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spiritletshereit/r/askTRP05/11/18 11:12 AM
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Wtf is this
/r/askTRP17/11/18 09:14 AM
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Dude get your hair and stuff sorted and you're a good looking guy.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 07:09 PM
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You're right I suppose. It seemed important at the time! To be fair I've fucked a couple of things up from bad texting over the past year - maybe have a bit of a complex about it. It's all good.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 04:30 PM
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Me: 'You're too serious.' Her: 'Yes and no.' Her: 'What does that even mean?' Her: 'Oi Bitch.' I sent her a gif of Jessie Pinkman saying 'What?!' Her: 'Why aren't you texting back?'
/r/askTRP07/11/18 04:03 PM
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Although I do look a lot younger than I am. If I seem like I'm clueless it's because it's been about 7 years since I seriously dated. Was in a LTR for a while and before that I didn't need game. Things just sort of... happened.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 04:01 PM
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No I'm not I'm significantly older and so is she. There seems to be something about the way I come across in this sub-reddit as people keep saying that. It's not an issue I have in real life.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 03:59 PM
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You're right of course but are you saying if you have a date set up that's a week away and they are triple texting you that you'd just continue to ignore them completely? Appreciate the tough love anyhow.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 03:02 PM
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UPDATE - she has just this second triple texted me. 'Oi bitch!'
/r/askTRP07/11/18 01:36 PM
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It's already been arranged. Next Friday. Although there is a chance of a flake. I had a massive thread about why on Monday which has been discussed to death :) But would you say this is about right when it comes to them reaching out by text to start a conversation?
/r/askTRP07/11/18 01:35 PM
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Good comment.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 06:07 PM
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Lol this sort of thing is not constructive. Sometimes in life everything you say isn’t perfect.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 06:06 PM
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You sound well adjusted.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 05:43 PM
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That makes logical sense but i did that for nearly a 10 year period and it led to depression and weekly (sometimes more) cocaine use. Toeing the line also never led to women. I'm far, far, far happier being myself and although it's clearly far from perfect I'm doing better with women too.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 04:57 PM
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What's Law 37?
/r/askTRP05/11/18 04:52 PM
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No she brought up the issues on the date but we were sort of joking around it. It was only after when she mentioned them in the text that I realised it was an actual issue. Honestly I read that 'dismiss... are you free on?' thing discussed a lot it just doesnt work. For me, by far the best way to get a date is do something fun then invite them to it. If they don't go it doesn't matter because you're going anyway. This date was planned... formally?... on match.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 04:51 PM
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Thanks man.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 04:14 PM
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I think she likes me and is attracted to me but is worried that Im a psychopath and will embarrass her in front of her friends. I think if I play it cool I'll get that second date and can go from there.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 04:14 PM
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It got me fucking nowhere that's where. I was in /datingadvice before here. Train wreck.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 04:12 PM
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Also she was bringing the stuff up. I stand by that my approach is way more effective (and fun) than being boring and having a nice conversation. I know because I've done both. There's obviously a middle ground...
/r/askTRP05/11/18 04:08 PM
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It was light and fun. It's hard to get across to you guys. I wasn't being a dick and it was all fun banter. I just think she has read between the lines of the actual content a bit.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 04:07 PM
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It's only one date so impossible to say. It was way more fun than I thought it would be though and she was much cuter than i expected. Also has a lovely slight French accent.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 04:04 PM
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A first date is a kind of over the top version of myself. It's not deliberate. It's just concerning if she thinks that if I spend time with her black friends I'll say something dumb/potentially racist or generally be crass or overly edgy in front of her friends in general. Being provocative is how I flirt. I'm like a big child playing kiss chase and punching the girls. It's not how I'd be if I met someones friends or parents or whatever. How else would I have a job?
/r/askTRP05/11/18 04:02 PM
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/endthread
/r/askTRP05/11/18 03:58 PM
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You're not rambling, I've also had these thoughts.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 03:46 PM
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They do. But what happened to NGAF?
/r/askTRP05/11/18 03:39 PM
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Although Patrice O'Neil says don't filter.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 03:36 PM
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hahaha ok
/r/askTRP05/11/18 03:36 PM
