spiral_dinosaur Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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13	How do you deal with being "mogged"? But you're setting yourself unreasonable goals. Nobody is made to deal with the level of conflict, rejection, anxiety, stress that bad social media experiences create. It's not in our biology. These apps are literally designed to pull you in to fights, because Facebook doesn't care whether you're having a good time, it just cares about you staying on the app so they can serve you more ads. I used to get into a lot of arguments on Twitter, until I eventually unfollowed anything vaguely political …	/r/ExRedPill	06/09/24 05:24 PM
31	How do you deal with being "mogged"? Honestly, I don't deal with that because I just don't get into arguments with random people on the internet. What does it serve you to do that? How does it benefit you at all? Just stop getting into those arguments. If you need to delete your social accounts or whatever, do that. But otherwise just don't comment, don't get involved. There's noting to gain from it.	/r/ExRedPill	06/09/24 04:53 PM
2	How can I stop seeing myself as post-wall? It's not going to change over night. You need to submerge yourself in positive content that debunks the red pill stuff. There's a list of resources on the pinned posts on this sub.	/r/ExRedPill	03/09/24 06:00 PM
65	How can I stop seeing myself as post-wall? Men who think there's such thing as a "wall" are not the kind of men anyone should date anyway. Stop watching any of that red pill stuff. Delete your social media accounts and start again if you have to. Replace it with some feminist accounts and other healthy relationship accounts.	/r/ExRedPill	03/09/24 10:25 AM
31	Redpill is despair inducing It is awful isn't it. Good thing it's all total bullshit and we can choose not to listen to any of it.	/r/ExRedPill	02/09/24 11:10 AM
2	How do I gain confidence in myself without any positive affirmations from other people? I've never been the type of person that people compliment. Well, what things do you do to deserve compliments? There's no such thing as a "type of person that people compliment". You have to earn compliments. I got a good haircut recently, got lots of compliments for that. I swapped my glasses for another pair too, got lots of compliments for that. Another friend recently told me they liked how I dressed that day. A friend I met with last night told me she loves my voice when I sing and she love…	/r/ExRedPill	28/08/24 01:57 PM
28	Why is "No Jordan Peterson" A Rule? Honestly I don't have specific examples because his general vibe was enough to tell me he's not someone I should listen to. He essentially looks at the hierarchies that exist today (ie patriarchy) and presents that as if it's some natural state that should be maintained, rather than recognising it as a product that is created and thus can be altered. He doesn't want to alter a system that puts men above women, he wants it to be maintained. Like he's obsessed with "winning". His 12 Rules book isn…	/r/ExRedPill	18/08/24 09:43 PM
79	Why is "No Jordan Peterson" A Rule? Because Jordan Peterson pushes misogynistic, transphobic and toxic ideas of masculinity and gender which are not healthy for anyone. He is one of the most prominent voices in the manosphere, because he is (sort of) a psychologist or something and somehow seems qualified. In reality, he talks utter crap and pushes the same lies that any other red pill guru does.	/r/ExRedPill	18/08/24 09:08 PM
2	Is it Red-Pill to Believe that “Leagues” Exist? I don't like to think of it as "leagues" or "levels" as much as just differences. I'd bet most of the women he's swiping on I wouldn't even give a second look. Not because I don't think we're in the same league but because I just know we're different people with different priorities. She may be a 10/10 to lots of other men, but that doesn't mean I rate her the same or even care what everyone else thinks. Likewise she might see me as a 4/10, but there are plenty of women who see me as a 10/10 bec…	/r/ExRedPill	12/08/24 04:40 PM
4	How to actually meet people Irl Well, what do you like to do? What are you interested in? You've got to find some things you'd like to try. What have you tried so far? You also need to try and approach these situations with a bit more confidence in yourself. You are not "bottom of the barrel unattractive", and you do not need to "compensate". You need to know who you are, you need to go out and show that person to the world, you need to discover more about who you are by being out there in the world with other people, and you …	/r/ExRedPill	22/07/24 11:25 AM