spiralism Archive

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6	I'm reading "No more Mr. Nice Guy" and I am deeply offended. Yeah i've always wondered why I couldn't simply overcome this through practice, even after spells of doing well with ladies over the years. We're talking major persistent confidence issues, being super sensitive to rejection to the point where i'll dwell on it for fucking days if not weeks, an overreliance on alcohol to be able to balance this out, being too much of a people pleaser and the niggling sense of dread that i'm always about to fuck this up at whatever stage i'm at with someone, even …	/r/seduction	05/10/20 01:26 AM
17	I'm reading "No more Mr. Nice Guy" and I am deeply offended. Not OP here but I'm currently being assessed for having ADHD and holy shit basically all of this applies to me and my mind is blown. Thanks for sharing bro	/r/seduction	04/10/20 01:34 PM
2	How do you guys pickup highly sarcastic women that seem bitchy when approached? Be careful about using Alcohol as your approach crutch though because among all the other issues, if your game becomes dependent on getting drunk you'll only be able to pick up that way and it's hard to relearn. Not to mention that you may overdo it and come across as sloppy or creepy.	/r/seduction	04/10/20 04:44 AM
2	Text flirt game whilst on lockdown Honestly from experience lately? If its from a dating app, don't bother and just stay off them and work on yourself. You can't meet up until this is over so what will more than likely happen is that even if you get a good conversation going, you can't follow it up with a date and it'll probably just fizzle out. The game with those things hasn't changed despite the situation: if you don't follow it up quick and meet them, they'll get bored. There's only so far that messaging can get you.	/r/seduction	25/04/20 11:39 PM
2	How many of you would respect a girl/woman saying ANY of this to you - in order to turn you down - and you wouldnt turn into a "nice guy"??? This is the hard part: you have to self evaluate and figure this out yourself through trial and error. Work on yourself and meet more people.	/r/seduction	21/11/19 03:02 PM
3	Clubbing rules: drinks My trick is i deflect it and say "no, you buy me a drink" in a jokey way and go from there. The important thing is to not come across as a cheapskate. As a general rule i don't buy drinks for randomers. Only time i don't follow that rule is if we've been talking a while and it's pretty clear to me that i'm in with a good shot.	/r/seduction	01/02/19 04:17 PM
3	what do you do about a girl who texts but never offers to hang out? No need to do even the latter, it comes across as butthurt. Pitch a date by asking when she's free. If nothing, fuck it, just stop messaging her	/r/seduction	01/02/19 04:11 PM
2	Friends cockblocking me in every possible ways It's quite well discussed in The Game actually. It's basically a way to confidently brush aside these sort of jabs (or indeed, guys behaving aggressively) while making them look like dicks.	/r/seduction	01/02/19 03:46 PM