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I have options but not options on girls I actually like. This is why Im fine until I realise i like them. Fully agree that abundance is everything. Before this date I actually couldn't be bothered to go on the date. I had abundance. Now I don't.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 03:32 PM
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My humour works more on girls than it does guys. It's because it's playful rather than clever.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 03:30 PM
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This makes sense but is what old me would have done as a logical person. That hasn't been getting me far and is what led me here in the first place. I just wrote out an apology as a test and I deleted because it just felt like I was trying to sell myself to her. Surely the best approach is to spend more time with her and just show her that I have another side.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 03:27 PM
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This makes sense but is what old me would have done as a logical person. That hasn't been getting me far and is what led me here in the first place. I just wrote out an apology as a test and I deleted because it just felt like I was trying to sell myself to her. Surely the best approach is to spend more time with her and just show her that I have another side.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 03:27 PM
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She said something along those lines on the date and I just reassured her and then laughed it off. ​
/r/askTRP05/11/18 03:21 PM
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I am chill. It's not as autistic as it sounds, honestly.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 03:11 PM
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Not even that muscular tbh. I just now have pecs when I didn't before and you can tell I have shoulders and arms underneath my clothes.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 03:01 PM
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just to be clear - i didn't say anything about groping a girl. I said that I would happily take the odd groping in return for millions of tinder matches etc etc.' But I do agree with you. Problem is that everything I thought I believed has been wrong!
/r/askTRP05/11/18 02:58 PM
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She was getting into it. There was a lot of punching me and looking at me sideways and saying 'fuck off Shaun!' for no reason like she couldn't think of anything better. At one point I was just stood there and she accused me of 'flexing my pecs' at her. I was literally just stood there. In a jumper and parka. I was all like 'Thanks for noticing ;)' and she got all defensive. She is one of these girls who 'doesn't like muscles.' Which as an aside - the advice to lift on here is a godsend. I've al…
/r/askTRP05/11/18 02:51 PM
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Also I'll put your suggestion into practice.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 02:40 PM
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Exactly this. This exactly right. I only care because of vaginas.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 02:38 PM
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Yes it's when I know that I'm into someone that I fall apart. I text her the next day and said that I enjoyed the date and we should do it again - yes that's a mistake. I've backed off since her rejection though and I've not tried to apologise or whatever. Btw she actually brought up these 'concerns' on the date and I just rolled my eyes at her and teased her about it. Believe it or not all of this is progress.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 02:36 PM
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I've gone back over what was said and re-read the messages and I think I pretty much held frame through out. I'm lucky she cant see me hamstering.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 02:32 PM
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lol yeah I imagine you're right. I've been finding recently that I've been able to get away with saying literally anything as long I say it in a certain way. Had a girl (not attractive) following me around at pub recently because I kept referring to her as 'bitch' and telling her to 'go away,' She kept popping up everywhere and shit testing me. The problem is I eventually fall apart when I like them. Working on it.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 02:31 PM
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Ok, good advice. That's the plan. I can't say I've genuinely taken this as rejection but what I can tell you is that I plan on acting as if I have.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 02:21 PM
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Speaking of only texting for logistics... Here is a conversation that happened via whatsapp prior to the date while waiting for the bus- Me - I'm having a double espresso. Her - Hardcore. Me - Gateway espresso , I'll be on heroin by the end of the day. Her - Cool! Always wanted to try! (sarcasm) Me - Well now we have a plan for the day. Her - I'm not leaving until we've robbed a bank. Me - I'm not leaving until we have raped and killed a homeless man. Her - Well that escalated quickly. Me - Just…
/r/askTRP05/11/18 02:14 PM
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Got it. It's slow going. I'm having to reset a lot of long term learned behaviours. That I picked up on this and asked about it rather than giving a her a big apology and clearing the air and trying to 'fix' things is a huge step forward.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 02:01 PM
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The same is true here (about non-feminist girls) however I felt that all other aspects of the date went well. Tbh at the time It even felt that the feminist stuff was going well - I held frame and kept on joking. She's even stated that me rolling my eyes at her objections was one of the sticking points - although the IOI's didn't stop after the fact and she definitely enjoyed the kiss, she came back in for more after we broke apart. Is there not a sort of ASD equivalent at play here? You know 'I…
/r/askTRP05/11/18 01:56 PM
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That's what I thought. At the end of the day I would laugh in the face of anyone else who said I was racist because of this. The only reason I'm worried is because of vaginas isn't it?
/r/askTRP05/11/18 11:23 AM
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It is pointless. And it's not like i'm not talking to other women, I am. But still... it's the exact same thing as you with this particular one. Although she did tell me she'll be at the pub im going to on friday and im going there with another girl who is interested in me so it'll be interesting to see how that pans out. She probably wont be there and then the selfies and messages will resume lol. Crazy.
