spiritswithout Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
72	If you wouldn’t date a drug addict, don’t date a guy that watches porn. This the part that perplexes me the most, possibly because it's what I'm most regularly exposed to. I play online video games and discord pervasive. Every group has their own discord no matter how small, and nearly every male that makes a discord has to put a porn sharing channel in it. It's to the point where between that and the scrotes dressing up their characters in game as porn dolls because they literally can't stop obsessing about objectifying women that if I join a new group or guild I a…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/12/21 06:45 PM
2	Benevolent sexism - opinions on men protecting women? (Or for example doing the heavy lifting etc.) It can be, it kind of depends how easy it would for him versus how difficult it would be for her. I know I'm at risk of sounding like I'm defending men too hard which I'm not trying to do. It's hardly on the level of the sexism we experience. But it is toxic masculinity imo which is still bad. I hate the way my mom treats my partner for example, he's a man and he's with me so he can do all this stuff for her like moving furniture and he basically can't say no. But he doesn't have safety equipmen…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/09/21 07:12 PM
3	What to do about medium value men? I understand this point when applied to a relationship but I thought being NV/LV also applied to us in general as people. So we are striving to be HV at all times, not just in relationship values, and we want a mate that reflects those values as well. But what about when we're not there yet and also not pickmes. Do we also consider ourselves LVW? Or does this only apply to men?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/07/21 08:39 AM
1	Repeat after me: Statistically casual sex for straight women does NOT include orgasms! I hope demi isn't "normal". Most women I know don't act as if they are demi and in places like this women don't generally talk like they are demi. So if this is actually the baseline it means majority of women are participating in sex in a way that doesn't come naturally to them. Like things aren't already bad enough, that would just be even so much worse.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/07/21 05:52 AM
52	Repeat after me: Statistically casual sex for straight women does NOT include orgasms! Demisexual is the word but I don't think fds in general supports that it's a necessary label. I tend to see the argument that this is the standard and that liking sex with no emotional connection is the outlier and should be considered the atypical response. Personally I think that demi is different from "average". The typical response may be to want a connection, but I think it's not uncommon to desire and to picture possibility of sex without a lot of investment from a pure lust perspective. S…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/07/21 04:53 AM
7	Scrote and his scrotling ruins his wedding for a prank 🤡 Is that true? Because it's a Christian wedding in a church or something?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/04/21 01:06 PM
12	This poor man's wife and family - but porn is a normal and healthy expression of sexuality 🤡 I'm not sure he is. The way he talks about the guilt I think his ideal situation is not to quit, he's probably got a humiliation fetish and is involving random people because he knows he can't get his wife to approve.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/03/21 12:56 PM
5	Weekly FDS Chat / Check-in How do we report a subreddit? I can only find options for individual posts. I found a small sub where men post videos and pictures of women they had sex with and talk about trading favors etc. It makes me sick and it clearly falls under involuntary p*rn rule.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/03/21 12:43 PM
8	Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 30 2020 I have trouble standing up for myself sometimes because of self doubt. However I did yesterday about something that's been bothering me. He is not a person that needs reassurance about things, but I am, so I told him he needs to consider that instead of thinking so many things go without saying. He immediately showed that he heard me by coming to give me a firm hug and say "I love you" and apologize.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/07/20 04:22 AM
53	When Males Accidentally Tell On Themselves... Jesus fuck the comments. This right here is what you show people to explain how liberal feminism went too far.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/07/20 04:10 AM
4	Harsh truth You have a lot to deal with and I'm certainly unqualified for most of it. But here is advice for one small thing you can try to do to start turning yourself around. Look back at your posts and how much you apologize or discredit yourself. Don't do that. Online is a great place to practice not doing that. Write your responses out then edit the negativity towards yourself. Don't apologize in advance, don't insult your own intelligence.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/07/20 09:34 PM