I would rather both men and women be happy. Women’s dip in happiness is a sign for concern, and something this forum should discus more. Guessing it's a combination of higher beauty standards + social media + cultural expectations + modern expectations (having to work but also be the home-keeper) + the dating market nowadays. Back then, there used to be a balance where men would work to make money while women keep the house tidy/provide warm meals. Now, both men and women have to wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 09:20 PM
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The mental image of everyone over the age of 70 being wheeled off a cliff is hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 02:33 AM
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??? Maybe this girl was on Tinder too much cause wth 2800 messages. It depends on the type of girl. The ones that are on dating apps more often or post sexy pics online will definitely have tons of messages but they are not the average woman. Most women do not care to deal with 2k messages of horny dudes that'll toss them aside after 1 night.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 09:14 PM
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I think it ties down to comfort level. You feel like there is more at stake when you meet someone you want to date so they get all shy or closed up. When not attracted, it's just another person and they let loose.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 09:12 PM
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me in my 20s with 0 messages & no guys approaching me irl: ​ - but this could be saying a lot more about me than anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 09:11 PM
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​ If you find this confusing, let me tell you, I found it super confusing. Haha, yes I did found it confusing. Men confuse me a lot, relationships in general really. I feel the same way too, men would talk all about themselves never caring to ask about my day or anything and whenever I brought it up I'd be gaslit to think they did I "just never noticed it." Really tired of that and it's what led me to take a break from dating completely right now. I really do wish it was true for the love at fir…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 01:31 AM
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What do you mean it has nothing to do with you? I mean, doesn't it mean they find you attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 10:44 PM
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Kinda feel like an airhead for not realizing that, I’m like the epitome of that meme where a girl just stares and walks past the guy and gets sad I wasn’t approached ;-;. Anyways you give wonderful advice… I want to steal all the relationship advice you have from your brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 03:07 AM
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Honestly did not think of that haha… it’s the one thing that creeps me out about guys and makes me a bit more tense since you say that they’re all undressing you with their eyes. Thanks for offering this perspective xD I’ll never complain about men never approaching me again
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 03:05 AM
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So odd, but I guess they just realize you're not husband material lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 03:51 AM
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Bravo!!! Wish I could give you 1000 upvotes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 03:35 AM
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Yep, I've done it before (but online though haha), it takes real courage to approach people in real life so props to the men that have done this before. Definitely trying to reframe my mindset by telling myself it's outdated, though it does feel nice to have a man approach you in real life sometimes. I've gotten messages over Zoom meetings for my number and ig but not in real life so it confuses me at times lol. I just want to ask though, from a male perspective, why stare at a woman for some ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 02:30 AM
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I’m guilty for thinking this. Maybe it’s because I’m young and inexperienced but I did think from all the movies and stuff a guy would approach me randomly and we’d get together. Well that’s never happened sadly. I notice men staring a bit too long but then just flat out ignore me. So yeah definitely started to think maybe I’m not attractive enough but maybe as I gain more life experience I’ll realize men are just scared to approach most times especially if you’re a stranger. Reading this post h…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 07:29 AM
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Depends on person to person, maybe non-compatible is a better word. Some people find commonly found “ugly” features hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 07:26 AM
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I though most men ran away at the site of body hair on a woman lol (which I think is kinda sad)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 06:38 AM
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Still no excuse to get hostile at a rejection... and men say women are the more emotional sex lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 06:30 AM
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I didn’t fully read your original comment at first lol sorry about that. Hm, no I think I value both actual Intercourse and other methods. It would just have to depend on what my hypothetical bf and I are both comfortable with. I wouldn’t mind once in a blue moon which is why I’d like an asexual bf which to me is like finding a rare treasure since many men out there are too sexual imo. Also that’s interesting to hear. A NT person to balance your ND self. Well, I hope you find someone like that. …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 03:12 PM