/r/askTRP25/10/18 03:12 PM
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I've had this exact thing for months with a particular girl. Now at the point where I have zero expectations of her, yet I keep the cycle going. It's like I like the attention too.
/r/askTRP25/10/18 03:03 PM
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Isn't almost literally everyone a coke head these days? ​
/r/askTRP21/10/18 08:46 PM
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More tattoos the better. Love them.
/r/askTRP21/10/18 09:01 AM
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I’m 32. Lift every day. Live in a studio flat on a combined income from recruitment and wedding photography (which I’m good at). Decent looking if a bit short. Play an instrument, tattoos. You’re right I’m orbiting. I know it and have just been lying to myself. It’s embarrassing now that I see it. I need to draw a line under it and start again. Currently writing this from a pile of duvets on my friends living room floor because last nights weekly attempt to go out ended up in cocaine and an acid…
/r/askTRP20/10/18 10:08 AM
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Not eating junk food is easy. It's the drinking that does it.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 03:50 PM
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Jesus Christ this is old now.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 01:03 PM
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Can I ask you a question about this? If I'm texting a girl and I'm constantly sidestepping all the shit about her life and job blah blah and turning things sexual and teasing at every opportunity - I sometimes worry that it just makes me look thirsty like everyone else. Also isn't it validating her? For example girl I'm talking to is going on holiday soon mentioned that she needs to buy three bikinis because she might not like one and will have to swap it out. I was all 'Do you want me to grade …
/r/askTRP19/10/18 12:56 PM
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Just out of curiosity, when are you ever in a situation where a woman is rating you out of 10?
/r/askTRP18/10/18 09:23 AM
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I've come to terms with the fact I'll never stop finding young women attractive. I'll just shut up about it eventually.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 02:03 PM
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Bit of exaggeration but you take my point.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 02:01 PM
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I used to pretend that. Now I'm 32 and would sleep with 18 y/o all day long if I could.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 02:01 PM
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Why is it weird? I thought Redpill teaches that you can keep sleeping with younger women practically indefinitely if you play your cards right?
/r/askTRP17/10/18 01:59 PM
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Hmmm, interesting question. I don't find her that attractive. I wouldn't care if we stopped fucking but I would still want to hang out with her. We fuck because sometimes we are drunk and/or horny in the same place with no other options. All this said, I suspect she would drop her SO if I asked so maybe the FWB thing is one sided. It works either way.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 01:45 PM
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It helps that I'm not that attracted to her physically...
/r/askTRP17/10/18 01:28 PM
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I've got a FWB. She's genuinely a friend and I don't see her as anything more. We just occasionally scratch each others itch. For the most part though we catch up by text every week or so and sometimes go see a band or have a 'movie night.' If she didn't text me for weeks on end I wouldn't care that much. If I sent her a message to see what she was up to and she didn't respond I'd put it from my mind until she finally got back to me - when she did I wouldn't be butthurt I'd just ask if she wante…
/r/askTRP17/10/18 01:26 PM
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'Thanks.' 'I know.' 'You have a great ass.' 'That's what my mum tells me.' I dunno, why is this a problem? Genuinely curious.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 12:16 PM
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Sounds like oneitis not FWB. If it was just FWB you wouldn't be hamstering like this. Why do you care about any of this stuff? If she was actual friend that you sometimes fuck none of this would matter. Do you get worked up like this over your male friends?
/r/askTRP17/10/18 12:13 PM
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I just read the rest of the post. Never mind.
/r/askTRP16/10/18 02:44 PM
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Why are these red flags? I could do without the smoking I suppose but otherwise she sounds like a delight.
/r/askTRP16/10/18 02:44 PM
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I do it at home so that it easily becomes part of my routine. Deadlifts in front of Netflix with a barbell and pullups on a bar in the doorframe with a back pack full of weights. Three sets of 12 deadlifts and three sets of 6 pullups (can only manage that with the backpack on) and I'm done. Doesn't take long.
/r/askTRP15/10/18 11:38 AM
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Didn't we go through all this with you a few days ago?
/r/askTRP12/10/18 12:58 PM
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That ships probably sailed to be honest.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 11:43 PM
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Truth.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 11:33 PM
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Although its easily possible she's an attention whore. I've already addressed that by having no expectations.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 03:54 PM
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That's possible but having been to this particular store I know they are all 'friends' and go out after work together etc etc and generally mess about at work. Not convinced she's lying and I'm sure the company would not tolerate it if she decided to report it which she isn't. Maybe I'm wrong. Either way I think we've established it's irrelevant. Two bits of RP at play here. 1 -Ugly/needy guys she'll find creepy, Good looking IDGAF guys she'll find hot. Hopefully I'm the latter and fuck what her…
