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Rantspideysjs/r/Divorce_Men25/11/24 05:20 PM
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spideysjs/r/Divorce_Men16/12/24 09:21 PM
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that is not to far from me!!! I'm in. thank you for this.
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/24 10:23 PM
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pressed send accidentally before typing... I am sitting in a gym right now signing up. just start somewhere and go from there.
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/24 01:20 PM
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I'll check around for something like myclubs. thank you for advice.
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/24 01:18 PM
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do all 8 of you really need to ride side by side for 19 miles?
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/24 01:15 PM
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keep going. there is more. =). your mind has incredible power. over body as well. there are a great many things to be a part of there. if you encounter a moment that feels overwhelming or even a bit scary. be gentle but don't stop. there is a great view after that hurdle.
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/24 01:19 AM
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I am not afraid to say I am kind of glad my mother did not live to see this in her son. I handle regret with a very loose grip. all of it, shifty awful and brilliant cuts our path and our teeth. I'll take all sides of the process.
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/24 12:55 AM
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yes to the hiking! I used to do a lot when I lived in the desert. and there is certainly a lot of wild spots where I am. I just got to get out and explore where. thank you edit to add: my 7yr old daughter is in Brazilian j.j. =)
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/24 12:51 AM
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I am in yoga once a week. crossfit I keep hearing about but don't know anything of. is this like triathlon kind of approach?
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/24 12:50 AM
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I appreciate you so much. there is just not a world where that turns me on. I could care less about being buff. I'm happy where I am in that regard. I am a small Irish dude, but I grew up on a dairy and have that lean surprising strenth. I am much stronger than any one ever thinks, and I have never not been able to do anything I wanted for lack of strength. even the word pull up made me look away and sigh. I think the closest I could get to a traditional gym would be like ninja warrior courses. …
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/24 12:49 AM
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so I've heard this come up. and yes, I could google and find a few answers, but all lacking in the spirit of it or any sense of community or 1st hand. have time to tell me more? is this like triathlon kind of approach?
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/24 12:46 AM
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I feel this so deep. I recently moved from 50 acres. roughly 1/2 wooded. a pond, a tractor, chainsaws and a wood shop. I'm now in 1 acre. soon to be scanning that little spot for any good wood to hack up! thank you
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/24 12:45 AM
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what I jokingly call my 1st life was theatre. I can dance like a mother f!@&*er. still at 48. from tap to swing to ballroom. I still love it and do it often when out. for that reason it's not so much in the growth reconnect category. but you are right on all counts and perhaps joining a class for the social aspect could be great. now martial arts. I was in a very traditional (translated painful) shaolin school for 16 yrs. it was profoundly life altering. but I got in my own way; I realize now th…
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/24 12:37 AM
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now see I played a lot of racquetball in high school & college. I really enjoyed that. but after college the environment in which it is played got harder and harder to endure for me. I'll have to give this a look. .thank you
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/24 12:32 AM
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choir, preaching. I live in headphones. no really. 105,082 minutes in spotify wrapped year review. 894 minutes in one day. being a severe adhd autistic musician pretty much mandated that approach. happy listening!
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/24 12:31 AM
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when I was young I loved running. I was that kid, always running, fastest in the hood. now I can't stand it. it's the lack of engagement for me; go that way for a while really fast. now come back really fast. I've tried to renegade that over the last year but just can't seem to find any passion in it. it's led me to consider mountain biking. that used to bring me the same sort of feeling you are speaking of. I appreciate you and laying out what I am sure is good advice on starting off in a way t…
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/24 12:29 AM
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busy times, but I wanted to come back and thank you. simply hearing anyone else say "yeah, she's out" was all I needed. I'm working with lawyers and preparing in all the ways listed on this sub. thank you.
/r/Divorce_Men16/12/24 09:41 PM
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busy times, but I wanted to come back and thank you. simply hearing anyone else say "yeah, she's out" was all I needed. I'm working with lawyers and preparing in all the ways listed on this sub. thank you.
/r/Divorce_Men16/12/24 09:40 PM
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and also. yeah all of your final words ring terribly true. now, with just a touch of emotional distancing and some clarity It was astonishingly easy to begin moving forward.
/r/Divorce_Men16/12/24 09:40 PM
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busy times, but I wanted to come back and thank you. simply hearing anyone else say "yeah, she's out" was all I needed. I'm working with lawyers and preparing in all the ways listed on this sub. thank you.
/r/Divorce_Men16/12/24 09:29 PM
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busy times, but I wanted to come back and thank you. simply hearing anyone else say "yeah, she's out" was all I needed. I'm working with lawyers and preparing in all the ways listed on this sub. thank you.
/r/Divorce_Men16/12/24 09:28 PM
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busy times, but I wanted to come back and thank you. simply hearing anyone else say "yeah, she's out" was all I needed. I'm working with lawyers and preparing in all the ways listed on this sub. thank you.
/r/Divorce_Men16/12/24 09:28 PM
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you are absolutely right about no one really being able to answer this. I've just been so turned around in all this I've begun to doubt my own perception. but, assuredly goalposts have always been changing. the clarity, wrought after the mornings tears, of today has allowed me to look back and see them constantly being moved. I think I know where I am but either to afraid or unwilling to admit it. thank you kind person for your time
/r/Divorce_Men25/11/24 06:03 PM
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