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Yes, I'd love a fellow asexual bf. I think it just means you have to find women a bit more neurodivergant cause we usually get overstimulated in comparison to neurotypicals
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 05:02 AM
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Asexual or depressed hehe
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 04:58 AM
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As were most time periods, even the one we are in currently
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 04:24 AM
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So the woman's side profile and overall face doesn't matter much if she has an amazing body? Isn't there a term for that too, I think men do emphasize women having pretty faces imo
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 05:34 AM
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For some reason it's endearing that you still use the 'XD' text emoticon :p
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 05:31 AM
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It all starts with our dad, so don’t worry, wouldn’t be the first
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 05:24 AM
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I’m just like the friend lol. I don’t like people knowing much about me because I like to not get to attached to people. The less they know the easier it is to leave and be ok if they leave me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 02:18 PM
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Yeah some of them say the stupidest things that just give me the ick…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 06:45 AM
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Why are we women like this sigh I really want to behave like a guy where I don’t desire attention from them constantly
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:05 PM
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What’s the first time like? It all sounds so scary that I run away from every guy that pursues me Also would it be weird to ask them to get tested beforehand lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 01:34 AM
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Imo I prefer those not too active on social media. It gets annoying when your friends ask you while hanging out to take 20 pics of them so they can post it later constantly. Sometimes they’ll record you randomly w/o asking just to post that they’re hanging out with someone lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 02:00 PM
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I’m a teen (albeit older teen) and can’t be bothered with keeping up on social media. College takes up 90% of my time lol. I do feel a bit disconnected but honestly my mental health is way better when I don’t have to post selfies or my life on SM.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 01:57 PM
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Yeah exactly, it’s not for everyone. At least women who don’t want that route aren’t forced to anymore. Though, the social pressure still exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 07:05 PM
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Already do that😌
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 05:39 PM
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Exactly there’s really no need to get with men in this world anymore. We no longer have to rely on them and I’m overjoyed haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 03:45 PM
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Perhaps you’re asexual?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 05:26 AM
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Imagine going to college just for sex lol, racking up thousands of dollars in debt for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 05:48 PM
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It’s always better to start later than never<3 always be cold, calculative, and on guard is my motto
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 04:47 PM
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LOL funny
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 04:45 PM
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Yes, I hope so too. Imagination is a way better tool anyways and won’t get you addicted or porn sick. Society is too hypersexualized especially since the rise of the internet and we can really see the detriments much more clearly now. I also have a fun little theory that there are more asexuals now because of the overexposure of sexual themes. Many of us just get sick of it and the over-prevalence of it being in our music/radios to Netflix shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 04:26 PM
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I’ve naturally been following 70% of FDS methods even before I knew it existed ever since my last heartbreak where I realized the true nature of men. I’ve noticed many men complain about FDS but it’s ruthless for a reason. These women are tired of being played and are now playing the game for the best. They’re tired of the abuse/disrespect that comes from many men. Seriously, I treat every guy I meet with respect and trust and a few months in they expect sex haha. It’s just weird, and makes me m…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 04:19 PM
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100% I’d award you if I could
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 03:56 PM
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Not what I meant. Rather, why give a speck of attention to someone who’s already given up on themselves in the dating pool and deemed themselves ‘genetic dead end.’