/r/askTRP11/10/18 03:51 PM
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I haven't yet read that book but I'm interested in this specific point. Is this a thing? I mean I know face fucking is a thing but I didn't realise it was recommended.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 01:07 PM
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amazing
/r/askTRP11/10/18 01:03 PM
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It could be that your ass is just THAT tempting. Do you want me to check?
/r/askTRP11/10/18 12:33 PM
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Of course, thanks.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 12:06 PM
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OI isn't in the glossary. Have you missed an I off of IOI?
/r/askTRP11/10/18 12:00 PM
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I've told her she should complain but she doesn't seem to be up for that and that's her business. I'm more concerned about how to avoid being lumped in with them in her mind. As has been said though - I think it depends entirely on if she is attracted to me so it's neither here nor there.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 11:56 AM
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Sorry, assistant manager. Some shit from under some from above.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 11:54 AM
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She manages a Costa.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 11:52 AM
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Ok so we're saying just completely disregard and carry on as normal. That's what I thought. 15 years of white knighting are hard to shake off.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 11:52 AM
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Again just to be clear I don't work with her. We live in the UK. She had a meeting today and apparently someone told her that to get the budget she needs she should wear a skirt.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 11:50 AM
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Sorry that wasn't clear - I don't work with her.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 11:49 AM
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This is me, also. Two things have helped a lot (although I still struggle sometimes.) She is NOT yours it's just your turn! Think back, when has that ever not been the case? How many girls in happy relationships have you seen cheat or you have been the person they have cheated with. THEY WILL DO IT TO YOU TOO THEY ARE NOT SPECIAL. Abundance. Whenever you start getting all obsessy in your mind about one girl, immediately take a sharp left turn and start talking to another one. If it's unrealistic…
/r/askTRP11/10/18 08:19 AM
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It's when you start listening to what they say that going out with a gang of girls get's tragic.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 06:47 PM
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Probably. If i WAS a faggot It wouldn't rock my foundations much. But right now I feel like girls seem to be where I'm at.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 06:42 PM
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Try it. You might be surprised. The trick is to actually not care if they fuck you or not and enjoy being their friend. But at the same time flirt with them constantly for a laugh. You can't be friendzoned if you're not trying to nice guy your way to pussy. It's only a matter of time until the stars align and you're sleeping in a bed together, then the rest is easy. Even if you don't sleep with any of them you're still pre-selected as fuck whenever you're out. Of course if you're just being a li…
/r/askTRP10/10/18 06:40 PM
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There isn’t a problem really. Just wanted to put it out there and come with something better than rolling my eyes.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 04:40 PM
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winner
/r/askTRP10/10/18 02:30 PM
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I've been around here about a month (32 years old) and I've seen multiple benefits already. I do feel a bit like I'm waging war on the opposite sex now that the blinkers are off... but that tends to be offset by me being a fundamentally decent(ish) person and it strikes a happy medium. It's a lot better than the 15 years or so of being a Nice Guy though that's for sure.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 02:04 PM
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In all seriousness I've seen someone get IOI's from a girl by throwing ice cubes at them across the room. It doesn't matter what you do as long as you have fun with it. Certainly don't concern myself with worrying about looking 'gay as hell.'
/r/askTRP10/10/18 01:33 PM
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No, that's just how I spend my days. Roaming the streets tickling girls feet trying to find the one.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 01:28 PM
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If it works it works. Plus it's good practice. On Saturday I was carrying around a back scratcher and using it to pull down shoulder straps, tickle feet and generally be a huge pain. Sounds retarded but was way better than sitting around making small talk.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 12:52 PM
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Alternatively lets all strip off and have a pillow fight.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 12:32 PM
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That is fantastic.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 12:32 PM
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It was this situation happening recently after a prolonged dry spell (after not having this be an issue in the past) that led me to the red-pill. Basically two dates (one at my house) with no kino and night long fully clothed spooning session . Best thing you can do is keep this memory at the forefront of your mind. Let the missed opportunity burn like a hot coal in your stomach. Next time you'll fucking do something. Specifically, next time you're on the sofa together, lift your arm up and say …
/r/askTRP10/10/18 10:59 AM
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wtf
/r/askTRP09/10/18 03:03 PM
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'Would I send this message to one of my friends that I'm not trying to fuck?' Your answer is the answer to that question.
