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| 1 | If the girl does not respond to my last text, should I let ago or send the second text after a while?For the last one, if she's at work and hung over it's probably not the right time to ask her out. Put yourself in her position. Romance is the last thing she's thinking about right then. | /r/seduction | 01/04/17 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Why Not Telling Your Crush How You Feel Means You'll Never Be Successful In LifeThis is true, but it better be a damn good friendship. The issue that comes up a lot in the classic "friend-zoned" situation is that the friendship is not actually that good, but the guy hangs in because he's hoping for something "more." More is in quotes because it doesn't take much: meaning something where she starts treating him like an equal, not a pet. Trust me, I've been there (but no more). The important thing is that the friendship is equal. | /r/seduction | 16/03/17 01:45 PM |
| 3 | Older guys: Do you even try, why / what's your attitude?Hey friend. The first thing to do is forget about women for a little while and focus on yourself. I recognize that feeling of depression, loneliness, and inadequacy from my own life. It's a constant process, but I've come a long way towards knowing how to deal with those feelings when they come up. Your self worth (if we accept that there is such a concept) does not depend on the opinions or actions of anyone else, not women, not friends, not coworkers. It's built in and intrinsic. So yeah, spen… | /r/seduction | 14/03/17 10:19 PM |
| 2 | I'm going to start approaching people that I'm not even Intrested in to improve my social skillsIt's definitely true that there's a difference between talking to a girl you're attracted to vs one that you're not. Or for me, it's a lot easier talking to a girl I know is unavailable, like if she has a boyfriend. It's something about the pressure of the situation. Still, it's good to practice talking to girls if you're not used to it. Then you can use visualization or mindfulness techniques to transfer that calm feeling to the more pressure-packed situation. At least in theory :) | /r/seduction | 11/06/16 12:10 AM |
| 1 | I'm going to start approaching people that I'm not even Intrested in to improve my social skillsThat's certainly fair. A five minute conversation probably doesn't reach the point of leading someone on IMO, but it's a good caveat generally. | /r/seduction | 11/06/16 12:06 AM |
| 12 | For the first time in my life...One in the bar, one in the restaurant ===> one in the bedroom, one on the couch. Straight out of an episode of Frasier. You just have to time your bathroom breaks carefully. Of course, if it is true to sitcom form, they will meet in the end, the whole thing will hilariously blow up, and you'll end up with neither but having learned a valuable life lesson. | /r/seduction | 29/05/15 08:40 PM |
| 73 | I experienced some great success, now I'm having some serious moral dilemmasSeriously dude, if you're counting on a bunch of anonymous redditors to decide your morals, you have much bigger problems. You have a conscience and you can hopefully decide right and wrong for yourself. Maybe you can ask yourself what is the source of your feelings of guilt: Were you brought up in a religion that is opposed to pre-marital sex? Do you subscribe to that belief at some level? Are you lying to or misleading women to have sex with them? For example, making them think there's long-te… | /r/seduction | 12/05/15 04:10 PM |
| 56 | What Seddit has done FOR me and TO me.Of course. "Happiness" and seduction are two different things. That's pretty much the TL;DR of Neil Strauss's The Game if you read it critically. Still, you want to separate your goals from the means to achieve those goals. If your goal is intimacy and emotional connection, there are intermediate steps to take before that becomes possible. You don't just walk up to a girl you don't know and start unloading your problems and loneliness onto her. You first need to establish a level of trust and co… | /r/seduction | 06/05/15 03:42 PM |
| 2 | Texting girls after a few.. months?How well do you remember your conversations with these girls? How about something like "hey, someone was asking me about X and I remembered you know something about that" or "hey did you hear that band Y that you like is coming out with a new album?" | /r/seduction | 06/05/15 02:00 AM |
| 1 | I need to know, can you clean up the after math of oneitis?The classic advice to get over one-itis is to "go fuck ten other girls." Yeah it's crass, but the idea it gets across is a good one. It opens yourself up to other avenues of romance, helping you realize that this one girl is not as special as you thought she was after all. And believe me, she's not. I don't mean that as an insult to her either. The world is just full of an endless variety of women and so many of them are attractive in so many different ways. In addition, by working on your seduc… | /r/seduction | 06/05/15 01:56 AM |
| 27 | What is the one piece of advice you would give, if you had 10 seconds?Say something. Even if it's stupid it's better to say anything then to say nothing and give up before you even start, especially if there is any indication of interest. I once started a conversation with a girl at the beach by saying something like, "there's a lot of sand here." Maybe the dumbest thing anyone's ever said, but it got the conversation started. | /r/seduction | 06/05/15 01:45 AM |
| 1 | What are the biggest shit tests you've been handed and how did you respond? I just got "Convince me to go out with you" and don't know what to say.I like the direction you guys are thinking. We could even simplify it more: "Convince me to convince you." | /r/seduction | 04/05/15 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Too young to drinkAnother vote for picnics! It depends where you live, too. If you're near a decent sized city, check event listings in the paper. Concerts, plays, sporting events, classes, and especially comedy shows. There's a local improv group near me that has weekly shows for $5. Can't beat that, and it puts everyone in a good mood. Are you near a beach? Lake? Good hiking trails? Scenic drives? Take her to a dance class and work on your moves. C'mon man, use your imagination! As a side benefit, maybe you'll … | /r/seduction | 04/05/15 01:22 PM |
| 4 | How to decline girl's favors like "can you get my phone for me" without sounding like a douche?I'm in favor of politeness and kindness first of all, but if you're sure it's a test or you just really don't want to do it, you can turn it to your advantage. A sense of humor helps. A couple things that have worked for me include: Make a big grin and say "hellll no." Make sure you say it in a lighthearted way. That usually gets a laugh and a "fine." "What's in it for me?" Said with a sly smile, so she knows exactly what you're thinking about (Sex, of course). "You want me to hold your purse?..… | /r/seduction | 03/05/15 05:38 PM |
| 30 | Your best advice on improving my VOICEFrom your description it sounds like you want to be heard more clearly without raising your volume. I can understand that, but also keep in mind that the voice you hear in your head is not the same as what others here. So what seems loud enough to you may not be. But in addition to volume there are a few other things that make a voice easily understood: Resonance - This can be developed by learning to speak from lower in your chest. A lot of that has to do with the way you breathe. Fuller breath… | /r/seduction | 03/05/15 05:26 PM |
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