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 12:14 AM
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Hmm, hopefully women won’t settle. There’s really no need for them to in the modern world. Each gender is capable of existing independently.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 11:00 PM
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Not paranoid bullshit when several of us actually experience it. Women can never feel safe outdoors and are always on guard. Just ask any women you know. :) Go look at self defense item reviews and see how it’s like 95% of women commenting about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 10:32 PM
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Don’t bother reasoning with a person that tags themselves as a genetic dead end lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 10:30 PM
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Filters suck for real :( the face changing ones
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 05:59 PM
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The consequences of long term hyper-sexualization of society
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 05:55 PM
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Spot on, especially the part where men must better themselves (stop with the porn addiction, stop with the video game addiction, etc) to make themselves more attractive. There’s a reason women only find 20% of men attractive… women are waking up and realizing we don’t really need a relationship to satisfy us. We can make our own money, our own friends, etc. And too many men out their behave like children, in my opinion…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 10:55 PM
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Toxic af ngl but some of his posts are funny
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 12:34 AM
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Pft exactly, the audacity of this guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 12:30 AM
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Yep, exactly. Well, romantically we don’t acknowledge those unattractive to us but we would still converse with them cause often times we have to. Human nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 06:47 PM
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Yeah, cause guys don’t even acknowledge girls that are unattractive to them. They’re invisible.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 05:26 PM
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Why cheat? What did she not have that other women did …?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 12:50 PM
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Glad he’s not the only man in the world, phew!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 01:59 AM
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Omg same !!!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 01:39 AM
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Dude wants a pornstar💀
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 01:30 AM
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Could be his personality, maybe he’s a slob or he’s extremely awkward or his voice is too feminine. Idk, it is complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 08:06 PM
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So finding a unicorn :(
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 06:50 PM
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It’s very jarring to read. Dude turned into Gollum last bit. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 06:43 AM
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What type of degree are you even describing though? You literally need character to push you through a STEM degree. Or you’ll fail and become a waitress/change fields like the others.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 05:58 PM
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Yeah cause getting a degree requires no sense of character or hard work huh
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 05:48 PM
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Send the link I wanna see how rare I am too
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 05:46 PM
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I mean we are the generation that lost most of their freedom to stricter parents and the pandemic. Not to mention social media is not that good for our minds yet we’ve been put on it since we were kids/teens.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 05:04 AM
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Why blonde? Is brunette hair that unattractive lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 09:01 PM
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Glad to know I can be someone’s idealized dream girl LOL depression makes it hard to focus on material things ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 05:44 PM
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They exist, trust me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 05:43 PM
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This is why we act dumb ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 04:42 PM
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You act like guys don’t want small waists and flat stomachs on a woman 24/7 not to mention hairless too So many starve themselves, girls and boys included. Kinda sad how Hollywood has messed our minds up this bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 12:14 AM
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Yeah, I have. Men will always bring up your name or say something about you to try to get your attention. Could be with a friend and even then they’d only focus their attention on you. It gets annoying especially if you dislike being the center of attention. And they also bring up something about your looks too. So basically if you’re average you are invisible in a way especially if you’re with a much more attractive friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 03:06 AM
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Would that classify as a simp?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 02:42 AM
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LOL that really helps to soothe my raging social anxiety thank you :’)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 07:27 PM
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Yeah that is extremely unnerving, don’t do that. Also, what I don’t get is why most dudes will sit directly in front of you even if there are tons of seats empty? Why do guys do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 06:05 PM
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Men say “find your equal” and then say this bs lol. Weren’t you guys mad that we are “reaching too high” and that we should settle for less than HVM? Tbh, more women should build a career if men think like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 09:59 PM
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Eh I just control my diet and it works fine
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 04:11 PM
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What about the triangle thigh gap or the v-thigh gap?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 01:30 PM
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Exactly, who tf compliments someone with an eating disorder who’s clearly trying to change it LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 01:27 PM
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I never understood why people think the hotter u are the crazier you are lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 01:22 PM
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LOL that’s my plan right now, except I don’t really work out. Need to fix that though. Sadly being online limits me from using my power on nerds, but at least I’m getting smarter through my work.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 06:53 AM
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Exactly if we aren’t causing problems what’s the big deal. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 06:13 PM
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Ohh okay I see I see! Yeah, I guess hope is always good to have. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:37 PM