/r/askTRP09/10/18 09:07 AM
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You'll never persuade him that she doesn't mean as much he thinks. It's more helpful to realise that he will never mean anything to them and that he should worry about his-fucking-self and that girls come and go and will never fullfill his needs. That's his job. When you realise that they will never love you in the way you want - you're free. It makes girls more fun to be around as well when you don't have unrealistic expectations.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 04:00 PM
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This is horrific. But I've been there.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 03:57 PM
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I think with shit tests it easy to get hung up on clever come backs. Best just to be sure in yourself and what you're doing. If you genuinely think that your gaming is fine then you should have no problem with telling her that. If she is actually getting to you then you either need to change the behaviour (too much gaming) or man up and tell her you do what you want to do and that's that.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 03:30 PM
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I agree. Girls don't give a fuck about what you do if their needs are being met.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 03:27 PM
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Is this not just a standard shit test? Just tell her you like playing video games sometimes and that's the end of it. If you're fucking her a lot then it wont matter. Correct me if I'm wrong guys.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 03:25 PM
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I could be misunderstanding but where is the shit test here?
/r/askTRP08/10/18 03:21 PM
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All of this only matters if you care. I was with a girl once who basically verbally abusive towards me whenever she got jealous. People would ask me why i kept seeing her. I cared so little that it was just water off a ducks back.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 11:43 AM
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Literally this Saturday night just gone I spent the night in a bed with two girls (who have BF's) smoking weed and had sex with one of them. I've not done anything special. I'm just lifting and have a different attitude. Now this shit doesn't happen every week but I'm fairly certain it wouldn't have happened at all a month or two ago. Lurk here enough and keep thinking about it and it will start to make sense and sink in.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 11:06 AM
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Don't say it's a date. Go and do something fun and invite her along. If she doesn't go, then do the fun thing anyway. 'I'm going to see a band with some friends on friday at 'X place'. Would be cool to see you there.' Something to that effect.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 10:59 AM
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It's the ultimate covert contract.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 10:59 AM
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I was bullied throughout school and I now recognise that it caused me to believe that no one could like me for who I am because I believed that I was 'bad'. (Read No More Mr Nice Guy.) The answer is - Lift Buy clothes that make you look good Be talking to as many girls as possible at all times even if it's just socially. You should have a variety of them that you can invite on a night out at any given time. And you should actually do so. You'll be surprised at how much this will effect your conf…
/r/askTRP08/10/18 10:56 AM
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I've found that to be the case. That could be a bad thing though. I personally don't give a shit if I come or not so it's just a positive in my opinion.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 10:26 AM
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No. You can't wish anything. That is a victims attitude. You're are not a victim. You are responsible for your attitude.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 08:30 AM
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Then you've discovered the red-pill about 10 years younger than me probably. Work on yourself as your number one priority. You don't need other people for that. You have SO much time. You need to stop being bitter and really get it into your head that NO ONE ELSE is responsible for your happiness but you.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 08:27 AM
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Ok. So you need to lift, work at getting a better job and then move. No one said it would be easy.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 08:24 AM
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I carry a couple in my wallet. I don't have ED or anything but I went through an 18 month dry spell recently (one of the stepping stones that led me here) and when I finally had a chance to get laid I put so much pressure on it that I couldn't get it up. Doesn't hurt to have one on stand by just in case. The irony being you probably wont need it if you know you have it for back up. If you want to know what it does - take one and it's easier to maintain an erection. That's it. No big deal.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 08:21 AM
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Reading your responses to the comments you have a shitty, negative, victimised attitude. Read No More Mr Nice Guy. Start lifting immediately. Lurk in here often and read the side bar. All standard advice. Just fucking do it.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 08:18 AM
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Try 32. Been going a month and already noticing a difference. You'll be fine.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 08:15 AM
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Sounds fun, honestly.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 11:39 AM
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Taylor Momson is going on a pedestal, I don’t even care.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 09:19 PM
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On the subject of personal style - where do we all stand on going in hard on an archetype? I feel the most confident/myself when going for the 'in a band, alternative, rock guy' route but most of the advice on here seems to be saying go generic.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 02:22 PM
2

