splatch Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Has anyone had a "ho phase" as a guy in their early 30s? agreed, it's crazy. on the other hand i remember being 20 and having crushes pick older guys over me. now it makes sense lol. it's actually laughably unfair	/r/seduction	19/11/25 03:29 AM
9	Has anyone had a "ho phase" as a guy in their early 30s? Well 21+ unless they have fake ids haha Age is attractive to girls cause it usually means more money, purpose, confidence, & experience. If you lack one you should try to make up with the others	/r/seduction	18/11/25 01:44 AM
41	Has anyone had a "ho phase" as a guy in their early 30s? For me it's country swing but yeah just pick any place with free dance lessons! Forget the apps. Be interested in people flirt mercilessly and just have fun. make friends with guys too don't take any of it seriously we're all soon underground	/r/seduction	18/11/25 01:39 AM
227	Has anyone had a "ho phase" as a guy in their early 30s? The amount of attention I get at 33 compared to 20-23 is insane, especially from younger women... it makes sense, literally 10 years more money and experiences. Congrats hit the gym and go live your life (i recommend social dancing ladies nights)	/r/seduction	18/11/25 01:30 AM
1	Dropped After Distance Put a caption on your home screen "she doesn't like you" Helped me with a breakup!	/r/seduction	02/10/25 08:07 AM
1	Full blown got laid in the club [field report] Buddy has a similar story, girl gave him genital warts 🥹	/r/seduction	18/09/25 05:59 PM
5	How do I make the first move on a guy? if he's young then sadly you may need to go as far as taking off your top and laying face up across his lap. sorry to tell you. the stories i've heard...	/r/seduction	03/03/25 06:44 AM
2	How to play it with my gym crush? What's a good way of moving the conversation forward the next time I see her? Ask her to help you do weighted pushups by putting the plate on your back. Chat in between sets. Just straight up ask for her number at the end. Saw a guy do this once and the girl was swooning	/r/seduction	21/11/24 05:44 AM
13	Dilemma of a surgeon with a colleague at work 🤔🤔 bro now I'm thinking you're the one with the inappropriate crush not her lol	/r/seduction	21/11/24 05:33 AM
12	Dilemma of a surgeon with a colleague at work Respect. Albeit beyond ethics you probably don't want to mess with another surgeon's wife in the same hospital for your own sake 😂 I would be friendly and even a little flirty just for fun but not more than that. Would be ignoring inappropriate texts. But bro if you're not getting hotties as a surgeon you're doing something wrong, do you go out at all?	/r/seduction	21/11/24 05:27 AM
3	Ideas on where to go to meet Yoga class	/r/seduction	21/11/24 05:15 AM
2	How to deal with demands and them being annoyed? Yeaaaa narcissism is so easy to ignore in the infatuation phase. With the second girl I'm guessing she's not happy with not just you but lots of things in her life right. So next time recognize that when a girl is constantly complaining about stuff that you're gonna be high on that list one day. I have a theory When you met did you pursue them or did they pursue you. If the former what was it that attracted you to them (was it that they were immediately interested in you?)	/r/seduction	05/10/24 02:16 PM
1	How to deal with demands and them being annoyed? How did you meet these girls	/r/seduction	05/10/24 04:28 AM
2	How to deal with demands and them being annoyed? Well tbh. If you feel like a magnet you may have to improve empathy skills like another commenter said. I definitely did at one point. But you could also just be going for the mean hot girls. So many hot girls are just mean cause they can almost always get away with it. At least for a period of time. I think if you're saying the magic words 'I understand how you'd feel the way' and being chill, and she's still toxic, just gtfo. The instability is addicting and she's fun in bed but the kind hot g…	/r/seduction	05/10/24 03:37 AM
2	How to deal with demands and them being annoyed? yea its better not to get upset when they get upset. just say 'I understand how you feel that way' and decide how each of you need to change your behaviors to avoid the situation in the future. when you're upset communicate your feelings firmly and unemotionally. then when you actually need to get upset about important stuff its more impactful. if the same bs keeps happening then break it off.	/r/seduction	02/10/24 03:25 AM
3	Get your shit together before you start doing "game" and cold approaching women. His point was that even if they're happy to sleep with you most of those women are not going to want an LTR with you if your future prospects look bleak. And the ones that do are probably going to lose respect for you over time unless you have a lot of other qualities and skills to bring to the table other than game. If you are a man looking for an LTR with an independent, quality girl then at some point you need to prioritize skills other than game; does this really need to be said?	/r/seduction	19/07/23 07:52 AM
2	Struggling with Inner Game to be Honest. You're asking the seduction sub to talk you out of chasing girls? 😂 For real tho, dating and romance shouldn't be incompatible with pursuing your goals... sounds like you are insecure and not sure what you want out of life. Go to those countries alone for a few weeks and use the time to write in a journal and figure out what your values are and how you want to spend your life. Read the book "The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People".	/r/seduction	02/07/22 07:56 AM
1	How to deal with extreme, almost overwhelming Approach Anxiety? No matter how good you get at talking to girls or anything else in life, your extreme egocentricity (which comes from your autism) has the potential to cause you endless suffering. Get into therapy.	/r/seduction	02/07/22 07:19 AM
2	why am I successful in online dating but can't get dates when approaching girls in person? To be likable on tinder you have to be attractive To be likable in person you have to be fun and interesting	/r/seduction	19/05/22 09:06 PM
1	How can I pick up girls in a foreign country if I can’t speak their language fluently? The english speakers use Tinder!	/r/seduction	26/10/17 05:15 PM
3	What to write on a gift card to a date? I don't always bring flowers to a first date, but when I do, it's because they were 50% off after Valentines Day	/r/seduction	15/02/17 10:43 AM
3	How I met an awesome girl and blew it (cringe ahead, beware) You met a pretty Dutch girl and traveled across a strange land with her. That's called living life to its fullest. You've nothing to feel bad about.	/r/seduction	05/09/14 08:05 AM
16	How to Maintain Attraction en Route? Sit back, straight up. Don't lean over to her while talking. Look at her as soon as you stop. If you're not comfortable looking at her for longer than a couple seconds, then just watch the road. Accidents aren't sexy.	/r/seduction	30/05/13 04:46 AM