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What LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:48 PM
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Human nature, don’t forget we are all just intelligent monkeys. We still have those innate primate feelings within us. Women innately want a man that protects her while she takes care of her kids essentially. Men are also naturally stronger than women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:07 PM
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Ahh, how do I stop believing in soulmates and love then? I guess I’m still young and all but I always thought that one day I could be madly in love with another person. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:04 PM
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Lmao, exactly. Not like it ruins not only your health but can potentially damage the health of those around you as well. Also… adds onto the pollution in our atmosphere which we should really be alarmed about right now. Human greed is so annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 08:54 PM
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I see, thanks for the detailed explanation!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 06:18 PM
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What makes an attractive female ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 01:47 PM
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But you need a degree for a job nowadays lol, go look around. Very few would even interview you if you do not have a valuable degree. It’s life. Not everyone can acquire a hobby that will set them up financially. I could do writing but it wouldn’t pay nearly enough as my engineering degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 04:53 PM
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If you’re smart enough you would understand how to get educated and get a degree without falling into tons of student loan debt. For instance, I went to CC instead of private schools I was accepted to and also gained a lot of scholarships through my hard work of maintaining a good GPA. I think we, as a society, do need college (too many uneducated folks - both men AND women - in the U.S.). However, I do agree that trillion debt is very unflattering to many. Gotta play the system though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 03:19 PM
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Why is more women getting educated a bad thing? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 01:31 PM
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So brunettes are less hot you’re saying? Hmmm. Also, I feel that eye shape matters more than color.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 09:05 PM
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This man has never taken a statistics class
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 04:26 PM
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Depends on what kind of girl you want! For me, I think it would be the most delightful thing in the world if I were to meet a guy at a library. Maybe ask what book I’m reading, etc. Grab us some coffee. Some girls can be found in like a sports club, maybe you can meet a girl at work. It all depends. But, due to COVID, many of us will have to wait until we can begin to head out lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 05:59 AM
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Ahh, I see what you mean. Make-up still does make a person at the very least +1 on the looks scale. For instance, even if I put on the most basic of make-up (few coats of mascara, highlighter, blush, and lipstick) I view myself differently and think I look much better. It’s funny, I wish I could figure out what men truly think too lol. Guess we’ll both never understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 04:46 AM
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Tbh I see a lot of people with different sized eyes, it’s just not very noticeable unless I look hard. I’m kinda confused though, are you saying make-up can make any face look good unless your face is really bad? I feel like that’s untrue cause even average girls still look average when they have makeup on (unless they’re highly skilled with makeup which very few are tbh.)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 04:20 AM
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But there are body filters too coming along. In the Chinese tiktok version there’s already a filter that stretches out the video to make the person appear taller. I think you can judge a face with symmetry and features though. Like good symmetry and good facial harmony also puts people in the top % as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 04:08 AM
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So, you’re saying the top 5% of women are the ones who are slim with curves and good waist to hip ratio? I’d say yeah but not quite. Face also has to be taken into account. A butterface is seen as worse than an average women IMO. Men don’t wanna commit to a girl with a butterface.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 02:06 AM
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Women are beautiful no lie
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 02:04 AM
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Lol seriously? In a society that puts pressure on women to stay virgin till marriage and pressure on boys to get countless women in their 20s I think you have things flipped.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 01:55 AM
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What if it’s light makeup though? Mascara and lipstick :p
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 01:50 AM
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But what about the girls with natural beauty though? (Trust me, there are many girls that are just naturally stunning.) I do agree with you that it’s very easy to level up with fake accessories though. I wish men could do the same tbh, even if it’s fake at least they can look better if they wanna too lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 01:48 AM
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Same since in real life catfishes are much easier to spot once you spend a day with them lol. OLD is getting way harder though. There’s even body filters that can make someone appear skinnier. They can take angled photos to make them appear fitter. Filters that look really scarily real that transforms a face from a 5 to a 9. All in all, OLD is only really good for hook-up culture if you’re into that stuff. Not really a place to find commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 07:32 PM
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Waste of time, tons of Catfishes on there too. It’s more convenient using irl dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 07:21 PM
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Finally, a dude with a brain in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 07:14 PM
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In the future, our AI’s will be 10/10
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 05:54 PM
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What’d she say about them?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 05:51 PM
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Bruh after reading comments post by the men from many threads here don’t waste your breath. They always attack women for some reason and whine about how hard men have it all the time lol. Just another incel breeding ground with weird shitty Reddit dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 05:46 AM
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Haha that’s like hitting a jackpot. Better to try and become those traits yourself than find a person like that, they’re one in a billion. :p <of course some you can’t change, like becoming tall>
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 01:37 AM
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Where can I find an asexual guy? You hit the jackpot :(
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 03:40 PM
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