Possibly. Fat girls give great blow jobs.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 12:28 PM
2

'Women don't like to be married they like to get married.' *Head explodes* ​
/r/askTRP04/10/18 12:18 PM
6

When I'm old and fucked I'm just going to plonk myself down in front of a gaming PC. Done. ​
/r/askTRP04/10/18 12:17 PM
1

This is fantastic advice.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 10:53 AM
2

Oh, don't feel bad. This isn't a problem I have... yet. I'm just 32 and look about 25 (not always a good thing as when I was 21 I looked about 15). Definitely want to try and capitalise on it now that I'm (hopefully) hitting the sweet spot though.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 09:46 AM
2

Googled it - Jesus fucking christ.
/r/askTRP03/10/18 02:03 PM
217

'Tried being gay. Unfortunately I still like vagina. ' Haha excellent.
/r/askTRP03/10/18 01:30 PM
4

Yes. And Donald Trump and Sylvester Stallone actually do look like bags of turds.
/r/askTRP03/10/18 01:05 PM
5

I'm a photographer. I have millions of pictures of my friends doing fun shit and all the pictures of myself are selfies. I feel your pain. ​
/r/askTRP03/10/18 12:40 PM
2

Why do you care that you kissed a dude? Either you're gay and kissed a dude, so good for you, or you're straight and kissed a dude so it literally means nothing. If you kissed a dude that you were attracted to because he looked like a girl then you were attracted to female qualities so it's not gay. Even if it was gay, who cares? There is literally no issue here aside from your own weird insecurities.
/r/askTRP03/10/18 12:30 PM
1

Interested in the response to this.
/r/askTRP29/09/18 08:14 AM
4

It was this that led me to the red-pill. Had two dates with someone I really wanted to fuck. Feisty, blonde, alternative, covered in tats, loads in common. just what I want. I didn't escalate at all on the first date. She must have liked me a lot though because she gave me another run at it. We had a second date despite this ALONE IN MY APARTMENT. We talked all night then slept in the same bed and cuddled. I didn't make a move because I wanted to be a 'gentleman' and not put any pressure on her.…
/r/askTRP27/09/18 12:59 PM
1

I have been you and still am to an extent (working on it.) Three things are helping me hugely - Lift. As soon as you start looking good and people start noticing (they have with me) your confidence will increase. Buy some new clothes and get a good hair cut. Make sure the look you go for actually reflects who you are. Same result as number 1. Think about what YOU want to do with your time. Go do it. Either meet new people there or take people with you. You have to make the effort to create your …
/r/askTRP27/09/18 11:19 AM
3

I'm very new here so take this with a grain of salt. I've been through stages of my life where I've experienced what you're experiencing. It's sometimes easy to just drift along with people that you like but who you have little in common with apart from drinking. (Or whatever.) The problem is you can never show the true, best version of yourself when you're trailing along in the shadow of others peoples scene. Find out what you love doing and then start doing it. Make an effort to bring people a…
/r/askTRP26/09/18 03:06 PM
1

Not sure what I've said that's childish. Also never said I couldn't figure out why she's sent me the message. That's abundantly clear if you ask me. I'm asking what you would do.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 09:32 AM
0

Yeah that's why i specified. We're not this retarded as a general rule. She actually has a pretty high level job. ​
/r/askTRP24/09/18 09:21 AM
7

She's got two deep issues specifically.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 11:47 AM
1

How much of a difference did you find getting a tan had? I'm quite good looking but so pale that I'm basically white. Not insecure about that at all but I've been toying with the idea of using a tanning bed.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 11:36 AM
1

clever
/r/askTRP20/09/18 11:59 AM
1

I'm starting visualise this concept as follows. I think of myself as this...white dot on a black background. The dot has a white circle surrounding it. There are lots of smaller dots all over the place that represent other people. My dot DOES NOT MOVE. Instead I work on myself or have fun and the circle increases in size. As the circle increases in size it includes the other smaller dots within it's circumference and they begin to move towards my dot. Possibly a strange way of looking at it but …
/r/askTRP20/09/18 11:34 AM
1

I thought I would get a response like this. No I didn't, although she was certainly the catalyst. I was fed up of never feeling in control of getting what I want and fed up of fruitlessly chasing people. It led me here. ​ I'm just honestly recognising that I still do want her to like me (which is a problem) and putting that out to the forum for discussion about how that would affect the way I should interact with her (if at all) when I inevitably run into her. ​ I'd love to hear your input for t…
/r/askTRP20/09/18 10:46 AM
1

I think we're making the same point I just didn't word it specifically enough.
/r/askTRP20/09/18 09:54 AM
1

That really cuts to the heart of the issue and stops the over thinking.
/r/askTRP20/09/18 09:46 AM
1

Perfect.
/r/askTRP20/09/18 09:45 AM
1

My previous porn habits went a long way towards destroying a LTR. It's NOT healthy. But some people can do unhealthy shit and get away with it. I know so many functioning, borderline coke addicts.
/r/askTRP20/09/18 09:36 AM
1

This is fascinating. ​
/r/askTRP18/09/18 08:58 PM
1

Read that in a bit of a rush - you literally gave me two good examples.
/r/askTRP18/09/18 04:22 PM
1

'She has boring betas talking to her all day long.' Yeah man I get that. Like literally when these conversations are happening I'm thinking 'wtf different is this actually adding to her life. What value does this have? Other than just telling her another guy likes her.' So look, I don't consider myself to be boring. I'm up for stuff. I'll be at the bar smashing tequila and then having a dance before going to a house party until 5 in the morning. I'm down for whatever. Trouble is I have never bee…
/r/askTRP18/09/18 03:57 PM
1

Yeah that makes sense. I've been putting too much emphasis on trying to create an opportunity to be alone with them rather than just having a good time, I think.
/r/askTRP18/09/18 10:55 AM
4

haha - is that your response to the test or just your passing input?
/r/askTRP13/09/18 03:07 PM
-8

I possibly over egged it. 'Yeah happens to me all the time. You should've given it to him. Free crack and a police car to pick you up at the wedding.'
/r/askTRP13/09/18 03:00 PM
1

Did you cook her maccaroni cheese?
/r/askTRP10/09/18 09:10 PM
1

I've found inviting them round for a movie and literally telling them that I wont jump their bones and will sleep in my clothes is enough to completely shift the blame onto me when something inevitably happens.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 09:09 PM
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